speaking from personal experience, having no dad is better than having a dad that actively does not care about you or your well-being. I wholeheartedly agree she should just get rid of him, at least until he’s mature enough to realize their daughter is here because of him just as much as the mother and it’s equally his responsibility to ensure she’s taken care of.
@@Haylla2008 yes..? This isn’t a difficult concept, a father who doesn’t value watching his child grow up and choosing to leave actively doesn’t care about his child.
"He treated everyone like garbage, but not me..." Calls boyfriend over to help pack a to go bag and he's "busy"... Girl I think your turn at being garbage is coming up...
Right! It really is. I get everyone is mad that the dude is being a immature jerk..but guess what! Most (not all) 17 year old boys are immature jerks! He's NOT going to get what she's going through or understand. Half the time grown men dont know what a woman goes through or understands so for everyone to act like a teenage boy is suppossed to get it, is EXTREMELY unrealistic.
Well yeah, if he treated her well, she wouldn't be pregnant with his kid. He's be an orbiter/friendzoned and she'd be banging/getting pregnant by his friend who treats her badly.
@@Shellygrrl2573 Woah, most 17 y.o. guys I know are perfectly nice. It sounds to me like you've had some bad experiences and decided to generalize that shit. Don't. It's akin to "most blacks are dumb" or "most girls just want your money". Just because you've experienced bad stuff doesn't mean that group is that way, even most of the time.
As a teen who was pregnant and is now a 30 year old mom to a 15 year old...please watch your kids! My son is amazing but my life was hard! Don't let him get his noodle wet.
You can't stop your kids from bumping ugkys all you can do is teach them and sometimes even that's not enough it's not up to you what your kids do behind your back
Disappointment in ourselves as well, some of us just can't own that and it turns into hostility. We know when we have fallen short, we are sorry if we suck at saying it.
And I mean as she said it, her mother stared at her so intensively. It's even worse if they just stare and leave as you have to start talking and that takes a lot of energy, you can't pour out any emotion, you can't defend yourself from their words, you can't do anything other than endure the silence and the stare and when they leave this silence just never stops. And to think you have to meet them again and endure all of it another time is just breaking
The girl doesn't seem bad. If she's deflecting and blaming others, it's only cause she learned that from her mum or she's legit defending herself. Everyone around her sucks and she seems to be holding it together pretty well despite the lack of emotional support. She's being her own little cheerleader.
I mean if I was her mom I would be kinda upset cause my daughter is a teenager and pregnant which will make her life harder and she has a horrible baby father and now she has to support her teenage daughter and her baby that a lot so I can see why the mother acts like that. But not her boyfriend he just not it …
@@pettylilthing I get being upset but no, the mother is making things harder for her. It’s one of the most sensitive times in her life and having no support and your family being difficult is where mental issues are born
@@idrksim I get what you mean but then again she is going to be a mother soon and her mother is more than likely going to be financially supporting her and her child, and is going to be taking care of her child for her so in her mother own head she probably think she is supporting her
@@pettylilthing Financially supporting someone and being upset with them doesn't give you the right to treat someone bad. The VERY first interaction we see her have with her mom is the mom getting mad that she told the interviewer her mom said she was disappointed in her. She didn't apologize, she deflected and said the daughter was making it up. You see the daughter shut down and look away because this is normal for her and she knows there's no reason to fight back because the mom is unreasonable. This is not a healthy relationship.
"He treated everyone like garbage, but not me..." That's a huge warning sign that a lot of people, especially younger people, tend to ignore when they're in love.
I absolutely agree. The only disagreement my son's father and I ever had, even before I was pregnant, was about my schizophrenic mom. I had gotten out of an extremely physically abusive relationship a few months before we got together. I got too drunk and fell in my driveway when he was dropping me off. Of COURSE he laughed at first - because it was funny - but I fucked my face up royally. He was about to help me up and everything, realizing it was serious because it had only been a few seconds, but I was wailijg and my mom heard and ran out. Since she can't think straight and everything she learned about my previous relationship, she immediately blamed him saying he pushed me or hit me and was giving me pills (which was an addiction I had that she was in denial about at the time). He of course got defensive and yelled back saying I fell and he was about to help me up, but she saw him laughing and they kept arguing until he left in a huff. This was the beginning of our relationship and we were together two and a half years. The only issue we ever had was that he wouldn't educate himself or open himself to understanding that my mom can't think clearly like a normal person and it was coupled with what I had gone through previously. Maybe he never believed me, I don't know. But the fact that he refused to even try to understand another point of view over two years should have been a huge red flag.
the thing about sticking yourself versus getting a tattoo is that the artist is giving you the tattoo and you just have to endure it; to prick yourself, you have to fire the neuron to cause yourself pain.
This reminds me if nursing school when I had to give myself an injection. Man the hesitation I had caused me a painful. Ugly bruise but after that I realized it wasn't that hard. But i still think I would hesitate if i had to do it again lol 🤣
Well I’m proudly a dad at 18(my gf is 17) it was tough for a while too figure everything out and honestly couldn’t imagine life without my baby girl at 4 months now. I agree with Ken that the hardest part was too change it from my life too everything being about hers
Please Girls, if he doesn't care about you, just leave him. Like ye being a single parent will suck, but you and your child will both be hurting so much more if they are present and just don't care about your well being. You can always find another partner. 💙 this is coming from someone who is currently witnessing a family member struggle with a kid and a shitty partner
I bet he'd play another tune if it was HIM carrying a fetus around to full term and squeeze that thing out after the nine months. Just imagine the insanity of thinking you can just make a girl pregnant and think 'oh yeah, but that is like toooootally not my problem cuz im on the football team and stuff.... so I dun got time for that.'
I feel so bad for the girl. She clearly doesn't have a great home life if she can't openly talk to her mother about things (mother kinda seems a bit narcissistic) and then obviously because of that she went for a narcissistic bf because that's the only "love" she ever knew.
yea the mom definitely struck a few cords with me (I was also raised by someone like that) and it just made me very upset to see that not only is the mother like that but when her kid is pregnant and stress makes pregnancy more complicated. humiliating your daughter more than she likely is by herself isn't gonna help her at all.
It's tough. She needs to forget about the boy and cut off her mom when she's able to be on her own. Cutting toxic family was the best decision I ever made.
I could tell by their reactions the kind of tension that was there. That mothers reaction didn't come from a place of compassion, it came from a place of anger. In fact she probably told the girl not to make her look bad on national television, so her correcting her about not saying she was disappointed was her way of saying 'you better watch your mouth'. You can tell by her physical movement and tone, plus the girls reaction to it like 'yeah right, but if I continue I'll never hear the end of it off screen'. The mom is offended that the girl doesn't feel comfortable being open and the girl doesn't feel comfortable coming to her own damn mother because she's clearly judgemental and would not be kind to her. Having a mother like this I knew all too well the reactions and when I have kids I want them to know they can talk to me about ANY THING. I don't ever want my kids to be afraid to come to me like I was with my mother, like she is with hers.
Agreed, the rift in their relationship is probably the catalyst that led to the pregnancy. She didn't have the reliable guidance in her life to prevent this.
Ngl I'm 1 minute in and this girl seems like she could be alright. She's introspective, retrospective, fairly grounded, gave up what she needed to to carry the child safely... I'm pretty shocked this is on TLC.
a nurse once told me that if you need to have your finger poked, press your thumb to the tip of your finger pad and push/press down the finger. This shifts and moves some of the nerves away from the site of the poke, and it helps a lot with the pain/annoyance of the needle prick. Ken's story about having to prick his finger for allergy tests made me think of how I was anemic as a kid and they kept having to prick my fingers for blood, it's the worst part!
The guy who gave me my IV to inject contrast dye last time I had a CT scan needs to teach. No joke, he put an IV in my left arm and I didn't even know it. I was lying on the CT table, arm on a rest/board thing, and he was showing a young woman shadowing him (probably for residency or interning), and he was talking her through how to prep the area and do this, do that, if you tape this over here it secures everything, then they move across the room. I ask when are they going to put in the actual IV and he's like "Oh, it's already done!" and I look over to see a needle in my arm vein lol. No joke, and actually kind of scary lol, he probably could have put that in while I was asleep and not wake me. In contrast, when I had the surgery that scan was for, the damn OR nurse put the IV in the back of my hand and that hurt, a LOT, and kept hurting the same, all the time, it never stopped until I was put under, and it hurt as soon as I was back conscious.
Emily is my favorite mom from Unexpected. Between her boyfriend being incredibly immature and her mom gaslighting her at every possible moment, she was super easy to root for. She was by far the most mature out of everyone on the show and deserves so much better.
Dude sounds like he's gonna be on her couch playing Call of Duty all day and drinking beer. When she gets home from work and picking up the kid from day care he's gonna insist she cook him dinner. GURL RUN FOR THE HILLS!
