I gave away about 2/3 of everything I own and moved from California to Downeast Maine 3,300 miles away. I did not know a soul and never even visited there before, but my Spirit Guides pulled me there. I am so grateful and happy to start a whole different life at 59 years old…just me and my 2 cats.
Did you get a job first and then move, or did you go to the area first and then look for a position? If you don't mind sharing. I'd like to move soon! 😊
Congratulations! Ur a brave soul. U just made a brave, courageous move. Maine is lovely and you’re going to be very comfortable. Peace to u and ur kitties. You made a good choice.
🙌💜 I'm a certified feng shui practitioner, and this conversation, to me, is what allows us to be open to receiving all teachings. Our environment should support and nurture us. It will enable our nervous system to relax, allowing it to expand and receive. Thank you! 💜
I separated 4 years ago and kept some of the items we had together, recently I gave everything away, as even my taste in decor as changed. I deleted photos, sold and gave away clothes that he gave me etc. I changed so much in the last year that now I enjoy colours that never in my life I would even consider! I’m moving now to my home country to a city where I don’t know anyone or anything and still without a job. In my heart is the right thing to do. I’m at peace and ask my guardians to help me and my daughter with this process. ❤
You are a blessing! I Over the past 2 months, I have cleared over 20 large trash bags of clothes linens etc from our small home for donation and transformed two rooms into what feels like and each is an oasis. I have suffered from depression for the last couple years, death of my sister covid etc. This home project has done more good for my mind and motivation than any therapy. I have many musical instruments that were in various rooms in our small home. I cleared our small study and made it my "studio " with my husband's happy blessing. Now the room is clean but filled with my guitars keyboard and drums. Just going into that space gives me great joy, even if I don't sit to play. I encourage your viewers to heed your advice. It was really really hard work, but very gratifying to give so much away to people who needed it or wanted it and make space for spaciousness in my home and clarity for my head and heart. Thank you for what you do. Much love.
I finally burned the hospital records for my husband of 17 years who died horribly of cancer 17 years ago. I had dreaded it for so long, it was a big box, with pictures of our wedding rings, his birth and death certificates, his licenses, etc. I cried but I prayed for his soul while I did it and as the last bit went up in smoke, I felt a release and an urge to continue to purge all hurtful things in my home. I have one child, 44 this year, who has not spoken to me since 15 years ago when I flew out to visit her and she hated my hair color and treated me like crap in front of my granddaughters (3 and 7), in front of strangers, and the upshot is I flew home early and we haven’t spoken. I am burning all her crap today…report cards, pix and all. This feels severe to me, but the pain of coming across these mementos is too much to continue. I am 69 and I feel it’s time to clear my space of all pain.
Brave, brave woman. I'm with you on this - did mine last year and it has cleared 5yrs of depression. I'm okay. You're okay. It's going to be great when we get all the way across to 5thDimension.
Love your sincere spirit. Im the same. No matter who who are or represent, anyone continues to be so disrespectful, especially in front of children who would be so negatively be influenced, does not deserve to be in my life and sure as hell not try to influence me.
My parents were/are very abusive also. During COVID, I went no-contact (I am 60!) finally....I got rid of everything they ever gave me. My home feels so light and I finally feel free. I had so much STUFF from my parents and grandparents (dishes, piano, furniture, etc) and every time I would walk by the STUFF my energy would feel low/depleted. Anyway, it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I should have done it years ago! We don't really own stuff...it ends up owning us. Txs for your videos, they are wonderful.
This past Friday I cleaned out a corner of my garage that had my old real estate signs. I'm not actively selling and I felt I needed to remove them. As I was going through them I found some open house signs. I brought them to a new agent who is working hard to get her business up and running. I handed them to her and she was brought to tears! I was happy that she could use them and it made me feel good inside. About 20 minutes later she walked into the office and handed me the most magnificent bouquet of flowers exclamation point I certainly was not expecting anything in return it was just it just turned my part to help her move her business forward! I was moved to tears❤
This makes me feel a little better about having just recently changed practically my entire wardrobe. I had inexplicably started feeling SO uncomfortable in all my old clothes, but I was also feeling a guilty about getting rid of perfectly functional items. I ought to know by now that guilt is rarely, if ever, beneficial, lol. Best wishes to all as we experience this wild ride, side by side 💙
I'm embarrassed to say it, but I only took down our Christmas tree from 5 years ago, today - AFTER watching this video. After 2019 Xmas, everybody was lazy to dismantle the decorations and tree (fake one). We carried it and moved it to the hall upstairs where no guests go. I would see that tree every day on my way in/out to/from my bedroom. It was an eyesore but I just dreaded the task of having to spend time to take it apart, I had more important things to do with my life I repeated to myself every time. I finally decided it was time to let this Xmas tree go. Packed up the ornaments and dropping off the tree at a bin tomorrow. Many of its pieces were falling apart, it was not looking like a tree already. There's a sense of yutori' (spaciousness) in my mind and heart after doing this, albeit from something as small as this. Thank you for this video, it inspired some energy in me to finally do this.
Yes! I am in process of decluttering and giving away things I thought I had needed, that no longer have value to my current energies! Liberation indeed!!👍😇🌻🦅🦋
Repainted inside the house a bright shade of white. (It was light tan with a sage green accent wall for 15 years). I bought new wood shelves & picture frames and a couple of large pictures of flowers. It feels brighter and happier. 😊
My house has a lot of gray and blue including a blue/gray trim through the entire house. I am getting ready to start painting it white. I want to brighten my home up and the white will help a lot. Your comment was confirmation to me this is what I need to do and it will help.
