You NEED To Start Getting Ready Every Day 🙏🏼💜

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  • @HelloKittyFreak96
    @HelloKittyFreak96 3 года назад +130

    My husband was walking around the house when I was watching this and I noticed him paying attention and nodding to himself 😂 this was a great video 💕

  • @baileym7105
    @baileym7105 3 года назад +106

    This needs to be more talked about more. Be your own number one fan, be your own hype womens, we deserve to be the best versions of ourselves.

    • @Maria-006.
      @Maria-006. 3 года назад +4

      🙏🙌🏼💕👏🏻👏🏻

  • @LilyKat
    @LilyKat 3 года назад +24

    i started to get ready every day after my workouts and showering routine! it has changed my mood and confidence over time. i feel so cute yet so powerful! i tend to smile more and enjoy the day when i feel ready! my therapist also advise me to do something for myself every day and getting ready has truly changed my perspective of myself and what others thought of me. loveee ya stacey!! keep preaching!!

  • @09lilybeth
    @09lilybeth 3 года назад +7

    Mom of four ranging from 13yrs to 18 mos and as I approach my 30s I have started to work on my self care journey. Leaving the mom guilt behind

  • @Michelle-by9fp
    @Michelle-by9fp 3 года назад +28

    I'm a mom of 3 and I needed this reminder! I am worth the time it takes to get myself put together. And for me that means workout clothes (because I do workout daily), doing something cute but practical on my hair, and some mascara. Also showering right after my shower so I don't stink the rest of the day. But it hit me hard when you said this is the day to wear your perfume or wear that outfit. Too often we wait for some special occasion, but you're right, today is a special occasion. 😃

  • @JoJo8310
    @JoJo8310 3 года назад +5

    Girl 2 yrs ago i was at my heaviest weight of almost hitting 400lbs. Last yr october i went through wls thinking it was going to make me feel better about myself. Today im now 278 and still dont feel good about myself. Since quarantine ive stopped getting myself ready. And went into a depression. And still have my moments. Its hard, i have no self esteem. I do my makeup get ready and i feel good, but once that comes off im like disgusted looking at myself. I stilll wear the clothes I use to when i was almost 400lbs. Ive gotten a few new outfits but nothing helps. But i know i have to start loving myself. Its a struggle. Right now watching your video made me cry. Lol. Thank you for putting this video out. I need to make time for me and get back to my workouts and staying on track so i dont gain that back. Today because of your video, im gonna get all dressed up and i will love myself. Thank you, Love you girl.

  • @Odalizheras
    @Odalizheras 3 года назад +43

    “Dress for the occasion that is your BEAUTIFUL LIFE❤️” me encanto mujer Im writing this down on a paper and putting it on my night stand . Si me arreglo pero yo quiero y se que puedo darme más tiempo para eso. Gracias por hacer estos videos ! 🙏🏻💕

  • @11212barbie
    @11212barbie 2 года назад +3

    God used you to speak to me today. Theres a reason I found your chanel. Lord knows I needed to hear this.

  • @tootsiemorales
    @tootsiemorales 3 года назад +26

    Love this! 🙌🏼
    I have been working from home/in my room and I always have made it a thing that I have to get up, make my bed, brush my teeth, shower and change out of PJ’s even tho I’m going to be in my room all day. I do skip out on doing my make up but I do make sure to always at least get out of my PJ’s and out of bed since since it’s so easy to just stay in bed and work lol

  • @claudiacalderon201
    @claudiacalderon201 3 года назад +8

    I haven't had the desire to get ready anymore... it's been a struggle. I'm so thankful that I came across your video. It's the message I needed 💕

  • @sinthiahernandez3475
    @sinthiahernandez3475 2 года назад +3

    My 4 year old son encourages me to get ready! He always compliments me when I do 💙

  • @iCeleste7
    @iCeleste7 3 года назад +13

    This is so true. I feel like a good mom when I go out in public and I look gross but at least my daughter looks good.
    I shouldn’t feel guilty about getting ready…

  • @NakaylaTHEPRINCESS46
    @NakaylaTHEPRINCESS46 Год назад +4

    OMGOODNESS this helped so much!! I needed a pick me up. I’m not a mother but I haven’t been real motivated to dress up everyday of the week like I used to before the pandemic, I dress up 3 times out of the week and I want to get to a place where I dress up everyday and I am the person like you said I reserve fits, perfume and hairstyles for special occasions but what am I waiting for?!!!!!! Thank you girl!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yosemitecala6214
    @yosemitecala6214 Год назад +4

    I’m not a mom yet but I needed to hear this for many many years my dad taught me to put others first because that’s what he did and always complained he never got anything in return. Today I’m 26 years old and I can say parents let your kids live there life and walk next to them that goes to me I poured my entire 6 years into a man that in the last two I could say I completely lost myself when it comes to appearance I lost over currently 35 pounds and I’m happy but now I’m in the how to get up everyday and get ready. It’s hard because I was used to the mentality of putting others first but thank you mamacita for this.

