Why Phillip Chose The Philippines over Thailand. Every Man Has a Story
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I had the pleasure of meeting and chatting briefly with Phil while he was waiting to do this interview. He impressed me with his honest, straightforward demeanour and his understanding of the culture here.
I hope we will see him on the channel again soon.
That’s the fair dinkum Australian way.
Philip understood the Filipino culture specifically about supporting the family. However, there are certain degrees on how this is being necessary and it depends on what part of the Philippines you came from.
For us in the high land, we do support our family specially if we are the bread winner as they say, but if possible we do not want to be a burden to any member of the family so we will work hard to meet our own needs. We do not ask for our sisters or brothers or our parents for help not unless we really need help. However, if you are the one with a good job having a better life, you just give help anyway even nobody is asking for help if you know your brother or sister or parent is having a hard time. The point is, to us in the high land, we try not to become a burden to our family if we can, but at the same time, we try to support whoever is having a hard time.
I know that some people, once they have family member working abroad or having a good job, they will become too dependent on that person even if they have the ability to work for themselves. The sad thing is some people tolerate this.
I agree.
Where is the highland
@@antonioespanol2123 If I'm not mistaken he meant we from the Cordilleras(Igorots)
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@@antonioespanol2123 highland means cordillera region or igorots people...from the northern parts of Luzon comprises...baguio,benguet,mt.province,abra,kalinga,apayao,ifugao...proud cordilleran here...
Just finished the whole video, funnily enough, my husband is 21 years older than me and I exactly said the same thing to him!! My Dad died at 50, my Mum at 60! What chances have I got?!! So I gave my husband a blessing that if I die before him he can have another Filipina! Haha
That was a great interview, raising very relevant issues. The differences between Thai and Phillipines “political” views are new to me. Thanks heaps guys!
This kind of content is what it makes me grateful the Internet exists, regardless of the other bad effects on society.
Phil is so insightful & articulate. “They wheel you out of the closet for holidays”, makes sense.
Bud, you have saved me 1000's of $ and a million in headaches and heartaches, thank you
How wonderful to hear from a gentleman who fully thinks things through rather than just complaining about what is wrong with everything in the West. Thank you for posting the interview
The sequel often falls short; this interview was as good as the first. Thank you, Mark and
Phillip!
Pretty straight forward gentleman. Good understanding of the Filipino culture. Totally agree with the language issue.
A very good interview with Philip.
He makes so much sense and is very respectful. I am Australian and similar age. I am visiting Bangkok next week on business but am thinking of a quick trip to Dumagette to see its merit.
Philip makes perfect sense.
My destiny is clear. I trust I can get some help logistically on how to get there.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
Allan.. Sydney
You can fly to Silay City Negross occidental.. Silay city international airport then take a long trip by bus to Dumagutte easy way.. You can ask the local in Silay City which bus is to going Dumaguette..
Thank you Miss Eve for your advice. I will look at the flt to Silay city and maybe bus to Dumagette. How long is the bus ride.? Have you done this trip. I tried to check out your channel but no content yet. Cheers.
Or take a direct flight to Cebu Mactan International Airport and in a Cebu city pier take a ferry to Dumaguete.
That was a great interview one of your best. The guy has a great attitude about the Philippines and about life. I’m sure he’ll have more wisdom to share in interview three😊
Wow, I've watched hundreds of hours of interviews and other expat vloggers in the PH and TH since February this year and I have to say that is the best interview I have seen yet! Nothing against anyone else, but Phillip really explains everything so well and your inputs are spot on also. Thanks to both of you!
This man is such a wealth of knowledge and experience. This is going to help out a lot of guys out there. Hope Phillip will be a frequent guest. Excellent interview. All the best to you and Jen.
Great interview again. Both interviews have really opened my eyes and made me think of where I'm heading in life. Thanks Mark and Phil.
You’re Welcome Tartan to my beloved country Philipines! 👍🇵🇭
I salute 👍🙏 to you Sir Philipp you fully undertand the culture and people of the Philippines. Enjoy and live happily with your Filipina wife. Yes, every Man or Woman has own story,😊 experiences in life journey. I follow your Chanel Mr.Mark good luck🍀🍀🍀👍🙏
Hi Mark.. I was really enjoyed watching, interviewing Philip. I want to hear more from him. Im Filipina married to a Canadian, So,, enjoyed. Thanks Philip for sharing your thoughts and views about Philippines. And.. thank you Mark..Take care and your wife. 😄
You guys are so dead on. I’ve been married to a Filipina for 10 years and I am seriously considering making the Philippines our home country.
