Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ This video reveals a ton of what I've been through to get to where I'm at, and the paradigm shifts I've had to make mentally to cope with the intense stress of letting go of toxic situations that were clearly "complete" - despite my inability to see it or accept it. I called this "an empath's guide" because it will speak primarily to people who are "highly sensitive" and really invest into others. If you have a huge heart that feels like it's being bruised up again and again, this video is for you. Let me know any questions, and I'll see you back next week with a VERY intense video -Owen
I just had yet another bad fight in my toxic relationship an hour ago and looking for some comfort I typed in “Rsd get out of bad relationship” and then see this video uploaded just a few hours ago. The universe really gives you what you need when you need it. Thanks Owen
Thanks Owen, this feels like it was made for me right now as I enter my "next chapter" following the end of a very positive relationship that has been super painful and challenging to move on from 🙏🏽
This video makes me sad because it seems like he’s talking about rsd’s past and how they had to move on. It almost brings me to tears. This man and his team turned my life around with the old content. He helped me more than anyone else in my life, and that’s not an exaggeration. More than any teacher I had, more than any coach, more than my father. I am SO grateful for everything I have learned from Tyler and rsd. I would probably be some lost loser chode right now if I hadn’t been lucky enough to see his old content. It sucks that young men won’t have access to it in the future. I feel like a lot of them really need it right now.
Same here - his video on "psycho trance focus" was transformative for me. I was shocked to see it taken down. Fortunately I have back-ups of much of this content - just not that video
im right there with you, i understand the shift of content though man. Trust me when i say this, the manipulative style of learning how to fuck women for the sheer sake of wanted to fuck is good and all but its doesnt help guys become men. I truly believe his new content will help the new generation be men. Old stuff was just tools on how to bang girls. Now combine the old stuff with this new stuff and now were taling ;)
What I got from this - Every time you go through a serious transition in life (or every time you are presented with one), you are fundamentally having to come to terms with your own actual mortality to a very real extent. Because in order for you to move on with life, you have to say RIP and a final goodbye to a piece of yourself that had to die, to make way for this new chapter in your life. In other words death doesn't come after life ... death is intertwined with life. Acknowledging this will make it infinitely easier to see a transition coming, and to be able to let go when it does arrive.
i've been bawling my eyes out for the past 2 hours, i lost it completely at the koby part but the whole video was a constant stream of tears. I'm praying for everyone here, life is a challenge, it is constant , and it can be debilitating. Thank you Owen.
I’m an empath, this video really resonated with me. I have a hard time letting go of relationships and tend to get taken advantage of sometimes. Thank you for your personal insight and stories. You’re right not everyone is an empath.
Holy crap. I just broke up with my gf, moved out from my parents some months ago and today, 1h before i had a little mental breakdown about everything. I hope i can get sth out of this vid
Me too lol 2 weeks ago she left me and today it hit me pretty hard she moved on from the world we shared and I'm still living in it and then I see this.. Quick edit. I've been super fucking productive it's actually pushed me to become a better person than I have in my whole life NO BULLSHIT, I'm funnelling everything I have into my own life especially because I'm young I don't have my own home or anything like that and I've gotten my self an apprenticeship, I've lost weight and toned by my body by working out fucking hard and eating 0 carbs. It's tough now but I really think that if anyone is going through the same as me, just completely remove her out of your life, the photo's the messages don't look at her social media or talk to her because you are just going to be stuck in this shitty loop and won't work on your self and move on. I've already done that, I looked at her social media and seen her new photo's that she is putting out and all of the attention she is getting and can make you as a man feel like complete shit, but it just motivates me to prove to myself that I can make her regret the decision. And all of the chumps in her DM's aren't even a fraction of the man you are. Don't get hung up on her man. It's a tough reality that she has probably already fucked dudes other than you and she hasn't even thought twice about you whilst you are choking your chicken to her old photo's and crying... Have dignity in your self and get angry! Get angry and go lift some weights, I'm going out this weekend with a good friend of mine for the first time, I downloaded tinder, started my Instagram again and I'm doing things right. The best advice I could give to anyone in the same situation is to not overthink things... Just DO IT. Don't undervalue your self and realise that not everyone is the same, some people will love you! And some people won't. I mean I have 350 followers on instagram and I don't know how but a smoking hot german model with 60k followers was looking through my instagram stories... I DON'T KNOW HOW but that sure as hell reassured me that I may not have a fucking quality life.. But I was under the scope of this super hot bird and I don't fucking know why LOL.. To some people they may just know you as plain old Joe, but to someone you just met you could be anyone.. You can change. I'm gonna hit up that model wish me luck.. I'll probably fuck it up if she actually replies that is lol I'll fill everyone in.
I’ve been looking for the right place to share this and this video has touched my life and called out to that part of me. I’m a 30-year-old man who’s had a lot of false starts and difficulties to push through, recently having to separate myself from the two closest people to me (girlfriend and best friend of over 20 years). For the second time in my life I came close to taking my own life, and even though I was/felt abandoned by those who should’ve been there for me I realized that if I follow through I would be abandoning all the people that I contribute to their lives and all the people that I would contribute to in the future. It’s the ultimate selfish act, a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Thank you for being a part of that journey that shows me how even in the smallest ways when I share myself and experiences I create peace happiness and connection in the world. Thank you Tyler.
I can't tell you how many times I've watched this video. Am going through a terrible break up right now and this video gives me perspective and hope. Thank you Owen
Owen, brother, I honestly think you're a healer in disguise. I have personally used that Ice cream analogy that Julien stated. Attachment comes from a frequency of fear. Shared History is something I feel a lot. Thanks for explaining this so clearly. "When we see red flags with rose coloured glasses, all red flags just look like flags." - Bojack Horseman Quote. May the Flow be with you, bro! This was a helpful deep dive.
That bit towards the end "if you force it and you force your way in, it will lash back out at you and hurt you in ways you can't imagine" is so true. I always have a unique understanding of the dynamics of my relationships, I recognize and can pick up on subtleties that even girls are impressed by, and I know when they're over. However, letting go is another story it can be challenging, but I know I must do it. Every time. So grateful I can always come back to these RSD breakup videos, as I'm doing now because of a breakup
I love you, Tyler. You were always with me over several breakups in my life since 2014. You are that uplifting energy that people need in their hardest moment in life. You touched my life in a very meaningful way. You alleviated me from so much pain.
"Right video at the right time" - Its funny how those RSD guys always put out the video when you need it! LOL - Seriously tho, going through this now in relationships and professionally. for anybody reading this during the "corona apocalypse" im sure you have have changes in your life in this time. Being able to be invested but then adapt is key!
Def! In the same relationship ending boat..and the pandemic has forced me to actually confront the feelings for this one with limited things going on versus going out constantly..
Whatsup Madison Monroe met your at a program I think immersion talking about how no matter what I did felt like I was bashing head against wall. Killing it now and loving it. Like you said. Keep going and write field reports ❤️
Back 3+ years later for different reasons…. My GOODNESS has this video aged well. Kudos to the team and creative direction of this video. That gimble and footwork is impressive!
