we really need this talk give TO WOMEN. Men are not divorcing women, even thoug thay come ex prosti***tutes or worse. Women are divorcing men who care for them and provide for them over arguments like (there was no more love anymore, He didnt helped me clean or cook or take care of the kids. Just a bunch of excuses)
@@EnigmaKingdomit seems you are posting videos of this preacher. And the comments are combating the preacher and some are assuming you are the preacher in question when you are just posting the video
I needed to watch this sermon. God truly guides his children through people like this man. I have been given direction again, so I praise the Lord Jesus for keeping his promise of being the lamp for my feet. Amen!
3:05 basically means that even if you have one of those high-paying promising careers, you must be willing to throw it away for the glory of God. You must be willing to lose your lucrative job as a marketer if it means staying faithful to God. God will test your faithfulness to Him shortly after you earn your MBA if you're a Christian the way he tested Abraham's faithfulness.
I heard of something great that happened at an exit interview. A guy got a job. He signed a contract that said that he could not disclose anythibg about working there. One day the boss said "You are fired. Go to HR for the exit interview." He said nothing and when legal was contacted, they said that does fall in line with the terms of contract. New employment contracts were written soon after.
Of course, through the years ive been observing everyone else and Thats exactly what most young men go for and Not paying attention to some one is smart instead beauty😮 I hope we all understand 🙏🏼 God's word and meaningful knowledge 🙏🏼 ❤
5:59 WHAT? No, that's not how you should respond to a guy with a crush! Having a romance should at least have two sides: God approves it AND the people involved should approve it and see each other as attractive. Your date can be 100% in accordance with the Bible but if you don't like your partner, it means God does not want you to be with them. Plain and simple. A guy or girl wouldn't always know the bigger purpose of the marriage for the kingdom of Christ, that part is for God and God alone. But attraction must be there. And, some things they should *definitely* know are: 1. do not be unequally yoked, 2. date for purpose (i.e. marriage), not to mess around
I honesty think God would rather keep me in suffering to make me tougher rather than have me grow with someone. I just wish I didnt desire marriage so badly if im supposed to be alone.
@@pada5992 I really do think that it's all just using the desires of my heart as bait to keep me moving forward in a reality where I'll never be able to have that desire. Carrot and stick. Hit me over the head when I'm feeling too nice and dangle the carrot when I'm laying flat and can't move.
Praise The Lord 🙌🏾! This is one of the BEST messages that I have heard! EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR THIS!! WOW, Paul has been one of my favorite preachers for a while now, but this teaching just tops the charts! Thank you, Sir, keep letting GOD use you🙏🏾💖!!
As a prosecutor, the Devil's playground is words and word play, Change the meaning of a word you change an idea. Dating today doesn't mean going on dates, Dating means fornication
I can’t help but wonder how many Christian men there are who will never meet the high standards they are being called to in order to be married but will also never meet the high standards they are called to in singleness possibly for life? It seems like an unwinnable situation that won’t do you any good in life. You’re not good enough for marriage but you will be good enough as a spouseless childless celibate .
I can see the frustration brother. I look around and see many people in what looks like happy marriages/relationships yet they are no where close to conformed to Christ. Being single is okay, but God himself said it’s not good for man to be alone. Paul washer said it, we have to EARN IT. As Christian’s the criteria to take care of a family biblically is so much more responsibility.
@ Marriage is a great responsibility to be sure but I don’t believe that many Christian singles are in any way prepared for the difficulties and responsibilities of being single into old age.
We have to preach truth. The truth is that men are not leaving their families. Women are. When you preach things that contradict evidence it not only extinguishes your credibility but it cast a shadow over the Kingdom of God.
That’s why we should be mindful and observant of the woman we intend on courting, is she a virtuous woman? Is she a woman of God? More importantly pray about it and let Christ lead you
Men don't leave , because most of the time they are the ones benefiting from the marriage. Women often leave because it finally dawns on them that this guy is self-centered and serving himself. Just like people who were noble had no reason to change the feudal system as they were benefiting from it.
@@achininishadi368 1.) What empirical evidence do you have to assert your claim ) 2.) By admission of your own words you have supported my position “ men are not leaving” 3.) Marriage within itself is a conferred benefit for both parties I.e., men and women. Both benefit from the union and both incur a detriment; so at best your point is moot. 4.) Again, we have to preach truth; God says we “ suffer” from ignorance. This segment of preaching is not inline with truth.
The headship is very crucial to understand. Just like Adam and Eves eyes were not opened until Adam ate, it is the Husband who is responsible for the results before God. This is why wives are called to submit. Ultimately a woman is not responsible for the outcome of the decision. If a husband goes against what he examines to be what God would want and instead makes the decision his wife wants, the outcome is still his responsibility before God. Certainly the wife, if she was manipulative and controlling in order to get her outcome she has sinned, but the decision was not hers to make, so the outcomes of making the poor decision is not her responsibility.
A lot of people complaining why it is not directed to woman... Well we don't know the context, maybe this is gathering with only male audiences. I am a woman, but I see the point of men having greater responsibilities in the marriage as they are ought to be the head of the family, representing Christ as the bridgegroom and church as the wife. Nonetheless, I didn't feel as if it's just the "men", actually I felt more encouraged to equally pursue these Biblical qualities as a wife in the future.
You know what amazes me is how important…how so very important…all this stuff is and why am I just now finding out about it later than what is ideal….its extremely frustrating. Would have been nice to have been taught these things from young. My dad loves me very much but he never sat me down and explained to me, many times that he should have, how to be a man. I needed to be intentionally and deliberately taught and was not. I was “led by example” so to speak but you know what.. led by example is not good enough. Now I have to labour harder and sooner to not run out of time. Part of me wants to just throw in the towel and just give up. It seems even when you get there it just stays hard like why would I want to subject myself to being thrown into the limelight of Gods judgement
It's a personal thing no set rules love covers many areas As they say love will find a way Avoid being overstrict as it could damage the relationship But by the same token use self control!
Only listen to this advise if you are in a small community that adheres to this. This preaching will only lead the ones that hear this and are not in said communities to loneliness and dying alone.
This is true, but the even colder truth is God never told anyone they had to be in marriage. Marriage is a privilege. God creates a lot of people to soley do His will, and in that radical life they can't afford that privilege; God doesn't care. God does not care if you are alone or not. God does not care if you have someone to be with in life. He tells you to obey.
