As someone who is only 13 years old, and lost both parents... I still feel grateful that I have a 21 year older brother, providing me food, shelter, education and love He works as a teacher at my school. Even though i lost both parents this year, lost one sister last year, and one sister this year, I still be grateful for whatever reason. My dad had to go somewhere in 2018 and I didnt see him..Only heard about his death on my Brothers wedding 😭 My mum died in september due to something im not allowed to say in public (sorry) Now its just Me, my brother, 5 Younger sisters (all under the age of 4) and My brothers wife. My dad died overseas and had his violin. The violin got passed to me, and I learnt it within 5 months. I still play the violin as it makes me calm down If you are feeling down for any reason, dont be afraid to ask for help.
That's so much, darling. I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I wish you the best and you're doing amazing. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. You're an awesome person. Life sucks sometimes, but you're so strong. I'm proud of you. ❤❤❤
I feel bad for all the guys, they don't get many sincere compliments, touch is something they've learned to live without because it's considered "weak" or "unmasculine", and are expected pretty much not to cry, etc. etc. If someone tells you you're weak for crying, your not, you're normal. There. Is. Nothing. Wrong. With. Shedding. TEARS! I luv u! ❤
@@tealeaf2736 yeah like I don't like hugging my parents cause like it's awkward because they hardly spend any time with me. They are always on a phone or spending time with my brothers. Like I haven't hardly spent any time with my parents in 4 months ish but usually that's just going grocery shopping. 🤷♀️
To whoever sees this: If you ever feel like you're worthless, or that you're an accident, or that you don't deserve to be happy, remember this: SO MANY THINGS had to go right for you to exist. A woman has hundreds of eggs in her body, each one a potential human being. YOU were the one that actually came into the world. YOU were the one who lived. And nothing should deprive you of that privilege. If this reaches even one person, I will be so happy that I could help make your life a little brighter. You are beautiful inside and out. You are loved. You are special. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Thank you! I appreciate the kind message. Except no one tells me I'm worthless or anything but I always feel like a burden to everybody, and that I shouldn't hang out with people because I'm not cool enough ig. My brain is kinda weird ig
you are important and you are here for a reason,Your a human and ur not dependent on anyone if people wont let you think that way fuck them,Your life depends on you,You are a whole person and you need validation from people to feel important or cool :)
As the younger sibling I can confirm it's pretty scary to annoy your older siblings if you know they're doing something. Be kind to us, okay? unless we're really fucked lmao
As the oldest sibling, I do forget how hurtful lashing out can be, and so many times I see my younger self in my little brother. I get frustrated a lot, because it's easy to get caught up in your own issues. I've projected a lot of my insecurities onto him because of what I've experienced, and nothing hurts more than knowing how that could've badly affected him. Just know your older siblings do love more than you could ever know, especially when it's difficult for them to express affection. Even when it feels like they don't care at all and shut themselves out, trust me they are thinking about how much they love you.
1:11 This hit me hard. My younger friend called my other friend while we were in school a few weeks ago. She said she missed the bus and she was on a bridge and that she thought she was going to take her own life. The friend she called panicked and got me and together we told the school counselor what was happening. The bridge is near the school, so the two of us and the counselor went to try and find my friend. I started having a panic attack when we couldn't see her and the counselor started looking off the bridge to the freeway below. It turns out, an off-duty police officer saw my friend standing on the bridge while she was on the phone with us. They came and took her to the station and got her the help she needs (she went to the hospital for a while). I've never met that person, but I'm forever grateful that they saved my baby and that they took the time to stop. I don't know what I'd do without her.
I just wanna say if you've struggled with suicidal thoughts this past year, I am so proud of you for staying. You are strong and don't forget that. You can make it another year!!!
4:19 I really needed this. I have been neglected a lot lately by my parents, told to shut up the second I start talking, and told “stop it, your talking too loudly”. And that’s what I hate about myself, I’m too loud when I talk. I started crying seeing this. I’m only 12..
i can relate,but in some different ways. im younger than you haah,but you can feel anything and anything can happen to you no matter what age you are. love u all
Sweetie you don't speak loud, their ears are just too sensitive. Trust Me don't do that. Don't shut down or stop talking how you speak. Maybe they look away when you talk and that's just rude, so you speak a little louder just to get their attention. Honey if they do that it's rude and you don't need to put up with that. Don't do that, you'll end up like a volcano, not good. Speak up never be quiet, that's why we have a voice and a mouth, so use it.
I lost my great grandma, to it too, im so sorry. and my papa has Parkinson’s disease currently and he’s dying from it and forgetting everyone. Im so sorry you went thru it too.
@@alaynas7621 im so sorry for your loss. i hope someone can find a cure to these diseases in the future to honor everyone who lost to it and also save people. as for your papa, im so sorry. please know that you are not alone.