Thank you for making this video! I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and 7 months about 2 weeks ago. And while it has been challenging, it has also been exciting to look at where I’ve come since the time the relationship started and where I need to be going. Your video has been a valuable addition to my moving on process, especially with the aspect of forgiving my girlfriend and moving on from her.
Owen, words can't adequately express how helpful this video was for me, at this exact point in my life. I had been going through great pain, as a chapter of my life has recently ended, and I could not understand what happened or why I kept looping on this chapter of my life that was over. I couldn't understand why the other person involved saw things in such a bizarre way and why or how they were so transactional about it being over. I knew they were a narcissist, so I understood that part of things but I couldn't understand why I couldn't get past what had happened, even though it had been such a bad situation for so long. Your statement that we need to cultivate the ability to let go and transition to the next chapter of our life was like a voice from God that finally made clear to me what was going on inside of me. I truly can't even verbalize how helpful this video was for me. As a fellow empath, I know exactly the type of pain you were describing and I now see that this was my exact hang up as well. I've always preferred to have those deep bonds and shared history with others over getting to the next rung in life, so everytime I encountered the end of a relationship with someone who was on the other end of the spectrum, I went through this painful process at many different points in my life too. Thanks to you and this video, I now see that this pattern has occurred throughout my life, and I didn't even see the pattern until now. Thanks to you, I now know that letting go of these relationships and situations is simply something I need to develop, while striking a balance of also valuing the relationships and situations that I experience, during each chapter. Thank you, Owen, this is going to sound cheesy, but this video truly changed my life for the better, in a very deep and very personal way. You literally described exactly what has been so painful for me for so long, and I couldn't put my finger on it until you described it in this video. Listening to you describe exactly what I had been going through was almost spooky. The fact that you made the solution so clear, in this video, when I could not figure out why I had been struggling for so long, has been valuable beyond words. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Owen!
The story at the end resonated with me on a personal level. I was with a person who I still care for deeply but as we grew apart it became increasingly painful despite my best efforts to repair what was already lost. They weren’t my first love but it was the person I truly learned what love is on a deeper level and I’m grateful for that. Now I’m finally learning the appreciation for the transition towards something greater, for myself and her, but also having immense gratitude towards what we shared together. Thanks for the great content and it was cool seeing part of Miami!
I'm a fairly sentimental person and I tend to get attached to things. During transitions in dating or career I always feel quite emotional so I always go back to this video when this happens
Im 50 and your philosophy has help me to unravel out of the bs. I'm proud follower from the first the very first pua summit now slowly mutating into pure transformation and realization
I never leave comments,but I had to this time. just want to say thank u. Even though in my heart I kinda felt what u said hearing u say it really helped me brought me tears and helped me c things clearly again. So thank u for that moment we shared. Even though we've never really met. Now lm ready to continue in my life's purpose here in El Paso Tx . You made a huge impact in this chapter in my life
Owen is the big brother full of wisdom so many of us need but never had! Just broke up with my girlfriend a week ago and this video was exactly what I needed. Thanks for making the world a better place!
I’ve experienced most of his points on R.A.S It is definitely levels to awareness/consciousness. You can surprise yourself how much you don’t see/understand about your life experiences with others.
Wouldn't you know it. Just ended a four year relationship a few days ago and here comes Owen with the deep talk on it. Did RSD bug my House or something? Love everything you do, dude.
My ex of 7 years and I just broke up and I’m currently going through a hard transition. Call it cosmic order or whatever you want to call it but this video hit different. Thank you Owen!
Thank you so much for this. This is what I’ve been needing for weeks now, and you’ve given it to me. The last few minutes of the video where you said “let go” made me tear up a bit. There’s a greater reality waiting for me, and it’s time I embrace it ❤️
The other benefit to people's ego that comes from focussing on the negatives and blowing them out of proportion is that it draws attention away from the areas inwhich they are responsible for the bad things in their life. By villifying you they make themselves the hero of their own story. Because if they were to acknowledge responsibility for their own mistakes they'd have to change. If the ego has to change then it will literally die in that it ceases to be that which it was. So it's kind of ironic that they push you away to try and grow themselves and look out for their own self interests when the way inwhich they do it means they will likely not change and end up repeating the same mistakes. Then when this bad situation or relationship reoccurs they'll think they're just unlucky or cursed. This is how karma works and it's sad to see. Don't let yourself fall victim to your unwillingness to take responsibility and don't let other people decide who you are based on their own insecurities.
Owen! Thank you for this video. Back in 2018 I commented your video " Dead At 40 : Tyler’s Motivational Speech..." to which you replied with "Fantastic.." because I was happier than ever before at that time because I was dating a 23 year old woman (I was 46) for about two months then. I started to love her unconditionally, it was just that good. But one month later, she broke up with me, out of the blue. It sounds ridicolous, but that breakup shattered my whole world and soul. About half a year later we met up again, but unfortunately she did something that hurt me emotionally unlike anything I ever had to endure in my life. Basically by hooking up with another guy right in front of me on the festival where we met up. There were days I didn't believe I could survive this pain. I am in therapy since last December. I try to figure out my attachment style. I have a hard time to trust women again. At least I started to cultivate more self love. I am slowly getting better. This video was adressing my incredible pain and I want to thank you for sharing your story. I hope one day I can see that it was a good thing for me to happen :-/ Love you, Owen! Thank you.
This may be redundant to say but at your age it's best not to look for younger than 35 in a partner. Higher chances of success. Not saying you're "old" but most relationships have 3-4 year age gaps.
I wonder how many suicides have been prevented because of Owen cook and the RSD team. Literally, amazingly wonderful work you're all doing for the greater good. If i where in charge of the Nobel prize committee, RSD would receive one.
Age 15 time so slow, age 30 unlimited time and giant opportunity, age 40 there's an end for everything ( even kingdom ) , age 45 time is really running low - no time to grief or delay anything ,
I am blown away at the depth of these videos, I started watching about a month ago. I have worked on myself for over 30 years and been a professional speaker all over the world, and highly respect your understanding of the multilevel areas of life and growth. I am highly impressed by your work, it touches my soul and speaks to me like I have no seminar, no mentor or training do. Like you get me. I believe I am an empath who has been so wounded and has hidden my heart - I just went through a tough tough breakup due to cheating and lying. I tried to bring him back and he did not "invest" and therefore I don't know what his reason for being with me is (financial, sex) not sure! After I caught him in more lies, I unfollowed him and told him he is not someone I want in my circle. He then blocked me on everything, losing the comments etc over the last 3 years. I know other coaches say NO CONTACT and yes I get that, but I do love him deeply, yet maybe it is codependency. Like you say, I think it is no big deal to him to just throw the baby out with the bathwater. I meditate 2-3 hours a day and agree when you say learning to transition is key because what is coming is beyond what we imagine...I realize my fear and my trauma around loss, being unloved, not enough, and controlling the environment. My drive to make a lot of money may be due to "proving" myself so i can get validation from my parents, who are dead by the way. I love, love , love this video and thank you for sharing it.
Thank you, Owen, for everything you do. For many years now your videos have been the first I go to after a breakup. I was recently broken up with today, after trying to make it work for a series of months. This video really resonated with me and has helped me to transition onwards. The spooky and perhaps spiritual thing about this video, is that after watching it, I noticed that it was released it on my birthday. A sign perhaps. Thanks again. You're my hero.
