The Judds Docuseries - Episode 3 - Heartbreak in the Heartland
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2012
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The 6 episode series, which premiered April 10, 2011, follows the duo on their final concert tour and explores their mother-daughter relationship. 
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Naomi is so beautiful, graceful, intelligent and dignified. My heart is broken that she felt such pain regarding her childhood and via her mother. And that she has passed away so tragically. The Judds are incredible, their music is timeless. I will always admire both these women so much 💗
Sad seeing Naomi at a gun range, saying she could never shoot anything and knowing she shot herself.
That's how ugly mean evil DEMONIC severe depression is I am very sure that there are many that have taken their lives during depression that otherwise would not have taken them and give it a day or two would have been so sorry that they even thought of it but at the time you can see no way out I know I went through a depression I wanted to commit suicide thank God I didn't because I regretted it all from that moment on and every day since I'm sorry Naomi at least she got to live 76 years that's a very long time and you blessed me greatly in life with your music your personality you I'm sorry you were harmed in life I have peace that you knew Jesus so you will be in his new Paradise without any trauma hurt pain just happiness and that makes me happy that you were able to give that gift to yourself by believing in Jesus you got The Ultimate Gift in life a lot of people don't godspeed Naomi godspeed Winona and Ashley your mother would not want you to hurt she would want you to be the happy people that you are and go after life
People don't realize the severe damage sexual abuse can cause for the rest of one's life, so many people with severe depression, ptsd, substance abuse, etc, rooted in long buried trauma
Watching this after her passing is breaking my heart. Naomi had so much pain in her life, and deserved better. I feel like she was a prime example of having everything and it still not being enough, because it was all a temporary fix like a bandaid over a stab wound. Her wounds were so deep, I don't think they ever healed. Wherever she is now, I hope she's found some peace. Rest easy, Naomi.
Been here as my. Mom did that also
Preying for you woman and Friend and family
@@lisahicks5234 omg I am so sorry.
Very sad to watch...NOW❤️💔💔💔
Stay close to each other
I am so so sorry for your loss and everyone that loves you guys I hope she finally finds peace wherever she's at I just loved to hear you guys sing may God be with you
This seems to be when the depression was rearing its ugly head much more severely for Naomi, yet seeing her here, it's very clear she is no longer the same person I've seen in the past 4, or 5 years. Depression is so evil, it literally destroyed this beautiful lady, who was intelligent, kind, compassionate, cared about others and put them bf herself. It breaks my heart what she went through, and how she suffered. Even while suffering, Naomi was brave and courageous, bc she shared her journey with the world, in hopes to help others. She was a true gem. Ioved her bc she was so real, never fake, and always her true self. Her inner beauty matched her outer beauty, and there was no doubt she loved Jesus, her husband, daughters and her fans. Rest In Heaven Naomi
Amen we'll said
Naomi should've ditched the therapist and solely trusted in God and Jesus Christ alone. If you see her on the 700 Club in 94 Naomi had it all together. Her past hadn't changed yet therapist mess up so many people by causing them to live in the past. On the 700 Club Naomi said doctors are not gods Medical journals are not bibles. I am convinced if Naomi had ditched that therapist she would be alive today.
It has been reported that Naomi didn’t want Wynonna at her funeral. Is that true? They were not speaking at the time of Naomi’s death? They had so much to live for , but they hurt each other. So sad.
They grew up together. Naomi was a kid. She needed love and support. She tried to get WY and Ash out of it....that doesn't change Naomi was torn apart. WY became everything. None of us can judge. I understand deep depression. It physically hurts and you believe others are better without you. At their last performance, Naomi's eyes were blank. She's always been the most alive and herself on stage. I don't think she could feel that anymore. She also her her major breakdown after the last tour. The ptsd ...the trauma ...the fear of going deeper into the depth and hurting everyone around you causes impulses. What we can do is send our love to these women and help change the stigma of mental illness. Love and peace to all.
Beautiful ❤ thank you for this ❤️
Am I the only one who thinks Wy and Cactus compliment each other perfectly?!
Yes they perfect for each other!!!!
No
No. I think she should date women.
No. She could have a happy life now leaving all the bad times her mother put her through
I knew Naomi from her nursing at St. Thomas. She was a bonified bitch to have to work with. I was in nursing school at the time and she was not nice enough to help me in any day. I had to endure her back stabbing as well as others did. She was plain mean
She seems to laugh when she's with him and the laughs seem genuine.
Naomi’s comment somebody can look so normal on the outside and be going through something so…
Everyone has something, so in a world where you can be anything be kind. You never know what they are going through.
Well look at Robin Williams. He was exactly what you just said there
I love this series. Fly with the angels Naomi💌
@Romeo J You have no clue what abused, and/or single mothers go thru. Some situations are worse than others. I went thru the assaults, and a divorced mother of 2 w/ dad never being involved in there children's lives. You have no right to judge Naomi, I completely respect her for giving her daughters the best adulthood possible. She's not singing w/the angels, she is now one of them. Wishing you're at peace..you deserve it brave mama Judd! ❤ 🕊 Peace to you
Ashley looks just like her mother,facial expressions and all.
