My father will always say that he has the life he has is because of my mother. He was able to work hard knowing that his children, bills and home are being taken care of. He always gives my mum her flowers. She was a housewife until we went to school then worked part time to help with bills and extra things us kids may need. My parents are rockstars because of their love ❤
This is why dating can be hard. You’d be surprised how many men think loving a woman is toxic but expect a woman to love them. Any person who has this mindset-man or woman, please run! Jesus is love and it’s a beautiful thing ❤
Only weak men are afraid of love and to be loved. It takes a strong person to love, support and dedicate their lives to another. I bet this guy has a lot of baby mamas and not involved in his kids lives. Love is a beautiful thing and the world needs more of it.
Interesting because women don't seem to have the ability to love. So are women weak? Infact women leave relationships way more than men do. Men seem to even love harder and longer than women so let this man protect himself from the lust and narcissistic affection from todays women . Lol
Who are you to judge. You don’t know this man. Speaking like you know what you’re talking about. Take that weave off your dogs head and put it back on yours and go sit down somewhere. Bird!!!
My uncle's wife put her husband on her back and physically carried him for miles during the a war when they were killing people on the streets cuz he had a disability and she refused to leave her man behind and run for her life. He was bedridden and had alzheimer's last 10yrs of his life and she bathed, fed and changed him without ever complaining even after she got diagnosed with cancer. Thats what loving a GOOD woman gets you. Only men that waste time chasing women with loose drawls dont understand this.
26 yrs of marriage, I get up at 6am daily to get my husband breakfast, and chat with him before he leaves. We have been through hard times. I won't trade him for no-one or nothing.
But I bet the love, respect and loyalty he has for his homeboys is astronomical...every day I become more and more convinced that if it were acceptable amongst each other most men would be in relationships with other men
You can't be a king without a kingdom anyway. So majority of these males aren't kings. I wish y'all would stop throwing around that word. It's lost power and has become a joke. Y'all give it to the males on the bottom. The bottom financially, mentally and spiritually. The most disloyal males y'all out here calling them kings. How embarrassing for y'all. They don't want a kingdom of their own they want to run yours and destroy it.
Or non-relationship advice. Bitter they don’t have a good one so they discourage others from seeking one with good people. So many people are angry at one another, men and women at war listening to these people just because they got a platform. Just because somebody is talking doesn’t mean you gotta listen! I’m so glad Shuler is addressing this foolishness, its been going on for too long.
My dad use to get up every morning made sure the house was warm in the morning so when our feet hit the floor we would be comfortable. Worked and supported his family and we were full, happy and loved him still, even though he has been gone since 1979
kings and queens do not “protect each others crown” 😒🤦♂️ yall talk about kings and queens all the time but know nothing about monarchy. a king protects everything in his kingdom, from anything thats not his kingdom. a queen makes sure her king is straight, for as long as he’s king, her position is secure. a king is a king, with or without a queen.
Bruh is showing he's an INSECURE, weak boy, and not a man at all. Otherwise he would realize he needs his woman's encouragement and love to complete his "mission." Too many men don't know that love is a treasure shared between two people. It's a man's position to love, respect and protect his Queen. And a woman's position is to love, respect, and support her King. But sadly, Shuler is correct. Too many Black men have never learned how to love a woman - because they have never seen it demonstrated by a strong, righteous Black man! 💓 I will not say who I blame for this.
@@alanai1981 it's an absolute disgrace to have kids everywhere!! It's time for personal accountability of BM because they're solely responsible for their own image. The Civil Rights Era was almost 70 years ago and we are doing worse instead of better. Time for a cultural reset because it's a mess internally and externally.
This is one of those nuggets that sounds smart to dumb people. Fellow brothers I thought we agreed that the whole "no emotions" approach is BS. Can we allow ourselves to be human? I love my wife. I love my children. Getting that love back has kept me grounded on many tough days. Trying to be the Tin man from the Wizard of Oz is a fool's mission. But clearly there's a lot of fools out there.
the idea isnt to be emotionless, emotions are what make us human. the problem is men can fall too hard in love, and become victim to their own emotions, and it impedes their ability to make decisions as a man. look no further than adam and eve. if Adam had did what God told him to, instead “being so in love with his woman” hed been straight.