Just lost my mentor, and whom I considered to be my "twin flame". I don't know what I would have done without this video, thanks again Owen!! Love you man!
I broke up 2 months ago and unfortunately had to do it on a call because of the pandemic, since our families live in different cities and we are both with them right now. I have not seen her yet, the last time we saw each other we were still dating. I actually haven't seen any girl since we broke up cause the pandemic is very strong where I live. This video was really helpful, made me see more clearly that things are going to be fine and I will eventually have my moment of being in a higher level, even if it takes some time. In the long run, it is the best thing that could ever happen to me. THANK YOU OWEN. Not only for this video, but for everything. You really helped me transform my life. I will meet you live one day to thank you for everything. Good vibes from Brazil!
Hey Owen I can’t even imagine how long these videos might take to create and I’m really appreciate all the free value but just a suggestion, maybe add timestamps in the description that might help people consume it
@Paul Henn It's a suggestion for him cause he's barely getting the views on this that it deserves because I would assume a lot of people would just click on it see it's over an hour and not even watch it. He is producing for us to consume, that's what this is. You are a consumer in this transaction. Lol don't even talk to me about the consumer mind.
The past year I graduated high school and lost my girlfriend, my grade, my close friends, my school which I've attended since KA, and my community. I knew I was ready, and yet I've still had trouble feeling like I just wanted to go back in time. Every once in a while nowadays, I'll look back at childhood photos just to remind myself of who I am. The passion in your voice at 1:06:11 brought tears to my eyes. Thank you Mr. Cook for connecting with me through this amazing technology, even though we've never met, it means the world. To see someone care as deeply as I do. Love to you and your people
Ohhhhh man seriously the power of the universe is unimaginable !! This is exactly what I needed in this moment of life!! I can’t believe how this vid came into my presence!! You are definitely on a higher level bro!! Thank you so much!
thanks for it owen. i got dumped few months ago after 4 years of relationship with my gf. now i can see clearly why i got dumped by her. its a vibration thing. beginning of a relationship , i was mysogynist prick and doesnt know how to show love etc, and she was insecure and anxious all the time about life and everything. After years pass by, because she was so in love with me i tried to change and started to show her my emotions more or give her more gifts but everytime i do it, as you said, she didnt treat me good. on the contrary she treat me bad, and was making every little situation an argument. so i was losing control and cursing (i know its not a good behavour) then she was blaming me after for cursing and getting angry. last year i did all i can for her, and i got spiritual awakening, i got into buddhism and taoism stuff. i was changing. but since i was changing for more good, i could see she was not. and after two months of break up i can see she was gaslighting me. maybe she was not doing it with purose but she was acting in someway. before this video i was blaming me because i was thinking like, now i am a changed person and not afraid to show love, why the fuck she left me. she doesnt want this high vibration energy. now its clear. she left me because i left nothing for her to complain about. or be anxious about. thanks owen for this video. nobody gives this kind of information in internet for the empaths. thanks .
This is the happiest Ive been in my life and thank you for letting me know Im on the right path. Also thank you for preparing me for my next series of lets go's.
I know I'm late with the comment but, your explanations about how empaths see relationships vs other people was a mind blowing and eye opening truth to me, this is the type of content I like to see from you
You are on the fire! At this moment most masculine ginger in the world. One day will be deep study about all teachings you are delivering and we are blessed to learn it now from the master. Kidaj brate , love from Serbia
Hey Owen, i don’t know if you’d actually end up reading this, but in my opinion, this video has been one of the most amazing videos I’ve ever seen from you. I have recently had someone who I had imagined the rest of my life with, somewhat abruptly break up with me. I had been bitter and and some times pathetic in my reaction and all in all, completely fail to recognise their side of the story. After watching your video I finally recognise many mistakes i had made along with red flags I was willing to over look because I had tried so hard to keep it together. My dating life hasn’t been easy due to the many reasons but i think my upbringing had a part to play, never having a proper father figure, and i would remember watching to your old videos and believing i could take on the world. I have never bought any rsd product or package but your insights have been a better life coach than anything I’ve ever had in my life. I love the new direction of videos you’re doing to show people how social dynamics isn’t anything like the stigmatic cliche of a sleazy guy picking up girls but more about how how to control your interactions with people. Thank you Owen
oh man... I burst out crying for good 20 minutes when you talked about your ex girfriend, your realization that it's over and the good days aren't coming back. I've been with my gf for 5 years and the breakup is pretty fresh. I relate so fucking much to your story. It's kinda freaky how similar it is. Your ending remarks give me hope and I'm learning to embrace the quantum leap on this cosmic journey. Thank you!
You are literally walking me through a raw fresh break up. Everything you are saying about them is true, right on the nose. Thank you for making me feel less crazy. He held me back for years and then was the one who left me after I changed over and over again. It was always something else I was doing wrong, once we worked through something there was another. Just wow. Thank you. 💖🙏💔
Timing of this is just crazy. Been two weeks since I'm out of what I can see clearly now was a toxic relationship. Finally feeling joy with the shift that's happening and a deep knowing I'm getting back on the right path!
anybody else feeling like Owen's taking us on vacation with his videos? 20% into the video and I realized that I could literally feel the beach salty smell, the morning cool breeze, the sand under my feet... all of that while hanging out with Owen and getting some wisdom passed onto 🥰🙏
Oh great topic. I’ve done SO many transitions: lived in 5 different countries changed jobs and companies, but the hardest transition, breakup from my fiancé which in itself was going to be a transition to a different life in another country from where I was living. But as you’ve started out, it’s all about being solid in where you are on the inside. The outside stuff doesn’t matter. It really doesn’t. Thanks for the good content !
Going through his right now, 8 years together 4 years married, build multiple business, invest so mush into each other. Now we are separate and she don't speak anymore, I haven't came to terms yet, I guess I am waiting for her to come back but I have to get back to my self and accept
Owen, I started watching your videos 3-4 months ago after the worst breakup and turbulent transition I have had in my life up until this point. All your videos have been extremely helpful, but this one has seriously hit home in ways that I cant express in text on a chat box in youtube. I just want to sincerely thank you for all that you do with your content. You are making waves on this planet. You are making waves in my life. I feel at peace after watching this in ways that I haven't been able too since my breakup, as I have been still struggling about 6 months later to let go of my ex-girlfriend, and more broadly, the lifestyle that came with that relationship. I wish you the best my friend. Thank you.
Thanks Owen. Been watching you for about 4 years now. I feel like I can relate to a lot of what you say. I appreciate your work over the last four years. I too had the experience today where I looked at her, and just knew it was over. It is a sad, but surreal moment that you are actually ready to move on. It's funny how the world works. After watching this video, I was going to google "How to raise your Vibration Owen RSD", and i saw that it was the "Up Next" video. I too believe in a sense of energy and I feel like I am on the same path as you because of the way you talk about things. And to top it off, Kobe Bryant was my hero too. Thanks again.