True. She does
I think so too
Even though Naomi is no longer with us, she is going to do a lot to really open up the conversation about depression snd suicide even more. Helping people from the other side.
This is why we have a loving God.
I think this is a part of a reason why I needed to make an appointment to see a therapist. Her death really shook up because she reminds me a lot of my own mom who suffers from mental illness and is very depressed.
I pray so 🙏🏼
This has been a hard thing for me to watch because it has brought up a lot of memories of when my son went through this 12yrs ago and I lost him to this disease.
I saw so many things wrong with our system dealing with Mental Illness with him . They just threw drugs at him .
I did everything I knew to do .
I feel for Ashley because she found her like my youngest found my son .
Don’t think the rest of the family isn’t effected because they are effected more than you know .
I pray people will respect of that 🙏🏼
So sad)Let it go, i don't understand why it was so long ago, don't seem to let it go, I've been there just try to forget it's hard but you can try to get it out of your mind, she had so much...
She didn’t die to give folks something to talk about! How dare you! If people do not know about depression & suicide now a dead Judd is not going to achieve that. As if talk can compensate her death🤨
This docuseries is now flooded with sad, empathetic comments.
Just a week or two before Naomi's passing, I was watching this series and it had comments calling Naomi a narcissist and trashing on her life.
A perect example of how careless, thoughtless, selfish, and fake people are.
Naomi, sorry for your pain. RIP 💙🌹🕯
Both observations can be true at the same time. We can be empathetic to someone’s real, desperate pain, and also hate the selfish and narcissistic focus they have about it, which hurts those around them.
@@Tracy-zj4sr You've completely missed the point.
@@RubyFleetwoodCactus I noticed that too, bf many were quick to judge and throw stones at Naomi. I just felt these same people probably didn't follow the Judds from the beginning of their careers in country music. If they had, they would of known Naomi was a loving Mom, who did the best she could at that time. I'm not saying she couldn't be tough on WY, bc she definitely was a bit controlling and overprotective, but she was no narcissist. She wanted the best for both her girls, and taught them a strong work ethic. There was no doubt she was very proud of them. Some people don't care about that, they are, as you stated, careless, thoughtless, selfish, fake people, who lack compassion and kindness. As the wise and beautiful Naomi would say "If I'd of known better, I'd of done better." She just got better with time
@@Tracy-zj4sr From what I've read and seen on you tube videos, narcissism stems from insecurity.
I love you Wynona I am so sorry for your loss your mother is my favorite singer and she wanted you to be strong for her and your sister and pop
So many nasty judgemental people commenting here. You have no idea what either of these women have gone through. This docuseries has been so interesting and very sad in some places. Poignant now since Naomi has passed away she was in so much pain.
Yes amen
Oh right, she was in so much pain that she left a suicide note next to her bed that read "do not let Wy go to my a funeral, she's mentally ill". She even underscored NOT. She was in so much pain that she even knew Ashley would be the one to find her and the note. Ashley actually found her alive, gasping, held her until help came. she says it still "haunts her nights". She left both of her daughters out of her will. ALL PREMEDITATED. She had snake venom for blood And cause pain for her daughters for decades. In her death she caused the ultimate pain possible for her daughter's and husband. She could have driven somewhere and killed herself in a motel. She just couldn't handle that her career was over and both of her daughters were still Popular and in demand.
She was supposed to go on tour with Wy but Wy said later they did not have time to rehearse. How is that possible. No, she knew she could not command the stage and get all the attention she needed. That she would not be able to handle bad publicity that she was washed up. That's what her pain really was.
@@trinade3732it’s really easy to pass judgement looking from the outside in. Compassion ( if for nothing else for her children & grandchildren) costs nothing. We’re all broken in one way or another. If you’ve never suffered and lived with sexual abuse as a child then you have no idea the horror and deep sadness you live with your entire life.
@@lisathomas6724 Sounds like you're judging me without knowing me. And yes, father and later stepbrother. But still has nothing to do with her cruelty to her daughters at the end of her life. No way can you defend that and say because of what happened to her decades earlier would cause her to be so mean, NO SO VICIOUS.
I have thoroughly enjoyed this series despite knowing that beautiful Naomi is no longer walking on this earth. I see her hurting inner child and wished so badly that she could have healed the pain that overtook her.
I saw where her mother Polly passed away in 2019. I hope that Naomi kept trying and inviting her Mama to spend time with her.
Rejection hurts, no matter how old we are. I wish I had the type of mother-daughter relationship that Naomi gave her two daughters.
My Mother was mentally ill (I remember her being taken away by ambulance when I was 5 years old) and after her first psychotic episode, she did not return back home, ever the same.
She died young (in her early 60’s), and while I sometimes feel cheated, I know that I will see her again in heaven. This is my blessed hope: living with God in heaven, where all things (especially our bodies) will be made new and incorruptible!
Be kind to everyone and strive to do something thoughtful and unexpected to at least one person everyday! You never know who needs a touch of love ❤️ and what indelible memory that you will impart!
