What High Value Women Do Instead...

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @Theblackswan55
    @Theblackswan55  Год назад

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  • @priyankanagdeve9783
    @priyankanagdeve9783 Год назад +112

    You can say, "Yeah i want a relationship, but i don't know if you are the right guy for me." And, then just laugh! But, be confident, if you look & sound confident, he will always have a fear of losing you! Because, confident people never take their life lightly! Second, don't tell about him even to your friends that he is the guy you are dating, you will regret! Handle everything on your own, like a mature person!

    • @Deb_deCoder
      @Deb_deCoder Год назад +1

      high value high net worth men are never afraid of losing a wymn.. there is always another one coming to take free ride.. it is the poor man who fears losing a wymn

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Enjoy your cats and boxes of red wine

  • @kayjeffs3741
    @kayjeffs3741 Год назад +190

    This is true! If a man wants a relationship with you, he will tell you. You just have your time limit set in silence...if he goes over your time limit for commitment, start withdrawing your time and attention in silence...and ALWAYS keep your options open until you BOTH decide youbwant to commit to each other.

    • @RamboQuellz
      @RamboQuellz Год назад +1

      I like this.

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 Год назад +28

      @quell quell it works! I discovered this at about 21 years old. I asked a man I seeing at the time where we were headed because months had passed. He said he wasn't ready, I respected it and withdrew. I was still talking to other guys so I gave him no more of my energy. He hit me up months later trying to commit but by then, I was already in a relationship with a guy who didn't waste time...see what I mean by keeping options open? Since then, I've never had to ask a guy for a relationship or where we were headed. They all asked for relationships without me having to, because I learned how to move.

    • @RomyPidgin
      @RomyPidgin Год назад +2

      Best comment

    • @zubedakhatoon7790
      @zubedakhatoon7790 Год назад

      Thank you for this

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 Год назад +1

      I usually just wait for the woman to bring it up because it seems unnatural for a man to start asking for relationship. But when a woman asks and I’m feeling the vibe, I would tie the knot just there and then.

  • @LayaCenter
    @LayaCenter Год назад +41

    I agree 100%- If a man is serious about you he makes it known. If a man tells you that he is not ready for a relationship- belive him.

  • @madameyeah498
    @madameyeah498 Год назад +53

    In the book "why men love bitches" she says if you say to a man you want a relationship, you give to him the key to manipulate you.

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 Год назад

      Not true, I’ll just be like “cool, I’m looking for the same thing too. Let’s hang out”.

    • @island661
      @island661 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ilikepancakes2368😂

    • @Ida-Adriana
      @Ida-Adriana 6 месяцев назад

      @@ilikepancakes2368and eat pancakes 🤤

  • @astridediva
    @astridediva Год назад +49

    This dating thing is becoming more and more difficult 😂 I’m about to stay single 😂. It’s tiring

  • @HarshitaEzil
    @HarshitaEzil Год назад +18

    Excellent points! It is true that if we tell men we want a relationship, we give them the key to manipulate us. Now I understand why certain men in the past came after me; it's because I was a total mystery to them and mainly because I never let them know where they stood with me.
    Thank you for this video, it's an excellent lifesaver!

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspa Год назад +18

    Celibate Dating for marriage while keeping options open is really fun and relaxing. Until the right match for YOU takes YOU off the market enjoy men. Not really looking to be a girlfriend with the dead end exclusive dating. Want to be courted seriously for marriage I think letting a man know the price requirements is traditional but its worked for centuries.

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 Год назад +4

      Most men view relationships as they get wife benefits at girlfriend prices.

    • @Grace4me111
      @Grace4me111 Год назад

      Love this comment soooooo much. But where on earth are you finding any man who is okay with celibate dating??

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa Год назад +2

      Allow him freedom to have relations while you date as well. When he concludes you are the one forever... Then can agree engagements on the table before going beyond just affection. Don't allow being used or your time wasted again.

  • @dw6317
    @dw6317 Год назад +17

    This is PERFECT! Thank you so much for this video. I get asked often by men and my answer is usually something along the lines of ‘a relationship would be the optimal goal if it’s with the right guy.’

