Unpacking Life: From Loss And Grief To Pregnancy - Let's Have A Heartfelt Chat!
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2024
- Hi All, Thank you so much for watching my video Let’s Chat ! Loss, Grief, Pregnancy and More. I wanted the opportunity to catch up with my besties and tell y’all exactly where I have been in life.
I pray this video finds you in a very safe sound place as that is the place I am delivering it from. Feel free to ask me any questions and I will do a follow up video strictly for Q&A.
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Girl, the "soft" era doesn't sound crazy at all. Think about how much we go through on these whack ass jobs that could give a flying f*** about our well being in order to perform efficiently. Nah, I'm so with you on being at peace with laying back and allowing someone worthy to take care of you.
P.S. Stay at home spouse/mom STILL have work to do and sometimes it's more than those that work on the outside
Listen, i already have a house keeper and I love to cook , so I am only claiming the housewife part I likelolz . I just want to be taken care of an just exist for a bit
Thank you for sharing I’m 16 mins in and needed to comment before you continue. Life has a way of showing us what we needed deep down inside. I had finally come to terms with not having kids and then My 1st child was born sleeping at 34 weeks 11/7/2020. I also lost my grandma within about 2 weeks. I thought I could NEVER recover. I was pissed with God but more so myself because how could I not know he wasn’t ok. I fought hard to dig myself out of postpartum depression. Fast forward to 2/14/2022 I find out I’m pregnant again at work. Mind you I’m 40 years old so baby the stress was thru the roof. I could not enjoy being pregnant because of everything I experienced. 11/2/22 I delivered a healthy baby boy. What you’ve both gone thru isn’t the end to your story. Give yourself grace and know that he’ll fulfill his promise to you.
Thank you do much for sharing with me! This means alot. I am so sorry for your loss and I am inspired by your resilience.
I DECREE THAT GOD WILL HEAL AND RESTORE YOU! BLESSINGS ON BLESSINGS!!!
Thank you!
As humans we need to learn how to give ourselves grace. I lost my brother during Covid, a few weeks later found out my mom has cancer and needed two surgeries because it spread so quickly, then I lost my job and was completely broke for almost two years. I was so depressed I wasn't eating or sleeping like I normally would. It was so bad I had to physically take myself out of that negative space and move out. I have been thriving mentally ever since. Learn to give yourself time to grieve and don't let anyone tell you that you need to move on from whatever you're going through. Only you know when you're ready. I know our stories are sad but you know what, we never know who we can encourage by our experiences. I love all of ya'll and I know things will get better for every last one of us ❤ Alexa, que they not like us.... 🎶🎵🎶
We have to give ourselves grace. I was hoping by sharing my experience it could hold space for someone else to process their own
Thanks for sharing your story ❤❤❤❤sending you love ,hope you are healing ❤️ ♥️ 💕
Yes, we really are thank you for watching
God bless you❤❤❤ I’ve had an ectopic pregnancy so I understand the mental and physical pain you go through. During the surgery they had to take one of my Fallopian tubes. I was devastated. A few years later at 39 I had health twins. Twins! At 39 with one tube. God will pay you back double. Just remember His promises and keep Him first! ❤❤❤ Praying for you and your family through your time of grief❤❤
I had an ectopic pregnancy and it was the scariest experience I ever went through. They also took one of my tubes. It was hard because it happened 4 months after my father died. Crazy times but God has been good to me.
It was so scary and just draining and you have to make big decisions in minutes of them being explained. How did you cope with all of it?
