When I had low self esteem I did not mind polygamy but when I got high self esteem, by the grace of God, polygamy was not for me. It creates competition and hate. Men dnt love tge women the same. They might say they do but the truth is they dnt.
In my experience, polygamy is one of the worst things that can happen to someone. I came from a polygamous family, and it's been a painful journey. My father had 26 children, and after his passing 10 years ago, my siblings are fighting each other over property and inheritance. The division, the resentment, and the emotional toll it takes on everyone involved is unbearable. I would never advise anyone to enter a polygamous situation because of the chaos and heartache it brings. It destroys family unity and creates lifelong conflicts that are hard to resolve. Family should be built on love and trust, not division.
Even in monogamy, siblings do fight one another over property and inheritance. Yes, the situation is more complex in polygamy. @yaknuelgh, "Will" is still alien to many African men 😔 @26:59 ......, I once said this before in a virtual Muslim seminar comment section😂😂🤣. Since a Muslim man can manage more than a wife, they should stop hiding under "men can rarely multitask" in other areas of life (except pregnancy and breastfeeding). Men can actually multitask, and society should stop boxing/excusing them.
It is me your girl Barrister NEZE and this is NEZEVILLE. This statement is very appealing and magnetic. Queen Neze 👑 God Almighty will continue to be your strength, fortress and fortitude as you keep making your fans all over the world happy with your creative, well researched and thought out teachings in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen 🙏. Have a splendid night rest with the entire family and remain blessed as always the queen of them all.
@AnnyMaamley Thank you comrade ✌️, that statement is truly very infectious and attractive, before nko!, why not if not. Be well with you and your entire family and remain blessed as always 🙏.
A group of men were drinking and one man stood up up and said he had to go home and left. After he left, the rest of the men started talking, arguing and complaining about their wives and all of them had more than one wife, except one. When asked why he had only one wife, He responded - "Why would I take on myself, another mans punishment?"
That's a wise man there. Looking at this polygamy actually you will tell that even one wife is difficult for a man to maintain not to talk of two or three wives. Oh no! Polygamy indeed should be wiped out. Thanks bro. you are a real man.❤❤❤
Laaa this girl😩😂😂😂😂 Neze o I believe every single thing you said in this video, women can never co habit peacefully with each other, even co wives married to two brothers are envious of themselves talk more of two women marrying the same man. It just can’t work. Polygamy brings nothing but contempt, envy, jealousy, hatred, spiritual war, spiritual attacks, death, illnesses, family dysfunction and the list goes on, even the men who we believe are the only beneficiaries of polygamy can still have untimely death because of lack of peace in the home. Polygamy does not benefit anybody, let’s know this and know peace. Thank you Neze for another beautiful video, you remain the best❤
You talk as if women naturally don't get on with each other....yes we do. If the shoe was on the other foot, where women had many husbands, do you think men would be able to co habit peacefully? I think not. That's HUMAN nature, not a man woman thing.
Thanks for the enlightenment on polygamous marriage . I was born in North America / Christian family and was never exposed to polygamy lifestyle . So I am always eager to learn . So I was drawn to the Yul show on social media. My sympathies go to Mary and her children .
Highly educative contents. Even if the video is an hour I would gladly sit, watch, learn and unlearn as the case maybe. Thank you ma for being a shining light in our generation. God bless you with more wisdom and guidance, Amen
In this modern time, I have not seen any woman accepting her husband marrying another wife. If you see any woman accepting her husband marrying another wife, check well, it is not from her real mind, it could be the condition of that marriage - finance, doesn't want to leave her marriage may be for her children etc.
You captured it beautifully again . I've always made these arguments about today's men cherry picking which of our cultural practices that suit them yet they won't let us rest about DNA DNA DNA which is completely antithetical to the same culture they espouse
@@eneebong5181 see broke men crying in the comments 🤣🤣🤣 People like Tony Elumelu , Femi Otedola etc have only one wife while those that cannot renew data are fighting 🤣🤣🤣
Any man who thinks polygamy is his culture should marry multiple women when they (the men) are still struggling. Its high level wickedness for a woman to drink gaari n kulikuli in a room n parlor with a man n immediately the finances of d man improves, he marries another woman. How many of those 2nd, 3rd wives have we seen getting married to poor men? Some of d 2nd, 3rd wives would not even respond to poor men's greetings not to talk of marrying them. They are always waiting for ready-made men to steal from the ist wives who supported their husbands during their days of small beginnings.
Men will always benefit from the foolishness of women. Its better for women to remain that way as far as they are concerned. If not for that, they wont make noise about polygamy
true ,its always the 1st wife who has the struggles to support the man from nothing then the horrible man show his true evil and marry another or leave the woman what a evil world we live, having many wives is crap and anyone who says its good need to be real to themselves as all they want is a free life and dont care as they are in truth become a paid prostitute
Neze Your advice at the end of this video is 💯 accurate. No single human being loves to share a partner sexually with another person. Acceptance into Polygamy is born from desperation for money,marriage name it...
