Txoj neej neeg no hais tau tu siab kawg li, tej tub tej nyab tsis ua tib zoo xav ua rau tej niam tej txi kua muag poob kua muag nrog tej me nyuam yuav ev tsis tau yuav muaj kev khaum kev npam nawb qhia rau sawv daws
DON'T be STUPID! Just use your money to pay for a nice assisted living facility, that way you don't have to rely on sons and dils who hate you! Why would you let your sons bully you into giving them $60k each---all they and their wives care about is the money, not you the parents?! You two should have been smarter about the WILL thing and not say anything to anyone---at most you could just tell your children that there is a WILL and someday they will find out who gets what, and leave it at that. When the time comes the lawyers will do their job of dispensing the inheritance to the right children since they have all the necessary information. Hmong parents can be incredibly stupid when it comes to money---sounds harsh but it's true!
Tus me niam peb sawv ib feem yeej nyob ib lub nkoj rau ib nkawm taug ib txoj kev nyuaj siab cov me nyusm nim no tsis yog neeg tsis muaj siab hlub leej twg txawm yog niam thiab txiv los yeej tsis hlub tsis ntshai yeej tua tau yus pov tseg kuv Los yeej tau koj tus txiv neb lub mob thiab os koj tseem muaj hmoo es koj tseem muaj ntxhais hos kuv ces yug tsis muaj ntxhais es kuv haj yam txom nyem nawb mog thov lub ntuj lub teb pov puag neb thiab kom neb cov ntxhais hlub neb
Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os niam tais aw kuv Los yeej niaj hnub txhawj txog wb ib niam txiv thiab os 😢 tsam muaj ib hlub twg zoo li koj zaj dab neeg thiab os
Niam tais aws, koj lub neej tu siab ua luaj li os. Ua neej nyob txog thaum laus2 lawm ces feel ntau yeej tu2 siab li no os mog. Muaj ib hnub twg koj pab tub yeej yuav paub tias neb ua niam ua txiv hlub lawv npaum li cas. Thaum lawv nco neb ntawv ces ntshai tsam lig rau lawv lawm ned?
Yog kawg cov uas hlub hlub cov tub ce yeej zoo liskos feem coob xwb tiag vim yus xaiv ntsej muag hlub ce tsi txhob tu sab os tsi yog neb xwb os muaj coob tus niamtxiv hmoob yeej rau neb txhai khau tibyam nkau thiab os nkawd
When you love them too much and won’t allow them to learn how to earn their own keep growing up, they won’t remember to appreciate you and your sacrifice for them.
I feel so sad for you grandma. If your sons are like that don't need to change your will. Your husband and you are wrong to spoil your kids too much that they take advantage of you both. Hlub hlub neb kawg os.
Yus tej vajtsev yuav tsum mus yuav tej candle tsw qab los taws rau yus lub tsev kom tsw qab mog...Yus ua tsi taug niam thiab txiv ces luag thiaj li khuj yus noj khuj yus haus mog.
You guys have money, take care of yourselves, stop relying on your kids to take care of you. Let them go, so they can grow up. Understand that kids these days are not the same as the ones who grew up in the old country. Use your money to hire help if you need it. Your kids have jobs and kids and homes of their own. Stop expecting them to do those things for you. Do not give them anything either
Dluav cov OG hmoob ua pheej yuav nyob ua ke nrog tub nyab. Thaum muaj teebmeem ces hos tuaj cem rau ntiajteb hnov. Tebchaws vam meej peb nyob tsis tau nrog peb tej menyuam.. yim nyob yim sib ntxhub
Ab peb tej me nyuam ces ntse yuav pom li kos xwb kav liam mas txhob cia lawv nrog yus nyob os yus tej nyiaj ces txhob cia rau yus yeej meem noj hlub yus tus kheej xwb
Ua li cas kuv yog cov laus li 63 xyoo lawm tsi xav nrog leej twg nyob es cas nej pheej xav nrog lawv nyob no. Yus nyob yus xwb tsi tag yuav tab kaum leej twg kiag li os tus sister aw!! Yus yuav noj los ua tsi noj los cia li xwb tsi tag yuav thov luag tej li os.
