@@followtheleader7777 u really want attention huh. I'm sorry you seem so miserable i pray Allah guides you to be a loving caring and repenting human being before it's too late.
I came from Instagram to listen to the full lecture. Alhamdulillah I found so much barakah in this message. I'm not sure why some are finding it "disgusting" or whatever other negative comments they've used. If we all listen to the message with an open heart we will see the value and the beauty in it. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala reward brother Khalid Yasin as well as those who posted this video, ameen.
I reverted to Islam one month ago and I could not be happier, alhamdulilla for everything. I am 15 years and I am a thankful muslimah. I love my hijab and it makes my day to make dawah every chance I can and to tell everyone about the beauty and truth of Islam insha Allah. Alhamdulillah for the chance to do so. :)
I read it . And became a Muslim after reading it . My 2 Brothers then became Muslim after reading it . Finally, My Mother became Muslim also after reading it . We are all New Zealanders . Are we not 'open-minded' ? Judging by your response, you're 'closed minded' . Ive been a Muslim for 4 years and its the best thing thats ever happened to me, and our family . Islam not only teaches you knowledge, but also teaches you to seek knowledge ... even against you . First word revealed of The Quran ? " Read " Cant be simpler than that .
Carylon Staub....I pray to Allah for giving you guidance ... and May Allah advice you to embrace ISLAM... as Allah says in Qur'an , on the day of judgment no other religion will be acceptable except Islam...
Im Muslim woman and honestly let me tell you im sooooooooooo proud to a Muslim, when i wake up in the morning i say thank you God you guided me to be a Muslim, let me tell you Prophet Muhammed said peace be upon him, best of you is the one who is good to his wife, May Allah guide to Islam.
With upmost respect for brother Khalid, and everything i learned from him... I think the subject of women's voice being part of their awrah is a widely debated topic from what I heard from Sheikha Dr. Haifaa Younis. Allah knows best.
Alhamdulilah Ya Rabbil Alameen for this knowledge Wallahi🥺 I never knew this at all and I'm so grateful Allah made me come across this lecture. Subhanallah!
Perfume for women in public is not allowed as advised by Prophet Muhammad (saws) however at home for their husband and family it is OK inshallah. You can speak to your local Sheikh about this issue and reason.
Please cite the Hadith for this so that it can be be examined by all. If the Prophet loved and wore perfume in public it seems illogical for him to have denied this pleasure for others including women whom Allâh created from the same soul as men.
@@corazoncubano5372Zaynab, the wife of ‘Abd-Allah ibn Mas’ud, said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to us: “If one of you attends the mosque, let her not put on perfume.” (Narrated by Muslim, 443)
So basically women should be completely wiped out and hidden and NON existent so men don`t FEELl or THINK any VULGUR thoughts? The burden of a man's vulgar thoughts and feelings lies only on him! I am sick of these sheikhs making constant additions to women's hijab and awrahh. Making women's lives even more difficult than it already is. Why don't they make themselves useful and contribute to the muslim ummah in more meaningful ways then sit around and talk about how women should dress.
As a revert in America, I have to say that as a 23 year old I would have never believed that one day I would say that Sheikh Kalid Yaseen knows how to make a marriage successful. Now - I say Mashallah, this man knows and speaks the truth. Allah swt has given us the perfect formula for a happy successful marriage. No brain washing was necessary to believe this either. I only wish my muslim husband would love Islam the way I do.
SubhanAllah ..his lecture on cd played when I was searching books to educate myself about ISLAM n He ...I think I need to listen to, those guidance from Allah make me to a better muslim now...Alhamdulillah. Jazakillah khairan katsiran. Wasallam
Personally i don't have a problem with polygamy for as long as the 2nd wife is a level headed woman not dramatic, and mentally / emotionally matured, I do agree with Sheikh Khalid that polygamy can actually benefited us sisters if only we have enough emotional maturity to accept it... Allah knows best.. JazakAllah khair for sharing.
I thought this video was very informational and very helpful. I now have a much different perspective on many subjects and inshallah it will benefit me.
Thanks you very much for the Advice, I appreciate so much. I am a Muslim woman who got lost in the kufar way of living, I came back to Islam since March 2012. Please do not judge me. the reason why I am commenting here is because I have enjoyed listening and I have questions that I need to ask. Please guide me to the right person to ask questions.
Màashaa Allah if we westerners especially the women should heed to his advice, the world will definitely be a better place. Marriage is no joke we should learn to adapt to its circumstances. No one can change a person overnight but with prayer, sweet talk, and patience, Allah will always make it better for us.