  • @nurbells4921
    @nurbells4921 Год назад +8

    The ball is in the womans court as long as she hasnt given her body to that man! Sleeping without marriage will be giving yourself away for free and giving your ball to that man and now you are at his mercy if he wants to marry you or not! Cuz he already got what he wanted out of you (sex)! This is why i am still a virgin at 26 years old, i kept it only to chatting and phone calls and it was for marriage only! Your first and last love is you! You are valuable so dont let people have access to you!

  • @soonsims
    @soonsims Год назад +11

    From the suggested answers only the first one seems reasonable the others are really not playful but rather come off bitter and challenging. I think simply saying I am looking for a relationship is a perfectly fine answer on its own - you are not saying you want a relationship with HIM to validate him. Simply what you want and if he's lucky with him. My opinion is yes communicate your standards, that does not validate him, it validates you.

  • @edytamichalska4655
    @edytamichalska4655 10 месяцев назад +3

    I would never tell a guy that I want a relationship WITH HIM. I always say that Im looking for a relationship with the right person.

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Stunning and brave, and how many "right persons" have you dumped allready?

  • @UrsaBella
    @UrsaBella Год назад +3

    I agree in a way..but I am also an adult that does not want to play games. I feel comfortable to state what I am looking for. I do not want to "play" mysterious.

  • @pinkfabulous248
    @pinkfabulous248 Год назад +23

    It’s a tricky one as some men lie. 🌸

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 Год назад +13

      Yes, men do lie but that's where you have to be willing to walk away.

    • @rbguerreiro2466
      @rbguerreiro2466 Год назад

      Most men lie. They want sex and a feminine company, but no commitment. And they will tell us what they think will lead to it. Always assume they are lying.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад +3

      Most men lie... not some

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Some plants are carnivores

  • @Princess1m5
    @Princess1m5 Год назад +6

    A man on dating site asked me this question “what do you expect to be here” and i replied i firstly find someone to talk, and i asked him that do you think i should expect a realationship here? Then he answer exactly what i wanted to say “i want to find someone to talk firstly, and if we are like each other, i hope a love realationship”. Im not sure whether he is empathy or not but he answer his question for me 😊

  • @hybridangel3403
    @hybridangel3403 Год назад +6

    Use your own intuition. Be you not someone elses advice.

  • @christinajackson3461
    @christinajackson3461 Год назад +33

    "I don't want to waste my time so I only date with the view of a relationship." If said in a gentle way, that is so perfect. I think.

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад +13

      Everything I suggest to say is always in a gentle feminine way. Your comment is spot on 😉

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Replace "relationship" with "marriage" and you might find what you're looking for

  • @harryke7799
    @harryke7799 Год назад +12

    Finding this channel means a lot to me😊❤Thanks for the authenthic content.

  • @jaydaderbyshire1879
    @jaydaderbyshire1879 Год назад +4

    I skipped wayy too quickly 😭😭I’m 100% obsessed with your channel

  • @bceltica898
    @bceltica898 Год назад +8

    "I'm looking for a man that'd make me want NOT to be single". There you go girls. Challenge is set. Thank me later 😂

  • @Brians_World81
    @Brians_World81 Год назад +2

    I actually agree with most of these, but here's an additional component. How you behave with other men in front of him. I had a girl who desperately wants a relationship with me, but she constantly flirt and seek validation from other men. She also told me she cheated on one of the guy she dated in the past. That showed me she's untrust worthy and not "wifey" material. If you give off a desperate vibe and constantly seek male validation while want a relationship with that guy, that is a huge mistake. Conduct yourself in a classy manner and build a connection between the two of you. That should be a number 1 goal.

  • @TellyTingz2000
    @TellyTingz2000 Год назад +3

    This is nothing but TRUTH , I’ve learned the hard way 😢 THIS strategy is IT 🙏I applied it in life and it’s working my dating life for the first time feels flowy I’m in control but in a good way ❤

  • @Starlightndust
    @Starlightndust Год назад +5

    Very good advice. Thanks. I've always wondered about how to let the man know what type of relationship I want.

  • @ramk1071
    @ramk1071 Год назад +6

    Why is woman’s life so difficult even in these small actions that are life changing 😭

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Woman have the easy life, try holding your own in construction or the oil patch.