Peb cov presents OG yuav tau hloov pauv qhov peb pheej yuam kom cov hluas nrog yus nyob ua 1 tse lawm nawb .sawv daws yuav tau to taub tias tej hluas txheej no lawv g xav li peb cov laus xav lawm lawv tsuas xav yuav peb cov tub xwb lawv g xav kom peb anoiy lawv lawm ov .😢
Txhob TU Siab Luag hais tias yus cog dab tsi CES ib hnub twg yus tuav Tau sau Yam ntawv xwb no os mog nyuj ua rau nyuj thauj nees ua rau nees ris Xwb kav tsij txo lub nra thiab tus pas rau lawv nrig tom ntej no nawb😢
Hmong cov niam txiv needs to be open minded. It's okay to live by yourself. You have a house, you should have a washer and dryer, why do you need others to wash your clothes? You spoiled your kids too much. Why give your sons 200k? You spoiled them too much to the point that they don't know how to love you. They only know to demand money from you.
Tus niam phauj aw yog neb cov tub nyab tsis xav hlub neb ces kom lawv muab lawv cov me nyuam nplawm taw pov tseg tsis thas nkim zog tu vim tsis hlub neb ob tug lau ces lwm hlub lawv cov me nyuam yeej yuav tsis hlub lawv ib yam
Spend your money when you have it, when you are able to spend it Hmong parents!!! Yiur children are capable of making their own money. It's a different world now, your sons are not going to take care of you in your old age anymore.
Neb tej nyiaj cas tsis muab ntiav cov niam tsrv hmoob uas lawv tseem khov kho tab sis tsis muaj hauj lwm ua es them rau laev tuaj tu tsev ua mov rau neb noj txhua hnub es lawv tuaj tu tsrv ua mov rau neb noj tas lawv mus laev tsrv pob. Cas ruam ua luaj tseem muab rau neb cov niag menyuam twb tsis hlub neb
you spoiled your kids too much. they grew to be entitled, spoiled adults who have no compassion. instead of giving money to your sons, you should've kept it and use it toward your care. these days, it's stupid to put all your hopes, expectation, and dreams onto your children or other individuals. there are too many of these stories from heartbroken parents
Pog laus aw yus nro yus ruam hlwb qauj twb paub tias cov me nyuam tsis hlub yus ces txawm muaj nyiaj ev tsis tau los xum muab pov tseg xwb mom es txhob ruam 2 nawb
Neb ruam dhau lawm os yog yus li nyiaj yus tsis faib los lawv yeej ua tsis tau dabtsi. Tabsi neb ruam zog lawm. Yog kuv mas kuv yeej tsis faib li os twb tsis hlub yus nim yuav kk li os.
That’s what happens when you move away from your own and think you are better and live like neeg dawg😂 Spoiling your kids they will come to hurt you 😂 Loving your kids is not about giving them everything is about teaching them right “wisdom “
Gotta be crazy! You have money! If you have that much money who needs that damn sons! Your story is illogical. As far as the dil goes, I wouldn't give a damn, I'm mom! I have the money. Not your business! Same goes for the so call precious sons. No one will put or make me sell my own home if I have that much money. Makes no sense to sell and go live in an old age home. Hire a help if you had that much money! What's the difference? Your money still went to those nurse and home. This is America now! Money talks. You got money! You can hire help!
Can't really feel bad for you guys since you guys didn't teach your kids how to be good human beings when they are small. You guys just use money to spoil them.
Yog kawg. tu siab kawg thaum yus laus zus lawm.
I wouldn't give any of the sons a penny. You guys are too nice.
