I remember watching Tatsy because I had a crush on her, and now seeing her fully out, herself, and happy with a woman on her side makes my gay heart melt.
I am Japanese and studying English. And listening to your podcast will help you study English better. This kind of topic is rarely discussed in Japan. I am happy to be able to study English with my favorite topic. I'm going to continue listening to these podcasts.
I’ve never felt more seen in my entire life. I just broke up with hopefully the last man I have ever will date, came out to my friends, my work and online. I’m 34, a “baby-gay” and female presenting. You guys are giving me life and so much hope. I definitely watched Barbie and thought that it looks like a lot of fun. Shit, maybe I need to move to LA.
As a MUCH older straight male, I mean like twice your age older ... THANK YOU and your friends and communities for your vids, podcasts, etc. It is such a wonderful learning mechanism for those of us who are straight as it's a world we will never really experience. Education is always beneficial. I'm also happy to see that on here, Tik Tok, wherever that older women reach out to you for advice. One thing your shows, all of you, illustrate is how hard it had to be for gay men and women "back in my day" as they didn't have the Internet, or Porn like today, or hell even any real "Gay" personality on TV. To a degree, your generation has it easier than they did. I feel for them and I hope, like y'all, that they now are finding their true selves and their true happiness. May blessings find you, and all your community, this day.
I love this. I am a late in life lesbian, I think, like you all are saying it is a very unsure experience and I do think it is a lot about normalization. I am actually 51, married with two kids and have just discovered I am gay. Like it was said hindsight is a wild thing. Women of my generation just didn’t really have any examples or support in smaller communities…or most communities. My youth was the time of AIDs, so there was some knowledge of male gay culture but no lesbian community! This podcast is so comforting for me. It gives those of us that never have had any kind of information or acknowledgment of lesbian culture access so thank you so much! I would love to see some even older generation lesbians talk on your program to hear what they have to say about their own youth lesbian cultures or lack thereof? 💜💯💜
I can so relate. I came out at 49, and I'm now 53. I have an amazing partner and watching these podcasts are so affirming. I would love to see a few Gen X guests.
@@ciobalina7445good question. I can not relate to this. One thing is to have always known you were one but not have had the courage to accept it and another thing is to wake up one day and all of a sudden “realize” you like women. Is it because it is trendy to be a lesbian nowadays? Is it because it’s exciting to try something new? Coming from a communist country, where you don’t even know the existence of gay people because no one and I say no one ever even talked about it, since homosexuality was punished by incarceration, I have always known as far back as I have memories. You feel like there is something wrong with you and also I thought I was the only person in the entire world who was this way. I am 49, so I don’t think in US it was worse than in my country back then. I also know that everyone is different and I am not in the position to judge, unless you are in somebody else’s shoes. But allow me to have some doubts when I hear that someone who is 51, married with two kids, JUST discovered, all of a sudden that she is a lesbian. As I said being born in a communist country, and living in a society who pressures you to get married, I never did because I knew very well what I didn’t want and that was to get married, to a man. You don’t need to have examples to know what you really feel. Examples help you to feel less lonely in the world and maybe give you courage to accept yourself for who you are first and then to come out second.
@@Ilda7523 Yes, I also don't believe that a person cannot know they are gay by 50 years old. I think most of them just mean by this that they supressed it in order to live a heterosexual lifestyle. I also think a great number of them are probably actually bisexual with a preferance for the same sex. Otherwise, it just doesn't make sense.
‘thin line between psychosis and spirituality’ is so relatable. I used to struggle with processing what the difference is between the two - I came to the conclusion that it’s all about perception. People in certain cultures outside the West who experience what the West would call psychosis, experience it more positively, because they’re not treated as mentally ill, or disturbed, or delusional, whereas in the West the spirituality is suppressed in society and we tend to have a harder time with understanding our experiences.
