Well let me tell you something my sister was travelling with me and and my another sister and brother and i saw 2 guys harassing my sister that too during evening time which never happened in delhi so yaaa I'm not saying delhi is best but ya chennai is not safe is absolutely true
Well sis, be glad you didnt face stuff like that, because my sister had faced issues where college students where harassing by taking pictures without her consent.
Of course, if you wear Niqab, you will stand out of the crowd too which will get attention of others just like in this video. That doesn't mean they are harassing you. If you don't want any attention try to blend in with the crowd.
Except the blue guy most of the ppl (including women) were looking at you coz you were doing something odd over there by holding a camera towards them.And ppl who were sitting on the floor of the train were actually talking to their frnd who was sitting opposite to u. Btw report the blue guy to the police usually the police is Swift in their action against any form of abuse.
Totally agree… everyone’s reaction there was Weird because they saw her shooting on camera… infact the guys sitting down were telling her to stop shooting and the other one was scared that what is she upto… can’t Judge Just Chennai on ur Video Bases… for sure the blue shirt guy was vulgar in actions… again even he was shooting u … u could have taken an action there and then if u had ur bouncer instead of posting it n talking about it … being brave n taking action is imp
@@carolthomas4015 she went with few bouncers alll the time but she created a scene which is unexpected. In recent survey chennai took a place as safest city and these butt burning guys came with camera with a script to cook here
I am just 16... My father being in the defence... He was posted to Chennai... The thing I observed there was people there are very conservative... They don't like girls wearing jeans and tshirt or dresses... If a 2 yr old girl is wearing a dress the parents themselves make her wear leggings... I was quite taken aback abt the thought process of the people... I am not telling all people r like that in Chennai... To some extent yess they judge you when you jeans top... Skirt ka toh sawal hi paida nahin hota... I myself have an experience... I was wearing jeans and top and roaming... Not even a crop top it was oversized tshirt and jeans... Jj went with my father to buy something from the market... Some ladies... Were staring at me... More like judging me for wearing jeans and tshirt... I could understand what they were speaking abt me with each other... Which was quite shocking... The problem is Women don't support women... I mean I was just 12 yrs old that time... What dk u expect a 12 yr old to wear? Salwar kameez? Seriously... The child at thatcage would love to choose want he or she wants to wear rather than having alot of ristrictions... Its kind off odd... People should understand that there should be freedom to where whatever that particular person wants to... And stop judging for once... If women only stare and say stupid things then men will obv try to do something na... This is not only Chennai or Tamil Nadu... It for whole India... People need to be a lil more open minded when it comes to girls ka clothings...
Should get matured a little bit. Learn law of attraction between two sex. First of all if u say ,u wear jean with top or any modern clothing ,it's ur freedom. So y do men don't have freedom to watch ? Eventhough I dont support physical abuse and staring a women. But women should understand,we were brought up in a society where our ancestors have maintained certain dignity for women and respect them. But nowadays for men ,women is just a object either pay her for sex or fuck off . She has no values in the society.
There are conservative society beside accusing them of their culture start respecting them and their culture it wouldn't be any shame if you can respect and behave according to their culture AND WHY PROMOTING THESE WESTERN CULTURE in conservative society ITS INDIA DONT MAKE IT ENGLAND AGAIN
1:47 you were secretly recording them with your gopro. They were looking at your camera. The women was looking too. They were just curious. I am sure there are creeps out there and its not safe for women but don't tarnish some innocent people's image like this.
I feel dressing like this in local train especially in Chennai where the clothing is very traditional and modest and carrying a camera recording everyone ofcourse they will look at u, I have been to Chennai alot of time and even i was roaming their at night with my girl-friends, i never felt unsafe
Really?! She literally got creeped out that disgusting excuse of a man on the train and this is what you have to say! At this point only God can judge!
@@sweetcaramel52She was specifically dressed in a manner which would attract attention. I have seen air hostess in their uniforms travelling safely at 4:30 AM trains in the Chennai suburbs. If you travel in a saree in small European towns, you would obviously get stares.
Chennai is like 5000 times safe than most north Indian cities. Its a very traditional society. It they see you wear different clothes, men women both they will kinda give you judgemental look but won't ever come and say something uncomfortable to you....been living in Delhi NCR for 11 years now and lived in Chennai before this for 5 years. I have seen woman in Chennai work till 11:30 in night and go to work at 4 am when its dark. In delhi women are hardly present in public places, its just men and men everywhere and its very uncomfortable and unsafe. So yes, Chennai is safe for women.
I also think so If dress up according to their culture hardly anyone will harass u But in delhi even if u r in burkha ...no guarantee of u not being raped Delhi mindset is on another level😢
The mistake was with girl ...she started Filming without reason.and then they stare at her..even if u do this to me i do the same...who gave permission to film us...and my sister daily goes safely in chennai...she never state like this a single problem..for us chennai is much more safer
I am pretty sure that Most of the people were looking at the phone or camere even women were starring at u but that blue shirt guy needs to be hold accountable and should ne put behind bars
Hello Guys, I have mixed opinion with this! I have been in many night outs at chennai, even with my female friends. But, we haven’t encountered any of the scenarios as you mentioned. I agree that people at the sub urban trains (not at chennai metro) used to stare, Even we guys had afraid of getting looted, especially during peak crowds and late nights as well. I like to say my perspective, In this video we can also assume that the people may stare by looking at the camera she was holding. Adding to that, Coming across a modern woman at chennai metro is very common. But not at the sub- urban trains. This may also attract a lot of on-lookers. Hence, I conclude that it may take some time for people to totally ignore a woman who is out at late nights. But for this sake I won’t term the chennai is not safe. It is safer than many and safest to a huge extent than many.
I was in Chennai for 6 years . Good that your friends didn't experience this but my friends and I have faced such issues in Tambaram while returning back home , especially in buses as we use the ladies coach in train most of the time.
Every person in that train looking like that because you are odd one . If you are sitting and suddenly someone with camera recording what is your reaction ?? But that blue shirt guy may be a creep 🤬. Every area have these type of creeps 🤬🤬 but what about north india
Where from North india come here, why you people so obsessed with north indian.. Its like, your kid get first rank but you as parent become more happy because your neighbour's kid failed.. Is gujarati, marathi people in their achievements bring south india or north India like "what about south india/north india"? No, right!!
@@rahulmore4584 Bro just see there videos you may notice that in every North Indian 2 am stories she wear fully covered cloth and but in this video she said that everyone stares are stripping her even thought they may see her because she is recording something I have a question if you are travelling in a train anytime and a group of people boarding that train with holding a camera whats your reaction are you just not look there?
@@darksoul4500 if you are talking from this perspective then ya all I agree with you.. And thats why I like your comment first.. They just want content thats why for sure they did it purposely, and in delhi they know ki even in full cloths they got some creepy. But here they find creepies..