When I see Naomi in heaven, I plan on telling her that she touched many lives with her charm, honesty, and humor!!! She was also blessed to have a good man - Larry and her immediate family that LOVED her, no matter how imperfect they might have been.
40:14😔🥺😢
8th 8th t
Ashley wants to be healthy she went back to Texas for healthy boundaries to speak to the therapists.
I was very turned off by the peer pressure for Naomi to pursue a relationship with her mom. As usual in a narcissistic family dynamic, the pressure is put on the child to constantly let go, reignite a relationship that never works, overlook their refusal to grow, make excuses about their childhood, playing on a sense of moral obligation, etc. People don't understand that these one-sided toxic relationships where you can never get your needs met but are hurt over and over again keep people stuck in a cycle of depression that Naomi ultimately died from. I never started to make strides in my depression recovery until I learned to detach from my narcissistic father. It's been freeing.
Watching this after Naomi's passing, it is clear that she had so much sadness and angst in her heart. She tried but she just couldn't take it anymore. It was so bad that this reunion tour turned out to be a lot about Naomi's troubles. Her struggles were so overwhelming that no distraction, even a tour, could alleviate them. Very sad to hear her cries.
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Naomi had her demons and hardships.. but at the end of the day she was a good mother and nothing can take that away! Wynonna and Ashley love their mother and no one can say different!
She was a beautiful talented woman and her family was talented too. She went through some rough times & so did the girls,but she kept them together. God bless her.
Just because you are a mother, doesn't make you a good one. We got what we got with our parents. For every bad thing I can say about mine, there are a thousand good memories or things I can also think of
Heart broken 💔 for the Judd's. Rest in Peace Naomi.
Your pain reminds me of my own pain in raising my three children after their father left me when I was 25 years old and my babies was just babies. God forgive me for the mistakes I made during this time in their lives. I like to think I did the best I could
God bless you dear lady. I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through that
I feel their family issues too
Me too Dana. Three little girls and no daddy to help us. God bless their little hearts.
But they always have a Heavenly Father they will know and spend time in eternity with. Our Heavenly Father is nothing like my earthly father was.
Aww I love your message. It is so me I went through the exact same thing. I'm so devastated about Naomi her story sounds just like mine I've already bought her book but having a hard time starting it. I felt like I did the best I could raising my 3 boys. But having to work full time and helping my mom was super hard. I know I made a lot of mistakes and bad decisions. I really tried to do the best I could with how hard my life was. I'm now 59 and I still think about it all. Thank you 🌹🌹🌹
Sending love, hugs and prayers to Wynonna and Ashley Judd. May your lovely mother rest in the loving arms if Jesus Christ
@Romeo J and you say that because she took her life?? You know nothing!
@Romeo J stop judging where her soul is! Your not GOD! You think we are all cookie cut outs and judged exactly the same, then YOU know nothing. GOD looks at our heart, and our circumstances, and HE is merciful to those HE chooses to show mercy. You have no idea what went through her mind, the pain she was in, and her conversation with GOD. You have a lot to learn.
@Romeo J you have much to learn, about God our Father , and His spoken word, you need the Holy Spirit to speak to you, to help you. Its not your job to judge someone's soul, that's so clear in God's word. I will pray for you, bc you have no love and compassion for God's children. Are you perfect? I think not, that's why we go to the cross, and are washed in the blood of Jesus. We all fall short of the glory of God.
Naomi Judd is still just freaking beautiful!!! Wynonna is too, they are just honestly stunning!!!
I think they are too ❤❤
Larry must have had the patience of a saint to live with her and be in their family. He definitely deserves kudos.
Amen to that
Beautiful Naomi ...I loved you then but I love you more today.As I weep watching this I hope you give depressed souls the honesty and openess to seek counseling and talk out problems with love ones. I hope you are that free bird soaring high through those clouds and beautiful rainbows.I miss you and love you .
Parentification is what went on. Naomi related to her children in a dysfunctional manner because it was the best she could do with the parenting skills she had. It was what it was and Wynona having a difficult time with the reality of it all. You cannot change the past no matter what. Do not water those weeds. Focus on the present and the future and be kind to yourself and others. Forgive.
When a child becomes enmeshed with the parent it distorts the functunality of the family unit and stunts the emotional well-being of the child. The child is taking on the role of the provider instead of learning to be independent and meet childhood developmental milestones.
I don't like catus Moser I and not fan of him
Do not water those weeds. So very well put! Thank you
YES 🙌🏼!! Exactly 🫶🏼‼️
You said that RIGHT
she says....I dont want them to know but she keeps telling everyone that will listen...and she knows that they will watch this....makes you wonder what her motivation is...
Wow...reading my comments from 3 yrs ago I was sorta doubting some of Naomi's claims about her sexual abuse as a child....but now that she has committed suicide and it is all over for her I feel sorta guilty that I doubted her pain and her motives....RIP Naomi...the pain is over...
@@glennweeks7176 It takes guts to admit to shortcomings that we all have. I can relate to this statement because I used to think my mom was exaggerating some of her back pain when I was a kid but now I've had the same pains from arthritis and the familial bad back and I feel bad for doubting her and I know that many people doubt me and it makes you feel alone in the world and causes you to isolate.