“You gain so much more than you lose.” Hearing that is so transformative and eye opening for me. I haven’t felt safe to come out to my family, I’m 28, but I think I’m reaching that point in my life where I’m not paralyzed with the fear of their reaction anymore. I only hope that I can find that community of people who can enrich and fulfill my life ❤
My youngest son (11) asked me, after my oldest two children had both come out as various LGBTQ, if he would also be a part of the community since I am and they are too and how did we decide that we were our sexualities. I explained that it wasn't something I could answer for him as to if he would be as well, and that it wasn't a decision but a realization. This has been the best example of that. Thank you ❤
This is officially my favorite podcast. I’ve been searching for something like this since middle school. Super relatable, fun to listen to and keeps your interested! Please continue to put out videos 😂
I'm the biggest Alix and Zoya fan girl and I have had a huge crush on them forever. I love watching their Tiktoks religiously. Here's to evergreen love for it's all worth it 🥰❤️
Loved this episode. As a late in life lesbian, I understand everything that goes into the coming out process. I have been out publicly for 33 years and to myself for 36. I always knew I was different, but I didn't have role models to look to. The road to happiness was litered with my broken dreams. In my mid-30s, I decided that my dream of the life I wanted was never going to happen. Then I met her. She had a 14 year old son, married twice to men, and only dated 1 woman (brief relationship that ended badly). At this point, I had resigned myself to just sleeping around and having fun. Now, 23 years later, we are grandmas and have 3 teenagers at home. I almost walked away from her before it ever started because I had already earned a couple toaster ovens (if you are too young to remember, look it up). I am so glad she insisted. She is the love of my life. Keep changing the world because one day, who we love won't matter. What matters is that we love
Very important what she said, the process is essentialy internal, we really need to talk to ourselves beforehand and understand this when a woman discover herself all her relationships become stronger and right at the end.
I have known I'm gay all my life but at 70yr old I finally came out to my daughter and a friend. Now it's a challenge to find a community this time in my life here in Denver. I like women who are into self care and younger than me a bit...more energy! Any advice??
Open up yourself to this new beginings...Don't feel shy to new introductions, meeting new people.. You will find someone who can connect to you❤ Remember life is short let's not make even shorter with doubts and questions..
i've never felt more heard, when alix said "coming out doesn't mean clarity". im in a loving relationship with a woman, yet i still dont know what my sexuality is and thats fine.
This was such a fun episode! Pleeeease do another episode with Alix! I've been following her for some time now and I remember finding her super attractive back in the days lol. I had my coming out just a while ago when I had my 30th birthday. I always kind of knew that I am also attracted to women, but I never felt safe to actually date women. Somehow it was just "easier" to date men, since it was more accepted by society. It took me a long time to acknowledge that. I am in a relationship with a men now (we've been dating for 4 years) and I've told him just recently that I am also attracted to women. He has been super supportive and we even bought some rainbow accessories for me lol. But still, it's hard because I really wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship with a women and I am scared that I am missing something out. I felt so seen in this podcast! Thank you very much
This one was so fun 🤣 Love Alix! and I resonate so much with grieving about the time that I lost. It's so nice to hear that I'm not the only one. Every episode has brought me something... This is truly something special. Keep them coming!
I just found this podcast on RUclips and I’m absolutely LOVING it! I identify with so many of the topics here. It feels really great. Thanks for this 🙌
Mal, how blessed you are! Your face is among the most beautiful, with such harmonious features! Of course, beauty is subjective, but man oh man, it's a visual symphony. Thanks to the lucky genes contributed by your mom and dad.
Okay... as a super repressed baby gay who has been relentlessly trying to date men while working up the courage to finally start dating women for ages now... I feel like no woman would want to date me. How do I overcome that?
Oh my god what a relief must be to live as freely as you guys! But it also gets me thinking into how important is also the "setting" i.e. place you live to be able to come out without too much negative repercussion. I live in a 3rd world country where being gay is really frowned upon and I have no gay friends that I can trust, or gay family members I can rely upon. If I had any of those I think everything would be easier!
24:22 - In a year I will turn 18, and I plan to move from my current country, but I didn’t know where. But it looks like it’s in Los Angeles) because for the 4th issue I’ve been hearing about amazing lesbian community
Don't look up at this interviews amd decide..Remember again they are celebs their point of contacts are doff and yours gonna be diff...Anyways Good luck
Actually, this is how I ended up doing a crap ton of mental health work, attachment style work and healing that changed my life. A bad triggering event with someone
Thanks for another great podcast. Time to add Alix to my list of celebrity crushes. Seriously, I mean 😍 and I keep discovering these new awesome girls.
