FALL DAYS AS A HOMEMAKER | KEEPER OF THE HOME

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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2024

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  • @janicew6222
    @janicew6222 Месяц назад +105

    I'm in my 70's my children and grandchildren are grown, it goes by in a heartbeat. I would say this to you, give yourself grace. You are a wonderful mother and your children will one day tell you this. Our children are very forgiving of our failures, just like we are of theirs, love is a wonderful covering.

    • @Dana-mb1hd
      @Dana-mb1hd Месяц назад +22

      This is such a beautiful comment. I know this comment wasn’t for me- but I needed to hear it! It’s been a very tough day as a mom today. Thank you❤

    • @rosemaryharris6064
      @rosemaryharris6064 Месяц назад +9

      @@Dana-mb1hd You say the comment wasnt for you, but friend, you needed it, as many of us do, so take it and be blessed.

    • @Dana-mb1hd
      @Dana-mb1hd Месяц назад +2

      @@rosemaryharris6064 🙏 thank you

    • @pamelagay3303
      @pamelagay3303 Месяц назад +3

      I am 73. And yes my children are grown.

    • @glendaakers7528
      @glendaakers7528 Месяц назад +3

      Beautiful family! Love your posts!❤

  • @karenchakey
    @karenchakey Месяц назад +48

    Watching the weather Channel I started thinking about you and your beautiful family, I pray a hedge of heavenly protection around you guys from yet again another tropical storm. God bless and keep you under his protection.

  • @janetk7196
    @janetk7196 Месяц назад +40

    God is Good! I would like to thank all the people who were praying for my family after our small community was rocked by a company closing their doors affecting the jobs of hundreds of people. God has provided work for my husband. We are feeling so thankful and blessed!

  • @shabbymaverick7975
    @shabbymaverick7975 Месяц назад +33

    Lynette, you do SO much for your family, extended family, and us your on-line family. You're a treasure & inspiration. Be easy on yourself, and yes, smell the roses. Thanks for sharing your family with us❤❤

  • @laylajoyce5048
    @laylajoyce5048 Месяц назад +28

    Prayers coming your way on the upcoming hurricane

  • @pamelabell5897
    @pamelabell5897 Месяц назад +25

    Sending Prayers For The Hurricane coming

  • @rayannfatimah4334
    @rayannfatimah4334 Месяц назад +5

    I heard about Hurricane Helen hitting Florida hard. I pray that you and your family are safe and sound. Gd bless you and your family.

  • @Susanjoc
    @Susanjoc Месяц назад +16

    Thank you for saying to count your blessings. I’m homebound and am having a rough time lately. I had a Dr. appointment by Zoom and am waiting for my nurse to come. I was supposed to be having PT but my insurance only gave me 4 visits. I’m going to try your attitude of gratitude as it could be so much worse. I’m able to be at home and I have the Lord. Always enjoy your videos.

  • @vanessaames8310
    @vanessaames8310 Месяц назад +17

    Thank you for sharing your day and your family activities. I adore the background music and I’m inspired to do some homemaker tasks I used to do. God bless! Hugs😊

  • @ariel_at_home
    @ariel_at_home Месяц назад +3

    Prayers that you and your family are safe from this storm.

  • @lynettestephens5152
    @lynettestephens5152 14 дней назад

    Lynette, you are always an encouragement & an inspiration to me. I can hardly wait for Tuesday’s video to get me on the right track for the rest of the week. You are filled with so much grace & love, & it shows on the beautiful faces of your husband & your children. ♥️🙂♥️🙂♥️🙂♥️

  • @HildaNethercuttMclawhorn
    @HildaNethercuttMclawhorn Месяц назад +11

    Lynette, you appear such a kind, caring person

  • @delledonne1
    @delledonne1 Месяц назад +8

    I'm glad that you'll be taking some moments for yourself. You're a wonderful wife, mother and friend but without you, the rest would be lost. I'm watching the weather closely, and I really hope this next storm misses you completely. Take good care.

  • @momrow10
    @momrow10 Месяц назад +8

    ❤️Always look forward to your video of the week. Like visiting with a friend. Thanks for being a blessing to others. Love the recipes you share.