Timeless video, watching it for the second time after 5 months and going through exactly everything you said. The transition is beautiful and all the pain of letting go has done is set me free and increase my love for the people i let go of, no pain, no attachement, just love and healing Stay frosty yall
Great video. When you have invested so much into someone and then one day you realise they want to move on from you (aka abandon you), it can be terribly traumatic... The good news is, when you fight through the pain and suffering, and you find the strength to survive and move on with your life independently... you will ultimately come out of it all stronger and tougher than you were before. Nice vid and good luck to others going through similar tough times. 🙏
hey thank you owen...i remember the first days of RSD...and then growing myself, only to see similar people going on similar paths. it's nice to see youre not alone
Actually moving out from my parents was the hardest because I get along with my brothers way more than my friends. Hard to find people who have similar interests. Sad reality is realizing you will now see them once a week instead of every day
This video feels custom made for me and the situation I'm in currently. Once again, sensational content, and answered every question I had. Please continue to provide this value and amazing content. Thank you Owen
Greeting from vacation cabin in the woods of northern Sweden! Your vids just had a major impact on me, especially this one and the All Eggs in One Basket video, and I just want to extent my gratitude. To me, it applies to my current business problems and this truly helped me find my way back to myself, letting go of my needs, accepting that the business partnership might end, seeing the solutions and understanding how my ego is also responsible for my partner not pulling his weight and looking elsewhere. I'll diversify as soon as I get back home, and I'm quite sure that everything will be OK no matter what happens externally. I could not see the solution until you and Tolle gave me the pointers I needed. I had all eggs in one basket and I almost became insane :) I can enjoy life now, THANKS BRO
Loved this video so much. Each part of the video I’ve resonated with. Thank you Owen. Dealing with a tough breakup and each part of the video made helped this make more sense
A quality garden and a place of rest reflects a quality life of vitality and abundance, of the crops have no time to rest the dirt will be less than what it could be. Look within your soil and see what quality of fruit is being produced.
I feel like you really come into your own from 43:00 and out here Owen. Everything from this point resonates with me, and reminds me of some of your best content. I'll make sure to rewatch it several times to really pick up on the meaning of this section. I just want to mention some points that have been bugging me about your recent content, which I hope can be constructive and help your message come across even better in the future (because I really want you to reach as many people as possible): 1. Your most popular videos seem to be at around 30mins or below. I think this is largely because you've set out a clear plan for what to talk about (or edit it heavily), which the audience picks up on. (also it might be that most people are not willing to allocate 1+ hour to a video) 2. I remember you mentioning one of the reasons you record your videos in nature, is to convey a sense of extra inspiration in addition to your talks. I really agree with that being a net positive. In your current content the filming is definitely more professional now than before, however I think the editing is lacking, as cuts where random people are looking into the camera (in this video and others) are numerous. Also I really don't care for the endless shots of your primary cameraman in front of you, which is spoiling a bit too much of "how the sausage is made" for my taste. Looking forward to your future videos, and thank you for all the knowledge you've shared with me in these transitional periods where I really needed it.
Thanks brother! Sadly this shot had a lot of issues with the primary shot. We had been up all night and were shooting in the morning, basically "punch drunk" lol. So we had to overdo the b-reel and side shots. Also major lighting shifts we had to work around. Every time you go from shadow to light, the ISO needs to be changed, which is a pain. The auto-ISO is not worth using. So that's the "behind the scenes" of why that occurs! Thanks for the props man! -Owen
Owen Im going to talk about the rawest aspect for me in my recent breakup and I’ve just only recently realized this but it was the sheer humiliation I felt. My GF of two years flipped on me in a public and toxic way. I’ve only recently been able to forgive her and its almost taboo to mention I feel like but I am Christian by upbringing and share a lot of the values and I’ve prayed to God and prayed for my ex and only recently within the last week after a year of suffering been able to truly forgive her. I recommend a book on this topic, a survivor of the Rwandan genocide decided to forgive the same people that tortured and killed her family its called Left to Tell by Imaculee Ilabagiza. This comment loves you Tyler
I was literally tripping on 200 micrograms of LSD with my on-and-off girlfriend of eight years (we had lived together for five) - in a hotel room that we had rented for our "last" hookup before breaking up, so that she could find clarity (and possibly be in a relationship with another guy that she has been seeing) - when coming across this video this with her. We had just spent 12 hours of intense conflict regarding our history and my refusal to let her go. She has been horrible to me for a while now, just as explained in this video; and I have been chasing her relentlessly. She is home now, after deciding to take a break from seeing each other for at least a month; and she has asked for the link to the video. We have both listened twice, now (I have listened three times); and have been amazed at the synchronicity.
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This video reveals a ton of what I've been through to get to where I'm at, and the paradigm shifts I've had to make mentally to cope with the intense stress of letting go of toxic situations that were clearly "complete" - despite my inability to see it or accept it. I called this "an empath's guide" because it will speak primarily to people who are "highly sensitive" and really invest into others. If you have a huge heart that feels like it's being bruised up again and again, this video is for you. Let me know any questions, and I'll see you back next week with a VERY intense video -Owen
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I just had yet another bad fight in my toxic relationship an hour ago and looking for some comfort I typed in “Rsd get out of bad relationship” and then see this video uploaded just a few hours ago. The universe really gives you what you need when you need it. Thanks Owen
Thanks Owen, this feels like it was made for me right now as I enter my "next chapter" following the end of a very positive relationship that has been super painful and challenging to move on from 🙏🏽
so should an empath date differently? what do we do??!
Owen, the part about the 'life contracts' around 39:17, how did you come to this? Can you expand on that? I'm very curious about it!
This video makes me sad because it seems like he’s talking about rsd’s past and how they had to move on. It almost brings me to tears. This man and his team turned my life around with the old content. He helped me more than anyone else in my life, and that’s not an exaggeration. More than any teacher I had, more than any coach, more than my father. I am SO grateful for everything I have learned from Tyler and rsd. I would probably be some lost loser chode right now if I hadn’t been lucky enough to see his old content. It sucks that young men won’t have access to it in the future. I feel like a lot of them really need it right now.
Same here - his video on "psycho trance focus" was transformative for me. I was shocked to see it taken down. Fortunately I have back-ups of much of this content - just not that video
Silent E Psycho trans what?
@Zab Gates where can we find it bro!!
im right there with you, i understand the shift of content though man. Trust me when i say this, the manipulative style of learning how to fuck women for the sheer sake of wanted to fuck is good and all but its doesnt help guys become men. I truly believe his new content will help the new generation be men. Old stuff was just tools on how to bang girls. Now combine the old stuff with this new stuff and now were taling ;)
we must urge owen to reupload his old content , was his old content regarding the spiritual , dating , social or financial realm ?
What I got from this - Every time you go through a serious transition in life (or every time you are presented with one), you are fundamentally having to come to terms with your own actual mortality to a very real extent. Because in order for you to move on with life, you have to say RIP and a final goodbye to a piece of yourself that had to die, to make way for this new chapter in your life. In other words death doesn't come after life ... death is intertwined with life. Acknowledging this will make it infinitely easier to see a transition coming, and to be able to let go when it does arrive.
Very wise doomsquid. Thank you
i've been bawling my eyes out for the past 2 hours, i lost it completely at the koby part but the whole video was a constant stream of tears.
