This discussion was very validating from so many perspectives. First, as the daughter of a Latino Vietnam vet who had life long PTS, then as a kid at 9 who had to manage my life and education to ensure more than a sad future fearfully dependent on men. Now at a place of acceptance and developing a powerful mind. Thank you for this discussion.
Don’t believe this fucking garbage what a man is, is completely objective and you’re 100% valued by what you can give and produce so just focus on doing the best you can
So happy I found this channel man 😭 all the podcasts and everything I’ve been listening to. This is what I’ve been searching for all along. Thank you for giving me something fruitful to listen to as I work
We don’t all need to be the same. Culture and individual choice weigh heavily into how much emotion or vulnerability a person chooses to display. My German/English/Norwegian ancestry has predisposed me to be less demonstrative than the guest’s Italian background did him. Am I wrong for being true to my beliefs and heritage? Is he wrong for being true to his? I don’t think so, in either case.
I have been enjoying your content recently and have purchased two of your audio books but I have heard a couple of things that have puzzled me. I might be misunderstanding but I have heard an inference that borders don't matter. Do laws matter? People who come to our country illegally are flaunting our laws. Do you have fences or property lines around home? Also, some people do care about the unborn and our Bill of Rights. The unborn have brain waves a heartbeat and respond to pain. I don't know anyone that want to interfere with women's choices. People care about law and human rights. Can you recommend some books that can help me to better understand the other side of these issues?
@@robertwalton434 I would say Stoic is just emotions ordered rightly. I think masculinity to the extreme has a very defined outcome. You need 40 acres, wife is at home, you hunt all the time, and fish, do BJJ in spare time which you have to have a lot of because your position at career is very high. I think this subtracts rather than adds for men. We do need to provide, we need to protect, but that choice is up to us. If your an electrician you still provide for your family but you provide for them as far as the work you do allows. I struggle with this alot because up here it seems that even though I do not want the world for my family im not manly enough to reach to Director, head Engineer etc etc. and because of the way many mens site define a man I am behooves to be on the side lines.
It is interesting to me that we divide ourselves into groups, thinking we are so different from each other. As a woman listening to this conversation, I felt sort of left out, because, although I am dealing with many, most of the issues being discussed, I'm not a man. So where does that leave me? Recently I heard a new (to me) pharse: "gender fluidity." People, all people are dealing with and living life, handicapped by insufficiency. It's not MAN enough, it's PERSON enough. And, BTW, some of us women have beard envy, only in reverse.
Your comment is intriguing. Why would you need to be gender fluid ? Men & women experience the world differently,but that doesn't mean they don't deal with the same issues personally.
If a podcast was done with the topic, "Defining femininity in 2022" or something, don't you think it would be odd if I complained in the comments that THIS PARTICULAR subject wasn't about me in particular? It is ok for men to discuss issues about us in a comfortable space.
Justin Baldoni has some incredible insights and words of advice to share. God bless everyone.
No he doesn’t 😂
This discussion was very validating from so many perspectives. First, as the daughter of a Latino Vietnam vet who had life long PTS, then as a kid at 9 who had to manage my life and education to ensure more than a sad future fearfully dependent on men. Now at a place of acceptance and developing a powerful mind. Thank you for this discussion.
All my life I have sought after wisdom and this day my wisdom has been increased tenfold...God Bless You Both. Keep up the fantastic work!
Loved this so much, I tend to struggle with society defining what a man is but I need to take it on as my own
Don’t believe this fucking garbage what a man is, is completely objective and you’re 100% valued by what you can give and produce so just focus on doing the best you can
So happy I found this channel man 😭 all the podcasts and everything I’ve been listening to. This is what I’ve been searching for all along. Thank you for giving me something fruitful to listen to as I work
The thing is Freedom!
*Quote That Change Successful Peoples Life*
A dream does not become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work
Thank god the interview videos are coming back!!! Love the audio visual content. Making into cuts would be great as well.
One of the most ones that I can relate to as a man, let me know which part hits the most for you.
Great meditation to start the day=]
Really good talk!
Yesss!!
I was excited for another episode with Justin and then I realized this is just a re-upload of the same episode from 5 months ago. Odd.
We don’t all need to be the same. Culture and individual choice weigh heavily into how much emotion or vulnerability a person chooses to display. My German/English/Norwegian ancestry has predisposed me to be less demonstrative than the guest’s Italian background did him. Am I wrong for being true to my beliefs and heritage? Is he wrong for being true to his? I don’t think so, in either case.
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I have been enjoying your content recently and have purchased two of your audio books but I have heard a couple of things that have puzzled me. I might be misunderstanding but I have heard an inference that borders don't matter. Do laws matter? People who come to our country illegally are flaunting our laws. Do you have fences or property lines around home? Also, some people do care about the unborn and our Bill of Rights. The unborn have brain waves a heartbeat and respond to pain. I don't know anyone that want to interfere with women's choices. People care about law and human rights.
Can you recommend some books that can help me to better understand the other side of these issues?
I just googled toxic masculinity and one page says that being stoic is a top 10 trait of toxic masculinity😮.
everyone can create a webpage nowdays. and as the talk mentioned everyone has an opinion now, about everything...
Also most people use “stoic” as a synonym for “emotionless”. I’m not defending them, but they probably aren’t talking about stoic philosophy.
We cannot change the past, however, we can change the effects the past has had on our mind…..with emotional discharge and re- evaluation.
@@robertwalton434 I would say Stoic is just emotions ordered rightly. I think masculinity to the extreme has a very defined outcome. You need 40 acres, wife is at home, you hunt all the time, and fish, do BJJ in spare time which you have to have a lot of because your position at career is very high. I think this subtracts rather than adds for men. We do need to provide, we need to protect, but that choice is up to us. If your an electrician you still provide for your family but you provide for them as far as the work you do allows. I struggle with this alot because up here it seems that even though I do not want the world for my family im not manly enough to reach to Director, head Engineer etc etc. and because of the way many mens site define a man I am behooves to be on the side lines.
That’s a false fucking term
It is interesting to me that we divide ourselves into groups, thinking we are so different from each other. As a woman listening to this conversation, I felt sort of left out, because, although I am dealing with many, most of the issues being discussed, I'm not a man. So where does that leave me? Recently I heard a new (to me) pharse: "gender fluidity." People, all people are dealing with and living life, handicapped by insufficiency. It's not MAN enough, it's PERSON enough. And, BTW, some of us women have beard envy, only in reverse.
Your comment is intriguing. Why would you need to be gender fluid ? Men & women experience the world differently,but that doesn't mean they don't deal with the same issues personally.
If a podcast was done with the topic, "Defining femininity in 2022" or something, don't you think it would be odd if I complained in the comments that THIS PARTICULAR subject wasn't about me in particular? It is ok for men to discuss issues about us in a comfortable space.
No, if you can't provide you're not a man. 😐