@@khushichauhan8555 if you don’t know, don’t rush to take a side! she goes around with a go pro in hand .. there’s nothing discreet about her ways! Also, it’s an obvious attempt to rage bait people
@@savantdude Just because It is chennai and it's people you're accusing the girl Right? What if it was Delhi Or Gurugram Or some Other North Indian City. Your cmnt would have been about the the whole North India and how they are bad people
How do you know she was not being secretive about recording them??? Whatever it is the staring and that disguting behaviour of that blue shirt man cannot be justified
Talking about Chennai, yes I have experienced in Chennai and a major incident in Bangalore as well. That too, the incident happened at 7 P.M. The incident happened with me in the middle of a road and literally there were people standing nearby and could clearly see what happened. While I screamed and yelled at those fuckers, none of them even had the humanity to come and check on me. Moving from Maharashtra to South is a big change. Because of these experiences, I definitely can say that south is not safe
@@shrutichaturvedi2389 you are same as the youtuber, she was waiting for someone get tëasèd but nothing happened. Dressed tight showing cle3vage with a camera at 2AM, people will definitely watch her and its midnight dark outside nothing to see outside, you focus will be inside train and sitting at last in middle of seat so that she will be watched by all clearly. This is madeup video to get views
Bro if ur gonna go with that big ass GoPro people will ofcourse be curious other than that blue shirt guy everyone is just normal indians being curious cause u can see an old lady staring too
I guess Have come across your channel very lately, however Lucky to see all your videos and creating a very great content and spreading like this awareness is much much needed in India. As an adult female I would like to know more deeper abt such things. One thought which comes in my mind seeing one of ur comment that men n women both are not safe is very much true but not totally fair as I believe men n boys are grown up in such a mentality that "KOI UNKA KYA HI BIGAD LEGA ". OR. KAUN KYA HI LEGA HAMARE SE " until this kind of thinking is there I guess we aren't safe anywhere .... Also have a lot to say on this, However plz keep us updated with such videos until then plz be safe Ma'am ❤️🙏🏻
I remember when I had boarded the Chennai local train to go from Chennai to Tambaram , locals will stare at you , because you will look like an alien to them. I think even today if I go to Chennai , for taking a flight from Chennai to Delhi , locals won't welcome which is true as well. Since I am a northerner.
When an item song (in which women objectives as tandoori chicken and so on..) releases then we groove listening that. If we dont raise our voice against that then we dont have right to question the mental for general public because a person's behaviour is the reflection of what he/she consumes. I took only one example of item songs. And many of us using Instagram these days. No one is unware how a girl objectify herself there. There are various aspects which constitute the mentality of the person. It will be unfair if we only consider the result without thinking upon the reason.
False verdict ! I have had female friends from Delhi, UP, maharashtra, etc who have thoroughly felt safe in chennai for 4-5years. They didnt even want to return. This was like 10-15yrs ago.
wtf you are holding a camera facing towards them and they are the ones who are feeling odd not you. you are just trying to accuse people. As humans, we tend to gaze which looks odd to them.
Just see at the time of 3.33 there is a girl opposite to the blue shirt she is wearing chudidar he is not doing the same as he is doing by looking at you iam not saying that dress properly what iam saying is it's a local train in Chennai and that too at mid night 2 the dress is not correct one to wear at the place and time we girls should never complaint men by ourselves attracting them ,even if you wearing saree wear it as it should be worn if we girls say it's our birth right we will wear this then accept their looks
At night, at 2 am, walking with PCH and recording, wearing a half jeans, walking in public.... Not only boys but even girls and old ladies stare at you if you do such things 🤦🤦
Absolutely no words. I'm a chennaiite and I strongly condemn all the Chennai ppl who made her feel so uncomfortable. Such bunch of creeps haven't they seen any women or what 🙄. Btw can't imagine situation in rest of India. It's a wake up call. Thanks for exposing these creeps ma'am seriously. 3:40 🤬🤬🤬
Background music ah mute la potu... Video va paru... Except that blue shirt... Everything is normal... Bgm potu ooru yematharan.. athuku neeum comment Pani support pandra..🙄
After knowing that a Brazilian girl biker tourist being gang raped by 7 men in jharkhand along with her husband bei g beaten , I want to say that india is terrible for woman , i know people will not get this they ll start saying defaming this that non sense it's true right india has a country when it comes to women safety has failed completely it sends shivers man knowing all those cases against women jyothi singh AKA nirbhaya , veterinary doctor in hyderabad , soujanya in mangalore , these r very few registered and made it news cases but apparently their r un registered rape cases in india which r not covered by media horrifying don't know when this will end
every sane human being would stare at you if you film them with a go pro camera in the metro at night, really don't know if the blue guy was being creepy but weren't you filming him first? the real shit is you intentionally went to that metro actually finding some creep to find your content.
@@ronaktiwari5552i dont know if u travel much, but at those hours there's a category of ppl active, The woman &ex workers and their customers, so in that category these ppl do strange things to get what they want, u will find women making dirty slurs to get picked and paid which is ofcourse not recorded in most cases because that is what this whole thing is about, keeping the privacy and continuing the work for livelihood. If this happens in morning hours, then u can be assured these ppl r normal decent ppl and when they do such acts then u know they r dangerous. At night, u have hookers on streets who r waiting for ur actions, they will find and also ask u the rates because millions r waiting on streets to get picked. Can't generalise everything u need to consider facts of both sides, the time, the routine, the category of ppl around, everything. Visit any mall area in delhi at night or near hotel lines, u will find hundreds of women showing u middle finger, she isn't harassing but signaling her customers.
@@ronaktiwari5552 are you being blind fr? can't you see she deliberately went out there to find creeps and film them? for clout? I really don't know what the blue shirt guy was doing with his tongue it's creepy for sure.. AND I DO NOT SUPPORT THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOUR IN ANY CASE. BUT you go out with your GoPro camera at 12:00 a.m. on the metro and look how men and women both stare at you because it's fucking funny.
Why is there any need to do all this ? What boundaries are you trying to push?The world is not a safe place so protect yourself and don't try to find safety at the ugliest of things.
I know chennai is ur home , so u r defending , bro yes she was recording but without them knowingly if u see the angels u would it wasn't on the face kind of shit , don't defend here india everywhere girls r unsafe let's come to that conclusion then only normalcy can be bought
This is not at all fair video at all, the problem starts when they find that you are not belong from there own area or locality then then things happen....
@@iagreewithyou4328 how does this matter, This is a racist atrocity and crime the problem in people is they don't know what is racism what's the real reason behind this, in a one line I tell you, only those who have some brain can understand in full what I want to convey is " Apnay Ghar may kutta bhi Sher hota hai" and for those who can only appreciate and understand English a foreign language and for them our own Hindi most spoken and connecting language and 4th most speaking language is in the world, what I said is "Even a dog is a lion in his own home". And and if you are anybody is still not understand then go to internet search about racism by its happening what is the root cause of this, what is rasicm exactly is, and those who think they know what is racism is I want to say them they don't know anything or they may be fool...
Hi all you can't judge a book by its cover. Don't take a random incident and say people of chennai is against woman's safety. This is offending every one.
I being a local (male) can't go to ECR beach at late night cuz police patrol there. I stay near kovalam (the place mentioned by the journalist). ECR has witnessed number of murders and other crimes so cops are there to protect them.
Why you want to go there at that time? Hey that’s the reason police was there and we have a special app for womens and control room number. Did you go there if they say there is a cyclone? Grow up all the city’s have such place.
Chennai ppl usually sleep @ 10 to 11:30pm maxi. May be nomads may do those thinks Came for job and settled in our chennai. Now they spilling what they learn in thier home town.
' Yad Bhavam Tad Bhavati ' Your mission is to make your video successful to prove your want and point,..and it worked.. Congratulations ! 👍😋👍 P.S : Chennai is far more safer than any other city anywhere in India,.☺.
I am from Chennai and have not gone through such things… because i don't dress up so revealing though i dress up as westernized i could. The only reason as far as i could think of them staring at you like that would be… not to hurt anybody but only transgenders who are sexual workers will dress up Like like that in Chennai suburbs at that time of the day. U literally asked for it.
Yes... I was born in South India... And I can confirm that in South India people Dislike short clothing... They prefer clothes Which cover the whole body.. First of all it's not their habit to wear such short clothes... And it's not their cultural dress so people looked at her with even more curiosity.. In South India if you don't dress decently you'll get those gross looks..( be it a girl or boy)...
If you think this doesn't happen to fully clothed women that use public transport to go to work and get back from work at a reasonable hour... you're so beyond reality. I've had personal experience and my friends have had to. These are very conservative chudidar with dupatta kinda girls and all of them have been groped (not once) and I wish to god I'm making this up just to prove a point to an Internet stranger but sadly I'm not.
