Why Are You Afraid to Ask For Money ?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @nkreseknowledge2241
    @nkreseknowledge2241 4 года назад +808

    The problem isn't asking these men for money, the issue is these women are not willing to do what's necessary if and when these men say no... and that's drop him like a hot potato. If a man doesn't give gifts or go out of his way to make me happy, I cancel him. It's really quite easy.... you don't have to be rich... money for nails, make up, a bit to eat, a pair of shoes, doesn't have to be red bottoms... etc. If he can't spare a little something a few times a month, then no, leave me alone.... men have to be creative, have to plan, having women in your life is not cheap and neither should it be... most men know this....

    • @lionsimba723
      @lionsimba723 4 года назад +104

      And when u give it to him for free, he will go bragging to his friends. Then dumb u for a gold digger

    • @xeniastephenson8076
      @xeniastephenson8076 4 года назад +136

      @@lionsimba723 exactly one of my frien said men are gonna run from u wen u seem to go after money i said no maam only the broke ones do n im fine with that

    • @ninawestlake5005
      @ninawestlake5005 4 года назад +50

      @@xeniastephenson8076 Preach, baby! No loss if the dust goes.

    • @agatainventio9464
      @agatainventio9464 2 года назад +4

      The funny thing is successful men don’t even notice the money spent that much, they just like doing it. If a man doesn’t like to make you happy that means he’s insecure and a looser. That’s what it is.

    • @elefoundation3703
      @elefoundation3703 2 года назад +2

      Soo true

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 года назад +811

    How men view us asking for money "too soon" is how we view them asking for sex ASAP ! THE NERVE of it all so ASK AWAY LADIES and who cares how they feel PERIOD. sprinkle sprinkle

    • @mendingwall3823
      @mendingwall3823 4 года назад +167

      For real. They will ask for sex without knowing so much as your last name. Then when you ask for money, how absurd! He will look at you like a troll from under the bridge but have no problem having sex and leaving the next day. Screw that. Shera has taught me a man wouldnt get so much as a kiss unless I am provided for.

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 4 года назад +34

      @@mendingwall3823 EXACTLY... TALK ABOUT IT QUEEN

    • @georgec8210
      @georgec8210 4 года назад

      Miss waters ever heard of 2 people actually loving and respecting each other. If a couple is really in love the man would not manipulate her for sex and the women won't manipulate any man for money. Your not even close to a real golddigger. Your 100% a wanabe. Real gold diggers aren't on youtube talking bs, arguing and watching videos. They are doing it. Stop lying pickmeisha.

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 4 года назад +4

      Period

    • @MiaEZ
      @MiaEZ 3 года назад +3

      Straight Up Truth

  • @elizabethking-kimble7883
    @elizabethking-kimble7883 4 года назад +726

    Im not afraid to ask for cash because he not afraid to ask for some ass mama taught me that

    • @mobee7613
      @mobee7613 4 года назад +23

      Amen!

    • @ferallane
      @ferallane 4 года назад +54

      This just changed my life.

    • @ninnny5659
      @ninnny5659 4 года назад +5

      👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

    • @mikajendreas
      @mikajendreas 4 года назад +4

      elizabeth king-kimble ok!?!💯🥂

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад +8

      The mama pimp was right

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 года назад +895

    Crazy how men would possibly sleep with a woman RAW before he pays a bill for her UNREAL!

    • @happycrocodile30
      @happycrocodile30 4 года назад +42

      Gurl I’m telling they are such idiots lmfao

    • @mendingwall3823
      @mendingwall3823 4 года назад +174

      I used to find it hard to believe that men would give money to women for no sex, but a true man of means can get sex anywhere - stripper, escort etc. Keeping your legs closed may be frustrating to him at first but deep down he respects it. If you have sex, you are no different than any other woman he can get it from easy.

    • @dzameirene5014
      @dzameirene5014 4 года назад +2

      Sure

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад +14

      Mending Wall
      If he’s a man of means that know you’re already out here having sex he’ll respect you less 🤣

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад +2

      Jenny Chung
      How does that work to your advantage?

