I Met My Boyfriend At The Brothel I Work At

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 134

  • @anneredmoon
    @anneredmoon Год назад +72

    I love how "real" the conversation got with you and Jasmine. She was even comfortable enough to ask you if you are gay. 💙

    • @vivianmiller617
      @vivianmiller617 Год назад +1

      I didn't hear that part what his answer was. Matt is so handsome & a great interviewer.

    • @anneredmoon
      @anneredmoon Год назад +1

      @@vivianmiller617 3:37 :)

    • @vivianmiller617
      @vivianmiller617 Год назад +1

      @@anneredmoon thank you

  • @trentoncrisp
    @trentoncrisp Год назад +149

    This is the safest way the girls can offer this service... They look after the customers health and their own... 2 consenting adults doing a transaction and there is nothing wrong with it.....

    • @clausstimpfig3803
      @clausstimpfig3803 Год назад +4

      agree 100 %

    • @foxella13
      @foxella13 Год назад +3

      Ok but what's with all the pausing, hesitation? The "..."

    • @MrGert150
      @MrGert150 Год назад +2

      In a just society they shouldn’t have to…

    • @amberrodriguez851
      @amberrodriguez851 Год назад +3

      @@foxella13 probably just thinking. Don’t look too much into it 👌🏽

    • @trentoncrisp
      @trentoncrisp Год назад

      @@foxella13 Giving people who read the comment time to think and add their own thoughts....

  • @todcarver1746
    @todcarver1746 Год назад +68

    Matt you are such a great interviewer, you can tell people are just so comfortable talking with you!! Keep it up, I love your videos!

  • @michaelwerner3430
    @michaelwerner3430 Год назад +33

    Greetings from Chiapas, México. I just came across your videos this past week. I'm an older queer man that lost his husband of 15 years 3 years ago. It's incredibly therapeutic to watch , because you're such a talented interviewer that shows so much empathy and concern. Too often modern society (in the last 50-60 years) has become so brazen and very often blames and judges the victim. I just had to subscribe. Thanks again. Sending love from Chiapas.

    • @tracywest2065
      @tracywest2065 4 месяца назад

      Hello sir, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love to you from South Carolina!

  • @MarLene-ju8fr
    @MarLene-ju8fr Год назад +40

    I love you giving a voice to the most silenced yet in demand industry.

  • @jessicajones7426
    @jessicajones7426 Год назад +14

    This is the most amazing series I has ever seen. I'm so glad Matt is the one to tell these wonderful human beings story. Thank you so deep from my heart. Matt this is your true calling...😇🥰😍

  • @peterjaro6804
    @peterjaro6804 Год назад +65

    There is an English Documentary maker called Louis Theroux who tried to do what you have done in Nevada Brothels, but he was not half as successful as you. You got the girls to tell you the truth about why they were there, their tragedies (such as the woman recently loosing her husband in an MC accident) and he never came close to the trust you received from the girls. Some said their families did not know what they were doing, but they came clean WITH YOU on camera!!! You should do programs for PBS. ...or perhaps, they might still see you as a bit too 'edgy'!

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  Год назад +31

      Thank you so much Peter. Louis Theroux is definitely an idol of mine ❤️ your comments mean so much to me!

    • @Blondicakes
      @Blondicakes Год назад +3

      I think Louis is a great journalist but this stuff is still controversial, but even more so back in the day. I think women also feel more safe around gay men and will open up more to them. This interviewer, also is doing a great job!😊

  • @amazingabby25
    @amazingabby25 Год назад +21

    Matt, I can’t get enough of these! I’d love a follow up with some of these people especially the amazing soul from the alien brothel and more

  • @arnb8907
    @arnb8907 Год назад +35

    Yes. Yes and yes. But, Matt…WE NEED LONGER VIDEOS!! Please?! This video was so amazing. I love how you were able to interview a patron. I love seeing different perspectives. Super dope! Keep up the great work!❤

  • @lisabaker1796
    @lisabaker1796 Год назад +8

    Thank all people who have watched or interviewed with Collin. I love each of you for sharing. Big hugs

  • @rebeccamartin8916
    @rebeccamartin8916 Год назад +13

    THIS ONE SEEMED MORE ON THE SAD SIDE.....NOT SURE WHY.....THANK YOU FOR THE INTERVIEW

  • @hexnotic
    @hexnotic Год назад +6

    this is so cool to be able to see the inside of the other houses, thank you for show casing them!