Neze do you understand how much you teach me.. you improve me with every single word from your mouth. Look at how you just taught me the full meaning of DNA even without you knowing. I love you. Thank you for all you do.
You have never disappointed me in the way you do your narrations. Polygamy worked in those days due to the necessity of getting 'unpaid' labourers. If any man tries it these days - I am sorry for him - school fees, feeding, accommodation, clothings etc etc! I hate polygamy because many destinies have been truncated due to jealousy, envy and unhealthy rivalries. Thumbs up to you, my beautiful Barrister Neze!
Pologamy was in accient time not part of africans culture. Pologamy was brought by the hindu's in africa. Beside that, when a man is having sex with difference women, he is transmitting sexual energy from the other to the other woman, that affects women in one on they other way. Another deseas is hepatitis B, a sexual medicale deseas! Pologamy is for man their interest!
@@stevenwilliams3015burt 99% men are none of these rich men. Yet they demand polygamy the loudest. Also money is not the end all be all in raising kids. You need be involved in their lives on daily basis or the kids end up feeling neglected. You can't do that with polygamy.
My grandmother was the first wife… then Granpa went to bring another wife….. no body told the second wife when she rn away with her only child! 😅. My grandma was no nonsense woman!! 😅
My Paternal grandfather married 3 wives and had about 23 children, he could not train all of them properly . When he was old he warned my father never to marry more than one wife or take his foot step. He regretted been a polygamous man and said there is nothing like marrying only one woman and focusing on their children alone.
Hello Neze, please make a video about the Gambian who just murdered her co-wife in Jalambang Brikama yesterday, on December 18. It is such a gruesome scene. The second wife murdered the first wife and put her in a well 😢. She left five children and the second wife is reportedly pregnant. African women, why???????? 😭😭😭😭. Why can’t we learn to value ourselves? Is polygamy a must? Is marriage in fact a must? Haba
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Madam, stop lying or tarnishing the image of our culture. African tradition never saw women as properties. You don't have a problem with LGBTQ, but you have a problem with polygamy. Who's fooling who here? You are always attacking our culture but embracing your colonial master's culture. African culture is coming back with full forcel and you and colonial mentality mates, wanna be white at all cost, can't stop it. Do what's best for you and stop attacking our culture. Self hating people
Neze my dear, you are an excellent storyteller and you do your due diligence and research. Respect. Polygamy is no longer an improvement of society. Men, if you want to have extra s*x make the wife in your matrimonial home the extraordinary. Get educated together. By the way the Arab men are now looking at monopoly with kind eyes, especially those who like peace of mind and don’t want their children kpaing themselves. Thank you Barr Neze. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Infact I love you so much you are super intelligent in analysis. I so much desired to marry a man that will marry me alone but unfortunately is only married men that are coming to me now, maybe because am advanced in age but I stud my grand to still waiting until I see a single man and that is even making it worst but no problems, God will see me through. Thanks for your intelligences. Keep it up
Neze, thank you for this eye opening explanation on polygamy, God bless you with greater Wisdom. Your home is preserved. I wish you the best this season.
As you said cultures change ,and with an enlighten generation today I think polygamy has lost its relevance .In days gone by I believe Polygamy was used to have plenty of children to help work on the land ,but today the average couple only want two children ,so no need for Polygamy.
Story. Which enlighten are you talking? The brainwashed, colonial mentality Africans like you? Polygamy is coming back with full force because lots of people are beginning to accept our beautiful culture
It's you our girl Barr Neze how we love hearing this intro always Neze you're a God gift to us if most people don't listen to you and change their thinking I don't know what thank you for all the researches you do for us to learn more may yhe good Lod be with you always I even learnt the full meaning of the word DNA chai a teacher at heart much respect and love for you Neze
What a beautiful video! 💖 So genuine and heartfelt. Polygamy is a personal choice for both partners, and it's not about being right or wrong. It all depends on what works for the individuals involved. 🤝 It's all about mutual respect and understanding. 🌟
Polygamy only favors men, but when it comes to the women and especially children, it is pure chaos,jealousy n competition my moms cousins were raised in one and it was hell for them as the children of the polygamous home. I have heard a lot from ppl who've grown up in one, and the majority went through it.
I observed one of my uncles wives looked at the step son with so much hate so I told my uncle that I think he’s making an error but of course I’m only but a child according to him . But that doesn’t cancel the fact that there’s future disaster cooking up I know they don’t love themselves but I pray for them
@Emma_forever21 am telling you emma in these cases it's a very rare instance that situations like this works even in muslim homes which is practiced there's cases of that "hate" like there's a case in my country the 2st wife planned the r@pe/ murd€r of the 1st wife , and her children when she learned their husband wanted to bring over the 1st wife to the US to live with them they were butchered like goats people don't really understand how detrimental these choices from adults affects kids and bring unnecessary drama/pain.