  • @lionsimba723
    @lionsimba723 4 года назад +685

    If your husband isn’t giving u money and u are a stay at home mom/ wife, it’s because he is giving it to his sugar baby or his parents, siblings. And u r over there broke

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 3 года назад +19

      Right

    • @MiaEZ
      @MiaEZ 3 года назад +10

      Yep

    • @anonymesuppe3950
      @anonymesuppe3950 3 года назад +59

      i wonder, how can a man share a bed with his wife and not give her any money ? but spending money on everyone else, parents, siblings and so on

    • @realtalktherapyreactions
      @realtalktherapyreactions 2 года назад +5

      facts 😢💯

    • @xoxobutterfly
      @xoxobutterfly Год назад +10

      Sounds like my parents relationship

  • @dionnewalker2308
    @dionnewalker2308 4 года назад +511

    I think this is how lori Harvey's mom talks to her

    • @DIGITALEMPRESS
      @DIGITALEMPRESS 4 года назад +48

      Dionne Walker it is lmfaoooooo

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +93

      Yep and that's why she's so called winning while people spend so much time hating her smh.

    • @Sasha-vb3mh
      @Sasha-vb3mh 4 года назад +82

      intentionalgreatness And the majority of her haters are other women. I’m so confused because we should be cheering Lori on and doing the same

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +42

      @@Sasha-vb3mh exactly. See they can't see the strategy behind what she is doing. They too focused on the optics smh.

    • @giselek.6981
      @giselek.6981 4 года назад +3

      Queen S Lori is out there fuckin. Shera would never support. Shera dont support the sex games. You’re idolizing the wrong woman. Lori is a little girl who done been w Diddy, Trey and Future in the span of a month. Shera would never support. You gurls are wilding. Just say that what you want to do and be done with it. It has nothing to do with haters

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 4 года назад +605

    I use to be afraid but when I did ask they would always say YES...Even with younger guys. You cannot say some outrageous amount straight out the gate, save that for the older men..but men of all ages are generous. You’ll know which ones, use your intuition.

    • @secret-garden
      @secret-garden 4 года назад +48

      Yes like SheRa always says, "Open Your Mouth".

    • @Emanixoxo
      @Emanixoxo 4 года назад +22

      yes I get from young & old the same 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад +2

      Yes. Men are generous and many of thee women are narcs.

    • @xeniastephenson8076
      @xeniastephenson8076 4 года назад +19

      True i had a fwb n he 26 n im 23. He goes sch n work part time n still helps me but i dont ask for much i work with men based on their pockets😊😊. My friends ask me y is he so nice to me n we n together. I said we fucking so he got to b😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

    • @yogitard2243
      @yogitard2243 4 года назад +3

      How about working and getting your own money?

  • @kevinjones1677
    @kevinjones1677 3 года назад +146

    Don't be afraid to ask for money.when a man really like you ,,he wants to spoil you..

  • @michellelopez6133
    @michellelopez6133 Год назад +147

    GIRL YOU HAD ME SO WEAK WHEN YOU SAID WHO PAYS A SLAVE. Youre so right, im so sick on my man not giving me money. He also wants me to pay for half of the groceries. I am going on strike.

    • @hafsa.90
      @hafsa.90 Год назад +1

      I think you should dump him. You're way too cute to be with a dusty. You can find better 😘

    • @Softsoul.
      @Softsoul. Год назад +21

      Go on a divorce girl

    • @fabstouchcosmetics3191
      @fabstouchcosmetics3191 Год назад +9

      Divorce him

    • @idollface
      @idollface Год назад +12

      I hope ur a proud divorcee. 🍾💅🏾

    • @Goddess-h2g
      @Goddess-h2g Год назад +4

      And don’t listin to these people talking about divorce that is not always solution

  • @SChild5.
    @SChild5. 4 года назад +164

    NEVER be afraid to ask for money. I let my hair down, put on a long floral housecoat- & he said I look so pretty.

  • @AMYP6
    @AMYP6 4 года назад +196

    I'll be damned if I CAN NOT ASK MY HUSBAND FOR MONEY?!!!!

    • @mpch6298
      @mpch6298 Год назад +17

      When my husband asked me to give him back the money he gave me year earlier for investments, month later I made my mind to divorce him. I couldnt be with smb who gaslit me and is not generous with me for all the love and care I gave to him, to his family, to his sons from first marriage, for over a decade etc. Now I am levelled up, prettier than when I met him and free, and I still kept the money.

    • @milkymatcha8307
      @milkymatcha8307 Год назад +8

      @MP you did great. God bless you.

  • @Prettite.
    @Prettite. 4 года назад +181

    "I'm not putting anybody down. I'm just putting the mirror up." Shera -- you are the GOAT! How do you come up with this stuff so quickly?!?!!