Thank you. I converted a month ago..I believe that in any religion, there are radicals. I have taken some heat from family bc they are not knowledgeable of the Quran..Ive told them to read, then make judgement..All religions have ppl who dont go by the book they chose to follow, ppl do what they chose to do, then attach themselves to a Holy Book, then the world pick and chose and make judgement for the actions of some..Ive been looking for answers as to the behavior of the Muslim Women, and I appreciate your teachings.
Asalam Alaikum....This is very good information and I am so glad that I am able to learn and increase my knowledge of Islam so that I get closer to Allah
Shaykh Khalid Yasin speaking pure haqq!! i totally agree with everything especially the polygamy part too subhanAllah so much wisdom behind it! alhamdulillah
I converted to Islam almost two years ago. I listen to other imams and ustadhs. They are energetic and charismatic and educated. But i feel sometimes their deliverence is for the crowd to find appealing. For a stubborn person like me, you, brother, have taught me many lesson in just this one lecture. Jazakallah khair. I hold myself to a higher standard as of now. As an ummah we need the truth, not a celebrity sheikh that tells us the thinga we want to hear.
Sheikh I agree with most of what you say, but you should leave a disclaimer. Barring a woman from speaking about the ills of her husband may doom her to staying silent in an unhealthy situations, maybe he physically and emotionally abuses her and she is seeking guidance. Let us not train girls to keep their mouths shut without context.
One reason I stay single is the domestic abuse I witnessed. I know all Muslim men aren't like that, but the ones who do kill it for me. I don't trust men. My mother was beaten, abused, yelled at, ect. I know every man isn't this way. I also know why some sisters are the way they are. We only see a small fraction of what a person goes through and don't know why they are the way they are. My dad wouldn't work a stable job for 6 years. My mom had to cook, clean, take care of us. I have a lot of resentment. Leaving a marriage like that is impossible. Don't have any money, so can't afford a divorce. In fact, he'd break it at 4 in the morning. I feel as though we were good only to be abused. I am disappointed to say the least. I will single, I don't want to wind up in the same situation as my mother. She's still married to him.
Sister you missed what he said. He said don't spread the faults amongst other women. He said to go to the one who has authority over your community to make those complaints which is the correct advice.
"Be the best wife to him and wont need to do those thing"... What does her being a good wife have anything to do with her husband doing those disgusting actions. It has nothing to do with her being a good or bad wife, its the fact that her husband has a horrible habit. He isnt watching those things because she isn't a good wife its because he want to! That comment seriously pissed me off!!!
Salaam to everyone when some thing is so precious we should cover it up not let anyone and everyone see what's on show stay special stay beautiful sisters in Islam ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love Islam As Salaam Walaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh brothers and sisters of Islam I love you all so much Ramadan Mubarak to you all first day we are strong people because of our lord Allah SWT
Sheikh you remain my mentor you remain the most influential person to the Ummah May Allah (SWT) bless you and increase you more in knowledge and us to. I have i book which i wrote through the knowledge you shared but i like you to have a copy and my fellow brothers all over the world #Best message for marriage planing for youths like us and others
good advice and its important to knw whats right and wrong. i hope men can sit and listen to this lecture to. May Allah give us strenght to be good wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers.
wellll its really hard to find a 'good' wife too...too much talk no actions..just fake intentions and promises these days on both sides..its akhiruzzamaan.
Ok I'm using my husband account right now. However, I don't understand way are women upset with the messenger? If what the brother is saying is coming from Quran and Sunnah (prophet Muhammad) then what's the problem? If his advice is unislamic then complain. Sisters need to check themselves and their own behavior and issues. I don't care if the message is coming from a child, a cat or a dog...if its correct and good and in accordance with Islam, I'm accepting it.
Hud .Hud I know this lady that was beaten by her husband and she would always pray for him and make dua for him and now he went to hajj and tells her jannah Belongs to u
بارك الله فيك ياشيخ, ونفع الله بعلمك. أسال الله العلي القدير ان ينفعك بعلمك وان يجعل كل ما تقوله في ميزان حسناتك الى يوم الدين ،، بارك الله فيك وجزاك الله عنا كل خير واعانك الله على ماتقدمه للامه الاسلاميه من نصائح ومحاضرات قيمه ،، جزالله الفردوس الاعلى من الجنان..
I love your lecture, May Allah bless you and give you strength to flag the future of Islam, and deliver more useful lecture to deliver more Muslim from Salton and fitnah.
Thanks Akhe from your nice lecture and i advice to those who are not in Islam they must convert to Islam this is the chance for each one in all the world, the time is too short think over it your come to this world only for a few days you will be not understood how it was pass, so we must do what our Islam and religion saying to us so then we never face any kind of porblems in the daily life in the world,and also in doomsday when you become wak up.
