How to Delete Your Feelings For a Man
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If someone truly values and wants you in their life… they will never put themselves in a position to lose you. So it’s all about his ego games.
True😢
Brian is the big brother we all wish we had that sits us down, tells us the truth about that guy that didn't deserve us or appreciate our worth and even when our hearts are breaking makes us smile and have hope again.
I listened to him two years ago when my dreams of being with the person I loved just weren't coming true.
I did the breakup course
I listened to Brian when he said he wasn't the guy for you, if he was, he would not have let you go.
I went no contact. I got on with life. Two months later I met the love of my life. Every morning I wake up, have coffee with this man that is in love with me, devoted to me and makes me smile every day, I think I'm so grateful I have him. I'm so grateful I listened to Brian and didn't get stuck trying to force something that would never have worked. I love your work Brian! Keep doing what you do best ❤
When it's over, then it's over . Thanks for the honesty and truth.
I told a dismissive avoidant I was moving on recently. He didn’t give an f-. He messed me around for 13 months! He had many female ‘friends’ too 😂🙅♀️
Ladies, you’re worth a guy who chooses you from the start!!
Thanks for this, mine asked me for 1 yrs but he wanted no responsibility but all of the benifits 😢i hate when i doubt myself 😢
@@marjoriemartinez9973 I know it feels awful doesn’t it? They leave you confused, mine did the interest-detach-discard cycle so many times, like he expected endless chances (he may have been high in narcissism idk). It wasn’t my job to figure him out or fix him! Don’t doubt your intuition & leave when you can. You’re worthy of a good guy 💗
@@happydaisy404gal it can feel like playing yoyo or ping-pong with a dismissive avoidant. I turned the tables on him a couple of days ago and he didn’t like it. Couldn’t stand the inconsistency and lack of commitment from his side. Felt so one sided. Yikes!
@@anakeof5300 Good for you! 100% the inconsistency was maddening. He never felt quite human tbh. Good riddance! I am so glad I got out.
I ended it after being strung along. I said I was letting him go, got stuff off my chest which was not so nice things and then went NC. I felt better the first month or two, then I felt worse. It’s true that grief is not linear. Thank you for your content. ❤
I'm taking a break from all relationships to reset and find myself again.
I can feel the void and the scary unknown. My goal is to be comfortable and confident just being single. When I feel ready for a new relationship, hopefully, I will be a better, happier, and more secure partner to be with.
He did string me along, for 17 months. Not 17 years luckily. Haha. It is hard when we find someone who offers us something we really want that seemed possible and viable at last, then they take it away abruptly for no good reason. It makes us question ourselves as to why, when we should always have been questing their behaviour patterns. And why they are on repeat with many ladies.
I did 7 months but i realized what was happening 😢so i left him
@Music We can only be 'strung along' for as long as we allow it 😅. Take that in. 😊
"He's not the right guy for you, otherwise you wouldn't be going through all of that."
Such a good video! Not what if, what is!
This break up is hurting so much 😔
Can you do more videos about this topic? It is so helpful.
Hang in there! A broken heart is like a broken bone. It takes time to heal. 💔❤️
It’s already been 2 months and it’s still painful in the same way.
@@gret9815 Trust me it gets better with time. I went through a breakup after 10 years. I thought I would never get over him. 10 years later.. I don’t remember the feelings I had for that person. Best lesson is that you will look back and be glad you didn’t go back. Be strong and know that you will be fine. You’re beautiful and you deserve to be happy. Stay strong !
It hurts so much, but get moving with your own life, get his breakup course. Look through his old videos and listen listen listen, he's done so much that will help you. Hang in there, better days are ahead!!
thank you🥺
12:26 let go of the ex and just move on. So true!
OMG just what I needed
I just acknowledge feelings are illogical and I value logic. I let logic dictate my decisions. Eventually my feelings come around. I've never gone no contact. Still good friends with some of my ex's and most of my crushes. Of course mourning the loss of the future I thought was to pass hurts. Cry it out, accept it, and embrace the idea there's something better for both of us to come.