  • @livepassionately247
    @livepassionately247 3 года назад +26

    You motivated me to dress cute this weekend for myself. Thank you, Stacey! ❤️❤️

  • @LadieBjj
    @LadieBjj Месяц назад +1

    I love classic dresses. It is so easy to put on and I look good while dressing simple with cute sandals.
    But I notice that some people get so negative about it.

  • @Reeshawd
    @Reeshawd 3 года назад +3

    The list you showed in one of your videos in your notes is something I've been using ever since. And my mom really liked it too! It helps me to put myself first in the morning just to shower, get in real clothes, etc and my kids don't care, they wait until I'm ready! Which is not what I expected. Our family wants us to put ourselves first and make sure we look good so we feel good. My friends dad used to always say, "when you look good you feel good." And I've remembered that for the last 16 years lol

  • @lucysanderson
    @lucysanderson 3 года назад +11

    This just popped off on my recommendation and girl let me just say I needed this!!!!😫 I used to always get ready and felt, looked confident but ever since I got pregnant (still preggos) and knowing that nothing fits me made me lose so much confidence in myself, I don’t feel like myself no more 😫 i just be looking fodonga now.. but after watching this video girl I’m so ready to get ready and feel pretty for myself Tysm and I just subscribed to your channel as well 🤍

  • @Divdiv05
    @Divdiv05 3 года назад +5

    You’re literally so inspiring. I used to not wear my expensive perfumes that I love because I wait for “special occasions” but after I saw one of your previous videos where you said that everyone is worthy of wearing expensive perfume everyday, I literally think of that every day and now I’m going to do that with makeup too!

  • @carmensolorio9939
    @carmensolorio9939 3 года назад +11

    I ALWAYS GET SO MUCH MOTIVATION FROM YOU STACEY! I ALWAYS FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF WHEN I WATCH YOUR INSPIRATIONAL VIDEOS. TE QUERO MUCHO 💖💜✨🙌🏼💐

  • @nathalyeramirez8510
    @nathalyeramirez8510 3 года назад +4

    Omg yes to the moms not getting ready .I used to get ready and go extra on my makeup and outfit but that all changed when I had my first baby’s 3 months ago,and don’t get ready at all. I really need to set aside time for myself because I’m 22 and I still want to get up and feel good about how I look but l feel drained or unmotivated. Thanks for this video Stacey ❤️

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 3 года назад +5

    My dad had so much stuff with tags and brand new shoes that he never got to wear 😢😭 this is such a great point!!

  • @creerias_
    @creerias_ 6 месяцев назад +1

    This video came on while i was getting ready today and inspired me to do some extra steps like perfume and mascara. It leveled up my look and vibe even though they’re such subtle things, thanks!

  • @marlenealvarez888
    @marlenealvarez888 3 года назад +14

    I grew up in Mexico so getting ready to go grocery shopping is second nature lol

  • @karensorbit
    @karensorbit 3 года назад +5

    Ok I keep seeing this topic everywhere...guess this is my sign to start getting ready every day! This isn't easy when you have children but it's time I start taking care of myself too! Thank you Stacey!!

  • @vaivesperi
    @vaivesperi Год назад +1

    gonna start listening to this every morning as soon as my alarm goes off

  • @tellmedelmy
    @tellmedelmy Год назад +1

    I listened to this while putting on some makeup that I had been "saving" for a "good day" when in reality there is no better day than today

  • @shaunabee
    @shaunabee 4 месяца назад +1

    This popped up at the perfect time, Thank you! 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @jennievee3523
    @jennievee3523 3 года назад +2

    You have made me ugly cry. I needed to hear this. Thank you for this beautiful lady. 💞💓💗💖

  • @sarahortez1191
    @sarahortez1191 3 года назад +7

    That’s true we’re overly tired & whenever I try to do my makeup my toddler is crying & screaming for me 😂

  • @dkfjdhbfdj
    @dkfjdhbfdj 3 года назад +31

    This top is gorgeous on you!

