The SECRET To Relaxing On A Motorcycle & Not Being Afraid

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @OldNotDead-Club
    @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад +5

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  • @dwaynejones8669
    @dwaynejones8669 Год назад +2

    I always think of riding as a zen trip. Mind and body should become one with the feedback from the bike. Mind=intent and judgment, Body= control and agility.

  • @windyfoust7188
    @windyfoust7188 10 месяцев назад +1

    So true!! As a new rider nervousness is real. I do a quick little self pep talk, take a deep breath and think of a safe calm space to let my mind let go. Then I see in my mind's eye the truth that I am aware, calm, and maintain PTC (present time consciousness). Then I play with my friction zone for a bit to give that memory to my hands and brain. I do a quick review of my intended trip and off I go feeling more comfortable about my ride. It's a prep and program I use to get over the newbie willies. 😊 It definitely allows for me to enjoy the gift of riding. ❤

  • @rwnomad6985
    @rwnomad6985 Год назад +2

    Well said! The more you practice the better your skills become. Unfortunately, some people think that riding on the weekend is enough. IT IS NOT!)

  • @docnoisewater6481
    @docnoisewater6481 Год назад +4

    I put in 460 miles solo this weekend and this was the number one thing I continued to remind myself. Relax, enjoy the therapy and let the bike work. Great video!

  • @phiberoptik232
    @phiberoptik232 Год назад +9

    Could not agree with you more. Riding safe, comfortably, and confidently is what enjoying the ride is all about. Of course, much of that comes with experience so that you adopt the skill set required for those attributes to be realized. Practice, practice, practice, and get the training you need in order to be prepared for every riding situation. Stay safe out there and enjoy the road.

  • @Lemmingadventures
    @Lemmingadventures Год назад +2

    It's hard to not be afraid when flicking a switch for a blinker seems to be difficult today with a lot of car drivers. Especially when you are a lone motorcyclist in a sea of cars sometimes. But yes, your points are spot on.

  • @jamescampolo7824
    @jamescampolo7824 Год назад +6

    Experience / practice helps the jitters go away. Once you become "one" with the bike, riding becomes natural and relaxed. Myself, even if I don't ride for a few months, once I get back on the bike, it takes a couple 40 mile rides to get totally relaxed again. After not riding for a while, you don't forget how to ride but, it is like anything else you haven't done in a while, you need to get back into your comfort zone.

    • @jamescampolo7824
      @jamescampolo7824 Год назад +1

      Then when you get a new bike, it's just like when you get a new girlfriend, you have to learn the behavior and the quirks even though you know how to ride.

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад

      Well said!

    • @jamescampolo7824
      @jamescampolo7824 Год назад +1

      I forgot to add "lol".

    • @jamescampolo7824
      @jamescampolo7824 Год назад +1

      @@OldNotDead-Club Spoken from an almost 70year old that still rides both and love it/them.

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад

      @@jamescampolo7824 LOL

  • @paulpendino4494
    @paulpendino4494 3 месяца назад

    This was probably your best message ever at least for me. I've owned my bike going on 5 years now, but I don't always get the chance to go out for a ride as often as I want. It is my first bike and I absolutely love riding, but I am pretty tense when I ride. Especially across the shoulders and lower back. My middle boy has his first bike as well and we try to ride together as much as possible too. But I have noticed that when riding with him I notice myself being more tense. It's because I'm always looking back at him and watching the traffic behind him. It absolutely pisses me off whenever someone gets too close to him. Which sends my tenseness up even more.

  • @sgtmcd
    @sgtmcd 23 дня назад

    I loved the msg of lightening your grip. When I was learning years ago I was told that the bars are for steering not holding on to.

  • @gadgetguy3579
    @gadgetguy3579 Год назад +3

    This is great advice! I’m back on a motorcycle after 10 years. I invested in quality motorcycle gear and despite having 20 years experience prior to my 10 year layoff, I took a motorcycle safety course. My goal is to ride until I’m physically or mentally incapable of doing so. Thank you for your useful words today.