Me too! I’m totally into a bright white paint that makes a room feel so light and happy! I’m just about to freshen it all up again and then the bright, colorful accents really add pops of joy!🌈🎉❤
Another thing I’ve found really helpful is burning sage to clear past energies from my home. I bought a cute little 1950’s cottage that had an unfortunate history of drug users, alcoholism, anger, ptsd, shady renters etc While I’ve been here 8 years now and it feels like my divine sanctuary, occasionally I will still feel the need to pull out the sage and give the space another round of cleansing. As for things- I strive to downsize all the time! Letting go can be hard but always, always find I like the opened space more than the thing that was there! Never once regretted moving things on!! And today I start on a fresh coat of white interior paint to bring Light into these rooms and my life!! Thank You Sonia for all your support!!!❤️🙏❤
I've had many crazy 3rd Dim. experiences... I gave away the full set of 1st edition book series of Harry Potter books to a local library. The reason I found this special was for this rationale ~ First they were nott taking any more donations of books. Secondly, when I told her about the HP books, her response was one of excitement because their books were quite used and falling apart from the Great popularity of kids wanting to read them, and having them read to them during All Hallows- Eve. I was Blessed that day with much gratitude and Happiness. They were my mom's books and she had transitioned ~ I too love to give and have for a very long time. 🎉❤🎉
I have been unwell for 3 years now. I’m so very tired of being unwell,and desire my health restored. My daughter visited me last month and cleaned my house for me, window, floors, etc, got rid of an old vacuum and got me a new one. Took a lot of things to good will for me. Felt so good… so the spark now since she left is I’m clearing out more old things that are no longer useful to me. It is feeling good to do this. And I pray will help me in my healing regaining my strength and balance again.
Sonia, when my granddaughter was younger, she would love to decorate our Christmas tree for us. We ended up with clumps of lights and some of the decorations mostly at the bottom or on one side, but her feeling of pride in helping us and decorating the tree for us was priceless. So I understand fully how you love the clump of lights on your tree and how they make you smile when you see them.
I had a large beautiful wood and brass vintage jewelry box that was given to me from my mom. For years it was one of my most important possessions. As I started doing a lot of inner work I realized that every time I looked at the box I thought of my parents master bedroom, where it used to be. Not a happy place. They had a messy divorce and my dad has long since passed away. Finally decided I didn't want to keep reliving that part of my life or think of my dad that way. A week after I let the box go to donation my life took a drastic turn, in an amazingly good direction.
I feel like the keeper of dead people’s things which is an honor I’ve inherited so many different things- odds and ends- it’s so eclectic- it’s difficult to imagine to part with any of them- none of them are worth anything- but they are priceless to me and beautiful I will take your invitation though with a glad heart Thank you ☺️
This proves her point, that things with good energy are what speaks to us personally. These things you have may be meant for you if you feel such good energy from them. Sounds like a blessing to be the care taker of these inherited odds and ends :)
I felt that urge many times and followed through with those feelings, after doing all the purging felt incredibly better. I keep my bedroom as a sanctuary, keep the rest of my house the most comfortable according to my vibes as I can.
The word RELIC literally means “remains” or “dead bones.” So when I’m helping people, the first thing I suggest to them is to immediately get rid of RELICS from their home. It’s an instant fix in energy… 🌸💖💕
I had a rowing machine that I bought at the time of COVID. I barely used it when COVID was over and just took it with me when I moved because I bought it, it wasn't cheap, I figured I'm not using it now but maybe later, and it took up a lot of room in my office. So every day I got to see this machine, taking up space. Feeling guilty I tried using it a couple of times to no avail. Finally, I gave it away. SO HAPPY now! The space is clear and open and I now feel so good about working in my office (at home). Sonia, you are so right on track with this clearing and blessing what you do have that brings you joy. Thank you so much for the validation. p.s. It turns out the person I gave it too needs it for physical therapy - who knew? (The Universe did! :) )
Dear Sonia, iv connect with you on another level and I thank you for what you are doing for me and humanity. I am a tool guy and work with my hands, I used to see new tools on the market and buy to use. After going on retirement, I have no inclination to work with them anymore ,I am now giving them away to people who can make use of them. I am asked why I don't sell them but just can't do that as I feel they would be better off with someone who will put them to good use, so slowly and as I can I'm finding a home these items that were once valuable to me. I now just want as little as needed and more time to work on my spiritual goals. Love and light to all ❤❤❤
I'm giving away my things as I lost my job and I'm having to move house again for the umptienth time. I feel a lot lighter, and today when I gave my 3 tarot cards to someone they offered me a free yoga session in return. 🙌🏾
I'm new, but I am very much enjoying learning how to connect with my own spirit and my guides. 💗 I'm reading "Ask Your Guides" (just started) and just got the oracle deck. (Excited face as it has been sooo helpful!) I find that I have always needed to change things up in my home. I did this as a child too. I was always rearranging furniture and when I haven't been able to purchase what I'd like, I learned to make it, fostering creativity and my life's path. Lately, after MUCH shadow work and being freed from a lot of trauma, I've found myself needing to reconnect with the aesthetics I loved as a child. I've never been able to articulate that this is a need within me. I'm very sensitive to the aesthetics of my environment. Thank you so much for sharing! I can tell you are an authentic person truly sharing love, which makes my heart so joyful and so thankful!!! 💓
I loved this & it came in Divine timing! I gave up my whole life, literally. At 60 I became a global traveler & I go where I am guided to go. Would love your intuitive hit Sonia.
Thank you very much Sonia! I am realizing that letting go is part of my mission on earth! Not easy but doable and very freeing! I m still working on it! I greatly appreciate your teachings and wisdom! Blessings to you from Canada! 🙏✨️🐉🌹
I do this annually to invite new energy in and try and thank the things as they leave. After a painful breakup, my wardrobe was entirely black and my house in brown/black earth tones. Twelve years later, I have beach turquoise and orange and pinks and change out the colors with seasons. My higher being also said to say thank you to the apartment and belongings daily and watch what happens. It became much easier to clean!
I moved from Texas to Kuwait this Saturday 🎉 I gave away many things. I wasn’t easy at first. I’m here to be with my kids and grandkids. I’ve been following you a long time. Perfect video while doing my exercises this morning 😊
Thank you so much. I lost my Dad during Covid and have kept his house exactly as it was the day he left for hospital. I’ve been horribly stuck. You just made me realise what I need to do. And give myself permission to do
Only 10 minutes into your video along with reading a few of the comments, I just did a major purge! Thank you! My truck's back and passenger seats are loaded and ready to donate to the thrift shop! Feels good. More to go (literally)! :-)
Hi Sonia! You are right, sometimes it's about perception and how we view things, other times it's the vibes, and sometimes; it's BOTH. Also, what we put out always comes back, I love giving things away. We can never outgive the Universe, it always gives us exactly what we need, too. Thank you again for expanding our Consciousness! Have a wonderful day, and Bless your heart!!