Sometimes it’s easier to tell your problems to a stranger than to your family. There are many painful things in my past that I could never vocalize to my family.
Glenn Weeks, I appreciate how you can admit that maybe you were wrong. Sadly, this is why a lot of women don't tell. I was molested by an elderly neighbor when I was 6. Now 55 years later, none of my family knows. I knew something wrong had happened but wasn't sure if it was my fault. I just went on with life and was able to let it go for the most part. If it had been a family member, it may have had a different ending.
What a fucking ignorant statement
I wished they would interview Naomi’s siblings, hear their version of their childhoods. For the longest time I thought she was an only child after the death of her brother when he was in his teens.Turns out she has another brother and a sister also.
I saw a biography about their family.... Naomi's (Diana's) brother Brian died young of cancer (not long after she had Wy) & it devastated her cuz they were so close & almost attached at the hip 💔💔
Oh wow I didn't that! I too would like to hear from the siblings.
They probably let it all go and moved on with their lives.
You only get one, and unfortunately she died still victimized.
I truly am enjoying watching each of these docuseries episodes. I truly do not understand why people come on here and post such negativity. This is still a family with problems throughout their lives just like any one else. They are just trying to let the fans know who they are and where they came from and all. We all have things in our lives that are good and a lot bad that we have had to face and go through and still go through. I know I do. I do not know anyone that is so damned perfect that they never had to go through anything and face not so great times in their lives. So please just have respect for them and what they are trying to let their fans know about their lives. If you do not like it then DON'T watch these. They are good people. They are good entertainers and just trying to give their fans the background of their lives. I love the Judds and have such great respect for them.
AMEN!!!
Thanks for saying so!
very well said...my thoughts are if you never stubbed your toe or had your heart ripped out...HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY RELATE TO THE PAIN !! IT TOOK A LOT OF COURAGE TO ALLOW THIS TO BE TAPED...IT HELPED ME SO MUCH...I'm so grateful. My mother and me had a healing time too...it was so amazing to say what needed. GOD is good !!
Or, we can watch it and comment on it. Whether you agree with these observations or not.
The Darci 13 yeah
I love the Judd's music, never realized how, as an entertainer, no matter what your mental focus is on, other than the moment performing, you must put on the show face for the audience. That takes strength and fortitude, and really self control, to hide your feelings, so you don't let your audience/fans see it. In this episode, I see how Naomi's feelings are very hurt from her mother not accepting her invitation to come and see her and grandaughter together singing one last time. Naomi cut her mother slack by not confronting her mother with truth of the hurt she was feeling. Yes, forgiveness is divine. But to give her mother the knowledge for understanding she hurt her feelings, is wisdom for forgiveness.
I empathize with both women so much. Can’t stop watching and tearing up.
Wow...She's 65 and can bend her knees like that?? Amazing!
31:00 I don't know about these guys lecturing Naomi about how she should continue to forgive her mom, who never calls her. I mean, if someone is toxic, you don't have to keep having them in your life.
They mean move on...Naomi died a victim.
Iam going back and rewatching all their old videos. So heartbroken that Naomi is no longer on this earth. I am such a hugh fan of the judds. She was dealing with depression a long time. ❤️❤️them. Rest In Peace Queen Noami.
I am crying, God Bless her and May Rest In Peace.
My heart is breaking this seeing so much pain on Naomis face so very sad. Please respect her and the family. I myself understand her pain unless you have not felt and or gone through this you do not know or understand. I am still here by Gods grace and mercy. Though Naomi has passed away her and the family still need prayers and to be kind and respect them and privacy in their lives. I have been a long time fan of The Judds since the 80s. I love both these beautiful precious ladies. God bless them all. 💕💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷😪
I feel like this series explains so much about the judds and their relationship. Naomi had a fucked up childhood and family. She didn’t know any other way to be but a fucked up mom to Wynona. I had no idea Naomis family was like that. It really explains a lot if you think about it. Only Naomi has the blessing of learning and changing. She has the chance to make things right. Wynona can break the cycle with her children.
Naomi passed the other day and i hope she and wynonna were able to make things right. Reading the statement Ashley and Wy put out makes it sound like she didn’t survive the depression. At least she seems like she gave her daughters a chance to break the cycle.
She was NOTHING like the mother that she had!!
I know this series is old but it still resonates. These two women have a strange relationship.You can see the love there but it seems hidden beneath multiple layers of jealousy, guilt and resentment I sure hope these ladies have worked their issues out by now.
If you think about it, Naomi had Wynonna when she was 17. She probably had a little resentment toward Wynonna because her childhood had to end sooner than her friends' childhoods did. I had a baby young myself and kind of grew up with him. I'm actually surprised I didn't resent him a little myself. I guess I just knew where the blame should be placed (on myself and my then boyfriend, later husband, now ex).
They became best friends. It really wasn't jealousy. Naomi wanted to protect Wynonna and she was a strong strong woman. I understand exactly because I'm like she was a lot. RIP Naomi 4/30/2022.
jealousy??? NAWWW that wasn't it at all. you had a teen mom who grew up with her child who had deep rooted issues and FAME AND MONEY DON'T CHANGE THAT SHIT! they became famous with all that shit that needed healing.