  • @Кпер-ж1ф
    @Кпер-ж1ф Год назад +3

    So glad that you're back love! Love your content! Do you have a patreon where you share your advice and insight more in detail? ❤

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад +2

      Thank you very much my dear. No I don't have a patreon yet due to lack of time I can dedicate to it but it's in my plans for next year probably. You guys can then get to know me on a deeper level and even see my face 😜.

  • @Helene_experience
    @Helene_experience Год назад +8

    Sounds like playing games to me. Being direct is the most effective way to be honest. Communication is key in any relationship. Having sex right away doesn’t define your value either ! Answers examples sound passive aggressive to me. Thanks for your content 🙏🏽

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад

      Men are not attracted to that energy.... i mean, you are the subtle and femenine part. To say no when it is required, to be silent when you want, to be mysterious... if you are a woman inside but somehow you had switched off that part and become more masculine you will struggle a lot. If you date and behave as a man (casual sex, being upfront or too direct, ask him to date you, etc) you will feel exhausted, drained and used... believe me it doesn't work out at all

  • @sheri_elizabeth222
    @sheri_elizabeth222 Год назад

    Beautiful work. Thank you.🖤

  • @Debolinaa55
    @Debolinaa55 Год назад

    Finding your channel is a blessing❤❤❤

  • @puppytv-qw1qr
    @puppytv-qw1qr Год назад +2

    Here's the deal: men assume that if a woman goes out with him she wants a relationship. They assume if you're on a dating site you're looking for a relationship. About 30% of U.S. adults have used online dating sites or apps.

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      If you're on a datingsite, not looking for relationships, your looking to use men. Stop wasting our time.

  • @Mishti-tu2tr
    @Mishti-tu2tr 9 месяцев назад

    Few months ago a man came to me and said,"hey i dont want something serious just a situationship for few months." I replied with a no. He kept trying and we got into a relationship. I said no to sexting and hookups because i had a gut feeling..😂i was right, it didn't last long. His words and actions differed. So, yes! I learnt my lesson. In 2024 im not going to repeat the same mistake.

  • @MademoiselleGisela
    @MademoiselleGisela Год назад +1

    Brilliant content! As usual 🙏 blessings

  • @alicindy
    @alicindy Год назад

    This is so true, very good advice.

  • @Seelmeyer1
    @Seelmeyer1 4 месяца назад

    It doesn't even matter if you tell him you like to take it slow and see where things go. If he wants a relationship with you he'll just try harder. It's our job to see if he's suitable and worthy to take up so much of your time.

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      Thats called "playing games" and it's the reason your single or about to become single.

  • @sonnydanny1574
    @sonnydanny1574 Год назад

    You are fantastic! Thank you for this helpful clip ❤

  • @_itsmejanae
    @_itsmejanae Год назад

    That makes so much sense

  • @qxeen.mirixm
    @qxeen.mirixm Год назад +1

    How long should you wait to introduce someone to your family?

  • @arimasingh3394
    @arimasingh3394 Год назад +3

    I adore you so much ❤

  • @EH-MindRules
    @EH-MindRules Год назад

    A great video, I have always done that intituvilly 😅

  • @gabdongipark
    @gabdongipark Год назад +1

    But if a man plays the same game none of you will ever move forward

    • @fa9183
      @fa9183 Год назад

      Men play games all the time.

  • @loving0u
    @loving0u Год назад +2

    Thank You ❤

  • @NalloryLove
    @NalloryLove Год назад

    I feel like some of these tips are tough when you have a child and divorced. Overall I like the video and see where I went wrong with someone in my past.

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

      If you have a child and-/or are divorced, you're done. Enjoy your cats and boxes of red wine.

  • @tkanon
    @tkanon 10 месяцев назад

    I usually respond with I’m looking for a relationship with the right person. Kinda evasive…

  • @sues.3527
    @sues.3527 Год назад +3

    How do you advise to turn it around if you’ve already said this to him and told him what you want? ❤

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад +1

      Flipping the script only applies to when you ask him " what do you think" all the other examples are not flipping the script.