Nobody ever thinks that I’m a lesbian ~ ( not even my family), even though my identical TWIN SISTER is MARRIED to a WOMAN~ and they have children together!! I look and act so emotional, slightly unstable, and feminine~ that guys~ especially simply can’t believe it. I tell them I’m gay~ and they tell me~ oh you are so cute~ so small~ and so adorable🥰!! They tell me that they will be ‘my woman,’ and then they are even MORE attracted/ obsessed with me!! If I have to break up with them because I’m an openly gay woman, and totally confident about it~ they tell me I’m straight but completely CRAZY. I’m like ~ “Mom; you never thought that because Julie ( my twin sister), is gay; we went to her wedding~ and literally watched her cry professing her love for her fiancé, that us being identical twins~ I could possibly be also!?” She is like, ‘We never thought that you could be gay.’ It’s so frustrating and infuriating especially because when my sister ~ who is actually bisexual ( and also likes men), came out, everyone was like ‘Yes~ we totally see it!!’ I actually am NOT bisexual~ have never had those ‘feelings,’ for a man~ yet my family just thinks I am so delicate and fragile~ that I need to be perpetually taken care of ( and want in my heart and soul), to be TAKEN CARE OF by a strong 💪 strapping MALE!! I love women~ but I being so petite~ actually AM attracted only to women who are literally on the larger side~ big, strong, big breasted, and tall ‘mama bears.’ Most of these type of motherly women are totally 💯% heterosexual though. You know the type of woman~ who would be the most natural~ even on demand~ ‘exclusively breastfeeding,’ 🤱🏻mother!? Wish me lots of luck 🍀 here you all ~ on my seemingly impossible journey. It’s feels like finding my woman~ ‘come to mama,’ mommy~ ish ( and totally cool about it), woman is like finding a needle~ or a diamond 💎 ~ in a haystack!!👭👩❤️👩👩👩👧👦🩵🌺🌻💞🌹🌸🤱🏻🌟🌟☯️♾️ 17:24
It’s weird how different my story is than hers. I KNEW I was gay since I was 10. Never a doubt, never fell in love w a man, never had any attraction to a man. I guess that’s why they call it a spectrum.
I love your podcast 🙃 looking forward for more of those great storys. I live on the orher side of the world., Slovenia-Europe., here comunity is super small., but... importmant is- you let yourself be who you wanna be- life is to short for beeing someone but not you.
Is it your nervous system or your mind? Or your mental health? I think many of us practice denial(just like alcoholics) until we are ready to face the difficult truth that we are gay. We have to overcome the internalized stigma and shaming. I wish I could have heard more about coming out as a spiritual awakening.
Funny I came out when I was 24 as Bi and Last Year (cant believe its been like a year and a half now damn) at almost 28 actually I was 27 almost 28 as a Lesbian so THAT ITS SO RELATABLE... FELT SEEN THANKS GALS!
Mann i Love this episode, but shit at 12:47 within this episode had crazy deja vu . Wicked shit. so I must ask this question have you ever met a person and you never spoken to each other, and every time you guys cross paths multiple times you only exchanged just eye contact.
I am a little confused here. “If your dates go badly how do you know you like women”????? If you like men or women doesn’t depend on how good or bad your dates or your experiments go. Everyone is different, I know that, but sexual preference, in my opinion, is not a choice, I think you are born with it, at least from my own experience. Nowadays it has become “trendy” to be anything but straight and a lot of people are letting themselves to be “confused”. You either are one or you are not. It’s not something you can choose or change according to how good or bad your “experimentations” go.
What bothered me was that Alix didn't say thank you after being introduced. All the guests usually express their gratitude, saying thank you and thank you for having me. I know they are good friends, but still.
خیلی زیبا صحبت کردن، زویا و الکس💚🍃 جالب بود که اول کانال نوشته شده این کانال برای دخترا هست ولی یک درک قشنگی از فرهنگ و طرز تفکر افراد بزرگ شده در کشورهای غربی بهم داد و این ازادی که دارن درباره تجربه و ابراز سلایقشون که در کشور من به شدت سرکوب میشه و ای کاش ممکن بود درباره این مسائل هم صحبت و اموزش داده میشد بهم در کشورم تا بتونم بهتر درک کنم سایر ادم ها و دوستانم حالا مسخرگی ماجرا اینه که جدی دارم حرف میزنم ولی اسم اکانتم لوبیاست😂
I as a guy am starting to slowly freak out cuz it quite literally looks like every straight girls coming out cuz of some douchebag having had traumatised her. That and somethings in the air thats turning str8 ppl a bit bi, So now dudes like me have now an extra layer of uncertainty if we ever meet a woman that we fall for. Is she actually str8 or is she str8 for now lol
@tananario plz explain in English. Like back it up with scientific evidence, journals, etc. Bcuz i can back up my legitimate concern/fear with scientific research with just two words "sexual fluidity". Now they've found out that women are far more sexually fluid than men, whereas men are more sexually categorized ie; you're mostly either str8, gay or bi.