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl 4 года назад +363

    My sugar daddy asked around to find out when my birthday was (a week after I met him and way before we slept together) he bought me expensive Tiffany bracelets and took me to the Carlyle Hotel bar with all my friends for work and paid the 3k bill. Never batting an eye and not expecting anything. Point being a true sugar daddy you don’t have to ask for shit they just give and they also give to your friends.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 3 года назад +13

      How did you come across him? Gurlllll spillllll

    • @Jennifer-di4nl
      @Jennifer-di4nl 3 года назад +65

      @@maiamiimaiam4343 I worked on the upper east side in Manhattan. One of our clients I became friends with, her father was extremely wealthy. She invited me out one night and this guy was there with his friends. He kept ordering bottles and paid the bill in the end. My friend said he always does that. Next thing I knew he asked me out. I've had a few sugar daddies. Mostly met them through someone at work. Most of my friends are doctors so they are well connected. And regardless, I'm lucky that I live in an area where there are many very wealthy men.

    • @missfefeloves
      @missfefeloves 3 года назад +2

      I'm so unlucky

    • @Jennifer-di4nl
      @Jennifer-di4nl 3 года назад +43

      @@missfefeloves Not unlucky...you just need to improve your picker. I date wayyyyy down in looks.

    • @missfefeloves
      @missfefeloves 3 года назад +7

      @@Jennifer-di4nl oh okay I'll try that thanks.

  • @cnmuchina00
    @cnmuchina00 4 года назад +214

    Everytime I think I'm an A student, Shera makes me reformat my brain 😂😂😂😂 Loving the tough love.

    • @Kaykay-jh1zu
      @Kaykay-jh1zu 2 года назад +2

      Yessss

    • @Maya38438
      @Maya38438 Год назад +1

      I got all A’s in school but I have done everything wrong about man. Although, am learning now 😂

  • @OlderWomenRock
    @OlderWomenRock 4 года назад +347

    When men are dating you . All men think they will get something down the track . Listen to SheRa don’t give it up , just wait and make sure he helps you out . Men aren’t that thick they’ll join the dots soon , the penny will drop lol

    • @jaistar3189
      @jaistar3189 4 года назад +37

      Older Women Rock Those dollars will drop too.😊

    • @DenisFrance88
      @DenisFrance88 4 года назад +3

      it depends on the looks (age, weigh) of the woman

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 года назад +22

      Denis no it doesn’t.

    • @DenisFrance88
      @DenisFrance88 4 года назад +1

      @@dani09eveline on what than? ther s no way i m gonna have sex with an old bag!!

    • @Evilkitty64
      @Evilkitty64 4 года назад +21

      @@DenisFrance88 that's just you. You certainly don't represent all men. There are older women I know that are getting it in and are happy. ☺️Again, I realize it's not you

  • @ddholmes031
    @ddholmes031 4 года назад +176

    When Shera says SPRINKLE SPRINKLE after saying something sarcastic makes me hit the floor every time!!

  • @skin-se9gs
    @skin-se9gs Год назад +22

    I’ve been listing to shera & I met a provider man. He takes me out on nice dates, pays for everything & gifts me nice things 😅 thank you

  • @xoxobutterfly
    @xoxobutterfly Год назад +43

    I see my mom and she is so unhappy :( she has never asked my dad for money or anything. It's sad. I never want to be in a relationship like my parents.

  • @ninnny5659
    @ninnny5659 4 года назад +173

    Imagine having a mother ,sister or friend like Shera 😍😍😍😏 Blessed life 👌🏼💎knowledge

  • @roses495
    @roses495 4 года назад +95

    My man buys me any thing I want. Only way it should be

  • @gigijanae1460
    @gigijanae1460 4 года назад +335

    The only thing worse than a dusty is a dusty with money....

  • @rachelmukazayire8293
    @rachelmukazayire8293 2 года назад +94

    When Shera says having a child whom he won’t care for, it reminds me 9 years ago while I was sitting in the hospital with my friend and she’s crying because she couldn’t afford hospital fees 😭😭 after giving birth to a baby boy 😭 , she’s being used by this guy for a year and he never gave her any 🪙😭 what he used to do was just complimenting her, shows her the pictures of farms and cows he owned but when she gave birth the child couldn’t even get 1L of milk 🥛😢😢😢 I never understood men’s mentality until I got this channel 🔥🙌🏾💕❤️ be smart ladies ❤️

    • @agatainventio9464
      @agatainventio9464 2 года назад +29

      This is so cruel. That’s how they are if you let them, be ruthless with men they need it. I hope she’s ok now.