Looks like that whole bunch is an unhealthy relationship mom, daughter, boyfriend, notice you didn’t meet HIS parents so ya know they don’t want anything to do with the drama
His parents are very lovely people, especially his dad who treated the pregni girl like his own daughter. I remember her being upset about breaking up with Diego because that would mean she won't be able to be around his family who treated her better than her cold ass mom. Cheers from Canada ❤️🤘
Let's be honest... Ken IS UNDERRATED and the BEST duo partner He makes amazing videos with pewds AND with BuffPro too he makes amazing videos Keep it up man.... Someday you'll reach 10M...
I absolutely cannot stand Felix but Ken has at least made me try again since I hadn't tried in a few years. I still can't watch Felix though, lol, even with Ken.
Absolutely love Felix and Ken's videos, and always knew Ken with Dane, so love those as well. The amount of collabs with Felix recently, per week! ... man, it just makes me so happy. Waiting for Ken to hit 5 million.
Is no one going to talk about the nurse asked if the babies dad was coming and the girl said,"no he has a test at school". That just seems so weird to me
No it happens, some people are very judgemental if you look young. Had that happen to me when I had my kid and I'm not even that young but am a single mom.
I just had my son in March and not once did a nurse ever ask me if my boyfriend was coming anytime he was or wasn’t there. They acknowledged him when he was there and didn’t ask when he wasn’t. It was nice knowing their focus was fully on me.
Well some nurses like to gossip. Its unprofessional and i hate it but it does happen. I feel like there are some people with certain personality traits that shouldnt be in that field of work.
"i feel like were drifting part, like were not like we use to be" oh boy im glad you didn't do anything super drastic that will change the rest of your life before coming to that decision.
Ken, I truly appreciate you pointing out the neglect of couples and family relations over the past couple of years of the react couch. This has opened my eyes to some of the issues and how I can reflect and how I can react in my life situations. Hope everyone is doing well, and congrats on the upcoming of your newest member.
This young lady actually seems decent. Just young. However, shes surrounded by such negativity! She can totally do this! PS- Yall were hilarious today!😂
I appreciate that you both advocate for girls (I.e. To Catch A Predator episodes where you both are totally disgusted) and ones like these where the girl needs support and love, not a guy who has rocks for brains and no common decency. You both make me laugh and Buffpro always makes me think he’d make a great partner and dad (if he isn’t already- idk his personal life). Fun to watch the 2 of you together! Thanks for the laughs. 😄
YES I am a 30 year old who got pregnant at 16. My mom is JUST like the mom in this episode and anytime I said I wanted to try something, I wanted to go to college, or go to the gym 2 times a week, they would put me down and tell me I couldnt I had a baby now. I dont drink, i dont smoke, I dont do drugs, I dont party. I literally just wanted to do things that would improve my life, that all mothers want to do. It doesnt help these girls to punish them. They need support especially because... without support and her own life, she will cling to her baby daddy instead of becoming more independant and able to see she can have happiness outside of him
.... Yea most guys are disgusted by predators and guys treating women bad.. don't know why it's such a surprise that 2 guys are disgusted by it. Sorta like how they don't like women treating guys bad either. Believe that's called being decent humans who dosnt like seeing people treat others badly. Don't think you consider them advocates for anyone since they judge bad as bad nomatter who it is
@@Tysandifer they probably have been properly brainwashed into thinking all males are rapist and in pro pedo twitter pages, and that is why it surprises them that two guys actually hate pedophilia and human garbage.
@@carloscjr23 the word isn’t brainwashed just a lot of men speak openly about their disdain for women and rarely choose to empathize with women enduring harm from men.
But, let's be honest, how many parents are going to be proud that their teenage daughter got pregnant? Or that their teenage son knocked a girl up? Very, very few. You can be supportive of your child while still being disappointed.
lets be honest... most 18 year olds aren't virgins/its normal to be sexually active at that age. The girl mentioned how her mum had never ever mentioned anything about se x so I assume that means no birth control/condom conversations, ovulation tracking, etc. Better to talk to your kids about dating and partying openly than to be negligent over normal teen activities and then have to be having conversations about how to raise a child
@@rexxesgedden5341 parenting is a rollercoaster. Parents are humans too and they aren't perfect. Parenting isn't something you can teach or learn and master just like that bcze children are different. The same technique might not work for all ur kids and another parent's technique might not work for you. My point is sometimes if you're lucky, it'll workout and sometimes, it won't. All they can do is try to guide their spawn in the right direction without pushing too hard or being too lenient, another dilemma. And teach them safety, consent and things that'll help them navigate adolescence better
@@iris5678 it does suck. It’s not fair and it’s not the way it’s supposed to be, but when It happens, the best thing to do is not focus on how the other person is getting away with everything, and just focus on what you have to do for your baby. There’s no point and trying to wrap your head around how you choose to be a parent and actually have to do it and how they choose to get away. You both have a choice to make, and if you choose the baby, you do it 100%. There’s no room for jealousy in that
Lol, Ken loves us a whole lot. Because Diego is one extremely self absorbed kid. I wish there was something you could do to prevent pregnancy…oh wait…. There is???? Hmm…
@@elisenieuwe4649 I think it's not as rare as people think. My mom knew a few people who were on multiple birth control methods and still got pregnant. But I also have a friend who still lets her bf finish inside her with birth control... like girl are you not afraid of that shit?
Life advice: generally speaking, if they are rude to everyone and others have similar negative opinions of them…chances are it’s only a matter of time before they start treating you the same or even worse. Yes people can change and that’s extremely true depending on their age….however some people will always be that way. It’s better to not be romantically or physically involved until you see their character change and they learn how to treat others. And yes I am speaking from experience (sadly)
Yes I agree with you. I was in a short term relationship in HS that was very stupid of me bc i didnt know what kind of person they were at the time. Kinda traumatized me. Now Im with someone who Ive known for a long time and now we're together. Were best friends. Been together for 6 years.
Yes! This wish of people to be the reason of the person changing is always a topic in romantic films and books but it does rarely work in real life. People shouldn't fall for the feeling of being special just because they treat you differently because as time goes by, they will continue their habits on you as well because they reached their goal already.
@@dragonixheli5474 the only reason they treat you special is because you're new. Once you're just a "given part of life" they'll treat you like everyone else.
That girl deserved better when she should have chosen birth control or abstinence instead of him. She knew how he badly treated others, she stated it in the video, and should have followed her first instinct to ignore him. She needs to step up and care for her child and not depend on others; she's eighteen, fully able to get a job and provide.
@@muchtested While I agree 100%, whose to say she WONT step up? She seems to have a good head on her shoulders, just made a common mistake due to poor guidance 🤷♀️ Also, when you are pregnant it changes the chemicals in your brain, and the way she talks about giving up things she enjoys for the baby she seems more mature than some other moms (for example the ones with the "I had to give up everything I liked to raise YOU!" attitudes) That gives me hope for this girl. She just needs to get away from the negative influences imo
u can tell this guy is going to end up working at McDonalds and then telling everyone at work he was on the football team in highschool and how he wouldve turned pro if it wasant for the baby...
Ngl when I was 19 I dated a 26 year old that acted just like this. Never had a kid but I lost my mom and needed support too. Some people just never improve with age 🤣
my dad kinda walked out of my life around 14 (not to trauma dump) and i texted him not too long ago and let him know how much he sucked,and not to mention the childhood i was given by him was awful cuz he was a drunk and was abusive. having no dad is sooo much better than a negligent one.. my step dad came up to the pate tho and my mom gave us the best she could. im glad hes gone and i gave myself closure. but i never got a message back or a phone call after i told him what he did to me.
I really wish more people understood that “highschool sweethearts” are extremely rare and glamorized on tv. The divorce rate in the United States is literally 50/50. Imo, teenagers really shouldn’t be allowed to be in relationships. From a girl that’s talked to so many guys since I was 14 (never sexual), being taught from a young age in all these Disney movies glamorizing relationships, and reinforcing the idea that if you aren’t in one, you’re worth less. And, (coming from a 19 year old) teens are stupid. There’s very few that are very self aware, but a lot of them are just figuring out life and learning how to be themselves and sooo many teens get consumed in relationships that are toxic for them, end up getting them in trouble, and just causes more heartbreak and search for validation than happiness. Never be in a rush or look for a relationship. 9/10 when you’re looking for one, it’s usually not going to last long at all.
I agree, there's no reason for a teenager to have a relationship and I wish I didn't have a boyfriend because it didn't mean anything and I didn't know he had anger issues. Too bad parents don't actually talk to their kids.
This. Now I wouldn’t go so far as to say that teenagers shouldn’t be in relationships, I do agree that Hollywood and media do glamorize the “high school sweethearts” thing so much that it gives a rather inordinately idealistic view of said relationships. Teenagers are walking, talking chemical imbalances who are just trying to get used to life and their growing autonomy. Most adults barely have their lives figured out, let alone teenagers who usually have no idea what’s in store for adulthood and are still developing the introspection, fore-planning, and the ability to grasp consequences.
As someone who is pregnant now seeing how this boy speak to the mother of his child just upset me. I never watch the show cause I lived it at school. I have a feeling she was prepressure.