I'm praying for everyone here, life is a challenge, it is constant , and it can be debilitating. Thank you Owen.
I feel your struggle Mike. But we keep on going and trusting the process. We stay strong, brother.
I’m an empath, this video really resonated with me. I have a hard time letting go of relationships and tend to get taken advantage of sometimes. Thank you for your personal insight and stories. You’re right not everyone is an empath.
Close your aura
Holy crap. I just broke up with my gf, moved out from my parents some months ago and today, 1h before i had a little mental breakdown about everything. I hope i can get sth out of this vid
You got this bro -Owen
Actually its the first ever video i watched from you. What a coinsidence. I at 20min so far btw
I made it to min 55! Thank you a lot Owen🤟
Litteraly my situation right now
Me too lol 2 weeks ago she left me and today it hit me pretty hard she moved on from the world we shared and I'm still living in it and then I see this..
Quick edit. I've been super fucking productive it's actually pushed me to become a better person than I have in my whole life NO BULLSHIT, I'm funnelling everything I have into my own life especially because I'm young I don't have my own home or anything like that and I've gotten my self an apprenticeship, I've lost weight and toned by my body by working out fucking hard and eating 0 carbs. It's tough now but I really think that if anyone is going through the same as me, just completely remove her out of your life, the photo's the messages don't look at her social media or talk to her because you are just going to be stuck in this shitty loop and won't work on your self and move on.
I've already done that, I looked at her social media and seen her new photo's that she is putting out and all of the attention she is getting and can make you as a man feel like complete shit, but it just motivates me to prove to myself that I can make her regret the decision. And all of the chumps in her DM's aren't even a fraction of the man you are. Don't get hung up on her man. It's a tough reality that she has probably already fucked dudes other than you and she hasn't even thought twice about you whilst you are choking your chicken to her old photo's and crying... Have dignity in your self and get angry! Get angry and go lift some weights, I'm going out this weekend with a good friend of mine for the first time, I downloaded tinder, started my Instagram again and I'm doing things right. The best advice I could give to anyone in the same situation is to not overthink things... Just DO IT. Don't undervalue your self and realise that not everyone is the same, some people will love you! And some people won't. I mean I have 350 followers on instagram and I don't know how but a smoking hot german model with 60k followers was looking through my instagram stories... I DON'T KNOW HOW but that sure as hell reassured me that I may not have a fucking quality life.. But I was under the scope of this super hot bird and I don't fucking know why LOL.. To some people they may just know you as plain old Joe, but to someone you just met you could be anyone.. You can change.
I'm gonna hit up that model wish me luck.. I'll probably fuck it up if she actually replies that is lol I'll fill everyone in.
I’ve been looking for the right place to share this and this video has touched my life and called out to that part of me. I’m a 30-year-old man who’s had a lot of false starts and difficulties to push through, recently having to separate myself from the two closest people to me (girlfriend and best friend of over 20 years). For the second time in my life I came close to taking my own life, and even though I was/felt abandoned by those who should’ve been there for me I realized that if I follow through I would be abandoning all the people that I contribute to their lives and all the people that I would contribute to in the future. It’s the ultimate selfish act, a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Thank you for being a part of that journey that shows me how even in the smallest ways when I share myself and experiences I create peace happiness and connection in the world. Thank you Tyler.
Thanks for sharing this man. Keep contributing and helping others with your story :)
I feel ya bro... Look after yaself, onwards n upwards
Iso has made my break up really tough too.. Just gotta tell yourself it can only get better. BTW thanks for the Video Owen..
Thank you for sharing this. Much love to you
How's it going man?
I can't tell you how many times I've watched this video. Am going through a terrible break up right now and this video gives me perspective and hope. Thank you Owen
“If you keep re-reading the chapter, you’re never gonna finish the book.”
That perspective man. Damn 💯
Owen, brother, I honestly think you're a healer in disguise. I have personally used that Ice cream analogy that Julien stated. Attachment comes from a frequency of fear. Shared History is something I feel a lot. Thanks for explaining this so clearly. "When we see red flags with rose coloured glasses, all red flags just look like flags." - Bojack Horseman Quote. May the Flow be with you, bro! This was a helpful deep dive.
That bit towards the end "if you force it and you force your way in, it will lash back out at you and hurt you in ways you can't imagine" is so true. I always have a unique understanding of the dynamics of my relationships, I recognize and can pick up on subtleties that even girls are impressed by, and I know when they're over. However, letting go is another story it can be challenging, but I know I must do it. Every time. So grateful I can always come back to these RSD breakup videos, as I'm doing now because of a breakup
I love you, Tyler. You were always with me over several breakups in my life since 2014. You are that uplifting energy that people need in their hardest moment in life. You touched my life in a very meaningful way. You alleviated me from so much pain.
"Right video at the right time" - Its funny how those RSD guys always put out the video when you need it! LOL - Seriously tho, going through this now in relationships and professionally. for anybody reading this during the "corona apocalypse" im sure you have have changes in your life in this time. Being able to be invested but then adapt is key!
Elbows in the mud my man
Def! In the same relationship ending boat..and the pandemic has forced me to actually confront the feelings for this one with limited things going on versus going out constantly..
Same boat over here lol
Incredible
Whatsup Madison Monroe met your at a program I think immersion talking about how no matter what I did felt like I was bashing head against wall. Killing it now and loving it. Like you said. Keep going and write field reports ❤️
Thank you! I swear to God i got chills just by seeing the title of this video... I can already tell it's great content! ❤️
Thank you Rey! -Owen
@@OwenCookSelfHelp what date was this video recorded?
Back 3+ years later for different reasons…. My GOODNESS has this video aged well. Kudos to the team and creative direction of this video. That gimble and footwork is impressive!
Thank you for making this video! I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and 7 months about 2 weeks ago. And while it has been challenging, it has also been exciting to look at where I’ve come since the time the relationship started and where I need to be going. Your video has been a valuable addition to my moving on process, especially with the aspect of forgiving my girlfriend and moving on from her.
Owen, words can't adequately express how helpful this video was for me, at this exact point in my life. I had been going through great pain, as a chapter of my life has recently ended, and I could not understand what happened or why I kept looping on this chapter of my life that was over. I couldn't understand why the other person involved saw things in such a bizarre way and why or how they were so transactional about it being over. I knew they were a narcissist, so I understood that part of things but I couldn't understand why I couldn't get past what had happened, even though it had been such a bad situation for so long.
Your statement that we need to cultivate the ability to let go and transition to the next chapter of our life was like a voice from God that finally made clear to me what was going on inside of me. I truly can't even verbalize how helpful this video was for me. As a fellow empath, I know exactly the type of pain you were describing and I now see that this was my exact hang up as well.
I've always preferred to have those deep bonds and shared history with others over getting to the next rung in life, so everytime I encountered the end of a relationship with someone who was on the other end of the spectrum, I went through this painful process at many different points in my life too.
Thanks to you and this video, I now see that this pattern has occurred throughout my life, and I didn't even see the pattern until now. Thanks to you, I now know that letting go of these relationships and situations is simply something I need to develop, while striking a balance of also valuing the relationships and situations that I experience, during each chapter.