It’s not something in the air😆Bisexuality has always been prominent, but nowadays (in the west) sexuality is generally less oppressed and taboo of a subject, so luckily people are free to express and explore their sexuality. There are and always have been, more bi people in the world than gay or straight combined. Sexuality is a spectrum and I think it’s being more openly explored by both genders. I cannot tell you how many “straight” men I know who have had gay experiences. They may have even had male lovers, but they still consider themselves straight. I think your fear is relatable because I used to have similar thoughts, except about guys.This made me feel completely insecure for no reason. That being said, it’s an irrational fear and not something you should feel uncertain about. Since I’ve gone from “straight” to “bi”, weirdly enough when I embraced my bisexuality those thoughts vanished. Now it’s not an insecurity or something that makes me scratch my head. The reason for this isn’t because of MY sexuality, it’s because I also changed the way I see sexuality in general. Just because a girl isn’t 100% straight doesn’t mean she won’t love you, or love having sex with you, less. So now, the thought of being with a guy who is either openly bi or has had same-sex experiences, it doesn’t spark the same concerns as before. I’ve realized a LOT of people are a little fruity, and if I love someone, that’s no longer something I stress about. I’ve grown beyond the labels and if anything now it’s opened so many otherwise closed-off relationships. Long story short what I’m saying is: I see where you come from, but don’t let these thoughts dominate, because they’re pointless and (at least for me) caused a lot of needless headache
Good show but you need to bring in the first touch, first going down, masturbation, etc. bring the sexual feelings in to the convo. Guys listen as well
I remember watching Tatsy because I had a crush on her, and now seeing her fully out, herself, and happy with a woman on her side makes my gay heart melt.
Sappy gays rise up
Same, I always saw her as sapphic, and now it's confirmed!
Same! She always radiated and had such a big bubbly personality she seems like fun company
I am Japanese and studying English.
And listening to your podcast will help you study English better.
This kind of topic is rarely discussed in Japan.
I am happy to be able to study English with my favorite topic.
I'm going to continue listening to these podcasts.
im curious is japan welcome to queer relationships, TikTok makes it seem like they are
same - question@@luvsixx
Same! But Russia instead of Japan 🤝
Thinking of you! Well wishes from the States to Japan 🌈
@@нрп-ш8х are you safe there?
I’ve never felt more seen in my entire life. I just broke up with hopefully the last man I have ever will date, came out to my friends, my work and online. I’m 34, a “baby-gay” and female presenting. You guys are giving me life and so much hope. I definitely watched Barbie and thought that it looks like a lot of fun. Shit, maybe I need to move to LA.
As a MUCH older straight male, I mean like twice your age older ... THANK YOU and your friends and communities for your vids, podcasts, etc. It is such a wonderful learning mechanism for those of us who are straight as it's a world we will never really experience. Education is always beneficial. I'm also happy to see that on here, Tik Tok, wherever that older women reach out to you for advice. One thing your shows, all of you, illustrate is how hard it had to be for gay men and women "back in my day" as they didn't have the Internet, or Porn like today, or hell even any real "Gay" personality on TV. To a degree, your generation has it easier than they did. I feel for them and I hope, like y'all, that they now are finding their true selves and their true happiness. May blessings find you, and all your community, this day.
Creep
@@churrothiev8387that's not very nice
@@churrothiev8387Why do you think they are a creep?
@@churrothiev8387you’re an idiot, why are calling him a creep?
Porn???? Really????