@@deepthi6996these videos should be about the things u are mentioning, but conveniently it's about the hours when s&x workers roam around finding customers. Obviously many of these happens regardless of time or location or clothing, but this video surely isn't proof of anything, rather misleading and judgmental.
Of all the metro cities i would say Chennai is the most conservative and judgemental despite having people come in from various places. I wonder why? Also, i never understood sexualizing legs. Like skirts are comfortable and airy. I get boobs and upper thighs but can we leave legs alone? I recently got into fashion and for my body type A like skirts look amazing (beyond knee so I'll stop you right there) but I realise all I can wear is pants cuz showing legs are considered sexual?
Most of them are looking at your camera. And wondering what you are doing at2 am because i guess most of the young modern woman don’t travel like that . If they see woman like you alot every day at that time just like in Europe then they will get used to it and it will be normal. But how can you judge something which is not even common in India. ? Some older men are like that in most of the countries . Even men are not safe nowadays.
Sorry to say but few issues with this video. 1. You shld have asked your team to secretly shoot. If you are going to record in front of them, you will be getting such reactions- if you actually wanted to show the reality. 2. Also You too are at fault. Did you seek permission to shoot. Who gave you the right to invade their privacy. Not everyone is comfortable. Because of this sake, I cannot term Chennai is not safe.
Bro tough to accept the truth to be the better version of yourself. If the same would have been captured in Delhi , Up you would have said shame on these states and now you are defending. What about the blue shirt guy then ? Was he just got itching in that area randomly?
@@Nacc-mx2fj can you pls tell me what is the truth...?? If the blue guy tried anything unwanted to that girl means.. people would have beaten his ass off... Don't compare the reality of up and Delhi with this cooked up video... !!! Mr.fake id
@@Nacc-mx2fjChennai never used up with such dress culture till now and mostly only the call girls will roam in and around city like that. Check the videos which is done by local reporters in late night
@@Whytedevil So by this thinking a tourist girl who was raped by 7 men in Jharkhand was also justified because the girl also wore such dress at that night. What is this thinking? Have some shame , girl can wear anything it's there choice , what is this backward thinking. So if rapes happen in our country due to this reason so that is also justified. What a mindset you have to defend your city . Have some shame.
@@Nacc-mx2fj After going all your comments now it’s the time to reply it back. See first of all in chennai only call girl will roam on that time with such dress, and if you wear a same dress and roam in and around chennai no one care, but that is night and she claiming it’s 2am all local train services will stop at 1am. Did you noticed even a women stared her!!! Problems are everywhere and for everyone there is no gender, as a men even I faced a same situation in my teenage. So before doing such things she should understand the ground reality. Even wearing underwear is comfortable for me can I roam around the city? Every state have own culture. so outsiders should respect that the same way she can’t do this in Bihar or Chhattisgarh even if she have bouncers with her. She just scripted their entire video. My fellow friends having shop in urban square she asked for interview with many women’s in Hindi and everyone avoided and later she asked for English only few answered in that few she added. And one more thing she went with gang of her friends in all the places and she created the scene in the local train. Am not saying chennai is safe always but the way she portrayed is nonsense thing.
I agree for women safety, they should feel safe... But i noticed some cons of this video... 1.) youre filming in public transport. Yes... When you film in such places people will look at the camera atleast for 5 sec to see whats going on.. when you turn the camera, people will look at it for sometime 2.) its south india : Yes, people in south dont wear small clothes and prefer full clothes... They dont like anyone wearing shorts small clothes.(Be it a boy or a girl).. i myself experienced this... The dressing style doesnt match south india style... Thats why they are looking so strangely on you... Next time wear their cultural dress and match them if you dont want strange looks... I was born in south so i can tell you... Second of all People in public transport ( mostly) get curious by seeing camera and something because most of them are middle class and dont know much... So they are curious and thats why they are looking...
Same if she did this vlog in north india next day her photo will come in newspaper as missing, she very well tried to damage the city with this one incident even there is lady is staring at her only because of her dress and no one stare that lady who is sitting. Am not dragging the dress politics here but no one will go in such time with that dress and Chennaities will never do that. Go to the place in pallikaranai radial road after 10 pm and same in Nelson manikam road after 12 am and Outer Ring Road at same time and see the call girls there will wear the similar dress if you wear the same dress in day time no one will stare like that but you did it intentionally
Requesting to read fully, everyone! Hi. I really apologise and feel bad for the situations you'd faced. I'd been in Chennai for a decade, and here's what I observed. Chennai has many daily-wages & slum workers hailing from different towns of the state. And especially during nights after 11PM, the most you could see on the roads & trains are those people and most of those people would be drunk. Thus the combination of slum workers + drunk clearly specifies it is not safe, no matter which city is that. A corporate employee being drunk vs an average slum worker being drunk, there's a lot of difference. I wouldnt say all, but most. Chennai has a lot of slum workers. Thus this specifies and justifies the situation you'd faced. However, I'm so sorry for what you'd overcame.
Chennai is quite safe during the night as long as we don't do something out of the ordinary like this. I have seen girls coming alone to night shows and returning home safely at 2 AM. One should be able to guess which places could be dangerous at night. All Indian cities are dangerous if you end up in the wrong place wrong time.
Its safe..but some people are really disgusting..and they r everywhere in this world..I hv been to Chennai 6,7 times so I also faced this kind of behaviour sometimes..in temple nd streets also.
Okay... what is this program trying to prove? Tht “men stare”? Well, v know tht! The point here must be “is it safe? Will a rape occur? Was there any form of sexual harassment (besides the staring)”! I am neither victim blaming, nor justifying their (certain men’s actions)... I am just saying, “staring is basically becoz of the cultural shock that they get exposed to”.... IF THEY TAKE ANOTHER STEP towards harassment, then u could call a city unsafe.
Like that blue shirt guy actions i have also faced the same situation when i was only 15 years old and also he was doing that in public market at that time i really didn't know what was he doing but only thing i can feel that i was so uncomfortable....for people who is saying that it is scripted, it can be but for me it is totally not because i can understand the situation and only those girls can understand who faced the situation... aur aaj mere me itne changes aa chuke hai ki mujhe ek aacha ladka bhi ek jaanwaar ki trh lgta hai aur kbhi kbhi lgta hai ki iss aacha nark mil jaata jo behtr tha
The person in the blue shirt looks very similar to a Tamil movie actor. He plays very small roles in movies. For example, he shows for a few seconds in Oh My Ghost (in the period flashback playing tabla). This video could totally be staged!
Firstly all the people here need to understand that you don't have control over other but you have control on yourself. So why would you put yourself in a position where you also know that you are not safe?
You can definitely try your luck with regards to reporting this video but it breaks my heart to tell you that it isn’t illegal to record … you don’t need to ask for consent when you’re in public recording stuff which is in plain sight .
First of all it was bad to see that guy behave that way. And just so you know, even in the most developed countries like the US, things like this tend to happen. People of this sort are always going to be there wherever we go and not just chennai. People are staring at you in the train because people who usually travel in those trains are mostly from a low economic background but majority will not do any harm to you. Seeing women with very modern dressing is not very common for them. I agree that a girl have the rights to dressup the way she wants and not be treated like that. But a girl should also know where to dress how. In chennai you can wear these kind of dresses comfortably in some places but not in all places. As women we must protect ourself first, even the way women sit wearing short dresses matter a lot. It is an etiquette to know how to sit when we wear short dress. Let us not just wait for the society to change. Let it change but from our part, let us wear the dress we want but make sure we follow proper dress etiquette while we sit and move around so even if we wear short dress we know how to sit. And make sure if the dress we wear is apt for the place we are going. Let us focus on what we can control till the society changes I am also a chennai girl ❤
Being a South Indian From Andhra Pradesh, i completely agree with your statement... In the South They are not used to these modern clothes... (Both boy and girl).
