woah, slow down. THIS is NOT self care.

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @paige1778
    @paige1778 16 дней назад +965

    not only is it over board on “self care” it’s INSANE overconsumption 😭

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 16 дней назад

      These chics are literally pathologically insane. The whole generation is so manipulated by the cosmetic industry in a concerning way. I’m not on toci toci btw ;)

    • @rachul09
      @rachul09 14 дней назад +2

      Yeah

    • @vvitch-mist20
      @vvitch-mist20 11 дней назад +22

      People forget self care includes things you don't like doing. IE telling yourself no

  • @magdalenafinke
    @magdalenafinke 16 дней назад +799

    selfcare has become a marketing hook for overconsumption

    • @itzerinn2489
      @itzerinn2489 15 дней назад +26

      literally had to get off tiktok and reconnect with the real world because it's truly insane

    • @Ivy-xh2qo
      @Ivy-xh2qo 14 дней назад +4

      THISSSS

  • @mastermanifester8722
    @mastermanifester8722 16 дней назад +727

    10 step hand routine is actually crazy omg 😂😂

    • @killjoy6880
      @killjoy6880 16 дней назад +19

      there NO NEED for so many products on your hands shes only doing this to sell the products shown in the videos istg

    • @xyqnwdcn
      @xyqnwdcn 11 дней назад +14

      wasn’t the person doing the hand routine a hand model? 😅

    • @killjoy6880
      @killjoy6880 11 дней назад +8

      @xyqnwdcn just like how a 14 step skincare routine can damage your skin, a 14 step hand routine is going to damage your hands skin

  • @Rachel-zf2wm
    @Rachel-zf2wm 16 дней назад +511

    Self care is feeling a little too much like self hate atp…

    • @Daydreamerr13
      @Daydreamerr13 14 дней назад +1

      No lol

    • @sabrinadavis6832
      @sabrinadavis6832 13 дней назад +51

      Yes! Doing the most to try to like as perfect as possible

    • @effullgent
      @effullgent 15 часов назад +1

      yess!! especially when they talk about doing 10 diff things to not stink when just the first one would have done it

  • @starboispacehippie
    @starboispacehippie 12 дней назад +286

    Self care can be as simple as sleeping in on weekends, cooking a nutritious meal, sitting in the sun with a cup of tea, taking a walk.

  • @krishaunafisher
    @krishaunafisher 16 дней назад +131

    Literally got a PT now and my self care was starting to tackle my PCOS lol. Walking more, lifting weights, making better food!!!! Literally taking care of yourself is self care

    • @gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476
      @gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476 4 дня назад +1

      so real! I feel the best when I truly take care of my insulin resistence. Focusing on your health feels more productive than just focusing on your appearance, which may never be "perfect enough" for the insane beauty standards in social media

  • @datsesstella2375
    @datsesstella2375 13 дней назад +139

    To me I think self care is whatever you make it. It’s personal to you, your budget, your wants & needs

  • @Dina-c5p
    @Dina-c5p 5 дней назад +18

    Love all of ur tips but I especially agree with making ur space cozy bc for years my room felt cold and uninviting bc I never bothered to decorate and treated it lkke a storage room that I sleep in, but add in a carpet and some fairy lights and bam, legit enjoy every moment in here now!!

  • @chan-oe5fv
    @chan-oe5fv 12 дней назад +30

    The blush, the lip combo, the braids !!!!!

  • @hannafromatlanta
    @hannafromatlanta 16 дней назад +54

    You ate with this video! I think sometimes people forget that self-care could also just be rest like doing nothing and just existing so thank you for this video 💗

  • @Paige-m6c
    @Paige-m6c 8 дней назад +7

    This was so refreshing to see someone not telling you what selfcare has to be, and making it more manageable for everyday.

  • @ElDaCreatrix
    @ElDaCreatrix 9 дней назад +10

    Yes I love how practical and actionable your advice is. Self care isn’t meant to be inaccessible. Self care is simply practices
    That acknowledge and comfort you. One of my favorite mindless activities is writing although it mean seem counterproductive I can write til my hand fall off and often times it’s free-flowing.