Teenagers need to understand that just because you're having a baby with someone doesn't mean you need a relationship with them. If it's toxic just let it go
Oof he kind of reminded me of when I first moved in with my boyfriend, like he couldn't understand why I wanted to bring my stuff over or decorate things... I'm like I just changed my whole life to be with you! I need to feel like I actually live here too now, not just staying the night every night for the rest of this relationship! He was like... oh my gawwwww I'm so stupid, I'm sorry So hopefully her baby daddy can have that same epiphany, but she might have to speak up
Yes! This is exactly what I touched base on lol esp cuz they're just kids. Homie prob legit thinks it's just as simple as packing a bag. If she keeps beating around the bush hoping he will magically understand what she wants and feels she is gonna be disappointed. I truly don't feel like he intentionally wants to hurt her he just honestly doesn't know or understand that he is or why he is. Sometimes people, men especially, need a little extra help 🤣 she needs to communicate with him and then once he's aware if he's still a dbag we can drag him.
@@vexu7366 exactly! Like if I have to spell it out to my 28yr old bf, she DEFINITELY needs to get vocal with this 17yr old or like you said she will continue to feel life she's alone in this
I was once told that "Men have box brains while women have noodle brains". As in men see and comprehend things differently, in more simple terms. I also read that because of the way male brains work, just "dropping hints" isnt enough. You need to be as precise, direct and simple as possible or they wont understand. I've had to work on that with my fiancee, and since then, our communication has gotten better. Would like it if he tried to see things from my perspective every now and again, but beggars cant be choosers lol. Also, the adult brain does not fully mature until 23/25. The part that takes the longest is the prefrontal cortex, which in charge of impulse control and rational thought.
That mom reminds me of my mom. My mom was mad when my sister told her she was pregnant with my nephew while my father was like oh well, jokingly said I ain’t the daddy. I was cracking up so hard when my dad said that. Made my mom even more mad. Nowadays, we talk about it and she always denying that she was mad. Mind you, sister was in her 20s at the time. Lol.
@@jgw9990 yes 😂 it wasn't my age but where I was at the timing of it I just started a new job when I found out and the fact that we were hunting for apartments made her super anxious. We weren't trying to have a kid it just happened 😂 I could tell by the look on her face that the disappointment was real she's way more excited now but still not overjoyed
@@rebelwithacause666 Yeah same with my sister. We all made big changes within the year she got pregnant and my sister only knew the father for only like 2 months. Which really got to my mom, who knew our father since they were children. Although, my mom and my sister are know to be drama queens. My sister was so nervous she was crying and everything. My friend and I were there for support, although I wasn't much support laughing in the corner with all that happened that day.
As much as I want both parents in the picture, I'm glad she has the emotional maturity to recognise the potential emotional damage he could do to her daughter judging by how distant e is being during the pregnancy. When my mother was pregnant with me at 19 I read the letter her dad wrote to her about making up her mind and later found letters from my dad accusing me of plotting against him, being manipulative, making him look bad, having a 'look' that apparently indicated to him that I was trying to deliberately ruin his life. He wrote this about a toddler, the man strangled her until she passed out during the pregnancy and as much as I love her the dense cow didn't get it through to her head that maybe MAYBE this sort of violent psycho shouldn't be trusted around her kids(?!), especially not leaving us alone with him. I told he to sort out her daddy issues, she left the country for another alcoholic psycho who tried to murder us when we followed her over there to gt away from our dad, then got pregnant again at 45 to a dude who already told her to chose between her kids and him explicitly. I told her to have an abortion because it would be kinder as her two other kids wish they hadn't been born as it is. She had the kid anyway and surprise surprise he's already been used as a bargaining chip during physical fights ending up blood splattered and seeing things no kid should see.Some people need to see the signs and stop reproducing if they can't or won't save themselves.When you have kids its not just about you anymore. They didn't ask to exist and be dragged into your mess because you put harmful men around your kids...
Just wanted to say I'm sorry you and your siblings went through that. I can't say I've dealt with the same things but I did have a shit father too (drugs and alcohol, abuse) and life would've been waaaaaay better if my mom hadn't stayed with him for so long and have 2 more kids. I hope you all are doing okay.
I'm so sorry, hope you are healing good! My mother also chose horrible people over her kids. My dad was a bit of an alcoholic (stopped drinking when I was around 6th grade) and had a messed up mentality about things, and had already had a child from a previous relationship that he had nothing to do with. I'm my moms oldest. She cheated on my dad multiple times. They got divorced, but one of the guys she cheated on my dad with she got with. He raped and molested me from 5-7. He was the biological father of my youngest brother. Luckily I spoke up and put him away. Then a year after she was bringing around ANOTHER guy who was an ex alcoholic and had been in jail for beating up a guy within an inch of his life. He didnt drink (at least around me and my brothers) until I was a freshman in high school. My mother cheated on him constantly as well, but he stuck around for us kids. Then when I was a freshman the cheating stopped (that I know of) and they BOTH became bad alcoholics. Now she is with ANOTHER guy. I dont know much about him since she got with him after I left (she actually kicked me out but that's a whole other story >
When my sister got pregnant at age 14 in the 90s, my mom took her to get an abortion and that was the end of it. There was no TLC show, no romanticism, just dealing with it in real life.
With Ken talking about the allergy test, it reminded me of High school where I was pricked with 20 different substances on my arms and they watched to see which one swelled up for an allergic reaction.
Birth control is literally available to all teens without parental consent. Seriously wtf people get your kids protected and educated or this will happen.
@@babybluehashyo not true. Maybe depends on the state but they provide free pregnancy prevention for teens here and they dont even have to tell the parents starting at the age of 13. They are more concerned about immature kids running around having babies.
Also depends on where you are if it's discussed at schools. Here in deep south that maybe available but it's not taught. It's no use if the kids don't know about it.
So only women and men with daughters believe in sexual responsibility, enough to have disdain for young boys who are thoughtless about kicking off a whole new generation?- that's a bleak, view
@@8thhousemoonrabbit205 so read into what I said and then comment on that instead of what I actually said? nobody said shit about only. some people are out there just looking for stuff to be argumentative about, and when they don't find it they have to pull shit out of their own brain to be upset about. 🤣🤣
@@tiinaniinikoski2964 did I say that? nope. stop arguing with what you felt I possibly could have meant in some sense. it's not what I said.. some people just love to argue!
@@theoverunderthinker Man, you're being super defensive about this ("this" being your comment that a man hating another man being a terrible boyfriend and a father is because he has daughters, as if he wasn't able to have that moral backbone/empathy for women unless they have women/girls "of their own" that they wouldn't like that to happen to).
I've learned from experience.. It's the hardest thing being a single parent but it is IMMENSELY better to be a single mom than to be with someone who treats you and your kids like shit and just doesn't care.
Are they Christian? Was abortion on the table? I am 26 years old if I get pregnant accidentally (not likely) I am for sure getting an abortion. I am not ready to give up my independence and not not set up to parent yet.
Having a child at an extremely young age can cause a lot of mental distress in the mother and the child, plus the social stigma of having a kid at such a young age is something that both the mother and the child will have to live for quite some time. Hence, I would recommend you to use protection whenever you decide to play the hormone game and would recommend to have your first child only after the age of 25 or even 30
Women's health class in school for me also had the part where we had to watch someone give birth on video and it didn't shy away from showing anything. It was... uh... not smart to have that just after we return from lunch time.
Wow that is disgusting...srsly as a person that lives in Europe I must say I would prefer for teachers to actually give it as "homework" so I could watch it home and not infront of strangers at school....
Also keep in mind that was a health class. I've had worse in a history class from a teacher that had a real hard on for China at the same school. I'll never know how he managed to get his choice of movie ok'd by the principal. That was the movie that was actually extremely scarring. I still remember some parts of it about a woman that was having issues with a pregnancy and eventually this big traumatic scene of her bleeding out and dying while the baby had just been born from her. That's what stuck with me so long and I think what got me my fear and sickness at the sight of blood.
@@sinistararies2975 This teacher should be sued. I am hoping this teacher has no children. I feel so bad. But I wish u all the best and please be strong and never be afraid of wanting to have a family. Dont let this traumatic experience keep u from doing and having what u love.
When teens get pregnant and the boyfriend acts like Diego or Mr. "I wanted to get my noodle wet" I'm like how did you figure it out? Like how did you find the right hole and know what to even do?
Man this is why you should have known your partner for a while and be completely in love with each other before you have a child. Me and my wife went to our 6th grade dance together and had "our firsts" with each other over the years and we had a child when we were 21. We just celebrated our 8th anniversary a few days ago!
@@atlusc love it lmao that's right!! Just hope he brought the actual fine point sharpie bc they make them thick ones too. They got one for every type you're into. 😂
I just found out I have type 2 diabetes. I have to poke myself everyday...twice a day to check my blood sugar. I absolutely fear needles. But I had to get over that fear. I was diagnosed about a month ago. I made up my mind I will not do insulin so I am working to get it under control. My point is, you have to do what you do in order to make yourself better...even if it means poking yourself with a needle.