I love this. I am a late in life lesbian, I think, like you all are saying it is a very unsure experience and I do think it is a lot about normalization. I am actually 51, married with two kids and have just discovered I am gay. Like it was said hindsight is a wild thing. Women of my generation just didn’t really have any examples or support in smaller communities…or most communities. My youth was the time of AIDs, so there was some knowledge of male gay culture but no lesbian community! This podcast is so comforting for me. It gives those of us that never have had any kind of information or acknowledgment of lesbian culture access so thank you so much! I would love to see some even older generation lesbians talk on your program to hear what they have to say about their own youth lesbian cultures or lack thereof? 💜💯💜
I can so relate. I came out at 49, and I'm now 53. I have an amazing partner and watching these podcasts are so affirming. I would love to see a few Gen X guests.
What are you going to do now that you have this information? I am curious about your life history. How did you realize you are gay?
@@ciobalina7445good question. I can not relate to this. One thing is to have always known you were one but not have had the courage to accept it and another thing is to wake up one day and all of a sudden “realize” you like women. Is it because it is trendy to be a lesbian nowadays? Is it because it’s exciting to try something new? Coming from a communist country, where you don’t even know the existence of gay people because no one and I say no one ever even talked about it, since homosexuality was punished by incarceration, I have always known as far back as I have memories. You feel like there is something wrong with you and also I thought I was the only person in the entire world who was this way. I am 49, so I don’t think in US it was worse than in my country back then. I also know that everyone is different and I am not in the position to judge, unless you are in somebody else’s shoes. But allow me to have some doubts when I hear that someone who is 51, married with two kids, JUST discovered, all of a sudden that she is a lesbian. As I said being born in a communist country, and living in a society who pressures you to get married, I never did because I knew very well what I didn’t want and that was to get married, to a man. You don’t need to have examples to know what you really feel. Examples help you to feel less lonely in the world and maybe give you courage to accept yourself for who you are first and then to come out second.
@@Ilda7523 Yes, I also don't believe that a person cannot know they are gay by 50 years old. I think most of them just mean by this that they supressed it in order to live a heterosexual lifestyle. I also think a great number of them are probably actually bisexual with a preferance for the same sex. Otherwise, it just doesn't make sense.
THIS IS MY NEW FAVORITE PODCASTT OMGGG😭😭
SAAAME!
‘thin line between psychosis and spirituality’ is so relatable. I used to struggle with processing what the difference is between the two - I came to the conclusion that it’s all about perception. People in certain cultures outside the West who experience what the West would call psychosis, experience it more positively, because they’re not treated as mentally ill, or disturbed, or delusional, whereas in the West the spirituality is suppressed in society and we tend to have a harder time with understanding our experiences.
“You gain so much more than you lose.” Hearing that is so transformative and eye opening for me. I haven’t felt safe to come out to my family, I’m 28, but I think I’m reaching that point in my life where I’m not paralyzed with the fear of their reaction anymore. I only hope that I can find that community of people who can enrich and fulfill my life ❤
My youngest son (11) asked me, after my oldest two children had both come out as various LGBTQ, if he would also be a part of the community since I am and they are too and how did we decide that we were our sexualities. I explained that it wasn't something I could answer for him as to if he would be as well, and that it wasn't a decision but a realization. This has been the best example of that. Thank you ❤
u r amazing becuz my first thought was he probably wanted to feel included but might not actually be gay or anything
This is officially my favorite podcast. I’ve been searching for something like this since middle school. Super relatable, fun to listen to and keeps your interested! Please continue to put out videos 😂
Same I’m just binging every video haha
I'm the biggest Alix and Zoya fan girl and I have had a huge crush on them forever. I love watching their Tiktoks religiously. Here's to evergreen love for it's all worth it 🥰❤️
Loved this episode. As a late in life lesbian, I understand everything that goes into the coming out process. I have been out publicly for 33 years and to myself for 36. I always knew I was different, but I didn't have role models to look to. The road to happiness was litered with my broken dreams. In my mid-30s, I decided that my dream of the life I wanted was never going to happen. Then I met her. She had a 14 year old son, married twice to men, and only dated 1 woman (brief relationship that ended badly). At this point, I had resigned myself to just sleeping around and having fun. Now, 23 years later, we are grandmas and have 3 teenagers at home. I almost walked away from her before it ever started because I had already earned a couple toaster ovens (if you are too young to remember, look it up). I am so glad she insisted. She is the love of my life. Keep changing the world because one day, who we love won't matter. What matters is that we love
Very important what she said, the process is essentialy internal, we really need to talk to ourselves beforehand and understand this when a woman discover herself all her relationships become stronger and right at the end.