Sonia, I want to thank you for your videos. I performed a QHHT session yesterday and in less then 24 hours, my guides have used your videos to confirm some things in the session I had just performed. First video was last night about drinking more water. And this video confirmed two more things in the session. My heart is filled with joy and gratitude. Thank you (and our guides) so much 😊
Thank you so much for those blessings it's so much fun to do these weekly things with you I'm learning so much and my daughter and I are sharing this journey together thank you
Honestly, I just did my colour seasonal palette, with those lovely Italian ladies from melbourne on RUclips, and over the last few days have gone through all my clothes, jewellery, scarves, shoes, makeup etc and had a clear out and I feel soooo great! I have a giveaway pile for friends who might suit these things, and I feel soooo happy to finally understand why some things make me feel glowy and some things grey. It's ok to let it go! I now feel confident to choose things for the rest of my life even as trends change, I know what kind of combos suit me.. and I noticed how much of that is already in my home. Now I am looking at some pieces of furniture that I could let go of stories with.. I have thought I wanted to keep the strength of character enough to let go of past memories associated, but actually I just dont like the struggle of that, the memories havnt truely gone, and actually I want my future to look different to this. I'm so happy to be shedding layers now. I'm about to sell my bed too and move to a new futon. Life is good.
The first time I saw my current apartment I just felt good about it but because of doubt I lost it and I couldn't rent it. An year after the place was vacant again and without hesitation I took it. I love it ❤ I feel at peace, calm and it's like we matched energies. I love decluttering from time to time and often give out clothes, that I don't feel like it anymore, to red cross containers (ot others). When you give time to make a revision of the stuff in you home, clean and cleanse the place, you'll gain peace and clarity to you mind also. For me the place where I live is really my sanctuary. Where I can recharge my energy, get inspiration, create ... Be my true self❤
Thank you for all the beautiful insights you share with us.. I feel connected with you and your amazing cards are on my way to me Today, I felt a call to clear three beautiful decorative boxes that I kept with me for about 10 years .. I used them to keep some sentimental stuff as well as other things but few days ago I looked at them and read three words that didn’t align with me anymore so I decided to give them away .. I enjoyed them while I had them and I can imagine someone out there enjoying them right now .. better things are coming our way .. love from London ❤
This session was so very helpful, Sonia! Like an itch to be scratched, I've been clearing as called for and giving away like there's no time to waste waiting for a buyer, and it is so F R E E I N G ! Neighbors around me vibe low and it seeps through the walls. So I am working it piece by piece. And I have a flower and veggie garden to die for that I hope fae enjoy as well. Again, thanks for this.
I went first and visited. I bought a cottage on Moose Island in Eastport, Maine and intended to just use it for a vacation home since it was super affordable, especially compared to California. But I was here last September for the pirate festival and when my plane flew out of Bangor back to California, I started crying because I didn’t want to go back. I am retired so finding work wasn’t an issue. I was free to go anywhere I wanted to. Thanks for asking and good luck.
Unwittingly I had so many “frenemies” as a younger person. I didn’t realize how much they didn’t want the best for me and even wished the worst. Cleared out those people first and then anything negative they ever gave me. You know, snarky “self help” books, clothes that were outlandishly too large, and other hidden-message “gifts.” It feels like I got over a decades-long flu. It’s incredible.
I like the blessing idea. I see myself full of needles and rocks that are sent with negative spite. I send love back yet it weighs me down until I realize what these people sent is hurting me from time to time. They really take my energy daily. I try so hard to connect. Big Hug All...
I am moving after 18 yrs in a home that I loved and a community I loved. I have found I am not attached to any of my material things and have given away expensive artwork I truly enjoyed emotionally but am not attached to. Much easier than I thought it would be. My friends and family are surprised at how much I gave away.
My parents were abusive to me too. I have a painting my dad painted . I had to practically beg him when he was alive for one of his paintings. It’s been over 25 years and I can’t even look at the painting. I keep it in my closet . I think he was sad when he painted this picture, and that’s what I feel when I look at it. One day maybe I’ll give it to someone .
Your timing is so apt. I have been organizing and changing my workstation and room for the last 2 weeks. It just felt like the clutter was cluttering my mind that I had to do something about it.
Thank you for taking the time to make uplifting videos! It helps keep me on track. Also, thanks for explaining the clump of lights. I completely understand and I love your stories!
I just had an epiphany this last weekend about how happiness as a misconception comes from getting it or arriving at it; instead it comes from letting things go. Shame, guilt, insecurities. This seems to hit the same concept. Buying your house in Paris wasn’t paradise in and of itself, it was what you made it by only keeping what was highly vibrational that made it a paradise. Just like life 🤔
wow, i have been SO sensitive to energy that i keep moving and traveling and changing places where i am staying with people but also being sometimes alone but i am experiencing so many changes, i just feel that i grow so much that i have now no attachment to things… these past two years i have not been able to stay in one place for a long time… and i feel that i was moving very intuitively.. but these short stays in places are being shorter and shorter - recently i moved out from a place where i stayed only for 2 weeks!!! yet for me it felt like three months at least… and now i am acknowledging that i am getting tired of moving around… i wonder if guided will guide me to a place that i can really call my home after all of this moving around… 🙏🏻 i love your videos, Sonia, they help me a lot♥️ thank you!
Just want to say thank you from my heart to yours and I wanted to tell you…I have always felt very inspired and loved after hearing one of your videos- so I am sending a lot of love and great energy your way 🙏🏼😇💖✨
Wonderful message for me. I’m starting a reiki practice as a second career. Been thinking about creating the space in my house for it so I think now is the time!
3 months I've been feeling a need to purge, but because I live off SSI (a small income), I've been torn on whether i should be giving stuff away, or selling it. I have a large pile of really great stuff, waiting for me to decide. Thank you for this video.. :) Glad to know it's not just me going through this right now.