  • @AnneAndersonFoxiepaws
    @AnneAndersonFoxiepaws Год назад +4

    I am loving your films, you're truly empathic and are showing this to be the positive thing it can be if people were more accepting, like you. I think every subject I have seen you cover is done well and you truly connect with your interviewees. I hope your channel keeps growing and were I more financially stable, I would definitely be a patron of yours. Jasmine is gorgeous and she's doing the right thing because I think a woman who has worked is the best possible person to be running a place like this. I wish her every success.

  • @shawnelliot8511
    @shawnelliot8511 Год назад +4

    I hope someone really appreciates and loves you man. Sending you nothing but kindness and love. Just remember to respect yourself.

  • @erinsomes2791
    @erinsomes2791 5 месяцев назад

    Just want to say, I love the voice you give to these ladies. It's so easy to make a judgement call by so many people who are so far removed from this world. I love the fact that you provide a platform for these people to speak their truth. As a society, we need to understand and accept people who choose to live their lives on their terms, freely. Just because you don't understand why they do things their way, doesn't make it wrong. Live and let live and spread as much love as you can!

  • @amberrodriguez851
    @amberrodriguez851 Год назад +17

    Jasmine is seriously the CUTEST thing ever!

  • @aigatulifau6127
    @aigatulifau6127 Год назад +17

    I am a 45year old Mama of a 5year old daughter!! Since my teens I have always wanted to be House Manager of a Brothel or owning my own house! I never had the confidence to follow my dreams to provide a safe space for both woman and their clients!! I ended up being a mental Health Nurse! I am now divorced a single Mama and not able to work atm due to an injury! Watching ur videos has ignited me! Matt you are an incredible Human and u connection with others to share their journey is showing how Humans are so amazing!!

    • @RBNY
      @RBNY Год назад

      So your dream is to be a pimp?? Society is doomed.

    • @susannehuber3996
      @susannehuber3996 Год назад +3

      You are exactly the person that SHOULD manage a brothel. I think this is a wonderful idea. ❤

    • @PrincessDie187
      @PrincessDie187 Год назад +2

      Do it.

  • @maddart4445
    @maddart4445 Год назад +2

    Wow just Wow. Amazing interview. Give me more!

  • @NYLI11
    @NYLI11 Год назад +2

    That’s very interesting because the manger at the mustang ranch was trying to get me to work there. She tried several times. I didn’t know it wasn’t allowed/illegal.

  • @lisabaker1796
    @lisabaker1796 Год назад +7

    . I was raised in San Francisco area. Working girls and guys there should have a safe place to worklike there. I love your life emotional descriptions

    • @amazingabby25
      @amazingabby25 Год назад +1

      I would love if they it legalized it here, it would help so much and avoid so much trauma and danger tbh

  • @clausstimpfig3803
    @clausstimpfig3803 Год назад +3

    my guy and me watched this with a lot of pleasure. excellent content thnx

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  Год назад

      Thank you Claus! Appreciate you always commenting, you are the best

    • @clausstimpfig3803
      @clausstimpfig3803 Год назад

      @@OurQueerLife matt you are the best from the (my) cop and me. thnx he is off duty and enjoy now our dinner in san.....

  • @spookykiki
    @spookykiki 5 месяцев назад

    New sub here 😍 super love this brothel series, I’m a dancer in Oregon and really enjoyed seeing this side of the industry. Thank you!