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. Год назад +8

      Maybe by having the mindset of "willing to walk away at any time" + "even at the expense of your preference towards him" type of vibe. If I have to let you go, then it will hurt but I'll do it. It's insane how they listen to the energy more than they listen to words

    • @sues.3527
      @sues.3527 Год назад +1

      @@Theblackswan55 I don't understand "flipping the script" I basically told him that I would like to be married. It came up in a conversation about where we want to be in two years. I get the feeling that he knows I'm completely committed to the relationship (5 months), which I am, but it shouldn't be in a way that comes from a goal orriented place. I feel like I looked needy not sure how to turn that around.

    • @sues.3527
      @sues.3527 Год назад

      @@Elven. That's a great answer. I just feel the need to sort of set the record straight (for lack of a better term) because it came across as though I'm putting him on a pedestal even though it was more of a discussion regarding my general desires and not necessarily about "him." Even though I wouldn't be dating him if I didn't see him in that way. Basically, I'm shit at playing it cool. :-)

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. Год назад +1

      @@sues.3527 Oh girl! I know! it's really hard to play it cool when we invest precious time. There's a man called Tony Gaskings here on youtube and he exposes male psychology on another level, because he says only a man understands a man's mind. Maybe that helps

  • @Elven.
    @Elven. Год назад +2

    I love it!! why can't I make a clip from this video? sometimes I save parts I love in youtube clips

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад

      Is there a setting that I need to change in order for you yo be able to save parts of a video? I can look into it

    • @Elven.
      @Elven. Год назад

      @@Theblackswan55 Sorry, nevermind, there's something not working on my end. I can't make any clips of any other videos either

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад

      No worries. Hope it get sorted for you.

  • @Ryderschae
    @Ryderschae Год назад +2

    How to tell him you want marriage. Like early on so that you dont waste time in a relationship that wont lead to marriage

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад

      Tell him that you portrait yourself married with a worthy man and with children in a near future. Tell him that you want a family but dont include him. Dont include the man you are dating because you dont know if he will put effort in a relationship. Dont tell him that he needs to make the move.... just say this is a subtle and feminine way in a playful way.
      Say sth like: "well, i have always wanted to get marry and have children, i guess that i am dating because i will love to find a worthy man to settle and have a beautiful union with and a beautiful family"
      If he feels that he wants that he will make it happen... however, keep your options open

    • @Ryderschae
      @Ryderschae Год назад

      @@iaf4454thank you

  • @stellaborealis4846
    @stellaborealis4846 Год назад +5

    I think this is crappy advice. One thing is to say “I am dating with the intention to have a committed relationship” and not sounding or feeling desperate, another is being desperate about wanting a committed relationship and not saying it. Better to weed out the casual guys from the very beginning by being straight up with them. Tell them what you want, stop , analyze their body language or response and that will immediately tell you why he is there. You’ll weed the 💩 from the real ones a million times faster. Instead of using these time-consuming mind games. There’s no time for mind games now. We are in the ascension process and the dark reveals itself easier and faster, they can’t hide their true intentions anymore. Weed them fast by being straight up from the beginning. Just use a diplomatic and nice way of saying what you want. Then watch their reactions, behaviors and actions. It’ll tell you everything right there and then. Remove non-eligible men fast and quick. Nobody has times to play games anymore

    • @NWANYI
      @NWANYI Год назад +1

      I completely agree. And any man who is repulsed by the straight truth is out of the game to me also.

  • @gracevanilla
    @gracevanilla Год назад

    what do i do if i’ve already don’t all the things you’ve said not to do? can i just switch up? ❤

  • @EdelweisSusie
    @EdelweisSusie Год назад +2

    There’s no email address to get in touch with you - hope you see this. Would you do a video on how - when you’re a strong, independent woman, you can make yourself appear more in your feminine power to a man please? Just watched your video on Shakira & Gerard Pique but you didn’t go into what SHE could have done to be leas masculine. Thank you!