  • @ceeceeobh2707
    @ceeceeobh2707 4 года назад +68

    My husband ?? If ever l’m afraid of asking my husband for money somebody please knock me the fuck out. MY HUSBAND’S MONEY IS MY MONEY.

  • @bybyana26
    @bybyana26 Год назад +42

    She is absolutely right if u r out of their league the money is given the first time they see you. I was so surprised like u mean all I have to is sit here and talk to you and get this money? Never seen that in my life 7K just to sit and look cute. I messed that situation up witj my SD b/c I was in love with a dusty 😢endured 7 years of that. I started to sleep in the guest room when I realized he was a dusty. He still didn’t change. When I finally left that’s when he started sending me money. He didn’t value me at all. Ladies being in love doesn’t pay the bills. Specially being with a dusty! I was 25 when I got with dusty broke up at 32 and then covid happened now I’m 35. Wasted so much freaking time. 😢

  • @monica1047
    @monica1047 Год назад +38

    I know this video is old, but a lot of this advice is golden. I was unconsciously doing these things. I have no problem asking my husband for whatever I want. Many view it as asking permission and they get offended. 😂 I rarely get told no!

  • @aubreygrant7676
    @aubreygrant7676 4 года назад +99

    Omg Shera I listened to this right before my second date with a new Dusty and didn't give up ANYTHING I just played dumb the whole time did my little feminine voice and he just left and STILL gave me money without even asking!! You are a genius I swear I love you and everything you do! Wished I learned this sooner but it's never too late!

  • @senoritaluna8673
    @senoritaluna8673 4 года назад +108

    “You don’t wanna wait til you’re dead for your level up” Hahahaha I almost spit my coffee 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dorothykozlowski5124
    @dorothykozlowski5124 4 года назад +90

    B.c dusties will stick to you like glue if you give them a cm of attention AND they will ignore your money requests, talk in circles etc. I need to become dust repellant!!!!!

  • @shebabahtsolomon
    @shebabahtsolomon Год назад +28

    Girl, you helping the economy. I would vote for you to get that Nobel Peace Prize!

  • @Maya38438
    @Maya38438 Год назад +50

    This rich guy took me out to a fancy
    Dinner and brought me a Chanel sunglasses as a gift. Then, waited 3 days after and said he wants to buy me a ticket including spa to Miami to accompany him while his there for work. Pickmisha would have jumped to this offer and I was like ummm No! I saw his plan right thru it. Trying to get some 🍑 I will not give it up just for this stuff. He seemed shocked I refused. Well, I have been to Miami so many times but even if he offer me a trip to Europe I wouldn’t have taken it until he has invested in me well. It’s a trick to get laid that they keep offering me trips. Smh

    • @AmazonExplores
      @AmazonExplores 11 месяцев назад +3

      I had Men ask me for some of everything including a baby by date 4 or 5. Lol Like wow. Ladies need to get what they require according to their standards first and foremost. A trip ain't it.. that benifits him.

  • @amberjones5990
    @amberjones5990 10 месяцев назад +10

    This lady is the truth!! I wish I started watching her videos back in my early 20’s. I’m in my 30’s now and her advice works but I can only imagine had I had this information in my 20’s 😩

  • @sandi6818
    @sandi6818 Год назад +38

    She reminds me of my aunt. I should have used and applied her advice years ago. She would always have no problem asking, or should I say demanding money from guys. She was overweight, not the best looking and she still got what she wanted, always. Like Steve Harvey said, you have not because you ask not! True story!

    • @annac6457
      @annac6457 Год назад +14

      She was right. I don't care about how pretty most men think I am, I am still a woman and therefore I DESERVE it. Never be afraid to ask, even if the man seems to disagree at first.

    • @MaryPAULINElove
      @MaryPAULINElove 7 дней назад

      How to ask that's the problem?

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 4 года назад +80

    True about the nursing..my aunt was bragging that her son is with a nurse, every six month’s he switches jobs and he is abusive....they just had their third baby.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 года назад +15

      Miss. Waters sounds like we have the same aunt. My cousins baby mamma is a ugly lil bald headed nurse too. I don’t understand the obsession with being a nurse

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +3

      @@dani09eveline hahaaa@obsession. I never noticed that but you're right.