I have known I'm gay all my life but at 70yr old I finally came out to my daughter and a friend. Now it's a challenge to find a community this time in my life here in Denver. I like women who are into self care and younger than me a bit...more energy! Any advice??
Me again...Shannon Beveridge is my crush!
congrats on coming out!!
It's never too late, things happen anytime ❤❤❤
Open up yourself to this new beginings...Don't feel shy to new introductions, meeting new people.. You will find someone who can connect to you❤
Remember life is short let's not make even shorter with doubts and questions..
i've never felt more heard, when alix said "coming out doesn't mean clarity". im in a loving relationship with a woman, yet i still dont know what my sexuality is and thats fine.
“Never too late to be gay” 😂❤
This was such a fun episode! Pleeeease do another episode with Alix! I've been following her for some time now and I remember finding her super attractive back in the days lol. I had my coming out just a while ago when I had my 30th birthday. I always kind of knew that I am also attracted to women, but I never felt safe to actually date women. Somehow it was just "easier" to date men, since it was more accepted by society. It took me a long time to acknowledge that. I am in a relationship with a men now (we've been dating for 4 years) and I've told him just recently that I am also attracted to women. He has been super supportive and we even bought some rainbow accessories for me lol. But still, it's hard because I really wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship with a women and I am scared that I am missing something out. I felt so seen in this podcast! Thank you very much
This one was so fun 🤣 Love Alix! and I resonate so much with grieving about the time that I lost. It's so nice to hear that I'm not the only one. Every episode has brought me something... This is truly something special. Keep them coming!
I remember Alix from Tasty, and it makes me so happy to see her happy. there was definitely a genuine change, in the BEST way, after she came out! ❤❤❤
Okay but this channel and the podcast running is BEAUTY❤
These podcasts have been truly helping me figure myself out. I loved you guys’ energy together. Great episode
What a great episode, is always so good to listen and remember that the first person to commit with is you. Thank you for this honest and fun space!
I just found this podcast on RUclips and I’m absolutely LOVING it! I identify with so many of the topics here. It feels really great.
Thanks for this 🙌
Watching this for the second time because these two together is just 👌
Mal, how blessed you are! Your face is among the most beautiful, with such harmonious features! Of course, beauty is subjective, but man oh man, it's a visual symphony. Thanks to the lucky genes contributed by your mom and dad.
Love Alix’s vibe!!! Awesome personality!
Love this podcast so much already ❤
This is my fav podcast ppls make it longerrrr!
Alix is so cool!! Loved hearing her perspective on everything!
All the interviews are so in-depth and at the same time so funny!! How is that all the invited lesbians are so beautiful? LA must be paradise!
Okay... as a super repressed baby gay who has been relentlessly trying to date men while working up the courage to finally start dating women for ages now... I feel like no woman would want to date me. How do I overcome that?
Oh my god what a relief must be to live as freely as you guys! But it also gets me thinking into how important is also the "setting" i.e. place you live to be able to come out without too much negative repercussion. I live in a 3rd world country where being gay is really frowned upon and I have no gay friends that I can trust, or gay family members I can rely upon. If I had any of those I think everything would be easier!
24:22 - In a year I will turn 18, and I plan to move from my current country, but I didn’t know where. But it looks like it’s in Los Angeles) because for the 4th issue I’ve been hearing about amazing lesbian community
Visit first then decide..Los Angeles is getting scary not safe...I live in Ca I know...
Don't look up at this interviews amd decide..Remember again they are celebs their point of contacts are doff and yours gonna be diff...Anyways Good luck
omg both of them so pretty 🥹
Wow this was great. It nice to here someone was in the same position I’m in now.
Love Alix, she's so talented!
“some ppl come into ur life just to trigger the fk out of you” lmao
Actually, this is how I ended up doing a crap ton of mental health work, attachment style work and healing that changed my life. A bad triggering event with someone
Me gusta mucho este canal, gracias por los videos
Thanks for doing this podcast!!
Thanks for listening!
These episodes are not long enough !!!!!!
Thanks for another great podcast. Time to add Alix to my list of celebrity crushes. Seriously, I mean 😍 and I keep discovering these new awesome girls.