Thats what i was thinking. I have kids and they send a letter asking if u want ur kids to participate in sexual education. Not only do i speak to my teens i let them have the class. And guess what my 19 year old has never been pregnant nor has the other. Are these kids so out of it these days they don't know how babies are made?
I was a teenage mom. I wasn't emotionally mature enough to be a parent and I wish when shows covered teen moms they showed the really hard stuff. So that teens will see birth control matters.
From time to time I really be forgetting Ken is a father now. Love seeing this much more serious side of him every now and again. Dudes always been real af but that sneaky character development is strong.
"I feel like Diego and I are just drifting apart; I wonder what happened." You were forced to grow up due to your actions, but he just ran from responsibility because he's still a _child: that's_ what happened. It's less that you're "drifting apart" and more that you're finally seeing him for who he really is, now that he's no longer viewing you as a way to get laid. PSA time: keep your legs closed until you're married. I know they said that was _their_ plan, so I'll go a step further: don't worry about dating when you're in high school. High school is (supposedly) for _learning,_ not for hooking up, and that's what they should've been focused on. Don't date someone who's a jerk to everyone but you, b/c it's only a matter of time until _you_ become "everyone" to him.
Like with a lot of TLC shows (90 day's fiance etc) abortion always seems to be out of the question and is never even brought up. Obviously the first issue here is that they probably didn't even use protection in the first place but still.. In Sweden we were taught early about birth control, and I always took precautions growing up. Being a mother at 18 is in my opinion a really awful choice both for the parents as well as the child. Better to wait until one's older and have some economical stability as well as making sure you're in a healthy relationship.
Well it’s a sensitive topic that Americans always debate about. They know if they get rid of the baby that way and everyone knows they will get huge death threats.
A lot of people in America are religious, and are pro life because of that. Even if the parents have it tough, they don't consider abortion to be the solution to the problem. Abortion is a band-aid fix to a deep-seated issue. Fixing the underlying problems and supporting at-risk parents is more useful than an invasive medical procedure that leads to the death of a child.
@@lokiswager it's not a band-aid fix wtf? The issue is that the teen is having a baby. Getting rid of the fetus would 100% fix the issue of the teen having a baby, because the teen would no longer be having a baby. It's... the exact opposite of a band-aid fix, dude. And a pregnancy scare is very effective in making a teen smarten up and not do it again. So. The religious are wild.
12:38 those were ur dad instincts ken, u can sniff out deadbeats real easy. My dad can do it too, figure out how terrible my ex's were waayyyy before I realized lol
4:53 I had a dengue once. On my check up, before I knew it was dengue, I think they fill more than half a syringe of my blood. I have to do it again the day after to check if my platelets are dropping. Then I got to the hospital and the tip of my fingers are pricked every day twice, 6 am and 6 pm. They squeeze the hell outta my finger to get blood and have to graze it to the lid, that grazing is waaaay painful than the pricking and squeezing. I have to stay there for 7 days... 14 pricks on one hand since my other hand was on dextrose TvT... gotta prick 2 of my fingers 4 times that week. Needless to say, I came back home with the tip of my left hand bruised.
speaking from personal experience, having no dad is better than having a dad that actively does not care about you or your well-being. I wholeheartedly agree she should just get rid of him, at least until he’s mature enough to realize their daughter is here because of him just as much as the mother and it’s equally his responsibility to ensure she’s taken care of.
You had both no dad and a dad that actively didn't care about you? How?
facts
Detto!!! I grew up with an abusive dad and now I'm having kids alone. Our family is always so zen compared to everyone else's drama. It's great!
@@Haylla2008 theres always this (you) person in a comment thread. Geez
@@Haylla2008 yes..? This isn’t a difficult concept, a father who doesn’t value watching his child grow up and choosing to leave actively doesn’t care about his child.
"He treated everyone like garbage, but not me..."
Calls boyfriend over to help pack a to go bag and he's "busy"...
Girl I think your turn at being garbage is coming up...
Right! It really is. I get everyone is mad that the dude is being a immature jerk..but guess what! Most (not all) 17 year old boys are immature jerks! He's NOT going to get what she's going through or understand. Half the time grown men dont know what a woman goes through or understands so for everyone to act like a teenage boy is suppossed to get it, is EXTREMELY unrealistic.
Well yeah, if he treated her well, she wouldn't be pregnant with his kid. He's be an orbiter/friendzoned and she'd be banging/getting pregnant by his friend who treats her badly.
@@RobertMorgan niceguy incel alert
@@RobertMorgan Ugh, ew. Go incel somewhere else, "niceguy".
@@Shellygrrl2573 Woah, most 17 y.o. guys I know are perfectly nice.
It sounds to me like you've had some bad experiences and decided to generalize that shit. Don't.
It's akin to "most blacks are dumb" or "most girls just want your money". Just because you've experienced bad stuff doesn't mean that group is that way, even most of the time.
As a teen who was pregnant and is now a 30 year old mom to a 15 year old...please watch your kids!
My son is amazing but my life was hard!
Don't let him get his noodle wet.
Nor let her bowl get the noodle if you know what I mean
Yeah, I was going to say... " Keep your bowl dry!"
But did not want to edit it again. 😂😂
You ain't never going to stop kids bumping uglies
You can't stop your kids from bumping ugkys all you can do is teach them and sometimes even that's not enough it's not up to you what your kids do behind your back
@@jiraiyasensei7514 no but you can tell them to actually bring protection tho
Parrents don't have to tell you that they're dissapointed - You feel it burning deep in that stare
Disappointment in ourselves as well, some of us just can't own that and it turns into hostility. We know when we have fallen short, we are sorry if we suck at saying it.
Disappointment is a parent's superpower. Silent but deadly.
oh damn, that hit me in the feels dude
And I mean as she said it, her mother stared at her so intensively. It's even worse if they just stare and leave as you have to start talking and that takes a lot of energy, you can't pour out any emotion, you can't defend yourself from their words, you can't do anything other than endure the silence and the stare and when they leave this silence just never stops. And to think you have to meet them again and endure all of it another time is just breaking
@@dragonixheli5474:(
"The girls health class was always the most scary."
Me: "You will get pregnant.... and die."
Mean girls lmao 😂
@My Lord wow that’s a reference
Mine wasn’t bad at all and it was co Ed
The boys class I went thru just told us to wear more deodorant 🤣
@@alexgraham9644 That's complete bs. Why are homo sapiens so f*cking backwards?
The girl doesn't seem bad. If she's deflecting and blaming others, it's only cause she learned that from her mum or she's legit defending herself.
Everyone around her sucks and she seems to be holding it together pretty well despite the lack of emotional support.
She's being her own little cheerleader.
How is she deflecting and blaming others?
I mean if I was her mom I would be kinda upset cause my daughter is a teenager and pregnant which will make her life harder and she has a horrible baby father and now she has to support her teenage daughter and her baby that a lot so I can see why the mother acts like that. But not her boyfriend he just not it …
@@pettylilthing I get being upset but no, the mother is making things harder for her. It’s one of the most sensitive times in her life and having no support and your family being difficult is where mental issues are born
@@idrksim I get what you mean but then again she is going to be a mother soon and her mother is more than likely going to be financially supporting her and her child, and is going to be taking care of her child for her so in her mother own head she probably think she is supporting her
@@pettylilthing Financially supporting someone and being upset with them doesn't give you the right to treat someone bad. The VERY first interaction we see her have with her mom is the mom getting mad that she told the interviewer her mom said she was disappointed in her. She didn't apologize, she deflected and said the daughter was making it up. You see the daughter shut down and look away because this is normal for her and she knows there's no reason to fight back because the mom is unreasonable. This is not a healthy relationship.
Wait...So he treated everyone like garbage? But not you? MAYBE HE WANTED SOMETHING! SOMETHING TO DO WITH HOW DRY HIS NOODLE IS?!
😂
“His noodle? Dry. Wants it. Wet!” - Dane
@@jamesmoriarty2329 LMFAO
Ppl treat you like what they are.
"He treated everyone like garbage, but not me..."
That's a huge warning sign that a lot of people, especially younger people, tend to ignore when they're in love.
in lust*
Yeah, they for some reason think it's romantic. "Oh s/he just likes me THAT much" no s/he wants something out of you... moron.
If you're a jerk to janitors, cashiers, or fast food workers, people should reconsider their friendship with you. Let alone a relationship.
I absolutely agree. The only disagreement my son's father and I ever had, even before I was pregnant, was about my schizophrenic mom. I had gotten out of an extremely physically abusive relationship a few months before we got together. I got too drunk and fell in my driveway when he was dropping me off. Of COURSE he laughed at first - because it was funny - but I fucked my face up royally. He was about to help me up and everything, realizing it was serious because it had only been a few seconds, but I was wailijg and my mom heard and ran out.
Since she can't think straight and everything she learned about my previous relationship, she immediately blamed him saying he pushed me or hit me and was giving me pills (which was an addiction I had that she was in denial about at the time). He of course got defensive and yelled back saying I fell and he was about to help me up, but she saw him laughing and they kept arguing until he left in a huff. This was the beginning of our relationship and we were together two and a half years.