Me too …..just waiting to get my Social Security
@@mylifethaidiy7045 Wow 😮 I hope Social Security is still available in 24 years 😂
@@youngandfree93 Jedder Your referring to people that only maybe get $800 a month or less. My Social Security is more than what Doctors earn a month. But also I have my retirement from Detroit Edison Company and I also can rent my home out for $1,500 a month. I will be living in the upper class bracket that most foreigners don’t come close to having. But thanks for the thought my friend.
@@youngandfree93 Agreed
@@marcrichard7251 I agree with jedder. Be sure to have an additional source of income beside Social Security.
What a great interview. 😊Thanks Phillip for your candidness and wisdom. Filipino or not, there are a lot of learnings that can be drawn from your sharing. 🙏
Great interview and a lot of sense spoken, i am currently in an LDR with a Filipina although we have already spent time together in the Philippines and are engaged but i had to come back to the UK for work commitments. I am looking to bring my fiance back to the Uk when i visit her again next year and we plan to marry here and then when i eventually retire we will move back to the Philippines.😊
congrats
Congratulations! 👍🇵🇭
Wow nice plan.
I love you love 😘
Hats off to you, Philip for having in depth comprehension on our culture...
Phiilip you're my man - so smart, very logical mindset, and down to earth honest - I'm a retired fil-am living here as well - your obsevations are spot on - my hat's off to you - more power to you and your wife
Your guest explained exactly what I needed to know to understand the difference. The Philippines all the way baby!
Yeah, good discussion about various important topics.
WHEN IS PART 3 WITH PHILLIP COMING??? This gentleman is a store house of priceless information and shared experience I would never have realized I needed. Thanx Mark !!!!
Thanks Bud, Philips humility is so refreshing ! Thank you.
Another great interview. We want more! We want more of Philip!! Do a live q & a with him.
I REALLY ENJOYED THIS VERY INFORMATIVE VIDEO ON THE PHILIPPINES AND FILIPINA WOMEN. THANKS A LOT, I WANT TO GO AND LIVE IN THE PHILIPPINES TO SEE IF I LIKE IT THERE, IF I DO, I WILL LIVE THE REST OF MY LIFE THERE, BECAUSE I'M SO TIRED OF COLD WEATHER IN THE USA 🇺🇸 . THANKS AGAIN!
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
Im originally from the Phil also planning to retire soon now lives here in LA
thank you sir for your kind words about us Filipina. God bless you and take care.
Philip is spot on this guy is just. Sorry I was trying to find the words a great guy great interview thanks fellas
In terms of beaches and natural wonders, i think PH is far more beautiful than Thailand. I've heard so many vloggers who've been to both countries say the same. Palawan alone will blow your mind. No wonder it was named WORLD'S BEST ISLAND in 2020 by Travel + Leisure magazine. Siargao and Boracay were also recognized by Conde Nast publication as among the best in the world. Also, PH won Asia’s Leading Beach Destination (6th time) and Asia’s Leading Dive Destination (4 times straight) at the recent 29th World Travel Awards held in Vietnam. And it's not just beaches and amazing marine life. Our terrain and landscapes are also very diverse too. Go to, say, Baguio and it will look like you're not in Southeast Asia anymore with its pine trees and cool weather. Or go to the mountains and coves of Zambales which looks like those of Canada. Or Batanes which looks like Scotland or New Zealand.
The only problem is that our tourism infrastructure still needs a LOT of improvements. And another negative is that PH is calamity-prone, being in the Typhoon Belt AND the Pacific Ring of Fire. But inspite of all that, Filipinos remain one of the happiest people in the world. Maybe it's because we have learned to look on the bright side and be thankful for the little things.
:)
Another excellent video from Phillip, Mark. Experienced about asia as well as a smart gentleman and respectful of local customs. Towards the end of the video Phillip touched on the Australian Government's policies & attitude to immigration etc ... things have certainly changed since the 1980s....for a few years now the Oz immigration fees are treated as a " profit centre " ... aud $ 9,000 odd application fee etc ... mmm
Totally agree on this regarding mature Aussies ….. I will also be in Phil soon.