Old? 😂
@@drfreud65 society teaches women and girls that sex is their 'right'. That it 'empowers'. That it is totally unrelated to consequences. Accepting consequences can really remove a LOT of things .. like jealousy, envy etc. You did good.
I love this nobody knows what goes through someone's mind I am sorry for all the things this family has been through still praying for all
I have been riveted to this series since I found it on You Tube. Wow
I truly believe these two women love each other with all that the good Lord allows them to give, even through their pain, and resentment they have a bond that nobody else can match. the bond between mother and child! I wish every parent and child had this kind of bond!
Wynona is truly the strongest in this family. I thank God for her.
that hurts my to think just how bad that her mother messed her daughter up.wynona or Ashley didn't know just how much pain there mother was in.thats she was mentality depressed.may the lord spread 🌞 shine over there 🌑 mess hour.my prayers goes out to the Judd's family.may god bless each and every one of u.now I gotta go bye.
Hmmm? Strong or a spoiled bully?🤔
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 Did you watch the ENTIRE SERIES?
@@laraoneal7284 Wynona has one of the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen, wow😍
@@laraoneal7284 Yes. Actually I did. Wynonna has issues of her Own. She wasn't even kind of warm or encouraging when asking her mom what was bothering her. Nope, she was just causally munching on her taco-salad with a cavalier attitude. So, of course, Naomi just shut down and left it alone.💔
#HurricaneWynona....#ItsALLAboutME😠
I can't watch this anymore. It's too much. I see Naomi struggling so much. I wish she could have made it. I wish she could have triumphed over her depression and trauma. She tried so hard to make it. I actually don't think, from what I see, that this tour was good for her. She had too much she had to tend to. She herself said that after the tour, she and Wynonna became estranged and that she became so depressed she could not get out of bed for two years. I see all of this. So sorry, Naomi. Rest now. Rest.
I believe they were planning another tour. I guess she didn't want to go through that again.
Wynonna is a bully. Very self-absorbed. She tries to present as loving and supportive but HELL NO. She's much, much too Self-centered.
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 Yes, that is the feeling I get. She seems very ANGRY at her Mom, for whatever reason(s). SAD.
@@gloriamaryhaywood2217 Naomi was the one who was self absorbed.
@@GM-jv9jz Naomi was truly caught in a deep clinical frigging Depression. What part of that could not her daughter Understand??? She should have Cut her mom some much needed Slack and ✋ Stop making everything a damn Competition!!!
#GoodGrief😬
I remember as a child, I would listen to Wy music over and over before bed. My Mom would let me live in my own little world. I felt at peace singing her music❤
Fred is great with them all. Good counsellor.
It's hard to be a women. I see it from both sides , from being a daughter and a mother. There are two very different generations clashing with each other. It's like a bad connection and yet despite to make it work. They are both so beautiful and extremely talented. There is no doubt that they love each other deeply. I get it!!
Mamma judd,u are a beautiful soul that will be missed dearly,I may not have known you but I feel u in everyway,your love,your pain..I've suffered from family pain,sexual abuse and deep depression I live with many secrets within family that effect my life,crippling pain.im so sorry u had this..what a beautiful mom,wife and person.RIP naomi 💔
Have been reading some of Ashley Judd’s memoir. Just makes seeing some of this very tough to see. Wynonna & Ashley both are very strong, they’ve been through a lot together. Both are queens in their owns rights. I hope they remain close together. God bless them both. This family deserves our utmost respect & I pray they get aaalll the privacy they need & deserve. 🙏🏻
What a loving Larry he is. God Bless him. He is her rock. I hope Cactus is the same for Wy, he seems like he is. They both deserve loving, healthy male relationships. Parents do not understand the damage they do to their children when they don't show up emotionally & physically for their children and just be there for their kids. It's a pathetic shame & the damage proceeds through generations. Don't become parents if you don't wanna be ones. I know it was different mentality back then but no excuse nowadays. The family cycle & pathology continues & is sadly passed down. Our world is full of half time, once a week parents and we wonder why this generation of children is so emotionally & mentally messed up, scarred & rejected. At least these women are truly trying to change it & working harder than most people do in a day to not allow the past to continue to haunt them & affect their daily lives and relationships. They are truly courageous to peel back the layers; let alone on national tv. Most, would not have the guts to show themselves so raw & unexposed. They are not alone. Families are just like them all over. Kudos to them for being REAL and honest. I pray them healing & peace truly.
Very, nice comment!
@@reginabarron4073 Thank you!
Larry was a CHEATER, before he wed Naomi and AFTER!....