@@C_The_Guy this falling in love too hard to one’s detriment not only happens to men, but to women too. The problem is when one decides to be devoid of emotions because of past traumatic love, and not learning the lesson of balanced self love and proper boundaries in love relationships. I think biblical stories are about learning lessons, so Adam could blame Eve, and curse her forever. Or he can take responsibility for his lack of leadership and become a better man.
As I talk to younger people and look at social media, I truly feel sorry for them. Men are downing women and women are downing men. I am so thankful to God I got a good wife.
Yes, and iam so glad I had a good husband, 20 years, no separation until sickness took him. Will never find another like him, nor am i looking. I know what love is, and it never ends. Dead or alive.
I am a woman and totally agree. I am one of the few good women that has always been turned down for women that either get him in trouble and going to prison or killed. I dont understand it.
No treating women like we're not human beings and we should bow down to you is the main problem. Males are spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually and financially abusive. Y'all love power and mind games not women.
Some Old Men are like that too. My Daddy said if you meet a man that's 45 and over without wife and children and driving a two door car is a very selfish man because it's all about him. Don't Walk Run real Fast.
Exactly. There are so many men online showing off about being 30 and 40 with no wife and kids. I always wonder if they realize that they hate themselves too much to procreate.
The sad part of this is this unfortunate man has never been taught to love properly. My heart goes out to him. When you love the right person properly, it is returned the same. You love, provide, protect, and care for one another. Then you pass that on to the next generation.
@Debbra Vann...agreed. What was his relationship like with his mother? Was he taught how to love a woman properly?Experiences with trauma? It's a lot of variables here...
Y’all swear y’all knw what mfs be thinkin and doin and shit he jus choose the wrong woman..y’all will create entire narratives jus to make y’all feel better abt some shit y’all heard that’s negative..It’s funny how men ain’t shit and get shitted on for speakin their minds abt the women they’ve been with when women been doin this for decades and now that men return the favor it’s wrong.
"Alot of people have never seen it" FACTS! Thank you so much for being a dope black man and pouring into the community the way you do. I love you King 😇🤎
Shuler, "thank you," for this profound and heartfelt message. You were so on point loving the right person together, both can build a lasting legacy, period!
Shuler alot women and men as we see everyday on here have no idea what love is or respect or family values or even dating respectfully. It's about their narcissistic views that's it. World is collapsing and they don't want to learn nothing of value or importance at all. Bible says man will become a lover of themselves. Take it how you will. Luckily some of us have found others that are into real relationships and family values and teamwork and respect for ourselves. Love you Shuler Happy Holidays to you and your family! Much Respect! ❤️🎉
"And if you don't like girls just say dat"🤣🤣🤣🤣 Was the part I was waiting for because that is ALL I thought just reading what that suspect dude posted.
I love women ! That's one of my top favorite things in life as a man. Blessings to all of the women in the world who wants to be loved on. I love you'll ❤️! And fellers you have to love on the ladies
My King loves me endlessly and he’s almost 40 and I’m the first person he’s been in love with. I thought that was insane but then I read stuff like this and see where his head was. I help him build, we do things together and our bond is incredible. He’s always saying to people “having the right Queen changed the game” and I just blush😂.Having the right King changed the game too.I was with horrible men before him . We really built our kingdom together. Better and worse. We’ve seen each other through some insane sht and really great sht😂❤. I’m glad I share it with him. This guy makin the post seems to not have had the right one . I’m in my 30s and I can’t wait to be his wife next year and I’m excited to keep building a life with him. This generation is so lost on so many levels and it’s really sad
One of my favorite RUclips knowledge drops of all time! This should be mandatory instruction in all homes, churches, and schools. Thank you, brother Shuler.
To love another human being with all of their flaws takes nothing LESS than strength. That's why 'love thy neighbor' is one the biggest failure humans have. It's easy to love yourself anything similar. Its hard and takes strength to love someone different or disagreeable to you..