Watching two beautiful women celebrate each other is feminism at its best. Together we rise ❤❤❤
Amando esse podcast
Loved this podcast ❤️❤️❤️
I feel like Alix being quite femme is the reason (unfortunately) so many people around her didn't even think she was possibly gay
She is so damn eloquent! Love this ep ☺️👏
I didn’t expect to relate to you two so much 😅
Now i want to become part of the lesbian scene in LA! 😂❤
Nobody ever thinks that I’m a lesbian ~ ( not even my family), even though my identical TWIN SISTER is MARRIED to a WOMAN~ and they have children together!! I look and act so emotional, slightly unstable, and feminine~ that guys~ especially simply can’t believe it. I tell them I’m gay~ and they tell me~ oh you are so cute~ so small~ and so adorable🥰!! They tell me that they will be ‘my woman,’ and then they are even MORE attracted/ obsessed with me!! If I have to break up with them because I’m an openly gay woman, and totally confident about it~ they tell me I’m straight but completely CRAZY. I’m like ~ “Mom; you never thought that because Julie ( my twin sister), is gay; we went to her wedding~ and literally watched her cry professing her love for her fiancé, that us being identical twins~ I could possibly be also!?” She is like, ‘We never thought that you could be gay.’ It’s so frustrating and infuriating especially because when my sister ~ who is actually bisexual ( and also likes men), came out, everyone was like ‘Yes~ we totally see it!!’ I actually am NOT bisexual~ have never had those ‘feelings,’ for a man~ yet my family just thinks I am so delicate and fragile~ that I need to be perpetually taken care of ( and want in my heart and soul), to be TAKEN CARE OF by a strong 💪 strapping MALE!! I love women~ but I being so petite~ actually AM attracted only to women who are literally on the larger side~ big, strong, big breasted, and tall ‘mama bears.’ Most of these type of motherly women are totally 💯% heterosexual though. You know the type of woman~ who would be the most natural~ even on demand~ ‘exclusively breastfeeding,’ 🤱🏻mother!? Wish me lots of luck 🍀 here you all ~ on my seemingly impossible journey. It’s feels like finding my woman~ ‘come to mama,’ mommy~ ish ( and totally cool about it), woman is like finding a needle~ or a diamond 💎 ~ in a haystack!!👭👩❤️👩👩👩👧👦🩵🌺🌻💞🌹🌸🤱🏻🌟🌟☯️♾️ 17:24
I literally thought y'all were the same person until just this moment!!
Alix has the most sweetest genuine smile ☺
I can relate so much! Thank you for the content you share 🙏🏻
23:09 - 23:30 ❤ hit a spot so deep❤
can I also say, I never realized till now that Alix and Mal have the same laugh 😂 I cant unhear it now
It’s weird how different my story is than hers. I KNEW I was gay since I was 10. Never a doubt, never fell in love w a man, never had any attraction to a man. I guess that’s why they call it a spectrum.
I love your podcast 🙃 looking forward for more of those great storys. I live on the orher side of the world., Slovenia-Europe., here comunity is super small., but... importmant is- you let yourself be who you wanna be- life is to short for beeing someone but not you.
looooved it.
Is it your nervous system or your mind? Or your mental health? I think many of us practice denial(just like alcoholics) until we are ready to face the difficult truth that we are gay. We have to overcome the internalized stigma and shaming. I wish I could have heard more about coming out as a spiritual awakening.
@25:25 "Do you like Barbie or are you gay?" 😂🤣
Love your podcast
Funny I came out when I was 24 as Bi and Last Year (cant believe its been like a year and a half now damn) at almost 28 actually I was 27 almost 28 as a Lesbian so THAT ITS SO RELATABLE... FELT SEEN THANKS GALS!
Gotta love Alixs energy 😂🎉
I love her
You both are so beautiful!
Love you girls ❤
yeah same don’t want to get married without being with a girl yet
I was 28 as well!
I feel like you can have your preference but masc women are beautiful.
Mann i Love this episode, but shit at 12:47 within this episode had crazy deja vu . Wicked shit.
so I must ask this question have you ever met a person and you never spoken to each other, and every time you guys cross paths multiple times you only exchanged just eye contact.
You do not need a man in life
❤❤❤
Adorable humans
Dude let's go on a cultural exchange around the world and exchange. We MUST.
