Please do not let him know where you live, as former law enforcement you don’t know what might make a person that’s desperate turn violence. Now I’m not saying physically but I have seen where they purposefully destroy rental property’s so you will be evicted or charged for the damages. Trying to force you back. So please head my advice do not let him find out your physical address. Meet at a neutral place and then make sure he doesn’t follow you after.
@@livinglife8333 Thank you and that's so true. But I'm sure if he wanted to be could figure it out or has. I haven't heard from him since I moved though. He is a EMT and firefighter so I know he could look it up.
Currently 5 weeks in my new home and escaped from a life of hell from my abusive husband of 25 years and never ever been more happy . Goodluck to you and God bless everyone who is still trapped ❤
I left a narcissist after 12 years. Thank God this one was only 4 months and I knew what I had to do. I'm happy being alone but it will nice to date again eventually too. My eyes are wide open now to everything.
Stay by yourself awhile and live your life. My husband passed two years ago. I'm starting all over again too. This time on my own. Just bought a new mobile home. My name is the only one on it. I'm doing everything on my own and for myself. Congratulations on doing it on your own.
You could put a small table up against your kitchen wall for 2 people and buy one of those small sectional couches the real small ones for your living area . Hang tv on wall that swivels . That would be cute
The best of everything to you! You deserve it. A man should never give a woman bruises?? Ever! You deserve peace, harmony, love and true joy in your life!!
Me and Nina are so happy for you! Love how job, car and home came together for you. For the fridge you might want check apartment size fridge, and a suggestion for the closet is to keep the bathroom door open as much as possible, moisture. Another suggestion, if there's room in the bedroom a small free standing wardrobe Amazon has some for around $50. Don't know if any of these ideas are helpful. Please keep us updated as you fix up your cute cozy home
@@BlessedWithNina yes ma'am that's a good idea but the bathroom door will stay open and the bedroom door open as well since the ac/heat unit is in the bedroom. I may get a small plugin wall heater for the bathroom for cold weather to shower. I'll have to figure out the closet situation soon. Tell Nina hello for me. 🫶❤️
This is my 1st time coming across your channel. I'm so proud of you, and congratulations on your new journey in life. You are the Master of your fate. God Bless. ❤
I just found you. Your tiny home will be fabulous! Im very happy that you were able to get away from your abuser. I know from experience that its is a long healing process. You got this! Stay strong!
How exciting! 😊 A nice cozy cottage, just in time for winter! And you look fantastic! The porch area is spacious and will be fun to decorate, also! Yes! You did it! 🤜🤛
Your video just popped up on my feed, so I’ve only watched this one. From your narration it sounds like you have made a brave move and that you are taking care of yourself. When I was young I used to think that besides having my children that the best day of a woman’s life always involved some new start with a man…marriage…living together, etc. BUT…I’ve since learned that buying your own house is THE BEST thing ever. Congratulations to you!!!
Congratulations on pulling your life back together.. I have been where you are.. so I know the struggle all too well. Please be careful when you tell him you are leaving. I don't know the history of your relationship. Keep going forward it will get better, and you will be a stronger person for it. Smiles
You can do a lot with the space you have there’s nothing like being able to come in your own house and lock the door behind you! It will be a sweet little cottage 🏡
I'm rooting for you! You take your time, choose the things that bring you joy, and make that your cozy cottage home of your dreams. It's your courage and creativity that will bring it all together. Enjoy the space. Enjoy the openness, and how just the act of sweeping and cleaning transforms each corner. Be safe, and know there is an army of ladies on this You Tube thing that get you--and are absolutely cheering and praying for your success! 🏡🏡🏡🏡🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Congratulations 🎉 onward & upward! There's nothing quite like the satisfaction of accomplishing things on your own, & you're batting 1,000 right now ~ you GO, girl 😊 !