  • @cavscout62
    @cavscout62 2 месяца назад +1

    I can never remember a time that I felt scared on a Bike. Started riding at about age 6-8 and have been riding for over 50 years now. I guess growing up in a different world that was less populated and stressful is partly responsible . I actually feel far more tense in a car than I am on my Bike. Heavy traffic? Give me a Bike. Highway? Bike. Life? Bike. It’s akin to breathing for those of us who grew up Riding and it is learned by riding off road until one is part of the bike. Riding off road and Really Riding means you will crash and that’s actually a good thing as it teaches one that crashing isn’t the end and also teaches one the limits. Ride On.

  • @tex9280
    @tex9280 Год назад +3

    Simply just BREATHE ❗
    Become the motorcycle
    May all your days be Harley days🖤🧡🖤
    Safe travels 🙏♥️🐾🐾🇦🇺
    🖤🧡🖤🧡🖤🧡🖤🧡🖤🧡🖤

  • @aaronkeller488
    @aaronkeller488 Год назад +4

    Totally agree with your points in being relaxed. This also can be applied to anything in life. Relax & enjoy life!

  • @thejerseyj5479
    @thejerseyj5479 Год назад +1

    My pet peeve! Group rides where the "leader" rides as though he's alone. If you're leading a group, the last bike in line has to be on your mind as if it's attached to you. I've been behind clueless guys and it makes it tough when it should be a breeze.

  • @oldsoulbiker575
    @oldsoulbiker575 Год назад +2

    Very good points and astute analysis of riding. My mantra is “ride loose”. Be aware of your mental state. If stressed, angry, or anxious I won’t ride because it would not be enjoyable, it is a chore. Takes away the rationale for riding. Mind is at peace, the ride will be effortless and bliss and why I ride.

  • @John-cc1pc
    @John-cc1pc Год назад +1

    Totally. Keep warm too - this also causes tension and lack of attention.
    Safe rides 👍🤜

  • @tomwinner5350
    @tomwinner5350 Год назад +2

    I’ve been doing this for 38 years. I still sometimes get a uncomfortable feeling pulling my bike out of the shop. I just stop for a second. Then rationalize out the fact that yes this is dangerous. Then I replace it with a “not today I got this thought”. Then I go run the same program that has kept me upright for over 30 years now. I also think most people that are uncomfortable riding simply are not doing it enough. It took me 2,500 miles on my current bike before it felt intuitive. 2,500 miles and I’m not green.

  • @itllkeal
    @itllkeal Год назад +1

    You can just feel it when it's right. Everything just flows. Thanks

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад

      Thank you - spot on

    • @terryboehler5752
      @terryboehler5752 6 месяцев назад +1

      When it's cold or wet you can train to relax your neck and shoulders to increase blood flow/heat. It actually works.
      Also if there are any dry areas on your clothes while it's wet outside, it's worse mentally. Once you're soaked it somehow seems better.

  • @nolocbx1
    @nolocbx1 Год назад +5

    Great video. I’ve only been riding my Harley for a little over a year with only a year of experience. I find myself tense especially around my legs and shoulders. I’ve been trying to relax more. Your video has pointed out my flaws. Thanks.

  • @peterhannan847
    @peterhannan847 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Aymen, Good to catch up on the Vicla run, yes, I'm behind in viewing your channel. Get over it!! Fear is a tool that we need to disconnect from the Fight v Flight mechanism and reach further into our toolbox of possible actions to modify our reactions in response to that fear, as a Volunteer Firefighter i use it all the time and have no doubt it's saved me and my crew in the past. Nothing to get a big head over, either as it's been a long journey filled with training and garnering the experiences of many people out there, Career and Volunteer, who've passed on lots of valuable knowledge.

  • @paulhenriques428
    @paulhenriques428 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’m from the United states but I. Portuguese love what you do thanks for all the great information!

  • @resurgencegear9960
    @resurgencegear9960 Год назад +3

    Another great, educational vid Aymen. Well done. We loved the clip!