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this I have accumulated so much stuff over the years and always think about donating & throwing away a lot of stuff It’s the guilt as well as the you’re poor don’t get rid of those clothes you’ll need them again in the future All excuses for not letting go of things I don’t need or even want I can’t thank you enough for making this much needed to heal video
I have an inherited heirloom guitar that I secretly can't wait to get rid of because of the memories attached to it (and I'm a guitarist!). Thanks for helping me remember how much better I will feel when it's finally gone. Then I can get a guitar that I really love, that I chose. But now my mental list is compiling LOTS of other things I want to give away! 😂
Before I even tuned this video on I told my self it's time to clean my large pile of dishes " it's time to get these done" and I smiled to my self. Thank you Spirit guides!
I had the opportunity to get my own house & I was so excited. After moving in, I started feeling I didn't want to be there. My bestie did everything, we celebrated and cleansed it, and I burned candles and put new upgrades to the house. I ended up losing it, messing up my credit, & ended up homeless. I've never been in this situation in my life. What kinda mess is this? I felt, now I'm having to wake up at 4 am to meditate. 🧘🏾♀️ I never have b4. Currently, I'm trying to find my way. It's kinda getting better but it's super 🐌 slow.
yeah that was awesome I love it here in my home...my car...my new job @Mercedes... love what I'm doing... this region... my town... up on the mountains where I go... its awesome... its almost perfect just add my wife & more $$
I've had to let go of a relationship today we had a lot of fun there was a lot of good things there were also a lot of painful things they wanted to continually bring up From years ago and I just told the person that we needed to not talk for a minute so that I could get my head clear and figure out my next move. This is a great video Thank you.
Thank you for your message. My husband of 20 years was killed in 2019. We were separated at the time and after he died, I found out some things he did behind my back. He had secrets. His parents were horrible to me….wanted money from me. I had to deal with closing his business and he owed a lot of people a lot of money. Now, I’m getting ready to move from the house I bought after he died, but I had put some of his things and business papers in the attic. And I found photos of us during better times. I need to let all of this go. I offer anything that had positive memories to it to our daughter and I’m throwing out the rest. It IS liberating for sure! ❤
I love this! My guides certainly brought me here: I just gave notice on my beautiful little apartment in SF…a place that was a healing sanctuary after a break up and my dad passed. And 5 years later, after my sweet elder dog just passed this month, I knew I needed to leave. I have no where else lined up. I am in debt and I have a lot of unknowns: will I stay here, move to another state? I’m asking for guidance and opening my heart! Thank you again for this beautiful light you offer 💓 I’m excited for the new blessings! So grateful and nervous, but mostly excited for the new energy 💝
So timely I gave all of my jewelry away that was gifted to me by my x husband if thirty years....I gave it to my daughter in law, I hope the bad jewjew didn't follow it!!! I give everything away at 72 nothing really floats my boat...I minimized took all art work down
Great video! I am actively clearing a home I have for sale to uplift and neutralize the energies. The timing of this video is soo synchronous. I bless and say “I love you” to my present home, garden, plants/trees/critters and express daily gratitude. It’s amazing how I have never wanted to accumulate stuff because that is what it is. I love beautiful things I just recognized early in my life that I didn’t need a ton of stuff to enjoy my life. My freedom loving spirit always led the way. Since I have growing kids, donating stuff is a way of life. I always try to give anything we grow out of a second life. That is what I believe we all should do. Living in the flow is a blessing. Thank you Sonia for your beautiful work. I am intrigued by your deck, will look for it! ❤
Thank you Sonia! This video is certainly in alignment with what I feel these past couple of months. I am purging so much stuff right now! I have always struggled with this my whole life through… but my guides and the energy has been urging me to clear out anything that isn’t resonating with my evolving soul NOW! I have enlisted help and the right people have come along to really cheer me on and physically help me clear my space. So good to see so many others who are doing this practical work as well as the inner work that we’ve all been doing these past few years! 🙏🏼✨💕
Wow 1st time to the channel ! THANK YOU ! Non attachement to anything and anyone ! ..I've never felt so liberated in my life! ..just moved in to a new place i rent. Tomorrow evening I'm burning a lot of old clothes i kept ,feel like they carry a lot of heavy energy i don't need anymore
I disagree for myself. Glad for you. I am surrounded by books that are friends but house city state people dont really fit me. I need finances better to be able to shift other things better. Working hard towards this goal. Tired but see my goal. I see you all. I dont see where yet. More inside needs healing. I wish my mentors were closer. I invite you. Love to All. Big Hug...
So much truth in what you are saying Sonja. ❤ I am now also getting ready to move out of my house. It gives me a sense of a new start and it fills me with joy. I have been looking at everything around me and making decisions about what I need to let go off. I have been giving things away to some friends and also leaving things at a local thrift store. It is such a wonderful feeling to be able to share and to be generous in so many ways. Our local thrift store then donates the money earned from the donated items to the local nonprofit organizations to help people and animals in need. I also feel joy knowing that I want to only surround myself with the things that have a higher vibration and also resonate with me. Thank you so much Sonja. Many blessings! 🙏
I gave away about 2/3 of everything I own and moved from California to Downeast Maine 3,300 miles away. I did not know a soul and never even visited there before, but my Spirit Guides pulled me there. I am so grateful and happy to start a whole different life at 59 years old…just me and my 2 cats.
Did you get a job first and then move, or did you go to the area first and then look for a position? If you don't mind sharing. I'd like to move soon! 😊
Congratulations! Ur a brave soul. U just made a brave, courageous move. Maine is lovely and you’re going to be very comfortable. Peace to u and ur kitties. You made a good choice.
🙌💜 I'm a certified feng shui practitioner, and this conversation, to me, is what allows us to be open to receiving all teachings. Our environment should support and nurture us. It will enable our nervous system to relax, allowing it to expand and receive. Thank you! 💜
I separated 4 years ago and kept some of the items we had together, recently I gave everything away, as even my taste in decor as changed. I deleted photos, sold and gave away clothes that he gave me etc. I changed so much in the last year that now I enjoy colours that never in my life I would even consider! I’m moving now to my home country to a city where I don’t know anyone or anything and still without a job. In my heart is the right thing to do. I’m at peace and ask my guardians to help me and my daughter with this process. ❤
CONGRATS. NAMASTE
I have a houseful of furniture from the past. It's overwhelming. Maybe I should start room by room.
you will never go broke giving
You are a blessing! I Over the past 2 months, I have cleared over 20 large trash bags of clothes linens etc from our small home for donation and transformed two rooms into what feels like and each is an oasis. I have suffered from depression for the last couple years, death of my sister covid etc.