  • @Shannon71172
    @Shannon71172 5 месяцев назад

    This Brothel series has been Amazing ! I am so intrigued and interested in it…When I was younger I sometimes fantasized about doing this kind of work, but of course I think the stigma part of it got to me…..Watching these videos have made me feel regretful I never gave it a chance, at least tried it for a little while…..🙏🏼❤️

  • @503ashkatchem4
    @503ashkatchem4 Год назад +3

    I admire jasmine a lot she’s sounds wonderful

  • @mackblalock3487
    @mackblalock3487 Год назад +3

    I love your stuff! Recommend you to my friends!

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 Год назад

    Jasmine is beautiful. I wish her the best on owning the brothel. Much success and health to all.
    Matt I enjoy your channel.

  • @DarkPrincessOfLight
    @DarkPrincessOfLight Год назад

    Amazing video thank you for sharing these stories

  • @lb8141
    @lb8141 Год назад

    Longer videos pleeeeeeaaaaaase! I love your videos. Jazmine is so lovely and down to earth.

  • @Krista823
    @Krista823 Год назад +7

    Another great video. Awesome job with this series.

  • @SnapshotS2U
    @SnapshotS2U Год назад +6

    Matt you should visit other countries. Currently I'm in Malaysia and have great interesting stories 💖😊

    • @phishlipsable
      @phishlipsable Год назад +2

      yes! idk how to make it happen, yet i would love to see the channel find resources to expand the narrative ;)

  • @troylapersonerie
    @troylapersonerie Год назад +2

    Loved it!

  • @amberatartimec2564
    @amberatartimec2564 6 месяцев назад

    This was lovely. Tts a job, that you should, for the most part, enjoy.

  • @newworldlord643
    @newworldlord643 Год назад +6

    I hope her relationship works out seriously be WE ALL NEED LOVE 🥺❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @Gaga__
    @Gaga__ Год назад +21

    I have done sex work in brothels and undeniably it's excellent money but it wasn't something I could sustain for more than 10 years personally.

    • @alextijerina1284
      @alextijerina1284 Год назад +1

      Is it because of the emotional or physical demands? Because Airforce Amy is in her 50's and I guess still working.

    • @Gaga__
      @Gaga__ Год назад +20

      @@alextijerina1284 Essentially it's exhausting to be "in character " all of the time. The clients are paying $600 an hour for a believable performance. No matter how bored, tired, apathetic you feel that day.

    • @alextijerina1284
      @alextijerina1284 Год назад +7

      @@Gaga__ Thank you because it is good to hear from a person in this profession who does not sugar coat it.

    • @Gaga__
      @Gaga__ Год назад +20

      @@alextijerina1284 You're welcome. I'm also tired of the sugar coating and making it seem like it's a viable career choice for any woman. Reality can be making great money but it takes a toll on you. If you're a straight woman? Kiss goodbye your ability to ever trust a man again to be faithful. Because you service married and partnered men that will tell their wives in your earshot that they love them and are at the grocery store/gym/work.
      So much more but yes unless you're dead inside it has a negative effect.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Год назад +12