  • @livingdollgyaru
    @livingdollgyaru 13 дней назад +33

    I need to get on the self care of DISCIPLINE

    • @madelinekouassi9884
      @madelinekouassi9884 5 дней назад +1

      Me too ! The hardest to get and the one that matters most tbh !!!!

  • @zee-zee
    @zee-zee 13 дней назад +21

    4:09 im CRYING youre so real for that

  • @vvitch-mist20
    @vvitch-mist20 11 дней назад +15

    I have a penny jar!! I add any pennies to it. It's about half way full. I'm below poverty so anything bigger gets used for bus fare or groceries.

  • @MélodieZogo
    @MélodieZogo 3 дня назад +5

    ok about all you said but we NEED a makeup routine from you because face card never declinnnneeee in every videos and i need your secrets for a smooth flawless makeup like yours .

    • @marinetism
      @marinetism 3 дня назад

      THISCUZ HER MAKEUP IS SO FLAWLESS GJKADHFAHFAHFJ

  • @little_kvromi
    @little_kvromi 16 дней назад +50

    First to comment 🎉❤
    Tips on self care
    ♡ save for ur future self
    ♡ leave gifts for ur future self
    ♡ finish one product before buying other one
    ♡ make ur space cozyy
    ♡ get a mindless hobby
    ♡ movement
    ♡ get ready everyday
    ♡ maintenance
    ♡ make independent financial moves
    ♡ you timeee

  • @chessybur9386
    @chessybur9386 5 дней назад +3

    This is the best video I’ve seen for self care, like you really got IT together! ❤❤❤

  • @bb1212-lov
    @bb1212-lov 3 дня назад +2

    i hopee to every girl who struggle with body imagine and self-care ; YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and don't let any tell you otherwise SPECIALLY sm media post :) love you tyy xx~

  • @DareenBeat
    @DareenBeat 14 дней назад +10

    the way this video made me get up and so something for myself and write down my goals

  • @virikameni
    @virikameni 15 дней назад +10

    It’s been a year since I discovered your channel, I’m so glad I did! I feel like you’re the only creator I completely trust with beauty/skincare recommendations or anything really! Alsoooo, Congrats on 100k!!!

  • @Greater756
    @Greater756 12 дней назад +22

    People confuse self maintenance with self care.

  • @aiiixaa
    @aiiixaa 15 дней назад +7

    100K CONGRATULATIONS GIRL!! SO PROUD

  • @MyelleSunsetPhotography
    @MyelleSunsetPhotography 2 дня назад +2

    Most of its temporary too. Like shaving your face, those chin straps or the jade facelifters even Jessica Alba admitted that your face literally goes back to how it is like few hours later. You do all that work spend all that money for something if you miss even a day of you look like you did before or maybe even worse.

  • @alissamaharaj791
    @alissamaharaj791 11 дней назад +3

    What’s crazy to me too is that self care is like this separate thing from everyday life like “I’m having a self care day” like no aren’t these just life skills we should be practicing all the time to make life as easy and enjoyable as possible? these are things we should be taught as kids as part of a healthy lifestyle imo

  • @Eco_Lps18
    @Eco_Lps18 День назад

    I AGREE ! im trying to get more into this mindset!! Thank you for this ❤

  • @bootsmade4walking
    @bootsmade4walking 11 дней назад +2

    First time watching your channel -- the audio editing is HILARIOUS. Keep doing your thing!

  • @nazzythoughts5096
    @nazzythoughts5096 16 дней назад +7

    You're sooo prettyyy!! ✨

  • @graceskeate
    @graceskeate 16 дней назад +3

    This is the first vid of yours I’ve seen and omg I love your vibe! Your gorg also btw

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio Час назад

    I needed to hear this girl, thank you!!!

  • @Liyah779
    @Liyah779 15 дней назад +6

    You‘re STUNNING!!!