If you go to any place with a camera at 2 am recording without their consent they will give you the same reaction....I think they are just curious instead of that blue shirt guy....I mean he is really creepy, rest are just curious because you are recording them
Not only in chennai even if you go to Bangalore or any other south or north states with these type of dress in unusual time they will come and ask what is the rate. She claming herself as journalist and she having friend in ‘NUNGAMBAKKAM’ and never know what peoples do in night that’s funny
Women also watching you.. they think may be you are from RUclips channel.. when we travel with camera. People keep staring at our group.. Blue guy is creepy
In India..can't guarantee women's safety..BUT I AM SURE THIS WOULD NOT BE THE SAME WITH THE OTHER Female JOURNALIST who came to meet her. If you are really comfortable wearing those clothes..be comfortable with the LOOKS also.
people who are saying that she was recording secretly that's why people were starring...guys understand this, its terrifying for ANYBODY if someone is constantly starring at you. So what they were curious? They knew that she was uncomfortable and not okay with them starring at her. Sometimes we don't need to express by words our body language is enough. And if the people in the train are so "decent and well behaved" why didn't they stop the creep in the blue shirt. There were a lot of people there I'm sure someone must've noticed... Please stop making them feel guilty for talking abt something that's actually disturbing. I while watching the vid felt disgusting during those clips, Idk how scarry it might've been for the team
Men will "always" watch woman in train, bus, flight, note that down. May be talk also about you. But the moment we go away from that place, we won't even remember you. This is also Universal truth. So dont make it your prestige issue. You don't have anything extra special that the next girl on road won't have. It's natural for any men to stare at girls. Making gestures at you was definitely wrong but I guess he could have mistakenly thought of you as some sex worker roaming around at 2 AM, with skin revealing dress and staring at them. Even that woman was staring at you, did you do something to make people look at you? Birds flutter around each other so that their counterpart notice and then they can engage in mating. Men will always notice you and your body language if you are sending any frequency of heat buildup within you and then will resonate at same frequency and reciprocate the same. This is it. No hard feelings. Peace ✌
Seriously everyone says that now girl are safe and secure but reality is that every state, area, everywhere 😔 girl are not sefe please 🥺 request you save girl girls
People really have to change their mentality about girls. People dont judge or put any restri tion on boys the way they put on girls. At the end if the day girls are humans too. Girls should have freedom to wear whatever They want. They should be able to roam everywhere without restrictions just like the boys do
😂😂😂India does have many problems, such as racism, the caste system, and high rates of rape. We must realize that this is not a problem that only occurs in the southern or northern regions, but a problem for the entire country. I am grateful to be born in Indonesia, where there are 5 religions and various ethnic groups such as Chinese, Arab, Indian, European, African, and American. We all live side by side in peace. Although there are sometimes disagreements, they can usually be resolved peacefully. I hope India can overcome this moral crisis.
There are conservative society beside accusing them of their culture start respecting them and their culture it wouldn't be any shame if you can respect and behave according to their culture AND WHY PROMOTING THESE WESTERN CULTURE in conservative society ITS INDIA DONT MAKE IT ENGLAND AGAIN
As a men I never felt safe in mumbai, we friends planned to go chor bazaar and some locals said it will start at 4:30 am so we took last train and went to mazgaon circle railway station and we planned to wait there till 04:00 am, inbetween I went to rest room when I came out suddenly a aunty grabbed my hand and asked me to come her room I really shocked and I said am not interested in Hindi women immediately she pulled me and pressed my face in her boods immediately my friends came and shouted and she left the place later only we know from RPF this bazaar is located near red light area and they will behave like this to the new comers
Qur'an 33:59 tells Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) to ask his family members and other Muslim women to wear outer garments when they go out, so that they are not harassed: O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their cloaks over their bodies. That's why Islam is the best religion in the world. ❤
Appear local, in native apparel, then try. I will be curious to know the outcome. Cherry picking is not a social experiement. Wrong timing, wrong dressing, wrong gestures etc. might attract wrong response. To be honest no place in this world is safe with wrong body language, with wrong outfits in the wrong hours of the day.
Kudos to you doing this and showing us the reality. But in my 14 years of working and travelling across various cities , I did not feel the need to go out at 2 AM and prove a point. Maybe this a journalism point of view, but I would choose my personal safety over anything else, irrespective of whether the place has a good or a notorious reputation.
Thankyou for documenting your experience and sharing it with us. It takes so much. It’s high time we start talking about this on large scale. This is the ground reality, happens to every woman of this country, not just in Chennai, in every part and corner of the society. Not just at 2 am but at any hour. This is what women go through in their everyday lives, and sad reality is we have become accustomed to and normalised this, as there seems to be no scope of improvement. I refuse to engage with men trying to victim blame as they are themselves the part of the problem and they always find ways to dismiss women’s experiences.
My Grandmother always used to say ghost only roam in the night, that ghost will come in any form so stop exploring in night even if the city get the gold star award for women safety. And that blue shirt guy showing vulgar signs why you can’t make a complaint with RPF ?
It’s not mumbai or Jharkhand we never use to such dressing culture ask your nungambakkam friend and check who will wear such dress in mid night and roam in an around Chennai
I am a Chennai-ite, and I personally feel safe at night, in Chennai, rather than Delhi for sure!
Well let me tell you something my sister was travelling with me and and my another sister and brother and i saw 2 guys harassing my sister that too during evening time which never happened in delhi so yaaa I'm not saying delhi is best but ya chennai is not safe is absolutely true
Well sis, be glad you didnt face stuff like that, because my sister had faced issues where college students where harassing by taking pictures without her consent.
well if delhi is the base of comparison for you.....your city is not very safe
For the men who'll say she shouldn't wear this or wear that,bro I'm a niqabi and still men make me feel uncomfortable by thier gazes
Biqabhi means :?
@@prabhu19 niqabi** Google it
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Of course, if you wear Niqab, you will stand out of the crowd too which will get attention of others just like in this video. That doesn't mean they are harassing you. If you don't want any attention try to blend in with the crowd.
@@prabhu19muslim women wear burqa those are called niqab
Except the blue guy most of the ppl (including women) were looking at you coz you were doing something odd over there by holding a camera towards them.And ppl who were sitting on the floor of the train were actually talking to their frnd who was sitting opposite to u. Btw report the blue guy to the police usually the police is Swift in their action against any form of abuse.
it's even a possibility they paid him to act like that
@@neelobh You stupid? A girl would pay to get harassed????
Totally agree… everyone’s reaction there was Weird because they saw her shooting on camera… infact the guys sitting down were telling her to stop shooting and the other one was scared that what is she upto… can’t Judge Just Chennai on ur Video Bases… for sure the blue shirt guy was vulgar in actions… again even he was shooting u … u could have taken an action there and then if u had ur bouncer instead of posting it n talking about it … being brave n taking action is imp
@@carolthomas4015 she went with few bouncers alll the time but she created a scene which is unexpected. In recent survey chennai took a place as safest city and these butt burning guys came with camera with a script to cook here
After watching this Chennai video for the 15th time Having a doubt that the blue shirt guy is a part of the script 😂😂😂
I am just 16... My father being in the defence... He was posted to Chennai... The thing I observed there was people there are very conservative... They don't like girls wearing jeans and tshirt or dresses... If a 2 yr old girl is wearing a dress the parents themselves make her wear leggings... I was quite taken aback abt the thought process of the people... I am not telling all people r like that in Chennai... To some extent yess they judge you when you jeans top... Skirt ka toh sawal hi paida nahin hota... I myself have an experience... I was wearing jeans and top and roaming... Not even a crop top it was oversized tshirt and jeans... Jj went with my father to buy something from the market... Some ladies... Were staring at me... More like judging me for wearing jeans and tshirt... I could understand what they were speaking abt me with each other... Which was quite shocking... The problem is Women don't support women... I mean I was just 12 yrs old that time... What dk u expect a 12 yr old to wear? Salwar kameez? Seriously... The child at thatcage would love to choose want he or she wants to wear rather than having alot of ristrictions... Its kind off odd... People should understand that there should be freedom to where whatever that particular person wants to... And stop judging for once... If women only stare and say stupid things then men will obv try to do something na... This is not only Chennai or Tamil Nadu... It for whole India... People need to be a lil more open minded when it comes to girls ka clothings...