Let me tell you something no matter how good a woman can be to her husband if he wants to cheat and do all that he’s going to do it my husband did that to me I changed my life completely to be a good Muslim woman but he let me down all for lust and wanting more . Islam is a perfect religion for both men and woman but it’s our nuffs that control the weak . But Allah is the best of planners don’t give up keep your faith because from my experience Allah will never leave you alone just keep the faith strong without Allah I don’t think I could of made it though that situation . I have a lot of respect for this lecture may Allah reward you for your beautiful lecture and keep reminding us of our duty .
And if it was Prophet Muhammad (saw) giving this lecture would these women be so bold with their comments? He is giving dawah.... Do his role as a muslim leader/speaker. There are female speakers and I can tell you first hand they are more straight forward, blunt and in your face than this man. He is softer in his speech h compared to some muslim female speakers.
There are female muslim speakers too ? I thought the sheik said womens voice is awrah.. And he has to be softer in speech because he is not a women so he need to speak with hikmah (wisdom).
yes, I liked lectures a long time ago by other people as well. Dawood Adeeb used to have some nice lectures, I don't know if they are available anymore. There are many good speakers. This is just one of many lectures out there about women, and as he says at the start, he chose this topic bcos of time constraints. So we should keep that in mind, too. Some comments believe that it is up to women to be the patient and obedient wives.But it is very true relationships require a lot of cooperation.
one last thing...to keep his secrets and not tell anyone about what he does...i understand if they are small regular things but when it comes to adultery or abuse...those things need to be brought out! too many women are dying and suffering under a man's control!
I'm betrothed to a wonderful brother. I told him he could take another wife after we're married (there's a possibility that I couldn't bare children) but let me choose her for him. He refused 😣
shiek khalid said the displeasure of the husband is next to the displeasure of allah and that wives should always try to treat their husbands well mashallah i was just wondering does it work both ways? so is the displeasure of the wife next to the displeasure of alla? i also had the same question when shiek khalid said if your husband goes to bed angry with you the angels will curse you all night is it also vice versa? thnx and mashallah i rlly loved this lecture thanks for putting it up!!!!
Make Alot of dua sis that may Allah SWT safe yr marriage, and talk to yr husband first, and give him chance if he doesn;t stop what he is doing go to the Imam, Allah will bring happness inyr house.
The Golden advice and really informative,we know our value very well ineeded and know that our commitment to Allah truely ,is what makes us agreat blissing in every good Allah fearful and i am so greatful that Allah granted me the love of islam & refusing to settle than less than what please ALLAH, and above i am so proud that Allah gives special blessing previlage only a good muslim woman can provide to her family : Allah bless a man who married to good muslims woman and removes his worries in life, gives him everything he needs in life and with bless his life because of her & in other life he grant him paradise and praise him infront of people of paradise and she become way more beautiful than( hoor al ain the women of paradise) and one hoorain woman is more beautiful than whole earth women together that if she spited on occasions she would turn them to honey and when see a good muslim woman beauty they ask Allah and say you gave us the greater share of beauty to please paradise men how they are more beautiful than us and Allah replies: i created them on earth testested them with hardships and ordered him to pray , fast and worship me and they did it helped them selfs to my road and paired its harships for my sake and today they shall be favorites with my rewards. (its rightous Hadeeth Gotssy ), what a previlage indeed . P.s: jealousy is part of nature but the problem that the kind of women men deal with isnt good muslims women most of them the damnd satan serving type /using sorcery type and will bring Allah rage and cause troubles that eventually break home and above all Allah will rage upon me if i accepted him or remain with him after knowing he deals with these type does that makes me jealous 😂 no Sir this self protection and Allah is the first one who will agree and bless my life for rejecting the satan troops and who bring and impose them in my life this aint jeoulsy and if a husband considered and kept dealing with such type that makes him damned and seducted to hell simply & leaving him is a grace in this case but if they picks good comitted muslim woman whos polite and know their boundaries i would jealous ofcourse but i will control it and accept because that please Allah this the healthy case beside that is men Allah recall a beleiver knows that it must be accepted despite of self feeling and this is the core of true believing. I dont want a non good to Allah man even if he can give me the world & more hansdome than saint joseph and i will fight this type off my life this type even if i have to shoot him dead to keep him away from me & untill Allah stop me or show me that they valid to allow them in. Lol ,For Allah sake look at this time women type out their i swear i see the devil on them and their truth,iswear to Allah i wont keep my male cat in the house if he attracted to their Types how about share my body & life with a man deals with them (is like sharing my underwears with an H.I.V patient sooner or later i will get myself effected) lol no thank you sir i love myself 😂😚
its funny - do you sorta see that Allah (swt) is replacing those born Muslim who dont want Islam with reverts who found Islam the hard way, but are 100000 times more sincere that those born into it? No disrespect to your hubbie (or me for that matter, I was born Muslim) but you can see Allah (swt) sorta cleansing Islam with those who are sincere during these tough times. We need more people like you! welcome to Islam sis - from your brothers / sisters in Australia.