@jameson, I tend to differ with you, according to my Bible, it tells me that God cares about who you are with. He said in Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh". He is the one who instituted marriage in the first place! In 2 Corinthians 6:14"...be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers." God cares about marriage. Do you remember Songs of Solomon? Please read it, it will shed some light, blessings to you!
The problem with this society is that we have forgotten a wife is to be a VIRGIN ON HER WEDDING NIGHT. Unless there are certain circumstances spoken of in the scriptures. Look it up
This NEEDS be pinned. Men should be virgins too. But it's mostly women who aren't virgins. What's worse is you're deemed unchrist by other Christians like if you don't want to marry a non virgin. It really sucks out here.
@@Vincent-yp1gj most men are virgins on their wedding night? yeah, right. that is certainly not today's world. many are porn addicts, drug addicts, they eat cheap meat from violent conditions, and had sex with prostitutes. and/or they like to think of themselves as "a good person" but are not anywhere near ready to be a dad, financially, socially, with their health or habits or attitude or competency around pregnancy, childhood, parenting, trauma work, communication, being able to get up in the morning or take out the trash without having to be asked, persuaded, nagged, they are not ready with their family-supporting social networks or where they (can afford to) live or anything. they just want the results without the preparation and wonder why no good woman would sign up for that.
@@Vincent-yp1gj you don't need to go that far, you can just read the bible. And yes, sins can be forgiven and none of us are deserving of being forgiven. We are only forgiven through grace
If only i understand this 20 years ago .... Looks like i have to live the rest of my days with full of regrets for it is too late for me to even be forgiven anymore
God looked at Adam and said, "It is not good for man to be alone", then created Eve for him. That's not what God wants for you bro, he created you for someone and someone for you. Keep your head up and keep your focus on him, he'll bring the right woman your path
Um, you parents, get your kids ready for college, for school, for sports, for everything but marriage.... Marriage saves you from sinning, marriage should be taught at a very early age, college doesn't get you closer to God , a man is supposed to help you back to heaven, and the woman is supposed to learn how not to be a rebellion, marriage saves you in so many ways... You have to be praying for your soulmate at a very young age, God sent me my mountain mover because I prayed as a child for my husband... It was more important then any school or anything life you're going to try to make... Marriage is very important, I am literally teaching my daughter how to be a Godly wife and a woman for her future husband, not school..
Remember people. This is why you don’t just marry and pretty you randomly meet somewhere. “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers” that means if they aren’t even in your church or a church that your church fellowships, then it’s probably not the best idea. (Meeting a girl at a conference that both your churches endorse obviously means you fellowship, just make sure that they are still on the same track as you.)
Don't go for looks. A blind person once told me "look at a person through my eyes, and you will see the real person" I ask "how come?" He said "eyes can deceive a person. An image can blind you. I may not see with my eyes, so an image can't fool me. You see a person on the outside, I see a person on the inside" I guess that makes sense.
BS advice, ugly people aren't morally superior. And you have a brotherhood for emotional/ financial/ spiritual support. I prefer to give my kids optimal genes.
Beautiful sermon I agree however I am stuck in a marraige. My Wife is Lazy. She is always Fighting Either with my eldest daughter or I. She is down most of the time. We have no sex life. I have tried every thing possible nothing has changed. I am a hard working man. Not perfect but good husband. I am a good father. I am keeping myself in shape. I am trying my best to lead my household just to be disrespected. I am all against divorce but do any man really want to live a lifetime like this?
TIMESTAMP: 03:45-04:50 Just take her to dinner, buy her some flowers and BE with her; LISTEN to her... very Simple! Yes, I understand that your wife is Godly and all, but she is also human and so are you. And being such you are BOTH "in process"--being sanctified... The simplest solution is most times the best solution: You're the man, the leader... demonstrate this, love on her, show her you care, take the opportunity to grow closer and more intimate... This does not have to get "religiously spooky"... Mr. Washer, I mean absolutely no disrespect at all...
I think this man lacks understanding. Sadly. Some Christians feel like what they consider the “hard truth” is what going to save them. Jesus said my burden is easy and my yoke is light. If you want to marry someone who is in the faith, then you are able to do it. I would say to the young man, understand your commitment and stand by it. Selfish desires Paul Washer, did you make the human heart, who are you to say where desires come from at all. I marvel at people’s positive response to this message.
The idea is to to seek the kingdom of heaven...after we will start to repent...and after many years of training from holy spirit will act think as a kingdom citizen and we will show the world from our action, the way we think, eat, dress, act...this is the true will of God. Jesus is the door...without Jesus we cannot have access to the kingdom. IF people will seek the kingdom we will see in few years on earth...peace, prosperity, kindness, happiness, less disease, etc... Till then the kingdom of darkness will rull humans heart and you can see the disaster we create on earth.
I love Paul Washers messages, but he is consistently wrong in his approach on only beating up men for being bad. More women these days are the problem not men, but you dont hear him have message after message about womens faults. Women do the exact same things he is talking about in this video, but him and the church constantly give them a free pass as if its only men who will stand before Christ to be held accountable.
I hear you but I think it's a more of a RUclips thing promoting what works. I see some of his messages rebuking ladies. And pointing out sisters on twitter talking about God but having inappropriate profile pictures. To be fair, he is still focused more on men specifically because they are the leaders. When you have strong leadership, it's your job to guide and inspire your surrounding and family.
Yeah bro but he's talking about men because we are the leaders of the world and we are the ones who propose and choose our women. So we have higher responsibility in the category of marriage, not to mention men are to die to their bride like Christ died for his bride. That's a commandment for the husband, not the woman. But yes there are bad women out there but they don't matter cause we won't choose them hopefully
@@davidgonzalez825 though I don't like his style of borderline gaslighting, and don't agree with him about many topics, I think his messages are authentic and he has a heart for God. A precious wall of morality against the depravity of the West. What do you dislike about him so much?
It is mostly because of the attitude that men should somehow step up, and be worthy of women, that I walked away from the church. The church itself has been infiltrated by the same feminist doctrine that has placed abortion on the highest pedestal. Instead of going to church, friends and I discuss scripture and read devotionals as a group. And our fellowship and camaraderie has made us all feel supported and closer to god.
You're hurt that women no longer want to stay in an abusive relationship😂 women have learned to stand up for themselves because you men treat them like shit. Now you reap what you sow
@YeiZi oh? Do tell me more about me...please. and in reality...no I don't need to understand why women make bad choices cause huggge collateral damage.