    • @katrinamccreary6411
      @katrinamccreary6411 4 года назад +8

      @@dani09eveline me either lol besides so called good money I would never wanna be a nurse.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 года назад +10

      Katrina McCreary people used to ask me WhY dOnT YOu BeCOme A nuRse? Ew so basic and for what reason? They still be broke

    • @proudly_precious
      @proudly_precious 4 года назад +23

      What! He switches job every 6 months and she went ahead and had 3 kids with him??!! She must have hit her head on something.

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 2 года назад +17

    Time equals money!!! Ladies put yourself first.

    • @Goodpatron
      @Goodpatron 2 года назад

      "Time" better be code-word for 🍑 or you ain't getting nothing. 🤔

  • @bashasline
    @bashasline 4 года назад +48

    Only 117k subscribers?
    I don't follow many people but this is one of my favorites.

  • @baddestalivecom
    @baddestalivecom 4 года назад +115

    I can't believe she does this for free. You're amazing ♥️👑

  • @She_So_Solo
    @She_So_Solo 4 года назад +62

    Shera makes valid points.

  • @dee2919
    @dee2919 4 года назад +130

    Im only 21 but I feel like I gotta instilled this in my head 😂😂😂

    • @Jaz-px5pr
      @Jaz-px5pr 4 года назад +30

      Same. Ever since I've been watching Shera and other tubers, I've been so woke at an early age. Lol I have to give my older family members who are 30 and up advice about there love life. I don't give it unless they ask tho bc I know not everyone will receive the knowledge that shera is giving out.

    • @dee2919
      @dee2919 4 года назад +7

      Jazzyea J girl I got played two times these pass 2 years so I need this advice . My heart always betray my head , I’m trying not to be so emotional.

    • @Jaz-px5pr
      @Jaz-px5pr 4 года назад +6

      @@dee2919 Yes this isn't a 2020 lesson, this is a life lesson

    • @senoritaluna8673
      @senoritaluna8673 4 года назад +11

      Aww baby girl! @Deona Boone , this is the best time for you to learn, while you’re young! I wish I knew all this info at your age!. You’re going to do well, keep listening to Shera! 🌹🌹🌹

    • @Jaz-px5pr
      @Jaz-px5pr 4 года назад

      @Mauser 96 How?

  • @auroramothergoddess
    @auroramothergoddess 3 года назад +39

    Found you because somebody uploaded a clip of you on tik tok. I had to ask who you were so I can come support you doing gods work out here

  • @DanaeJones2008
    @DanaeJones2008 4 года назад +72

    She #Beyonce of the #RUclips world 🌎👸🏽

  • @Lovejoyful606
    @Lovejoyful606 4 года назад +64

    This information touches my soul you hear me! Power to the Women💫We've been for free way too long! Wonder why we're mad for no reason😄

    • @Goodpatron
      @Goodpatron 2 года назад

      You start demanding money, no guys gonna want to every marry you. Women be warned!

  • @Rainbowfinch-vp4lw
    @Rainbowfinch-vp4lw 4 года назад +39

    “I’m sick now.. sick of YOU!” - Shera
    you are a savage! ❤️😅💀💃🏽 I love it..
    You’ve changed my life! 😘

  • @moneyterrace590
    @moneyterrace590 3 года назад +48

    you got me on “I mean, who pays a slave?!” 😩🤣🤣😂😂😂

  • @Jennifer-ht9tv
    @Jennifer-ht9tv 4 года назад +69

    I always knew the nurse profession was a dust trap smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @leahcortez8685
    @leahcortez8685 Год назад +18

    I came back to thank you for speaking your truth. You made a difference in my life.
    😔 i had been giving myself away for free. There are a handful of false beliefs that I formed real young. Growing up in a Christian household with parents who divorced when I was young. We did not talk about sex and form a like mind on the topic. I have been tumbling through relationships thinking that if I show the man what he's been looking for (according to the way I thought the way these things work) he would want to marry me and take care of me. In my new relationship, I found this just in time and feel free to discuss what financial worries I have and he happily provided some breathing room for me. I'm definitely keeping this channel of communication with him up to date. His contribution frees me up to be light-hearted and present in everything.