Excellent commentary Bro. Shuler❤️❤️❤️ Black grandfathers were married and left behind homes and pensions for their wives. A generation later, after the rush to unwed parenthood and high incarceration rates, the general community is impoverished, weak, fatherless, female-driven and without focus. In other words, marriage builds wealth builds family and legacy❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
Because he's a demon. That's literally what it is to them...robbing you of your essence. Love is spiritual and pure demons don't understand it. But they want to take it and leave you broken.
Says a dude, with slippers on... He better get off that sauce and recognize... Love should be a part of your life all day e'ery day, for support and peace of mind, when the mission is completed. Just learn how to separate business and pleasure. 🎶 What the world needs now, is love sweet love... ❤️
Loving someone is one of the greatest gifts of life, being loved maybe the second greatest gift. Associated with loving someone comes the ups and downs and the misc stuff that every couple faces. My spouse and I are a team we hurt together, confront life together, we are blessed together ❤️ 🙏
Also... _Do know_ that *one **_need not_** have children to have a true **_legacy._* *Simply, do right, and be the example. Some even parent **_Nations._* BIG SHOUT to O. 💎 Blessings 🆙🙏🏽
@Robert Smith What's good with you, bro? 👊🏻 The Celtics beat the Lakers last night, and Jayson Tatum scored 44 points. Then LeBron scored 33 points, Anthony Davis scored 37 points, and Russell Westbrook was 5 points away from getting another triple-double with 20 points, 14 rebounds, and 5 assists.
@@jayskicksnfits9372 I'm doing good bro how about you?👊 Mannnn the Lakers know better from making a 15 point comeback and choking that game away in overtime. After da game Darvin Ham and da assistant coaches should've lined everyone up in da locker room and took turns beating each player upside da head with a sack of nickels.
@@RobertSmith-ru1ck I'm chillin, bro. No complaints over here. 👊🏻 Yep, especially Russell Westbrook out of all of them. I hate to say this, but the Lakers are a bunch of choke artists.
Amen, you said it Sir. Brothers, you all better find a woman you can love and that will love you back. A woman that will appreciate your sacrifice and represent you to the fullest! I say love and love as hard as you can.
Love and loneliness - the two things people are most afraid of. There are things in life we need to complete alone while for other things we will need a loving, supportive partner. On your solo mission don't get distracted but when the time is right , don't be afraid to love either. Relationships can distract, hurt and make you vulnerable but they can also be just what you need. Gramma always said " If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to last, go together."
That's FIRE 🔥🔥🔥 for sure Shuler!!!! LOVE...the GREATEST emotion GOD gave us!! Yes, love entails a lot.... sacrifice, time, support, and strength but in the end it will be worth it. Preach it Shuler!! Love is something you're willing to give unconditionally and with the right person it can be the greatest experience you'll ever encounter. Love...so NEEDED in the world today.
Growing up that’s all I seen from my mom and dad and all of my other family members so I know how to love!!! And as Wendell B said Still learning about love.
Real talk ... A lot of women have gotten caught up trying to be the woman who sticks by a man while he's down and when he turns out to not wanna get up except climbing on your back, we get blamed for picking dusties. That same woman decides to learn from her error and looks for someone who has his finances together will be judged as a gold digger. I'm sure guys experience some of this by financially helping a woman who ends up being for the streets or leaves him once she builds herself up. It's tough out here for everybody.
Having a good woman and loving her can help you complete your mission
Say it louder for the people in the back!!!
Absolutely Agreed!!!!!!
Amen
I agree and he probably one of those people who has to be in a relationship
🎯🎯🎯
My father will always say that he has the life he has is because of my mother. He was able to work hard knowing that his children, bills and home are being taken care of. He always gives my mum her flowers. She was a housewife until we went to school then worked part time to help with bills and extra things us kids may need. My parents are rockstars because of their love ❤
A king without a kingdom.
And a crown.
Exactly.
Word. 💯
And hollow hallways
Told em!
Loving the wrong woman is most definitely a weakness, but loving the right woman is a superpower!
This is why dating can be hard. You’d be surprised how many men think loving a woman is toxic but expect a woman to love them. Any person who has this mindset-man or woman, please run! Jesus is love and it’s a beautiful thing ❤
Exac
Please be very careful about Jesus he never had no woman his self and by the way that Jesus that you believe is Ceasars Borgia
Amen. 💯 Cuz toxic energy cannot be hidden.