The only issue we ever had was that he wouldn't educate himself or open himself to understanding that my mom can't think clearly like a normal person and it was coupled with what I had gone through previously.
Maybe he never believed me, I don't know. But the fact that he refused to even try to understand another point of view over two years should have been a huge red flag.
@@jimjones4644 lust isn't usually what keeps people in abusive relationships
the thing about sticking yourself versus getting a tattoo is that the artist is giving you the tattoo and you just have to endure it; to prick yourself, you have to fire the neuron to cause yourself pain.
Huh I’ve given a tattoo to myself
@@Megan-rr6qg some people have banged their head into a door jamb too, but it is easier not to hesitate if someone else does it for you!
🤣🤣🤣
Who still does the finger?! Do the wrist side of the wrist, easier to pierce and less nerves lol
This reminds me if nursing school when I had to give myself an injection. Man the hesitation I had caused me a painful. Ugly bruise but after that I realized it wasn't that hard. But i still think I would hesitate if i had to do it again lol 🤣
@@retts75 also depending on what testing your doing or the reason, it can be inaccurate.
This should apply to ANYONE, but especially young women who find themselves pregnant- If they don’t prioritize you or your kid(s), please leave.
And then take him to court for child support 🤗
@@romantic_hippie not like that’ll do any good since the court isn’t gonna force him to pay it
Well I’m proudly a dad at 18(my gf is 17) it was tough for a while too figure everything out and honestly couldn’t imagine life without my baby girl at 4 months now. I agree with Ken that the hardest part was too change it from my life too everything being about hers
Just because you didn't outright say "I'm disappointed in you" does not mean that you haven't shown her or acted like you were disappointed in her
Would be disappointed too if my child did this shit
@@wiccapowerify no shit, but we're talking about before and in general.
Please Girls, if he doesn't care about you, just leave him. Like ye being a single parent will suck, but you and your child will both be hurting so much more if they are present and just don't care about your well being. You can always find another partner. 💙 this is coming from someone who is currently witnessing a family member struggle with a kid and a shitty partner
I 100% support this. He won’t change after the baby and you don’t want to have to worry about your child’s wellbeing while with a toxic partner.
I bet he'd play another tune if it was HIM carrying a fetus around to full term and squeeze that thing out after the nine months. Just imagine the insanity of thinking you can just make a girl pregnant and think 'oh yeah, but that is like toooootally not my problem cuz im on the football team and stuff.... so I dun got time for that.'
smack the bad parent in the face for us
exactly, plus someone like him, you might as well be a single parent caring for another baby as well
And guys*
I feel so bad for the girl. She clearly doesn't have a great home life if she can't openly talk to her mother about things (mother kinda seems a bit narcissistic) and then obviously because of that she went for a narcissistic bf because that's the only "love" she ever knew.
yea the mom definitely struck a few cords with me (I was also raised by someone like that) and it just made me very upset to see that not only is the mother like that but when her kid is pregnant and stress makes pregnancy more complicated. humiliating your daughter more than she likely is by herself isn't gonna help her at all.
It's tough.
She needs to forget about the boy and cut off her mom when she's able to be on her own.
Cutting toxic family was the best decision I ever made.
I could tell by their reactions the kind of tension that was there. That mothers reaction didn't come from a place of compassion, it came from a place of anger. In fact she probably told the girl not to make her look bad on national television, so her correcting her about not saying she was disappointed was her way of saying 'you better watch your mouth'. You can tell by her physical movement and tone, plus the girls reaction to it like 'yeah right, but if I continue I'll never hear the end of it off screen'.
The mom is offended that the girl doesn't feel comfortable being open and the girl doesn't feel comfortable coming to her own damn mother because she's clearly judgemental and would not be kind to her.
Having a mother like this I knew all too well the reactions and when I have kids I want them to know they can talk to me about ANY THING. I don't ever want my kids to be afraid to come to me like I was with my mother, like she is with hers.
And she will struggle not to raise her own child the same way. Horrible mother-daughter relationships are almost always passed from gen to gen
Agreed, the rift in their relationship is probably the catalyst that led to the pregnancy. She didn't have the reliable guidance in her life to prevent this.
Ngl I'm 1 minute in and this girl seems like she could be alright. She's introspective, retrospective, fairly grounded, gave up what she needed to to carry the child safely... I'm pretty shocked this is on TLC.
a nurse once told me that if you need to have your finger poked, press your thumb to the tip of your finger pad and push/press down the finger. This shifts and moves some of the nerves away from the site of the poke, and it helps a lot with the pain/annoyance of the needle prick. Ken's story about having to prick his finger for allergy tests made me think of how I was anemic as a kid and they kept having to prick my fingers for blood, it's the worst part!
Finger pricking is the worst. I can donate blood or do the blood tests where they take lots of blood and I'd still prefer that to the finger pricking.
*laughs in type 1 diabetic*
The guy who gave me my IV to inject contrast dye last time I had a CT scan needs to teach. No joke, he put an IV in my left arm and I didn't even know it. I was lying on the CT table, arm on a rest/board thing, and he was showing a young woman shadowing him (probably for residency or interning), and he was talking her through how to prep the area and do this, do that, if you tape this over here it secures everything, then they move across the room. I ask when are they going to put in the actual IV and he's like "Oh, it's already done!" and I look over to see a needle in my arm vein lol. No joke, and actually kind of scary lol, he probably could have put that in while I was asleep and not wake me.
In contrast, when I had the surgery that scan was for, the damn OR nurse put the IV in the back of my hand and that hurt, a LOT, and kept hurting the same, all the time, it never stopped until I was put under, and it hurt as soon as I was back conscious.
@@RobertMorgan mad, to be fair hands are a lot more sensitive to needles than arms!
moves some of the nerves
Thats not how nerves work.
Emily is my favorite mom from Unexpected. Between her boyfriend being incredibly immature and her mom gaslighting her at every possible moment, she was super easy to root for. She was by far the most mature out of everyone on the show and deserves so much better.
Yeah....Diego doesn't get any better. Ken and Buff please continue making daily videos forever.
He’s actually better now, he’s in the Army I believe he’s stationed in Germany
Glad she has moved on and is happy
He's up there with Gerrick and Brandon
yes please continue making videos forever
Don’t forget about Nook! He’s great at his thang! ✊🏼
"He was mean to everyone but me"...Could it be because he just wanted to get into your pants?...Naaaaaahhh must have been something else...
Dude sounds like he's gonna be on her couch playing Call of Duty all day and drinking beer. When she gets home from work and picking up the kid from day care he's gonna insist she cook him dinner.
GURL RUN FOR THE HILLS!
her mom staring daggers at her baby bump firing back with "i never *said* i was disappointed in you !!!"
Looks like that whole bunch is an unhealthy relationship mom, daughter, boyfriend, notice you didn’t meet HIS parents so ya know they don’t want anything to do with the drama
We only saw a few clips. Not the entire episode or the entire season. They might have just not have shown his parents.
They meaning Ken and Dane.
Those are just clips from episode 1 basically...his parents are very involved. It becomes a whole thing in some later episodes.
His parents are very lovely people, especially his dad who treated the pregni girl like his own daughter. I remember her being upset about breaking up with Diego because that would mean she won't be able to be around his family who treated her better than her cold ass mom. Cheers from Canada ❤️🤘
@@sandrasurgiewicz2846 damn that's heartbreaking :,(
Let's be honest...
Ken IS UNDERRATED and the BEST duo partner
He makes amazing videos with pewds AND with BuffPro too he makes amazing videos
Keep it up man.... Someday you'll reach 10M...
I absolutely cannot stand Felix but Ken has at least made me try again since I hadn't tried in a few years. I still can't watch Felix though, lol, even with Ken.
@@1D991 taste differs what can we say......
He is definitely in my top 3 RUclipsrs. The other 2 that I watch are Felix and Cody Ko
10M GANG ❤️
Absolutely love Felix and Ken's videos, and always knew Ken with Dane, so love those as well.
The amount of collabs with Felix recently, per week! ... man, it just makes me so happy.
Waiting for Ken to hit 5 million.
Is no one going to talk about the nurse asked if the babies dad was coming and the girl said,"no he has a test at school". That just seems so weird to me
*As a nurse myself, I was taken back that she even asked that!!! WTF?! Some nurses need more sensitivity training, 100%!!!*
No it happens, some people are very judgemental if you look young. Had that happen to me when I had my kid and I'm not even that young but am a single mom.
I thought that was weird myself. Inappropriate.
I just had my son in March and not once did a nurse ever ask me if my boyfriend was coming anytime he was or wasn’t there. They acknowledged him when he was there and didn’t ask when he wasn’t. It was nice knowing their focus was fully on me.
Well some nurses like to gossip. Its unprofessional and i hate it but it does happen. I feel like there are some people with certain personality traits that shouldnt be in that field of work.
"i feel like were drifting part, like were not like we use to be"
oh boy im glad you didn't do anything super drastic that will change the rest of your life before coming to that decision.
Ken, I truly appreciate you pointing out the neglect of couples and family relations over the past couple of years of the react couch. This has opened my eyes to some of the issues and how I can reflect and how I can react in my life situations. Hope everyone is doing well, and congrats on the upcoming of your newest member.
