this is such an important topic i feel like, in my country people excuse this by labeling it as culture and traditions, to the extent that when i was younger i thought that was the standard and the way it should be done but obviously..ikhtilat and tabarruj and music and whatnot...hundreds of people, all night long, people dont even enjoy them anymore they just do it because if they dont they will be looked at differently for breaking the tradition. im looking forward to have a modest wedding in sha'a Allah please make duaa for me and for brothers like us who will face pressure from their families.
May Allah Azzawajal make it easy for you and all the brothers around the world trying to get out of the grips of unethical traditions for the sake of following the sunnah. And may Allah SWT guide our families with us to the straight path.
In pakistan the government once banned big wedding parties. People got round it in many ways. But it actually helped families as they had an excuse to not spend big.
Break the cycle when you’re the father. Make it clear that you’re not going to spend on this nonsense while people suffer in Palestine. Put your foot down and whoever wants to pressure you, tell them to pay for it and send you an invitation.
Totally agree! As if getting married in this day and age is not hard enough, now there’s this added extra expense that one has to deal with and in there’s sometimes haram intermingling of the opposite genders music dancing etc.
The question is, can we just get married.., so many people are asking Allah subhana wa ta ala to bless them with a wonderful spouse that has beautiful qualities and loves Allah & His & Beloved ﷺ.. May we all who are in need obtain tawfiq in our quest.. Ameen
this is such an important topic i feel like, in my country people excuse this by labeling it as culture and traditions, to the extent that when i was younger i thought that was the standard and the way it should be done but obviously..ikhtilat and tabarruj and music and whatnot...hundreds of people, all night long, people dont even enjoy them anymore they just do it because if they dont they will be looked at differently for breaking the tradition.
im looking forward to have a modest wedding in sha'a Allah please make duaa for me and for brothers like us who will face pressure from their families.
Tbh all that debt is silly. Never mind anything else
All in the name of culture masquerading as Islam
No Sunnah in wedding instead copying the customs of non believers ....
May Allah Azzawajal make it easy for you and all the brothers around the world trying to get out of the grips of unethical traditions for the sake of following the sunnah. And may Allah SWT guide our families with us to the straight path.
@@TruthSeeker4363 Ameen
You spoke the truth respected brother
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said “The most blessed marriage (nikah) is the one with the least expenses.”
In pakistan the government once banned big wedding parties. People got round it in many ways. But it actually helped families as they had an excuse to not spend big.
Especially at a time rn when the money can be sent to so many different parts of the world from Palestine to Sudan and all across the globe
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Stop being a Wahabi!! Qe see you Zionist
It's unfortunate and I have no idea if the cycle will break. When people spend extravagantly, then it subconsciously makes other people follow suit.
Break the cycle when you’re the father. Make it clear that you’re not going to spend on this nonsense while people suffer in Palestine. Put your foot down and whoever wants to pressure you, tell them to pay for it and send you an invitation.
God bless you brother
Totally agree! As if getting married in this day and age is not hard enough, now there’s this added extra expense that one has to deal with and in there’s sometimes haram intermingling of the opposite genders music dancing etc.
The question is, can we just get married.., so many people are asking Allah subhana wa ta ala to bless them with a wonderful spouse that has beautiful qualities and loves Allah & His & Beloved ﷺ.. May we all who are in need obtain tawfiq in our quest.. Ameen
Hear, hear!!
Well said.
I had less than 12 people at my wedding
How some families pay for these extravagant weddings in this day and age without going into debt is beyond me
💯facts we dont need to enmulate monarchists
May Allah bless you with an abundance of wealth and you marry again 😂 extravagantly. Ameen.
Is he saying there's something wrong with 14 belly dancers at the wedding?
Salaam. If one chooses to not accept the invitation to such an extravagant wedding, what is the Islamic perspective on this choice?
Whats with the subtle shade this guy always throws at south asians?
I don't think it's only south asians, it's also many arabs, and other countries.
What? This encompasses muslims all around the world
@@karupt422 south asians aren’t the only people who throw extravagant weddings. have you SEEN eastern european/east african/ arab weddings? yeahhh…