@@Antonio-fj7xl I think you misread the comment. The OP said that Jesus is love. Which is true.
Exactly.
Only weak men are afraid of love and to be loved. It takes a strong person to love, support and dedicate their lives to another. I bet this guy has a lot of baby mamas and not involved in his kids lives. Love is a beautiful thing and the world needs more of it.
Interesting because women don't seem to have the ability to love. So are women weak? Infact women leave relationships way more than men do. Men seem to even love harder and longer than women so let this man protect himself from the lust and narcissistic affection from todays women . Lol
Who are you to judge. You don’t know this man. Speaking like you know what you’re talking about. Take that weave off your dogs head and put it back on yours and go sit down somewhere. Bird!!!
Real talk!
😂 are you a man?…… but you know what a weak one is?
@EMI HERMMA Exactly this the type of woman that making men go left these days.
My uncle's wife put her husband on her back and physically carried him for miles during the a war when they were killing people on the streets cuz he had a disability and she refused to leave her man behind and run for her life.
He was bedridden and had alzheimer's last 10yrs of his life and she bathed, fed and changed him without ever complaining even after she got diagnosed with cancer.
Thats what loving a GOOD woman gets you. Only men that waste time chasing women with loose drawls dont understand this.
26 yrs of marriage, I get up at 6am daily to get my husband breakfast, and chat with him before he leaves. We have been through hard times. I won't trade him for no-one or nothing.
Amen Sis. Love is the greatest of them all. ♥️
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Same here sis! Congratulations!👏👏👏 Will be 33 years for me on the 19th. Will do it all over again in a heart beat! God is oh so good!🤗
@@charmcharm2352 Congratulations
Amen sis.
But I bet the love, respect and loyalty he has for his homeboys is astronomical...every day I become more and more convinced that if it were acceptable amongst each other most men would be in relationships with other men
😏. ☕
Lol that mf'er gay. Let's just call it what it is.
I was hoping when Joe Budden admitted he was bisexual that would free a lot of these dudes 🤷🏽♀️ guess not
@@mwright0428
Ok. 😂🤣😂🤣
Comment of the day. 😂🤣😂
@@mwright0428 hollup, Joe actually admitted it, which pod? I gotta see it with my own eyes🤣🤣
AS A BLACK MAN,,,,SPEAK THAT TRUTH SHULER!!!!!💯💯💯
imo,
BRUH has NO business considering himself a King, if he has NO ability to share and or express Positivity to his significant other.
You can't be a king without a kingdom anyway. So majority of these males aren't kings. I wish y'all would stop throwing around that word. It's lost power and has become a joke.
Y'all give it to the males on the bottom. The bottom financially, mentally and spiritually. The most disloyal males y'all out here calling them kings. How embarrassing for y'all.
They don't want a kingdom of their own they want to run yours and destroy it.
This is the REAL truth. All this “Alpha, Beta” BS can go! It means nothing!
I'm so tired of people giving their stupid relationship advice
💯
Same
Or non-relationship advice. Bitter they don’t have a good one so they discourage others from seeking one with good people. So many people are angry at one another, men and women at war listening to these people just because they got a platform. Just because somebody is talking doesn’t mean you gotta listen! I’m so glad Shuler is addressing this foolishness, its been going on for too long.
Thank you so true they need to keep that bad advice to their self
Some people don't know nothing about love and have no business giving advice on love.😂😂😂😂
You a simp if you out here loving black women
Facts! 🌸
... exactly! So many antisocial, 'money is my god', never knew love, fearful people giving advice 😭
THIS!
Ok!
My dad use to get up every morning made sure the house was warm in the morning so when our feet hit the floor we would be comfortable. Worked and supported his family and we were full, happy and loved him still, even though he has been gone since 1979
That’s a “ weak man mindset” as QUEENS & KINGS” were to both protect each other’s crown💯💯💯💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
😒 What crowns?
As a proud woman period ‼️u should b holding ur head up high (that’s ya crown 👑) sweetheart
@emihermma6757 👎🏽
@emihermma6757 Hush. A man is speaking.
kings and queens do not “protect each others crown” 😒🤦♂️ yall talk about kings and queens all the time but know nothing about monarchy.
a king protects everything in his kingdom, from anything thats not his kingdom. a queen makes sure her king is straight, for as long as he’s king, her position is secure. a king is a king, with or without a queen.