This home project has done more good for my mind and motivation than any therapy. I have many musical instruments that were in various rooms in our small home. I cleared our small study and made it my "studio " with my husband's happy blessing. Now the room is clean but filled with my guitars keyboard and drums. Just going into that space gives me great joy, even if I don't sit to play. I encourage your viewers to heed your advice. It was really really hard work, but very gratifying to give so much away to people who needed it or wanted it and make space for spaciousness in my home and clarity for my head and heart. Thank you for what you do. Much love.
I finally burned the hospital records for my husband of 17 years who died horribly of cancer 17 years ago. I had dreaded it for so long, it was a big box, with pictures of our wedding rings, his birth and death certificates, his licenses, etc. I cried but I prayed for his soul while I did it and as the last bit went up in smoke, I felt a release and an urge to continue to purge all hurtful things in my home. I have one child, 44 this year, who has not spoken to me since 15 years ago when I flew out to visit her and she hated my hair color and treated me like crap in front of my granddaughters (3 and 7), in front of strangers, and the upshot is I flew home early and we haven’t spoken. I am burning all her crap today…report cards, pix and all. This feels severe to me, but the pain of coming across these mementos is too much to continue. I am 69 and I feel it’s time to clear my space of all pain.
Brave, brave woman. I'm with you on this - did mine last year and it has cleared 5yrs of depression. I'm okay. You're okay. It's going to be great when we get all the way across to 5thDimension.
Love your sincere spirit. Im the same. No matter who who are or represent, anyone continues to be so disrespectful, especially in front of children who would be so negatively be influenced, does not deserve to be in my life and sure as hell not try to influence me.
Sending hugs and blessings that this will move you to a good place.
Awesome.
God bless you 🙏
I’m going through paperwork now. I feel more free and happy with each pile I release. Blessed be🕊️
My parents were/are very abusive also. During COVID, I went no-contact (I am 60!) finally....I got rid of everything they ever gave me. My home feels so light and I finally feel free. I had so much STUFF from my parents and grandparents (dishes, piano, furniture, etc) and every time I would walk by the STUFF my energy would feel low/depleted. Anyway, it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I should have done it years ago! We don't really own stuff...it ends up owning us. Txs for your videos, they are wonderful.
This past Friday I cleaned out a corner of my garage that had my old real estate signs. I'm not actively selling and I felt I needed to remove them. As I was going through them I found some open house signs. I brought them to a new agent who is working hard to get her business up and running. I handed them to her and she was brought to tears! I was happy that she could use them and it made me feel good inside. About 20 minutes later she walked into the office and handed me the most magnificent bouquet of flowers exclamation point I certainly was not expecting anything in return it was just it just turned my part to help her move her business forward! I was moved to tears❤
This makes me feel a little better about having just recently changed practically my entire wardrobe. I had inexplicably started feeling SO uncomfortable in all my old clothes, but I was also feeling a guilty about getting rid of perfectly functional items. I ought to know by now that guilt is rarely, if ever, beneficial, lol. Best wishes to all as we experience this wild ride, side by side 💙
I'm embarrassed to say it, but I only took down our Christmas tree from 5 years ago, today - AFTER watching this video. After 2019 Xmas, everybody was lazy to dismantle the decorations and tree (fake one). We carried it and moved it to the hall upstairs where no guests go. I would see that tree every day on my way in/out to/from my bedroom. It was an eyesore but I just dreaded the task of having to spend time to take it apart, I had more important things to do with my life I repeated to myself every time. I finally decided it was time to let this Xmas tree go. Packed up the ornaments and dropping off the tree at a bin tomorrow. Many of its pieces were falling apart, it was not looking like a tree already. There's a sense of yutori' (spaciousness) in my mind and heart after doing this, albeit from something as small as this. Thank you for this video, it inspired some energy in me to finally do this.
Yes! I am in process of decluttering and giving away things I thought I had needed, that no longer have value to my current energies! Liberation indeed!!👍😇🌻🦅🦋
Repainted inside the house a bright shade of white. (It was light tan with a sage green accent wall for 15 years). I bought new wood shelves & picture frames and a couple of large pictures of flowers. It feels brighter and happier. 😊
My house has a lot of gray and blue including a blue/gray trim through the entire house. I am getting ready to start painting it white. I want to brighten my home up and the white will help a lot. Your comment was confirmation to me this is what I need to do and it will help.
Me too! I’m totally into a bright white paint that makes a room feel so light and happy! I’m just about to freshen it all up again and then the bright, colorful accents really add pops of joy!🌈🎉❤
I cleaned rearranged and cleared my bedroom....have slept like a baby every night since❤
Another thing I’ve found really helpful is burning sage to clear past energies from my home. I bought a cute little 1950’s cottage that had an unfortunate history of drug users, alcoholism, anger, ptsd, shady renters etc While I’ve been here 8 years now and it feels like my divine sanctuary, occasionally I will still feel the need to pull out the sage and give the space another round of cleansing.
As for things- I strive to downsize all the time! Letting go can be hard but always, always find I like the opened space more than the thing that was there! Never once regretted moving things on!! And today I start on a
fresh coat of white interior paint to bring Light into these rooms and my life!! Thank You Sonia for all your support!!!❤️🙏❤
I've had many crazy 3rd Dim. experiences... I gave away the full set of 1st edition book series of Harry Potter books to a local library. The reason I found this special was for this rationale ~ First they were nott taking any more donations of books. Secondly, when I told her about the HP books, her response was one of excitement because their books were quite used and falling apart from the Great popularity of kids wanting to read them, and having them read to them during All Hallows- Eve. I was Blessed that day with much gratitude and Happiness. They were my mom's books and she had transitioned ~ I too love to give and have for a very long time. 🎉❤🎉
I have been unwell for 3 years now. I’m so very tired of being unwell,and desire my health restored. My daughter visited me last month and cleaned my house for me, window, floors, etc, got rid of an old vacuum and got me a new one. Took a lot of things to good will for me. Felt so good… so the spark now since she left is I’m clearing out more old things that are no longer useful to me. It is feeling good to do this. And I pray will help me in my healing regaining my strength and balance again.