  • @dazzlejazzable
    @dazzlejazzable Год назад +1

    Absolutely spot on. There's nothing like feeling at one with your bike, it's meditation in motion! And finding that balance between chillaxing and having all your senses heightened while scanning the road ahead (and behind) is true zen. Great video, Aymen.

  • @blakepistofian7370
    @blakepistofian7370 Год назад +4

    Good work 👏

  • @JamesMiller-q9w
    @JamesMiller-q9w Год назад

    Rode like this for over 50 years, all kind of Bikes but mostly Harleys. Then at 73 years old, up popped the Devil. A left turner right in front of me with a cell phone in her ear. My life was saved by where I hit her Car. The windshield hood and fender. My Sportster bounced backwards and landed on my left ankle breaking it. I now have a plate and 7 screws in it but okay. The next time after fixing I was freaking out ridding. Every Cage that came near me was Panic time.
    Your Video was very helpful in getting and "Old but not Dead" back into the saddle. Until this happened, I rode like I stole it.....

  • @anthonyemmett4585
    @anthonyemmett4585 Год назад +3

    Another Awesome RUclips video!! You rock Aymen Phoenix. Keep up the great content and very interesting subject's 👍🏽 I watch them all. 🍻👍🏽👌🍻☺️🙏

  • @BigAl53750
    @BigAl53750 Год назад +9

    One of the problems with overtaking (especially in Victoria) is that the tax collectors tend to setup near overtaking lanes, so they can collect some taxes. Supposing the vehicle(s) you want to pass are doing 10k less than the speed limit and you also want to pass them without exceeding that limit, the average overtaking lane is usually JUST long enough for one vehicle to get past one slower one.
    Having been pulled over by NZ tax collectors and been let off with a caution when using the overtaking manoeuvre as a reason for the speed, I wish our tax collectors would do the same, but in my experience, they are singularly humourless people who are unable to think in terms other than black and white.
    The cost of taxes being what they are, I can understand why many riders are reluctant to crank the throttle wide to overtake. It’s ridiculous really, because this makes for seriously dangerous situations on the road and defeats the stated purpose of the road tax collectors, which is supposedly to keep us all safe.
    The NZ ones can see the sense of a rider saying that they were trying to overtake as quickly as possible for safety reasons, whilst our lot aren’t that elastic in their application of brain cells and their usual response is that orders are orders. (Or a paraphrase of this idea)
    We can of course see through this fatuous and false stupidity, but that doesn’t help us when dealing with the loss of finances that will be applied by said tax functionaries.

  • @MrBrookesharley
    @MrBrookesharley Год назад +1

    i was cautious with street glide about manouvering it in tightspots because of the weight and manouverability always thought about doing on of those cop courses in california those guys are amazing

  • @gq244
    @gq244 Год назад +2

    I love your videos man, one of my favorite HD channels. Thanks for your effort and time. :)

  • @odishamiltonjr328
    @odishamiltonjr328 Год назад +1

    I think to some extent at least, having a bike that is a proper fit for you makes a world of difference. This past spring, after getting my Heritage, a riding buddy told me I looked so much more comfortable than I did on the Roadglide. He was right. I am 100% more relaxed now and riding is a joy again.

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад

      I can understand that - different bikes suit different riders

  • @elizabethwilson1190
    @elizabethwilson1190 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this advice. I sit for my provisional motorbike licence on Friday and I am feeling nervous.

  • @MrBrookesharley
    @MrBrookesharley Год назад +1

    hi dude i m retired 64 not in great health vastley overweight but i m still riding street glide is still not regoed riding my new 2021 fatboy love your stuff

  • @atrenthillman
    @atrenthillman Год назад +2

    Good one 👍🏽 Thanks Buddy

  • @topherdalrymple6535
    @topherdalrymple6535 Год назад +1

    Great video as usual. Yeah after a bunch of miles, like thousands in a summer you will relax. And scaring yourself a few times. Be confident not cocky.

  • @KazRoyalEnfield
    @KazRoyalEnfield Год назад +2

    Yet another great video of valuable information- learning everyday allot of that is thanks to you !!

  • @Jim_Berry
    @Jim_Berry Год назад +2

    Another very good video. Well done sir.