I didn't talk my grandma for a few years due to depression. When I finally felt better today I called her and she didn't remember me. That broke me😥 She has early stages of dimentia. The guilt I feel is so big. I'm hurting in a way I never hurt before. I'm sorry to anyone that lost a grandparent to this horrible disease. 💔
*When ever they hit too close to home and you just sit there with silent tears rolling down my face* sad thing is that they are all related to siblings and i cry my heart out because i feel so bad and i hurt myself over it.
Im always on a screen doing things. And my dad came home, he told me to get off. But I was doing something important, and I said gimme a couple minutes. He said "You've been on that all day! And if you go blind im not going to take care of you!" That hurt..
I totally feel the “k!lling the vibe” because every time I go to play music at my friends house she says “NO SAD MUSIC WITH YOUR 21 PILOTS AND BILLIE EILISH” 😢
this rlly made me realize i’m very rude and not just to random people my closest friend and family i ignore and i’m so rude i wish i could just start life over again even tho ik it wouldn’t change
I was there, I got help. I'm getting stronger everyday... healing day by day from severe anxiety, depression, and ptsd. It's upsetting that the one I loved left me just as I began getting treatment but I'm pushing through each day. It does get better, I promise you. Whatever you're going through is not forever. It may seems like the pain or numbness is everlasting, but it's not. The sadness and pain won't last forever. I am walking proof of that. But I am always open to being a listening ear for those that need one. I'll be your shoulder to cry on.
Everyone hates the youngest siblings, but honestly the older ones bully the younger ones and make them feel bad by taking their anger out on us. Every age group has issues, but lots of people don't understand that younger siblings go through bad things, too. I don't know who else needed to hear this, but if you are the younger/youngest sibling I love you.
6:11 You’re lonely because you don’t have anyone but yourself to talk to. But you want to be alone because you’re going to expect something bad from someone when they do try to talk to you.
TikTok: If you say yes to any of this without hesitation you need a break Me: ok TikTok: Hello, Hello, are you lonely? Me:…That’s it? TikTok: Yes. Me: So if I say yes to hello I need a break? Am I just not supposed to respond to people when they say hello?
The first one really hurt for me. My grandfather had Alzheimer's and every time I went to see him, he wouldn't remember certain things we would do every time I saw him. He passed the day this video was posted.
for anybody who is reading this rn: Hey! I know you might be going through ALOT right now and feel like you wanna break down into lil pieces, it’s hard and Ik the feeling of it but remember this, YOU are beautiful , YOU are smart, YOU have a great body, YOU ARE PERFECT!!!! There is so MANY reasons R͟I͟G͟H͟T͟ reason why you are on this planet. If you have feel hopeless, worthless, useless, just remember it’s okay to be sad sometimes and to cry, everyone goes through that stuff. I want you to lift your head up, wipes those tears away, look in the mirror and say “I’m perfect 🤩 “ ok? I love you!
2:42 bruh 😐 I feel this just recently me and my little sister just keep fighting I love her so much but I get so mad i hate it and I feel so guilty and I try to say sorry but she just gets mad again so I get mad and I hate doing this with her or when I get upset at my family my dad will ground me and take my phone away and when I call down and try to apologize they assume I'm saying sorry to get my phone back and it just makes me feel so idk bad?
Hey you! Yeah you the one reading this… yeah your gonna watch sad tikroks to try and make yourself better but guess what? You are awesome! Life is tough, but so are you!! You got this whatever you are going through it WILL get better!! Keep going ♥️♥️
Dear person who is reading this, I want you to know this your life does matter. It’s ok to not be okay. This is just temporary and your scars are battle scars. You are not fighting this battle alone whether it be cancer, an Ed, depression, anxiety, DID, etc. I care about you and love you. You are so beautiful/handsome. You are the writer of your own story. I understand how it feels to feel like you are useless or your life doesn’t matter. It does and you are not useless. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. You are a queen/king. I am so proud of you. You are a rockstar. If you are part of the lgbtqai+ remember this you are valid. No matter what I will always support you. No matter your size,height,sexuality, gender, etc. You are perfect.❤️ Sending love and care, Jelly Karl
First one was too relatable as someone who moved away from their home town, I can name every person I sent to school with but most of them probably forgot about me.
Idk who needs to hear this but If you are suicidal or something relating to that please get help Someone out here will miss you aka your friends your brother/sister your parents your online friends anyone you know You are all loved and don’t take your life bc you think you are “too ugly” or “can’t do anything right” No matter how bad life gets it will get better ❤️🩹 treat ppl how you want to be treated aka if you have a bad day an you can’t get your emotions out so you take it out on someone. They will treat you bad bc they think you hate them. So please try something else like reading or talking to a loved one about your day.. sometimes a hug can make a day better
when my dog died i told my 2 closest friends one was nice about it and the other was messing around and they have not reached out to me and today is the one-month anniversary
My cat just died, he was 19 and he was older than me and one of my favorite people in my life just dies and he was old. I was cleaning my room when I put my hamper in the laundry room and I got worried that he would pee on it because he would do that he was so old. But I realized he couldn’t…
Hey I wanted to apologize on the behalf of older siblings because we can be harsh sometimes. I think sometimes we feel attacked by the younger siblings and like we are bad people. Even though we know we are not we take it a little bit too personal.