Sonia, when my granddaughter was younger, she would love to decorate our Christmas tree for us. We ended up with clumps of lights and some of the decorations mostly at the bottom or on one side, but her feeling of pride in helping us and decorating the tree for us was priceless. So I understand fully how you love the clump of lights on your tree and how they make you smile when you see them.
I had a large beautiful wood and brass vintage jewelry box that was given to me from my mom. For years it was one of my most important possessions. As I started doing a lot of inner work I realized that every time I looked at the box I thought of my parents master bedroom, where it used to be. Not a happy place. They had a messy divorce and my dad has long since passed away. Finally decided I didn't want to keep reliving that part of my life or think of my dad that way. A week after I let the box go to donation my life took a drastic turn, in an amazingly good direction.
I feel like the keeper of dead people’s things which is an honor
I’ve inherited so many different things- odds and ends- it’s so eclectic- it’s difficult to imagine to part with any of them- none of them are worth anything- but they are priceless to me and beautiful
I will take your invitation though with a glad heart
Thank you ☺️
This proves her point, that things with good energy are what speaks to us personally. These things you have may be meant for you if you feel such good energy from them. Sounds like a blessing to be the care taker of these inherited odds and ends :)
I felt that urge many times and followed through with those feelings, after doing all the purging felt incredibly better. I keep my bedroom as a sanctuary, keep the rest of my house the most comfortable according to my vibes as I can.
The word RELIC literally means “remains” or “dead bones.” So when I’m helping people, the first thing I suggest to them is to immediately get rid of RELICS from their home. It’s an instant fix in energy… 🌸💖💕
Love my ‘Ask your Guides’ oracle deck!! 🥰
I had a rowing machine that I bought at the time of COVID. I barely used it when COVID was over and just took it with me when I moved because I bought it, it wasn't cheap, I figured I'm not using it now but maybe later, and it took up a lot of room in my office. So every day I got to see this machine, taking up space. Feeling guilty I tried using it a couple of times to no avail. Finally, I gave it away. SO HAPPY now! The space is clear and open and I now feel so good about working in my office (at home). Sonia, you are so right on track with this clearing and blessing what you do have that brings you joy. Thank you so much for the validation. p.s. It turns out the person I gave it too needs it for physical therapy - who knew? (The Universe did! :) )
Dear Sonia, iv connect with you on another level and I thank you for what you are doing for me and humanity.
I am a tool guy and work with my hands, I used to see new tools on the market and buy to use.
After going on retirement, I have no inclination to work with them anymore ,I am now giving them away to people who can make use of them. I am asked why I don't sell them but just can't do that as I feel they would be better off with someone who will put them to good use, so slowly and as I can I'm finding a home these items that were once valuable to me.
I now just want as little as needed and more time to work on my spiritual goals.
Love and light to all ❤❤❤
Love from isle of man 🇮🇲 Sonia love your work
I'm giving away my things as I lost my job and I'm having to move house again for the umptienth time. I feel a lot lighter, and today when I gave my 3 tarot cards to someone they offered me a free yoga session in return. 🙌🏾
I'm new, but I am very much enjoying learning how to connect with my own spirit and my guides. 💗 I'm reading "Ask Your Guides" (just started) and just got the oracle deck. (Excited face as it has been sooo helpful!) I find that I have always needed to change things up in my home. I did this as a child too. I was always rearranging furniture and when I haven't been able to purchase what I'd like, I learned to make it, fostering creativity and my life's path. Lately, after MUCH shadow work and being freed from a lot of trauma, I've found myself needing to reconnect with the aesthetics I loved as a child. I've never been able to articulate that this is a need within me. I'm very sensitive to the aesthetics of my environment. Thank you so much for sharing! I can tell you are an authentic person truly sharing love, which makes my heart so joyful and so thankful!!! 💓
I loved this & it came in Divine timing! I gave up my whole life, literally. At 60 I became a global traveler & I go where I am guided to go. Would love your intuitive hit Sonia.
Thank you very much Sonia! I am realizing that letting go is part of my mission on earth! Not easy but doable and very freeing! I m still working on it! I greatly appreciate your teachings and wisdom! Blessings to you from Canada! 🙏✨️🐉🌹
I do this annually to invite new energy in and try and thank the things as they leave. After a painful breakup, my wardrobe was entirely black and my house in brown/black earth tones. Twelve years later, I have beach turquoise and orange and pinks and change out the colors with seasons. My higher being also said to say thank you to the apartment and belongings daily and watch what happens. It became much easier to clean!
I moved from Texas to Kuwait this Saturday 🎉 I gave away many things. I wasn’t easy at first. I’m here to be with my kids and grandkids. I’ve been following you a long time. Perfect video while doing my exercises this morning 😊
Wow!!!The energy operates in real time 💜💜💜My guides spoke to me 🎉🎉🎉 Super awesome
Thank you so much. I lost my Dad during Covid and have kept his house exactly as it was the day he left for hospital. I’ve been horribly stuck. You just made me realise what I need to do. And give myself permission to do
I agree with you about giving stuff away, passing it on with love.
Only 10 minutes into your video along with reading a few of the comments, I just did a major purge! Thank you! My truck's back and passenger seats are loaded and ready to donate to the thrift shop! Feels good. More to go (literally)! :-)
Thamnk You Sonia for your highest vibe readings! Thank you for you spiritual reminders!
Hi Sonia! You are right, sometimes it's about perception and how we view things, other times it's the vibes, and sometimes; it's BOTH. Also, what we put out always comes back, I love giving things away. We can never outgive the Universe, it always gives us exactly what we need, too. Thank you again for expanding our Consciousness! Have a wonderful day, and Bless your heart!!
I have always loved a clean environment I like the saying cleanliness is next to godliness. Thanks for sharing I sure love your energy it's beautiful
Sonia, I want to thank you for your videos. I performed a QHHT session yesterday and in less then 24 hours, my guides have used your videos to confirm some things in the session I had just performed. First video was last night about drinking more water. And this video confirmed two more things in the session. My heart is filled with joy and gratitude. Thank you (and our guides) so much 😊
The Spirit Guides Oracle deck is awesome. I have been using them for about 3 months now and they are so on point. Thank you Sonia.