The Mom complaining that Diego was belittling when she's literally doing the same thing to her daughter.
This young lady actually seems decent. Just young. However, shes surrounded by such negativity! She can totally do this! PS- Yall were hilarious today!😂
I appreciate that you both advocate for girls (I.e. To Catch A Predator episodes where you both are totally disgusted) and ones like these where the girl needs support and love, not a guy who has rocks for brains and no common decency. You both make me laugh and Buffpro always makes me think he’d make a great partner and dad (if he isn’t already- idk his personal life). Fun to watch the 2 of you together! Thanks for the laughs. 😄
Thiiis! It brings me so much joy seeing them advocate so hard, not just saying it to say it. You can tell they mean it
YES I am a 30 year old who got pregnant at 16. My mom is JUST like the mom in this episode and anytime I said I wanted to try something, I wanted to go to college, or go to the gym 2 times a week, they would put me down and tell me I couldnt I had a baby now. I dont drink, i dont smoke, I dont do drugs, I dont party. I literally just wanted to do things that would improve my life, that all mothers want to do. It doesnt help these girls to punish them. They need support especially because... without support and her own life, she will cling to her baby daddy instead of becoming more independant and able to see she can have happiness outside of him
.... Yea most guys are disgusted by predators and guys treating women bad.. don't know why it's such a surprise that 2 guys are disgusted by it. Sorta like how they don't like women treating guys bad either. Believe that's called being decent humans who dosnt like seeing people treat others badly. Don't think you consider them advocates for anyone since they judge bad as bad nomatter who it is
@@Tysandifer they probably have been properly brainwashed into thinking all males are rapist and in pro pedo twitter pages, and that is why it surprises them that two guys actually hate pedophilia and human garbage.
@@carloscjr23 the word isn’t brainwashed just a lot of men speak openly about their disdain for women and rarely choose to empathize with women enduring harm from men.
Listen... avoid the dude whenever "wet" and "noodle" enter the conversation.
Steven would never say that.
But, let's be honest, how many parents are going to be proud that their teenage daughter got pregnant? Or that their teenage son knocked a girl up? Very, very few. You can be supportive of your child while still being disappointed.
teach yo damn kids. should be that simple. Teach them to respect.
Yeah its not about proud or not. She make mistake. Let fix it and make better day tomorrow. Hope she is fine
lets be honest... most 18 year olds aren't virgins/its normal to be sexually active at that age. The girl mentioned how her mum had never ever mentioned anything about se x so I assume that means no birth control/condom conversations, ovulation tracking, etc. Better to talk to your kids about dating and partying openly than to be negligent over normal teen activities and then have to be having conversations about how to raise a child
@@rexxesgedden5341 parenting is a rollercoaster. Parents are humans too and they aren't perfect. Parenting isn't something you can teach or learn and master just like that bcze children are different. The same technique might not work for all ur kids and another parent's technique might not work for you. My point is sometimes if you're lucky, it'll workout and sometimes, it won't. All they can do is try to guide their spawn in the right direction without pushing too hard or being too lenient, another dilemma. And teach them safety, consent and things that'll help them navigate adolescence better
@@michellerose1804 yeah it's normal, but it shouldn't be.
She’s going to get back to her life after the baby is born. That’s funny.
What I hate is her entire life is going to change and she's going to struggle to stay in school and whatnot while he gets off scot free.
@@iris5678 she chose to keep it 🤷♀️ play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@@iris5678 it does suck. It’s not fair and it’s not the way it’s supposed to be, but when It happens, the best thing to do is not focus on how the other person is getting away with everything, and just focus on what you have to do for your baby. There’s no point and trying to wrap your head around how you choose to be a parent and actually have to do it and how they choose to get away. You both have a choice to make, and if you choose the baby, you do it 100%. There’s no room for jealousy in that
@@evelynvslife where’s his stupid prize then?
@@evelynvslife maybe she didn't have a choice, especially with that mom and depending on their state.
She seems like such a sweet girl. Such a shame that she's surrounded by a bunch of self-centered jerks.
My mum had me really young (16/17), it’s shows like this that make me realise how lucky I was to have a sensible and mature young mum 🥴
Mine had me at 15 beat ya 😂 jk. Mine worked single at dollar tree for a few years while we lived with strangers.
Ha! beat ya mine got me at 10
My mom conceived me when she was just a fetus. 😤
@@toxicityc492 Cant imagine how card that would have been! Props to her!
@@toxicityc492 how old are you now then? You better be helping her
"Diego, you're going to be a dad!"
"I don't know that Fortnite skin..."
Hahahaha
I know everyone is focused on the video, but I'm praying for Mary and Ken to have a safe delivery.❤
Lol, Ken loves us a whole lot. Because Diego is one extremely self absorbed kid. I wish there was something you could do to prevent pregnancy…oh wait…. There is???? Hmm…
If only there was a way...
I was on the pill and took it perfectly and still got pregnant. It happens
@@feliciakitty1021 that's very rare. What a bad luck.
@@elisenieuwe4649 6 out of 100.
@@elisenieuwe4649 I think it's not as rare as people think. My mom knew a few people who were on multiple birth control methods and still got pregnant. But I also have a friend who still lets her bf finish inside her with birth control... like girl are you not afraid of that shit?
Life advice: generally speaking, if they are rude to everyone and others have similar negative opinions of them…chances are it’s only a matter of time before they start treating you the same or even worse.
Yes people can change and that’s extremely true depending on their age….however some people will always be that way. It’s better to not be romantically or physically involved until you see their character change and they learn how to treat others.
And yes I am speaking from experience (sadly)
Yes I agree with you. I was in a short term relationship in HS that was very stupid of me bc i didnt know what kind of person they were at the time. Kinda traumatized me. Now Im with someone who Ive known for a long time and now we're together. Were best friends. Been together for 6 years.
Yes! This wish of people to be the reason of the person changing is always a topic in romantic films and books but it does rarely work in real life. People shouldn't fall for the feeling of being special just because they treat you differently because as time goes by, they will continue their habits on you as well because they reached their goal already.
@@yelloe I’m so sorry you experienced the exact opposite of the love you deserve but I am so happy that you have found it.
@@dragonixheli5474 the only reason they treat you special is because you're new. Once you're just a "given part of life" they'll treat you like everyone else.
Diego is about to grow up real fast, or just become a deadbeat. He's the one to decide.
Mom: "Happy birthday"
Me: "Ah, thanks ma."
Ken: "If today's your birthday, happy birthday."
Me: *instantly feels somewhat special*
lol
Happy Birthday. Hope you had an awesome day
Happy birthday
Thank you 😁
Happy (late) birthday
@@timopowerlol2040 Thank you very much! :D
This girl deserves better. I hope she finds someone who will care for her and her child.
That girl deserved better when she should have chosen birth control or abstinence instead of him. She knew how he badly treated others, she stated it in the video, and should have followed her first instinct to ignore him. She needs to step up and care for her child and not depend on others; she's eighteen, fully able to get a job and provide.
@@muchtested Thank u! THAT part.
@@muchtested While I agree 100%, whose to say she WONT step up? She seems to have a good head on her shoulders, just made a common mistake due to poor guidance 🤷♀️ Also, when you are pregnant it changes the chemicals in your brain, and the way she talks about giving up things she enjoys for the baby she seems more mature than some other moms (for example the ones with the "I had to give up everything I liked to raise YOU!" attitudes) That gives me hope for this girl. She just needs to get away from the negative influences imo
She has a found a good guy and has another baby and she treats all. Her boyfriend now love her daughter as his own she is very happy.
10:38 Diego is so easy to hate Ken because he NEVER gets any better🤣🤣🤣
u can tell this guy is going to end up working at McDonalds and then telling everyone at work he was on the football team in highschool and how he wouldve turned pro if it wasant for the baby...
Ngl when I was 19 I dated a 26 year old that acted just like this. Never had a kid but I lost my mom and needed support too. Some people just never improve with age 🤣
Diego gets so much worse. Unexpected is a gold mine for you guys to react to
my dad kinda walked out of my life around 14 (not to trauma dump) and i texted him not too long ago and let him know how much he sucked,and not to mention the childhood i was given by him was awful cuz he was a drunk and was abusive. having no dad is sooo much better than a negligent one.. my step dad came up to the pate tho and my mom gave us the best she could. im glad hes gone and i gave myself closure. but i never got a message back or a phone call after i told him what he did to me.
Cause he either doesn’t care or is shit scared. Either way, you rule for telling him how you feel
Ken is so sweet giving pregnancy advice.
I don't believe that mom would have to say she's disappointed; the looks she gives gets her point across well enough.