I need someone to teach me! There is no Muslim community anywhere around me. No masjid, nothing. Reach out, sisters! I would love to talk and be taught!
Women can try to they are physically and emotionally drained. What about that. Some women can't handle a man child. I would like to hear the lecture for the men and how they are instructed
I agree with everything the shaykh says but I don't believe polygamy is for everyone. Some women can't handle it and I don't believe that they have to accept it.
True very true none could have said that any wiser. Its sad because the media see this and think this is islam. When its culture and even its culture that the Quran says to avoid at all costs.
@Leviticus 26:1,...neither shall ye set up any image of stone in your land, to bow down unto it: I am the Lord your God. God bless you on your journey!!!
Bismillah, we as men brothers sons husbands fathers, should do our best for our female folks, family friends neighbours, young children, WE MALES should do more, with love respect appreciation care for our sisters, inshaaAllah, thanks, JazaakAllah, khudahafiz.
also what doesit mean exactly that the displeasure of the husband is next to allah? just want to make sure i understandand if the wife disrespects her husband and he goes to bed angry with her, what if the situation was reversed and the husband disrespects his wife and she goes to bed angry with him wouldn't allah be equally displeased at both situations, i don't understand why it matters if women are overemotional if the husband does something wrong isn't allah displeased with him just as much?
Maintain women in the manner they are used to: but they shall be encouraged(invited) towards Islamic morals and modesty: and be not impatient for it is a sign of kuf. Allah (swt) is the best knower.
I'm not even Muslim and this is my first time watching a lecture. I must say this is a beautiful message.
a beautiful comment ! you are welcome
Love from Holland
Islam is beautiful💪❤
holland is beautiful islam is gay
@@followtheleader7777 u really want attention huh. I'm sorry you seem so miserable i pray Allah guides you to be a loving caring and repenting human being before it's too late.
Fe Fe Wadood don’t be rude!
I came from Instagram to listen to the full lecture. Alhamdulillah I found so much barakah in this message. I'm not sure why some are finding it "disgusting" or whatever other negative comments they've used. If we all listen to the message with an open heart we will see the value and the beauty in it. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala reward brother Khalid Yasin as well as those who posted this video, ameen.
😂 me too today ❤
The extract on instagram is misleading. It gives half information and it’s obvious it’ll get the backlash it’s getting.
I reverted to Islam one month ago and I could not be happier, alhamdulilla for everything. I am 15 years and I am a thankful muslimah. I love my hijab and it makes my day to make dawah every chance I can and to tell everyone about the beauty and truth of Islam insha Allah. Alhamdulillah for the chance to do so. :)
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Exactly how I feel, I love the hijab so much I feel like the happiest most blessed girl alive every time I wear it.
I hope you are still in Deen and doing well :)
Masha alh God bless u sis
Hey so you are about 25 or 26 years old now?
I'm not even Muslim, but I love 99% of what this man says.
i invite you to islam caroyle,read the quran with open mind
I read it .
And became a Muslim after reading it .
My 2 Brothers then became Muslim after reading it .
Finally, My Mother became Muslim also after reading it .
We are all New Zealanders . Are we not 'open-minded' ? Judging by your response, you're 'closed minded' .
Ive been a Muslim for 4 years and its the best thing thats ever happened to me, and our family .
Islam not only teaches you knowledge, but also teaches you to seek knowledge ... even against you .
First word revealed of The Quran ?
" Read "
Cant be simpler than that .
I love studying religions, so I have read parts of the Quran and can certainly appreciate it.
Mark Twain Obviously you've got everything to say but noone to teach .
Child-Like .
Carylon Staub....I pray to Allah for giving you guidance ... and May Allah advice you to embrace ISLAM... as Allah says in Qur'an , on the day of judgment no other religion will be acceptable except Islam...
Im Muslim woman and honestly let me tell you im sooooooooooo proud to a Muslim, when i wake up in the morning i say thank you God you guided me to be a Muslim, let me tell you Prophet Muhammed said peace be upon him, best of you is the one who is good to his wife, May Allah guide to Islam.
This lecture gives me the courage and happiness to want to become a Muslim woman 🫶🏾🙌🏾
With upmost respect for brother Khalid, and everything i learned from him... I think the subject of women's voice being part of their awrah is a widely debated topic from what I heard from Sheikha Dr. Haifaa Younis. Allah knows best.
Alhamdulilah Ya Rabbil Alameen for this knowledge Wallahi🥺 I never knew this at all and I'm so grateful Allah made me come across this lecture. Subhanallah!
Perfume for women in public is not allowed as advised by Prophet Muhammad (saws) however at home for their husband and family it is OK inshallah. You can speak to your local Sheikh about this issue and reason.