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад +1

      Some steps: 1) go to your body!! there is a lot of mental energy going on... some practical things you can do is: a) dance feel your body... b) be in touch with your skin, take long baths c) put perfume and creams d
      2) intution... become more intuitive your intuition is slept. Some practical things you can do to start: a) connect with your feelings, how this or that person make you feel?? How about those places you are in? How those places make you feel?? 3) connect with nature... some practical things you can do: a) go for walks to a places with trees, be bare foot feel your ground b) go to places where are little animals have time with them, feel them, understand them.
      4) senses activation... taste, smell, touch, the enviroment.
      a) Cook delicious food and taste it slowly. b) smell flowers, the grass etc c) touch little animals, babies in a gentle and smooth way...
      Easy things, this is easier that those points above
      1) focus on your looks. Some practical things: a) use make up b) put colorful and beautiful clothes on like skirts, dresses femenine clothes.
      In this way you will attract. That is a woman power... you dont do, you attract the doer 😉😉
      Hope it helps 😊 in your journey...

  • @PanzerChicken69
    @PanzerChicken69 2 месяца назад

    The only "high value" woman are young, prety virgins. Nothing else matters. Your carreer, your money, your car, home, friends, education... it's all completely irrelevant to us men.

  • @moniak88
    @moniak88 Год назад

    that makes sense

  • @jlb8164
    @jlb8164 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @kekeme555
    @kekeme555 Год назад

    This was awesome

  • @peterhoatson
    @peterhoatson Год назад

    Oh that's magic behaviour to exhibit for a man and make him work for you but if you play the mystery card for too long and especially when you want a relationship with him too then you run the risk of him investing his efforts elsewhere. Show those behavious and he'll love it

  • @ReynielCadalo
    @ReynielCadalo 5 месяцев назад

    Ma'am please don't be offended because I'm a man watching some of your videos please don't offended and I'm really sorry for doing that I'm here because iwant to learned a lot from the feminity hope God help me to not to tell your secrets to other people just help pray on it oh bide away I'm from Philippines thank you for accepting me even though I'm not really sure you accept me

  • @terraiznajem105
    @terraiznajem105 Год назад

    ❤thank you

  • @PollyYadav-gc9bn
    @PollyYadav-gc9bn Год назад

    I have boycut because i like it so will a man really approach me because mostly they see me as there brother and they really share there things truthfully and sometimes see me as a guide , problem is will a man ever approach me in sense of relationship 🤣🤣

  • @mimimi5140
    @mimimi5140 Год назад

    How about how ti reverse it? You became needy and masculine and now the mystery is gone?

  • @naderehcompani1628
    @naderehcompani1628 Год назад

    I thought I was in a high School session ,
    Relax , be more of human

  • @mindfulpaths101
    @mindfulpaths101 Год назад

  • @fadererafashola5168
    @fadererafashola5168 Год назад

    😊

  • @neelamk7926
    @neelamk7926 Год назад

    i have a question..i meet men and they say they are virgin but on the other side they perform good sexting have good knowledge of sex.. also ready to have sex the other day.. when i ask them how you know this much and good at it ..they be like my male frnds teach me or i learn over the internet ... is it true or its a red flag please ppl comment i really wana know.

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад +8

      1. It depends on their age but I rarely met truly virgin men. Most men have at least one opportunity to lose virginity unless they dont want to out of religious belief. 2. Men who say they are virgin and know that much about sex are a big red flag to me.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Год назад

      Lol just like the ones lying about being asexual 😂 men think they're cute when they say crap like that. Don't fall for their lies. Don't be naive. They will tell you anything to bed you. Anything.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Год назад +2

      It is a lie... the man is a lier dont believe him

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 Год назад

      Could be true. I’m a virgin man and I tell women this so they know I have some knowledge. It takes more effort to make women orgasm.

  • @danielaludwig8343
    @danielaludwig8343 Год назад

    Does not need to be true, wanting a relationship could be a Standard. Standards are important to tell.

  • @divineempress7188
    @divineempress7188 Год назад

    😇❤❤💯💯

  • @ghg42
    @ghg42 Год назад +3

    god, your insightfulness is on another level, a real queen you are ☺

    • @Theblackswan55
      @Theblackswan55  Год назад

      Thanks for the compliment. Never thought of myself like that but I am sure glad that my insight is helpful. Love u