@wLBlue You do need to understand and I'll tell you why, is because we are fighting unseen spiritual forces who want to control you/us and you are falling right into their trap. Your hurt is understandable but it is your responsibility to; realize, forgive, and heal. Otherwise, you are going to live miserable and your sin won't be forgiven on judgment day. I love you brother and want the best for you, I have been hurt by a girl before too and I was miserable at first too but I realized there's more to it and she's also been hurt before so I cut the cycle and now I pray that she heals and gets closer to God. Have a beautiful day. 😁
@YeiZi but...how do you know...i...don't pray as well? There's no understanding why hurt people hurt others. U can call it spiritual...or call it whatever u want....the ones that hurt others know they wouldn't want it done to them...and we are called to call out that behavior.
Yes it is okay not to marry provided you can keep yourself sexually pure , not to engage in any sexual act or pornography ,masturbation and never fall weak ever or feel lonely , if you can do that then God will surely be pleased with your singleness as you will get to focus all your attention on God.
@@passionaterider-indonepal5817 I once heard it explain that in Biblical times when a man was going to marry, he and his father built a new room onto the house, for the new couple. So the man left his parents and had privacy with his wife but still they were very close to the rest of the family
You misunderstand it like many other people do. It doesn't mean abandon parents. It means the son is now a man who directs his own life as he sees fit with THE MOST HIGH's blessing. He can still take care of his parents but the parents must NOT put undue emotional pressure on him to take responsibility for them. They should strive to be independent in their 40s and 50s and even 60s. Afterward, when they begin to deteriorate, it's wisdom for the son to make arrangements to help ease his parents life in their weaker times.
because men cause the most heartbreaks hence the divorce. men cheat 60% more than women,they tend to be more emotionally distant it's just facts so women divorce more
My friend I pray that if you do watch this video and the Lord is speaking to you as he has with me play God's blessing may come upon you with the truth of God's spirit upon you. We can really screw things up in this world especially in relationships. But then we come to that place for God speaks to us in spirit of Truth. If you are drawn to these words as I have been may the good Lord richly bless you with yours and your household. Only because I believe we are in the end times the last days just before Jesus returns. The only thing I look forward to anymore in this life is to hear the trumpet sound of the Lord Jesus and calling all of those out of his through the rapture. Again if you were drawn to the spirit of the Lord I pray you watch this some may never even heard these things out of God's word but I pray that the Lord richly bless you and yours in God's will my friend amen. And that all of us including me will make our salvation sure with fear and trembling before our Lord Jesus Christ God bless if that's the will of God for you or I
young men in 20s. focus on career and desires drag us to mistakes eventually sin, and consequences of sin, this cycle continues until you dont give a thing about women.
In reality, I think all of this whining about "passing attributes" is really just a way of justifying remaining married to someone who isn't suited to you. Humans often find themselves needing to justify obedience to the Bible, because apart from loyalty it really makes zero sense to do so.
First 30 secs is a stupid point made by the pastor.. the young man isn’t selfish to want to marry someone he’s attracted to, loves being around, and feels great around her
It’s called , the 1960’s influence of feminism in the church. Remember Paul Washer is just as human as the rest of us, and people have put him on the pedestal like a god. Talk about idolatry in the church….
He was more commenting on the fact that this hypothetical guy only wants to marry her because she is pretty and brings him joy, and those reasons will not really hold up well in marriage because there will be many times where your spouse will be very hard to love, and she won’t be bringing you joy in the moment. If the guy only loves her for the joy she brings him, then he’s going to want to leave very fast when he remembers that she is an imperfect human who will not always love him the way that she should.
I clicked off after 30 seconds because of a typical judgmental, holier than thou pastor. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to a girl's beauty. Isaac's future wife, Rebecca, was said to be 'fair' (beautiful). There is no mention of her character. God chose this girl for Isaac. The church needs to stop putting down men and condemning them. I bet this pastor never criticizes women from the pulpit. You know why? Because the women would run him out of town on a rail. This is why men are leaving churches. They do not need all the judgments.
I feel like women are favored over men in church dispise that shit. There was a time I wud have died to protect my ex. I did in fact save her life 1 time. Climbed a rope like Spiderman and saved her from fallingv20 feet. She divorced me twice I met her in church
@@JerryHeughins-os2os Sorry to hear that man. Yeah not all women who go to church are godly. The Jezebel spirit is actually a religious spirit as well. Hope you are doing well bro
Half way through and I do not feel this helps at all, I feel like these sermons are exactly why young men leave the church. This would be great for married men but not for me as a single man.
please get a grip....males always will wanna marry someone they think is beautiful phyically in their eyes......no person says hey shes ugly i think i will marry her......people start out finding common things they like and then go from there.....scripture even says if two agree they can walk together...and that even means that one can be saved and the other not...or both can not be.......many people get married and stay married for many yrs and were not saved..why..because they were taught commitment, forgiveness and love one another........nobody is ever really ready for marriage or even having kids but you just learn as you go many times......each person may have a different outlook on when they wanna marry and thats fine but we should never tell anyone at what age they should get married at.........
Beauty will fade, so a marriage should not be based on that, yes attraction is fine, but not as the sole foundation. He explains why that is selfish. By the way, Scripture says that one shouldn't marry an unbeliever, shouldn't get unevenly yoked..
@@Monk7791 i know what it says but still many people still marry as such and many times it does work because the agree on things that are important......but 99% of the time people are drawn to each other in the first place because of looks......nobody is going to see a female and think in thier mind if they have never met her ,,,oh i bet she has a heart for the lord i must meet her....no....theres always the physical first and then after you get to know them you decide to either continue or end the relationship.......many times you find a female whos outright gorgeous and then once you get to know her shes nothing but a pain in the butt...shes critical nagging bossy and depressing......so you quickly leave........
@@promaster1351 Well the second you meet someone their appearance is the first thing you see, but right after that when you start to know the person, their soul shines through. And ultimately that is what makes someone attractive. These things can strengthen each other. Luckily people are attracted to all kinds of people. It can also occur that someone you have known for years suddenly becomes attractive, so it can definitely work the other way round.
Don't forget.. God gave men the ability to appreciate a woman's beauty for a reason. It is obvious that the outside is the first thing you see, but who is to say that God cannot call you to someone in that way?