Bruh is showing he's an INSECURE, weak boy, and not a man at all. Otherwise he would realize he needs his woman's encouragement and love to complete his "mission." Too many men don't know that love is a treasure shared between two people. It's a man's position to love, respect and protect his Queen. And a woman's position is to love, respect, and support her King. But sadly, Shuler is correct. Too many Black men have never learned how to love a woman - because they have never seen it demonstrated by a strong, righteous Black man! 💓 I will not say who I blame for this.
That’s deep
I agree, but it’s a multifaceted issue caused by different groups over a period of time. There isn’t one person or one group of people to blame.
BLACK MEN. YOU CAN SAY WHO IS TO BLAME. BLACK MEN THINK HAVING HELLA KIDS WITH HELLA DIFFERENT WOMEN AS A LEGACY
@@alanai1981 it's an absolute disgrace to have kids everywhere!! It's time for personal accountability of BM because they're solely responsible for their own image. The Civil Rights Era was almost 70 years ago and we are doing worse instead of better. Time for a cultural reset because it's a mess internally and externally.
You hit hammer right on the nail
This is one of those nuggets that sounds smart to dumb people. Fellow brothers I thought we agreed that the whole "no emotions" approach is BS. Can we allow ourselves to be human? I love my wife. I love my children. Getting that love back has kept me grounded on many tough days. Trying to be the Tin man from the Wizard of Oz is a fool's mission. But clearly there's a lot of fools out there.
So much truth in ur post!
the idea isnt to be emotionless, emotions are what make us human. the problem is men can fall too hard in love, and become victim to their own emotions, and it impedes their ability to make decisions as a man. look no further than adam and eve. if Adam had did what God told him to, instead “being so in love with his woman” hed been straight.
@@C_The_Guy this falling in love too hard to one’s detriment not only happens to men, but to women too. The problem is when one decides to be devoid of emotions because of past traumatic love, and not learning the lesson of balanced self love and proper boundaries in love relationships. I think biblical stories are about learning lessons, so Adam could blame Eve, and curse her forever. Or he can take responsibility for his lack of leadership and become a better man.
As I talk to younger people and look at social media, I truly feel sorry for them. Men are downing women and women are downing men. I am so thankful to God I got a good wife.
Yes, and iam so glad I had a good husband, 20 years, no separation until sickness took him. Will never find another like him, nor am i looking. I know what love is, and it never ends. Dead or alive.
@@loveandhappyiness Sorry for your loss. As Shuler said, I'm sure you built a legacy together.
I know that’s right😂🤣😘♾🔥🥹✌🏾🫡
Shit, young people now think making it to 19 20 is a long life. They expect to die young. Shit just sad.
Truth love is gone...
If you are in love with someone it can give you the motivation to go complete your mission and make it back home to that love of your life. ❤️😏
SHULER YOU ARE PREACHING THE WORD OF GOD WITH THIS ONE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤
In this day and age to be able to love, to really love and be kind IS the mission. Not many can do it anymore.
You have said it all Morgan. Not many can do it any more. Hearts have grown cold in many. Not all.
Thank you.
True. Too many people don’t value anything or anyone of substance. They’re too busy showing their butts online and creeping.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You have spoken the truth!!
"IF YOU DON'T LIKE GIRLS, THEN JUST SAY THAT". 💯💯💯💯. This ought to be the slogan for men nowadays!!!!!!....
Giving your love to the wrong woman is our biggest problem!!
I am a woman and totally agree. I am one of the few good women that has always been turned down for women that either get him in trouble and going to prison or killed. I dont understand it.
I think that is his main problem.
No treating women like we're not human beings and we should bow down to you is the main problem. Males are spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually and financially abusive. Y'all love power and mind games not women.
@@crystalsthefutureempress Same applies to you, seems like you have been giving your love to the wrong man. We can't blame everyone for a few.
Those are girls...not women material. Date differently.
Took us 39 years to find each other but we here 3 yrs strong ya dig I xtra love her
From the mouth of a hurt and broken person. We are stronger together.