  • @meadowview300
    @meadowview300 Месяц назад +3

    Sending pryers for you and your family. Hopefully, this hurricane will not do too much damage to FL

  • @JadyA
    @JadyA Месяц назад +4

    Hi Lynette! how are you all with this past hurricane. Give us an update!

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад

      We are all safe!! Hope you are as well!

  • @beckymcmanus6290
    @beckymcmanus6290 Месяц назад +3

    Praying for you Lynette and your family 🙏❤️

  • @theresa9168
    @theresa9168 Месяц назад +8

    My prayers are with you and your family with this hurricane coming. May God lay his protective hand on everyone in it's path.

  • @DianeGossett
    @DianeGossett Месяц назад +2

    Lynette and Nick, please take care of your family during this hurricane. God bless you all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

  • @NoseyFloridaGirl
    @NoseyFloridaGirl Месяц назад +9

    this one made me tear up too, time is flying by and sometimes we dont take the time we should to just be in the moment .

  • @colleen1770
    @colleen1770 Месяц назад +5

    Wonderful, peaceful video as always. Sending love to you and your beautiful family. Your boys can really hit a golf ball. Impressive!

  • @poshbyjodygreeneisen5147
    @poshbyjodygreeneisen5147 Месяц назад +9

    Yes I completely agree to take the time to look for those little glimmers throughout the day! Since the beginning of this year, my word has been "gratitude " and I write down 3 things I'm greatful for everyday ❤and now since getting into that daily habit, I call them finding my glimmers throughout the day! One thing I do to slow things down is to take 10-15 mins yo go outside and soak up some vitamin d! I also listen to praise & worship music while I'm on my treadmill in the morning, and that helps to focus my mind even after reading my Bible and praying. I also do daily Godly affirmations also...🙏❤️🙌

  • @kimacker8594
    @kimacker8594 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you for reminding us to take time to smell the roses. Sometimes we get so caught up in our day to day routine, we fail to see all the blessings along the way.

  • @cynthiamical9333
    @cynthiamical9333 Месяц назад +1

    Lynette I have been so concerned about you and your family during this hurricane. Prayerfully all is well. Please keep us informed of your well being. I've had y'all on my prayer list. Love your show.. So good to see someone that loves the Lord and lives it.❤🙏

  • @MaureenDrees
    @MaureenDrees Месяц назад +3

    On a spiritual note, I really like your idea of extending the grace that has been shown to us. That’s a way of thinking that I want to hold onto. On a practical note, using your pool fence as a clothes line is so clever. When you mentioned wanting to take the time to appreciate small, special moments, I like to think of those as glimmers. I try to “collect” them to be grateful for at bedtime.

  • @pampayne9033
    @pampayne9033 Месяц назад +3

    Lynette,
    It’s okay to take care of yourself. When my children were little, my doctor suggested for me to take time out for myself, he said I would be a better wife, a better mother and a better person. So I took his advice and it worked. Thank you for sharing this great video. God bless you and your beautiful family.

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад

      I just got back from a girls weekend of 4 days. So it was very refreshing and it gave me a fresh start again!

  • @shortboss356
    @shortboss356 Месяц назад +1

    Pray you and All of your Family's are safe. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sylviaortega6334
    @sylviaortega6334 Месяц назад +5

    Nothing like having two precious little best friends following you throughout the day many blessings

  • @BTGarris
    @BTGarris Месяц назад +2

    Praying you and the family stay safe in the upcoming storm

  • @Madelinechriston
    @Madelinechriston Месяц назад

    Hoping you are all doing well❤ Also, I’ve been wanting to mention that I really appreciate the background music you’ve chosen. It is so soothing and comforting. It always calms me down, even when I’m having a rough day. Thank you!

  • @reginahunt2945
    @reginahunt2945 Месяц назад +7

    Thanks for the words of encouragement. Prayers for your family and also prayers as the coming storm.

  • @ValerieJohnson-q1x
    @ValerieJohnson-q1x Месяц назад +5

    You’re absolutely right Lynette, just taking time to be with your thoughts, read, have a coffee with friends or engage in a craft you enjoy - not always easy with young children. I hope your Grandma is recovering well and your Grandpa doing as good as possible given his health and mobility challenges. Best wishes from London, England.

