I have to say that I agree that the ADHD life expectancy thing was uncalled for and was only intended to be hurtful. I even double checked and looked up a couple scholary articles that talk about how it is higher in people with UNMANAGED ADHD, and many people go undiagnosed because so little is known about ADHD and how it works. Accidents can be a leading cause of death, but you know thays kind of just humanity in general. Kind of like old age being a leading cause of death. Or accidents are a leading cause of motorist deaths. So thats not saying much. Thats why its being studied more now than ever before. Infact, a lot of people with ADHD tend to be hyper-aware of their surroundings and notice details other might miss. Including patterns. Many are also hyper-empathetic which makes us notice even the slightest changes of microexpressions or tone of voice. Which is part of why people with ADHD can struggle with focusing on small tasks, like doing dishes or paying attention to a lecture. We are to distracted by everything else that others might be missing. People with ADHD thrive in jobs such as criminal investigation or psychology due to the way our brains work. Well managed ADHD can actually be repourposed as a gift. My ADHD has been a struggle, but its what has helped me survive this long and avoid Accidents. Buuuuuuuuuuut, its because its well managed. For the most part. I still hate homework lol 😂 But overall, the stabbing the beds and using drugs, I think points to a much, much more serious problem than ADHD. And sending you videos of it? Like thats something way, way beyond just ADHD. My sisters ex was like that, and he was diagnosed as a psychopath with NPD by his prison psychologist.
I'm glad people are becoming more educated and understanding on the subject of ADHD; as you know, its not just "being hyper". I totally agree with your comment. in fact, it makes me wonder even MORE how psychiatrists are able to tell the difference between ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) and ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Every symptom you've explained is exactly the same in some autistic people (on some parts of the [non-linear] spectrum), including myself. It also makes me wonder how much MORE research relating to ASD/ADHD is incorrect because of many symptom overlaps; (70%?) of ADHD people are diagnosed as ASD, so the symptom overlaps could be attributed to the wrong respective disorders. Anyway, sorry for the long paragraph. Have a _great_ day!
No , ADHD actually ISNT an excuse to be negligent with another person's life 💀 "im not saying you're lying" while ACTIVELY telling her she's "leaving" stuff out and stuff "doesnt add up"?? That's literally insinuating that she's keeping information. He KNEW he had ADHD and he was also on meth!?!? Yall would blame literally ANYONE, but the actual person. I suffer from ADHD and most of the stuff they're saying isnt true at all 💀 no! We do not have a lower life expectancy. We do not often "lose" pets, and it is not our partners responsibility to babysit us.
It seriously HAS to be. This btch was pissing me off so much. Talking about how disgusting her coworker is and how he ruined her relationship, ITS NOT THAT HARD TO JUST NOT FKN CHEAT. Like, homegirl ruined her own relationship and if that’s a real story I fear for any man that she comes into contact with
@DonDotto99 yup. And even more common among men since the beginning of time. U wanna play the battle of sexes here? Men take the award as the worst throughout ages. You only think it's terrible because women are being caught acting like men. But yes the stupid lady the 2 men were fighting over was a stupidly infuriating story.
this video is such a great way to unwind and listen to captivating stories. i really enjoy the variety presented here. but honestly, some of those AITA judgments seemed a bit harsh to me. like, can people not see the gray areas in situations? i feel like we need to be more understanding instead of quick to label someone as the "bad guy." what do you all think?
really enjoyed this compilation, it's perfect for winding down at the end of the day. but honestly, some of these stories felt more like exaggerations than actual situations. do you guys think people really act like this in real life?
really enjoyed the calming vibe of this video, great job! however, i can't help but think that some of these stories feel a bit forced or overly dramatized. it makes me wonder if the posters were looking for attention rather than genuine advice. what do you all think?
this video is such a great way to unwind after a long day, thanks for putting it together! but honestly, some of these AITA stories are just so ridiculous, i can't help but feel like a lot of the people involved aren't willing to take responsibility for their actions. like, is it really that hard to communicate? it makes for entertaining viewing, but it also kinda highlights some major flaws in how we handle conflict these days.
great video! really loved the storytelling and how engaging the narratives were. but honestly, some of these stories seem a bit exaggerated for the sake of drama. like, would people really react that way in real life? just feels kinda off to me. what do u guys think?