As a Filo living in Australia, I completely envy this man's life.
Why? Do you miss Home ?
@@v1705 always. Married to an Australian with kids and mortgage so it's kinda hard to just pack up and leave.
@@PrinceofPeace2000 you are trapped into the western system 😢. Not easy as many people think
He is a man of wisdom. Please put him back on again.
Mark thank you and you have got to get Philip on again for another interview. As a fellow Aussie everything he has shared is true. Once you get to a certain age here in the West you are off the love list. We now live in a youth worshiping society. What I love about S/E Asia is that you are actually valued more as you get older. Thanks for sharing!
Sad to say, your net worth is highly valued by some of those who want desperately to get out of poverty. So be smart and discerning. Be sure to chat with the lady everyday and get to know her family, beliefs, values, financial literacy, etc. May you all find true love here!
Great interview and Phillip knows what he's talking about. All the "Lonely Hearts Club" members without passports would be smart to listen and learn - especially the previous video.
This was a really good interview. I just loved it. Thank you.
I have been watching your videos for a long time and this is my first time commenting. I truly loved this interview. I hope to get to the PI very soon. Love your channel.
Thank you for watching Tony and for taking the time to comment 😀
Welcome Tony to Philippines 🇵🇭
Many thanks, mate. Truly appreciate you sharing your experience and perspective.
Cheers! 🎉
I agree with every word. What a wise man. Superb talk.
Thanks for getting him back
Great interview.
This guy have so much knowledges regarding the Philippine
Hi, Mark & Phil, I enjoyed your interview chat. Phil, you have a good grasp on how things work in the Philippines. Understanding their culture is a must because their ideas could be very different from yours. Behind the scenes, your wife was caught up in the gossip. People making comments about not being married and she never told you, you had to hear it from others. I bet you were upset to think she was struggling and you were not aware of it. This is a woman of high class who has integrity she did not want you to feel pressured. I think once you find a good one that's a keeper they will be your lover, friend, parent, teacher and nurse because you are her husband. Such loyalty as this deserves reward. Build them their house. So that they have security especially if there are kids involved. You will need to live somewhere so why instead of renting buy or build your wife a home, Property over there is cheap. you don't need to spend a fortune. A house on the outskirts of a city is much cheaper than a central one. I would like to hear about your time now in the Philippines.
Take care GOD Bless you and yours, M
Exellent conversation,an insight into the life in s.e asia with vital questions discussed with greater understanding for us all. Now we can make a decision of what is best for the individual, thanks Mark and Aussie.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
you just feel alive in Phillipines .people smile every time you smile
Great interviewer meets articulate guest. Way to go, Mark and Philip! From a Filipina, married to a Filipino, retired, living in California. Can't wait to retire. Where else but Philippines?👌🤞❣
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
@@everymanhasastory me too, am a senior, Filipina, worked in California but now live in my country. With all the comforts that American living bring, why do you think I sill came home to live here.? I love the peaceful & carefree attitude , very little consumerism, not much competition and the real genuiness of my people.I watch your blog every time to make comparisons to the life I have chosen and I tell myself that I made the right choice.I still visit the US every year for 3 months to visit my kids & children & do my medical check ups. More power to you. Philip is a very good guest .
Great interview with a wise and honorable man Mark👍🏻
I listened to every second of interview, while having my morning ☕. Very informative. As always good interview Mark.
My English husband had to pay thousands of £££ for my visa and now my British passport, that doesn't include that we both pay ridiculous amount of taxes between us because we are both working. So yes, somehow I feel that it should be hard enough to get a visa to filter ingenuity. Did I really want to stay put in the UK for a certain amount of time to get this British passport whilst looking at foreigners enjoying 365 days of tropical weather with their Filipina in exotic island in my home country?! I am envious to say the least. My husband and I paid for my British passport financially, emotionally, psychologically and physically so in the future we'll have no difficulties splitting our time between UK and Philippines.
Great interview, mate. 👍👏
Thank you 😊
Once again a very well balanced interview...
I live sometimes in General Santos & I have quite a few pump boats and a mother boat chasing Blue Fin..