Txoj neej neeg no hais tau tu siab kawg li, tej tub tej nyab tsis ua tib zoo xav ua rau tej niam tej txi kua muag poob kua muag nrog tej me nyuam yuav ev tsis tau yuav muaj kev khaum kev npam nawb qhia rau sawv daws
DON'T be STUPID! Just use your money to pay for a nice assisted living facility, that way you don't have to rely on sons and dils who hate you! Why would you let your sons bully you into giving them $60k each---all they and their wives care about is the money, not you the parents?! You two should have been smarter about the WILL thing and not say anything to anyone---at most you could just tell your children that there is a WILL and someday they will find out who gets what, and leave it at that. When the time comes the lawyers will do their job of dispensing the inheritance to the right children since they have all the necessary information. Hmong parents can be incredibly stupid when it comes to money---sounds harsh but it's true!
Neb muab hlub zog lawm os viv ncaus
Tus me niam peb sawv ib feem yeej nyob ib lub nkoj rau ib nkawm taug ib txoj kev nyuaj siab cov me nyusm nim no tsis yog neeg tsis muaj siab hlub leej twg txawm yog niam thiab txiv los yeej tsis hlub tsis ntshai yeej tua tau yus pov tseg kuv Los yeej tau koj tus txiv neb lub mob thiab os koj tseem muaj hmoo es koj tseem muaj ntxhais hos kuv ces yug tsis muaj ntxhais es kuv haj yam txom nyem nawb mog thov lub ntuj lub teb pov puag neb thiab kom neb cov ntxhais hlub neb
Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os niam tais aw kuv Los yeej niaj hnub txhawj txog wb ib niam txiv thiab os 😢 tsam muaj ib hlub twg zoo li koj zaj dab neeg thiab os
Spend times with the kids. When you get older, they will spend time with you.
Txhob tu siab os. Neb cov tub nyab tsis tsim nyog tau neb kev hlub os...
Niam tais aws, koj lub neej tu siab ua luaj li os. Ua neej nyob txog thaum laus2 lawm ces feel ntau yeej tu2 siab li no os mog. Muaj ib hnub twg koj pab tub yeej yuav paub tias neb ua niam ua txiv hlub lawv npaum li cas. Thaum lawv nco neb ntawv ces ntshai tsam lig rau lawv lawm ned?
Yes...we all need to have wills so that even if the kids fight..the attroney will control it.....ungrateful sons..
Koj zaj neej neeg ko zoo xws kuv thiab poj niam wb zaj kawg lio.neb cov tub mas tseem paub yuav poj niam ho kuv cov ces tseem nrog kuv nyob thiab tsi paub mus tham hluas nkauj thiab yuav poj niam li nawj.
Yog kawg cov uas hlub hlub cov tub ce yeej zoo liskos feem coob xwb tiag vim yus xaiv ntsej muag hlub ce tsi txhob tu sab os tsi yog neb xwb os muaj coob tus niamtxiv hmoob yeej rau neb txhai khau tibyam nkau thiab os nkawd
When you love them too much and won’t allow them to learn how to earn their own keep growing up, they won’t remember to appreciate you and your sacrifice for them.
Please do not switch your will no matter what. Do not give in to your sons. They will not treat you any better than before. I hope you both the best.
I feel so sad for you grandma. If your sons are like that don't need to change your will. Your husband and you are wrong to spoil your kids too much that they take advantage of you both. Hlub hlub neb kawg os.
Wow. Some sons
Wow, hmoob tus cwj pwm mas qias neeg tiag2. Txhob tus siab tus mes niam tais. Peb zaj mam tseem phem tshaj neb zaj lawm thiab. Cias lub ntuj mam raus txim raus lawv xwb.
Peb zaj mas peb tus tij laug hlob noj peb niam cov roj ntshas txij hnub peb niam xeeb peb tij laug hlob raus hauv peb niam plab txog ntuas hnub peb niam nkag tom qhov ntxas, tsis kav nws tseem muaj lub npav ntuj npav teb npav kaws av. Cov neeg zoo lis nos nws zeeg tws los yuav txog. Neb lis mas neb uas yog lawm
Nyob luag ntuj yuav tsum tau yooj luag txuj los sis puas nyob luag teb yuav tsum xyaum yoog luag cai. Tiam 21 no lawm tom ntej thiab nyob rau rooj teb no ces txhob tos 2 txwm tub nyab yuav hlub niam pog txiv yawg, Ib txwm nkaus xwb los yeej tseem tsis hlub qees.