It seems like this channel didn’t even pay attention to the video before actually posting it. There was a hair routine in the middle of two cry worthy videos.
Ya it’s scary to tell your older sibling something like “wake up” or whatever but also my brother hits me a lot so when he comes towards me I run away and then he gets mad at me for that.
4:14 K,I will vent I really love art,especially animation I wanted to to be an animator,if not maybe an editor Also have a thing for programming Today when I told my parents Art they told NO When I mentioned IT straight forward NO They told girls shouldn't get a job,it's mens thing ND to change my mindset they want me to change schools and make new friends (cos they r bad influence) This may not be tht serious,but this breaked my heart,my dreams It makes me question why I loved art and IT at the 1st place,if these r not accepted
I legit had to stop watching this and come back later because I wanted to stop crying because no one ever sees me cry and my mum’s bedroom light turned on
I just read and shut my emotions down and never cry. I hav got to a point where I can shut myself down when I cry, I can just stop, it's not healthy I know,, I just read harry Potter and pretend I'm there
hey don’t beat urself up! i don’t know u, and u don’t know me, and this might be a little late, but i hope ur doing better and just remember that you r important and loved! there is someone out there who loves u more than anything and would do anything for you so just remember that the next time u think like that, okay? hope ur doing well
As the oldest sibling who's missing out on the lives of the 5 most important people in the world because of my mental health. I'm sorry, it's just the chemicals ❤
Me listening to Mr. Forgettable for the first time thinking it's about being friends with people and them not acknowledging you at all then you watch the first TikTok and realize your just so very lonely
All I have to say is I’m sorry. I’m so fucking sorry I can’t be what I feel the need to I’m sorry I can’t be who you thought I could be. I’m sorry for not telling you i can’t cause I don’t wanna burden you farther and that I can’t explain it. I’m sorry I swear I’m trying I’m trying so fucking much. I can’t bring myself to do a lot of things right now I’m sorry. I’m sorry I can’t help you when you’re down. I’m sorry I’m useless. I’m sorry I know that a ton of people have it 10x worse and would die to have a life like mine I’m so sorry for ignoring everyone and shutting everyone out when I’m at my worst I’m sorry for lashing out randomly I can’t I just can’t I’m sorry I know that youve tried to protect me and you did from everybody but myself and I’m sorry for not knowing how to express myself much Sorry this is unreadable uh yea Edit: also don’t get the wrong idea I’m not trying to do anything to myself harmful at least it’s just .. thoughts I guess
Your problems are valid, and even if people have it 10x worse, this feeling is still bad. I see that you are trying, and that is good. It means that you are taking a few steps towards whatever you’re achieving. No matter what, a stranger on the internet is here, and ready to help you. I hope you had a good day! P.S. Many people WOULD like to hear abt what’s bothering you. P.P.S. Also, not saying that you’re wrong to feel this way, you are ABSOLUTELY ALLOWED to feel this way, just not forever. Also-Even if I knew you from a piece of text on the internet, across hundreds of other comments and videos-love ya! (In a parasocial way) ANOTHER P.S. Trying your best is-well-the best! Those are your limits. And the lashing out? It’s something uncontrollable, and it’s unbearable to see the consequences. What I’m trying to say is, you’re fine to have these emotions, just don’t stay in them forever.
Also, here’s a quote that I found! “If you’re working on changing bad habits, unhealthy thought patterns, negative emotions, or toxic behaviours, know that you are healing this world by healing yourself. Everyone around you will benefit and be served by your wholeness. It’s hard sometimes, and I know you want to quit, but this ultimately is the work that changes the world.” Again, hope you had a wonderful day/afternoon/evening/night!
you are important and you are here for a reason,Your a human and ur not dependent on anyone if people wont let you think that way fuck them,Your life depends on you,You are a whole person and you need validation from people to feel important
Really, I do want do be kinder to my family. I want to just BE there. Though I talk alot, I don't want to talk so much. I talk how much a person should talk, but I always prefer to just- To just BE there. I want to give them hugs, affection, and be supportive, like a big sibling should do. But whenever I'm feeling a bit sad or just kinda braindead - Then ask for a hug ( The most I ever ask for in ranges of affection ) I get questions why. Why do I want a hug at 11 47 AM for no tainable reason ? I don't know, I just do. I would like to ask for hugs more often, I would like to ask for cuddles. I would like to just be beside my Mother or Father, cuddling/or not, on my phone. With no questions asked of what I'm doing on my phone. I don't want to ASK, though. I just want to go up - and do. I don't like ASKING for things, no matter how much I want the thing - Because I don't want any questions of WHY I want it. And because I'm afraid of the answer. I understand why questions would be and are asked, though. If my family member came up to me, and just lay with me on my bed - I would want to ask questions. I get anxious when I don't have the answer to something, no matter what it is. I'm often sort of "sassy" as my parents put it. I sometimes state my opinion on things with a simple "ew." or "I would never." Because I don't want to explain my full opinion, because I'm afraid of theirs on mine. They could think I'm repulsive for it. I don't like making decisions. I want somebody to do it for me, so in the case of somebody hating my decision - I won't be "Blamed". I overthink things. I always wonder : "But if I do that, they might hate me for it." or "They probably won't hate me for this, but they could. I shouldn't say anything." I'm a bit sensitive. I will cry if yelled at my anybody close in any way. When either of my parents even raise their voice a bit ( In a negative way ) at me, I get the lump in my throat, and start blank staring into their eyes. I blank stare into their eyes because it is deemed "rude" to not look at somebody when talking. But I don't want to see when I'm yelled at. So I just space out. And I don't cry Infront of them, because I've seen many other parents say "DO YOU WANT NE RO GIVE YOU A REAL REASON TO CRY !?" And though they haven't done that before : They could still do it.