    • @valerierevolorio2139
      @valerierevolorio2139 3 года назад +1

      Stacy tell us please where you got your top from (:

    • @clarybarriga304
      @clarybarriga304 3 года назад

      @@valerierevolorio2139 i’ve seen similar or if not that one at Zara

    • @partywithjazelle
      @partywithjazelle 3 года назад

      Yes the color is beautiful

  • @Disciplefer
    @Disciplefer 3 года назад +3

    9:05 rlly got me. Thank you Stacey now I’m not gonna wait for that “special occasion” that I’ve been waiting for to get ready

  • @michiroman9711
    @michiroman9711 3 года назад +2

    Amen Stacey!! I believe in getting ready daily. I am a stay at home mom of two kids and if I didn’t get ready, I’d feel like crap daily.

  • @VyNguyen-ss3pc
    @VyNguyen-ss3pc 3 года назад +35

    You are MORE than worthy of your own time, effort, and energy. Your exterior is the reflection of your interior. If you’re style is a bit more sporty with joggers and cropped hoodies, awesome! If you prefer dresses, awesome! As humans, the only thing we have to perceive others is appearance. Take the time to make your exterior reflect your interior because if you cant respect yourself, who will?

  • @nikkolefogg5552
    @nikkolefogg5552 3 года назад +2

    This spoke to my soul! You’re very talented in talking/reaching women! Thank you for this video.

  • @Ceee155
    @Ceee155 3 года назад +2

    The timing of this video 🤌🏼 the language🤌🏼 just what ineeded to hear. Gracias Stacey💜

  • @dianaestrada8711
    @dianaestrada8711 3 года назад +2

    This made me cry Stacey thank you for taking the time to make us stronger women 😭 I’m going to challenge myself this week to get ready!

  • @mariaflorido2042
    @mariaflorido2042 3 года назад +2

    I love to hear your talks. Peaceful, uplifting, & inspiring!

  • @ingridmazariegos9432
    @ingridmazariegos9432 3 года назад +9

    The first 3 minutes made me cry so hard. That’s exactly how I feel. I use to take care of myself before having my daughter and now I feel guilty of even brushing my hair. It’s not my husband or kid, I think it’s the dam society I grew in making me feel bad. What’s sad is that my mom is in great shape and takes care of herself... I just can’t seem to do the same. Btw her family is low key haters and judgmental.

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 3 года назад +2

      Omg true! My mom is my biggest hype man but society! Also my mother in law judges me for taking care of myself and even getting my nails done!

    • @ingridmazariegos9432
      @ingridmazariegos9432 3 года назад

      @@dianaestrada8711 man that’s so sad. Especially when family end up throwing their 2 cents for nothing that’s needed

    • @walqqr1
      @walqqr1 5 месяцев назад

      Realize that taking care of yourself sets a good example for your kid, so it's a very good thing. And stay away from the toxic side of the family!

    • @walqqr1
      @walqqr1 5 месяцев назад

      ​​@@dianaestrada8711 your husband should step in and defend you and set boundaries with his mom. If he chose you to be his wife, he has the duty to cherish you and not let his mom make you feel bad. Talk to him about it.
      As for you mother in law, the next time she whines about you taking care of yourself, tell her: "your son likes it".

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 3 года назад +3

    "If they smell like fritos" deadddd 🤣🤣

  • @damn1586
    @damn1586 Год назад +2

    I cried 😢I use to get ready everyday but feeling like a stick I sweats and sweatshirt without make i lost myself I hear this loud going to put a wig back on and my makeup

  • @annettedoodles
    @annettedoodles 3 года назад +2

    i absolutely love this and I need to get that book asap. Thank you Stacey, you are always on point. It's like you knew I was feeling down on youtube with my messy bun and fast food.

  • @Redthescientist901
    @Redthescientist901 3 года назад +2

    Wow! What I needed to hear! Thank you for your motivation💕

  • @greciacabrera732
    @greciacabrera732 3 года назад +3

    Omg I love how much love u put on all your videos and how it inspires us 😍😍

  • @vivian318
    @vivian318 2 года назад

    I’m a mom of 3 boys and I’m barely starting to fix myself everyday. Definitely felt that comment on feeling guilty! Its hard but it’s a process to get to that point where it’s no longer feeling guilty

  • @veronicarenteria750
    @veronicarenteria750 3 года назад +2

    Very true Stacy...coming from a Mexican family the famous saying aste una manita de gato always heard that from aunts and mom and why not thanks amiga!!!😊

  • @nadinecastro3219
    @nadinecastro3219 3 года назад +2

    Great video Stacy! Great message and love the honesty. Keep spreading these messages !