I understand some of his mistakes that he has made in the past whereby even now he seems somewhat Psychosomatic...it has taken me years though I have lived somewhat 90% of my life in South East Asia having been born in Melbourne to become part of what is now my culture as a whiteman Filipino.
I dont agree with a lot of his sentiments but of course they are opinions in which it is his right to have.
If he lives here long enough in SEA he will eventually adapt to become apart of the environment & become a lot more aware of his surrounds.
Hopefully my fellow Aussie eventually finds peace...
Bless ninyong duha
Psychosomatic? Not sure what you're getting at, but Phillip seems very level-headed, fair, and knowledgeable to me. He's admitted he's not perfect and has made mistakes, maybe that's what you're talking about? But he's also learned a lot and seems pretty peaceful to me though.
@@Calamity_Jack We all ask in life...who am I, where am I, what am I, why am I & we all get to the point where we learn how little we really do know...he is finding that how he thinks, what he thinks and why he thinks it is what he is becoming....& thats a great start...I dont think he has looked into the mirror and been completely honest with himself...its the most difficult thing to do for a man in life...most men can not, its just to painful...
I am not to judge, for every mistake this man has made I have made 10 to his 1 quite possibly.
For any man or woman who is expat 3 books to read and no I am not promoting..
1. THE WORLD FOR SALE
2. HOW ASIA WORKS
3. ASIAN GODFATHERS
If he had of read these books, he would only have made 1/2 his mistakes whilst being in this part of the world...
Of course tis is all an opinion and means very little apart fro those of us who have made SEA our home.
Wow!! This guy explains it perfectly and he also explains things that I understand now that I never understood before.. another great interview mark.. my original plan was to retire in Thailand but because of all the immigration changes now I will be retiring in the Philippines this December or January.. and now I am engaged to a Filipino girl and that even makes it better because she lives in a small little Beach town that is a wonderful place to live and retire.. I really wish you would interview his wife because I would love to hear her perspective on everything also.. you hit the nail on the head again mark with another interesting and informative interview.. thanks again👍👍
Wow, thanks for the good input about the Philippines sir, proud Filipina here. 😊
@@kenmcleod8618 🙌😃
proud? wtf.
Mark, Part #3 possible? Great interview. Once again everything dead on target. Thanks!!!!
Excellent mark more of this Gentleman God bless
I’m a former Filipina and I know what he’s talking about.
Great interview as always, now we are waiting part 3: business in the PH.
I like your conversation. I hope that you can interview him again. I learned a lot.
excellent video as usual Mark, Phil has such tremendous insight
Thank you very much to both of you Gents from our people
Phil...a very ggod apprisal of Philippine and Thai mentality - you know your subject well. I understand you very much...not irrelevate but I have been Asia in and outfor 40 years - not married sadly due culture. Greetings from Chinaand Malaysia and take good care.
A very good tribute to a Filipina wife/partner.
Great video and Phillip is a great guy! Lots of good options! Really enjoyed it.
Thanks!
I love listening you guys....
Hello Mark - Greetings from Philly - hope to make it out to the Philippines one day! Interesting content - nice work.
Thank you 😊
MARK & PHIL's TED TALK!!
Thailand is a very proud country..The Thai govt feel that English is not a language that needs to be spoken or taught to the younger generation …The king believes that mandatory English classes in grade school is an unnecessary expense and he does not endorse….it’s a shame really…Thailand has so much potential ..I mean their Wi-Fi and electricity supply ( zero brownouts) is better than any Asian country in the world but their lack of spoken English is just one of their many weaknesses..
It's a good thing the Filipina women don't regard "good looks" as a prerequisite to attraction, or there would be no point in my coming to find a beautiful woman!
😊
I SUBSCRIBED BECAUSE OF THIS INTERVIEW!!..AM HOOKED!!
Love from the Pearl of the Orient-- the PHILIPPINES
The family don't care if they are living tough, I'm talk from personal experience
Thank you very much guys for this video , you have adressed so many of my concerns , ilove Philips wifes answer about the age gap
of all the interview these is more broad in-depth in observation of a particular subject
Thank you for the good things you said about the Philippines.
THANKS For Sharing The VIDEOS Nice Interviews as usual very informative 👍✌️👌👋💕🇺🇸
This guy has wisdom.