Thank you, Owen, this is going to sound cheesy, but this video truly changed my life for the better, in a very deep and very personal way. You literally described exactly what has been so painful for me for so long, and I couldn't put my finger on it until you described it in this video. Listening to you describe exactly what I had been going through was almost spooky. The fact that you made the solution so clear, in this video, when I could not figure out why I had been struggling for so long, has been valuable beyond words. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Owen!
Thanks for sharing. This resonates completely with what I'm going through now. Owen provided such a good answer here.
The story at the end resonated with me on a personal level. I was with a person who I still care for deeply but as we grew apart it became increasingly painful despite my best efforts to repair what was already lost. They weren’t my first love but it was the person I truly learned what love is on a deeper level and I’m grateful for that. Now I’m finally learning the appreciation for the transition towards something greater, for myself and her, but also having immense gratitude towards what we shared together. Thanks for the great content and it was cool seeing part of Miami!
I think you made this for me man. My relationship ended 2 hours before you posted this. Just crazy!
I'm a fairly sentimental person and I tend to get attached to things. During transitions in dating or career I always feel quite emotional so I always go back to this video when this happens
Thank you owen this is exactly what i needed to hear, i know u will never read this, god bless your soul
Amazing content man!! 👊
Well well well, if it is isn't JULIEN BLANC
@@10010011001100110101 OH NOO! TO THE BUNKERS! LET'S HIDE OUR WIVES AND OUR CHILDREN! 😂
It´s crazy how, being an empath or being focused on RSA is so related to the law of attraction and so to the things that we accept in our lifes
Im 50 and your philosophy has help me to unravel out of the bs. I'm proud follower from the first the very first pua summit now slowly mutating into pure transformation and realization
Going trough the worst break up of my life and this pops up. Thank you Owen.
I never leave comments,but I had to this time. just want to say thank u. Even though in my heart I kinda felt what u said hearing u say it really helped me brought me tears and helped me c things clearly again. So thank u for that moment we shared. Even though we've never really met. Now lm ready to continue in my life's purpose here in El Paso Tx . You made a huge impact in this chapter in my life
Everything in my life has crumbled. Long time follower. You have no idea how much I need this. Love you Tyler
Owen is the big brother full of wisdom so many of us need but never had! Just broke up with my girlfriend a week ago and this video was exactly what I needed. Thanks for making the world a better place!
I’ve experienced most of his points on R.A.S
It is definitely levels to awareness/consciousness. You can surprise yourself how much you don’t see/understand about your life experiences with others.
Wouldn't you know it. Just ended a four year relationship a few days ago and here comes Owen with the deep talk on it. Did RSD bug my House or something? Love everything you do, dude.
My ex of 7 years and I just broke up and I’m currently going through a hard transition. Call it cosmic order or whatever you want to call it but this video hit different. Thank you Owen!
You got this bro.
stay strong g
I’m right there with you too!
What a gift! You get to explore yourself and marvel at the world with fresh eyes now :D
Keep us updated, are you still dating, married, gym bro gains?
Thank you so much for this. This is what I’ve been needing for weeks now, and you’ve given it to me. The last few minutes of the video where you said “let go” made me tear up a bit. There’s a greater reality waiting for me, and it’s time I embrace it ❤️
How could you not love Owen most humble and transparent life coach on this earth ❤️
The other benefit to people's ego that comes from focussing on the negatives and blowing them out of proportion is that it draws attention away from the areas inwhich they are responsible for the bad things in their life. By villifying you they make themselves the hero of their own story. Because if they were to acknowledge responsibility for their own mistakes they'd have to change. If the ego has to change then it will literally die in that it ceases to be that which it was. So it's kind of ironic that they push you away to try and grow themselves and look out for their own self interests when the way inwhich they do it means they will likely not change and end up repeating the same mistakes. Then when this bad situation or relationship reoccurs they'll think they're just unlucky or cursed. This is how karma works and it's sad to see. Don't let yourself fall victim to your unwillingness to take responsibility and don't let other people decide who you are based on their own insecurities.
The timing is just impeccable.
Owen! Thank you for this video. Back in 2018 I commented your video "
Dead At 40 : Tyler’s Motivational Speech..." to which you replied with "Fantastic.." because I was happier than ever before at that time because I was dating a 23 year old woman (I was 46) for about two months then. I started to love her unconditionally, it was just that good. But one month later, she broke up with me, out of the blue. It sounds ridicolous, but that breakup shattered my whole world and soul. About half a year later we met up again, but unfortunately she did something that hurt me emotionally unlike anything I ever had to endure in my life. Basically by hooking up with another guy right in front of me on the festival where we met up. There were days I didn't believe I could survive this pain. I am in therapy since last December. I try to figure out my attachment style. I have a hard time to trust women again. At least I started to cultivate more self love. I am slowly getting better. This video was adressing my incredible pain and I want to thank you for sharing your story. I hope one day I can see that it was a good thing for me to happen :-/ Love you, Owen! Thank you.
You got this man. You can always attain higher if you believe.
This may be redundant to say but at your age it's best not to look for younger than 35 in a partner. Higher chances of success. Not saying you're "old" but most relationships have 3-4 year age gaps.
Painful . Letting go of that will help you become even more unconditionally loving . Much love
I wonder how many suicides have been prevented because of Owen cook and the RSD team. Literally, amazingly wonderful work you're all doing for the greater good. If i where in charge of the Nobel prize committee, RSD would receive one.
Wtf am I in a simulation. I just broke up a day ago, and all of a sudden theres breakup videos on my recommends. This is wicked
transitioning is a part of life and letting go is not easy but it is something you have to do propel to the next level and heal.
I just wanted to sincerely thank you for making this video Owen. It is truly life-changing as corny as that sounds.
just wanna thank you owen, you`re the most inspiring guy i`ve ever seen in life, such a beautiful soul, much love from austria
Age 15 time so slow, age 30 unlimited time and giant opportunity, age 40 there's an end for everything ( even kingdom ) , age 45 time is really running low - no time to grief or delay anything ,
I am blown away at the depth of these videos, I started watching about a month ago. I have worked on myself for over 30 years and been a professional speaker all over the world, and highly respect your understanding of the multilevel areas of life and growth. I am highly impressed by your work, it touches my soul and speaks to me like I have no seminar, no mentor or training do. Like you get me. I believe I am an empath who has been so wounded and has hidden my heart - I just went through a tough tough breakup due to cheating and lying. I tried to bring him back and he did not "invest" and therefore I don't know what his reason for being with me is (financial, sex) not sure! After I caught him in more lies, I unfollowed him and told him he is not someone I want in my circle. He then blocked me on everything, losing the comments etc over the last 3 years. I know other coaches say NO CONTACT and yes I get that, but I do love him deeply, yet maybe it is codependency. Like you say, I think it is no big deal to him to just throw the baby out with the bathwater. I meditate 2-3 hours a day and agree when you say learning to transition is key because what is coming is beyond what we imagine...I realize my fear and my trauma around loss, being unloved, not enough, and controlling the environment. My drive to make a lot of money may be due to "proving" myself so i can get validation from my parents, who are dead by the way. I love, love , love this video and thank you for sharing it.