  • @itsstisha
    @itsstisha 16 дней назад +3

    7:04 omg girl plss do a tutorial on your hair soo pretty 😻😻💗

    • @bossgirlified
      @bossgirlified  15 дней назад +1

      I have a tut on TikTok @bossgirlified 💞

  • @Someone-dq4zt
    @Someone-dq4zt 7 дней назад

    Wow this video is so helpful. It's really giving me a mindset shift. I never thought about it as gifts for myself. I've been struggling to get up and this video has made me realize bc I'm trying to get everything done in the morning and it's so stressful and demotivating :))

  • @imanina
    @imanina 16 дней назад +12

    I thought I was crazy for using hand sunscreen

  • @nai1136
    @nai1136 3 дня назад

    First video, and I love you already. (Random, but seeing this 13 days later with 103 videos and 103k subscribers.)

  • @sweetlydiy326
    @sweetlydiy326 16 дней назад +8

    Happy 100k 🎉

  • @erinmartinez8360
    @erinmartinez8360 14 дней назад

    I’m so glad someone is addressing this!!

  • @malakazm1290
    @malakazm1290 2 дня назад

    Thank you for breaking all those idea!

  • @Yongbokie-brownie
    @Yongbokie-brownie 13 дней назад

    Girlll you are so underrated~

  • @arynjulieee
    @arynjulieee 13 дней назад +1

    it was so satisfying to like this at 999 and watch it go to 1k

  • @effullgent
    @effullgent 15 часов назад

    i feel like self care is just overconsumption and self hatred wrapped in a bow

  • @DalandaWurie-go8ch
    @DalandaWurie-go8ch 16 дней назад

    Thanks for the video it was very helpful ❤

  • @witchsbrew111
    @witchsbrew111 День назад

    Self care is not what most ppl think it is lol… it’s not all baths and shit 😂

  • @nature2t386
    @nature2t386 16 дней назад

    Took notes. Thank you ❤

  • @sunamitafernandes4047
    @sunamitafernandes4047 13 дней назад +1

    Your teeth and smile are so beautiful!

  • @annaadams7128
    @annaadams7128 9 дней назад

    Unrelated but omg you're so pretty

  • @TemieBeauty
    @TemieBeauty 14 дней назад

    Where’s the stash link?

  • @berrybopforever
    @berrybopforever 7 дней назад +1

    What to do when you struggle to get the energy to even shower everyday?

    • @FluffyKittenMittens1
      @FluffyKittenMittens1 6 дней назад +1

      Just do it at the same time every day and get into a routine. I shower every morning when I wake up even if I don't want to and end up feeling 10x better afterward.

  • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
    @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 6 дней назад

    🤣🤣 when you called your dog I hollered - girl all these videos are maddening and a waste of money 💰 10 different products on ya face as a woman I couldn’t think of anything worse 😅

  • @xbaeksky
    @xbaeksky 14 дней назад

    those videos are part of the substance

  • @agirllovetolive4196
    @agirllovetolive4196 4 дня назад

    My sellary doesn’t allow me to save for future I pearly buy myself drag stor stuff and taking care of my family home I’m still single and it’s impossible to save unless I get 2 jobs minimum

  • @julia-p1m6q
    @julia-p1m6q 13 дней назад +2

    The receipt is longer than my life so far

  • @newyt3033
    @newyt3033 8 дней назад

    thank you for calling me out

  • @coreyrobinson1900
    @coreyrobinson1900 15 дней назад

    🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍

  • @Curtis01824
    @Curtis01824 15 дней назад

    like you share,like Nordstrom🥰

  • @HalfwayJac
    @HalfwayJac 2 дня назад

    You look like a Goddess.

  • @anonymous101-sb1bf
    @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 дня назад +2

    Some of these things are just for views but the others need a therapy session if they think they need all of that to be "clean"

  • @haddiewab6265
    @haddiewab6265 16 дней назад

    Omg hi

  • @ElDaCreatrix
    @ElDaCreatrix 9 дней назад +1

    Yes I love how practical and actionable your advice is. Self care isn’t meant to be inaccessible. Self care is simply practices
    That acknowledge and comfort you. One of my favorite mindless activities is writing although it mean seem counterproductive I can write til my hand fall off and often times it’s free-flowing.