Liked this.
It’s all down to personal experience where we live, usually for us divorced guys women are the reason of where we live. I’ve lived in Colombia, Philippines, Cambodia and now for over 2 years in Thailand. To stay in Thailand on a retirement visa Non O is very easy to do especially using an agent, this hasn’t changed in over 20 years, no matter what King or government is in power imo!
I think it's a mistake to choose a place to live based on a lady. Relationships are not forever and a man should do what's best for himself.
I agree, yearly etirement visa not difficult if you meet the income or deposit requirement. Fee 1900 THB per year if not usinh an agent.
You are correct, the rules for a retirement / extension of stay for 1 year hasn't changed, neither has the Visa based on marriage. Border runs were just to get another 30 days.
@@mateor7302 , well when you have a good woman and you're in a great relationship, you are very content so you can live anywhere.
Your comment kind of doesn't make sense because you're insinuating he's in a relationship and hates where he lives and he's only staying because of her., That was never insinuated and in 99.9% that's not the case.
This guy must not have looked at Malaysia - especially Sarawak where with only $1,500 income you can get a 10 year retirement visa and they speak englsih with signs in english and a good infustructure with no brown out every week. Also, you are correct the visa process has not changed accept some expat can not lie any more by going to the embassy and getting an income verification letter. So, yes they have to leave, if they have not income.
Another great and informative video. Thanks Mark
Wowww so nice.i hope I can't find a man truly accept me especially my kids..as a single mom it's really hard to find real person that can accept for what u r 😊
Great interview. Salute to both of you - Mark & Philip. (Philip - shorten of Philippines)
Great show and info Mark this show and also the first interview with him great good do more like this!!
Spot on mate.
I lived three years in Phuket and I was there before and worked there. It had become expensive and YES the language is very challenging.
THe language is not only the barrier. The culture in Thailand (Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam) is so different to the Western one. In the Philippines they are used to us. they have certain things they do the same. They are not really Asians, they are more Pacific Islanders.
Great interview and agree 100%
Also in South America seniors grandparents are treated special
Greatest gust ever part 2 .
hugely interesting interview and views-really appreciated.
Love it!!! Great perspective. I can totally relate.
Great interview!! Thanks Phil
Thank you Melissa 😊
I alternate between Thai and the Philippines-thai has better infrastructure, accommodation,food and IMHO,more beautiful women but ..the Philippines is 15-20% cheaper,has better natural beauty,more English speaking people and more desirable diving.
I agree
another nice interview mark. me and my husband ( american)happily living here in northern luzon 5 years and counting
Appreciate to your knowhow regarding the Philippines Philip , God is glory to you and families as well.
This guy is great but his assumption that "the new king" has changed Thailand is very strange and bit delusional. The king doesn't do shit, the Thailand government make all the decisions.
Another great interview, so interesting.
I lived in Thailand for four yrs and never really found the language thing a problem...Yeah not All Thais speak English...But alot do from my experience..unless ur living n a village or something...But I liv d in Chiang Mai..which is a college and expat town...so most spoke English... except maybe the locals running the locals stands...and even then it really wasn't that bad..and if ur going to live in a different country the respectable thing to do is at least try to learn their language
I lve in Chiangmai area and there are many Thai that can use basic English. But outside downtown it could be difficutl if you do not know basic Thai. In private hospitals most doctor speak English and they have staff to assist.
I live in CM, near Kad Farang, also when there and language is no problem, learn the numbers 1-21 and it’s easy to know the rest..and..knowing the numbers will take care of most of any transactions you need to do, then a few other basic words and sentences can handle almost anything…tres simplement 🙏🏻👍🏻🇹🇭
thank you for appreciation the philippines god bless you
Fantastic interview, Mark. 👍🏽
Thank you 😊
I enjoyed your chatting....I was married to a German guy when I was 25 and he is 44(19 yrs different) but we lasted 30 years In good in bad I did not leave him till he get cancer and died 12 years ago.On his last days he thank me for the love care patient understanding for many years.He told me when he's gone if I want to remarry its up to me..only I will loose his pension.😇He loves Philippines even my family than his family.We live 16 years in Philippines but later he change his mind so he died in Berlin.
I think that if you're polite and respectful to other people's culture, then you can get along almost anywhere.
excellent interview