It’s sad because it’s true 😢. I lived with depression for my whole life and still do.😢 and yea I do say “ I’m ok” or “ I’m fine “ when I really not ok good bey
@@oliviacurrier3839 life is what happened….I’ve lost around 10 or 11 ppl to suicide this year which were all part of my online family. I’ve had a lot of shit relationships mostly long distance online. One of my ex bf’s who goes to my school bullies me. He’s kicked me hit me left me with bruises. Nearly assaulted me while we were dating. I’m in a bad online long distance relationship rn. I’ve lost family to other things. The holidays are hard cause they bring back a lot of memories bad and good. And so much more
@@lilianagerber8347 I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you have some people to lean on, and that things will get better for you. Just know that even if you can't see it, things will get better eventually! If you ever want to talk let me know and I would be happy to! Have a night.
"i love you Sara i wish i could have given you the world"
broke my heart.
Same bro I’m bawling, I hope he heals man
I love you Avery made me die I’m 11
most saddest.
great grammar am i right 😍
That grammar is a bit to bad
That grammar is the saddest 😂
Hmmmmm..
Correctest grammar.
As someone who is only 13 years old, and lost both parents...
I still feel grateful that I have a 21 year older brother, providing me food, shelter, education and love
He works as a teacher at my school.
Even though i lost both parents this year, lost one sister last year, and one sister this year, I still be grateful for whatever reason.
My dad had to go somewhere in 2018 and I didnt see him..Only heard about his death on my Brothers wedding 😭
My mum died in september due to something im not allowed to say in public (sorry)
Now its just Me, my brother, 5 Younger sisters (all under the age of 4) and My brothers wife.
My dad died overseas and had his violin. The violin got passed to me, and I learnt it within 5 months.
I still play the violin as it makes me calm down
If you are feeling down for any reason, dont be afraid to ask for help.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, you don’t deserve to go through all that, especially at 13. I wish only the best for you in the future. ♥️
That's so much, darling. I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I wish you the best and you're doing amazing. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. You're an awesome person. Life sucks sometimes, but you're so strong. I'm proud of you. ❤❤❤
if I went through all that, I wouldn't be able to keep on living. You are one strong potato! Keep going kiddo!
You're definitely a main character.
God loves you so much and has a plan for you, don't give up!
The "I'm trying my best" one hit hard
“ Tears come from the heart not the mind “
- Leanordo da Vinci
@@pavithrais4677 🧍🏻♀️
I feel bad for all the guys, they don't get many sincere compliments, touch is something they've learned to live without because it's considered "weak" or "unmasculine", and are expected pretty much not to cry, etc. etc. If someone tells you you're weak for crying, your not, you're normal. There. Is. Nothing. Wrong. With. Shedding. TEARS! I luv u! ❤
As a female who was also deprived of love/neglected as a child. I totally understand what the guys go through. I too wouldn’t go in for the hug...
@@tealeaf2736 yeah like I don't like hugging my parents cause like it's awkward because they hardly spend any time with me. They are always on a phone or spending time with my brothers. Like I haven't hardly spent any time with my parents in 4 months ish but usually that's just going grocery shopping. 🤷♀️
To whoever sees this:
If you ever feel like you're worthless, or that you're an accident, or that you don't deserve to be happy, remember this: SO MANY THINGS had to go right for you to exist. A woman has hundreds of eggs in her body, each one a potential human being. YOU were the one that actually came into the world. YOU were the one who lived. And nothing should deprive you of that privilege.
If this reaches even one person, I will be so happy that I could help make your life a little brighter.
You are beautiful inside and out. You are loved. You are special. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I've never heard someone put it like that, you actually made me feel better
Thank you ❤
Thank you! I appreciate the kind message. Except no one tells me I'm worthless or anything but I always feel like a burden to everybody, and that I shouldn't hang out with people because I'm not cool enough ig. My brain is kinda weird ig
you are important and you are here for a reason,Your a human and ur not dependent on anyone if people wont let you think that way fuck them,Your life depends on you,You are a whole person and you need validation from people to feel important or cool :)
thankyou for this
1:57
Tore my heart to bits.