Please cite the Hadith for this so that it can be be examined by all. If the Prophet loved and wore perfume in public it seems illogical for him to have denied this pleasure for others including women whom Allâh created from the same soul as men.
@@corazoncubano5372Zaynab, the wife of ‘Abd-Allah ibn Mas’ud, said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to us: “If one of you attends the mosque, let her not put on perfume.” (Narrated by Muslim, 443)
So basically women should be completely wiped out and hidden and NON existent so men don`t FEELl or THINK any VULGUR thoughts? The burden of a man's vulgar thoughts and feelings lies only on him! I am sick of these sheikhs making constant additions to women's hijab and awrahh. Making women's lives even more difficult than it already is.
Why don't they make themselves useful and contribute to the muslim ummah in more meaningful ways then sit around and talk about how women should dress.
@@corazoncubano5372 🤦🏻♂️
Im an american man, im listening and this is a very good talk. Both for I and the Women.
+King Valentine I bet you think that. What man doesn't
Read about islam please
ISLAM IS BUILT ON THE FOUNDATION OF VIOLENCE
@@868tmitc Only a foolish human doesn't
Omar Omar only a fool would say something like that. Keep to yourself halfman
As a revert in America, I have to say that as a 23 year old I would have never believed that one day I would say that Sheikh Kalid Yaseen knows how to make a marriage successful. Now - I say Mashallah, this man knows and speaks the truth. Allah swt has given us the perfect formula for a happy successful marriage. No brain washing was necessary to believe this either. I only wish my muslim husband would love Islam the way I do.
Sheick, you are indeed a blessing to Islam.I love Islam!
SubhanAllah ..his lecture on cd played when I was searching books to educate myself about ISLAM n He ...I think I need to listen to, those guidance from Allah make me to a better muslim now...Alhamdulillah. Jazakillah khairan katsiran. Wasallam
My wife and I enjoyed this lecture very much, thank you Akhi. Keep up the excellent work.
Personally i don't have a problem with polygamy for as long as the 2nd wife is a level headed woman not dramatic, and mentally / emotionally matured, I do agree with Sheikh Khalid that polygamy can actually benefited us sisters if only we have enough emotional maturity to accept it... Allah knows best.. JazakAllah khair for sharing.
I would love to hear an extensive speech on how men can provide the atmosphere to make it a little easier on their wives..
He spoke on that
I thought this video was very informational and very helpful. I now have a much different perspective on many subjects and inshallah it will benefit me.
Ashley Bougherbi
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Thanks you very much for the Advice, I appreciate so much. I am a Muslim woman who got lost in the kufar way of living, I came back to Islam since March 2012. Please do not judge me. the reason why I am commenting here is because I have enjoyed listening and I have questions that I need to ask. Please guide me to the right person to ask questions.
2023... Lesson of 20 years ago mashaAllah! Still so relevant nowadays
Màashaa Allah if we westerners especially the women should heed to his advice, the world will definitely be a better place. Marriage is no joke we should learn to adapt to its circumstances. No one can change a person overnight but with prayer, sweet talk, and patience, Allah will always make it better for us.
Thank you. I converted a month ago..I believe that in any religion, there are radicals. I have taken some heat from family bc they are not knowledgeable of the Quran..Ive told them to read, then make judgement..All religions have ppl who dont go by the book they chose to follow, ppl do what they chose to do, then attach themselves to a Holy Book, then the world pick and chose and make judgement for the actions of some..Ive been looking for answers as to the behavior of the Muslim Women, and I appreciate your teachings.
Yvonda Czlusniak mashaALLAH.. PLZ DO PRAY FOR ME BROTHER. . I AM PRAYING AND WILL PRAY FOR YOU INSHAA ALLAH.
Jazakallah Khair😭👏👏👏
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Asalam Alaikum....This is very good information and I am so glad that I am able to learn and increase my knowledge of Islam so that I get closer to Allah
Mickie Donnell Salaam Wa’Alaykum
Whatever Allaah says, we hear and we obey ❤ laa ilaaha illAllaah
Shaykh Khalid Yasin speaking pure haqq!! i totally agree with everything especially the polygamy part too subhanAllah so much wisdom behind it! alhamdulillah
Jazakallahu khairan,May Allah Subhanahu Wataala Reward you with Jannatul firduous
I converted to Islam almost two years ago. I listen to other imams and ustadhs. They are energetic and charismatic and educated. But i feel sometimes their deliverence is for the crowd to find appealing. For a stubborn person like me, you, brother, have taught me many lesson in just this one lecture. Jazakallah khair. I hold myself to a higher standard as of now. As an ummah we need the truth, not a celebrity sheikh that tells us the thinga we want to hear.