Don't imply or say that she wasn't there emotionally/physically for both her children she did both jobs of being a mother/father to these girl's & she did here best doing both parts she even put herself through nursing school & graduated while being a full time mom in the 1970's which wasn't easy I'm sure for her & it sounds like it to me that her ex-husband wasn't any help to any of them at all after their divorce so in later year's Wynonna is gonna have daddy issues & blame mom for the lack of thing's material wise they didn't have I think 🤔 that it was a pretty genius idea she had by moving them to the mountains with no tv phone's but they had the radio so music braught them together and having to use your imagination be creative enough to entertain themselves growing up and it paid off in the end where they took the talent that god blessed them with & they buildt a singing career together as a duo and later as a solo act yes she has some controlling issues she needs to work on but she w probably wasn't anymore controlling or demanding as any other parent's out there that raised their children in the 1960's-1970's so try not to be so harsh or hateful in your judgement of Wynonna mom or how about don't even judge her at all unless you'd want to be judged for your sinful imperfect lives which I know your all sinners who've done & said thing's you shouldn't of done nor said & you don't get a do-over in your lives
@@susanconklin2945 Obviously you have not heard what NAOMI'S daughters had to say! Nor what NAOMI admitted! You also dont know their back story very well!! Thats not a judgement thats a FACT!🤣🤣🤣🤣
What a series! Love and God blessings to the Judd’s! We love you Naomi!
I love how Wynona looks up at the end as if the song wasn’t about just putting it on Coxs crowd is there but because she felt the song..
For sure youre in a better place now Naomi and found your peace..
my heart is breaking for Naomi, I pray God is keeping her safe and loved
Wynona has the voice of an angel.
So glad I found this doc you series again I remember watching it years ago and absolutely adored it what a heartbreaker
Glad to catch this on youtube. I missed it on television.
Winona smiles more then I've ever seen her smile.
I have never seen such a shut down as Naomi is experiencing. Being a survivor of sexual abuse has to be so hard. I bet her Mom was abused too...
@Andro mache Ignoramus.
Andro mache She was only three years old. That’s about the most ignorant and stupid statement I’ve read on YT and that’s saying something. Like telling someone erases or changes the damage and pain. SMH.
@Andro mache you fucking moron. Sexual abuse is not just sex. 🤮
I’m watching this again now after the tragedy of Naomi losing her battle. It’s been a rough couple days processing all of this yet I’ve never met or known any of these women?! But it sounds to me like the mother (Naomi’s) may have been molested by her own father, therefore Naomi’s dad was also her grandfather? Therefore N’s mom hated her as a result? Didn’t grandma shoot grandpa she said? Is this why? Or am I completely confused still?
RIP and live in peace for Ashley and Wy💕
@@BrookelLakeKC she was molested by an uncle.
I read Naomi’s mom passed away a couple months ago. She lived a long life and I hope she got to say what she needed to. I lost my mom at 12 and would give anything to have a conversation with her
I figured that Naomi's mom would have passed away decades ago
Like Mother. Like Daughter. And the beat goes on and on and on …
Why do people refuse to count their blessings and choose joy? I've experienced childhood rape and sexual abuse, too. It doesn't dominate my life, because I refuse to let the abusers continue to have power over me by living in the pain. I choose joy and see all my blessings. She lives on 500 acres in opulence. She has every possible thing. She has family. What more?? How very sad.
Agree completely with you.
They thrive on remembering pain and strife! They love it! All the attention and pitty they get! Why WOULD Naomi tell this abuse story to her manager ON AIR/TAPED and NOT want Wynonna to know, FAKE!
I’m a 60 year old woman and there is still time when it effect’s me, did you stop and think maybe her memories just started coming back because she lived in denial, everyone heals differently it’s not one size fits all 🤷♀️
You are exactly right! She’s got the world at her fingertips and hitting 70 and just NOW thru this documentary (the whole thing) she’s played the victim… and her mother is still alive… I think maybe she’s picked up some of her moms habits. Naomi should have already resolved this issue , started a foundation with all her MONEY for other victims by now… and was she an actual victim because she keeps saying he TRIED to molest her.. did he? Or did he not? Or did he just try?? Does she help her mom financially? Maybe her mom is pissed because she NEVER hears from her daughter? Something isn’t right in this scenario… they are leaving SOMETHING OUT‼️
No Empathy,despite your experiences.Some people are stronger than others.
She died yesterday. RIP Naomi 💔😭🕊
Both of them, are pretty! I love, the red hair! ❤
Cactus has a good band. Impressed.
I just can’t understand the sadness of these people. They have everything but yet have nothing. So very sad .
At the end of the day, their sh!t stinks just like yours and mine. Young Grace Judd here at 14 and on tour with her mother Wynonna, is now serving an eight year prison sentence for meth manufacturing and distribution (she's set to be released in 2024). Every family is subject to the human condition.
Naomi had everything but the one thing money couldn’t buy which was the love from her mother. She stated that her mother never once said she loved her. My mom would walk through fire for me. It seems like Naomi’s mother was her fire. I pray she’s finally found peace.
Naomi was and always will be such a loving heart and truly is real with her fans cause most of us are just hard working people trying to make it in this world. The beautiful thing is she knows that and even stated most of the songs she has written is what she has seen by us ordinary people. Always stated that the judds are enormously blessed because of God and her wonderful fans. She is looking down on us now and hopefully sees how much we all miss her and love her.