Yus tej vajtsev yuav tsum mus yuav tej candle tsw qab los taws rau yus lub tsev kom tsw qab mog...Yus ua tsi taug niam thiab txiv ces luag thiaj li khuj yus noj khuj yus haus mog.
Sorry for your experience
Neb ob tug laus neb txhob quaj neb mus neb txoj tseem tshuav neb cov tub txoj txog lawv txoj lawv mam paub mog tus niam tij
You guys have money, take care of yourselves, stop relying on your kids to take care of you. Let them go, so they can grow up.
Understand that kids these days are not the same as the ones who grew up in the old country. Use your money to hire help if you need it. Your kids have jobs and kids and homes of their own. Stop expecting them to do those things for you. Do not give them anything either
Dluav cov OG hmoob ua pheej yuav nyob ua ke nrog tub nyab. Thaum muaj teebmeem ces hos tuaj cem rau ntiajteb hnov. Tebchaws vam meej peb nyob tsis tau nrog peb tej menyuam.. yim nyob yim sib ntxhub
Yep. Neb muab hlub yuam kev lawm. Neb txawm muaj nyiaj los neb tsis humble ne. Muab khav theeb dhau lawm ne. Yus laus lawm yuav tsum paub xaj aj thiab mas.
Ab peb tej me nyuam ces ntse yuav pom li kos xwb kav liam mas txhob cia lawv nrog yus nyob os yus tej nyiaj ces txhob cia rau yus yeej meem noj hlub yus tus kheej xwb
Ua li cas kuv yog cov laus li 63 xyoo lawm tsi xav nrog leej twg nyob es cas nej pheej xav nrog lawv nyob no. Yus nyob yus xwb tsi tag yuav tab kaum leej twg kiag li os tus sister aw!! Yus yuav noj los ua tsi noj los cia li xwb tsi tag yuav thov luag tej li os.
😢kuv yeej pom tej no lawm kuv yeej tsi pab li os lawv paub ces lawv tseem yuav muab yus tua thiab os lawv aws
I agree with your husband. If your kids don’t love you no need to give it to them you guys did your dues already. Ungrateful kids.
Nim yuav yog luag tej niam txiv txhiaj meej zoo na, neb tsuas nros neb ruam muab neb cov me nyuam ko hlub dhau lawv thiaj dig muag rau kev ua neej, kev tsis txawj xav thiab ntshaw nyiaj lawm xwb as vim neb ib txwm yog kawv lub ATM bank uas tsis muaj fee ne. Cov neej hmoob zoo li no es niam txiv muab me tub me nyuam hlub hla hlo kuv paub ntau yig kiag ntawm kuv xub ntiag thiab hnov ntau zaj kawg lawm.
Kav liam, nyias ua rau nyias. Qhov tseeb tiag twb tim neb txoj kev coj puag thaum tej me nyuam tseem me lawm ne.
Omg Hmong OGs. Live for yourself not your kids. Always depending on the useless sons and ends up crying about it. Too bad!
Peb cov presents OG yuav tau hloov pauv qhov peb pheej yuam kom cov hluas nrog yus nyob ua 1 tse lawm nawb .sawv daws yuav tau to taub tias tej hluas txheej no lawv g xav li peb cov laus xav lawm lawv tsuas xav yuav peb cov tub xwb lawv g xav kom peb anoiy lawv lawm ov .😢
Txhob TU Siab Luag hais tias yus cog dab tsi CES ib hnub twg yus tuav Tau sau Yam ntawv xwb no os mog nyuj ua rau nyuj thauj nees ua rau nees ris Xwb kav tsij txo lub nra thiab tus pas rau lawv nrig tom ntej no nawb😢
Hmong cov niam txiv needs to be open minded. It's okay to live by yourself. You have a house, you should have a washer and dryer, why do you need others to wash your clothes? You spoiled your kids too much. Why give your sons 200k? You spoiled them too much to the point that they don't know how to love you. They only know to demand money from you.