May Allah bless you
I appreciate this talk. 🙏 May Allah reward you for your efforts and intent.
Subhan Allah, shiekh always deliver message perfectly.
mashaallah....It helps a lot to all Muslims especially in women... alhamdulillah...
Sheikh I agree with most of what you say, but you should leave a disclaimer. Barring a woman from speaking about the ills of her husband may doom her to staying silent in an unhealthy situations, maybe he physically and emotionally abuses her and she is seeking guidance. Let us not train girls to keep their mouths shut without context.
I agree with you sis.
some men will use this against the woman if she speaks up against his abuse.
As a Muslim, Muslim brothers oppress Muslim sisters
One reason I stay single is the domestic abuse I witnessed. I know all Muslim men aren't like that, but the ones who do kill it for me. I don't trust men. My mother was beaten, abused, yelled at, ect. I know every man isn't this way. I also know why some sisters are the way they are. We only see a small fraction of what a person goes through and don't know why they are the way they are. My dad wouldn't work a stable job for 6 years. My mom had to cook, clean, take care of us. I have a lot of resentment. Leaving a marriage like that is impossible. Don't have any money, so can't afford a divorce. In fact, he'd break it at 4 in the morning. I feel as though we were good only to be abused. I am disappointed to say the least. I will single, I don't want to wind up in the same situation as my mother. She's still married to him.
There are limits sister, if a man crosses these limits you should talk. The sheikh didn’t mean the women must be defenseless and weak.
Sister you missed what he said. He said don't spread the faults amongst other women. He said to go to the one who has authority over your community to make those complaints which is the correct advice.
"Be the best wife to him and wont need to do those thing"... What does her being a good wife have anything to do with her husband doing those disgusting actions. It has nothing to do with her being a good or bad wife, its the fact that her husband has a horrible habit. He isnt watching those things because she isn't a good wife its because he want to! That comment seriously pissed me off!!!
... I for polygamy, but knowing myself I run through the back door and wish the best for my sister and her future co wives.
Masha’Allah Uhkti
Salaam to everyone when some thing is so precious we should cover it up not let anyone and everyone see what's on show stay special stay beautiful sisters in Islam ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love Islam As Salaam Walaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh brothers and sisters of Islam I love you all so much Ramadan Mubarak to you all first day we are strong people because of our lord Allah SWT
Walaikum Salaam God bless you
Sheikh you remain my mentor you remain the most influential person to the Ummah
May Allah (SWT) bless you and increase you more in knowledge and us to.
I have i book which i wrote through the knowledge you shared but i like you to have a copy and my fellow brothers all over the world
#Best message for marriage planing for youths like us and others
MashaAllah brother I love this. May Allah swt reward him for such a great and relevant lecture !
Subhan Allah.. so beautifully done.. may allah guide us.. Ameen
Good for you. It is men like you who are successful. Well done.
Videos like this help to enlighten
Salam aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh MashaAllah tabarktAllah Mubarik may Allah reward you & protect you against all kind of Evil Amin 🤲
Subhan Allah!!!!!!!!!! Powerful Lecture
Look to the life of Prophet Muhammad and how he treated his women. He was the best of husbands.
Amazing lecture as always from Sh. Khaalid Yaseen; relevant, practical and beautiful advice. may allah bless you
good advice and its important to knw whats right and wrong. i hope men can sit and listen to this lecture to.
May Allah give us strenght to be good wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers.
inshaallah this lecture really help me to be a better muslim.
Such powerful message from Sheik:) May Allah SWT grant you blessings in this dunya and akhira.
thank you so much Shaykh Khalid Yasin....jazakallahukhoir
its really hard to find a good husband now days...
wellll its really hard to find a 'good' wife too...too much talk no actions..just fake intentions and promises these days on both sides..its akhiruzzamaan.
Ok I'm using my husband account right now. However, I don't understand way are women upset with the messenger? If what the brother is saying is coming from Quran and Sunnah (prophet Muhammad) then what's the problem? If his advice is unislamic then complain. Sisters need to check themselves and their own behavior and issues. I don't care if the message is coming from a child, a cat or a dog...if its correct and good and in accordance with Islam, I'm accepting it.
dats so correct
Nancy Lee idiot for wht reason madam???
Nancy Lee am I correct in that a muslim man can say I divorce you 3 times to his wife.and he is then divorced.but a woman has no right to do this
Not true. Read quran dont be a blind follower. She can ask for a divorce as well.
Mary and joseph were cousins. Dont ask, read ladies. Cause those with perversity in there hearts will misguide you.
you can't change a bad man the end. Change comes from within. There is only so much you can influence a man.
Hud .Hud I know this lady that was beaten by her husband and she would always pray for him and make dua for him and now he went to hajj and tells her jannah Belongs to u
salaam muslim friends. very good lecture.