“ I hope your pumpkin spice latte has seeds in it”
How to insult basic white girls
I really wish more people understood that “highschool sweethearts” are extremely rare and glamorized on tv. The divorce rate in the United States is literally 50/50. Imo, teenagers really shouldn’t be allowed to be in relationships. From a girl that’s talked to so many guys since I was 14 (never sexual), being taught from a young age in all these Disney movies glamorizing relationships, and reinforcing the idea that if you aren’t in one, you’re worth less. And, (coming from a 19 year old) teens are stupid. There’s very few that are very self aware, but a lot of them are just figuring out life and learning how to be themselves and sooo many teens get consumed in relationships that are toxic for them, end up getting them in trouble, and just causes more heartbreak and search for validation than happiness. Never be in a rush or look for a relationship. 9/10 when you’re looking for one, it’s usually not going to last long at all.
Well said, especially for a teenager!
I agree, there's no reason for a teenager to have a relationship and I wish I didn't have a boyfriend because it didn't mean anything and I didn't know he had anger issues. Too bad parents don't actually talk to their kids.
This. Now I wouldn’t go so far as to say that teenagers shouldn’t be in relationships, I do agree that Hollywood and media do glamorize the “high school sweethearts” thing so much that it gives a rather inordinately idealistic view of said relationships. Teenagers are walking, talking chemical imbalances who are just trying to get used to life and their growing autonomy. Most adults barely have their lives figured out, let alone teenagers who usually have no idea what’s in store for adulthood and are still developing the introspection, fore-planning, and the ability to grasp consequences.
@@jessn.3851 Lol teenage relationships are experience. Else, you will face the same difficulties, just as an adult.
I've been with my highschool sweetheart for 12 years and just had our first child ❤️
DIego still looks like he's about to hit puberty, how's he gonna be a dad?!
Edit: oh, I see - He's NOT gonna be a dad, that's how...
As a type 1 diabetic, ken talking about how much he hates finger pricks hits different
Lmao yeah fr 😭
My husband is type 1 and was like "yeah it really sucks"
As someone who is pregnant now seeing how this boy speak to the mother of his child just upset me.
I never watch the show cause I lived it at school. I have a feeling she was prepressure.
Congratulations on the baby! I hope they are born safe and healthy. ❤
“Why do I hate this guy so much?”
Well he’s not making it hard
Teenagers need to understand that just because you're having a baby with someone doesn't mean you need a relationship with them. If it's toxic just let it go
Oof he kind of reminded me of when I first moved in with my boyfriend, like he couldn't understand why I wanted to bring my stuff over or decorate things... I'm like I just changed my whole life to be with you! I need to feel like I actually live here too now, not just staying the night every night for the rest of this relationship!
He was like... oh my gawwwww I'm so stupid, I'm sorry
So hopefully her baby daddy can have that same epiphany, but she might have to speak up
Yes! This is exactly what I touched base on lol esp cuz they're just kids. Homie prob legit thinks it's just as simple as packing a bag. If she keeps beating around the bush hoping he will magically understand what she wants and feels she is gonna be disappointed. I truly don't feel like he intentionally wants to hurt her he just honestly doesn't know or understand that he is or why he is. Sometimes people, men especially, need a little extra help 🤣 she needs to communicate with him and then once he's aware if he's still a dbag we can drag him.
@@vexu7366 exactly! Like if I have to spell it out to my 28yr old bf, she DEFINITELY needs to get vocal with this 17yr old or like you said she will continue to feel life she's alone in this
I was once told that "Men have box brains while women have noodle brains". As in men see and comprehend things differently, in more simple terms. I also read that because of the way male brains work, just "dropping hints" isnt enough. You need to be as precise, direct and simple as possible or they wont understand. I've had to work on that with my fiancee, and since then, our communication has gotten better. Would like it if he tried to see things from my perspective every now and again, but beggars cant be choosers lol. Also, the adult brain does not fully mature until 23/25. The part that takes the longest is the prefrontal cortex, which in charge of impulse control and rational thought.
That mom reminds me of my mom. My mom was mad when my sister told her she was pregnant with my nephew while my father was like oh well, jokingly said I ain’t the daddy. I was cracking up so hard when my dad said that. Made my mom even more mad. Nowadays, we talk about it and she always denying that she was mad. Mind you, sister was in her 20s at the time. Lol.
That took a total left turn. I assumed your sister was 15 or something 🤣🤣
I'm 28 and my mom was disappointed when I first told her I was pregnant
@@rebelwithacause666 really? Isn't that an OK age haha. What would have been acceptable to her?!
@@jgw9990 yes 😂 it wasn't my age but where I was at the timing of it I just started a new job when I found out and the fact that we were hunting for apartments made her super anxious. We weren't trying to have a kid it just happened 😂 I could tell by the look on her face that the disappointment was real she's way more excited now but still not overjoyed
@@rebelwithacause666 Yeah same with my sister. We all made big changes within the year she got pregnant and my sister only knew the father for only like 2 months. Which really got to my mom, who knew our father since they were children. Although, my mom and my sister are know to be drama queens. My sister was so nervous she was crying and everything. My friend and I were there for support, although I wasn't much support laughing in the corner with all that happened that day.
As much as I want both parents in the picture, I'm glad she has the emotional maturity to recognise the potential emotional damage he could do to her daughter judging by how distant e is being during the pregnancy. When my mother was pregnant with me at 19 I read the letter her dad wrote to her about making up her mind and later found letters from my dad accusing me of plotting against him, being manipulative, making him look bad, having a 'look' that apparently indicated to him that I was trying to deliberately ruin his life. He wrote this about a toddler, the man strangled her until she passed out during the pregnancy and as much as I love her the dense cow didn't get it through to her head that maybe MAYBE this sort of violent psycho shouldn't be trusted around her kids(?!), especially not leaving us alone with him. I told he to sort out her daddy issues, she left the country for another alcoholic psycho who tried to murder us when we followed her over there to gt away from our dad, then got pregnant again at 45 to a dude who already told her to chose between her kids and him explicitly. I told her to have an abortion because it would be kinder as her two other kids wish they hadn't been born as it is. She had the kid anyway and surprise surprise he's already been used as a bargaining chip during physical fights ending up blood splattered and seeing things no kid should see.Some people need to see the signs and stop reproducing if they can't or won't save themselves.When you have kids its not just about you anymore. They didn't ask to exist and be dragged into your mess because you put harmful men around your kids...
Just wanted to say I'm sorry you and your siblings went through that. I can't say I've dealt with the same things but I did have a shit father too (drugs and alcohol, abuse) and life would've been waaaaaay better if my mom hadn't stayed with him for so long and have 2 more kids. I hope you all are doing okay.
So your mom has the disease of the attraction to crazy men. Got it. I hope your half sibling gets out of that situation in one piece like you did.
I'm so sorry, hope you are healing good! My mother also chose horrible people over her kids. My dad was a bit of an alcoholic (stopped drinking when I was around 6th grade) and had a messed up mentality about things, and had already had a child from a previous relationship that he had nothing to do with. I'm my moms oldest. She cheated on my dad multiple times. They got divorced, but one of the guys she cheated on my dad with she got with. He raped and molested me from 5-7. He was the biological father of my youngest brother. Luckily I spoke up and put him away. Then a year after she was bringing around ANOTHER guy who was an ex alcoholic and had been in jail for beating up a guy within an inch of his life. He didnt drink (at least around me and my brothers) until I was a freshman in high school. My mother cheated on him constantly as well, but he stuck around for us kids. Then when I was a freshman the cheating stopped (that I know of) and they BOTH became bad alcoholics. Now she is with ANOTHER guy. I dont know much about him since she got with him after I left (she actually kicked me out but that's a whole other story >
When my sister got pregnant at age 14 in the 90s, my mom took her to get an abortion and that was the end of it. There was no TLC show, no romanticism, just dealing with it in real life.
I felt like I should say that I burped at the exact same moment as cinnamontoastken
😂😂😂
I hope he sees this comment 😂
Burp-buddies 👏🏻
That last clip of the girl explaining her feelings about the 💩 baby dad almost made me cry 😢 I hope she got the support she needs
Really enjoying the video not spoiling the funniest parts in the first 30 seconds! ty editors!
With Ken talking about the allergy test, it reminded me of High school where I was pricked with 20 different substances on my arms and they watched to see which one swelled up for an allergic reaction.
Birth control is literally available to all teens without parental consent. Seriously wtf people get your kids protected and educated or this will happen.
Available, maybe. But minors health decisions can be reported to parents, and if they don't get an allowance then they can't afford to buy it.
@@babybluehashyo not true. Maybe depends on the state but they provide free pregnancy prevention for teens here and they dont even have to tell the parents starting at the age of 13. They are more concerned about immature kids running around having babies.
Also depends on where you are if it's discussed at schools. Here in deep south that maybe available but it's not taught. It's no use if the kids don't know about it.
Also birth control isn't even 100% effective. I know quite a few people who got pregnant and they were using birth control
Ken "I want it to be a surprise"
My 4.5 Year old daughter before her blood draw:
"I'm so excited Mom!"
After:
"That Was So Fun!"
you hate him, Ken , because you have daughters.
So only women and men with daughters believe in sexual responsibility, enough to have disdain for young boys who are thoughtless about kicking off a whole new generation?- that's a bleak, view
a man doesn't need to have daughters to hate someone who is clearly an asshole to his girlfriend (and everyone else) and a lousy parent to his child.