@@dizdimples I pray for causins daily coz I saw the hate with my 2eyes but in the present of my uncle this particular woman would buy gifts for that same step son that she looks at with so much hate in my uncle’s mind he thinks that woman is good hmmmm
@Emma_forever21 men are usually blind when it comes to things like this it's like as long as they are comfortable, nothing else matters i pray for your cousins to no harm shall fall upon them. It shall be well. 🙏
Thank Neze, I have been researching this topic for an article for two weeks now, and your video landed on my screen as soon as I opened my phone and with the same topic. What a coincidence. ❤ My paternal grandfather married 14 wives, and what was so funny was one of his wives, and probably the most beautiful was given to him as a gift in a court. He was a court interpreter, and funny, he was the only one who could understand English from the White judge. Your storytelling is super, engaging, and truly entertaining. I don't support polygamy. Any man who wants to practice it should look for a woman who desires it as well. The problems of polygamy are not worth it; envy, jeaously, untimely death, and generation dysfunction family is too much.
These times (the 21st century) has been the most favourable to women, especially in terms of choice. In those days women were 'traded' in marriage, no courtship and she must be a virgin! Now our daughters have the right to choose whosoever they wish to marry and also decide whether to continue to live in that union. However the key to this union for women is to be economically independent. Our grandparents weren't that privileged and tolerated so much injustice in their marital union because they can't even feed themselves!
I was raised in a polygamous family. We are 15 children. All the children were fighting killing each other when our father died. I don’t pray for my enemies to experience polygamy. My children can never experience polygamy Amen 🙏.
Queen Neze 👑 we know, our superlative damsel 👑 we know. You are saying the truth and nothing but the truth. I am just glued and listening, I am marvelled at a young girl like you could narrate tremendously what happened in my time. Not really my time but I met such in the sixties, my birth period.
You've really broken this down very well. I always ask people what the advantage of Polygamy is in the 21st Century and they've never been able to defend it except that there are more women than men and so who will marry those "extra" women that wants to be married ! Women are at a disadvantage and someone will always get the short end of the stick but like I always say to each its own ! Good Job Neze ! God bless you and your family.
I was raised by a polygamous family,my father married 6 wife's and we are 20 and I'm the only one to my mother.later my father and my mother separated,what i see in that hause i can not explain it.
Thank you so much for speaking on this topic. I find it disturbing when I read comments of Nigerian men thinking polygamy in 2024 is a flex! It’s a shame that black men prioritize their sexuality over global power. They should put that energy into standing up for their race and making global progress rather than just using their wealth and time for polygamy, it’s okay to leave a toxic marriage but thinking polygamy is our culture is stupid because polygamy has been the cause of lots of children's mental health, traumatized experience by being raised from a dysfunctional family. Only a few Nigerian intelligent men understood this! My few Naija women know your worth!!!
Vous avez raison. J'ai aussi remarqué cette tendance là chez certains de nos hommes Africains. Lorsqu'ils ont de l'argent, au lieu de penser à faire des choses impactantes dans la société, non non. Ils préfèrent rester dans affaires de femmes et faire beaucoup d'enfants, c'est tout. Ils ne pensent qu'à eux seuls leurs plaisirs et propres intérêts. Alors qu'ils peuvent faire beaucoup de choses importantes grâce à leur succès.
Assuming I am a muslim, I will still not partake in polygamy. I detest it. If I am dating a man and I find out he is interested in polygamy later in life, I will not marry him. My annoyance with some men, esp the married ones, when you decide to have another wife like Yul Edochie against the desires of your wife, please release all the kids she has with you to her. Some women prefer to be single mothers, praying for a responsible man than partake in polygamy. Do not impose your values on her. As for my reasons for being against polygamy, the epistles I will write may be as big as the bible, let me reserve it for another time. Polygamy for me is a no no.
I happened to be a daughter in law to the only son in a polygomous home,,,his real blood sister's didn't like me coz of my tribe...how could I have known that my step mother in law was my tribemate...I swear polygamy is something else,, quarrels were a day to day thing..I never saw peace I was in between fights I knew nothing about...sadly last year my hubby died..in car accident,his burial was a total mess...up to now I've never healed😢
Neze stop cutting my sleep 😴 after a hard stressful night duty , touching my phone is Neze my vibrant city world news Best 🎉,waited to hear this from you our queen Neze 🎉❤❤❤, God bless us all 🙏🙏❤️
I always like how you introduce yourself in every topic like a sigtune...Hello Guyz, welcome to my RUclips Channel, it's me your girl, Barrister Nezeville...😅😅😅😂. It sounds so magnetic and attractive to draw attention to your channel even when one sometimes don't feel like 😅 and your contents are always very detailed and catchy, plus some humourous ingredients in it... More grace Ma...Keep it up! God bless you! I love your RUclips Channel!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Some men will hide characters probably due to poverty, which they usually display when they blow (rich) supported by their family being the only "rich" person. How do one handle that?