  • @beyoutifullynatural9451
    @beyoutifullynatural9451 2 года назад

    7 months later, I’m happy I found this video. Thank you. I needed to hear this!

  • @Maria-006.
    @Maria-006. 3 года назад +1

    Thank you So much for this video Stacey 🙏🏻💕

  • @missjanellyg
    @missjanellyg 3 года назад +1

    I needed to hear this!❤️ Thank you!👏🏼

  • @irisroque4491
    @irisroque4491 3 года назад +2

    Love this message made me cry 🥺💕

  • @tamijo
    @tamijo 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thankyou, I needed this ❤️

  • @esparzaevelyn
    @esparzaevelyn 3 года назад +2

    This is what I needed 🥺💕
    Gracias ✨

  • @rubyvlogs3640
    @rubyvlogs3640 3 года назад +7

    As a busy business owner, I find myself in leggings and cute crew necks all the time because I’m always on the go, I’m not a dress/girly type of woman, I don’t think one needs to wear makeup to look “ready” or heels, to each their own, but I’m thankful for my skin and I honestly feel so pretty without makeup, I just curl my lashes and a nice lip balm, and sprits my fave perfume and go about my day feeling great, self care is so important and it also comes in all shapes and forms, we got to find what feels good for us - and you’re so right, life is short, go get ready what ever that means to you ❤️

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 3 года назад +1

      She did say everyone has a different definition of what arreglándote means. I think what you do is perfect! I think she’s talking to people like me I feel my best with makeup so I should be doing it but since you feel great without it that’s good too just to get ready ❤️🥰

  • @foxxycici123
    @foxxycici123 3 года назад +1

    💜 Love this message. Thank you 💜

  • @looloo960
    @looloo960 3 года назад

    Im watching this first thing in the morning from Germany! Thank you I definitely needed this!❤️

  • @mellier523
    @mellier523 3 года назад +1

    Such a wonderful message!

  • @messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550
    @messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550 3 года назад +2

    If I had a wife I would really appreciate her wearing long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, a reminder of how special she is. I don’t care about makeup or jewelry, just her feminine presence.

  • @starsanchez7078
    @starsanchez7078 3 года назад

    Ever since I saw you post I have bought the book myself and I’ve been loving it! 🤍

  • @jesspixiedust
    @jesspixiedust 3 года назад

    i have been feeling this & this in my confirmation to take action. 👏🏼

  • @andreamata3358
    @andreamata3358 3 года назад

    Dude, she straight blocked me a couple years back on Instagram and yet here I am still supporting her because I love her content! Wow, I sound obsessed 😂 but no in all honesty Stacey. You’ve helped out a lot. Thank you. 💕

  • @raemarlow57
    @raemarlow57 2 года назад

    Such a great video!! 😊 Thank you ! I needed this.

  • @jenniferp8106
    @jenniferp8106 3 года назад

    I love this top! The color and style is sooo pretty!

  • @olevuce98
    @olevuce98 Год назад

    Thank you so much! I needed this ❤

  • @femininityfaith7920
    @femininityfaith7920 Год назад

    LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! ♥️🙏

  • @MarisonArcilla
    @MarisonArcilla 3 года назад +1

    😭 so thankful for you!

  • @curvyblue2843
    @curvyblue2843 2 года назад

    I don't take care of myself because I'm tired but this video is inspiring to try so thank you. 🥰

  • @ginyu2969
    @ginyu2969 Год назад

    I needed this

  • @itslauren6587
    @itslauren6587 2 года назад

    I love this I needed this today 💛

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 3 года назад

    Your eyebrows have been 🤌🏽 ::chefs kiss:: lately!! Your transformation has been so fun to watch 🥰

  • @jeessicaluvzroy
    @jeessicaluvzroy 3 года назад

    Yes as moms we always put ourselves last and we shouldn’t

  • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
    @Jolly.Joy_Rose 2 года назад

    💛 Loved this so much!!

  • @alyce-kayruckelshaus1224
    @alyce-kayruckelshaus1224 3 года назад

    First time I've seen any of your videos. Loved this. Subscribed.