      @@Gaga__I’ve been there (for 15+ years), and I can so relate. I’m an introverted, autistic, academic and creative type (very in my head), in my personal life. The expectation of being the fun/carefree/party girl is great, and hard to sustain. I’m naturally a nurturer, so cultivating a motherly counselor/support role when I got old enough for men to read that correctly helped some…when I ran into guys who were dealing with a breakup, crisis, or trauma. It’s a more natural way I relate to people. However, most guys are there for a more escapist experience, and not a heart to heart. I’m transitioning into the counseling field, having previously done victim and other systems advocacy. My experiences have given me valuable information about human behavior and counseling techniques, as well as insight into addiction, which is common in the business and other marginalized groups. Keeping on that fun, social persona when it’s basically exhausting for me personally, was extremely difficult! The demands of being intensely focused on another’s needs and experience can be exhausting for anyone, from what I’ve heard. A non-transactional sexual experience is more about mutual expression, and about both people’s needs. No matter how much clients want a mutual experience, the fact that they’re paying for and expecting it adds pressure to either sustain that energy and openness all day, or put on a convincing performance. Although I’m not opposed to SWs being genuinely passionate with clients, I personally am not physically attracted to very many people. While I have a positive view of sex, and don’t judge people who have more superficial attraction, it generally takes an emotional spark to get me aroused. When I had untreated bipolar disorder, I was more physically inclined toward random encounters, so I do understand how that works for some people! I was still only attracted to a minority of clients (as opposed to none after that, because there wasn’t an emotional connection), but I was more on the same wavelength as my clients. I think that’s part of why some SWs use substances at work (or PNP)…some get in that raw physical mode, that way. I’ve done it in the past, but wasn’t able to leave it at the door, so I’m in recovery. It’s possible, and easier, for me to work without them. I have enjoyed providing a good service and pulling off a good performance, since treatment, but that’s what it is. It’s not distressing…just exhausting, to perform all day. My sex life at home was even better, once I focused my desires on my love object. It’s not everybody, but it’s me. I have no objection to giving others their tryst fantasy! There’s nothing wrong with performing…it was a hobby of mine for years. It can result in burn-out, though, especially if it’s your only source of income!

  • @calvinguile1315
    @calvinguile1315 11 месяцев назад +2

    Jasmine is adorable ❤

  • @The_Salty_Spitoooon
    @The_Salty_Spitoooon Год назад +2

    Another great video!!

  • @Bryan-xx4xi
    @Bryan-xx4xi 11 месяцев назад +1

    Jasmine is exquisite! Gorgeous woman! 😍😍🥰🥰

  • @kryskarpik4162
    @kryskarpik4162 Год назад +2

    Jasmine is soooo beautiful omg ❤

  • @viceb7
    @viceb7 Год назад +7

    Ok I'll say it. This place vs mustang ranch is miles different. Mustang is super professional, seems very organized, clean and safe. This place seems like they're trying but not quite any of that to be honest. Like even the allowed time to leave without a recheck for stds or having real security is sketch. These girls seem like they could be a little f'd up to be honest... Just getting a girl to fill out an application while drunk as f directly after her husband died tragically... Idk yall. Even the lighting makes me feel like I'm on xanxs.

  • @phishlipsable
    @phishlipsable Год назад +3

    the only bad thing about these videos is youtube puts the quality @ 480p EVERYTIME!!!

  • @richanthon
    @richanthon 5 месяцев назад

    stunning and smart. good for her!

  • @alexrobinson3385
    @alexrobinson3385 Год назад +3

    Nice!

  • @CassidyP143
    @CassidyP143 Год назад

    I love your videos

  • @evelynmarx6212
    @evelynmarx6212 Год назад +1

    Dam I understand the girl with the long black hair ! But not the other two ! Interesting

    • @urmanascrewed
      @urmanascrewed Год назад

      Unfortunately, girls aren't exactly lining up to work at the legal brothels especially the rural ones in NV. So sometimes they have to take what they can get. One that I know of is more selective, but sometimes there will be only 1 or 2 girls working at a time.

  • @jaky411
    @jaky411 Год назад +8

    I know this might sound judgemental but I feel like they should higher the age to at least 21 and not 18…

    • @samanthasims7123
      @samanthasims7123 Год назад

      Its not at all i say even older than thst its like wth dammm

    • @ogadlogadl490
      @ogadlogadl490 Год назад

      So you can go to war and die for your country at 18 but you can’t provide a honest living for your self at 18?

  • @urmanascrewed
    @urmanascrewed Год назад +1

    This sounds made up, but that situation almost happened to me... I did not think it was a good idea, but the girl concluded she would be my gf at that particular brothel. I was ok with that and I didn't want any drama so I always would pick her if she was there and I liked her too, but there is a big difference between a brothel trip and a relationship.

  • @marysunshine5587
    @marysunshine5587 Год назад +6

    Lots of escorts are empaths

  • @djchazzimmerman
    @djchazzimmerman Год назад

    Where is part 2 of this

  • @joaquinanthony206
    @joaquinanthony206 Год назад

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @arnb8907
    @arnb8907 Год назад +3

    When you like the video before you watch it.