I love and I appreciate your comprehensive storytelling abilities so much Nezeville within this video you began with Africa particularly West Africa it's origin with polygamy and the Christian influence hence the decline of polygamy once animistic and polytheistic religions were subsided thirdly you expressed your convictions as a Christian with regards to polygamy. You even mentioned the Muslims position on polygamy as spoken from the Prophet Muhammad. With that said I learned so much and I truly appreciate all of your videos particularly this one. May God continue to bless you and may you continue to do God's work from a West African / Christian perspective
When I had low self esteem I did not mind polygamy but when I got high self esteem, by the grace of God, polygamy was not for me. It creates competition and hate. Men dnt love tge women the same. They might say they do but the truth is they dnt.
Why are you women making polygamy a self esteem marital structure.
In my experience, polygamy is one of the worst things that can happen to someone. I came from a polygamous family, and it's been a painful journey. My father had 26 children, and after his passing 10 years ago, my siblings are fighting each other over property and inheritance. The division, the resentment, and the emotional toll it takes on everyone involved is unbearable. I would never advise anyone to enter a polygamous situation because of the chaos and heartache it brings. It destroys family unity and creates lifelong conflicts that are hard to resolve. Family should be built on love and trust, not division.
Your late father nor do will?
This is the exact issue my dad's family is having. Polygamy is a no no
And lust
Even in monogamy, siblings do fight one another over property and inheritance. Yes, the situation is more complex in polygamy. @yaknuelgh, "Will" is still alien to many African men 😔
@26:59 ......, I once said this before in a virtual Muslim seminar comment section😂😂🤣. Since a Muslim man can manage more than a wife, they should stop hiding under "men can rarely multitask" in other areas of life (except pregnancy and breastfeeding). Men can actually multitask, and society should stop boxing/excusing them.
@Peaches-247 This can happen in a non polygamous relationship as well and it often does
It is me your girl Barrister NEZE and this is NEZEVILLE. This statement is very appealing and magnetic. Queen Neze 👑 God Almighty will continue to be your strength, fortress and fortitude as you keep making your fans all over the world happy with your creative, well researched and thought out teachings in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen 🙏. Have a splendid night rest with the entire family and remain blessed as always the queen of them all.
You forgot the part which goes thus " What's up and welcome......."😊
I always find myself saying that statement along with Barrister Neze 😅😅
@AnnyMaamley Thank you comrade ✌️, that statement is truly very infectious and attractive, before nko!, why not if not. Be well with you and your entire family and remain blessed as always 🙏.
My daughter mimic her & says it along each time I play her video 😂😂😂.
A group of men were drinking and one man stood up up and said he had to go home and left. After he left, the rest of the men started talking, arguing and complaining about their wives and all of them had more than one wife, except one. When asked why he had only one wife, He responded - "Why would I take on myself, another mans punishment?"
That's a wise man there. Looking at this polygamy actually you will tell that even one wife is difficult for a man to maintain not to talk of two or three wives. Oh no! Polygamy indeed should be wiped out. Thanks bro. you are a real man.❤❤❤
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I believe every single thing you said in this video, women can never co habit peacefully with each other, even co wives married to two brothers are envious of themselves talk more of two women marrying the same man. It just can’t work. Polygamy brings nothing but contempt, envy, jealousy, hatred, spiritual war, spiritual attacks, death, illnesses, family dysfunction and the list goes on, even the men who we believe are the only beneficiaries of polygamy can still have untimely death because of lack of peace in the home. Polygamy does not benefit anybody, let’s know this and know peace. Thank you Neze for another beautiful video, you remain the best❤
They cannot cohabit peacefully because it is an unnatural thing even with the creator. Any thing out of ordinance is always a problem
Did you hear that. I thought I was the only one. Neze you must go for confession oo.
You talk as if women naturally don't get on with each other....yes we do. If the shoe was on the other foot, where women had many husbands, do you think men would be able to co habit peacefully? I think not. That's HUMAN nature, not a man woman thing.
You've said it all my sister, men are forcing issues and they feel entitled to it, polygamy is giving more sins.
You've said it all my sister, men are forcing issues, polygamy is giving more sins.
I love the fact that you actually are having fun making these videos.