💕💕💕💕
I am a little confused here. “If your dates go badly how do you know you like women”????? If you like men or women doesn’t depend on how good or bad your dates or your experiments go. Everyone is different, I know that, but sexual preference, in my opinion, is not a choice, I think you are born with it, at least from my own experience. Nowadays it has become “trendy” to be anything but straight and a lot of people are letting themselves to be “confused”. You either are one or you are not. It’s not something you can choose or change according to how good or bad your “experimentations” go.
girl I just wanna say every ad you have is a bible add idk if that’s RUclips or 👀
What bothered me was that Alix didn't say thank you after being introduced. All the guests usually express their gratitude, saying thank you and thank you for having me. I know they are good friends, but still.
خیلی زیبا صحبت کردن، زویا و الکس💚🍃
جالب بود که اول کانال نوشته شده این کانال برای دخترا هست ولی یک درک قشنگی از فرهنگ و طرز تفکر افراد بزرگ شده در کشورهای غربی بهم داد و این ازادی که دارن درباره تجربه و ابراز سلایقشون که در کشور من به شدت سرکوب میشه و ای کاش ممکن بود درباره این مسائل هم صحبت و اموزش داده میشد بهم در کشورم تا بتونم بهتر درک کنم سایر ادم ها و دوستانم
حالا مسخرگی ماجرا اینه که جدی دارم حرف میزنم ولی اسم اکانتم لوبیاست😂
هیچکس متوجه نمیشه اسم اکانتت چیه اینجا. راحت باش :))
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹
Am I the only one who thought this was the actor from bloomington? 😂
💀😭😭😭
From a purely selfish male perspective it is a shame that two gorgeous girls are out of the heterosexual dating pool….. glad both of you are happy!!!!
it's not cheating if you're both gay.. everyone can just be friends ok?
спочатку
Les deux sont presque pareils.🤓
Блондинка - Хімено.
Why does such a beautiful woman have to cook?
I as a guy am starting to slowly freak out cuz it quite literally looks like every straight girls coming out cuz of some douchebag having had traumatised her. That and somethings in the air thats turning str8 ppl a bit bi, So now dudes like me have now an extra layer of uncertainty if we ever meet a woman that we fall for. Is she actually str8 or is she str8 for now lol
You aren’t a victim, sweetie. The odds are always in your favor.
@tananario plz explain in English. Like back it up with scientific evidence, journals, etc. Bcuz i can back up my legitimate concern/fear with scientific research with just two words "sexual fluidity". Now they've found out that women are far more sexually fluid than men, whereas men are more sexually categorized ie; you're mostly either str8, gay or bi.
@@tananario what do you mean... please explain
Don't worry you will find someone 😊
It’s not something in the air😆Bisexuality has always been prominent, but nowadays (in the west) sexuality is generally less oppressed and taboo of a subject, so luckily people are free to express and explore their sexuality. There are and always have been, more bi people in the world than gay or straight combined. Sexuality is a spectrum and I think it’s being more openly explored by both genders. I cannot tell you how many “straight” men I know who have had gay experiences. They may have even had male lovers, but they still consider themselves straight. I think your fear is relatable because I used to have similar thoughts, except about guys.This made me feel completely insecure for no reason. That being said, it’s an irrational fear and not something you should feel uncertain about. Since I’ve gone from “straight” to “bi”, weirdly enough when I embraced my bisexuality those thoughts vanished. Now it’s not an insecurity or something that makes me scratch my head. The reason for this isn’t because of MY sexuality, it’s because I also changed the way I see sexuality in general. Just because a girl isn’t 100% straight doesn’t mean she won’t love you, or love having sex with you, less. So now, the thought of being with a guy who is either openly bi or has had same-sex experiences, it doesn’t spark the same concerns as before. I’ve realized a LOT of people are a little fruity, and if I love someone, that’s no longer something I stress about. I’ve grown beyond the labels and if anything now it’s opened so many otherwise closed-off relationships. Long story short what I’m saying is: I see where you come from, but don’t let these thoughts dominate, because they’re pointless and (at least for me) caused a lot of needless headache
How about you see a therapist?
Good show but you need to bring in the first touch, first going down, masturbation, etc. bring the sexual feelings in to the convo. Guys listen as well
How about no...
two most beautful women of the internet turns out to be gay....Bad days are coming ahead for us men....