As the younger sibling I can confirm it's pretty scary to annoy your older siblings if you know they're doing something.
Be kind to us, okay?
unless we're really fucked lmao
then just don't annoy us..??
@@keepitmia idk man its kinda hard not to :) most of us are lonely as fuck
@@Shifaathefish ye :)) i get it tbh, i dont like small children-
you are an angel kjhgfd
Thank you I really needed this ❤
As the oldest sibling, I do forget how hurtful lashing out can be, and so many times I see my younger self in my little brother. I get frustrated a lot, because it's easy to get caught up in your own issues. I've projected a lot of my insecurities onto him because of what I've experienced, and nothing hurts more than knowing how that could've badly affected him. Just know your older siblings do love more than you could ever know, especially when it's difficult for them to express affection. Even when it feels like they don't care at all and shut themselves out, trust me they are thinking about how much they love you.
This is the first trend to ever make me cry.
1:11 This hit me hard. My younger friend called my other friend while we were in school a few weeks ago. She said she missed the bus and she was on a bridge and that she thought she was going to take her own life. The friend she called panicked and got me and together we told the school counselor what was happening. The bridge is near the school, so the two of us and the counselor went to try and find my friend. I started having a panic attack when we couldn't see her and the counselor started looking off the bridge to the freeway below.
It turns out, an off-duty police officer saw my friend standing on the bridge while she was on the phone with us. They came and took her to the station and got her the help she needs (she went to the hospital for a while). I've never met that person, but I'm forever grateful that they saved my baby and that they took the time to stop. I don't know what I'd do without her.
I just wanna say if you've struggled with suicidal thoughts this past year, I am so proud of you for staying. You are strong and don't forget that. You can make it another year!!!
4:19 I really needed this. I have been neglected a lot lately by my parents, told to shut up the second I start talking, and told “stop it, your talking too loudly”. And that’s what I hate about myself, I’m too loud when I talk. I started crying seeing this. I’m only 12..
I'm sorry :( I can definitely relate, I'm almost always told I talk too loud. Hope you are doing well
i was crying through this whole video I feel all of this things constantly.
i can relate,but in some different ways. im younger than you haah,but you can feel anything and anything can happen to you no matter what age you are. love u all
@@juls.faithh hi l
Sweetie you don't speak loud, their ears are just too sensitive. Trust Me don't do that. Don't shut down or stop talking how you speak. Maybe they look away when you talk and that's just rude, so you speak a little louder just to get their attention. Honey if they do that it's rude and you don't need to put up with that. Don't do that, you'll end up like a volcano, not good. Speak up never be quiet, that's why we have a voice and a mouth, so use it.
the fact that i relate to most of these... god im sobbing
00:13 needs to be a real song in apple rn pls
i lost my grandma because of alzheimers and the first one broke my heart.
I lost my great grandma, to it too, im so sorry. and my papa has Parkinson’s disease currently and he’s dying from it and forgetting everyone. Im so sorry you went thru it too.
@@alaynas7621 im so sorry for your loss. i hope someone can find a cure to these diseases in the future to honor everyone who lost to it and also save people. as for your papa, im so sorry. please know that you are not alone.
I lost my grandfather to Alzheimers too..I cried at the first one
I didn't talk my grandma for a few years due to depression. When I finally felt better today I called her and she didn't remember me. That broke me😥 She has early stages of dimentia. The guilt I feel is so big. I'm hurting in a way I never hurt before. I'm sorry to anyone that lost a grandparent to this horrible disease. 💔
I cried bc of the first one bc my grandpa has dementia and is doing the same thing
The one where it said im lonely even though i want to be alone i feel you
“im sorry its just the chemicals” frl saddest thing ive ever heard
*When ever they hit too close to home and you just sit there with silent tears rolling down my face*
sad thing is that they are all related to siblings and i cry my heart out because i feel so bad and i hurt myself over it.
Im always on a screen doing things. And my dad came home, he told me to get off. But I was doing something important, and I said gimme a couple minutes. He said "You've been on that all day! And if you go blind im not going to take care of you!" That hurt..
I’m so sorry
I totally feel the “k!lling the vibe” because every time I go to play music at my friends house she says “NO SAD MUSIC WITH YOUR 21 PILOTS AND BILLIE EILISH” 😢
this rlly made me realize i’m very rude and not just to random people my closest friend and family i ignore and i’m so rude i wish i could just start life over again even tho ik it wouldn’t change
You can change, i believe in you! There's always a second chance ❤
@@na_rator thanks ❤️
I was there, I got help. I'm getting stronger everyday... healing day by day from severe anxiety, depression, and ptsd. It's upsetting that the one I loved left me just as I began getting treatment but I'm pushing through each day. It does get better, I promise you. Whatever you're going through is not forever. It may seems like the pain or numbness is everlasting, but it's not. The sadness and pain won't last forever. I am walking proof of that. But I am always open to being a listening ear for those that need one. I'll be your shoulder to cry on.
i literally broke down crying like 2 minutes in
2nd one broke my heart, kids can get broken / scared easily..