Should get matured a little bit. Learn law of attraction between two sex. First of all if u say ,u wear jean with top or any modern clothing ,it's ur freedom. So y do men don't have freedom to watch ? Eventhough I dont support physical abuse and staring a women.
But women should understand,we were brought up in a society where our ancestors have maintained certain dignity for women and respect them. But nowadays for men ,women is just a object either pay her for sex or fuck off . She has no values in the society.
How cleverly you defended the men there😂
Happened for my North Indian female friend as well.The ladies were staring at her as if they were about to loot her.
Every place has its own culture ... Except pune mumbai .... No one wears skirts in other cities of maharashtra ... Its just a culture
There are conservative society beside accusing them of their culture start respecting them and their culture it wouldn't be any shame if you can respect and behave according to their culture
AND WHY PROMOTING THESE WESTERN CULTURE in conservative society ITS INDIA DONT MAKE IT ENGLAND AGAIN
1:47 you were secretly recording them with your gopro. They were looking at your camera. The women was looking too. They were just curious. I am sure there are creeps out there and its not safe for women but don't tarnish some innocent people's image like this.
Wowwww just say anything to protect the image of those creeps ??? If you are a lady and you commented this Dude shame on you And I feel sorry for you
Secretly recording as you said.....
They didn't knew she was recording them
@@khushichauhan8555watch at 1.50 muslim men and 2 who are sitting on seat are not staring so pls kam se kam inka face blur karna chaiye tha
@@BhanuSingh-ek6ol Not staring??????? Literally raping through their eyes and you are saying they are not staring🤌
Am not sure which sub urban train is running @2am.. Every train stopped @1am
I feel dressing like this in local train especially in Chennai where the clothing is very traditional and modest and carrying a camera recording everyone ofcourse they will look at u, I have been to Chennai alot of time and even i was roaming their at night with my girl-friends, i never felt unsafe
Really?! She literally got creeped out that disgusting excuse of a man on the train and this is what you have to say! At this point only God can judge!
@@sweetcaramel52She was specifically dressed in a manner which would attract attention. I have seen air hostess in their uniforms travelling safely at 4:30 AM trains in the Chennai suburbs. If you travel in a saree in small European towns, you would obviously get stares.
Chennai is like 5000 times safe than most north Indian cities. Its a very traditional society. It they see you wear different clothes, men women both they will kinda give you judgemental look but won't ever come and say something uncomfortable to you....been living in Delhi NCR for 11 years now and lived in Chennai before this for 5 years. I have seen woman in Chennai work till 11:30 in night and go to work at 4 am when its dark. In delhi women are hardly present in public places, its just men and men everywhere and its very uncomfortable and unsafe. So yes, Chennai is safe for women.
I also think so
If dress up according to their culture hardly anyone will harass u
But in delhi even if u r in burkha ...no guarantee of u not being raped
Delhi mindset is on another level😢
FUNK OFFF, NORTH IS BEST
Bro if youre holding a camera around.. Even women seem to be staring at you
Abe usne chupake shoot Kiya hai
@@ritikazade2319faltu bakwas mat ker.
The mistake was with girl ...she started Filming without reason.and then they stare at her..even if u do this to me i do the same...who gave permission to film us...and my sister daily goes safely in chennai...she never state like this a single problem..for us chennai is much more safer
I am pretty sure that Most of the people were looking at the phone or camere even women were starring at u but that blue shirt guy needs to be hold accountable and should ne put behind bars
Hello Guys,
I have mixed opinion with this!
I have been in many night outs at chennai, even with my female friends. But, we haven’t encountered any of the scenarios as you mentioned.
I agree that people at the sub urban trains (not at chennai metro) used to stare, Even we guys had afraid of getting looted, especially during peak crowds and late nights as well.
I like to say my perspective, In this video we can also assume that the people may stare by looking at the camera she was holding.
Adding to that, Coming across a modern woman at chennai metro is very common. But not at the sub- urban trains. This may also attract a lot of on-lookers.
Hence, I conclude that it may take some time for people to totally ignore a woman who is out at late nights.
But for this sake I won’t term the chennai is not safe. It is safer than many and safest to a huge extent than many.
Are you girl?
Stop defending bulshit 🛑
I was in Chennai for 6 years . Good that your friends didn't experience this but my friends and I have faced such issues in Tambaram while returning back home , especially in buses as we use the ladies coach in train most of the time.
but i did have an experience as such in here i feel like my city is safer than chennai at this point.
Yeah, Apart from that one guy, all other people are staring because of the camera..
One guy is totally wrong and not acceptable..
Every person in that train looking like that because you are odd one .
If you are sitting and suddenly someone with camera recording what is your reaction ?? But that blue shirt guy may be a creep 🤬. Every area have these type of creeps 🤬🤬 but what about north india
Where from North india come here, why you people so obsessed with north indian..
Its like, your kid get first rank but you as parent become more happy because your neighbour's kid failed..
Is gujarati, marathi people in their achievements bring south india or north India like "what about south india/north india"? No, right!!
@@rahulmore4584 Bro just see there videos you may notice that in every North Indian 2 am stories she wear fully covered cloth and but in this video she said that everyone stares are stripping her even thought they may see her because she is recording something
I have a question if you are travelling in a train anytime and a group of people boarding that train with holding a camera whats your reaction are you just not look there?
@@darksoul4500 if you are talking from this perspective then ya all I agree with you.. And thats why I like your comment first..
They just want content thats why for sure they did it purposely, and in delhi they know ki even in full cloths they got some creepy. But here they find creepies..
Bro the thing is she need money so she play victim role
Accept the reality
Chennai isnt as safe as mumbai
Yeah when you record entire people in a train ,they will look at you. Except the blue guy everyone else is minding their business
Looking at making inappropriate gestures is different right?
I agree
Be a Roman when in Rome. I want you do the same experiment with modest dress. even the fish on tress gets Judged , Guess why !!???
why tf is she recording random people on a train and then accusing them of staring at her?
🤔
She was being totally discreet first of all and wanted to record the behaviour of the people (men particularly) which was utterly disgusting 💩
@@khushichauhan8555 if you don’t know, don’t rush to take a side! she goes around with a go pro in hand .. there’s nothing discreet about her ways! Also, it’s an obvious attempt to rage bait people
@@savantdude Just because It is chennai and it's people you're accusing the girl Right? What if it was Delhi Or Gurugram Or some Other North Indian City. Your cmnt would have been about the the whole North India and how they are bad people
How do you know she was not being secretive about recording them??? Whatever it is the staring and that disguting behaviour of that blue shirt man cannot be justified
As a girl how do you heal from the real trauma and insecurities you get from these experiences?
she earns money so !!
Talking about Chennai, yes I have experienced in Chennai and a major incident in Bangalore as well. That too, the incident happened at 7 P.M.
The incident happened with me in the middle of a road and literally there were people standing nearby and could clearly see what happened. While I screamed and yelled at those fuckers, none of them even had the humanity to come and check on me. Moving from Maharashtra to South is a big change. Because of these experiences, I definitely can say that south is not safe
Nice story but you didn't even said what happened 🤣🤣🤣
It’s very funny for you right? You are same as them.
@@shrutichaturvedi2389 you are same as the youtuber, she was waiting for someone get tëasèd but nothing happened. Dressed tight showing cle3vage with a camera at 2AM, people will definitely watch her and its midnight dark outside nothing to see outside, you focus will be inside train and sitting at last in middle of seat so that she will be watched by all clearly. This is madeup video to get views
@@Stranger-lb1uz asshole if you don’t anything stop saying stupid things.