I agree 💯💯 percent, do NOT tell him where you live!!! I worked at women resource center, and some women coming in hadstayed thete far from where they lived. So for your well being, please take care of YORRSELF. God Bless, I've seen abused people. 👌👍🤗🤓
You can probably get a 10 cubic refrigerator/ freezer for about 200.00 maybe less. Or go to a gently used appliance store. You would pay for 3 refrigerators by the time you rent one. God bless you, I pray that you receive many more blessings.🥰
I believe you will make your new home beautiful. It will be a peaceful refuge for you and your puppy dog "T-bone". I do believe you are right and the ramp will be a very welcome convenience for your puppy dog. The garden will blossom and give you a place to express yourself with flowers and gorgeous plants to make your place more your taste. I am a little bit worried about you, because I don't know your circumstances with your ex because I am a new subscriber. I see that you seem to be confident that you will be okay, so I am glad about that. Stay safe and take special care of you. I am sticking around for your journey. Virtual hugs for you and your little T-bone puppy.
I appreciate your kind words and concern, I'm doing better and I'm so excited to be starting this new chapter. And I'm perfectly fine being here alone. No worries. 🥰
That's going to be very cute when you get it all set up. Congratulations again. Glad I found you. Will include you in my prayers if that's OK. Women collectively need to get better at lifting other women up. Please be careful when you tell him you're leaving. Leaving can be very dangerous.
One suggestion is if you want a table, look for a drop leaf table that you can put by the window with a chair or a little style cafe table and chair. Keep your eyes out on market place and for curb side finds that you can fix up. Also look at thrift stores, and yard sales. Also check with local churches and maybe put out there with friends if they have anything they want to donate to a store if you can have first look at it and see if you can use it. Another suggestion for a table is a coffee table that converts or some kind of table you can use in front of your love seat that you can eat at and pull up a chair to on the other side for a guest or two. I have a small livingroom myself and use a drop leaf table that I can put up against the wall and put a vase on and raise one side up to eat at and lower it when done. A rolling island cart would be perfect that has storage underneath for food and pots and pans. Def more shelves in the kitchen for your plates and glassware and mugs. Look up on pinterest tiny kitchen ideas, small kitchen ideas and tiny mobile home ideas. Might be some things there to help with ideas for your new home and congratulations.
This is a lovely little place. The neighborhood seems very peaceful and all the places look well kept. The trees are so pretty. Check around the thrift stores in your area for a small drop leaf table and chairs for your kitchen, a vintage chest that can double as coffee table or tv stand and shelving units/rolling carts for storage. I would get a clothes rack or wardrobe for the bedroom to put your hanging clothes in. Put shelves in that spot in the bathroom to store cleaning supplies, tp and towels.
Congrats on your own home! It feels good doesn't it? I guess that closet in the bedroom is the water heater? I like that the top can hold decorative storage, like one of those spinning bookcases that can hold tee-shirts, leggings, jewelry and stuff in fabric cubes. Artifical wisteria vines and fairy lights could hide the waterheater. I love the cottagecore look that those curtains on the cabinet and bathroom vanity. A Galanz fridge is smaller and has the vintage look of cottagecore. A fabric curtain for the closet would help complete that cottagecore look. Enjoy your new home!
Im a new subscriber. I'm so excited for you and am looking forward to see what you do. I'm redoing my space now so I hope to get new ideas from you😊 stay healthy, happy and safe always.
I don't know how big T-Bone is cuz this is the first video of yours that I've seen but when you put up the gate make sure they can't get under the house... I don't even want to think about that lol. You did good! ❤
Congratulations on your new place 🎉. Don't you think when you walk in would be a little living room. I've been through this more than once. Thrift stores and Facebook market place can help. Facebook has stuff free also.
Congratulations on your new place.I just came across your RUclips channel.I'm proud of you.I've been through similar things like you. No one's business but you're own, do your thing girlfriend. I like your little house.I live in an efficiency apartment myself so yeah, but we make it our own. Good luck with all you do. I'm enjoying your videos.
Is that two bedrooms or one?? Congratulations. It is small but it could be fixed up really cute…… I love decorating!!! I would clean it before you move in. While it is empty it will be much quicker!!!