@@SeanODonovan42 he does...since he knows what we like and dislike......and thats females of different size and shape and hari color etc......but washer teaches that its sinful if you even touch a female before marriage and that if yiu did adte and then find another female later you are carrying bagage...thats pure crap.....all you carry is the memory of what she was like and what you will or wont like in another one.....hes so legalistic and its so law based living which is really spiritual bondage...grace is freedon and the holy spirit is always there regardless of what we do or dont do....i have a friend of mine who met his wife in jr high they ent out on a date and got married like a few months later ....they were i think 15 and 14 yrs old....they stayed married for i think 40 yrs until he passed away a year ago due to medical issues...if they would have listened to washer tell them they were to young and not ready for marriage they would not have ever gotten married..he ehs wrong on this...i also have a friend whos parents married right after highschool at 18 and gues what if washer was there they too would not have been married for 73 years until she passed about a year ago....
Women initiate 70% of divorces, 90% of the time for frivolous reasons, yet he calls the men unfaithful. Nothing worth listening to here if this is his opening premise
Frivolous reasons for you because you're not the one getting hurt. You men don't care about women. Ya'll are selfish and want women for your selfish desires, just like he said. That's why you can't accept your sinful nature
"Your gonna do what most men do your gonna divorce her" can you bring up the divorce statistics again? Who is it that initiates the vast majority of divorces? Ohh yea it isnt men?😂
Exactly nothing's wrong with marrying a girl also for her beauty. If she offers me her prime, I'll stick with her during the decline... By then we have kids.
Bad pastor with very poor teachings. 80% of divorces are initiated by women, not men who "saw someone more beautiful". Kindly, disregard this video and don't waste your time on it.
@@EriPages Not even God does that, this is false teaching and I hear many times directed especially toward men. Pastors like these are only setting up men for divorce. John 15:14 where Jesus himself said-"You are my friends if you do what I command"-condition in black and white. Every agreement and contract has a condition, marriage is no different. If the wife causes chaos at home, rewarding her for bad behavior is not the answer.
The reality is that in this life you only purpose is love Hod, so if you love your mother more than God you are doing sin, if you love your husband more than God you are doing sin, if you love your work more than God you are doing sin, if you love your kids more than God you are doing sin. You only supposed to love God, no one and nothing else. But you also need to create life that’s why you married and have kids by showing love to them you are showing love to God.
You could definitely argue some of the claims (divorce rates, etc.) but why should that discredit the overall message he's trying to convey here? Men, young men could learn a lot about the sort of mentality and responsibility that's supposed to be carried into a relationship especially marriage.
I liked when he said:
"So much of what we think is love is nothing but basing ourselves on our own selfish desires".
This is what I did with my wife and 22 years and 4 kids later... It's not easy. But it can be done and IT IS WORTH IT.
Do or die gentlemen!
People get mad at me for wanting to marry for the glory of God. Oh well 🤷🏾♂️
Fornication has been normalised
People get mad at you for it?
@@speedboy6776 they always make fun of me whenever i talk about this.
@@GEOXGE Making fun I understand, but getting angry was surprising.
@@speedboy6776 i think the moment they get angry it is when they start feeling guilty and its their defence mechanism.
Beauty fades character lasts ✨️
Genesis 2:24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
A woman can have both, it’s not one or the other. People always pitt one against the other.
A good character is beautiful
Beauty gets the woman through the door, character makes sure she stays in that room.
@@vinnievu1 that's an interesting view of women
My English is not the best, but somehow Im understanding the whole message clearly
Me too😂
praise God, for he has made your ears hear his word!!!!
You'll be fine!🙏
Amazing preacher, great sermon. Thank you for this. Praise God and eternal truth.
“A lot of women love their children in a parasitic form.” 👏🏼 PREACH.
Correct.
This is a great message. Even though I'm dying alone I can pass this message on to others.
This is prime , this is what we need to hear for all you men
we really need this talk give TO WOMEN. Men are not divorcing women, even thoug thay come ex prosti***tutes or worse. Women are divorcing men who care for them and provide for them over arguments like (there was no more love anymore, He didnt helped me clean or cook or take care of the kids. Just a bunch of excuses)
@@virgiliomurilloochoa2884 that's true
@@EnigmaKingdomit seems you are posting videos of this preacher. And the comments are combating the preacher and some are assuming you are the preacher in question when you are just posting the video
@@unknown-vo3di thank you for the information
I needed to watch this sermon. God truly guides his children through people like this man. I have been given direction again, so I praise the Lord Jesus for keeping his promise of being the lamp for my feet. Amen!
3:05 basically means that even if you have one of those high-paying promising careers, you must be willing to throw it away for the glory of God. You must be willing to lose your lucrative job as a marketer if it means staying faithful to God. God will test your faithfulness to Him shortly after you earn your MBA if you're a Christian the way he tested Abraham's faithfulness.
wdym. become jobless to be faithful?
I heard of something great that happened at an exit interview.
A guy got a job. He signed a contract that said that he could not disclose anythibg about working there.
One day the boss said "You are fired. Go to HR for the exit interview."
He said nothing and when legal was contacted, they said that does fall in line with the terms of contract.
New employment contracts were written soon after.
Of course, through the years ive been observing everyone else and Thats exactly what most young men go for and Not paying attention to some one is smart instead beauty😮
I hope we all understand 🙏🏼 God's word and meaningful knowledge 🙏🏼 ❤
I almost liked this video twice.
Keep on going higher in the preaching of the undiluted word of our Lord and Savior JESUS CHRIST.
Sir Paul
5:59 WHAT? No, that's not how you should respond to a guy with a crush!
Having a romance should at least have two sides: God approves it AND the people involved should approve it and see each other as attractive. Your date can be 100% in accordance with the Bible but if you don't like your partner, it means God does not want you to be with them. Plain and simple.
A guy or girl wouldn't always know the bigger purpose of the marriage for the kingdom of Christ, that part is for God and God alone. But attraction must be there. And, some things they should *definitely* know are: 1. do not be unequally yoked, 2. date for purpose (i.e. marriage), not to mess around
More Paul Washer!
Very convincing, Christ is Our Lord.🙏
I watched this whole thing a few years ago…mind blown🙏🏻
I honesty think God would rather keep me in suffering to make me tougher rather than have me grow with someone.
I just wish I didnt desire marriage so badly if im supposed to be alone.
I feel you man. I really do.
may i ask, what aspects of marriage do you desire?
@@pada5992 Not many anymore. I wanted to with everything I knew about my relationship to God love a woman like God loves me. I've since given up.
@@pada5992 Why does it matter what I want?