  • @mertjudyfischer8443
    @mertjudyfischer8443 Месяц назад +1

    Be safe. praying your family doesn’t have any more storm damage.

  • @lorikegley3327
    @lorikegley3327 Месяц назад +10

    You are always an encouragement !❤

  • @laurale8299
    @laurale8299 Месяц назад +4

    I love your homemaking and cooking videos! I miss the days when my daughter was your girls ages. Time flies so fast. You are blessed. However, that doesn't mean you won't have rough days. Keep the spirit and i look forward to your next video!

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад +3

      Yes. Very true. I definitely have a lot of days that are hard and trying!

    • @laurale8299
      @laurale8299 Месяц назад

      @LynetteYoder you are so kind and sweet, and I'll say prayers for you. ❤️

  • @lisarandolph9261
    @lisarandolph9261 Месяц назад +6

    Lynette, you are an inspiration to me. You are a wonderful mother, homemaker, & wife. Those are the most important jobs in life. They don't pay & are mostly thankless. It's easy to sometimes feel taken for granted. I love your family, videos, recipes etc. Thank you! 😊❤.

  • @darlenemc3586
    @darlenemc3586 Месяц назад +5

    I'm praying this next storm doesn't bring the storm surge they are predicting. God be with you all! Grandmotherly hugs from me sweetie!

  • @Kathy-zx5bu
    @Kathy-zx5bu Месяц назад +2

    God bless and keep you through Helene. I am in Orlando. Be safe. 💕

  • @sheafreitas4315
    @sheafreitas4315 Месяц назад +1

    I agree with you on slowing down to appreciate all the blessings we have. Life is often referred to as a rat race and we can so easily become caught up in it. I love your perspective and devotion to your family. Thanks for the encouraging words❤

  • @ruthwarren8685
    @ruthwarren8685 Месяц назад +5

    I know I’ve said it before, but I just love your vlogs! This was a sweet reminder to not be too busy to take time to appreciate, be thankful, and it is so important! I’m praying for your precious family as Helene seems to be gaining strength! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @jacklynfrancis2640
    @jacklynfrancis2640 Месяц назад +1

    Blessings Lynette ! Praying for you and your family's safety from the storm. I hope you are not in its path. The name of our LORD is a strong tower indeed !❤

  • @judymcmahan6640
    @judymcmahan6640 Месяц назад +6

    I really look forward to your video. Thank you for the update on your parents. I have been praying for them and your grandfather and grandmother. Bless you and your family and look forward to another video.

  • @wendys9206
    @wendys9206 Месяц назад +1

    Sending prayers for you, your family and all affected by this hurricane!

  • @delilhahorne440
    @delilhahorne440 Месяц назад +5

    You’re pies look so Yummy I believe you’re a terrific mother give yourself some grace we all need it sometimes

  • @pjk1714
    @pjk1714 Месяц назад +5

    Hoping Helene isn't a cat 4 and doesn't cause death.
    Stay safe and prepare despite being below Tampa. It's massive.
    You keep motivating the fall vibe.
    Hugs from 🇨🇦

  • @bobbilyn2
    @bobbilyn2 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for your safety during this hurricane. Also for your parents!

  • @lizbundick6334
    @lizbundick6334 Месяц назад +6

    Praying this hurricane does not cause any damage! My son is in Ocala, so we pray for all of Florida!!

  • @rosemaryharris6064
    @rosemaryharris6064 Месяц назад +5

    I love how you shared that you've been pondering about showing more humility and grace toward your children. God's grace to us is so abundant so how or why wouldnt we extend it to others, especially to those that He has entrusted to our care.

  • @susanwilson6338
    @susanwilson6338 Месяц назад

    I love watching you live out your life as wife, mother, daughter, servant of the LORD!
    You are a huge blessing to me. I’m 78 and have six grandchildren Between 19-29!
    I’ve lived my life as homemaker mom and wife. Living in Christ and for Him is the only way to
    Go! Maranatha!