Was Maharashtra safe ?
Bro if ur gonna go with that big ass GoPro people will ofcourse be curious other than that blue shirt guy everyone is just normal indians being curious cause u can see an old lady staring too
I guess Have come across your channel very lately, however Lucky to see all your videos and creating a very great content and spreading like this awareness is much much needed in India. As an adult female I would like to know more deeper abt such things.
One thought which comes in my mind seeing one of ur comment that men n women both are not safe is very much true but not totally fair as I believe men n boys are grown up in such a mentality that "KOI UNKA KYA HI BIGAD LEGA ". OR. KAUN KYA HI LEGA HAMARE SE " until this kind of thinking is there I guess we aren't safe anywhere ....
Also have a lot to say on this, However plz keep us updated with such videos until then plz be safe Ma'am ❤️🙏🏻
I just wanna know how she was recording in train? With mobile or GoPro?
gopro
My respect for Pune 📈📈📈
I remember when I had boarded the Chennai local train to go from Chennai to Tambaram , locals will stare at you , because you will look like an alien to them.
I think even today if I go to Chennai , for taking a flight from Chennai to Delhi , locals won't welcome which is true as well.
Since I am a northerner.
Do you people record videos with a secret cam or a cam which is visible to others ?
3:30 What kind of man is he psychopaths if that was a Mumbai train he would have thrown out
No of the Chennai trains runs between the time 2 AM.
I agree with it closes at 12.30 ish something
When an item song (in which women objectives as tandoori chicken and so on..) releases then we groove listening that. If we dont raise our voice against that then we dont have right to question the mental for general public because a person's behaviour is the reflection of what he/she consumes. I took only one example of item songs. And many of us using Instagram these days. No one is unware how a girl objectify herself there. There are various aspects which constitute the mentality of the person. It will be unfair if we only consider the result without thinking upon the reason.
False verdict !
I have had female friends from Delhi, UP, maharashtra, etc who have thoroughly felt safe in chennai for 4-5years. They didnt even want to return. This was like 10-15yrs ago.
wtf you are holding a camera facing towards them and they are the ones who are feeling odd not you. you are just trying to accuse people. As humans, we tend to gaze which looks odd to them.
Just see at the time of 3.33 there is a girl opposite to the blue shirt she is wearing chudidar he is not doing the same as he is doing by looking at you iam not saying that dress properly what iam saying is it's a local train in Chennai and that too at mid night 2 the dress is not correct one to wear at the place and time we girls should never complaint men by ourselves attracting them ,even if you wearing saree wear it as it should be worn if we girls say it's our birth right we will wear this then accept their looks
At night, at 2 am, walking with PCH and recording, wearing a half jeans, walking in public....
Not only boys but even girls and old ladies stare at you if you do such things 🤦🤦
Absolutely no words. I'm a chennaiite and I strongly condemn all the Chennai ppl who made her feel so uncomfortable. Such bunch of creeps haven't they seen any women or what 🙄. Btw can't imagine situation in rest of India. It's a wake up call. Thanks for exposing these creeps ma'am seriously. 3:40 🤬🤬🤬
Background music ah mute la potu... Video va paru... Except that blue shirt... Everything is normal... Bgm potu ooru yematharan.. athuku neeum comment Pani support pandra..🙄
bro anda blue shirt ah thavara elarum foreigner ah pakura maari taan pakuranga coz theyre not used to seeing ppl with those type of costumes often..
After knowing that a Brazilian girl biker tourist being gang raped by 7 men in jharkhand along with her husband bei g beaten , I want to say that india is terrible for woman , i know people will not get this they ll start saying defaming this that non sense it's true right india has a country when it comes to women safety has failed completely it sends shivers man knowing all those cases against women jyothi singh AKA nirbhaya , veterinary doctor in hyderabad , soujanya in mangalore , these r very few registered and made it news cases but apparently their r un registered rape cases in india which r not covered by media horrifying don't know when this will end
Imagine a random woman and 4 people along with her standing infront you with a cam.
Yeah let's jerk off while watching them right?
every sane human being would stare at you if you film them with a go pro camera in the metro at night, really don't know if the blue guy was being creepy but weren't you filming him first? the real shit is you intentionally went to that metro actually finding some creep to find your content.
Are you for real defending this?
shame on you bro imagine defending behaviours like this
Get well soon
@@ronaktiwari5552i dont know if u travel much, but at those hours there's a category of ppl active,
The woman &ex workers and their customers, so in that category these ppl do strange things to get what they want, u will find women making dirty slurs to get picked and paid which is ofcourse not recorded in most cases because that is what this whole thing is about, keeping the privacy and continuing the work for livelihood.
If this happens in morning hours, then u can be assured these ppl r normal decent ppl and when they do such acts then u know they r dangerous. At night, u have hookers on streets who r waiting for ur actions, they will find and also ask u the rates because millions r waiting on streets to get picked.
Can't generalise everything u need to consider facts of both sides, the time, the routine, the category of ppl around, everything.
Visit any mall area in delhi at night or near hotel lines, u will find hundreds of women showing u middle finger, she isn't harassing but signaling her customers.
@@ronaktiwari5552 are you being blind fr? can't you see she deliberately went out there to find creeps and film them? for clout? I really don't know what the blue shirt guy was doing with his tongue it's creepy for sure.. AND I DO NOT SUPPORT THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOUR IN ANY CASE.
BUT you go out with your GoPro camera at 12:00 a.m. on the metro and look how men and women both stare at you because it's fucking funny.
Why is there any need to do all this ? What boundaries are you trying to push?The world is not a safe place so protect yourself and don't try to find safety at the ugliest of things.
I know chennai is ur home , so u r defending , bro yes she was recording but without them knowingly if u see the angels u would it wasn't on the face kind of shit , don't defend here india everywhere girls r unsafe let's come to that conclusion then only normalcy can be bought
Enga oorla item dha ipdi dress panni night la suthuvanga. Adha difference theriyama unna pathrupanga.. unga north india la ellarum ipdi dha suthuvinga
Do you know south India is safer than north india? A recent event happened for a female foreign biker on the North side.
It's East India to be specific Don't bring North in Fucking everything
You know its not a competition right? It's like you are missing the whole point
@@Glittershit yeah no shit sherlock
This is not at all fair video at all, the problem starts when they find that you are not belong from there own area or locality then then things happen....
How does that even matter?
@@iagreewithyou4328 how does this matter, This is a racist atrocity and crime the problem in people is they don't know what is racism what's the real reason behind this, in a one line I tell you, only those who have some brain can understand in full what I want to convey is " Apnay Ghar may kutta bhi Sher hota hai" and for those who can only appreciate and understand English a foreign language and for them our own Hindi most spoken and connecting language and 4th most speaking language is in the world, what I said is "Even a dog is a lion in his own home". And and if you are anybody is still not understand then go to internet search about racism by its happening what is the root cause of this, what is rasicm exactly is, and those who think they know what is racism is I want to say them they don't know anything or they may be fool...
Hi all you can't judge a book by its cover. Don't take a random incident and say people of chennai is against woman's safety. This is offending every one.
Have been in Chennai for 14 long year and yes it’s the safest city for all the gender …….
I being a local (male) can't go to ECR beach at late night cuz police patrol there. I stay near kovalam (the place mentioned by the journalist). ECR has witnessed number of murders and other crimes so cops are there to protect them.
Why you want to go there at that time? Hey that’s the reason police was there and we have a special app for womens and control room number. Did you go there if they say there is a cyclone? Grow up all the city’s have such place.
It's not just Chennai, anywhere we go.
habibi come to mumbai
Chennai ppl usually sleep @ 10 to 11:30pm maxi. May be nomads may do those thinks
Came for job and settled in our chennai. Now they spilling what they learn in thier home town.