Thank you so much for those blessings it's so much fun to do these weekly things with you I'm learning so much and my daughter and I are sharing this journey together thank you
I like when you pick a card. Thanks Sonia. Love you
Honestly, I just did my colour seasonal palette, with those lovely Italian ladies from melbourne on RUclips, and over the last few days have gone through all my clothes, jewellery, scarves, shoes, makeup etc and had a clear out and I feel soooo great! I have a giveaway pile for friends who might suit these things, and I feel soooo happy to finally understand why some things make me feel glowy and some things grey. It's ok to let it go! I now feel confident to choose things for the rest of my life even as trends change, I know what kind of combos suit me.. and I noticed how much of that is already in my home. Now I am looking at some pieces of furniture that I could let go of stories with.. I have thought I wanted to keep the strength of character enough to let go of past memories associated, but actually I just dont like the struggle of that, the memories havnt truely gone, and actually I want my future to look different to this. I'm so happy to be shedding layers now. I'm about to sell my bed too and move to a new futon. Life is good.
The first time I saw my current apartment I just felt good about it but because of doubt I lost it and I couldn't rent it. An year after the place was vacant again and without hesitation I took it. I love it ❤ I feel at peace, calm and it's like we matched energies. I love decluttering from time to time and often give out clothes, that I don't feel like it anymore, to red cross containers (ot others). When you give time to make a revision of the stuff in you home, clean and cleanse the place, you'll gain peace and clarity to you mind also.
For me the place where I live is really my sanctuary. Where I can recharge my energy, get inspiration, create ... Be my true self❤
I listened twice ❤
Thank you for all the beautiful insights you share with us.. I feel connected with you and your amazing cards are on my way to me
Today, I felt a call to clear three beautiful decorative boxes that I kept with me for about 10 years .. I used them to keep some sentimental stuff as well as other things but few days ago I looked at them and read three words that didn’t align with me anymore so I decided to give them away .. I enjoyed them while I had them and I can imagine someone out there enjoying them right now .. better things are coming our way .. love from London ❤
This session was so very helpful, Sonia! Like an itch to be scratched, I've been clearing as called for and giving away like there's no time to waste waiting for a buyer, and it is so F R E E I N G ! Neighbors around me vibe low and it seeps through the walls. So I am working it piece by piece. And I have a flower and veggie garden to die for that I hope fae enjoy as well. Again, thanks for this.
I went first and visited. I bought a cottage on Moose Island in Eastport, Maine and intended to just use it for a vacation home since it was super affordable, especially compared to California. But I was here last September for the pirate festival and when my plane flew out of Bangor back to California, I started crying because I didn’t want to go back. I am retired so finding work wasn’t an issue. I was free to go anywhere I wanted to. Thanks for asking and good luck.
Unwittingly I had so many “frenemies” as a younger person. I didn’t realize how much they didn’t want the best for me and even wished the worst. Cleared out those people first and then anything negative they ever gave me. You know, snarky “self help” books, clothes that were outlandishly too large, and other hidden-message “gifts.”
It feels like I got over a decades-long flu. It’s incredible.
I am not ready yet to throw myself away. Everything I have is a part of me.
The suggestion is to move on what does not lift you up. So good choice
Super timely message, thank you!
I like the blessing idea. I see myself full of needles and rocks that are sent with negative spite. I send love back yet it weighs me down until I realize what these people sent is hurting me from time to time. They really take my energy daily. I try so hard to connect. Big Hug All...
Thanks for a sparkling message. Love and light.❤
Merci chère belle âme
I am moving after 18 yrs in a home that I loved and a community I loved. I have found I am not attached to any of my material things and have given away expensive artwork I truly enjoyed emotionally but am not attached to. Much easier than I thought it would be. My friends and family are surprised at how much I gave away.
My parents were abusive to me too. I have a painting my dad painted . I had to practically beg him when he was alive for one of his paintings. It’s been over 25 years and I can’t even look at the painting. I keep it in my closet . I think he was sad when he painted this picture, and that’s what I feel when I look at it. One day maybe I’ll give it to someone .
I just love this deck, and I use it most days!!👍😇
Wow, second time leadership comes out into my life
Your timing is so apt. I have been organizing and changing my workstation and room for the last 2 weeks. It just felt like the clutter was cluttering my mind that I had to do something about it.
Thank you for taking the time to make uplifting videos! It helps keep me on track. Also, thanks for explaining the clump of lights. I completely understand and I love your stories!
I just had an epiphany this last weekend about how happiness as a misconception comes from getting it or arriving at it; instead it comes from letting things go. Shame, guilt, insecurities. This seems to hit the same concept. Buying your house in Paris wasn’t paradise in and of itself, it was what you made it by only keeping what was highly vibrational that made it a paradise. Just like life 🤔
wow, i have been SO sensitive to energy that i keep moving and traveling and changing places where i am staying with people but also being sometimes alone but i am experiencing so many changes, i just feel that i grow so much that i have now no attachment to things… these past two years i have not been able to stay in one place for a long time… and i feel that i was moving very intuitively.. but these short stays in places are being shorter and shorter - recently i moved out from a place where i stayed only for 2 weeks!!! yet for me it felt like three months at least… and now i am acknowledging that i am getting tired of moving around… i wonder if guided will guide me to a place that i can really call my home after all of this moving around… 🙏🏻 i love your videos, Sonia, they help me a lot♥️ thank you!
Just want to say thank you from my heart to yours and I wanted to tell you…I have always felt very inspired and loved after hearing one of your videos- so I am sending a lot of love and great energy your way 🙏🏼😇💖✨
This is my favorite videos of yours I've watched. And I watch all the time. I love your content. Thank you 🥰
Wonderful message for me. I’m starting a reiki practice as a second career. Been thinking about creating the space in my house for it so I think now is the time!
Good morning beautiful Soul Sonia & fellow Cosmos travelers. Sending much grace & gratitude to all.
Thank you for this message 🙏💖
I’ve been enjoying fresh flowers 🌸
Sonia, your channel is such an oasis
3 months I've been feeling a need to purge, but because I live off SSI (a small income), I've been torn on whether i should be giving stuff away, or selling it. I have a large pile of really great stuff, waiting for me to decide. Thank you for this video.. :) Glad to know it's not just me going through this right now.