Heartbreaking. I have and always will be there for my child. Hard times and happy times. Watching what Naomi lived with is just unbearable. Her mom wasn't much of a mom. My soul hurts for her, even tho she's gone from us. Mom's please, please be there for your children 🙏.
She was never there for her girls
Yes I feel so sorry for WY. Her mom was never there for her.
Abuse repeats itself , hurt people hurt other people. I really wish they could have gotten therapy much sooner in life. The childhood trauma runs deep with them. Hopefully Wy & Ashley deal with the trauma and heal together. 🙏🏼 ❤
This is very hard to see now. Rest in Power Naomi. There is no stopping you now~ Ride on-
Aw, Naomi cant believe that you’ve suffered with this for so long & alone. Want to HOLD & HUGB🤗 u so closely. So so sad that she wasn’t able to open up to & with Wyonna & allow her the opportunity to try to understand your agony. You guys r not alone! GOD is with you all the way. 🙏
so proud of Wy in this one...she is more mellow and patient...
My heart broke for all of them..but I have to say I’m angry at what Naomi put Ashley through on the day she died. She just told Ashley to go let the friend in and then just went upstairs and shot herself knowing that Ashley would be coming to find her. I’ve always admired the Judds, but I lost my Uncle to suicide by self inflicted gunshot and I saw the impact it had on my Mom (his sister) and Grandmother. I truly hope Naomi is at peace but it’s going to be a long time for Wynnona and Ashley to heal.
I agree
Such a selfish act
To let her child suffer by finding her. I don't think she knew what her mom would such a thing. I suffer from depression. I am bi polar and struggle to stay positive
If I was going to kill myself I would not want to have my child find my body. Wynonna there was nothing you could do to prevent her from doing this. She knew what she was about to do. WY you have done everything you could do. It is time for you to spread your wings and be the angel your mom would want. Singing is a talent that God gave you. Now is your time to shine. I believe she can be with you. My mother abandoned me. I ended up in a Orphanage then at 2 1/2 I was sent to a Orphanage
I found my birth mother. Not a good thing so I just count my blessings instead of dwelling on the negative
She was a alcoholic. I did give her a beautiful funeral but could never call her mother
She was evidently very self centered
They will do almost anything when we get old and ugly after being told how beautiful we are
I guess she got tired of the fight. I am bipolar. The disease takes a tole.
I totally agree. I feel for Ashley most of all. She will never forget that sight. Stay strong Ashley.
Watching them shoot guns in this series is eerie now. Fly high Naomi ❤️
Just read that her daughter Gracie has gone to jail for 8 years...so sorry to hear that.
Moira Jilani yeah she’s out now
For what?
@@reginabarron4073 drugs & selling em
@@reginabarron4073 manufacturing Meth
Wow. 😳😳😳
Brilliant docu series, wish there was more
Is it an Age thing? Why are people SO Surprised by this type of mother-daughter dynamic?
This IS normal, by Generation...
Something, many will Never understand. Because, they DIDN'T Have to Live it... Some people are lucky, and, can process quickly, others, suffer for life, while attempting to protect those They Love. A person Learns "what love is"... from their Elders. I'm in my 40's, ... I was raised in the same basic times... I KNOW the pains, others will Never Understand.
They are all such beautiful women, and STRONG!!
The Docuseries still brings me to tears they are so much like my mom and I not only that but the family.
OMG 😳... They're life is,was so much like me and my mom's, this had me remember childhood,trauma, I cried through so much of this,
Naomi looked so fragile when she was praying. She loved her daughter! I love NAOMI! Rip beautiful lady!
Naomi Judd’s relationship with her mother and her daughter reflects similarity I feel with my mother also my daughter. Very painful in both ways. I understand her pain is very deep and it won’t ever change either. As Wynona said, moms and daughters relationships are one of the most complex relationship! I loved my mom deeply but she’s managed to make my emotions scarred by things unsaid between her and I. Now it’s too late because she’s gone to that “other side” where spirits exist. But I’ve had the times with my daughter to connect with very deeply, however, I still felt unfulfilled feelings which mattered to us both. Now it’s too late with her also, because she’s joined her grandmother to the “other side.” Unfair, very very unfair that my daughters been taken away from me so soon! It should have been me first, not her! I am so anguished about that. It’s against the natural order! It should have been me first, NOT My Daughter!! What the hell is that!!!
Yes, so watching this series documentary subject, I do implicitly understand and sympathize with both woman’s points of view. I really do. Such deep complexity of emotions which can not be worded, even through the deep sharing, it is just too complicated.
Glad they are trying to work through it and try to connect before it is too late. Naomi’s mom seem very difficult woman, mine was also. You know the term “in spite of her nose” or something like that, that was my mother too. Perhaps it is the way it’s supposed to be, and it’s something deeply prevalent and cannot be something to be mended.
Mother, daughter, and the mothers mother…really is a complexion that’s meant to be. A woven spider web that is delicate but strong and just a bit of touch and it stirs all the way to its core. COMPLEX.
The quote is “some people will cut off their nose to spite their face.”