You hit it on the nose for me. Thank you.
Brian you hit the nail on the head, Hollywood is just a fantasy not real life but women tend to think relationships are like Hollywood, we need to wake up and move on, like a man does….i always remember the fuc--up stuff and never want to see or hear from them again
I started writing a journal focused only on the relationship I wanted to end, so every time I thought it was a good idea to keep on it just read about the situation in my own words. It worked fine
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Forgive yourself of being blindsighted and also let go of the fantasy world in your mind 😊
Blindsighted not blindsided 😂
@@PolarBear-mj9wt many thanks 😊
Well said I get it 👍
@@PolarBear-mj9wtblind sided is correct.
Just in time , went no contact with him today
I'm Day 12 today.
May the Lord God wrap His arms of love and comfort around you and fill you with His peace.
(I'd have gone mad without His comfort and love).
This was needed for me right now
I had a different reaction. When I finally realized I wasn't being valued and that his preferences lay in a married woman, I didn't continue to love him. My emotions went to absolute disgust for him, a sense of betrayal and utter disgust.
Great content Brian.
You’re the Best!
Great video Brian I have good days and bad days I loved someone 13 years for someone that use me and didn't care about me and weirdly enough we weren't in a relationship. It's taken me years but slowly and surely I'm moving on and it wasn't possible for me because I have unconditional love no matter what he did to me I always loved him. Once I started to care about me and realized my potential that I deserve love... moving on happened a little bit over time
in my case you are sir, *my little brother* love your sense of humour, and advise- thanks
You speak French and Flemish? Cool!
So... Informative, valuable content with great humor and a light touch - while also a linguist 🥰 Thank you. I find your content soothing, helpful and entertaining (a great mix). All the best from BC Canada.
This is so very true, all of it ... thank you (and you always make me smile 😊) !
Brian your personality is beautiful. I’m happy that I found your page❤
I just needed to hear this, thank you.i just suffered a heartbeat this week and it has been hard moving on...thank you Brian
Thanks for giving true, honest, direct, heartfelt, grounding advise! ❤❤❤ so practical and helpful! Hugs and Love!
Thank you! Could you create a similar video on how to emotionally detach from a colleague with whom you were close to having a serious relationship, but now, after the breakup, you still have to interact with frequently throughout the day?
12:26 let go of the EX, and just let go! So true.
Thank you Brian 🙏🏼
This is so timely! I am around a place where my ex and I traveled so I had nostalgia. Something in me told me to check RUclips and I came across your video. Thank you for your brotherly instruction!
I ❤ these analogies. Needed to hear this. Thank you.
See him for who he is. Thanks Brian! ❤
love all your audio books!
Amazing! So helpful and perfect timing 😊, thank you , will listen few more times for sure!!!! Amazing video 🎉
Truth
It hurts when he was so sure about me, he did his best to be together despite distance then later on changed his mind about committing and turning into an avoidant, discarded our connection, rejects me and leaves. But i don’t hate him cauz i saw a wounded man,i did accept him with his complicated past.
Now he made the decision for me that i should walk away. It’s his loss.. he’ll realise it one day.
ain’t that the truth
Maybe I need a turtle 🐢
Yes! I have a resident frog in a pot near my porch n he is better company daily.😅
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Wonderful video! Such funny analogies.❤
Great advice. Not my case now, but I'm always learning a lot from your videos. Thanks, Brian!
Together 7 yrs w last 2 yrs being ghosted till needed someone 😂 but nothing in almost 2 months.
I'm so done usually and I've done good w no contact. I'm good by myself 😊
6:26 that was hilarious
Great 👍 thanks again for your help ❤
Thank you Geert.
The Lord God bless you.
I needed this insight and encouragement today.
I'm on Day 12 of no contact, and my brain is feeling the dopamine withdrawal today.