  • @brijacobs8747
    @brijacobs8747 2 года назад

    You’re literally amazing

  • @elizabethayala5156
    @elizabethayala5156 3 года назад

    Stace! Thank you for your videos. You always inspire me to be more confident and most importantly love myself more. I see you like my big sister LOL (you and Amy) 💜💜💜 Que dios te bendiga a ti también 😊

  • @wabi_sabi52
    @wabi_sabi52 2 месяца назад

    This is important content and I appreciate the message

  • @GiaGRitter
    @GiaGRitter 2 года назад

    You always have THE BEST book recs! Can you do a vid on feminine books?

  • @thisisnice95
    @thisisnice95 Год назад

    What a great video, thank you so much.

  • @makeupbyshelbidavis
    @makeupbyshelbidavis 2 года назад

    1000% yes!!! spot on girl!!

  • @claudiavargas5627
    @claudiavargas5627 3 года назад +1

    Tu blusa eata hermosa 😍 thank u Stacey I needed a reminder to take care of myself not just my family ❤💖

  • @sf7339
    @sf7339 2 года назад

    Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

  • @reshnarevi2685
    @reshnarevi2685 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @pinktea3632
    @pinktea3632 3 года назад

    Yes new video!!!!

  • @Holly_Tovar_
    @Holly_Tovar_ 3 года назад

    I love love love your videos ♥️

  • @taisutherland6039
    @taisutherland6039 6 месяцев назад

    I love fritos 😂 this video was good ❤

  • @julissagarcia8065
    @julissagarcia8065 3 года назад +1

    Love your blouse 💜

  • @ArminciaEdwards
    @ArminciaEdwards 3 года назад

    I struggle with this a lot..thanks.

  • @lulum8101
    @lulum8101 3 года назад +30

    what if i work almost everyday and so on your day off, you do want to stay in bed in my pjs lol

    • @Steph44139
      @Steph44139 3 года назад +5

      True especially physically demanding jobs.

    • @Jay-sc5ci
      @Jay-sc5ci 3 года назад +8

      If you want to stay in Pjs I would buy some cute silk ones or cute lingerie 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @abexe5009
      @abexe5009 3 года назад +3

      You can do that because probably when you go to work, you dress good, so you already gave yourself time to get put together.

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 3 года назад +4

      Put on your cutest pjs and do some mask or self care 🥰

  • @alondracastillo3907
    @alondracastillo3907 3 года назад

    Motivational🥰

  • @k10h73
    @k10h73 2 года назад

    Cute intro 🥰

  • @dianaahg
    @dianaahg 3 года назад +1

    Hiiii, can you tell us where you got your top from? 😍

  • @RosaG277
    @RosaG277 Год назад +1

    Why did you stop making videos? Just found this channel and I love it. Unfortunately I will not be subscribing because there are no recent videos. Hopefully you start up again

  • @Megasuss
    @Megasuss 8 месяцев назад

    Dude this is me rn, I just had a baby this June and like I don’t have time for myself anymore 😞

  • @HelloKittyFreak96
    @HelloKittyFreak96 3 года назад

    Where is the merch!? 💕

  • @Pagesthroughlife
    @Pagesthroughlife 3 года назад

    FACTS ON FACTS 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @myyoutubeaccount12111
    @myyoutubeaccount12111 Год назад +1

    To be honest, for me it's not about self esteem, it's just laziness 😅 - I enjoy pajamas, I feel like I deserve them, I wish it was socially acceptable to wear them everywhere. I think I will just invest in cute lounge wear

  • @Tinyshiny92
    @Tinyshiny92 3 года назад +1

    Stacey you’re gorgeous 💕 and that top is beautiful, where did you get that from? 😍

  • @nblovejj
    @nblovejj 3 года назад

    Gil lavender/purple is your color 😍 💜

  • @kelli7329
    @kelli7329 2 года назад +1

    To be honest I don't like to get ready everyday because I find recieving stares or unwanted comments and advances from men tiring, which I have to deal with when i put effort into my appearance and therefore look appealing. I prefer to wear hoodies and look as invisible as possible to avoid having recieving attention as I also have mild social anxiety so it's easier for me to complete errands, use public transport etc, when I look 'rough'

    • @kelli7329
      @kelli7329 2 года назад

      I live in a bad area aswell so when I am dressed up I feel afraid that someone may even try to follow me or something like that

  • @almary4650
    @almary4650 3 года назад +2

    Hi Stacey, would you be open to making a video on plastic surgery or enhancements? Love your videos✨💐

    • @abexe5009
      @abexe5009 3 года назад

      She has done a video for every enhancement she has (on her main channel) and she speaks about why, and how she feels. (hope it helps)