  • @okiemale1589
    @okiemale1589 Год назад +2

    😎👍
    Big thumbs up for the channel...
    Such an awesome feeling to become one with your motorcycle, as if it is just an extension of yourself...

  • @briantanner9900
    @briantanner9900 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the great video on this fear think that Al lot of use have when we ride , some days I really have a very relaxed ride and sometimes not so much , if I ride on roads that I know we’ll it’s blast no fear , when I want to take a adventure ride on roads not very familiar with I get tense, what if,s flow through my brain ! Cross traffic, corners , traffic , Deer , I love riding my Street Glide , I practice my slow speed stuff for 30 min on a empty lot most of the time before a longer ride , this helps me losing up my body and my mind , again thanks for all your content

  • @clairebelle8389
    @clairebelle8389 Год назад +1

    So correct and sound advice.
    I sometimes have the death grip on my bars when it feels like I’m riding a bronco through pot hole central here in Vic😂
    Thank you Aymen 🙏🌸

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад +1

      Yeah it can be scary when you hit a rough patch - especially if you are hammering. Thanks again for watching

  • @paddleboatman3767
    @paddleboatman3767 Год назад +1

    15min practice in a carpark every ride. Slow speed u turns and slow riding is one of the Fastest ways to increase your skill levels. Also plenty of you tube tutorials job done.
    Great talking points Great video.
    Thanks...

  • @andrewnegri4678
    @andrewnegri4678 Год назад +2

    Another great video brother a lot of good information ❤😊😊😊

  • @chrisbolton5461
    @chrisbolton5461 Год назад +1

    Some great points made here and well presented too.

  • @rickflippin1
    @rickflippin1 Год назад +1

    I’m in San Diego people have so much road rage here 😂this is good stuff love your channel its why i subbed. Thank you

  • @glennsufong3242
    @glennsufong3242 Год назад +2

    fucking love your way of delivery of information best learn on the tube i thumb up before i watch with confidence

  • @GunCollector007
    @GunCollector007 Месяц назад +1

    Very helpful video. Thanks

  • @ET0000
    @ET0000 Год назад +2

    Cool video mate.....and nicely explained. Couldn't agree more with relaxing whilst riding.....enjoy the bloody ride! Ride safe 😎

  • @gareerabaza6904
    @gareerabaza6904 Год назад +1

    Great video Aymen… I am fairly a new rider and all the issues you pointed out happen to me.

  • @Gnarly_Harley
    @Gnarly_Harley Год назад +1

    100% bro! always speaking facts 🤙

  • @cphillips3513
    @cphillips3513 Год назад +2

    Great vid. again.

  • @unwrangler11
    @unwrangler11 Год назад +1

    Thanks for another great video and advice for riding.

  • @stevendorsey9026
    @stevendorsey9026 Год назад +1

    Awesome videos. I started riding Sept 2020 on a 2007 honda shadow. Upgraded to a 2022 streetglide in March of 22. I got 17000 miles on my streetglide 😊

  • @marcloy9821
    @marcloy9821 Год назад +1

    Great advice 😁
    Sometimes I’ll take off on a ride feeling one with the machine and all is right in the world, and I can do anything. Other times for some reason I feel very uncoordinated and awkward… not sure which is more dangerous 🫣😄
    Next time unco, will have a look through this lens

  • @royboy3048
    @royboy3048 Год назад +1

    Yer nar sort of. If inexperienced riders have a little bit of fear and it keeps safe then all good experienced riders need to look out for them just like road conditions. Been riding for 46 years and feel lucky to do so, two fingers resting on that front Brake going through intersection,animals .like your videos

  • @parischristner8799
    @parischristner8799 Год назад +1

    Good advice, Thank you.