Everyone hates the youngest siblings, but honestly the older ones bully the younger ones and make them feel bad by taking their anger out on us. Every age group has issues, but lots of people don't understand that younger siblings go through bad things, too. I don't know who else needed to hear this, but if you are the younger/youngest sibling I love you.
You will never know our pain shut
im the youngest but my brother has been through worse and we both dont have strained relationships :)
The first one hit home so hard for me bc my grandma passed from alzimers about two years ago
6:11 You’re lonely because you don’t have anyone but yourself to talk to. But you want to be alone because you’re going to expect something bad from someone when they do try to talk to you.
Most people: *Crying from tiktoks*
Me: *Cries from grammar in the title*
Sameeeeee fr though
The third one was heartbreaking to me.
I would have told them “come here.” And given them the biggest hug.
TikTok: If you say yes to any of this without hesitation you need a break
Me: ok
TikTok: Hello, Hello, are you lonely?
Me:…That’s it?
TikTok: Yes.
Me: So if I say yes to hello I need a break? Am I just not supposed to respond to people when they say hello?
The first one really hurt for me. My grandfather had Alzheimer's and every time I went to see him, he wouldn't remember certain things we would do every time I saw him. He passed the day this video was posted.
4:49 u should be able to wear what u want. u can’t help it. especially summer. isn’t it hot? also ur perfect
I’ve started crying and I don’t know why.
Not my brain forcing me to watch this when I’m already sad
"I promise we will get through high school and graduate toghether "
was the biggest lie of my life
i was playing young by vacations and i went 'this song is a straight up vibe like-' my friends are concerned now cause the song is lowkey depressing
01:45 : at least your trying. . . my birth mom is still not sober after having to give up 3 children, when will she ever learn?
Sorry to hear that I hope someone stepped in to take care of you and your siblings. 💓
2:57 this really made me sad but happy. :(
Holding in the tears bc I share a room
the one with the police officer and the girl who tried to un-alive hit hard for me...😞
for anybody who is reading this rn:
Hey! I know you might be going through ALOT right now and feel like you wanna break down into lil pieces, it’s hard and Ik the feeling of it but remember this, YOU are beautiful , YOU are smart, YOU have a great body, YOU ARE PERFECT!!!! There is so MANY reasons R͟I͟G͟H͟T͟ reason why you are on this planet. If you have feel hopeless, worthless, useless, just remember it’s okay to be sad sometimes and to cry, everyone goes through that stuff. I want you to lift your head up, wipes those tears away, look in the mirror and say “I’m perfect 🤩 “ ok? I love you!
The first trend that made me cry
1:32 So sweet of the officer to remember her and just let her know she is loved❤️❤️
2:43 no i’m literally balling my eyes out right now bc i do this and it’s really bad
1:33 that is the sweetest yet saddest thing ever
Is anyone else because they just need to cry or just me?
2:42 bruh 😐 I feel this just recently me and my little sister just keep fighting I love her so much but I get so mad i hate it and I feel so guilty and I try to say sorry but she just gets mad again so I get mad and I hate doing this with her
or when I get upset at my family my dad will ground me and take my phone away and when I call down and try to apologize they assume I'm saying sorry to get my phone back and it just makes me feel so idk bad?
Hey you! Yeah you the one reading this… yeah your gonna watch sad tikroks to try and make yourself better but guess what? You are awesome! Life is tough, but so are you!! You got this whatever you are going through it WILL get better!! Keep going ♥️♥️
Thank you, stranger on the internet also watching sad tiktoks
u made me smile
iI don't need a break... I need someone who understands me and will away try and be there for me... and he is aways there for me
Dear person who is reading this,
I want you to know this your life does matter. It’s ok to not be okay. This is just temporary and your scars are battle scars. You are not fighting this battle alone whether it be cancer, an Ed, depression, anxiety, DID, etc. I care about you and love you. You are so beautiful/handsome. You are the writer of your own story. I understand how it feels to feel like you are useless or your life doesn’t matter. It does and you are not useless. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. You are a queen/king. I am so proud of you. You are a rockstar. If you are part of the lgbtqai+ remember this you are valid. No matter what I will always support you. No matter your size,height,sexuality, gender, etc. You are perfect.❤️
Sending love and care,
Jelly Karl
First one was too relatable as someone who moved away from their home town, I can name every person I sent to school with but most of them probably forgot about me.