Thanks for the enlightenment on polygamous marriage . I was born in North America / Christian family and was never exposed to polygamy lifestyle . So I am always eager to learn . So I was drawn to the Yul show on social media. My sympathies go to Mary and her children .
Ahhhhhhh omg this is the most insightful video on polygamy. Thank u so much for this I have a better understanding
More blame goes to the women, because they are the ones encouraging the polygamy, they know that the man is married, out of greed they want to go in.
Highly educative contents. Even if the video is an hour I would gladly sit, watch, learn and unlearn as the case maybe. Thank you ma for being a shining light in our generation. God bless you with more wisdom and guidance, Amen
Never want to share my man with anybody but The Most High! That practice has never been my cup of tea!!!
Neze I just love how you explain biblical principles so well in your discussion of culture and social issues. You are so gifted and amazing!
In this modern time, I have not seen any woman accepting her husband marrying another wife. If you see any woman accepting her husband marrying another wife, check well, it is not from her real mind, it could be the condition of that marriage - finance, doesn't want to leave her marriage may be for her children etc.
You captured it beautifully again . I've always made these arguments about today's men cherry picking which of our cultural practices that suit them yet they won't let us rest about DNA DNA DNA which is completely antithetical to the same culture they espouse
Polygamy is a selfish practice and cannot and should not be allowed.
If you don't like polygamy as they brainwashed you, just become hom*s*xuel as their culture teaches you.
Come and stop it naa!
Story story
@@eneebong5181 see broke men crying in the comments 🤣🤣🤣
People like Tony Elumelu , Femi Otedola etc have only one wife while those that cannot renew data are fighting 🤣🤣🤣
@@ObinnaIzuora-f2f Those women don't love you for real. They're there for survival. That's the truth Sir. I'm sorry
Any man who thinks polygamy is his culture should marry multiple women when they (the men) are still struggling. Its high level wickedness for a woman to drink gaari n kulikuli in a room n parlor with a man n immediately the finances of d man improves, he marries another woman. How many of those 2nd, 3rd wives have we seen getting married to poor men? Some of d 2nd, 3rd wives would not even respond to poor men's greetings not to talk of marrying them. They are always waiting for ready-made men to steal from the ist wives who supported their husbands during their days of small beginnings.
Honestly, the men knows this and still choose such wicked women.
Men will always benefit from the foolishness of women. Its better for women to remain that way as far as they are concerned. If not for that, they wont make noise about polygamy
true ,its always the 1st wife who has the struggles to support the man from nothing then the horrible man show his true evil and marry another or leave the woman what a evil world we live, having many wives is crap and anyone who says its good need to be real to themselves as all they want is a free life and dont care as they are in truth become a paid prostitute
Neze Your advice at the end of this video is 💯 accurate.
No single human being loves to share a partner sexually with another person. Acceptance into Polygamy is born from desperation for money,marriage name it...
Neze do you understand how much you teach me.. you improve me with every single word from your mouth.
Look at how you just taught me the full meaning of DNA even without you knowing.
I love you. Thank you for all you do.
You have never disappointed me in the way you do your narrations. Polygamy worked in those days due to the necessity of getting 'unpaid' labourers. If any man tries it these days - I am sorry for him - school fees, feeding, accommodation, clothings etc etc! I hate polygamy because many destinies have been truncated due to jealousy, envy and unhealthy rivalries. Thumbs up to you, my beautiful Barrister Neze!
There are rich people that will take care of this
Pologamy was in accient time not part of africans culture. Pologamy was brought by the hindu's in africa. Beside that, when a man is having sex with difference women, he is transmitting sexual energy from the other to the other woman, that affects women in one on they other way. Another deseas is hepatitis B, a sexual medicale deseas! Pologamy is for man their interest!
@@stevenwilliams3015burt 99% men are none of these rich men. Yet they demand polygamy the loudest. Also money is not the end all be all in raising kids. You need be involved in their lives on daily basis or the kids end up feeling neglected. You can't do that with polygamy.
'Don't play your cards close to your chest but put the cards on the table ' 💯 wisdom Neze
HALLELUJAH SOMEBODY 😂😂😂A ROUND OF APPLAUSE FOR PASTOR NEZE 😂😂
HONESTLY I AGREE WITH YOU
My grandmother was the first wife… then Granpa went to bring another wife….. no body told the second wife when she rn away with her only child! 😅. My grandma was no nonsense woman!! 😅
I just broke down in tears at the Mercy of our Lord Jesus when you said “The Clause”!!! 26:00
My heart ooo ❤! Thank you Lord!!!!
Well done Neze! You have a good heart!❤ may the wisdom of God continue to grow in you amen!
Same here.
Wow Neze. I love how she explain the bibilcal part. She is good storyteller
Therefore all the Muslims with many wives are going to hell because there is no way they can treat all the wives equally
Gbam, Neze you nailed it. You have said it all. Let him who have ears listen and learn. Neze, I can't resist listening to you. Keep up the good work.