  • @motherfigure3505
    @motherfigure3505 4 года назад +20

    If hes asking you " wya wya wya wya " make sure hes paying you. N it doesnt have to b crazy amounts. Just make sure hes giving you what you neeed

  • @joybliss9970
    @joybliss9970 4 года назад +43

    The only men asking for it asap are the scammers

  • @frencheleerving
    @frencheleerving 4 года назад +117

    What I do ladies I go to Sephora I beat my whole face at Sephora I love their mirrors I spray some Chanel perfume lol 😂 and I walks out feel good about myself everything for free.

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +37

      See that's how its done! Walk out the Sephora and catch a man 😂😂

    • @jaylanorth4101
      @jaylanorth4101 4 года назад +9

      Omg 😂😂😂👏🏽

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 4 года назад +17

      Make sure you get samples to use at home.

    • @gozgoz2188
      @gozgoz2188 2 года назад +5

      Me too girl. I love sephoraaaaaa❤️🥰❤️🥰
      Love their mirrors as well.
      Good for great selfies.

  • @aliatianna888
    @aliatianna888 2 года назад +24

    I noticed men also get super pissed when you ask for money which makes you not want to ask. But if you can ask for my time I can ask for some
    Money

    • @Goodpatron
      @Goodpatron 2 года назад

      Time does not equal money. The 🍑😻 does. If you're spending your time than so is he. It's a wash.

  • @Tyler_6-n8j
    @Tyler_6-n8j 3 года назад +45

    I’ve been listening to you for hours now. You are so smart and inspirational and I can’t stop laughing 😂

  • @Abena_Goddess87
    @Abena_Goddess87 4 года назад +123

    "Ready to scam" I just died 😆

  • @esmeraldaw5089
    @esmeraldaw5089 4 года назад +164

    'Don't let your funeral be your level up.Pickmeisha looking all crazy every day, but looks cute in her casket'. 'Are there women who don't ask for money?' Yes,they are called Pickmiesha, Bob the builder and Bonneta hahahaha this channel cracks me up every time.Thanks for the great entertainment!

  • @MsCeCe-lt1zg
    @MsCeCe-lt1zg 4 года назад +33

    This is one of YOUR BEST VIDEOS!!!!

  • @CelesteHolographic-ul3ce
    @CelesteHolographic-ul3ce Год назад +8

    Not afraid to ask for money , it’s the rejection . I’ve been rejected too many times

    • @samantha8343
      @samantha8343 11 месяцев назад +7

      When they reject you leave ‘em alone

    • @soniaalejandra9607
      @soniaalejandra9607 8 месяцев назад +6

      Be grateful for rejection! It’s a blessing! Saves you time, energy, and your youth! ❤😂

  • @nisha1983fyi
    @nisha1983fyi 4 года назад +23

    "No pay no play."

  • @mafadimakatsosurprise5182
    @mafadimakatsosurprise5182 Год назад +29

    A man is going to ask you for P straight up and you're afraid to ask him for money, come on . 😂

  • @intuitivegoatdeshawnlafaye6077
    @intuitivegoatdeshawnlafaye6077 4 года назад +61

    "Don't let your last day be better than your everyday!" 'She cute in the casket!" I'm gone..🤣🥰

    • @a_la_drinah
      @a_la_drinah 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂

    • @Stormy2593
      @Stormy2593 6 месяцев назад +1

      Protect this woman at all costs 😂❤

  • @domesticmuseum1597
    @domesticmuseum1597 2 года назад +20

    "Don't poop where you eat." haaaa Don't fish off the company dock! Unless it's major sprinkle sprinkle. Thx Shera. You are really helping me sort this all out!

  • @Blackgirlscode853
    @Blackgirlscode853 4 года назад +35

    You are nuts Shera! But the sad part about it is that if I had this problem. I would be crazy enough to do it. 🤣🤣🤣I would do it just for entertainment purposes. I have followed your advice and done some crazy things. They Have always worked💪🏾❗️💯

  • @RosemarieFit
    @RosemarieFit 4 года назад +35

    The advice you gave the nurse had me HOWLINGGGGGG 😂

  • @dadecountess305
    @dadecountess305 4 года назад +66

    Omg that’s so funny ! Pickmeesha finally leveled up
    But it was her last day, in her casket lmao

  • @CarmenBelcher
    @CarmenBelcher 4 года назад +22

    When you sang “Ready to scammmmmm” i burst out laughing! God I love you! You really big sis in my head. I played myself and I see how now