"You may be blessed with some challenges " well said, shuler...well said🤣
SHULER TOOK US BACK DOWN MEMORY LANE, Y'ALL REMEMBER 💯🔥
Some Old Men are like that too.
My Daddy said if you meet a man that's 45 and over without wife and children and driving a two door car is a very selfish man because it's all about him.
Don't Walk Run real Fast.
Nursing home bound fella
Exactly. There are so many men online showing off about being 30 and 40 with no wife and kids. I always wonder if they realize that they hate themselves too much to procreate.
Your daddy was right. Run like the dickens.
That is true
The sad part of this is this unfortunate man has never been taught to love properly. My heart goes out to him. When you love the right person properly, it is returned the same. You love, provide, protect, and care for one another. Then you pass that on to the next generation.
@Debbra Vann...agreed. What was his relationship like with his mother? Was he taught how to love a woman properly?Experiences with trauma? It's a lot of variables here...
Behind every good man is a good woman! Hating women is the thing to do for some men nowadays😌
Sadly it's going both ways some men are hating women and some women are hating men
@@biz4L right
Love is a beautiful thing!
GOD IS LOVE….LOVE IS GOD!!!
If loving a woman is wrong, I don't wanna be right 🤣🤣🤣
Having and loving the right woman is the biggest blessing; not weakness. "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing."
When Shuler puts on the suit, Rev. King comes forwards. Preach Brother Shuler PPPPRRRREEEEAAAACCCCHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m sure he wrote this post AFTER telling a woman he dragged through the depths of HELL “But I love you baby” and she responded, “N*gga please!”😂
Thank you. These dudes just want to control and spiritually break us. They don't love they destroy. He's mad he can't do that anymore.
I spit out my coffee 🤣🤣
I gaaaagged on my coffeee. And everyone is laughing.
Thats what it is, he hurt
Y’all swear y’all knw what mfs be thinkin and doin and shit he jus choose the wrong woman..y’all will create entire narratives jus to make y’all feel better abt some shit y’all heard that’s negative..It’s funny how men ain’t shit and get shitted on for speakin their minds abt the women they’ve been with when women been doin this for decades and now that men return the favor it’s wrong.
"Alot of people have never seen it" FACTS! Thank you so much for being a dope black man and pouring into the community the way you do. I love you King 😇🤎
Preach Shuler King!!!
Shuler, "thank you," for this profound and heartfelt message. You were so on point loving the right person together, both can build a lasting legacy, period!
But I bet he loves his boys though smh he’s a homie lover😂😂😂😂
Lol what they say on The Boondocks..."Homies Over Hoes!" He's a homie lover lmfao
@@CBrown023 I got Gangstalicious vibes too! Do da Homie! Do da Homie!🤣🤣
Shuler alot women and men as we see everyday on here have no idea what love is or respect or family values or even dating respectfully. It's about their narcissistic views that's it. World is collapsing and they don't want to learn nothing of value or importance at all. Bible says man will become a lover of themselves. Take it how you will.
Luckily some of us have found others that are into real relationships and family values and teamwork and respect for ourselves.
Love you Shuler Happy Holidays to you and your family! Much Respect!
❤️🎉
A 10 minute Shuler post?
Rapper buddy violated and Pastor King had to PREACH N TEACH!!!!!
Now that you mention it, why am I listening to any thing these “rappers” today have to say? 🤨
@EMI HERMMA "Fasho They Ain't Talm Bout Shi!!"
"And if you don't like girls just say dat"🤣🤣🤣🤣 Was the part I was waiting for because that is ALL I thought just reading what that suspect dude posted.
I love women ! That's one of my top favorite things in life as a man. Blessings to all of the women in the world who wants to be loved on. I love you'll ❤️! And fellers you have to love on the ladies
The Bible says one woman for every man and one man for everyone so that the nation does not turn to whoredom.
My King loves me endlessly and he’s almost 40 and I’m the first person he’s been in love with. I thought that was insane but then I read stuff like this and see where his head was. I help him build, we do things together and our bond is incredible. He’s always saying to people “having the right Queen changed the game” and I just blush😂.Having the right King changed the game too.I was with horrible men before him . We really built our kingdom together. Better and worse. We’ve seen each other through some insane sht and really great sht😂❤. I’m glad I share it with him. This guy makin the post seems to not have had the right one . I’m in my 30s and I can’t wait to be his wife next year and I’m excited to keep building a life with him.