Everyday I wake up and hope to go to bed for the next day
Idk who needs to hear this but
If you are suicidal or something relating to that please get help
Someone out here will miss you aka your friends your brother/sister your parents your online friends anyone you know
You are all loved and don’t take your life bc you think you are “too ugly” or “can’t do anything right”
No matter how bad life gets it will get better ❤️🩹 treat ppl how you want to be treated aka if you have a bad day an you can’t get your emotions out so you take it out on someone. They will treat you bad bc they think you hate them. So please try something else like reading or talking to a loved one about your day.. sometimes a hug can make a day better
when my dog died i told my 2 closest friends one was nice about it and the other was messing around and they have not reached out to me and today is the one-month anniversary
My cat just died, he was 19 and he was older than me and one of my favorite people in my life just dies and he was old. I was cleaning my room when I put my hamper in the laundry room and I got worried that he would pee on it because he would do that he was so old. But I realized he couldn’t…
Hey I wanted to apologize on the behalf of older siblings because we can be harsh sometimes. I think sometimes we feel attacked by the younger siblings and like we are bad people. Even though we know we are not we take it a little bit too personal.
3:25
👏Normalize👏putting👏the👏questions👏in the👏video👏
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It seems like this channel didn’t even pay attention to the video before actually posting it. There was a hair routine in the middle of two cry worthy videos.
I need to go apologise to my mom right now.
2:16 wow. I do this, and I just realized how awful my dad feels.
Love u dad miss u 😢
00:13 needs to be a apple song like rn
Ya it’s scary to tell your older sibling something like “wake up” or whatever but also my brother hits me a lot so when he comes towards me I run away and then he gets mad at me for that.
This is making me cry too much, a lot of them hit way too close to home
10:05 hit different. ive been trying to describe this feeling but i guess its just loneliness.
4:14
K,I will vent
I really love art,especially animation
I wanted to to be an animator,if not maybe an editor
Also have a thing for programming
Today when I told my parents
Art they told NO
When I mentioned IT straight forward NO
They told girls shouldn't get a job,it's mens thing
ND to change my mindset they want me to change schools and make new friends (cos they r bad influence)
This may not be tht serious,but this breaked my heart,my dreams
It makes me question why I loved art and IT at the 1st place,if these r not accepted
I legit had to stop watching this and come back later because I wanted to stop crying because no one ever sees me cry and my mum’s bedroom light turned on
I just read and shut my emotions down and never cry. I hav got to a point where I can shut myself down when I cry, I can just stop, it's not healthy I know,, I just read harry Potter and pretend I'm there
That first one is just sad
2:57 made me cry because I’ve been writing those letters lately, I’m almost done too
hey don’t beat urself up! i don’t know u, and u don’t know me, and this might be a little late, but i hope ur doing better and just remember that you r important and loved! there is someone out there who loves u more than anything and would do anything for you so just remember that the next time u think like that, okay? hope ur doing well
are you okay?..
The first one hit hard because my grandpa had Alzheimer’s, he died because of it
2:02 I lost a loved one and I achieved something we worked together and she was not here to see😢😭🥺
1:22 got me crying omfg
The first one made me cry because I am currently going through this with my grandfather
As the oldest sibling who's missing out on the lives of the 5 most important people in the world because of my mental health. I'm sorry, it's just the chemicals ❤
Love the videos! You should make them longer
I'm sad because I know that's also me 2:42
lost my grandpa 2021 because of covid, i didn't cry that day because i never knew him never connected with him i still cry over it its hard i tell u
I can relate to the first one because my grandma has dementica, I’m not sure if I spelt that right but she doesn’t know who I am, it’s really sad. 😭
1:41 wish my mom would do that for me heh
Me listening to Mr. Forgettable for the first time thinking it's about being friends with people and them not acknowledging you at all then you watch the first TikTok and realize your just so very lonely
2:41 to relatable
All I have to say is
I’m sorry. I’m so fucking sorry I can’t be what I feel the need to I’m sorry I can’t be who you thought I could be. I’m sorry for not telling you i can’t cause I don’t wanna burden you farther and that I can’t explain it. I’m sorry I swear I’m trying I’m trying so fucking much. I can’t bring myself to do a lot of things right now I’m sorry. I’m sorry I can’t help you when you’re down. I’m sorry I’m useless. I’m sorry I know that a ton of people have it 10x worse and would die to have a life like mine I’m so sorry for ignoring everyone and shutting everyone out when I’m at my worst I’m sorry for lashing out randomly
I can’t I just can’t I’m sorry I know that youve tried to protect me and you did from everybody but myself and I’m sorry for not knowing how to express myself much
Sorry this is unreadable uh yea
Edit: also don’t get the wrong idea I’m not trying to do anything to myself harmful at least it’s just .. thoughts I guess
Your problems are valid, and even if people have it 10x worse, this feeling is still bad. I see that you are trying, and that is good. It means that you are taking a few steps towards whatever you’re achieving.
No matter what, a stranger on the internet is here, and ready to help you. I hope you had a good day!
P.S. Many people WOULD like to hear abt what’s bothering you.
P.P.S. Also, not saying that you’re wrong to feel this way, you are ABSOLUTELY ALLOWED to feel this way, just not forever. Also-Even if I knew you from a piece of text on the internet, across hundreds of other comments and videos-love ya! (In a parasocial way)
ANOTHER P.S. Trying your best is-well-the best! Those are your limits.