  • @TheNcheyenne
    @TheNcheyenne 10 месяцев назад +3

    This sociopathic mindset is bliss❤️

  • @blueblaze9862
    @blueblaze9862 3 года назад +12

    100% we have to start thinking logically as women

  • @kenfontainetrades
    @kenfontainetrades Год назад +9

    Shera, you act just like my aunt!!! Down to the mannerisms/faces/ advice!! Even look like her. Everything you say/how to act when you say it, she’s told me. I had to tell her she was right about everything she ever said

  • @va8196
    @va8196 4 года назад +27

    Love ur look today SheRa! Ur makeup & hair r gorgeous 💗

  • @sharuykornell8516
    @sharuykornell8516 4 года назад +23

    When i say shera be cracking me up!!!! Big sis....i got the game & gon with it

  • @spiritualash4207
    @spiritualash4207 4 года назад +27

    He won’t get full custody if he goes through the courts court would give you a time sharing plan and if the kids already live with u he will get weekends and he will have to pay you if the kids live with u

    • @alphbrick4026
      @alphbrick4026 4 года назад

      Real talk, completely agree with u,women are taking advantage of men

    • @icycici
      @icycici 4 года назад +1

      Exactly, if you're not married the woman has automatic full custody & she can recieve child support. The child has to be proven to be in danger for the man to have custody. Court will at the most grant him joint custody.... which most men don't like cuz they can't party no more!! Lol

    • @icycici
      @icycici 4 года назад +1

      @@alphbrick4026 No.... the guy is a dusty trying to get money from the mom, who is the primary custodial parent.

  • @Nkeabands
    @Nkeabands 2 года назад +5

    These videos keep me so grounded

  • @maya00071
    @maya00071 4 года назад +18

    The part about looking good in the casket had me dead! 😂😂💕

  • @zoratwofacecat9540
    @zoratwofacecat9540 4 года назад +48

    Omg i used what you said and he sent me the money 😂😂

    • @MicroFiendTV
      @MicroFiendTV 4 года назад +1

      Yall some scammers

    • @zoratwofacecat9540
      @zoratwofacecat9540 4 года назад +42

      @@MicroFiendTV men lie, paychecks lie, companies lie, commerical lie, politics lie.. everythang a lie lol seems normal to me

    • @MicroFiendTV
      @MicroFiendTV 4 года назад +1

      @@zoratwofacecat9540 just because its normalized doesnt make it right from a moral perspective

    • @zoratwofacecat9540
      @zoratwofacecat9540 4 года назад +5

      @@MicroFiendTV there even a song men lie women lie by lil wayne listen to it

    • @zoratwofacecat9540
      @zoratwofacecat9540 4 года назад +20

      @@MicroFiendTV i perfer logic over morals people use there brains for survival

  • @vnleao
    @vnleao 6 месяцев назад

    I opened RUclips because I needed a Shera video on exactly this topic to remind me to get back in my power and LOOK WHAT WAS AT THE TOP OF MY HOME FEED 🎉❤

  • @martamanno22
    @martamanno22 4 года назад +11

    thank you for the brutal truth
    whatever perspective you see it
    every single word is worthy

  • @whosthatgirlitstiff1861
    @whosthatgirlitstiff1861 Год назад +3

    Wow, Shera you look absolutely STUNNING here😍 I saw the thumbnail and I just had to click to let you know😂

  • @Evilkitty64
    @Evilkitty64 4 года назад +8

    ONE OF YOUR BEST ☺️✨💙✨ VIDEOS YET, MUCH NEEDED.💐🔥✨🔥

  • @MyMindGeek
    @MyMindGeek 10 месяцев назад +5

    Everyone in today's society accuses narcissists and self-centered people. I've always been self-centered. I am feeling lucky and proud that I've never let anyone walk on me !

    • @Stormy2593
      @Stormy2593 6 месяцев назад

      Facts stand on business ❤

  • @BarbieBarnes
    @BarbieBarnes 4 года назад +43

    NOT ALL BUT MOST ARE VERY VERY CHEAP

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад +1

      Barbie2020 Barnes
      Frugal maybe

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 года назад +9

      Stop dating dusty men. Doesn’t matter the age. Go find one that’s wealthy and with class

    • @aminakassim6422
      @aminakassim6422 4 года назад

      lol... yes. dusties with grey

    • @Aquariuswonder86
      @Aquariuswonder86 4 года назад +4

      Don’t give them the time of day then.