You did it. Good job. Cute place. Some small shelves and a cart for under the sink. You are good to go. Get some things moved first and then let him know.
I'm new to your channel. I hope you don't mind all the suggestions I'm making. I'm thrilled for you. The mini split means that you don't need those vents in the floor (at this point, they're just holes in the floor) you can place your dog's bed & kennel over those if you want to. I was looking for "with love Kristina" yt channel, she does cottagecore, when your channel came up. Cuz your name is Christina. I've thumbs upped and subbed.
I'm new here you will make it your home once you get everything you need I don't know about your situation but you are moving forward and life is for living and making happy memories looking forward to seeing you move in take care 🤗🫶🏴
You don't want to have the foot of your bed pointing towards the door. It means you'll be leaving that house soon. I did that once when I wanted to move, it worked. But in hindsight that didn't work out well for me.
It's a nice little place, I love the floorings, I'd put a small island with two chairs to it, in between your kitchen and living space...I hope all goes well for you. 😊
Please do not let him know where you live, as former law enforcement you don’t know what might make a person that’s desperate turn violence. Now I’m not saying physically but I have seen where they purposefully destroy rental property’s so you will be evicted or charged for the damages. Trying to force you back. So please head my advice do not let him find out your physical address. Meet at a neutral place and then make sure he doesn’t follow you after.
@@livinglife8333 Thank you and that's so true. But I'm sure if he wanted to be could figure it out or has. I haven't heard from him since I moved though. He is a EMT and firefighter so I know he could look it up.
Currently 5 weeks in my new home and escaped from a life of hell from my abusive husband of 25 years and never ever been more happy . Goodluck to you and God bless everyone who is still trapped ❤
I left a narcissist after 12 years. Thank God this one was only 4 months and I knew what I had to do. I'm happy being alone but it will nice to date again eventually too. My eyes are wide open now to everything.
Stay by yourself awhile and live your life. My husband passed two years ago. I'm starting all over again too. This time on my own. Just bought a new mobile home. My name is the only one on it. I'm doing everything on my own and for myself. Congratulations on doing it on your own.
I truly wish you all the best in your journey.
@MarieJS535 thank you
Congratulations ! God Bless the child that has her OWN ! Enjoy !
New follower I love seeing new beginnings
Congrats! There is nothing better than your own space. I am so happy for you! PEACE OF MIND...CHECK!!!
You could put a small table up against your kitchen wall for 2 people and buy one of those small sectional couches the real small ones for your living area . Hang tv on wall that swivels . That would be cute
@@Nursing609 did you watch the updated videos? It shows what I've done so far and I'll continue putting them out as I go. Good ideas. Thanks.
The best of everything to you! You deserve it. A man should never give a woman bruises?? Ever! You deserve peace, harmony, love and true joy in your life!!
@@LeeAnnCarlsted-uy1fr 💯% ❣️ True. thank you.
Yea it definitely wasn't what I thought it would be with him. Now I have my guard up even more.
That front porch is gorgeous! Congrats!
Good for you. Everyone deserved a safe, comfortable roof over their heads
I don't know you but I am so happy for you!!! 💖
Me and Nina are so happy for you! Love how job, car and home came together for you. For the fridge you might want check apartment size fridge, and a suggestion for the closet is to keep the bathroom door open as much as possible, moisture. Another suggestion, if there's room in the bedroom a small free standing wardrobe Amazon has some for around $50. Don't know if any of these ideas are helpful. Please keep us updated as you fix up your cute cozy home
@@BlessedWithNina yes ma'am that's a good idea but the bathroom door will stay open and the bedroom door open as well since the ac/heat unit is in the bedroom. I may get a small plugin wall heater for the bathroom for cold weather to shower.
I'll have to figure out the closet situation soon.
Tell Nina hello for me. 🫶❤️
@@DragonflyzPrepsteadNDesigns I told Nina that you say hi, Nina smiled signed dragonfly and hug
This is my 1st time coming across your channel. I'm so proud of you, and congratulations on your new journey in life. You are the Master of your fate. God Bless. ❤
I just found you.