@@pada5992 I really do think that it's all just using the desires of my heart as bait to keep me moving forward in a reality where I'll never be able to have that desire.
Carrot and stick. Hit me over the head when I'm feeling too nice and dangle the carrot when I'm laying flat and can't move.
Praise The Lord 🙌🏾! This is one of the BEST messages that I have heard! EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR THIS!! WOW, Paul has been one of my favorite preachers for a while now, but this teaching just tops the charts! Thank you, Sir, keep letting GOD use you🙏🏾💖!!
The group of young men actually dating today is a grand total of about 13 people.
As a prosecutor, the Devil's playground is words and word play,
Change the meaning of a word you change an idea.
Dating today doesn't mean going on dates,
Dating means fornication
My wife of 21 years keeps getting more beautiful.
❤
0:31 - Aren't women usually the ones filing for divorce?
Yup, 70% of divorces are initiated by woman.
70% of the time yes.
Don't miss the point
He's pandering to women. It's pathetic.
No. You’re wrong.
I can’t help but wonder how many Christian men there are who will never meet the high standards they are being called to in order to be married but will also never meet the high standards they are called to in singleness possibly for life? It seems like an unwinnable situation that won’t do you any good in life. You’re not good enough for marriage but you will be good enough as a spouseless childless celibate .
I can see the frustration brother. I look around and see many people in what looks like happy marriages/relationships yet they are no where close to conformed to Christ. Being single is okay, but God himself said it’s not good for man to be alone. Paul washer said it, we have to EARN IT. As Christian’s the criteria to take care of a family biblically is so much more responsibility.
@ Marriage is a great responsibility to be sure but I don’t believe that many Christian singles are in any way prepared for the difficulties and responsibilities of being single into old age.
@@johnz4328 that is an inevitable reality for atleast someone in the world. Thank God for Jesus and His love for us.
This is powerful ❤
We have to preach truth. The truth is that men are not leaving their families. Women are. When you preach things that contradict evidence it not only extinguishes your credibility but it cast a shadow over the Kingdom of God.
Amen
Exactly, the first 34 seconds of this video is focus on lies. I’m surprised I listened to the whole thing.
That’s why we should be mindful and observant of the woman we intend on courting, is she a virtuous woman? Is she a woman of God? More importantly pray about it and let Christ lead you
Men don't leave , because most of the time they are the ones benefiting from the marriage. Women often leave because it finally dawns on them that this guy is self-centered and serving himself. Just like people who were noble had no reason to change the feudal system as they were benefiting from it.
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1.) What empirical evidence do you have to assert your claim )
2.) By admission of your own words you have supported my position “ men are not leaving”
3.) Marriage within itself is a conferred benefit for both parties I.e., men and women. Both benefit from the union and both incur a detriment; so at best your point is moot.
4.) Again, we have to preach truth; God says we “ suffer” from ignorance. This segment of preaching is not inline with truth.
May God help us
The headship is very crucial to understand. Just like Adam and Eves eyes were not opened until Adam ate, it is the Husband who is responsible for the results before God. This is why wives are called to submit. Ultimately a woman is not responsible for the outcome of the decision. If a husband goes against what he examines to be what God would want and instead makes the decision his wife wants, the outcome is still his responsibility before God. Certainly the wife, if she was manipulative and controlling in order to get her outcome she has sinned, but the decision was not hers to make, so the outcomes of making the poor decision is not her responsibility.
This preecher does hit some cricitial ways in a well spoken manner. I don't agree with everything he said but a lot of what he said did make sense.
I can't tell...How much this channel impacting me bringing Paul Washer message's in this way....Thank you ❤Enigma Kingdom❤..
A lot of people complaining why it is not directed to woman... Well we don't know the context, maybe this is gathering with only male audiences. I am a woman, but I see the point of men having greater responsibilities in the marriage as they are ought to be the head of the family, representing Christ as the bridgegroom and church as the wife. Nonetheless, I didn't feel as if it's just the "men", actually I felt more encouraged to equally pursue these Biblical qualities as a wife in the future.
I wonder how many women are watching this sermon. I'm guessing it's more than boys/men...
Excellent.
You know what amazes me is how important…how so very important…all this stuff is and why am I just now finding out about it later than what is ideal….its extremely frustrating. Would have been nice to have been taught these things from young. My dad loves me very much but he never sat me down and explained to me, many times that he should have, how to be a man. I needed to be intentionally and deliberately taught and was not. I was “led by example” so to speak but you know what.. led by example is not good enough. Now I have to labour harder and sooner to not run out of time. Part of me wants to just throw in the towel and just give up. It seems even when you get there it just stays hard like why would I want to subject myself to being thrown into the limelight of Gods judgement
“Move beyond romance”
Explain Song of Solomon then
He's saying that can't be the only component of it
Song of Solomon is AFTER marriage. Not before it. The romance is created AFTER the marriage. Pay attention.
It's a personal thing no set rules love covers many areas
As they say love will find a way
Avoid being overstrict as it could damage the relationship
But by the same token use self control!
Only listen to this advise if you are in a small community that adheres to this. This preaching will only lead the ones that hear this and are not in said communities to loneliness and dying alone.
This is true, but the even colder truth is God never told anyone they had to be in marriage. Marriage is a privilege. God creates a lot of people to soley do His will, and in that radical life they can't afford that privilege; God doesn't care. God does not care if you are alone or not. God does not care if you have someone to be with in life. He tells you to obey.
That's not what he thought toward Adam. @@jamesonm.7925
@@jamesonm.7925True and the fear of the Lords has a greater impact in our lives and it can lead to someone making good decisions.
you're sadly right.
@jameson, I tend to differ with you, according to my Bible, it tells me that God cares about who you are with. He said in Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh". He is the one who instituted marriage in the first place! In 2 Corinthians 6:14"...be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers." God cares about marriage. Do you remember Songs of Solomon? Please read it, it will shed some light, blessings to you!
The problem with this society is that we have forgotten a wife is to be a VIRGIN ON HER WEDDING NIGHT. Unless there are certain circumstances spoken of in the scriptures. Look it up
This NEEDS be pinned. Men should be virgins too. But it's mostly women who aren't virgins. What's worse is you're deemed unchrist by other Christians like if you don't want to marry a non virgin. It really sucks out here.