I was fortunate to have a wonderful caring mother but she could get obsessed with talking about wrongs done 60 years ago by her mother. She is in heaven and I got to read the Bible and play hymns for her in her final days at a hospice house. Before that I could only talk to her through the nursing home window because of Covid. Due to a stroke her language was garbled but the last few times I could talk to her she said “Jesus is all that matters” over and over in between incoherent muttering so I know God helped her work through some things before He took her. I had a poor relationship with my father so I don’t know which is worse. Bad father or bad mother?
Wynona and Naomi fought all the time
Now is your time to shine
Prayers coming your way
This breaks my heart
i love these women. Wynona Im so sorry over the tragic loss of your mother.
Loved them since day one. Going to miss mama, & I wish Wy, Ashley, Larry & the rest of the family the best. This family has given us so much & I wish I had a way to pay it back
My grandma was this also yet this woman was playing on her family . Her own mom Pauline was holding back . I watch this after she is gone . Love Wynonna her voice will carry on love her ♥️♥️🎼 Rise up and be your self.
So many lessons here for me as a mother and my inadequacies as a parent for my children...of course time allows us to see the wrongs we are responsible for and the hope of making amends but I understand through some of this why my son is so broken. Great lessons here for us all...and for those with snide remarks about the "me me me syndrome" .. it is a docuseries folks...so THAT is the focus. Mocking their pain is exactly why you need to go find something else to watch...It is just disrespectful to mock anyone's pain. We all process it differently and over our own time...Blessings to the Judd's and my hope for them to find that place of peace they are desperately seeking.
“I don’t want Wy to know…” as she sits down with anyone who will listen to the same story over and over.
Really. She can tell strangers but not her daughter?
I'm so sorry for Naomi her mother didn't show up for the performance. RIP Naomi. Blessings to Wynonna, Ashley, and Larry.
I know how it feels to feel hurt.
My mom never wanted to raise me she never wanted to be a mom and because of her not being there and not wanting to be a mom that hurt me and I don `t see her as a mom. I was raised by my uncle from when I was born tell I was three years old, and from three years old to 19 years old I was raised by my grandfather and now he is 81 with a lot of bad health problems and he will be lucky to make it 2-3 more years.
Animal Lover So sorry for u...my daughter suffers from a hereditary mental illness and i am raising her little girl.
This dynamic i know very well.
Its heartbreaking
Animal Lover k
So sad to think her brain was so painfull she just blew it away,,,may her gently soul fly hight with the angles 💖💓💓
I am just seeing this documentary....I can honestly tell you I believe that we are parents by how we were raised....I struggled to be a good mother....did the best I could ...tried to change some things....but there are things we all keep inside...you never knew when that is going to come out....Naomi had dark things her life....she held them in until she just burst open....some things heal once you have said them out loud....people in here commenting....and its their right to do so....but it makes me wonder....do they not have things they hide...if not they are so lucky....Naomi had a bad childhood from prob a dysfunctional family....it got passed on....happens a lot....at least they want to fix it....remember we are all products of our environment.....learn something from them ......
I’ve never seen a woman (Naomi) so tightly wound. And they don’t LOOK at each other! Nobody looks in each other’s eyes. Two beautiful and talented women, separated by many of the same things.
Tightly wound? She suffered from parental neglect and severe depression. Wtf is wrong with you?
That damn baby talk needs to go
This episode has made me cry. My mum is so much like your mum Naomi. At every turn were rejected cos our mother's are scared of not having control over us regardless of our ages. It's our job to make sure our children don't feel the way our mother's make us feel. Xxx
Anxiety, social anxiety, not showing up..... emotionally not available...♾️♾️♾️🥀🥀🩰🩰😌life is hard.. sorrow and joy.....I miss my mom so much....tears..kept all her letters....thank God.....pain is deep💔💔💔
Lots going on here. I think this tour they just had started set off these feelings for Naomi. Not being the spotlight, you could see her trying to pull it from Winona in this series. Whatever it brought up for her, she took her life on the Eve of receiving a great achievement award. I'm sorry for them all. I'm sure this will mess w Winona's head forever. What did I say to mom, what could I have done differently. Tragic. 💔💔
Naomi is so strong yet so fragile 💝😢my heart hurts for the whole family
I went through it myself, my Son died of a accidental overdose Sept 18th 2017 💐
I watched the farewell concert. Naomi pointed out her mom, my first thought was how cold. You would think she would be glowing and proud of her daughter and grand daughter. Her mom is a cold fish. I feel bad for Naomi she will never have the relationship with her mom that she longs for. Does not matter what Naomi does her mom will never change. So sad her mom is not proud of her. I dont have a relationship with my mom. She decided years ago by not agreeing to counciling. Much needed.
Wy and Cactus are adorable so together - they are the definition of what every couple should be ! ❤❤
I understand how she feels about her relationship with her mom. It becomes impossible to do the same things over and over again in hopes of a relationship with a parent who does not want to be there for you. People on the outside of the relationship will pressure you to be the bigger person when you have reached a point that you have walk away.
They will always be my favorite seen them in person and great duo!
Rest in peace beautiful lady! ♥️
I love your music. So beautiful
😢love these two beautiful ladies , I still feel Naomi around everywhere, trying to heal people as she always did her spirit all over the place