Tus niam phauj aw yog neb cov tub nyab tsis xav hlub neb ces kom lawv muab lawv cov me nyuam nplawm taw pov tseg tsis thas nkim zog tu vim tsis hlub neb ob tug lau ces lwm hlub lawv cov me nyuam yeej yuav tsis hlub lawv ib yam
Neb hlub lawv dhaus lawm, neb muab nyiaj rau lawv siv, neb tsis qhias txoj kev uas neeg ncaj nceem, xyaum uas neeg txos hwj chim, uas neeg siab dawb Suab zoo. Neb tsis qhia neb cov tub kom noj nceb yuav tsum thaug cav, yuav nyab yuav tsum xaiv neej xaiv tsav.
Spend your money when you have it, when you are able to spend it Hmong parents!!! Yiur children are capable of making their own money. It's a different world now, your sons are not going to take care of you in your old age anymore.
Muab niag tub nyab laij kiag tawm ais yus nyob yus xwb , thaum yus Yuav tuag cov neeg siab zoo uas sab nraud xav yuav yus lub tsev cais los tu yus tuag muab rau tus ntawd yuav
Nrug meb tu sab
You guys only teach your kids about the power of money but nothing about love and respect. Such a sad story.
Neb tej nyiaj cas tsis muab ntiav cov niam tsrv hmoob uas lawv tseem khov kho tab sis tsis muaj hauj lwm ua es them rau laev tuaj tu tsev ua mov rau neb noj txhua hnub es lawv tuaj tu tsrv ua mov rau neb noj tas lawv mus laev tsrv pob. Cas ruam ua luaj tseem muab rau neb cov niag menyuam twb tsis hlub neb
you spoiled your kids too much. they grew to be entitled, spoiled adults who have no compassion. instead of giving money to your sons, you should've kept it and use it toward your care. these days, it's stupid to put all your hopes, expectation, and dreams onto your children or other individuals. there are too many of these stories from heartbroken parents
Pog laus aw yus nro yus ruam hlwb qauj twb paub tias cov me nyuam tsis hlub yus ces txawm muaj nyiaj ev tsis tau los xum muab pov tseg xwb mom es txhob ruam 2 nawb
Neb cov niag tub siab phem ua luaj li ua li neb tsis tseg neb cov nyiaj lo ntiav neeg tu neb na lo
Neb ruam dhau lawm os yog yus li nyiaj yus tsis faib los lawv yeej ua tsis tau dabtsi. Tabsi neb ruam zog lawm. Yog kuv mas kuv yeej tsis faib li os twb tsis hlub yus nim yuav kk li os.
That’s what happens when you move away from your own and think you are better and live like neeg dawg😂
Spoiling your kids they will come to hurt you 😂
Loving your kids is not about giving them everything is about teaching them right “wisdom “
Cas neb yuav ruam tag npaum .meskas muaj lo hais tias txawm koj muaj nyiaj npaum Cas lo yuav coj li tug neeg nphluag no ho.
Gotta be crazy! You have money! If you have that much money who needs that damn sons! Your story is illogical. As far as the dil goes, I wouldn't give a damn, I'm mom! I have the money. Not your business! Same goes for the so call precious sons. No one will put or make me sell my own home if I have that much money. Makes no sense to sell and go live in an old age home. Hire a help if you had that much money! What's the difference? Your money still went to those nurse and home. This is America now! Money talks. You got money! You can hire help!
Neb cov me ko mas ntshaws kaus neb nyiaj xwb aws. Cov tub nyab ko mas siab phem tiag tiag. Neb cov tub ko mas siab phem tshaj plaws
Can't really feel bad for you guys since you guys didn't teach your kids how to be good human beings when they are small. You guys just use money to spoil them.
Bad parenting, you spoiled your brats.