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef
    @itsHappening-ry2ef 4 года назад +9

    Yes why are you afraid ‼️‼️‼️

  • @prettybrittany_
    @prettybrittany_ 4 года назад +41

    You’re so funny, I can’t even .

  • @XclusiveChiq
    @XclusiveChiq 4 года назад +29

    What are some fake reasons to need money lol a man knows too much about me that i dont really have bills & i just went on an expensive vacation... its kind of implied i have money... how do i look helpless.

    • @Maya-xm5jx
      @Maya-xm5jx 4 года назад +41

      XclusiveChiq car broke down, fake family member death, your pet is sick, tuition debt, etccc

    • @She_So_Solo
      @She_So_Solo 4 года назад +47

      You can never have enough money.

    • @XclusiveChiq
      @XclusiveChiq 4 года назад +8

      Good ideas lol i gotta get creative

    • @XclusiveChiq
      @XclusiveChiq 4 года назад +4

      butterflyqueenify learned my lesson;

    • @xyzgirl89
      @xyzgirl89 4 года назад +1

      butterflyqueenify gems 💎 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rahman.1339
    @rahman.1339 Год назад +14

    Shera needs to be awarded the Nobel Prize of Human Elevation.

  • @medusahellsos2346
    @medusahellsos2346 4 года назад +24

    Cutting my boyfriend off from s*x lead to him forcing hisself on me... multiple times until I left him.

  • @Prettite.
    @Prettite. 4 года назад +19

    "That, in itself, is helping the economy. So you're welcome! . . . I'm going to win the Nobel Peace Prize one day." LAWD! Tooooo funny!!!!

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss Год назад +3

    I feel Goddess vibes here.💗

  • @meka1002
    @meka1002 4 года назад +13

    Girl preach it !!!

  • @femininebritaneyburnett8904
    @femininebritaneyburnett8904 3 года назад +11

    Why is he Still waking around in clean clothes,,,,, 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @BarbieBarnes
    @BarbieBarnes 4 года назад +67

    THESE OLDER MEN ARE VERY CHEAP

    • @seanbrown6315
      @seanbrown6315 4 года назад +3

      Barbie2020 Barnes I swear the god

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene 4 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @SovereignQueen9
      @SovereignQueen9 4 года назад +44

      If you don't allow yourself to waste your time on the cheap ones you'll increase your odds of encountering generous ones

    • @EverythingChar
      @EverythingChar 4 года назад +11

      Not mine he’s 64 and generous

    • @TinystarTime
      @TinystarTime 4 года назад +25

      Mine gives me half his check (literallly) 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ahnmichael1484
    @ahnmichael1484 4 года назад +6

    23:18 I'm in lol. I was already pretty much won over, but I've decided I'm a loyal follower now haha

  • @danielagomezdg
    @danielagomezdg Год назад +5

    I wish I had found your videos sooner🙏🏼PREACH

  • @celiwesibiya2560
    @celiwesibiya2560 4 года назад +20

    😂😂😂😅we gonna meet at the deelership😅😅😅

    • @mikajendreas
      @mikajendreas 4 года назад

      Celiwe Sibiya for real though shoot

  • @celine7811231
    @celine7811231 4 года назад +9

    Cracked me up when Shera singing Ready to scam😝😝😝😝😝

  • @angeldeats6304
    @angeldeats6304 4 года назад +6

    yes started watching you and this is advice is working love you

  • @maritzag4502
    @maritzag4502 4 года назад +7

    Shera funny ass hell!😂

  • @parishastarot1692
    @parishastarot1692 5 месяцев назад +2

    In Shera we trust 😭🤞🏽

  • @PrepperRapperFairy
    @PrepperRapperFairy 4 года назад +6

    "his doctor mode will kick in".. THEN THE CONVERSATION BEGINS"... lol .

  • @blubayou4654
    @blubayou4654 4 года назад +5

    Shamelessly brave, eeh!!

  • @lexiilove101
    @lexiilove101 4 года назад +10

    I fucking love you!!! U are funny ass hell🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @dutchessofcreativity9397
    @dutchessofcreativity9397 4 года назад +4

    She's a Goddess this Shera

  • @ruthy_love3389
    @ruthy_love3389 4 года назад +4

    Some situations or examples ..well heck a video on ....asking for money ...thanks Shera ..

    • @jt305
      @jt305 11 месяцев назад +1

      really need this

  • @elishevaforman7175
    @elishevaforman7175 3 года назад +3

    Wow. Wow. Wow. Thank you.