Hi Brian,
I don't know you , but i have to say you are hilarious and I love you for that reason, I love anyone that makes me laugh, brilliant and funny.Thanks for the advice and laughter.
Thank you, Brian, this is so helpful! 🙂 Although there is one point in which I have a different experience. I have always convinced the guy who broke up with me to have a final discussion. And it was always a blessing! The last such case was three weeks ago. I feel much more released and with my self esteem in place since I had this closing discussion with him. 😊 God bless him with a great other woman and me with a great other man! 😃
What a great man.
So tough when you see them at work everyday.
Your videos are very interesting and funny too....I love your advice. Even though I am not interested in anyone right now, I simply enjoy watching your videos and learning more about relationships. Thanks. ❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂have you met Men?
it buffles me how well you know us women 😂😂
Thank you brother 🎉
Thank you,❤
Thank you Brian you make such sense especially when we aren't able to think logically and think with our emotions... and if all else fails we can get a pet 🐢
Very impressed with you're French! I've got all you're audio books and highly recommend them... Thank you for reading to the end,
I Love It When You Do That!
Thanks a lot for this.
Women all over the world are getting the message that our assumptions that (most) men (especially the ones we chose to date) are worthwhile dating material, is just flat out wrong. We're becoming versed in emotional intelligence.... we see how the the dating culture has made us primed to blame ourselves (!!!) for men who are just so-so, subpar and even worse - and we should have passed on most of them after just a 'Hello'. Instead, we learned we should do more, be more, and quite frankly if we are completely focused upon what we need to do or feel we should be doing, rather than focused on the man and his behavior vis-a-vis us, and what HE is all about - if that is happening in the context of dating that person, well it's time to say goodbye, because if you are thinking it's all on you as to how the relationship goes, then you are dating someone who doesn't care all that much. Women get caught up in the trap of taking the relationship SO seriously - even after it ended. You will often read women say, 'it still hurts' and 'this breakup is killing me' etc etc. Ladies, he's not all that. Open your eyes - you didn't lose anything that was worth more than junk jewelry, I promise you. You certainly didn't lose anything that was meant for you, which also means it wasn't anything that was worthwhile - not worthwhile for you. And since it wasn't meant for you, take license and just call it for what it is - junk. You owe it to yourself to give yourself more respect and as for that other person, you need to see them with clarity and someone treating you poorly is NOT an amazing person.
Thank you Brian for such a good video.
I still don't understand why men make women go through all these things.
Relationships shouldn't be as complicated. However, we are living in a world where most relationships are one sided and in most cases , women love and give the most.
It's so heartbreaking...😢
😂😂 most of this video I related to me, your right I need turtle 🐢, I blocked his number in July, this is a great video 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are amazing!
Thank you for this,
I'm going thru this righ now 😢 hopefully I forget him soon!! Even i have no contact with him!! Thanks for posting!❤
I like to listen to your video s. Greatings from Flanders Belgium.
Goldfish explaining stock market 😂😂
Good tips, often you both had a sense it wasn't happening for whatever reason.. timing, hung-up on the ex, not that compatible, etc. It's just that the guy took the reins and did it; made you feel dispensable plus the ego smack, feels icky. Then the void and loneliness sets in, can make you linger on the one who left.
In the future, don't wait too long on a relationship stuck in neutral or w/o a mutual buzz. Be the first to leave and you'll feel more in control.
Also, is lopsided for women, are bio programmed to attach (necessary b/c they hv babies) and so suffer more - need to self protect. I wish men would respect that innate quality instead of exploiting it for personal gain.
Keep a turtle as a pet! 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✅
Lol i needed this 😅
Yeah.... I'd rather have a turtle! Thnx for ur wisdom...
My boyfriend won’t break up with me. He agitates me so I walk away.
Hello!
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Ok how do I go no contact when he lives on the 3rd floor of my building?
Made me lol yes my guy needed deodorant
I dont waste time with a man Who Is not showing any interest.😊
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Brian said "bigger than Eiffel tower".. and my ex is French guys .. I'm sad xD