Your tiny home will be fabulous! Im very happy that you were able to get away from your abuser.
I know from experience that its is a long healing process. You got this! Stay strong!
How exciting! 😊 A nice cozy cottage, just in time for winter! And you look fantastic! The porch area is spacious and will be fun to decorate, also! Yes! You did it! 🤜🤛
I am excited and lots of good things are happening now ❤️
Enjoy your new Home!! Many Blessings!!
It's better then apartment living
yes and I have a yard, a corner lot 😁
LOOK WHAT OUR GURL DID🔥😍😎🔥So proud of you and so happy for you!! You did it!!💯💯
@@shesawildflower1910 yes ma'am. With some friends coaxing me along the way. love ya!
Congratulations on everything; new car, FT job, and home 👍🏼👍🏼
My family of 4 survived w/2 mini fridges for 6 months as our new fridge was on back order ( pandemic ) Mini fridge will be perfect! ❤
Congrats!!!
Congratulations on your new home ❤😊
Your video just popped up on my feed, so I’ve only watched this one. From your narration it sounds like you have made a brave move and that you are taking care of yourself. When I was young I used to think that besides having my children that the best day of a woman’s life always involved some new start with a man…marriage…living together, etc. BUT…I’ve since learned that buying your own house is THE BEST thing ever. Congratulations to you!!!
Do NOT give anyone(!!) your address. Be safe!❤
I agree. I have a PO Box
Congratulations on pulling your life back together.. I have been where you are.. so I know the struggle all too well. Please be careful when you tell him you are leaving. I don't know the history of your relationship.
Keep going forward it will get better, and you will be a stronger person for it. Smiles
You can do a lot with the space you have there’s nothing like being able to come in your own house and lock the door behind you! It will be a sweet little cottage 🏡
You can make your new place look so cute!
Great deck. I love a corner lot and a beautiful tree. Really nice place.
Dont put alot $ fixing that up bc your just leasing it- get the landlord to paint and fix cabinets…..
I'm rooting for you! You take your time, choose the things that bring you joy, and make that your cozy cottage home of your dreams. It's your courage and creativity that will bring it all together. Enjoy the space. Enjoy the openness, and how just the act of sweeping and cleaning transforms each corner. Be safe, and know there is an army of ladies on this You Tube thing that get you--and are absolutely cheering and praying for your success! 🏡🏡🏡🏡🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@wendyreynolds8940 Thank you so much 💞
Congratulations!!! Can't wait to see how you decorate your new home!!! 💜
Congratulations 🎉 onward & upward! There's nothing quite like the satisfaction of accomplishing things on your own, & you're batting 1,000 right now ~ you GO, girl 😊 !
Little steps are everything. Your place is so cute and love the porch and trees.
Congratulations on your new home!!! ❤❤
congrats. Enjoy your new home.
Congrats! I pray you and your dog will be safe.
Congrats on your place, its so exciting , It looks great .Im sure you will make it all look fantastic! ❤
I agree 💯💯 percent, do NOT tell him where you live!!! I worked at women resource center, and some women coming in hadstayed thete far from where they lived. So for your well being, please take care of YORRSELF. God Bless, I've seen abused people. 👌👍🤗🤓
I'm not worried. He prob already knows where I live. It's fine.
Died the park have a laundry area. You can make that really cute. Just take your time.
@@loisxander6321 no, I have to go into town to do laundry. I'm working on decorating now. Thank you.
You can probably get a 10 cubic refrigerator/ freezer for about 200.00 maybe less. Or go to a gently used appliance store. You would pay for 3 refrigerators by the time you rent one. God bless you, I pray that you receive many more blessings.🥰
I believe you will make your new home beautiful. It will be a peaceful refuge for you and your puppy dog "T-bone". I do believe you are right and the ramp will be a very welcome convenience for your puppy dog.
The garden will blossom and give you a place to express yourself with flowers and gorgeous plants to make your place more your taste.