  • @BarbaraKohler-c8u
    @BarbaraKohler-c8u Месяц назад +5

    I am so sorry another Hurricane is coming!! Be safe and God Bless you and your family!!

  • @K.M.-ph1yp
    @K.M.-ph1yp Месяц назад +3

    This was so sweet, Lynette! The thought that came to me while observing your slower paced day was that you did seem more refreshed and relaxed than sometimes…like you were able to just settle in and enjoy the moment. Which is an applicable reminder for this mama, too, so thank you!

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад +1

      😃👍🏽 my weekend break really did help give me a refresh and fresh perspective!

  • @laszlodesimon4768
    @laszlodesimon4768 Месяц назад +3

    You are such an inspiration to watch and I marvel at your amazing drive with such a calm resolve. Thank you for sharing your journey and showing how hard work and motivation to be kind and in control with solid Christian beliefs makes it all work so well.

  • @michaelwebb57
    @michaelwebb57 Месяц назад +5

    Y'all be safe. Another bad storm is heading your way. Great video. Yes, God is so good. Thanks for sharing. 😊

  • @gingerdehart1239
    @gingerdehart1239 Месяц назад +2

    Praying y'all stay safe 🙏

  • @MFGing
    @MFGing Месяц назад +4

    Oaklyn is so darn cute when she is bursting with pride when helping.❤

  • @marypuca5626
    @marypuca5626 Месяц назад +6

    Lynette you such a kind caring and wonderful wife and mother, you are always showing your family how much you love them, God is good, all the time, bless you and your family, love your videos❤️🙏

  • @dianamarsden1933
    @dianamarsden1933 Месяц назад +3

    Tell Nic and the boys they did great with video and golf! Those boys can really swing those clubs! You’re right about how fast kids grow up. My daughter and son in law and 3 grandkids live with me. We had moved into my mom’s house to help her in last year of life. I like the way you slow down, you do everything with a calm purpose. Watching you is like talking to an old friend, like it is just the two of us. I am in my 70’s now , and your calmness and kindness is so good to see with the way the world is today.

  • @Bev-s1g
    @Bev-s1g Месяц назад +4

    Praying for you and your community Lynette, as they say possibly another hurricane is coming through. I’m so sad to hear this and I pray that you will all be safe! Praying for your parents!

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад +3

      Thanks. Yes - we’re watching it 😏 not excited. Hopefully no major damage!

    • @Bev-s1g
      @Bev-s1g Месяц назад

      @@LynetteYoder yes, you and your family seem to handle them so well even though I know they are horrible to go through. I know it’s God‘s grace and I’ve seen very few families that work as hard as you all do in making things right again, and having such a gift of being able to decorate and make things look beautiful. But I have prayed and will continue to pray that you and your loved ones will not be harmed!

  • @janetboltz6387
    @janetboltz6387 Месяц назад +8

    You are the best!

  • @ChadMartin-r1d
    @ChadMartin-r1d Месяц назад

    This content is your channel at its best... because you are at your best, doing you! Thanks for your blessing in this video.

  • @StephSlage
    @StephSlage Месяц назад +3

    Loved this video. As a busy wife/mom of 6, life can really make us lose sight of how fast these days will go. I know we will miss the kids once they are grown and living their own busy lives. The everyday is just so busy, but your video is a nice reminder that some days we just need to cherish the moments we have more, a relaxing day is rare, but we all need to have more of them. No deep cleaning, no big plans. Just a simple day without stress 🤍 from Ohio!

  • @Autumncolors247
    @Autumncolors247 Месяц назад +1

    THANK YOU THANK YOU LYNETTE ur video today was one of my favorites in a long time i too have been too busy & anxiety big time overwhelmed & after watching ur video i went outside on our country property & took a beautiful nature walk & saw so much early fall beauty here in michigan i felt like i could breath again & was so happy when i came bk in house love ur videos ur family is so sweet & prayers for ur parents & grandparents bless u & ur family & i always get so happy when i go thrifting i not go in awhile thinking i will go soon

  • @lindamartin7580
    @lindamartin7580 Месяц назад +3

    You’re such a busy mama but you take the time to give thanks for what’s important…we are all so blessed! Let’s give ourselves grace…🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞

  • @hannahyoung3533
    @hannahyoung3533 Месяц назад +3

    Your boys look so at home on the golf course!! Yes, time does fly especially when it comes to our children growing up. My hubby and I dealt with infertility for 11 years before we were able to have our son. He was a preemie, at 33 weeks, at 5lbs 5 oz -so tiny!! It seems like that was yesterday but that same sweet boy is now 15 years old and 6ft 3in...I literally look up to him. Knowing that we were only going to be able to have one child, soaking in all the moments -the mundane, the spectacular, the funny, the sad has been a huge focus to me as his mom.

  • @wendykubik9449
    @wendykubik9449 Месяц назад +2

    It's the evening of September 27th. I just heard the news about Hurricane Helene's affect on the Sarasota area and wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you and your family.

  • @sharonpoe675
    @sharonpoe675 Месяц назад

    Lynette, i have been watching your channel for awhile. Im 61 and from the old era, raised on a farm of hard working women because there were no male brothers to do the hard work so it was up to us girls to help our father on the farm. You take some time and regroup. You have been overworking yourself and I'm sure the weather situation in your area is an added stress You are a loving and dedicated mother, wife, and human being! Remember your children will not remember how clean and organized your home was before they remember how mommy and me took a day off when the house was a bit of a mess and ran in the rain and had a blast! Take it from me, all was organized and no fun..... I watch your channel because I can relate to your customs and hard work but only wish I had as loving mother as you.. Blessings to you and your family. Take care

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад

      ☺️ thanks. I’m
      Trying to work on those things. But it seems like there’s always things that need attention - laundry - cooking - housework etc. but I have relaxed a lot since my early days of having everything so-so.
      Before I filmed this video I had actually just come back from a 4 day weekend with some mom friends and it was extremely refreshing. I have still been making a conscious effort to relax more and will continue to try and do it more.

  • @kathryngarcia8800
    @kathryngarcia8800 Месяц назад +4

    I remember struggling with stamina after long days with three young sons, at times losing patience. I could have used your encouragement back then! You are definitely helping others.

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd Месяц назад +5

    Today has been a tough day- your video really helped my mental state thank you so much❤❤

  • @RhodaDemmert-u8v
    @RhodaDemmert-u8v Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for such an encouraging video! I loved your encouragement to stop and slow down and notice God and his goodness and grace all around. Needed this today in the midst of busy school life with kids! God bless you!

  • @kristenwilliams3154
    @kristenwilliams3154 Месяц назад +1

    You are definitely an encouragement! Your videos never disappoint!

  • @cindywaldrop4287
    @cindywaldrop4287 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for y’all as Helene makes her way ashore! Please be safe! ♥️🙏

  • @KathyFry-n5r
    @KathyFry-n5r Месяц назад +3

    Lynette, praying for you and your family as I hear another storm might be heading your way. Stay safe❤

  • @lisarandolph9261
    @lisarandolph9261 Месяц назад +1

    Thoughts & prayers are with you & your whole family as this hurricane approaches. May God keep you all under his umbrella of protection. Be safe. Be well.

  • @lisajessup6615
    @lisajessup6615 Месяц назад +1

    Lynette - fingers crossed & prayers from Australia that you & your family are safe from Hurricane Helene xx

  • @maxinebellows741
    @maxinebellows741 Месяц назад +4

    I so needed your video today. I, too, was always busy like you. At 71, some things are a bit more difficult for me to do. Now I'm going to look at one thing each day to be thankful for. Thanks for your videos. I'm in Bradenton and do hope this hurricane doesn't cause too much damage for our families.

  • @mishloud4215
    @mishloud4215 Месяц назад +4

    Wow, the boys have beautiful swings!

  • @judywilliams3904
    @judywilliams3904 Месяц назад +4

    Thanks for the video, I look forward each week to see them. God Bless Your Family.

  • @SusanAylor-k5p
    @SusanAylor-k5p Месяц назад +3

    So sorry for yall having to get ready for another hurricane 🌀
    Especially for your parents ❤

  • @barbaranielsen2888
    @barbaranielsen2888 Месяц назад +2

    There is not one without sin, No not one! Grace is given to us freely! We need to accept that Grace for ourselves! You are worthy, Lynette!