My Paternal grandfather married 3 wives and had about 23 children, he could not train all of them properly . When he was old he warned my father never to marry more than one wife or take his foot step. He regretted been a polygamous man and said there is nothing like marrying only one woman and focusing on their children alone.
Many would not see this. I sorry for polygamous people.
I wish. My maternal grandfather had six wives and 15 children. Two of them are younger than six. I don’t think he’s going to stop soon and he’s 77 😭
Seek the opinion of men that married one wife and after 30 years into the marriage the found out he's not the biological father to the 4kids.
@@BenjaminliliThose are minority cases.
@@Benjaminlili paternity fraud is 💯 % worse in polygamy🤣🤣🤣hope u know.
Make una dey deceive yourself
We here📌📌📌for our good story teller🥰all the way from 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Hello Neze, please make a video about the Gambian who just murdered her co-wife in Jalambang Brikama yesterday, on December 18. It is such a gruesome scene. The second wife murdered the first wife and put her in a well 😢. She left five children and the second wife is reportedly pregnant. African women, why???????? 😭😭😭😭. Why can’t we learn to value ourselves? Is polygamy a must? Is marriage in fact a must? Haba
Without any prompts to him, i got a raw position of my 10y/o IGBO son on controversial subjects like POLYGAMY, DIVORCE, GENDER ROLES , INLAW INFLUENCE etc.
Enjoy that amazing video here⬇️
ruclips.net/video/eyLzFiMDHjo/видео.htmlsi=xnh8Hm6cU-eTX656
Watched already
Madam, stop lying or tarnishing the image of our culture. African tradition never saw women as properties. You don't have a problem with LGBTQ, but you have a problem with polygamy. Who's fooling who here? You are always attacking our culture but embracing your colonial master's culture. African culture is coming back with full forcel and you and colonial mentality mates, wanna be white at all cost, can't stop it. Do what's best for you and stop attacking our culture. Self hating people
4:30 i really love what you said about parenting in the past
Neze is always a delight to watch. Well done 🎉
When it comes to polygamy,African men will remember culture. Is it not our culture to walk barefooted and not to go to school?
You are Vibes on Vibes watching you from Nairobi Kenya East Africa 🇰🇪😎🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
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Am team Kenya too
So enlightened!...Girl you are all that!🤏❤❤🇸🇿🇸🇿
Wow. Simply the best. Love you loads. Watching from Rochester NY USA
I love your dramatics and animation. Its just as entertaining as your story telling.
Neze my dear, you are an excellent storyteller and you do your due diligence and research. Respect. Polygamy is no longer an improvement of society. Men, if you want to have extra s*x make the wife in your matrimonial home the extraordinary. Get educated together. By the way the Arab men are now looking at monopoly with kind eyes, especially those who like peace of mind and don’t want their children kpaing themselves. Thank you Barr Neze. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Infact I love you so much you are super intelligent in analysis. I so much desired to marry a man that will marry me alone but unfortunately is only married men that are coming to me now, maybe because am advanced in age but I stud my grand to still waiting until I see a single man and that is even making it worst but no problems, God will see me through. Thanks for your intelligences. Keep it up
@@chibest3160 God bless you with yours sis
Neze, thank you for this eye opening explanation on polygamy, God bless you with greater Wisdom. Your home is preserved. I wish you the best this season.
As you said cultures change ,and with an enlighten generation today I think polygamy has lost its relevance .In days gone by I believe Polygamy was used to have plenty of children to help work on the land ,but today the average couple only want two children ,so no need for Polygamy.
Story. Which enlighten are you talking? The brainwashed, colonial mentality Africans like you? Polygamy is coming back with full force because lots of people are beginning to accept our beautiful culture
Neze i can attest you excelled in all your exams coz you are a quick thinker
Hallelujah somebody took me out 😂 Preach Neze! Take your flowers. You are indeed born for this🌹🌺
It's you our girl Barr Neze how we love hearing this intro always Neze you're a God gift to us if most people don't listen to you and change their thinking I don't know what thank you for all the researches you do for us to learn more may yhe good Lod be with you always I even learnt the full meaning of the word DNA chai a teacher at heart much respect and love for you Neze
Another Neze masterpiece! You are too much!!!
I am glued to every word from your mouth 😍😍😍
What a beautiful video! 💖 So genuine and heartfelt. Polygamy is a personal choice for both partners, and it's not about being right or wrong. It all depends on what works for the individuals involved. 🤝 It's all about mutual respect and understanding. 🌟
Polygamy only favors men, but when it comes to the women and especially children, it is pure chaos,jealousy n competition my moms cousins were raised in one and it was hell for them as the children of the polygamous home. I have heard a lot from ppl who've grown up in one, and the majority went through it.