' Yad Bhavam Tad Bhavati '
Your mission is to make your video successful to prove your want and point,..and it worked.. Congratulations ! 👍😋👍
P.S : Chennai is far more safer than any other city anywhere in India,.☺.
Hats off to these strong women
who are unleashing the truth about our society
huge respect 😃
Hats off to idiots like her
I am from Chennai and have not gone through such things… because i don't dress up so revealing though i dress up as westernized i could. The only reason as far as i could think of them staring at you like that would be… not to hurt anybody but only transgenders who are sexual workers will dress up
Like like that in Chennai suburbs at that time of the day. U literally asked for it.
True
Yes... I was born in South India... And I can confirm that in South India people Dislike short clothing... They prefer clothes Which cover the whole body..
First of all it's not their habit to wear such short clothes... And it's not their cultural dress so people looked at her with even more curiosity.. In South India if you don't dress decently you'll get those gross looks..( be it a girl or boy)...
The obvious truth will be buried in this comment section. If you dare to speak it you will be called as victim blamer.
If you think this doesn't happen to fully clothed women that use public transport to go to work and get back from work at a reasonable hour... you're so beyond reality. I've had personal experience and my friends have had to. These are very conservative chudidar with dupatta kinda girls and all of them have been groped (not once) and I wish to god I'm making this up just to prove a point to an Internet stranger but sadly I'm not.
@@deepthi6996these videos should be about the things u are mentioning, but conveniently it's about the hours when s&x workers roam around finding customers.
Obviously many of these happens regardless of time or location or clothing, but this video surely isn't proof of anything, rather misleading and judgmental.
Of all the metro cities i would say Chennai is the most conservative and judgemental despite having people come in from various places. I wonder why? Also, i never understood sexualizing legs. Like skirts are comfortable and airy. I get boobs and upper thighs but can we leave legs alone? I recently got into fashion and for my body type A like skirts look amazing (beyond knee so I'll stop you right there) but I realise all I can wear is pants cuz showing legs are considered sexual?
@@deepthi6996it's good that they didn't loose their culture.
Most of them are looking at your camera. And wondering what you are doing at2 am because i guess most of the young modern woman don’t travel like that . If they see woman like you alot every day at that time just like in Europe then they will get used to it and it will be normal. But how can you judge something which is not even common in India. ? Some older men are like that in most of the countries . Even men are not safe nowadays.
Chennai is the safest, Crowdest, busiest place in India ❤️
I think it is safer than Delhi, perhaps even safer than Mumbai and Bengaluru.
It's like going to skid row at 10 am
Always remember your safety is in your hands.
Sorry to say but few issues with this video.
1. You shld have asked your team to secretly shoot. If you are going to record in front of them, you will be getting such reactions- if you actually wanted to show the reality.
2. Also You too are at fault. Did you seek permission to shoot. Who gave you the right to invade their privacy. Not everyone is comfortable.
Because of this sake, I cannot term Chennai is not safe.
Y don't u do it in Hyderabad
Real mens knows they are looking into cam 😂
Report this video...🔴🔴 Completely cooked up video to damage the image of chennai...
Bro tough to accept the truth to be the better version of yourself. If the same would have been captured in Delhi , Up you would have said shame on these states and now you are defending. What about the blue shirt guy then ? Was he just got itching in that area randomly?
@@Nacc-mx2fj can you pls tell me what is the truth...?? If the blue guy tried anything unwanted to that girl means.. people would have beaten his ass off... Don't compare the reality of up and Delhi with this cooked up video... !!! Mr.fake id
@@Nacc-mx2fjChennai never used up with such dress culture till now and mostly only the call girls will roam in and around city like that. Check the videos which is done by local reporters in late night
@@Whytedevil So by this thinking a tourist girl who was raped by 7 men in Jharkhand was also justified because the girl also wore such dress at that night. What is this thinking? Have some shame , girl can wear anything it's there choice , what is this backward thinking. So if rapes happen in our country due to this reason so that is also justified. What a mindset you have to defend your city . Have some shame.
@@Nacc-mx2fj After going all your comments now it’s the time to reply it back.
See first of all in chennai only call girl will roam on that time with such dress, and if you wear a same dress and roam in and around chennai no one care, but that is night and she claiming it’s 2am all local train services will stop at 1am. Did you noticed even a women stared her!!! Problems are everywhere and for everyone there is no gender, as a men even I faced a same situation in my teenage. So before doing such things she should understand the ground reality. Even wearing underwear is comfortable for me can I roam around the city? Every state have own culture. so outsiders should respect that the same way she can’t do this in Bihar or Chhattisgarh even if she have bouncers with her. She just scripted their entire video. My fellow friends having shop in urban square she asked for interview with many women’s in Hindi and everyone avoided and later she asked for English only few answered in that few she added.
And one more thing she went with gang of her friends in all the places and she created the scene in the local train. Am not saying chennai is safe always but the way she portrayed is nonsense thing.
Now people will say "why are u wearing revealing clothes?"
I agree for women safety, they should feel safe... But i noticed some cons of this video...
1.) youre filming in public transport. Yes... When you film in such places people will look at the camera atleast for 5 sec to see whats going on.. when you turn the camera, people will look at it for sometime
2.) its south india : Yes, people in south dont wear small clothes and prefer full clothes... They dont like anyone wearing shorts small clothes.(Be it a boy or a girl).. i myself experienced this...
The dressing style doesnt match south india style... Thats why they are looking so strangely on you... Next time wear their cultural dress and match them if you dont want strange looks...
I was born in south so i can tell you... Second of all People in public transport ( mostly) get curious by seeing camera and something because most of them are middle class and dont know much... So they are curious and thats why they are looking...
well in chennai no one wears shorts like this at the railway station or anywhere. Not blaming you but our dress code is different.
You should this kind of survey using a hidden camera.
Same if she did this vlog in north india next day her photo will come in newspaper as missing, she very well tried to damage the city with this one incident even there is lady is staring at her only because of her dress and no one stare that lady who is sitting. Am not dragging the dress politics here but no one will go in such time with that dress and Chennaities will never do that.
Go to the place in pallikaranai radial road after 10 pm and same in Nelson manikam road after 12 am and Outer Ring Road at same time and see the call girls there will wear the similar dress if you wear the same dress in day time no one will stare like that but you did it intentionally
Not just Chennai, India, anywhere you go its not about the place. It's about the distracted lustful people roaming there.
Requesting to read fully, everyone!
Hi. I really apologise and feel bad for the situations you'd faced. I'd been in Chennai for a decade, and here's what I observed.
Chennai has many daily-wages & slum workers hailing from different towns of the state. And especially during nights after 11PM, the most you could see on the roads & trains are those people and most of those people would be drunk. Thus the combination of slum workers + drunk clearly specifies it is not safe, no matter which city is that. A corporate employee being drunk vs an average slum worker being drunk, there's a lot of difference. I wouldnt say all, but most. Chennai has a lot of slum workers. Thus this specifies and justifies the situation you'd faced. However, I'm so sorry for what you'd overcame.
Chennai is quite safe during the night as long as we don't do something out of the ordinary like this. I have seen girls coming alone to night shows and returning home safely at 2 AM. One should be able to guess which places could be dangerous at night. All Indian cities are dangerous if you end up in the wrong place wrong time.
Its safe..but some people are really disgusting..and they r everywhere in this world..I hv been to Chennai 6,7 times so I also faced this kind of behaviour sometimes..in temple nd streets also.
Okay... what is this program trying to prove? Tht “men stare”? Well, v know tht!
The point here must be “is it safe? Will a rape occur? Was there any form of sexual harassment (besides the staring)”!
I am neither victim blaming, nor justifying their (certain men’s actions)... I am just saying, “staring is basically becoz of the cultural shock that they get exposed to”.... IF THEY TAKE ANOTHER STEP towards harassment, then u could call a city unsafe.
