I relate to this. Maybe some weeks from now i'll make a video too. Every single time I tried to tell him that I loved him, I would break down after the first word of the phrase. Things are a little better now and I've grown to respect him as a person but I share very similar sentiments to you. He was critical and it caused me to become an adult who was a perfectionist prick. The moment I lost it is when I went out of line a few times and everyone compared me to my father. I realised it was true and slowly i've grown to love him. I realised his tough love was still love. Now i'm teaching him how to use his words too. This week, for the first time in my whole life, he wrote me an essay telling me he missed me. Never been more grateful for him❤
Omg tough love is not love. You’re dad wasn’t critical bc it was tough love, he was critical because he was toxic! Stop coddling these types of parents 🙄
For 4 years, I hated my dad, but it is a little better now, but still hasn’t revolved the question onto why, and then I tried staying in my room for a lot, but that still has not revolved it because I got bullied in school, and then all over again, just like in 2020
I relate to this. Maybe some weeks from now i'll make a video too. Every single time I tried to tell him that I loved him, I would break down after the first word of the phrase. Things are a little better now and I've grown to respect him as a person but I share very similar sentiments to you. He was critical and it caused me to become an adult who was a perfectionist prick. The moment I lost it is when I went out of line a few times and everyone compared me to my father. I realised it was true and slowly i've grown to love him. I realised his tough love was still love. Now i'm teaching him how to use his words too. This week, for the first time in my whole life, he wrote me an essay telling me he missed me. Never been more grateful for him❤
This touched me so much! So glad you're building that relationship again
Omg tough love is not love. You’re dad wasn’t critical bc it was tough love, he was critical because he was toxic! Stop coddling these types of parents 🙄
happy you are on this path. i have a lot id like to share with you too
@@azam987654321 much love brother! Please do DM me @mentallygreat
For 4 years, I hated my dad, but it is a little better now, but still hasn’t revolved the question onto why, and then I tried staying in my room for a lot, but that still has not revolved it because I got bullied in school, and then all over again, just like in 2020
great video
Thanks brother! Hope you benefited :)