Nope sorry not all parents have those close calls. I have 4 kids oldest is 6 and not once have I let an accident happen. Not once did I have a close call. But I also take care of my kids
This is a hill that I will fucking die on: saying that losing a pet is nothing like losing a child is something that I will always always disagree with. Maybe it’s not the same for you but for people like me who don’t want children, our pets are our children. I have a bond with my pets that is the same as the bond I’ve heard parents describe. I would jump in front of a car for my cats, I would k!ll someone for them, I would do absolutely anything for them. I don’t care if you disagree, losing a pet is equal to losing a child for me. And don’t try and tell me it’s fkn not, you’re entitled to your opinion and I’m entitled to mine. I lost both of my sweet angel babies in the span of a month, the second one just last night, and it’s taking everything in me not to give up and end it so don’t even try to tell me that I’m wrong. You have no idea how something is going to affect someone as opposed to you. Everyone’s situation is different and everyone feels things differently so don’t try and tell someone that losing a pet is nothing like losing a child. If your pets aren’t your children and it doesn’t tear your fkn heart to lose them then maybe you don’t have a heart.
You have to have both in order to be compared. You don't know the value of something you don't have. I have both and I love my kids unconditionally, love my pets but my kids are far more important...
@@he2769 i dont think you have to have both to compare, if they would die for them than its already hit unconditional love. for parents its different cause you weigh out which is more important too you and since more struggling comes with giving birth than adopting a cat i can understand why you feel closer to your kid. but they dont intend to have a kid so the cat fills the need to love and nurture, on that vain people can also unconditionally love adopted kids and some parents hate there kids so its such a broad spectrum to compare! hope this was a little insightful! also when you talk down to people with fluffy babies it makes them feel bad and invalidates their experience and love just because you have a different relationship with children qnd pets :)
@theinter-galaticcaketruck1232 that's like saying you love bananas that it's almost your favorite food but strawberries are better even though you've never eaten a banana
For the adhd one. Idk. How did your parents pick you up and take you to the hospital, but when you left him, you had to have plane tickets to go back to your parents. Hmmm
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I have to say that I agree that the ADHD life expectancy thing was uncalled for and was only intended to be hurtful. I even double checked and looked up a couple scholary articles that talk about how it is higher in people with UNMANAGED ADHD, and many people go undiagnosed because so little is known about ADHD and how it works. Accidents can be a leading cause of death, but you know thays kind of just humanity in general. Kind of like old age being a leading cause of death. Or accidents are a leading cause of motorist deaths. So thats not saying much. Thats why its being studied more now than ever before.
Infact, a lot of people with ADHD tend to be hyper-aware of their surroundings and notice details other might miss. Including patterns. Many are also hyper-empathetic which makes us notice even the slightest changes of microexpressions or tone of voice. Which is part of why people with ADHD can struggle with focusing on small tasks, like doing dishes or paying attention to a lecture. We are to distracted by everything else that others might be missing. People with ADHD thrive in jobs such as criminal investigation or psychology due to the way our brains work. Well managed ADHD can actually be repourposed as a gift. My ADHD has been a struggle, but its what has helped me survive this long and avoid Accidents. Buuuuuuuuuuut, its because its well managed. For the most part. I still hate homework lol 😂
But overall, the stabbing the beds and using drugs, I think points to a much, much more serious problem than ADHD. And sending you videos of it? Like thats something way, way beyond just ADHD. My sisters ex was like that, and he was diagnosed as a psychopath with NPD by his prison psychologist.
I'm glad people are becoming more educated and understanding on the subject of ADHD; as you know, its not just "being hyper". I totally agree with your comment. in fact, it makes me wonder even MORE how psychiatrists are able to tell the difference between ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) and ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Every symptom you've explained is exactly the same in some autistic people (on some parts of the [non-linear] spectrum), including myself. It also makes me wonder how much MORE research relating to ASD/ADHD is incorrect because of many symptom overlaps; (70%?) of ADHD people are diagnosed as ASD, so the symptom overlaps could be attributed to the wrong respective disorders. Anyway, sorry for the long paragraph. Have a _great_ day!
No , ADHD actually ISNT an excuse to be negligent with another person's life 💀 "im not saying you're lying" while ACTIVELY telling her she's "leaving" stuff out and stuff "doesnt add up"?? That's literally insinuating that she's keeping information. He KNEW he had ADHD and he was also on meth!?!? Yall would blame literally ANYONE, but the actual person.
I suffer from ADHD and most of the stuff they're saying isnt true at all 💀 no! We do not have a lower life expectancy. We do not often "lose" pets, and it is not our partners responsibility to babysit us.