@@Vincent-yp1gj most men are virgins on their wedding night? yeah, right. that is certainly not today's world. many are porn addicts, drug addicts, they eat cheap meat from violent conditions, and had sex with prostitutes. and/or they like to think of themselves as "a good person" but are not anywhere near ready to be a dad, financially, socially, with their health or habits or attitude or competency around pregnancy, childhood, parenting, trauma work, communication, being able to get up in the morning or take out the trash without having to be asked, persuaded, nagged, they are not ready with their family-supporting social networks or where they (can afford to) live or anything. they just want the results without the preparation and wonder why no good woman would sign up for that.
and is so common in women that even christian women dont know and or care that they have committed an abomination and that they should be repented
@virgiliomurilloochoa2884 I wouldn't go as far as to say abomination but a serious sin that can be forgiven, yes.
@@Vincent-yp1gj you don't need to go that far, you can just read the bible. And yes, sins can be forgiven and none of us are deserving of being forgiven. We are only forgiven through grace
If only i understand this 20 years ago .... Looks like i have to live the rest of my days with full of regrets for it is too late for me to even be forgiven anymore
No its not
huh? Cut the self-victimizing c r a p
It's never too late to be forgiven, in Christ a new life begins
God’s plan. The most Interesting topic ever.
Im better off being alone.
Better off or just accepted it?
Both.
Yeah, me too.
God looked at Adam and said, "It is not good for man to be alone", then created Eve for him.
That's not what God wants for you bro, he created you for someone and someone for you.
Keep your head up and keep your focus on him, he'll bring the right woman your path
Amen!
Um, you parents, get your kids ready for college, for school, for sports, for everything but marriage.... Marriage saves you from sinning, marriage should be taught at a very early age, college doesn't get you closer to God , a man is supposed to help you back to heaven, and the woman is supposed to learn how not to be a rebellion, marriage saves you in so many ways... You have to be praying for your soulmate at a very young age, God sent me my mountain mover because I prayed as a child for my husband... It was more important then any school or anything life you're going to try to make... Marriage is very important, I am literally teaching my daughter how to be a Godly wife and a woman for her future husband, not school..
Remember people. This is why you don’t just marry and pretty you randomly meet somewhere. “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers” that means if they aren’t even in your church or a church that your church fellowships, then it’s probably not the best idea. (Meeting a girl at a conference that both your churches endorse obviously means you fellowship, just make sure that they are still on the same track as you.)
Don't go for looks. A blind person once told me "look at a person through my eyes, and you will see the real person" I ask "how come?" He said "eyes can deceive a person. An image can blind you.
I may not see with my eyes, so an image can't fool me. You see a person on the outside, I see a person on the inside"
I guess that makes sense.
BS advice, ugly people aren't morally superior. And you have a brotherhood for emotional/ financial/ spiritual support. I prefer to give my kids optimal genes.
Thanks
Beautiful sermon I agree however I am stuck in a marraige. My Wife is Lazy. She is always Fighting Either with my eldest daughter or I. She is down most of the time. We have no sex life. I have tried every thing possible nothing has changed. I am a hard working man. Not perfect but good husband. I am a good father. I am keeping myself in shape. I am trying my best to lead my household just to be disrespected. I am all against divorce but do any man really want to live a lifetime like this?
TIMESTAMP: 03:45-04:50 Just take her to dinner, buy her some flowers and BE with her; LISTEN to her... very Simple!
Yes, I understand that your wife is Godly and all, but she is also human and so are you. And being such you are BOTH "in process"--being sanctified...
The simplest solution is most times the best solution: You're the man, the leader... demonstrate this, love on her, show her you care, take the opportunity to grow closer and more intimate... This does not have to get "religiously spooky"...
Mr. Washer, I mean absolutely no disrespect at all...
I'm not the only one who noticed how one-sided he is 🤔 no one calls out the women in our churches...and it's showing how much of a problem it is.
I think this man lacks understanding. Sadly. Some Christians feel like what they consider the “hard truth” is what going to save them. Jesus said my burden is easy and my yoke is light. If you want to marry someone who is in the faith, then you are able to do it. I would say to the young man, understand your commitment and stand by it. Selfish desires Paul Washer, did you make the human heart, who are you to say where desires come from at all. I marvel at people’s positive response to this message.
This means the woman also must leave her Father and Mother to be with Her husband. As Leah and Rachel did with their husband Jacob.
Thank you for this now I understand what a real relationship is.
The idea is to to seek the kingdom of heaven...after we will start to repent...and after many years of training from holy spirit will act think as a kingdom citizen and we will show the world from our action, the way we think, eat, dress, act...this is the true will of God.
Jesus is the door...without Jesus we cannot have access to the kingdom.
IF people will seek the kingdom we will see in few years on earth...peace, prosperity, kindness, happiness, less disease, etc...
Till then the kingdom of darkness will rull humans heart and you can see the disaster we create on earth.
I love Paul Washers messages, but he is consistently wrong in his approach on only beating up men for being bad. More women these days are the problem not men, but you dont hear him have message after message about womens faults. Women do the exact same things he is talking about in this video, but him and the church constantly give them a free pass as if its only men who will stand before Christ to be held accountable.
I hear you but I think it's a more of a RUclips thing promoting what works. I see some of his messages rebuking ladies. And pointing out sisters on twitter talking about God but having inappropriate profile pictures.
To be fair, he is still focused more on men specifically because they are the leaders. When you have strong leadership, it's your job to guide and inspire your surrounding and family.
Yeah bro but he's talking about men because we are the leaders of the world and we are the ones who propose and choose our women. So we have higher responsibility in the category of marriage, not to mention men are to die to their bride like Christ died for his bride. That's a commandment for the husband, not the woman. But yes there are bad women out there but they don't matter cause we won't choose them hopefully
Dont worry about the opposite sex focus on you being the man God calls you to be all for the glory of God always
Paul Washer is a false teacher, do not be contaminated with his religious leaven
@@davidgonzalez825 though I don't like his style of borderline gaslighting, and don't agree with him about many topics, I think his messages are authentic and he has a heart for God. A precious wall of morality against the depravity of the West.
What do you dislike about him so much?
Marrying for beauty is good. But it shouldn't be the only reason.
Marrying for beauty isn't good lol, it's just not a sin. But if it becomes the main reason, then it's a sin
Wow!!😢
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It is mostly because of the attitude that men should somehow step up, and be worthy of women, that I walked away from the church.
The church itself has been infiltrated by the same feminist doctrine that has placed abortion on the highest pedestal.