Thank you, Owen, for everything you do. For many years now your videos have been the first I go to after a breakup. I was recently broken up with today, after trying to make it work for a series of months. This video really resonated with me and has helped me to transition onwards. The spooky and perhaps spiritual thing about this video, is that after watching it, I noticed that it was released it on my birthday. A sign perhaps. Thanks again. You're my hero.
Just lost my mentor, and whom I considered to be my "twin flame". I don't know what I would have done without this video, thanks again Owen!! Love you man!
Dude, I lost my father recently and this hits hard!
I broke up 2 months ago and unfortunately had to do it on a call because of the pandemic, since our families live in different cities and we are both with them right now. I have not seen her yet, the last time we saw each other we were still dating. I actually haven't seen any girl since we broke up cause the pandemic is very strong where I live. This video was really helpful, made me see more clearly that things are going to be fine and I will eventually have my moment of being in a higher level, even if it takes some time. In the long run, it is the best thing that could ever happen to me. THANK YOU OWEN. Not only for this video, but for everything. You really helped me transform my life. I will meet you live one day to thank you for everything. Good vibes from Brazil!
It's not out there homie. It's in here. I AM with you
Thanks Owen gonna watch this as soon as i can. Just broke up with my gf 3 days ago and this video just got released. Perfect timing
Hey Owen I can’t even imagine how long these videos might take to create and I’m really appreciate all the free value but just a suggestion, maybe add timestamps in the description that might help people consume it
Some people will add value and create timestamps for others so that like minded people will benefit.
@Paul Henn It's a suggestion for him cause he's barely getting the views on this that it deserves because I would assume a lot of people would just click on it see it's over an hour and not even watch it. He is producing for us to consume, that's what this is. You are a consumer in this transaction. Lol don't even talk to me about the consumer mind.
I rather just sit through the whole thing.
If you cant sit and benefit through the whole thing then timestamps will not help you
Thank you, Father O! Greetings from Poland.
i never loved any content like this deep sharing of thoughts
it's so rare to find people like you man
thx for existing in this world owen
The past year I graduated high school and lost my girlfriend, my grade, my close friends, my school which I've attended since KA, and my community. I knew I was ready, and yet I've still had trouble feeling like I just wanted to go back in time. Every once in a while nowadays, I'll look back at childhood photos just to remind myself of who I am.
The passion in your voice at 1:06:11 brought tears to my eyes. Thank you Mr. Cook for connecting with me through this amazing technology, even though we've never met, it means the world. To see someone care as deeply as I do. Love to you and your people
Ohhhhh man seriously the power of the universe is unimaginable !!
This is exactly what I needed in this moment of life!!
I can’t believe how this vid came into my presence!!
You are definitely on a higher level bro!!
Thank you so much!
a dad figure growing up for many,good to watch again after years
That breakup story at the end was tough man. Right in the feelz.
thanks for it owen. i got dumped few months ago after 4 years of relationship with my gf. now i can see clearly why i got dumped by her. its a vibration thing. beginning of a relationship , i was mysogynist prick and doesnt know how to show love etc, and she was insecure and anxious all the time about life and everything. After years pass by, because she was so in love with me i tried to change and started to show her my emotions more or give her more gifts but everytime i do it, as you said, she didnt treat me good. on the contrary she treat me bad, and was making every little situation an argument. so i was losing control and cursing (i know its not a good behavour) then she was blaming me after for cursing and getting angry. last year i did all i can for her, and i got spiritual awakening, i got into buddhism and taoism stuff. i was changing. but since i was changing for more good, i could see she was not. and after two months of break up i can see she was gaslighting me. maybe she was not doing it with purose but she was acting in someway. before this video i was blaming me because i was thinking like, now i am a changed person and not afraid to show love, why the fuck she left me. she doesnt want this high vibration energy. now its clear. she left me because i left nothing for her to complain about. or be anxious about. thanks owen for this video. nobody gives this kind of information in internet for the empaths. thanks .
This is the happiest Ive been in my life and thank you for letting me know Im on the right path. Also thank you for preparing me for my next series of lets go's.
I know I'm late with the comment but, your explanations about how empaths see relationships vs other people was a mind blowing and eye opening truth to me, this is the type of content I like to see from you
Brother. Your insights are super helpful and been following the work you do. From 21.. now 28 and your content has grown with you.
Can't actually put in words, how thankful I am for this video. Just explained the last days for me in so many ways, it's unbeliavable. Thanks.
The same location was the place where he shot one of the most motivational videos ever around 10 years ago
Exactly. The vibe from this old video was insane.
I imagine that you're getting this kind of messages on a regular basis but I just want to say that I love you and thank you Owen!
You are on the fire! At this moment most masculine ginger in the world. One day will be deep study about all teachings you are delivering and we are blessed to learn it now from the master. Kidaj brate , love from Serbia
This is so healing man, so many people need this right now.
Hey Owen, i don’t know if you’d actually end up reading this, but in my opinion, this video has been one of the most amazing videos I’ve ever seen from you. I have recently had someone who I had imagined the rest of my life with, somewhat abruptly break up with me. I had been bitter and and some times pathetic in my reaction and all in all, completely fail to recognise their side of the story. After watching your video I finally recognise many mistakes i had made along with red flags I was willing to over look because I had tried so hard to keep it together.
My dating life hasn’t been easy due to the many reasons but i think my upbringing had a part to play, never having a proper father figure, and i would remember watching to your old videos and believing i could take on the world. I have never bought any rsd product or package but your insights have been a better life coach than anything I’ve ever had in my life. I love the new direction of videos you’re doing to show people how social dynamics isn’t anything like the stigmatic cliche of a sleazy guy picking up girls but more about how how to control your interactions with people. Thank you Owen
Said this many times over many years, I'll say it again. I fucking love you
oh man... I burst out crying for good 20 minutes when you talked about your ex girfriend, your realization that it's over and the good days aren't coming back. I've been with my gf for 5 years and the breakup is pretty fresh. I relate so fucking much to your story. It's kinda freaky how similar it is. Your ending remarks give me hope and I'm learning to embrace the quantum leap on this cosmic journey. Thank you!
You are literally walking me through a raw fresh break up. Everything you are saying about them is true, right on the nose. Thank you for making me feel less crazy. He held me back for years and then was the one who left me after I changed over and over again. It was always something else I was doing wrong, once we worked through something there was another. Just wow. Thank you. 💖🙏💔
Timing of this is just crazy. Been two weeks since I'm out of what I can see clearly now was a toxic relationship. Finally feeling joy with the shift that's happening and a deep knowing I'm getting back on the right path!
anybody else feeling like Owen's taking us on vacation with his videos? 20% into the video and I realized that I could literally feel the beach salty smell, the morning cool breeze, the sand under my feet...
all of that while hanging out with Owen and getting some wisdom passed onto 🥰🙏
Oh great topic. I’ve done SO many transitions: lived in 5 different countries changed jobs and companies, but the hardest transition, breakup from my fiancé which in itself was going to be a transition to a different life in another country from where I was living. But as you’ve started out, it’s all about being solid in where you are on the inside. The outside stuff doesn’t matter. It really doesn’t. Thanks for the good content !