  • @Firode9856
    @Firode9856 Год назад +2

  • @carolinerowles5951
    @carolinerowles5951 Год назад +1

    Women can be more vicious than men, I speak from experience as an intravenous drug user.

  • @gloriahufnagel5556
    @gloriahufnagel5556 Год назад +3

    I always wonder why women, who want to be sex workers and are not on drugs , why they don’t work at the brothels? It’s safe me the money us great!

  • @mchowdhury3184
    @mchowdhury3184 Год назад +3

    Is it too scary getting a real job?

  • @maddart4445
    @maddart4445 Год назад +1

    Oh the brunette

  • @Heothbremel
    @Heothbremel Год назад +1

    🥰♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @MikeManning-p8u
    @MikeManning-p8u 10 месяцев назад

    Why are there no questions about STD's and drugs use when you interviewed the sex workers? Most people think that a lot of sex workers have STDs and they are drug addicts. I'm surprised you didn't these girls what they do to protect themselves against STDs and does the brothel allowed the girls to use drugs while they live there.

  • @y2ksurvivor
    @y2ksurvivor Год назад

    They're clearly on downers. Can't blame them though.

  • @thomasconnors6755
    @thomasconnors6755 Год назад +4

    This has been very interesting Matt I still say you should be gay brothels listen to be left out good job really very interesting I love you Matt

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much Tom, there are no gay brothels in the United States. I wish there were!

    • @thomasconnors6755
      @thomasconnors6755 Год назад

      @@OurQueerLife But back in the 80s in New York City do used to be gay bathhouses they were fun Didn’t have to pay anybody but there was a lot of sex those days are gone

    • @Gaga__
      @Gaga__ Год назад +1

      Rent boys have always been part of queer life.

    • @michaelwerner3430
      @michaelwerner3430 Год назад

      There are gay brothels in 0kaces like The Netherlands.

  • @maddart4445
    @maddart4445 Год назад

    Your lashes are on fleak

  • @foxella13
    @foxella13 Год назад +3

    As a Gay Male Guy, I would like to see more Gay Males in your videos. More representation. "I would like to see it"

    • @alextijerina1284
      @alextijerina1284 Год назад +1

      I think most viewers are interested in seeing the girls.

  • @Notbothered1
    @Notbothered1 Год назад

    Yuck 8

  • @ginorusselwilliams9461
    @ginorusselwilliams9461 Год назад +3

    Most women can't give other women good advice, because they're emotional beings.

    • @susannehuber3996
      @susannehuber3996 Год назад

      Every human being has emotions and is emotional. You, for example, are degrading women because you feel like a lesser being. You are a small person and you want to feel big. You’re a sad, sad man. I really feel for you. Looking at all the comments you posted with so much hate for women IT SHOWS how much you’re longing for a woman to care for you and that you are obsessed with women. You cannot deal with your emotions in an healthy way so you decide to degrade and hate women. Dam, your life must be so extremely miserable 😭 I feel so sorry for you.