  • @tracewalker8772
    @tracewalker8772 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you to your parents for being such a good example to all of us viewers! God bless them! You too Lynette!💕💕💕💕

  • @mimid7354
    @mimid7354 Месяц назад

    Prayers for your family and all of Florida 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @cathyoneill9011
    @cathyoneill9011 Месяц назад +3

    We are so thankful for you and your words of encouragement! 😅

  • @danasnow8266
    @danasnow8266 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you! Another wonder, soothing and relaxing video that I needed.

  • @leslietascoff9784
    @leslietascoff9784 Месяц назад +2

    Very peaceful! ❤ The music in the middle was very nice. We all need to take breaks during the day to be grateful and catch our breath.

  • @cherylporter6750
    @cherylporter6750 Месяц назад +3

    I love just puttering around house.

  • @marikajohn6522
    @marikajohn6522 Месяц назад +2

    Great day sharing. Yes we us mums forget to rest/recharge. So now relaxing 😊😊

  • @ustablaura579
    @ustablaura579 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you for the prayers. My brother in law passed unexpectedly at 53. My heart hurts so much. Through it all I know God is good.

    • @LynetteYoder
      @LynetteYoder  Месяц назад +1

      Aww. I’m so sorry!!!

    • @Madelinechriston
      @Madelinechriston Месяц назад +1

      I’m so very sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

  • @kathylezcano8793
    @kathylezcano8793 Месяц назад +2

    Your family is so lucky to have you Lynette an amazing mom to your children love the content thank you for always sharing your friend Kathy❤

  • @cherylcannon3053
    @cherylcannon3053 Месяц назад +3

    Love, love, love this video!!
    Praying for you are the storm Helene approaches. ❤❤

  • @momH
    @momH Месяц назад +3

    Holmes county Ohio , 😊 I am familiar with Holmes County Ohio but others might not be . Made me smile that u keep mentioning Holmes county but not which state . . Love your inspiration ! Blessings!

  • @countrymom2023
    @countrymom2023 Месяц назад +3

    All of your videos is encouragement and inspiring to me I love your videos i enjoy watching you cook ,clean and all that ❤❤❤❤

  • @sydneykasmar
    @sydneykasmar Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for sharing of... receiving grace from God and your insight to share more grace to others. That was for me to hear and apply. 💜

  • @frankietorres6740
    @frankietorres6740 Месяц назад +7

    Dear Heavenly Father. Please protect this family from the storm 🙏

  • @nmiller6784
    @nmiller6784 Месяц назад

    ❤ I too struggle with the constant work load and lack of downtime.
    Blessings to you 🙏🏻

  • @TashaJones-rz1ln
    @TashaJones-rz1ln Месяц назад +6

    I'm Praying for you Grandma eye

  • @sallycroft2191
    @sallycroft2191 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Lynette. It was a wonderful reminder to stop and appreciate the blessings of the day as well as rest. I didn't realize how mechanical we can make homemaking by rushing to get things done and constantly writing things on our unwritten to do list. Today, I gav taken mini breaks between tasks and have enjoyed it so much more. Looking forward to a good coffee break and part of it is the anticipation of it. Now to get a couple things accomplished first. Blessing and God's protection over your family, friends, church and community.

  • @theresajones7860
    @theresajones7860 Месяц назад

    Prayers for you and your family that you are safe. 🙏🙏

  • @DawnBenson-f3z
    @DawnBenson-f3z Месяц назад +2

    It refreshes my soul to watch your program. Thank you for taking the time to post. ❤ God bless you and your family.

  • @susantrenado9232
    @susantrenado9232 Месяц назад

    Lynette thanks for your words. I am a mum of 4 grown up children and have grandkids, time has flown by it does make one weepy that they grow far too quick. Enjoy the moment God bless you all 😘

  • @jackiemaccaskill2111
    @jackiemaccaskill2111 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for taking us along. Thanks for inspiring and definitely encouraging me in all the right ways.
    ❤ xo