I am a little bit worried about you, because I don't know your circumstances with your ex because I am a new subscriber. I see that you seem to be confident that you will be okay, so I am glad about that.
Stay safe and take special care of you. I am sticking around for your journey. Virtual hugs for you and your little T-bone puppy.
I appreciate your kind words and concern, I'm doing better and I'm so excited to be starting this new chapter. And I'm perfectly fine being here alone. No worries. 🥰
Hi,New Follower, CONGRATULATIONS, BLESSINGS On Your New Beginning 🙏🏾
So this is a rental
Cool
Hope the price is affordable
Because nowadays it’s super super hard to find anything that a single non rich person can afford
I love the front porch area!❤
@@La_Tasha me too. I'll eventually get cute furniture for it.
I love your new place! It is great!
Just move your stuff out and leave dont tell him your leaving just pack up and go. Dont tell him where your at.
That's going to be very cute when you get it all set up. Congratulations again. Glad I found you. Will include you in my prayers if that's OK. Women collectively need to get better at lifting other women up. Please be careful when you tell him you're leaving. Leaving can be very dangerous.
Amen 🙏🏽 it’s yours that’s what matters 🫶🏽 Good for you…
Way to go! I am proud of you!
Congrats 🎊 and God Bless you🙏
One suggestion is if you want a table, look for a drop leaf table that you can put by the window with a chair or a little style cafe table and chair. Keep your eyes out on market place and for curb side finds that you can fix up. Also look at thrift stores, and yard sales. Also check with local churches and maybe put out there with friends if they have anything they want to donate to a store if you can have first look at it and see if you can use it. Another suggestion for a table is a coffee table that converts or some kind of table you can use in front of your love seat that you can eat at and pull up a chair to on the other side for a guest or two. I have a small livingroom myself and use a drop leaf table that I can put up against the wall and put a vase on and raise one side up to eat at and lower it when done. A rolling island cart would be perfect that has storage underneath for food and pots and pans. Def more shelves in the kitchen for your plates and glassware and mugs. Look up on pinterest tiny kitchen ideas, small kitchen ideas and tiny mobile home ideas. Might be some things there to help with ideas for your new home and congratulations.
@@Peaceful-Dez thank you for the great ideas, I'll look into that. I'm off work tomorrow so I'll have time to stop by some thrift stores
This is a lovely little place. The neighborhood seems very peaceful and all the places look well kept. The trees are so pretty. Check around the thrift stores in your area for a small drop leaf table and chairs for your kitchen, a vintage chest that can double as coffee table or tv stand and shelving units/rolling carts for storage. I would get a clothes rack or wardrobe for the bedroom to put your hanging clothes in. Put shelves in that spot in the bathroom to store cleaning supplies, tp and towels.
Great ideas. Thank you.
Congratulations 🎉 I'm proud of you and happy for you.
Very proud of you its beautiful
Congratulations sweetie. So happy for you. You did great. Your home is yours and it’s nice. Go girl
A job, car and a place to call home - congratulations! I’m sure you’ll make it a cosy space with all your things. Wishing you all the best! ❤
Awesome!
Congratulations on your new cute place! Love the front porch!
So proud for you. What a big accomplishment. Congratulations 🎉🎊
Very nice. Love that big deck!
Sunflowers theme sounds nice.
Amazing. You deserve it!!!! Love the deck and love love the vegetable garden idea. Love the landscaping and the shade.
Congratulations 🎉🎁🎈🍾🥳. On your new home. GOD bless you 🙏🏾
Very nice! Love the porch and the blue shutters. Congratulations!
congratulations!!!!!🎉🎉🎉
WOOHOO!! YOU DID IT, ALL ON YOUR OWN!!!🙏🏼🫂❤️😘
🤗 I am working on yours
@@tamara-lnlhomestead1441 yes ma'am. I'm smiling 😁
Congrats on your own home! It feels good doesn't it? I guess that closet in the bedroom is the water heater? I like that the top can hold decorative storage, like one of those spinning bookcases that can hold tee-shirts, leggings, jewelry and stuff in fabric cubes. Artifical wisteria vines and fairy lights could hide the waterheater. I love the cottagecore look that those curtains on the cabinet and bathroom vanity. A Galanz fridge is smaller and has the vintage look of cottagecore. A fabric curtain for the closet would help complete that cottagecore look. Enjoy your new home!