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this I have accumulated so much stuff over the years and always think about donating & throwing away a lot of stuff It’s the guilt as well as the you’re poor don’t get rid of those clothes you’ll need them again in the future All excuses for not letting go of things I don’t need or even want I can’t thank you enough for making this much needed to heal video
Love it. Just everything so true and so clear explanation. THANK YOU 🧡
I have an inherited heirloom guitar that I secretly can't wait to get rid of because of the memories attached to it (and I'm a guitarist!). Thanks for helping me remember how much better I will feel when it's finally gone. Then I can get a guitar that I really love, that I chose. But now my mental list is compiling LOTS of other things I want to give away! 😂
Before I even tuned this video on I told my self it's time to clean my large pile of dishes " it's time to get these done" and I smiled to my self. Thank you Spirit guides!
I had the opportunity to get my own house & I was so excited. After moving in, I started feeling I didn't want to be there. My bestie did everything, we celebrated and cleansed it, and I burned candles and put new upgrades to the house. I ended up losing it, messing up my credit, & ended up homeless. I've never been in this situation in my life. What kinda mess is this? I felt, now I'm having to wake up at 4 am to meditate. 🧘🏾♀️ I never have b4. Currently, I'm trying to find my way. It's kinda getting better but it's super 🐌 slow.
yeah that was awesome I love it here in my home...my car...my new job @Mercedes... love what I'm doing... this region... my town... up on the mountains where I go... its awesome... its almost perfect just add my wife & more $$
Yes! I've been changing everything in the house. I don't care if things match or not. I feel free in so many more ways these days. 😁
What a beautiful recommendation 🌸
Thank you 🧼
🐝 Thoughtful inventory
Let go of the things that don’t belong or feel good 🐝
I've had to let go of a relationship today we had a lot of fun there was a lot of good things there were also a lot of painful things they wanted to continually bring up From years ago and I just told the person that we needed to not talk for a minute so that I could get my head clear and figure out my next move. This is a great video Thank you.
Good morning dear Sonia from Los Angeles!🌻💜🦋
I agree with you 100 percent!
Thank you for your message. My husband of 20 years was killed in 2019. We were separated at the time and after he died, I found out some things he did behind my back. He had secrets. His parents were horrible to me….wanted money from me. I had to deal with closing his business and he owed a lot of people a lot of money. Now, I’m getting ready to move from the house I bought after he died, but I had put some of his things and business papers in the attic. And I found photos of us during better times. I need to let all of this go. I offer anything that had positive memories to it to our daughter and I’m throwing out the rest. It IS liberating for sure! ❤
I love this! My guides certainly brought me here: I just gave notice on my beautiful little apartment in SF…a place that was a healing sanctuary after a break up and my dad passed. And 5 years later, after my sweet elder dog just passed this month, I knew I needed to leave. I have no where else lined up. I am in debt and I have a lot of unknowns: will I stay here, move to another state? I’m asking for guidance and opening my heart! Thank you again for this beautiful light you offer 💓 I’m excited for the new blessings! So grateful and nervous, but mostly excited for the new energy 💝
So timely I gave all of my jewelry away that was gifted to me by my x husband if thirty years....I gave it to my daughter in law, I hope the bad jewjew didn't follow it!!! I give everything away at 72 nothing really floats my boat...I minimized took all art work down
❤ it has a place just not with me, so loving to respect it and share ❤️
This is so on point. I've been feeling like I need to let go. Thank you
Great video! I am actively clearing a home I have for sale to uplift and neutralize the energies. The timing of this video is soo synchronous. I bless and say “I love you” to my present home, garden, plants/trees/critters and express daily gratitude. It’s amazing how I have never wanted to accumulate stuff because that is what it is. I love beautiful things I just recognized early in my life that I didn’t need a ton of stuff to enjoy my life. My freedom loving spirit always led the way. Since I have growing kids, donating stuff is a way of life. I always try to give anything we grow out of a second life. That is what I believe we all should do. Living in the flow is a blessing. Thank you Sonia for your beautiful work. I am intrigued by your deck, will look for it! ❤
Thank you Sonia! This video is certainly in alignment with what I feel these past couple of months. I am purging so much stuff right now! I have always struggled with this my whole life through… but my guides and the energy has been urging me to clear out anything that isn’t resonating with my evolving soul NOW! I have enlisted help and the right people have come along to really cheer me on and physically help me clear my space.
So good to see so many others who are doing this practical work as well as the inner work that we’ve all been doing these past few years! 🙏🏼✨💕
Excellent message 🥰 so needed and appreciated 🙏🏻✨ mahalo
I could go on, I have also had tragedy events...but I rose above I succeeded I gave the ugliest away.
I love you thank you
Thank you so much, Sonia!
Thank you I have been working on these very ideas. Perfect timing!😊
Wow 1st time to the channel ! THANK YOU !
Non attachement to anything and anyone ! ..I've never felt so liberated in my life! ..just moved in to a new place i rent. Tomorrow evening I'm burning a lot of old clothes i kept ,feel like they carry a lot of heavy energy i don't need anymore
I need to do more clearing. Thank you ❤
It’s liberating ❤
Was just thinking all this today
Hello Sonia from Tennessee. Love you ❤ Salvador Dali bothers me too. Had one of his paintings in my home and it was creepy😊
I disagree for myself. Glad for you. I am surrounded by books that are friends but house city state people dont really fit me. I need finances better to be able to shift other things better. Working hard towards this goal. Tired but see my goal. I see you all. I dont see where yet. More inside needs healing. I wish my mentors were closer. I invite you. Love to All. Big Hug...
So much truth in what you are saying Sonja. ❤ I am now also getting ready to move out of my house. It gives me a sense of a new start and it fills me with joy. I have been looking at everything around me and making decisions about what I need to let go off. I have been giving things away to some friends and also leaving things at a local thrift store. It is such a wonderful feeling to be able to share and to be generous in so many ways. Our local thrift store then donates the money earned from the donated items to the local nonprofit organizations to help people and animals in need. I also feel joy knowing that I want to only surround myself with the things that have a higher vibration and also resonate with me. Thank you so much Sonja. Many blessings! 🙏