بارك الله فيك ياشيخ, ونفع الله بعلمك. أسال الله العلي القدير ان ينفعك بعلمك وان يجعل كل ما تقوله في ميزان حسناتك الى يوم الدين ،،
بارك الله فيك وجزاك الله عنا كل خير واعانك الله على ماتقدمه للامه الاسلاميه من نصائح ومحاضرات قيمه ،، جزالله الفردوس الاعلى من الجنان..
amazing Thanks Respected Molana
I love your lecture, May Allah bless you and give you strength to flag the future of Islam, and deliver more useful lecture to deliver more Muslim from Salton and fitnah.
Amazing lecture as always from Sh. Khaalid Yaseen; relevant, practical and beautiful advice.
Powerful talk.
😭😭😭😭 thanks alot for your advice. I will follow 😌your advice
Assalamualaikum....Alhamdulillah....Very inspirational...mashallah...JazakAllah for such blessings....
yes indeed excellent
thank you sheikh jazakallah motherhood is special thing and indeed god gave us the strength to do Alhamdolilah
Shukrawn brother for the message.
Mashallah tabarakllah i love 1islam production.... I will certainly
take heed of these advises:)
n being married n helping eachother is the best of job u do in this world
inshallah
may allah bless you .. u r really good man and teach well
masha'Allah beautiful and beneficent lecture!!
Thanks Akhe from your nice lecture and i advice to those who are not in Islam they must convert to Islam this is the chance for each one in all the world, the time is too short think over it your come to this world only for a few days you will be not understood how it was pass, so we must do what our Islam and religion saying to us so then we never face any kind of porblems in the daily life in the world,and also in doomsday when you become wak up.
Read the life of Muhammad and how he treated his wives.
Let me tell you something no matter how good a woman can be to her husband if he wants to cheat and do all that he’s going to do it my husband did that to me I changed my life completely to be a good Muslim woman but he let me down all for lust and wanting more . Islam is a perfect religion for both men and woman but it’s our nuffs that control the weak . But Allah is the best of planners don’t give up keep your faith because from my experience Allah will never leave you alone just keep the faith strong without Allah I don’t think I could of made it though that situation . I have a lot of respect for this lecture may Allah reward you for your beautiful lecture and keep reminding us of our duty .
Thank you for this wonderful advice... I am touched by the awesome words
And if it was Prophet Muhammad (saw) giving this lecture would these women be so bold with their comments? He is giving dawah.... Do his role as a muslim leader/speaker. There are female speakers and I can tell you first hand they are more straight forward, blunt and in your face than this man. He is softer in his speech h compared to some muslim female speakers.
I agree
There are female muslim speakers too ? I thought the sheik said womens voice is awrah.. And he has to be softer in speech because he is not a women so he need to speak with hikmah (wisdom).
Excellent presentation khairan jazak
yes, I liked lectures a long time ago by other people as well. Dawood Adeeb used to have some nice lectures, I don't know if they are available anymore. There are many good speakers. This is just one of many lectures out there about women, and as he says at the start, he chose this topic bcos of time constraints. So we should keep that in mind, too. Some comments believe that it is up to women to be the patient and obedient wives.But it is very true relationships require a lot of cooperation.
one last thing...to keep his secrets and not tell anyone about what he does...i understand if they are small regular things but when it comes to adultery or abuse...those things need to be brought out! too many women are dying and suffering under a man's control!
This was a very good lecture.
I only wish my muslim wife would love Islam the way I do.
I'm betrothed to a wonderful brother. I told him he could take another wife after we're married (there's a possibility that I couldn't bare children) but let me choose her for him. He refused 😣
shiek khalid said the displeasure of the husband is next to the displeasure of allah and that wives should always try to treat their husbands well mashallah i was just wondering does it work both ways? so is the displeasure of the wife next to the displeasure of alla? i also had the same question when shiek khalid said if your husband goes to bed angry with you the angels will curse you all night is it also vice versa? thnx and mashallah i rlly loved this lecture thanks for putting it up!!!!
Khalid Yasin IS THE BOSS.
Very helpful information.
Jazaa Allaho hairan Imam halid
Make Alot of dua sis that may Allah SWT safe yr marriage, and talk to yr husband first, and give him chance if he doesn;t stop what he is doing go to the Imam, Allah will bring happness inyr house.