I like the cottagecore vibe, I'll have to look into that.
Way to go Dragonflyz, very happy for you ❤😘
it’s good size , glad you got it and can start to grow
Super proud of you
You did it! Congratulations!
Great news..good job Dragonflyz!!
@@AmeRICKaholic Well Hey stranger!! How ya been? And yes, I'm proud of myself. I finally did it. Been through hell but I made it. 😁
Im a new subscriber. I'm so excited for you and am looking forward to see what you do. I'm redoing my space now so I hope to get new ideas from you😊 stay healthy, happy and safe always.
I don't know how big T-Bone is cuz this is the first video of yours that I've seen but when you put up the gate make sure they can't get under the house... I don't even want to think about that lol. You did good! ❤
Walmart sells apartment refrigerators.
Congratulations on your new place 🎉. Don't you think when you walk in would be a little living room. I've been through this more than once. Thrift stores and Facebook market place can help. Facebook has stuff free also.
@@georgiamoore8231 yes. I've been working on it. I have several more videos up and working on the next premier now.
I'm so excited for you! Love that porch!
@@SassyGalPrepping Thank you and I love it too. I can't wait to make it cute and comfy. 😁
Congratulations on your new place.I just came across your RUclips channel.I'm proud of you.I've been through similar things like you. No one's business but you're own, do your thing girlfriend. I like your little house.I live in an efficiency apartment myself so yeah, but we make it our own. Good luck with all you do. I'm enjoying your videos.
Congratulations! ♥️
Is that two bedrooms or one?? Congratulations. It is small but it could be fixed up really cute…… I love decorating!!! I would clean it before you move in. While it is empty it will be much quicker!!!
So beautiful wow❤
Huge congratulations from Ireland !
Nice keep your head up you can turn that little closet in the bathroom a lining closet and get a armoire for your room
You did it. Good job. Cute place. Some small shelves and a cart for under the sink. You are good to go. Get some things moved first and then let him know.
So happy for you. Love the deck.
Thank you, I love it too!
I'm new to your channel. I hope you don't mind all the suggestions I'm making. I'm thrilled for you. The mini split means that you don't need those vents in the floor (at this point, they're just holes in the floor) you can place your dog's bed & kennel over those if you want to. I was looking for "with love Kristina" yt channel, she does cottagecore, when your channel came up. Cuz your name is Christina. I've thumbs upped and subbed.
🎉 Congratulations
So happy for you 🎉
Put some Decon packets under the skirting for Mice and set some traps inside. Wishing you all the luck😀
I'm new here you will make it your home once you get everything you need I don't know about your situation but you are moving forward and life is for living and making happy memories looking forward to seeing you move in take care 🤗🫶🏴
Congrats 🎉
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 so happy for you!!!
That is awesome, good on ya!
You don't want to have the foot of your bed pointing towards the door. It means you'll be leaving that house soon. I did that once when I wanted to move, it worked. But in hindsight that didn't work out well for me.
I thought the same thing
I had the same problem with that stove brand
@@mysticmeadowshomestead6209 I never even thought of that or have heard that. Interesting 🤔
That has never worked for me. 🤔
Congrats, but as a renter appliances which a fridge should be included.
It's a nice little place, I love the floorings, I'd put a small island with two chairs to it, in between your kitchen and living space...I hope all goes well for you. 😊
Congratulations
Congratulations!
I think you should paint those kitchen cabinets a pretty color . It’s the first thing you see when you walk in. This will be adorable!
I'm renting so I'd have to get permission but I agree.
Congratulations! 🎉🧡
Congrats on your home❤❤❤
I would go on the Facebook market page for your refrigerator. I’m sure someone has one cheap for sale if not free.