I observed one of my uncles wives looked at the step son with so much hate so I told my uncle that I think he’s making an error but of course I’m only but a child according to him . But that doesn’t cancel the fact that there’s future disaster cooking up I know they don’t love themselves but I pray for them
@Emma_forever21 am telling you emma in these cases it's a very rare instance that situations like this works even in muslim homes which is practiced there's cases of that "hate" like there's a case in my country the 2st wife planned the r@pe/ murd€r of the 1st wife , and her children when she learned their husband wanted to bring over the 1st wife to the US to live with them they were butchered like goats people don't really understand how detrimental these choices from adults affects kids and bring unnecessary drama/pain.
@@dizdimples I pray for causins daily coz I saw the hate with my 2eyes but in the present of my uncle this particular woman would buy gifts for that same step son that she looks at with so much hate in my uncle’s mind he thinks that woman is good hmmmm
@Emma_forever21 men are usually blind when it comes to things like this it's like as long as they are comfortable, nothing else matters i pray for your cousins to no harm shall fall upon them. It shall be well. 🙏
Thank Neze, I have been researching this topic for an article for two weeks now, and your video landed on my screen as soon as I opened my phone and with the same topic. What a coincidence. ❤
My paternal grandfather married 14 wives, and what was so funny was one of his wives, and probably the most beautiful was given to him as a gift in a court. He was a court interpreter, and funny, he was the only one who could understand English from the White judge. Your storytelling is super, engaging, and truly entertaining.
I don't support polygamy. Any man who wants to practice it should look for a woman who desires it as well. The problems of polygamy are not worth it; envy, jeaously, untimely death, and generation dysfunction family is too much.
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I am officially dead.
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I was shocked when I heard that. Thank God there is no RUclips -Igbo version, or they will demonetize Neze😂😂😂😂
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These times (the 21st century) has been the most favourable to women, especially in terms of choice. In those days women were 'traded' in marriage, no courtship and she must be a virgin!
Now our daughters have the right to choose whosoever they wish to marry and also decide whether to continue to live in that union. However the key to this union for women is to be economically independent. Our grandparents weren't that privileged and tolerated so much injustice in their marital union because they can't even feed themselves!
Time Change, so people too..the age in God is one man one wife.. Jesu as change to give you peace😊😊😊
As e Dey hot! We can’t wait for the video to drop 😂. I literally abandon other videos as soon as Nezeville notification pops up.
I even grabbed a drink 😂😂😂😂😂
😂 l am guilty
I was raised in a polygamous family. We are 15 children.
All the children were fighting killing each other when our father died.
I don’t pray for my enemies to experience polygamy. My children can never experience polygamy Amen 🙏.
Nezeville, you too much with your narrative 🎉❤
It means you should be loyal to all if not remain with one be blessed nezze
You nail it ❤
More grace ❤
Queen Neze 👑 we know, our superlative damsel 👑 we know. You are saying the truth and nothing but the truth. I am just glued and listening, I am marvelled at a young girl like you could narrate tremendously what happened in my time. Not really my time but I met such in the sixties, my birth period.
Oh Neze, I love you
I like the fact that you even quoted the Quoran
Which means even Muslims are not expected to marry more than one
Thank you ❤❤
@@hadassaheatali but they preach it and consent everytime saying it is the law of their religion.
Humans will always twist things to suit their own selfish interests
@@hadassaheatali people misquote the bible for their own selfish gains without putting these clauses into consideration
You've really broken this down very well. I always ask people what the advantage of Polygamy is in the 21st Century and they've never been able to defend it except that there are more women than men and so who will marry those "extra" women that wants to be married ! Women are at a disadvantage and someone will always get the short end of the stick but like I always say to each its own ! Good Job Neze ! God bless you and your family.
I was raised by a polygamous family,my father married 6 wife's and we are 20 and I'm the only one to my mother.later my father and my mother separated,what i see in that hause i can not explain it.
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Thank you so much for speaking on this topic. I find it disturbing when I read comments of Nigerian men thinking polygamy in 2024 is a flex! It’s a shame that black men prioritize their sexuality over global power. They should put that energy into standing up for their race and making global progress rather than just using their wealth and time for polygamy, it’s okay to leave a toxic marriage but thinking polygamy is our culture is stupid because polygamy has been the cause of lots of children's mental health, traumatized experience by being raised from a dysfunctional family. Only a few Nigerian intelligent men understood this! My few Naija women know your worth!!!
Vous avez raison. J'ai aussi remarqué cette tendance là chez certains de nos hommes Africains. Lorsqu'ils ont de l'argent, au lieu de penser à faire des choses impactantes dans la société, non non. Ils préfèrent rester dans affaires de femmes et faire beaucoup d'enfants, c'est tout. Ils ne pensent qu'à eux seuls leurs plaisirs et propres intérêts. Alors qu'ils peuvent faire beaucoup de choses importantes grâce à leur succès.