And the lashing out? It’s something uncontrollable, and it’s unbearable to see the consequences. What I’m trying to say is, you’re fine to have these emotions, just don’t stay in them forever.
Also, here’s a quote that I found!
“If you’re working on changing bad habits, unhealthy thought patterns, negative emotions, or toxic behaviours, know that you are healing this world by healing yourself. Everyone around you will benefit and be served by your wholeness. It’s hard sometimes, and I know you want to quit, but this ultimately is the work that changes the world.”
Again, hope you had a wonderful day/afternoon/evening/night!
you are important and you are here for a reason,Your a human and ur not dependent on anyone if people wont let you think that way fuck them,Your life depends on you,You are a whole person and you need validation from people to feel important
@@swibsubswab thank you this honestly means so much to me and I hope you have a great day/night/afternoon sorry for the late reply I woke up way late
@@Myownwife it’s ok! Yw!
The first one is so sad but so relatable for me..
I’m literally at my grandmas house and my granpda has Alzheimer’s like the first one and the second one too mostly all of them
me watching this on new year eve. Pretty fucked up
1:10 is so sad I wanna cry now 😭
Really, I do want do be kinder to my family. I want to just BE there.
Though I talk alot, I don't want to talk so much. I talk how much a person should talk, but I always prefer to just- To just BE there.
I want to give them hugs, affection, and be supportive, like a big sibling should do. But whenever I'm feeling a bit sad or just kinda braindead - Then ask for a hug ( The most I ever ask for in ranges of affection ) I get questions why. Why do I want a hug at 11 47 AM for no tainable reason ?
I don't know, I just do. I would like to ask for hugs more often, I would like to ask for cuddles. I would like to just be beside my Mother or Father, cuddling/or not, on my phone. With no questions asked of what I'm doing on my phone. I don't want to ASK, though. I just want to go up - and do. I don't like ASKING for things, no matter how much I want the thing - Because I don't want any questions of WHY I want it. And because I'm afraid of the answer.
I understand why questions would be and are asked, though. If my family member came up to me, and just lay with me on my bed - I would want to ask questions. I get anxious when I don't have the answer to something, no matter what it is.
I'm often sort of "sassy" as my parents put it. I sometimes state my opinion on things with a simple "ew." or "I would never." Because I don't want to explain my full opinion, because I'm afraid of theirs on mine. They could think I'm repulsive for it.
I don't like making decisions. I want somebody to do it for me, so in the case of somebody hating my decision - I won't be "Blamed".
I overthink things. I always wonder : "But if I do that, they might hate me for it." or "They probably won't hate me for this, but they could. I shouldn't say anything."
I'm a bit sensitive. I will cry if yelled at my anybody close in any way. When either of my parents even raise their voice a bit ( In a negative way ) at me, I get the lump in my throat, and start blank staring into their eyes. I blank stare into their eyes because it is deemed "rude" to not look at somebody when talking. But I don't want to see when I'm yelled at. So I just space out. And I don't cry Infront of them, because I've seen many other parents say "DO YOU WANT NE RO GIVE YOU A REAL REASON TO CRY !?" And though they haven't done that before : They could still do it.
I told my dad I hated him a couple weeks ago and I’ve been thinking about it ever since
I’m not crying u r
💔 I can’t even explain how much the ones about siblings broke my heart knowing I do that to
These dudes r lucky bro i only got my cat who im controlling my anger for, the other people in my head,my gran, and random snakes i find
What’s the song called. It’s good
Mr forgettable by David kushner
It's 3 am rn and I just cried and said no more crying and I get recommend this video like wth who wants to me to cry so badly?
sometimes parents speaking from what has happened in my life, they can't see when their child lost their happiness completely.
4:13 this made me happy/sad
It’s sad because it’s true 😢. I lived with depression for my whole life and still do.😢 and yea I do say “ I’m ok” or “ I’m fine “ when I really not ok good bey
10:19 pov: they moved on before they ended things with you
The saddest TikTok video ever.
I relate to basically all of these videos…pain
Aww I'm sorry. Are you okay?
@@oliviacurrier3839 nope
@@lilianagerber8347 I'm sorry. May I ask what happened? I hope you will be doing better soon.
@@oliviacurrier3839 life is what happened….I’ve lost around 10 or 11 ppl to suicide this year which were all part of my online family. I’ve had a lot of shit relationships mostly long distance online. One of my ex bf’s who goes to my school bullies me. He’s kicked me hit me left me with bruises. Nearly assaulted me while we were dating.
I’m in a bad online long distance relationship rn. I’ve lost family to other things.
The holidays are hard cause they bring back a lot of memories bad and good.
And so much more
@@lilianagerber8347 I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you have some people to lean on, and that things will get better for you. Just know that even if you can't see it, things will get better eventually! If you ever want to talk let me know and I would be happy to! Have a night.