@@8thhousemoonrabbit205 so read into what I said and then comment on that instead of what I actually said?
nobody said shit about only. some people are out there just looking for stuff to be argumentative about, and when they don't find it they have to pull shit out of their own brain to be upset about.
🤣🤣
@@tiinaniinikoski2964 did I say that? nope. stop arguing with what you felt I possibly could have meant in some sense. it's not what I said..
some people just love to argue!
@@theoverunderthinker Man, you're being super defensive about this ("this" being your comment that a man hating another man being a terrible boyfriend and a father is because he has daughters, as if he wasn't able to have that moral backbone/empathy for women unless they have women/girls "of their own" that they wouldn't like that to happen to).
My girlfriend be like “whatcha over there watching?” Then buff starts laughing and she’s like “oh okay never mind”
His laugh soothes me it's so contagious
@@marikadolinsky9912 it’s very wholesome
@@spacedaddy4555 he is just awesome to watch
I've learned from experience.. It's the hardest thing being a single parent but it is IMMENSELY better to be a single mom than to be with someone who treats you and your kids like shit and just doesn't care.
Ken and Buff making fun of that smart aleck twerp being scrawny “probably a punter” is awesome and we are all there for it!
Are they Christian? Was abortion on the table? I am 26 years old if I get pregnant accidentally (not likely) I am for sure getting an abortion. I am not ready to give up my independence and not not set up to parent yet.
I don't get why they don't talk about abortions when their teenagers. I would be disappointed but I would want my kid to get an abortion
Having a child at an extremely young age can cause a lot of mental distress in the mother and the child, plus the social stigma of having a kid at such a young age is something that both the mother and the child will have to live for quite some time.
Hence, I would recommend you to use protection whenever you decide to play the hormone game and would recommend to have your first child only after the age of 25 or even 30
Women's health class in school for me also had the part where we had to watch someone give birth on video and it didn't shy away from showing anything. It was... uh... not smart to have that just after we return from lunch time.
Wow that is disgusting...srsly as a person that lives in Europe I must say I would prefer for teachers to actually give it as "homework" so I could watch it home and not infront of strangers at school....
Also keep in mind that was a health class. I've had worse in a history class from a teacher that had a real hard on for China at the same school. I'll never know how he managed to get his choice of movie ok'd by the principal. That was the movie that was actually extremely scarring.
I still remember some parts of it about a woman that was having issues with a pregnancy and eventually this big traumatic scene of her bleeding out and dying while the baby had just been born from her. That's what stuck with me so long and I think what got me my fear and sickness at the sight of blood.
@@sinistararies2975 This teacher should be sued. I am hoping this teacher has no children. I feel so bad. But I wish u all the best and please be strong and never be afraid of wanting to have a family. Dont let this traumatic experience keep u from doing and having what u love.
When teens get pregnant and the boyfriend acts like Diego or Mr. "I wanted to get my noodle wet" I'm like how did you figure it out? Like how did you find the right hole and know what to even do?
Man this is why you should have known your partner for a while and be completely in love with each other before you have a child. Me and my wife went to our 6th grade dance together and had "our firsts" with each other over the years and we had a child when we were 21. We just celebrated our 8th anniversary a few days ago!
Anybody else do a literal facepalm after Diego's "sharpie" line?🙄
I couldn't have rolled my eyes any harder than I did lmao
Right? Lol like who are your parents...you ain't got no game!!💀
He also brought a sharpie with him for visual aid
@@atlusc love it lmao that's right!! Just hope he brought the actual fine point sharpie bc they make them thick ones too. They got one for every type you're into. 😂
“You ladies by yourself today?” -nurse
Yep just them and the camera crew…
Who told this poor girl to stop all sports? Horse riding is a nono, but keeping fit is incredibly important during pregnancy.
It’s not the noodle wet guy?!
I’m [redacted]!
Also I didn’t realize the noodle wet guy multiplied!
ruined your comment with the edit
@@slimfatmemes5547 yh
@@slimfatmemes5547 fine I’ll fix it… still surprised tbf, thought this been out 😂
As a type one diabetic who grew up with finger pricking, it was a wonderful thing that they created continuous glucose monitors.
Ken evolved from dad shirts to grandpa shirts 😂
I just found out I have type 2 diabetes. I have to poke myself everyday...twice a day to check my blood sugar. I absolutely fear needles. But I had to get over that fear. I was diagnosed about a month ago. I made up my mind I will not do insulin so I am working to get it under control.
My point is, you have to do what you do in order to make yourself better...even if it means poking yourself with a needle.
I love how so many people are giving advice to Ken on how to prick his finger properly lol
As someone who grew up with a dad who was absolutely horrible, i can honestly say i wish i never knew him at all. Sometimes its better for everyone.
I read the title and was like” shouldn’t we be avoiding teen pregnancy in general “🤣
Thats what i was thinking. I have kids and they send a letter asking if u want ur kids to participate in sexual education. Not only do i speak to my teens i let them have the class. And guess what my 19 year old has never been pregnant nor has the other. Are these kids so out of it these days they don't know how babies are made?
Bro my HUSBAND packed my hospital bag for me and this guy can't even bother to help her 😒 girllllll leave his ass
I was a teenage mom. I wasn't emotionally mature enough to be a parent and I wish when shows covered teen moms they showed the really hard stuff. So that teens will see birth control matters.
He wants nothing to do with her or the baby.
He seems like a douchbag deadbeat dad.
I just wanna go to buffs house and make some of Kay’s meatballs and chill he seems like such a cool dude
Baby girl doesn't need a dad like that. I hope the mom decides to take care of the baby by herself honestly...
From time to time I really be forgetting Ken is a father now. Love seeing this much more serious side of him every now and again. Dudes always been real af but that sneaky character development is strong.
Every child deserves their parents’ love but not every parent deserves their child’s love.
I have a fifteen minute break before my next class 💃 this was perfect timing
"I feel like Diego and I are just drifting apart; I wonder what happened."
You were forced to grow up due to your actions, but he just ran from responsibility because he's still a _child: that's_ what happened. It's less that you're "drifting apart" and more that you're finally seeing him for who he really is, now that he's no longer viewing you as a way to get laid.
PSA time: keep your legs closed until you're married. I know they said that was _their_ plan, so I'll go a step further: don't worry about dating when you're in high school. High school is (supposedly) for _learning,_ not for hooking up, and that's what they should've been focused on. Don't date someone who's a jerk to everyone but you, b/c it's only a matter of time until _you_ become "everyone" to him.
Why does Ken torture himself with videos like this? 🤣
Because he loves us.😊
It's his sacrifice for us.
I actually feel really bad for this girl. She's in a really vulnerable position and no one is supporting her.
Buff: I hope her pumpkin spice latte has seeds in it!
Like with a lot of TLC shows (90 day's fiance etc) abortion always seems to be out of the question and is never even brought up. Obviously the first issue here is that they probably didn't even use protection in the first place but still.. In Sweden we were taught early about birth control, and I always took precautions growing up. Being a mother at 18 is in my opinion a really awful choice both for the parents as well as the child. Better to wait until one's older and have some economical stability as well as making sure you're in a healthy relationship.
Well it’s a sensitive topic that Americans always debate about. They know if they get rid of the baby that way and everyone knows they will get huge death threats.
@@psychedelicpayroll5412 I've heard about it but I thought it was only sensitive in a few states. I truly hope it changes in the future. 👍
A lot of people in America are religious, and are pro life because of that. Even if the parents have it tough, they don't consider abortion to be the solution to the problem.
Abortion is a band-aid fix to a deep-seated issue. Fixing the underlying problems and supporting at-risk parents is more useful than an invasive medical procedure that leads to the death of a child.
@@lokiswager it's not a band-aid fix wtf? The issue is that the teen is having a baby. Getting rid of the fetus would 100% fix the issue of the teen having a baby, because the teen would no longer be having a baby. It's... the exact opposite of a band-aid fix, dude.
And a pregnancy scare is very effective in making a teen smarten up and not do it again. So.
The religious are wild.
I mean… an unplanned baby creates drama. Let’s be real, that’s what they want.
12:38 those were ur dad instincts ken, u can sniff out deadbeats real easy. My dad can do it too, figure out how terrible my ex's were waayyyy before I realized lol
Thats what dads are for 😂
I sense some serious sadness from this young girl. I hope whatever her situation is now, that she is getting support.
Ken being a FATHER FIGURE THE WHOLE EPISODE LOL love it !!!
4:53 I had a dengue once. On my check up, before I knew it was dengue, I think they fill more than half a syringe of my blood. I have to do it again the day after to check if my platelets are dropping. Then I got to the hospital and the tip of my fingers are pricked every day twice, 6 am and 6 pm. They squeeze the hell outta my finger to get blood and have to graze it to the lid, that grazing is waaaay painful than the pricking and squeezing. I have to stay there for 7 days... 14 pricks on one hand since my other hand was on dextrose TvT... gotta prick 2 of my fingers 4 times that week. Needless to say, I came back home with the tip of my left hand bruised.