Twins??? My aunt said that healthy ovary is going to be working overtime
Girl everything happened so fast. I was pregnant then I wasn’t. I had 2 tubes then I didn’t. It was explained to me that it was life threatened so I was like do what ever you have to do! But then I went through a wave of emotions but I have a good support system, loving husband and faith in the Lord. ❤❤❤
I love this! So transparent! You’re my hero ❤❤❤
I think it could help someone… or i hope
GF!!!!! Sending you and Joe alllll of our love!!! Thank you for being so transparent! Thank you for even sharing such private information. You are a warrior and YOU ARE ONE OF THE HARDEST BITCHES OUT HERE! YOU know that, I know that, and the world knows that! You are able to still have moments! You are not alone! I've been here as well baby (3 pregnancy losses), I am here with you! It tears away mentally and physically. ALSO, can we get into the BLACK MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS ?!! THEY MATTER!!!! Shout out to the ones that took great care of you and the ones we will encounter along this thing called life. Congrats to Dad on getting married! R.I.P Len!!!
I love you so much! Dad really out here being grown lol. I can’t believe you experienced all of that, women are so resilient!
🙋🏾♀️ #virgo here and I know on many levels this was hard. We appreciate your continual truth in all things. Thank you Mr. Joe for taking care of our sus. Hugs, healing and love Ms. Intisare🫶🏾.
Girl my virgo has me in my thoughts constantly.
I love that you're coming out of the storm❤ I was hoping that you were doing ok when you asked what people do to get out of the funk. I hope my suggestion of writing down everything, in no order, just whatever pops in your head then burning it helps.
I completely relate to you and the kids thing. My mom passed when I was a kid and I was adopted by someone who hated kids. Not only that, she was nuts. I grew up with Munchausen by proxy (someone purposely making you sick just for the f of it. Most do it for attention but she did it because she could.) Because of her screwing up my body, I can not have kids. Mother's Day is a cruel nightmare to me. I'm also 30somethingerother (AND A VIRGO ♍🎉) I get it. I get keeping up appearances to where most think you're good but you're suffering. Sheeee half the time I don't even like to admit I'm suffering.
I'm cutting myself off before I write you a whole ass novel. All of us thank you for letting us know what's up. We appreciate the knowledge you provided not only on your life but our bodies. From one Virgo Mother Earth Goddess to another, you are everything and nothing less.
Girl life be lifing sometimes! Whew Chile! Gotta push through and conquer ❤ sending you love and hugs
Life got hand and I THOUGHT I could fight🥴
Sis im sorry for your loss thanks for being vulnerable with us.
I think I am shedding an exterior. We can’t be gf’s and not share, yknow?
Awww pooh sending you so much love 💕🫂
Thank you babe
Just watch and see how your testimony will help someone else! God has been with you through it all...and will continue to be!!!!!!
@@andreasteele2814 I am claiming this!!
RIP Len! We love you!
Yes we do!
Boo, you get all of them tears out! I'm so sorry for your loss! I pray God gives you double for your trouble!
I am receiving all of that
I completely agree with you.
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I purposely waited to watch this video when I knew I had the time to not be starting and stopping. I first want to say thank you for your transparency, I'm soooo happy to see you on the other side of the valley. Thank you to my internet brother Joe for being there as well as your parents.
Zar the way I cried this entire video with you, my God I'm praying with you on your mental health and however/whenever you and God's will see you and Joe's time to be patents. You all will be amazing. I enjoyed having this chat even though it was hard. I will always be a supporter of you and your channel, you my BEST! LOVE YOU BABE
@@thereal1_p37 i love you back babe! Thank you so
Much for watching. I honestly don’t know why I needed yo share but i am glad i did
Thank you for sharing your story. Praying for strength and comfort for you all. 🙏🏾💜 I’m still dealing with the loss of my father who passed quickly from Liver cancer 8 years ago on my niece’s 10th birthday.
*I have PCOS, I have had menstrual cycles like that. One year visiting a family gathering. I couldn’t enjoy anything. I was telling hubby I don’t think I can go. But we went and I laid on his great aunt’s bed the entire time then we left. I honestly believe that was a miscarriage.
Thank you so much for sharing this! The loss of a parent is monumental. I am really praying for you sis.