This generation is so lost on so many levels and it’s really sad
Always happy to hear these stories because sometimes it seems there is no hope. Wish you all a happy and blessed marriage.
Congratulations
He telling the truth on both ends having a good thing Build You Up they don't tear you down
One of my favorite RUclips knowledge drops of all time! This should be mandatory instruction in all homes, churches, and schools. Thank you, brother Shuler.
Some of these people are truly setting the stage for what's to come!!!! (Men Will Be Lovers of Themselves)
We are already there.
To love another human being with all of their flaws takes nothing LESS than strength. That's why 'love thy neighbor' is one the biggest failure humans have. It's easy to love yourself anything similar. Its hard and takes strength to love someone different or disagreeable to you..
EXACTLY. YOU HAVE 2 1st, KNOW LOVE & then, "U" MUST LOVE "U", BEFORE YOU CAN "GIVE"/"SHARE" that LOVE!!!💞💞💕
For this video to go beyond 4mins, I knew this was a serious issue. Preach Uncle Shuler🙏
Excellent commentary Bro. Shuler❤️❤️❤️ Black grandfathers were married and left behind homes and pensions for their wives. A generation later, after the rush to unwed parenthood and high incarceration rates, the general community is impoverished, weak, fatherless, female-driven and without focus. In other words, marriage builds wealth builds family and legacy❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
You know its deep when you have a 10min Shuler Video...🤯
One of the best......Love is the hardest easiest thing to do.
He said completing your mission, he making love sound like he robbing a bank.😂😂😂😂
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Exactly, like it was said in Color Purple " Why Miss Celie, you sound like he doing his business on you."🤣
Because he's a demon. That's literally what it is to them...robbing you of your essence. Love is spiritual and pure demons don't understand it. But they want to take it and leave you broken.
Shuler.....you set them straight. Hell...you set all of us straight. If we thought we knew what love was, you broke it down. You are 💯👍
Family is the BIGGEST motivation for a King.
The world needed to hear this shuler. Respect!!
This is why they say there's a Thin Line Between Love And Hate.😂😂😂😂
@Robert Smith: i just heard that song randomly yesterday lol
My grandma used to say, " Behind every good man is a great woman."
I was born in the wrong generation then cause all I want to do is give love & be loved on back🤷🏾♀️. But this generation act like the hate women.
They aren't acting.
Agreed with Shuler King. A wrong woman is a pain & suffering, but a good woman is a happy home & a beautiful legacy.
Mr. Shuler you have my utmost respect and support. Thank you for articulating this in a very profound way. 💯🎯
Amen Shuler 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I just let my child hear your words🙌🏾🙌🏾✔️
Says a dude, with slippers on... He better get off that sauce and recognize... Love should be a part of your life all day e'ery day, for support and peace of mind, when the mission is completed. Just learn how to separate business and pleasure.
🎶 What the world needs now, is love sweet love... ❤️
I knew it was real when I saw how long the video was...GREAT MESSAGE!!
Tell them Shuler. Preach. Your words, so true. Thankyou. ❤😊
Loving someone is one of the greatest gifts of life, being loved maybe the second greatest gift. Associated with loving someone comes the ups and downs and the misc stuff that every couple faces. My spouse and I are a team we hurt together, confront life together, we are blessed together ❤️ 🙏
Preach It Shuler 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Also... _Do know_ that *one **_need not_** have children to have a true **_legacy._*
*Simply, do right, and be the example. Some even parent **_Nations._*
BIG SHOUT to O. 💎 Blessings 🆙🙏🏽
This is da true definition of Mission Impossible.
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@Robert Smith What's good with you, bro? 👊🏻 The Celtics beat the Lakers last night, and Jayson Tatum scored 44 points. Then LeBron scored 33 points, Anthony Davis scored 37 points, and Russell Westbrook was 5 points away from getting another triple-double with 20 points, 14 rebounds, and 5 assists.