  • @Marcuzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
    @Marcuzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Год назад +1

    always enjoy your informative video's sir!!! thanks

  • @vinnyOdea878
    @vinnyOdea878 Год назад +1

    Do what I did from the age of 8 if you have the opportunity,and that's dirt bike ride on anything you can get your hands on that has a motor and 2 wheel's, you'll learn most of your skills that way and come off the bike in a safer environment, I'm 60 now and still have great reactions

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад +1

      Thanks for watching you are spot on, helps to start young

  • @Molly_Belle
    @Molly_Belle Год назад +1

    Another great video. 😎

  • @Jonathan-L
    @Jonathan-L Год назад +2

    The secret to relaxing and minimising fear is to fit a set of Metzeler Cruisetec tyres. If you're not riding on Metzelers, you're not really riding :)

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад +1

      That's exactly what I have on my SG

    • @craiglatham3749
      @craiglatham3749 Год назад +1

      Sorry boys Pirelli night dragon for me

    • @Jonathan-L
      @Jonathan-L Год назад

      @@craiglatham3749 I've not tried those. Maybe they're a better choice? I think they are fitted as OEM on Indian Chief Dark Horse, so they are probably quite good.

    • @robertholland7558
      @robertholland7558 Год назад

      Road 6

  • @FREEDOMGUNNER
    @FREEDOMGUNNER Год назад +1

    This episode scares me!😱

  • @WiliamRae
    @WiliamRae 7 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video wow your amazing

  • @geoffhall7827
    @geoffhall7827 Год назад +1

    My fear is loose gravel on a corner.

  • @Wajang1
    @Wajang1 Год назад +1

    Overtaking fast is not a problem, but paying fines from speeding are. That's not fear of riding, but fear of losing lots of money.

  • @SamKader-v5p
    @SamKader-v5p 10 месяцев назад +1

    Can you do a demonstration video on the road

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  10 месяцев назад

      a riding demonstration?

    • @SamKader-v5p
      @SamKader-v5p 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@OldNotDead-Club yes a video whilst you’re riding the bike explaining counter steering and braking especially on harleys please I am practicing going quicker around bends but have not been successful thanks 🙏

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  10 месяцев назад

      @@SamKader-v5p Try this one - "How to corner on a Harley without being afraid" ruclips.net/video/to97DPyOLWs/видео.html

  • @nikitis13
    @nikitis13 Год назад +2

    Is that a Magnum 500 open face mate?? I think I want one.

  • @jasongallagher7646
    @jasongallagher7646 Год назад +1

    I remember when starting out I had arm pump from gripping too hard. Learned to relax. How did you get the ST on the roof?

  • @saddle8bag
    @saddle8bag Год назад +1

    Heh. You missed one regarding the leader passing too slowly, money. Paying for all the cops early retirements. I suppose that could be a type of fear, though he may have just been frugal.

  • @Wayno3199
    @Wayno3199 Год назад

    What advanced training would you recommend in the SE Melbourne (Frankston) area, Aymen?

  • @billfowler2867
    @billfowler2867 5 месяцев назад

    I’m in my sixties and been riding over 40 years. Recently, I’ve noticed that some days I feel great on the bike. Very smooth and intuitive. Feels like flying. Other days, for no reason I can figure out, I feel tense, tentative, and uncomfortable. Any ideas? Nothing different that I can pinpoint such as weather or road conditions.

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  5 месяцев назад

      It's a difficult question to answer without knowing much more. So many things influence us. (ie. people, food, sleep, hormones) I just don't ride when i don't feel right.

  • @ricotime9264
    @ricotime9264 Год назад +1

    Being proactive beats the hell out of being reactive

  • @ricotime9264
    @ricotime9264 Год назад +1

    Aymen that thought oh Harley giving me a free motorcycle yeah yeah that’s the thought I always have lmao

  • @MrBrookesharley
    @MrBrookesharley Год назад +1

    i been riding 46 years

  • @fastone136
    @fastone136 Год назад +1

    i must be old nothing protects like leather.its the barrier that breaks the cold wind.

    • @OldNotDead-Club
      @OldNotDead-Club  Год назад

      Leather is excellent but there are many other options available to give some variety

  • @tjzulu1
    @tjzulu1 Год назад +1

    Another great video brother!! Got my Old Not Dead t shirt and two patches today!! Love'em!! Cool stuff!! 😎