    • @shylathiel
      @shylathiel Год назад

      Lol I'm so glad I ran across your comment while trolling the comments on a bunch of videos from this channel. I'm in an advice mood to and I'm a very emotional woman. I claim to be an emotional intuitive empath, and a reiki hypnotist, so you can identify me as exactly the type you refer to as bad emotional advice giver. So here we go, lmao you are physically made out of emotions. Your molecules are holding together because magnetically charged particles being instructed and constructed(the emotion being the real observer not even the mind ,the mind is just one of your interpretation tools it's not your entire being, it's a very significant but small piece currently in development) emotionally charged radio signals in a nutshell. Bypassing emotions or emotional constipation is literally the reason we have such a cold cruel world. Thank you for embracing your sensitive aspects and learning to acknowledging your emotions and the emotions you observe in others like it's a science experiment, the right mixture bringing our species progression leaping forward, instead of the mixture the implodes us. Even small implosions bring us physical disease as our cells obey the chemicals and hormones that are obeying the emotional state within us. Have fun. Take
      Fear and courage as a married couple. Compassion as the bride ,gratitude as the best man and the guests at the wedding are authentic with intergrity....the verse in the bible edited to say jesus is the groom the church is the bride is really covering up an emotional formula that is basically what the law of attraction is trying to figure out and basically what quantum physics will eventually break down to in the form of practice. Negative emotions are the first emotions ever felt when feeling was first feel-able. Compassion was the first word ever spoken but not as we think not a word word, it was a vibrational tone that formed into electrical strings that climbed off the base of a black hole, haltered to the black hole like your house sits on a basement, then another vibrational tone was created, courage/love, charged particles and started sticking to the compassion and gratitude is the top of this spectrum it's like manifesting on steroids, and sure these are just words, they are the word, the real ones. It's time to see all the shadows ❤with the entire spectrum speaking its broadcast, it's what will bring heaven to earth. Thank you for reading my book. I needed a good rant.

  • @carltwidle9046
    @carltwidle9046 Год назад +2

    Poor women servicing these horrible men. Don't they respect themselves. The men don't care about them, except their selfish needs.

    • @Thrifty032781
      @Thrifty032781 Год назад

      You are projecting your attitude about sex onto them. What makes you think they don't like servicing men? If they didn't they could always quit.

  • @chandanpatil9936
    @chandanpatil9936 Год назад

    Guys just don't have kids that too girl,u know where they all end up

  • @foxella13
    @foxella13 Год назад +2

    No offense but why are you focusing so much on the brothels? I feel like you've done enough on them. :/

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  Год назад +12

      I hear you Marco! Thanks for commenting. For me, I never want to say no to an interesting story - After I did episodes at Mustang Ranch, it seemed that I had access into the brothels in a way no one else ever has, and with every Brothel I go to, I meet different ladies and hear different stories that I learn and grow from. But don’t worry, other episodes are already in the line-up that I think are much different and that you hopefully enjoy!!

    • @foxella13
      @foxella13 Год назад +1

      @@OurQueerLife yay, thank you for your response and what you do for others. Even if it's to get their story out there. I still watch because I know everyone has a different life experience. Especially interesting from the Mormon ones.

    • @Lizzie__Lizzz
      @Lizzie__Lizzz Год назад +1

      @@foxella13 I'm loving the brothels Marco but I see what you're saying. It would be cool to hear from more male presenting interviewees..... although I would imagine that it may be a more difficult interview to ascertain? I don't know.

    • @foxella13
      @foxella13 Год назад

      @@Lizzie__Lizzz you mean difficult to find more male interviews, mmm I don't quite think so. I'm surprised he's had luck with the brothels but I suppose upon reviewing his videos he's got the green light.

    • @Lizzie__Lizzz
      @Lizzie__Lizzz Год назад +1

      @@foxella13 I did mean "male presenting interviewees" as I said. They must be more difficult to find (ascertain) otherwise there would be more. I would imagine that as a male presenting escort, there's far more risk in putting yourself out there to be interviewed in terms of legalities and such as it's pretty much illegal in every country in the world to be a gay male prostitute.....I have done some research on the subject and I think this seems to sum it up... "The term the "Invisible Man" has been coined to represent the lack of proper representation towards the males involved in the sex industry"

  • @gizmofunk4433
    @gizmofunk4433 Год назад

    🤮🤮🤮😨

  • @emd1494
    @emd1494 Год назад +3

    "You have to apply" they don't scout people to work there... ummm ok then I take up issue with the lady in the other ep who had only lost her husband 4 months ago and made friends with the owner who she said suggested she works there 😑 then helped her fill out the application...as she was SO drunk. Is this for real?
    This.... just became a issue for me and the problem with you and your channel. People think they are watching to see the underbelly but all you are doing is touching the surface .. very lightly 🪶 I might add and pandering to them and their lifestyles even when given reason for concern.