@@intisareleanor thank you beautiful! 💜💜
Aw not my baby crying! I want nothing more than you and your husband to have kids because you'd be a phenomenal Mom. I love your personality and can see you being a super fun Mom. I love that you had a black Dr that talked to you like she did. I want a Dr that talks to me in that way. You should not be embarrassed by your body. Yes it's our bodies but we're still learning about the human body and our OWN body and how it works. I knew something was wrong. I have my few wig baes I watch and when the schedule is off I know and pray it's just a mental break from recording. On a lighter note you gonna work hard with the babies! 😂 I'm speaking it into existence. Shoutout to your husband for being a MAN! That's amazing to have. I been rocking with your channel from nearly the beginning (the Elba wig) and Im eager for whats to come ❤
I love you so much. Thank you for watching. Girl my doctor is everything!!! Like I love her
Love how transparent you are being! You and Joe have always had deep soul ties and connections! Love you guys and praying for yal journey ❤
You was there from the beginning lolz
Sweet heart you’re such a brave woman. I know it was difficult to get through this and tell your story. I so appreciate you for sharing this. I pray that God keeps you and Joe in his arms and also that he continues to keep your union strong 💪🏾.
Thank you auntie love you!
@@intisareleanorhow you know it was me?!!! ☺️
You get awwwllll the pats on the back my love! Sending you so much love and blessing and prayers. Thank you so much for such transparency. Your vulnerability is strength. And the soft life era does not sound crazy to me at all. Claim that sis. 🙌🏾
Thank you so much!
New intro alert!! this i a moment I've been waiting for and thank you for this
I was raised by two Virgos. WHEW! lol. I am glad you shared this because it was so real and it answered some questions for me as a person who had not experienced that type of loss. I am looking forward to your transformation. I got sat down last year and when I tell you everything I have been praying for the last five years is here at full throttle. GET READY! GET READY! GET READY!!!
I feel like I am being sat down and I am submitting to that energy! Like I am chilling. How do you feel now like in 2024
@@intisareleanor Better than I have in my whole adulthood. I renewed my license and I look younger than I did over 10 years ago. I can see clearly now, the hindrances are gone!!! I could not have done it with everything going on. It all had to be removed so I could focus. Everything that changed was for purification of me for the process. I had no choice but to focus on what was next.
You are one of the strongest women I know! You are amazing and you will get through this and the other side will for sure be worth it! I can’t wait to be apart of the journey, especially being old a** parents! 😂 I love you so much!
I love you so much thank you gorgeous for watching.
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Thank you for being so honest and so vulnerable God bless you ❤❤❤❤ You deserve a soft life so yessssssss enter your new era ❤❤❤❤ I learned that if God wants to sit you down somewhere he most certainly will.
This is what I am learning. I needed to just surrender so that is what i am doing
We MUST learn to advocate for ourselves at all times but especially as black women in the doctor office.
@@thereal1_p37 we really must. I am big on toughing it out, I am done with that
I think
Babygirl?!?! I hear you. I see you. I'm so very proud of you. I don't got the words but I got the support. I'll like and leave an emoji at least to feed the algorithm something. I'm not very social but Imma do my part🫡 You don't look like what you've been through and I call that blessed. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY y'all and I love you right back. Cheers on soft girl eternity- enter and put that baby in park. We staying! Remind yourself too❤❤❤
A soft girl eternity ! I love that !!!
The spiritual warfare is high for all of us. I am a holy spirit filled Christian and a known intercessor and my emotion's has been more gutted in the last year in a half than any other time in my entire Life. This is truly a trying and testing season. I am praying for you and your husband's peace and strength in this time. Remove your energy from everyone and rest. I pray you know the Lord and know he will heal your pain if you give it to him and he will make it a testimony.
Thank you so much
Intisar you are so beautiful & raw in this video. Thank you so much for sharing this very personal journey with us. I am praying for all the good things coming your way in the future ❤✨
Thank you so much for watching. I needed to get this off my chest.
Thank you for sharing. You touched me, and I needed this.❤
@@princessgirl8869 I needed it too babe thank you so much for watching
Love this for u sis ❤️great job💐
Love you back!
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This video helped me and inspired me, praying for you and thank you ❤
Thank you so much for watching
whats about june 20th ???