The Golden advice and really informative,we know our value very well ineeded and know that our commitment to Allah truely ,is what makes us agreat blissing in every good Allah fearful and i am so greatful that Allah granted me the love of islam & refusing to settle than less than what please ALLAH, and above i am so proud that Allah gives special blessing previlage only a good muslim woman can provide to her family : Allah bless a man who married to good muslims woman and removes his worries in life, gives him everything he needs in life and with bless his life because of her & in other life he grant him paradise and praise him infront of people of paradise and she become way more beautiful than( hoor al ain the women of paradise) and one hoorain woman is more beautiful than whole earth women together that if she spited on occasions she would turn them to honey and when see a good muslim woman beauty they ask Allah and say you gave us the greater share of beauty to please paradise men how they are more beautiful than us and Allah replies: i created them on earth testested them with hardships and ordered him to pray , fast and worship me and they did it helped them selfs to my road and paired its harships for my sake and today they shall be favorites with my rewards.
(its rightous Hadeeth Gotssy ), what a previlage indeed .
P.s: jealousy is part of nature but the problem that the kind of women men deal with isnt good muslims women most of them the damnd satan serving type /using sorcery type and will bring Allah rage and cause troubles that eventually break home and above all Allah will rage upon me if i accepted him or remain with him after knowing he deals with these type does that makes me jealous 😂 no Sir this self protection and Allah is the first one who will agree and bless my life for rejecting the satan troops and who bring and impose them in my life this aint jeoulsy and if a husband considered and kept dealing with such type that makes him damned and seducted to hell simply & leaving him is a grace in this case but if they picks good comitted muslim woman whos polite and know their boundaries i would jealous ofcourse but i will control it and accept because that please Allah this the healthy case beside that is men Allah recall a beleiver knows that it must be accepted despite of self feeling and this is the core of true believing.
I dont want a non good to Allah man even if he can give me the world & more hansdome than saint joseph and i will fight this type off my life this type even if i have to shoot him dead to keep him away from me & untill Allah stop me or show me that they valid to allow them in.
Lol ,For Allah sake look at this time women type out their i swear i see the devil on them and their truth,iswear to Allah i wont keep my male cat in the house if he attracted to their Types how about share my body & life with a man deals with them (is like sharing my underwears with an H.I.V patient sooner or later i will get myself effected) lol no thank you sir i love myself 😂😚
Allah blessing always staying on u
You live long
its funny - do you sorta see that Allah (swt) is replacing those born Muslim who dont want Islam with reverts who found Islam the hard way, but are 100000 times more sincere that those born into it?
No disrespect to your hubbie (or me for that matter, I was born Muslim) but you can see Allah (swt) sorta cleansing Islam with those who are sincere during these tough times.
We need more people like you! welcome to Islam sis - from your brothers / sisters in Australia.
MashaAllah . what a beautiful advice...
Who else coming from tiktok
BUT EVEN THEM HANDS CAN DRIVE EM GUYS CRAZY..MASHALLAH THE BEAUTY GOD HAS CREATED
Ma Shaa Allah.Alhamdullillah
I need someone to teach me! There is no Muslim community anywhere around me. No masjid, nothing. Reach out, sisters! I would love to talk and be taught!
There are many free Islamic books for reverts online, they can mail it to your house InshaAllah. ❤
I can help you may Allah guide you to the right path and to what he loves and is pleased with
Are u still looking
Women can try to they are physically and emotionally drained. What about that. Some women can't handle a man child.
I would like to hear the lecture for the men and how they are instructed
I agree with everything the shaykh says but I don't believe polygamy is for everyone. Some women can't handle it and I don't believe that they have to accept it.
They don't have to, but I thinks it's necessary in times of war and such
More than just jealousy. A wife can be hurt.
I.S.L.A.M is simply beautifulllllllllll
True very true none could have said that any wiser. Its sad because the media see this and think this is islam. When its culture and even its culture that the Quran says to avoid at all costs.
Finally someone who gets it ... materialistic desires is the root of all evil
@Leviticus 26:1,...neither shall ye set up any image of stone in your land, to bow down unto it: I am the Lord your God.
God bless you on your journey!!!
Bismillah, we as men brothers sons husbands fathers, should do our best for our female folks, family friends neighbours, young children, WE MALES should do more, with love respect appreciation care for our sisters, inshaaAllah, thanks, JazaakAllah, khudahafiz.
true, i hate whenmen say"blame urself i cant control myself" thats surely a stupid argument
also what doesit mean exactly that the displeasure of the husband is next to allah? just want to make sure i understandand if the wife disrespects her husband and he goes to bed angry with her, what if the situation was reversed and the husband disrespects his wife and she goes to bed angry with him wouldn't allah be equally displeased at both situations, i don't understand why it matters if women are overemotional if the husband does something wrong isn't allah displeased with him just as much?
Maintain women in the manner they are used to: but they shall be encouraged(invited) towards Islamic morals and modesty: and be not impatient for it is a sign of kuf. Allah (swt) is the best knower.
no it doesnt contradict. He loved wearing perfume himself and loved for his women to wear perfume for him in their homes.