Adhd isn't an excuse it's being a parent and no you don't have to parent your husband that's bullshit all the way around
The cheating girl story has to be rage bait 😭
Fr. What a shit bag.
Agree, the whole time I was like are u f kidding me 😃
Nah it's actually very believable. Even fairly common for modern women.
It seriously HAS to be. This btch was pissing me off so much. Talking about how disgusting her coworker is and how he ruined her relationship, ITS NOT THAT HARD TO JUST NOT FKN CHEAT. Like, homegirl ruined her own relationship and if that’s a real story I fear for any man that she comes into contact with
@DonDotto99 yup. And even more common among men since the beginning of time. U wanna play the battle of sexes here? Men take the award as the worst throughout ages. You only think it's terrible because women are being caught acting like men. But yes the stupid lady the 2 men were fighting over was a stupidly infuriating story.
this video is such a great way to unwind and listen to captivating stories. i really enjoy the variety presented here. but honestly, some of those AITA judgments seemed a bit harsh to me. like, can people not see the gray areas in situations? i feel like we need to be more understanding instead of quick to label someone as the "bad guy." what do you all think?
really enjoyed this compilation, it's perfect for winding down at the end of the day. but honestly, some of these stories felt more like exaggerations than actual situations. do you guys think people really act like this in real life?
really enjoyed the calming vibe of this video, great job! however, i can't help but think that some of these stories feel a bit forced or overly dramatized. it makes me wonder if the posters were looking for attention rather than genuine advice. what do you all think?
The adhd story is a good one. "Based on a true story" if you catch my drift
this video is such a great way to unwind after a long day, thanks for putting it together! but honestly, some of these AITA stories are just so ridiculous, i can't help but feel like a lot of the people involved aren't willing to take responsibility for their actions. like, is it really that hard to communicate? it makes for entertaining viewing, but it also kinda highlights some major flaws in how we handle conflict these days.
great video! really loved the storytelling and how engaging the narratives were. but honestly, some of these stories seem a bit exaggerated for the sake of drama. like, would people really react that way in real life? just feels kinda off to me. what do u guys think?
Nope sorry not all parents have those close calls. I have 4 kids oldest is 6 and not once have I let an accident happen. Not once did I have a close call. But I also take care of my kids
Well then y must have some experience raising kids
unbelievable video
This is a hill that I will fucking die on: saying that losing a pet is nothing like losing a child is something that I will always always disagree with. Maybe it’s not the same for you but for people like me who don’t want children, our pets are our children. I have a bond with my pets that is the same as the bond I’ve heard parents describe. I would jump in front of a car for my cats, I would k!ll someone for them, I would do absolutely anything for them. I don’t care if you disagree, losing a pet is equal to losing a child for me. And don’t try and tell me it’s fkn not, you’re entitled to your opinion and I’m entitled to mine. I lost both of my sweet angel babies in the span of a month, the second one just last night, and it’s taking everything in me not to give up and end it so don’t even try to tell me that I’m wrong. You have no idea how something is going to affect someone as opposed to you. Everyone’s situation is different and everyone feels things differently so don’t try and tell someone that losing a pet is nothing like losing a child. If your pets aren’t your children and it doesn’t tear your fkn heart to lose them then maybe you don’t have a heart.
Absolutely agree and I’m so sorry for the loss of your pets
You have to have both in order to be compared. You don't know the value of something you don't have. I have both and I love my kids unconditionally, love my pets but my kids are far more important...
@@he2769 i dont think you have to have both to compare, if they would die for them than its already hit unconditional love. for parents its different cause you weigh out which is more important too you and since more struggling comes with giving birth than adopting a cat i can understand why you feel closer to your kid. but they dont intend to have a kid so the cat fills the need to love and nurture, on that vain people can also unconditionally love adopted kids and some parents hate there kids so its such a broad spectrum to compare!
hope this was a little insightful! also when you talk down to people with fluffy babies it makes them feel bad and invalidates their experience and love just because you have a different relationship with children qnd pets :)
@theinter-galaticcaketruck1232 that's like saying you love bananas that it's almost your favorite food but strawberries are better even though you've never eaten a banana
@@jacksonsepticeye4270 i think u completely missed the point
Много заработал?)
great
i zoned out towards the end and ended up in a huge political debate 😭
6:15 dayum 2 years ago..
For the adhd one. Idk. How did your parents pick you up and take you to the hospital, but when you left him, you had to have plane tickets to go back to your parents. Hmmm
I dont think that girl was a lesbian....
Lol well duh!😅
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