Instead of going to church, friends and I discuss scripture and read devotionals as a group. And our fellowship and camaraderie has made us all feel supported and closer to god.
Exactly this pastor is a covert feminist and simp.
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So yes…but not for nothing, scripture does permit and in fact recommend marriage if we burn with passion referring to sexual passion. So… 🤷♂️
Where in the Bible?
@@Jono650 1 Corinthians 7 bruh
And it also says to practice righteousness.
Yeah…..and?
People may burn with passion and marriage is a solution, but that still means all the other things that are expected of spouses also remain standing.
No need to divorce her...women file the majority of them...just be a good guy...they hate that.
You're hurt that women no longer want to stay in an abusive relationship😂 women have learned to stand up for themselves because you men treat them like shit. Now you reap what you sow
You are bitter.
You need to understand where that came from and uproot it. God bless you.
@YeiZi oh? Do tell me more about me...please. and in reality...no I don't need to understand why women make bad choices cause huggge collateral damage.
@wLBlue You do need to understand and I'll tell you why, is because we are fighting unseen spiritual forces who want to control you/us and you are falling right into their trap. Your hurt is understandable but it is your responsibility to; realize, forgive, and heal. Otherwise, you are going to live miserable and your sin won't be forgiven on judgment day. I love you brother and want the best for you, I have been hurt by a girl before too and I was miserable at first too but I realized there's more to it and she's also been hurt before so I cut the cycle and now I pray that she heals and gets closer to God. Have a beautiful day. 😁
@YeiZi but...how do you know...i...don't pray as well? There's no understanding why hurt people hurt others. U can call it spiritual...or call it whatever u want....the ones that hurt others know they wouldn't want it done to them...and we are called to call out that behavior.
I'm glad I'm not married because I'm not mature enough for marriage
No wonder most young folks don't want to marry these days.
It is better not to marry according to Paul.
i remember hearing that, ( and this is not an attack this is a genuine question) do you remember where he talks about that.
@@tylermorgan552 1 Corinthians 7:25-35
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1 Corinthians 7: 7-9 & 32-35. ❤️
Yes it is okay not to marry provided you can keep yourself sexually pure , not to engage in any sexual act or pornography ,masturbation and never fall weak ever or feel lonely , if you can do that then God will surely be pleased with your singleness as you will get to focus all your attention on God.
@@luhhb7697 Thank you, Praise God
This idea of you'rs leaving parents completely it's not kinda practical. We Indians don't. Leave our parents in their old age.
It's not that children shouldn't help their parents, it's about no longer being (emotionally) dependant; the spouse is their primary person now.
@@Monk7791 I agree but we indian Christians live together with parents together taking care of them even after the marriage. 😊
@@passionaterider-indonepal5817 I once heard it explain that in Biblical times when a man was going to marry, he and his father built a new room onto the house, for the new couple. So the man left his parents and had privacy with his wife but still they were very close to the rest of the family
You misunderstand it like many other people do. It doesn't mean abandon parents. It means the son is now a man who directs his own life as he sees fit with THE MOST HIGH's blessing.
He can still take care of his parents but the parents must NOT put undue emotional pressure on him to take responsibility for them. They should strive to be independent in their 40s and 50s and even 60s. Afterward, when they begin to deteriorate, it's wisdom for the son to make arrangements to help ease his parents life in their weaker times.
most men date for beauty... they use their eyes...
most men don't divorce women
I think it might be easier to be single. LOL
how do you do it for god tho
You need to become a man of prayer, and seek wisdom in his word, contemplate on his word everyday and he will tell you.
John 6:28-29
I wonder why these messages are never directed at women? 🤔 they're the ones initiating most of the divorces.
because men cause the most heartbreaks hence the divorce. men cheat 60% more than women,they tend to be more emotionally distant it's just facts so women divorce more
You have just proven why women can’t be helped. Check your facts before saying shit.
Don't blame women in general. It's sissy, unmanly.
Look at yourself only, why did your wife want to divorce you.
Do better.
Listen to Pastor! You will have all five Crowns 👑👑👑👑👑 to be the head of the household. Prepared for stewardship in Christ Jesus.
Only god can gift you a good wife
Someone get smarter in South America mmm that’s a very smart comment. 👏
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My friend I pray that if you do watch this video and the Lord is speaking to you as he has with me play God's blessing may come upon you with the truth of God's spirit upon you. We can really screw things up in this world especially in relationships. But then we come to that place for God speaks to us in spirit of Truth. If you are drawn to these words as I have been may the good Lord richly bless you with yours and your household. Only because I believe we are in the end times the last days just before Jesus returns. The only thing I look forward to anymore in this life is to hear the trumpet sound of the Lord Jesus and calling all of those out of his through the rapture. Again if you were drawn to the spirit of the Lord I pray you watch this some may never even heard these things out of God's word but I pray that the Lord richly bless you and yours in God's will my friend amen. And that all of us including me will make our salvation sure with fear and trembling before our Lord Jesus Christ God bless if that's the will of God for you or I
Selfish desire led to collapse of National car manufacturing company in our nation.😢
young men in 20s. focus on career and desires drag us to mistakes eventually sin, and consequences of sin, this cycle continues until you dont give a thing about women.
In reality, I think all of this whining about "passing attributes" is really just a way of justifying remaining married to someone who isn't suited to you. Humans often find themselves needing to justify obedience to the Bible, because apart from loyalty it really makes zero sense to do so.
This would be better without some of those creepy pics.....
First 30 secs is a stupid point made by the pastor.. the young man isn’t selfish to want to marry someone he’s attracted to, loves being around, and feels great around her
It’s called , the 1960’s influence of feminism in the church. Remember Paul Washer is just as human as the rest of us, and people have put him on the pedestal like a god. Talk about idolatry in the church….
@@rockkstah2550 right.. calling the man selfish because he wants to marry someone he’s attracted to is wild lol
@@josephcarlson7276 you can tell when preachers cater to women’s feelings cause they’ve been indoctrinated by woke feminism.
He was more commenting on the fact that this hypothetical guy only wants to marry her because she is pretty and brings him joy, and those reasons will not really hold up well in marriage because there will be many times where your spouse will be very hard to love, and she won’t be bringing you joy in the moment. If the guy only loves her for the joy she brings him, then he’s going to want to leave very fast when he remembers that she is an imperfect human who will not always love him the way that she should.