Going through his right now, 8 years together 4 years married, build multiple business, invest so mush into each other. Now we are separate and she don't speak anymore, I haven't came to terms yet, I guess I am waiting for her to come back but I have to get back to my self and accept
There is nothing permanent except change - Heraclitus. Thanks for the video Owen.
Owen, I started watching your videos 3-4 months ago after the worst breakup and turbulent transition I have had in my life up until this point. All your videos have been extremely helpful, but this one has seriously hit home in ways that I cant express in text on a chat box in youtube. I just want to sincerely thank you for all that you do with your content. You are making waves on this planet. You are making waves in my life. I feel at peace after watching this in ways that I haven't been able too since my breakup, as I have been still struggling about 6 months later to let go of my ex-girlfriend, and more broadly, the lifestyle that came with that relationship. I wish you the best my friend. Thank you.
Thanks Owen. Been watching you for about 4 years now. I feel like I can relate to a lot of what you say. I appreciate your work over the last four years. I too had the experience today where I looked at her, and just knew it was over. It is a sad, but surreal moment that you are actually ready to move on. It's funny how the world works. After watching this video, I was going to google "How to raise your Vibration Owen RSD", and i saw that it was the "Up Next" video. I too believe in a sense of energy and I feel like I am on the same path as you because of the way you talk about things. And to top it off, Kobe Bryant was my hero too. Thanks again.
Timeless video, watching it for the second time after 5 months and going through exactly everything you said. The transition is beautiful and all the pain of letting go has done is set me free and increase my love for the people i let go of, no pain, no attachement, just love and healing
Stay frosty yall
Thank you Owen, yet again you knocked the nail firmly on the head. Great background colours and feel . 👌
Great video. When you have invested so much into someone and then one day you realise they want to move on from you (aka abandon you), it can be terribly traumatic...
The good news is, when you fight through the pain and suffering, and you find the strength to survive and move on with your life independently... you will ultimately come out of it all stronger and tougher than you were before.
Nice vid and good luck to others going through similar tough times. 🙏
Awesome video Owen . Following your work since 2014 .no first video was one of you in Miami with a white blazer or shirt I don't recall. Thank you
Daamn, i respect Tyler so much! Thank u for gifting your way of looking at things, it really have helped me (:
Thank you so much for all your great work. This is another fantastic video of yours which came out just when I needed it. It's amazing. Thank you.
UR the best public speaker!!
hey thank you owen...i remember the first days of RSD...and then growing myself, only to see similar people going on similar paths. it's nice to see youre not alone
Thank you Owen for everything
Nothing lasts but nothing is lost
Actually moving out from my parents was the hardest because I get along with my brothers way more than my friends. Hard to find people who have similar interests. Sad reality is realizing you will now see them once a week instead of every day
This video feels custom made for me and the situation I'm in currently. Once again, sensational content, and answered every question I had. Please continue to provide this value and amazing content. Thank you Owen
Wow never thought id say this, but this is exactly what i needed, you never dissapoint tyler. Experiencing the gaslighting now.
Thanks for the excellent video. "Running away" is framed as the apex of evil to the point that "moving on" is seen as 100% wrong--which it isn't.
Greeting from vacation cabin in the woods of northern Sweden! Your vids just had a major impact on me, especially this one and the All Eggs in One Basket video, and I just want to extent my gratitude. To me, it applies to my current business problems and this truly helped me find my way back to myself, letting go of my needs, accepting that the business partnership might end, seeing the solutions and understanding how my ego is also responsible for my partner not pulling his weight and looking elsewhere. I'll diversify as soon as I get back home, and I'm quite sure that everything will be OK no matter what happens externally. I could not see the solution until you and Tolle gave me the pointers I needed. I had all eggs in one basket and I almost became insane :) I can enjoy life now, THANKS BRO
Loved this video so much. Each part of the video I’ve resonated with. Thank you Owen. Dealing with a tough breakup and each part of the video made helped this make more sense
A quality garden and a place of rest reflects a quality life of vitality and abundance, of the crops have no time to rest the dirt will be less than what it could be. Look within your soil and see what quality of fruit is being produced.
Thank you, this has just happened to me after 12 years and 2 children, This is the end of this, I am accepting that it's the end. 🙏
This video has given me reassurance of how I feeling. You are doing what you are here for Owen, enlightening people!!!
Your public speaking keeps getting better & better👌
I feel like you really come into your own from 43:00 and out here Owen. Everything from this point resonates with me, and reminds me of some of your best content. I'll make sure to rewatch it several times to really pick up on the meaning of this section.
I just want to mention some points that have been bugging me about your recent content, which I hope can be constructive and help your message come across even better in the future (because I really want you to reach as many people as possible):
1. Your most popular videos seem to be at around 30mins or below. I think this is largely because you've set out a clear plan for what to talk about (or edit it heavily), which the audience picks up on. (also it might be that most people are not willing to allocate 1+ hour to a video)
2. I remember you mentioning one of the reasons you record your videos in nature, is to convey a sense of extra inspiration in addition to your talks. I really agree with that being a net positive. In your current content the filming is definitely more professional now than before, however I think the editing is lacking, as cuts where random people are looking into the camera (in this video and others) are numerous. Also I really don't care for the endless shots of your primary cameraman in front of you, which is spoiling a bit too much of "how the sausage is made" for my taste.
Looking forward to your future videos, and thank you for all the knowledge you've shared with me in these transitional periods where I really needed it.
Thanks brother! Sadly this shot had a lot of issues with the primary shot. We had been up all night and were shooting in the morning, basically "punch drunk" lol. So we had to overdo the b-reel and side shots. Also major lighting shifts we had to work around. Every time you go from shadow to light, the ISO needs to be changed, which is a pain. The auto-ISO is not worth using. So that's the "behind the scenes" of why that occurs! Thanks for the props man! -Owen
Owen Im going to talk about the rawest aspect for me in my recent breakup and I’ve just only recently realized this but it was the sheer humiliation I felt. My GF of two years flipped on me in a public and toxic way. I’ve only recently been able to forgive her and its almost taboo to mention I feel like but I am Christian by upbringing and share a lot of the values and I’ve prayed to God and prayed for my ex and only recently within the last week after a year of suffering been able to truly forgive her. I recommend a book on this topic, a survivor of the Rwandan genocide decided to forgive the same people that tortured and killed her family its called Left to Tell by Imaculee Ilabagiza. This comment loves you Tyler
Never stop making videos Tyler!
I was literally tripping on 200 micrograms of LSD with my on-and-off girlfriend of eight years (we had lived together for five) - in a hotel room that we had rented for our "last" hookup before breaking up, so that she could find clarity (and possibly be in a relationship with another guy that she has been seeing) - when coming across this video this with her. We had just spent 12 hours of intense conflict regarding our history and my refusal to let her go. She has been horrible to me for a while now, just as explained in this video; and I have been chasing her relentlessly. She is home now, after deciding to take a break from seeing each other for at least a month; and she has asked for the link to the video. We have both listened twice, now (I have listened three times); and have been amazed at the synchronicity.
This video opened doors and passages in life I wasn't even aware of. Thanks Owen big ups for you 💯👊🏼