@@jayskicksnfits9372 I'm doing good bro how about you?👊 Mannnn the Lakers know better from making a 15 point comeback and choking that game away in overtime. After da game Darvin Ham and da assistant coaches should've lined everyone up in da locker room and took turns beating each player upside da head with a sack of nickels.
@@RobertSmith-ru1ck I'm chillin, bro. No complaints over here. 👊🏻 Yep, especially Russell Westbrook out of all of them. I hate to say this, but the Lakers are a bunch of choke artists.
More like " Mission in cockable".
Clearly he’s NOT a king…he’s more of a FOOL🤣🤣🤣
Court Jester? 😏
@@heathertea2704 Took the words clean outta my mouth
Thank youuuuuu! I just said a similar thing above! Big ups to VA mad love from NY and not just cuz you bonita mamita 🙌🏾.😂😁
@The Darker Archery: I appreciate your kind words 😊😊😊
Nothing further from the truth. To love is the bravest, greatest act a human can accomplish. It's part of being a man big dummy!
I got the Fred Sanford reference!
SHULER LET EM KNOW 💯🔥
Thats right, help these young people. Have the right people around you in general makes your mission easier.
Preach, Shuler! That's all I have to say.👏🏽🙌🏽💖
I totally agree. This type of information should be shared to as many men and women we can.
Maybe he’s the “right woman “ for himself. 😂
Ooohh that was a good one, he does sound feminine doesn't he ?🤣
This says I love my homie Curtis.
He's the right woman for his homies.
In my Opinion I LOVE to treat my Woman with LOTS of Love and when she smiles that is PRICELESS!!!
Wiser words have NEVER been spoken! PREACH SHULER!!!
Well said Shuler. 💕💟💕
Behind every great man is a great woman....rolling her eyes with a smile.
Thank you for teaching a much needed life lesson 🙏🏾
You are a profoundly wish and intelligent brother and I pray that you and your family grow and prosper
Nothing but pure facts spoken💯
Amen, you said it Sir. Brothers, you all better find a woman you can love and that will love you back. A woman that will appreciate your sacrifice and represent you to the fullest! I say love and love as hard as you can.
Love and loneliness - the two things people are most afraid of. There are things in life we need to complete alone while for other things we will need a loving, supportive partner. On your solo mission don't get distracted but when the time is right , don't be afraid to love either. Relationships can distract, hurt and make you vulnerable but they can also be just what you need. Gramma always said " If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to last, go together."
The most sensible comment on here
I feel sorry for people who has given up on Love because it's beautiful.
That's FIRE 🔥🔥🔥 for sure Shuler!!!! LOVE...the GREATEST emotion GOD gave us!! Yes, love entails a lot.... sacrifice, time, support, and strength but in the end it will be worth it. Preach it Shuler!! Love is something you're willing to give unconditionally and with the right person it can be the greatest experience you'll ever encounter. Love...so NEEDED in the world today.
PREACH KING! YASS! LOVES THIS MAN TO THE MOON AND BACK!!! Makes my day ev day!!!!
Speak on it, ShulerKing!!
These folks betta listen. Shuler telling tha beautiful truth.
Preach my brother 👊🏿🙏🏿💯
Love is the most beautiful joy in this beautiful world and not to hurt it
Amen Mr. Shuler. Amen. Thank you for your word😇❤Truth!
Growing up that’s all I seen from my mom and dad and all of my other family members so I know how to love!!!
And as Wendell B said
Still learning about love.
Love is an action word
Thank you, Mr. King for clearing this madness up! We need more mature men to speak up and attempt to save our young men!
That's the Truth. Got to have a Legacy.
Shuler you are definitely a young ole soul,🤣100, YOUR PARENTS TAUGHT you well, there are good men out here, I have one!
Real talk ... A lot of women have gotten caught up trying to be the woman who sticks by a man while he's down and when he turns out to not wanna get up except climbing on your back, we get blamed for picking dusties. That same woman decides to learn from her error and looks for someone who has his finances together will be judged as a gold digger. I'm sure guys experience some of this by financially helping a woman who ends up being for the streets or leaves him once she builds herself up. It's tough out here for everybody.
There has NEVER..been a Great Good Ruler... without a Good woman behind him.... 😊💪🏿