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As always great delivery Neze!!!!!
Another banger💣 from the stable of Neze, the Queen of storytelling🎉
Me i don't have much to say than to give you kisses ❤. You nailed and finished this topic.
You are indeed a learned 😊
Well done Neze! You have a good heart!❤ may the wisdom of God continue to grow in you amen! 26:00
Not when i thought i was the first. Na wah o. Some people don rent house for RUclips. Neze na u do this one😂😂😂
You are full of wisdom ma. I'm glad you are part of this generation❤
God bless you Neze!
This is so educative Barrister Neze
I love this lady for her story telling 😅😅😅
Weldone Neze,u r a good Tr.More of God's blessings on you.❤
Assuming I am a muslim, I will still not partake in polygamy. I detest it. If I am dating a man and I find out he is interested in polygamy later in life, I will not marry him. My annoyance with some men, esp the married ones, when you decide to have another wife like Yul Edochie against the desires of your wife, please release all the kids she has with you to her. Some women prefer to be single mothers, praying for a responsible man than partake in polygamy. Do not impose your values on her. As for my reasons for being against polygamy, the epistles I will write may be as big as the bible, let me reserve it for another time. Polygamy for me is a no no.
Yah! Most times the women are the last to know their husbands are getting married.
Very well said my dear, it cannot be possible to maintain many women at the same time.
The society will always believe that the old wine is always better. The take is 💯 true.😊
I happened to be a daughter in law to the only son in a polygomous home,,,his real blood sister's didn't like me coz of my tribe...how could I have known that my step mother in law was my tribemate...I swear polygamy is something else,, quarrels were a day to day thing..I never saw peace I was in between fights I knew nothing about...sadly last year my hubby died..in car accident,his burial was a total mess...up to now I've never healed😢
Smh.. i am so sorry
That’s devastating sorry love pray for a smooth healing and recovery
Nezzeeee, this is for you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ from Yaoundé - Cameroon 🇨🇲
Well spoken as usual, thanks for the enlightenment.❤
Hallelujah some bady!
Why can't RUclips reward some of us who watch Videos on RUclips daily including being addicted to NEZE-Babe?
I'm not laughing o!
Awesome video thank you so much sis ❤❤
Neze stop cutting my sleep 😴 after a hard stressful night duty , touching my phone is Neze my vibrant city world news Best 🎉,waited to hear this from you our queen Neze 🎉❤❤❤, God bless us all 🙏🙏❤️
Hmmm, well loaded 🙏 and compliments of the season
Barrister Neze don land!😂
You look gorgeous ms, Neze
Neze neze i like that you deliver 😂
Chaiiiiii i just love you Big❤❤,is like am going to school, God bless and keep you for all of US
Nicely done ❤❤
You dor come again 😂😂
Happy holidays from my beloved family in Dallas Tx to your lovely family ❤
I really love watching your videos
Neze, your diction is amazing.
❤❤❤wow thanks neze
You’re an excellent storyteller 👍
My grandma had 18 only 5 reached adulthood and had children.
I always like how you introduce yourself in every topic like a sigtune...Hello Guyz, welcome to my RUclips Channel, it's me your girl, Barrister Nezeville...😅😅😅😂. It sounds so magnetic and attractive to draw attention to your channel even when one sometimes don't feel like 😅 and your contents are always very detailed and catchy, plus some humourous ingredients in it...
More grace Ma...Keep it up!
God bless you!
I love your RUclips Channel!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
You nailed it Neze
Welcome to Nezeville School of Education. ❤😊 watch be educated and entertain
Some men will hide characters probably due to poverty, which they usually display when they blow (rich) supported by their family being the only "rich" person. How do one handle that?
I love and I appreciate your comprehensive storytelling abilities so much Nezeville within this video you began with Africa particularly West Africa it's origin with polygamy and the Christian influence hence the decline of polygamy once animistic and polytheistic religions were subsided thirdly you expressed your convictions as a Christian with regards to polygamy. You even mentioned the Muslims position on polygamy as spoken from the Prophet Muhammad. With that said I learned so much and I truly appreciate all of your videos particularly this one. May God continue to bless you and may you continue to do God's work from a West African / Christian perspective
One man, one wife -period ❤
Ooh my God nezeville am happy you mentioned the Holy prophet pbuh
But back then, the same bible was used to fight against slavery.💃🏽
And this video is really informative wow!💃🏽
Men are not polygamous by nature. Exactly as Barr Neze said, they are not multitasking.
Well said. Thank you, Neze.
WAOW! You are a very intelligent and eloquent debater, Neze😊! Well delivered!