I clicked off after 30 seconds because of a typical judgmental, holier than thou pastor. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to a girl's beauty. Isaac's future wife, Rebecca, was said to be 'fair' (beautiful). There is no mention of her character. God chose this girl for Isaac. The church needs to stop putting down men and condemning them. I bet this pastor never criticizes women from the pulpit. You know why? Because the women would run him out of town on a rail. This is why men are leaving churches. They do not need all the judgments.
I feel like women are favored over men in church dispise that shit. There was a time I wud have died to protect my ex. I did in fact save her life 1 time. Climbed a rope like Spiderman and saved her from fallingv20 feet. She divorced me twice I met her in church
@@JerryHeughins-os2os Sorry to hear that man. Yeah not all women who go to church are godly. The Jezebel spirit is actually a religious spirit as well. Hope you are doing well bro
Homeland security?
The background music is extremely annoying!! Please remove it from the clip.
Half way through and I do not feel this helps at all, I feel like these sermons are exactly why young men leave the church. This would be great for married men but not for me as a single man.
Thanks for the obnoxious criminal background setting, lol . *Click, click, click* 😂😂😂
80% of women initiare the divorce so you should ask the women instead 😂
please get a grip....males always will wanna marry someone they think is beautiful phyically in their eyes......no person says hey shes ugly i think i will marry her......people start out finding common things they like and then go from there.....scripture even says if two agree they can walk together...and that even means that one can be saved and the other not...or both can not be.......many people get married and stay married for many yrs and were not saved..why..because they were taught commitment, forgiveness and love one another........nobody is ever really ready for marriage or even having kids but you just learn as you go many times......each person may have a different outlook on when they wanna marry and thats fine but we should never tell anyone at what age they should get married at.........
Beauty will fade, so a marriage should not be based on that, yes attraction is fine, but not as the sole foundation. He explains why that is selfish. By the way, Scripture says that one shouldn't marry an unbeliever, shouldn't get unevenly yoked..
@@Monk7791 i know what it says but still many people still marry as such and many times it does work because the agree on things that are important......but 99% of the time people are drawn to each other in the first place because of looks......nobody is going to see a female and think in thier mind if they have never met her ,,,oh i bet she has a heart for the lord i must meet her....no....theres always the physical first and then after you get to know them you decide to either continue or end the relationship.......many times you find a female whos outright gorgeous and then once you get to know her shes nothing but a pain in the butt...shes critical nagging bossy and depressing......so you quickly leave........
@@promaster1351 Well the second you meet someone their appearance is the first thing you see, but right after that when you start to know the person, their soul shines through. And ultimately that is what makes someone attractive. These things can strengthen each other. Luckily people are attracted to all kinds of people. It can also occur that someone you have known for years suddenly becomes attractive, so it can definitely work the other way round.
Don't forget.. God gave men the ability to appreciate a woman's beauty for a reason. It is obvious that the outside is the first thing you see, but who is to say that God cannot call you to someone in that way?
@@SeanODonovan42 he does...since he knows what we like and dislike......and thats females of different size and shape and hari color etc......but washer teaches that its sinful if you even touch a female before marriage and that if yiu did adte and then find another female later you are carrying bagage...thats pure crap.....all you carry is the memory of what she was like and what you will or wont like in another one.....hes so legalistic and its so law based living which is really spiritual bondage...grace is freedon and the holy spirit is always there regardless of what we do or dont do....i have a friend of mine who met his wife in jr high they ent out on a date and got married like a few months later ....they were i think 15 and 14 yrs old....they stayed married for i think 40 yrs until he passed away a year ago due to medical issues...if they would have listened to washer tell them they were to young and not ready for marriage they would not have ever gotten married..he ehs wrong on this...i also have a friend whos parents married right after highschool at 18 and gues what if washer was there they too would not have been married for 73 years until she passed about a year ago....
Women initiate 70% of divorces, 90% of the time for frivolous reasons, yet he calls the men unfaithful.
Nothing worth listening to here if this is his opening premise
Frivolous reasons for you because you're not the one getting hurt. You men don't care about women. Ya'll are selfish and want women for your selfish desires, just like he said. That's why you can't accept your sinful nature
He panders to women.
Stop couching your sermons in contextual pandering to women. It's really off-putting.
"Your gonna do what most men do your gonna divorce her" can you bring up the divorce statistics again? Who is it that initiates the vast majority of divorces? Ohh yea it isnt men?😂
Exactly nothing's wrong with marrying a girl also for her beauty. If she offers me her prime, I'll stick with her during the decline... By then we have kids.
Stupid take, God gave us desires. They're not some terrible thing.
Bad pastor with very poor teachings. 80% of divorces are initiated by women, not men who "saw someone more beautiful".
Kindly, disregard this video and don't waste your time on it.
Pastor, you're way off. There is no such thing as unconditional love, that is a fairy tale.
it's only possible from THE MOST HIGH. But it doesn't seem possible between humans
@@EriPages Not even God does that, this is false teaching and I hear many times directed especially toward men. Pastors like these are only setting up men for divorce. John 15:14 where Jesus himself said-"You are my friends if you do what I command"-condition in black and white. Every agreement and contract has a condition, marriage is no different. If the wife causes chaos at home, rewarding her for bad behavior is not the answer.
@@maciekkra539 Good argument. I read the verse.
It's interesting. We all need to study more.
So basically, the only reason to get married is so you can be miserable? Got it.
If you're both married in the glory of God; it will not be miserable.
The reality is that in this life you only purpose is love Hod, so if you love your mother more than God you are doing sin, if you love your husband more than God you are doing sin, if you love your work more than God you are doing sin, if you love your kids more than God you are doing sin. You only supposed to love God, no one and nothing else. But you also need to create life that’s why you married and have kids by showing love to them you are showing love to God.
Paul washed is such a hypocrite. Can't stand anything that comes from his forked tongue
Paul Washer is a false teacher, do not be contaminated with his religious leaven
I don’t see it where is he speaking falsely?
@@DovesDescentwell... he is surely out of touch with reality, as women initiate most of the divorces.
@@DovesDescentPaul Washer is a Calvinist. Some people believe that Calvinism is heresy.
I’m not a Calvinist, but it’s definitely not heresy.
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You could definitely argue some of the claims (divorce rates, etc.) but why should that discredit the overall message he's trying to convey here? Men, young men could learn a lot about the sort of mentality and responsibility that's supposed to be carried into a relationship especially marriage.
This is the cringiest advice ever! MEN GO AND DATE! GO FIND LOVE...DONT LISTEN TO THIS GUY