She is trying very hard for getting negative comments
Like that blue shirt guy actions i have also faced the same situation when i was only 15 years old and also he was doing that in public market at that time i really didn't know what was he doing but only thing i can feel that i was so uncomfortable....for people who is saying that it is scripted, it can be but for me it is totally not because i can understand the situation and only those girls can understand who faced the situation... aur aaj mere me itne changes aa chuke hai ki mujhe ek aacha ladka bhi ek jaanwaar ki trh lgta hai aur kbhi kbhi lgta hai ki iss aacha nark mil jaata jo behtr tha
Same sis, really sickening
@@LolLo-pp3nn 😔
The person in the blue shirt looks very similar to a Tamil movie actor. He plays very small roles in movies. For example, he shows for a few seconds in Oh My Ghost (in the period flashback playing tabla). This video could totally be staged!
Firstly all the people here need to understand that you don't have control over other but you have control on yourself. So why would you put yourself in a position where you also know that you are not safe?
Illegally recording people's faces without their consent is against the law, and I intend to report this video.
Ohhh yeah and what about the behaviour of that man you saw in the video??? You not gonna report that you stinky southie
You can definitely try your luck with regards to reporting this video but it breaks my heart to tell you that it isn’t illegal to record … you don’t need to ask for consent when you’re in public recording stuff which is in plain sight .
@@kumariyer2573 then recording a woman (without her consent) in public is also legal right
@@kiranspear7185 it is .. the only law is for minors, where the video needs to blur the face of the minor
Safer means, you will not be touched in Chennai.
Can't believe Chennai has one of the highly educated city ....
U r saying, Negatively or positively??
First of all it was bad to see that guy behave that way. And just so you know, even in the most developed countries like the US, things like this tend to happen. People of this sort are always going to be there wherever we go and not just chennai. People are staring at you in the train because people who usually travel in those trains are mostly from a low economic background but majority will not do any harm to you. Seeing women with very modern dressing is not very common for them. I agree that a girl have the rights to dressup the way she wants and not be treated like that. But a girl should also know where to dress how. In chennai you can wear these kind of dresses comfortably in some places but not in all places. As women we must protect ourself first, even the way women sit wearing short dresses matter a lot. It is an etiquette to know how to sit when we wear short dress. Let us not just wait for the society to change. Let it change but from our part, let us wear the dress we want but make sure we follow proper dress etiquette while we sit and move around so even if we wear short dress we know how to sit. And make sure if the dress we wear is apt for the place we are going. Let us focus on what we can control till the society changes
I am also a chennai girl ❤
Being a South Indian From Andhra Pradesh, i completely agree with your statement... In the South They are not used to these modern clothes... (Both boy and girl).
that blue one hindi Person
If you go to any place with a camera at 2 am recording without their consent they will give you the same reaction....I think they are just curious instead of that blue shirt guy....I mean he is really creepy, rest are just curious because you are recording them
Not only in chennai even if you go to Bangalore or any other south or north states with these type of dress in unusual time they will come and ask what is the rate. She claming herself as journalist and she having friend in ‘NUNGAMBAKKAM’ and never know what peoples do in night that’s funny
This comment section is an example of victim blaming
Women also watching you.. they think may be you are from RUclips channel.. when we travel with camera. People keep staring at our group..
Blue guy is creepy
In India..can't guarantee women's safety..BUT I AM SURE THIS WOULD NOT BE THE SAME WITH THE OTHER Female JOURNALIST who came to meet her.
If you are really comfortable wearing those clothes..be comfortable with the LOOKS also.
This is so disturbing being a mother i ll never have courage to send my daughter away from home for studies n anything 😢
Things will change only when the mentality of people will change
people who are saying that she was recording secretly that's why people were starring...guys understand this, its terrifying for ANYBODY if someone is constantly starring at you. So what they were curious? They knew that she was uncomfortable and not okay with them starring at her. Sometimes we don't need to express by words our body language is enough. And if the people in the train are so "decent and well behaved" why didn't they stop the creep in the blue shirt. There were a lot of people there I'm sure someone must've noticed...
Please stop making them feel guilty for talking abt something that's actually disturbing. I while watching the vid felt disgusting during those clips, Idk how scarry it might've been for the team
After watching this train incident , the nasty gestures of the Man makes me as a man uncomfortable also .
Really disturbing and disgusting, imagine going alone..
Men will "always" watch woman in train, bus, flight, note that down. May be talk also about you. But the moment we go away from that place, we won't even remember you. This is also Universal truth. So dont make it your prestige issue. You don't have anything extra special that the next girl on road won't have. It's natural for any men to stare at girls. Making gestures at you was definitely wrong but I guess he could have mistakenly thought of you as some sex worker roaming around at 2 AM, with skin revealing dress and staring at them. Even that woman was staring at you, did you do something to make people look at you? Birds flutter around each other so that their counterpart notice and then they can engage in mating. Men will always notice you and your body language if you are sending any frequency of heat buildup within you and then will resonate at same frequency and reciprocate the same. This is it.
No hard feelings. Peace ✌
What a disgusting comment. Excusing creepy behavior
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u earned my respect ✅
Seriously everyone says that now girl are safe and secure but reality is that every state, area, everywhere 😔 girl are not sefe please 🥺 request you save girl girls
People really have to change their mentality about girls. People dont judge or put any restri tion on boys the way they put on girls. At the end if the day girls are humans too. Girls should have freedom to wear whatever
They want. They should be able to roam everywhere without restrictions just like the boys do
Its like going to jungle and finding out that tiger can eat you or he is gonna let you go i mean whats the point ?
😂😂😂India does have many problems, such as racism, the caste system, and high rates of rape. We must realize that this is not a problem that only occurs in the southern or northern regions, but a problem for the entire country. I am grateful to be born in Indonesia, where there are 5 religions and various ethnic groups such as Chinese, Arab, Indian, European, African, and American. We all live side by side in peace. Although there are sometimes disagreements, they can usually be resolved peacefully. I hope India can overcome this moral crisis.
There are conservative society beside accusing them of their culture start respecting them and their culture it wouldn't be any shame if you can respect and behave according to their culture
AND WHY PROMOTING THESE WESTERN CULTURE in conservative society ITS INDIA DONT MAKE IT ENGLAND AGAIN
No other city can beat mumbai for safety and livliness at night
As a men I never felt safe in mumbai, we friends planned to go chor bazaar and some locals said it will start at 4:30 am so we took last train and went to mazgaon circle railway station and we planned to wait there till 04:00 am, inbetween I went to rest room when I came out suddenly a aunty grabbed my hand and asked me to come her room I really shocked and I said am not interested in Hindi women immediately she pulled me and pressed my face in her boods immediately my friends came and shouted and she left the place later only we know from RPF this bazaar is located near red light area and they will behave like this to the new comers
Who tf goes to a chor bazar that too at 4:00 am in the morning bruh ?
@@Skizzo___21 Yes will go at 4 what is the problem
Qur'an 33:59 tells Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) to ask his family members and other Muslim women to wear outer garments when they go out, so that they are not harassed: O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their cloaks over their bodies.
That's why Islam is the best religion in the world. ❤
I agree 👍💯%
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Appear local, in native apparel, then try. I will be curious to know the outcome. Cherry picking is not a social experiement. Wrong timing, wrong dressing, wrong gestures etc. might attract wrong response. To be honest no place in this world is safe with wrong body language, with wrong outfits in the wrong hours of the day.
Kudos to you doing this and showing us the reality. But in my 14 years of working and travelling across various cities , I did not feel the need to go out at 2 AM and prove a point. Maybe this a journalism point of view, but I would choose my personal safety over anything else, irrespective of whether the place has a good or a notorious reputation.
So in all we can say that mumbai and pune are the safest cities
Thankyou for documenting your experience and sharing it with us. It takes so much. It’s high time we start talking about this on large scale.
This is the ground reality, happens to every woman of this country, not just in Chennai, in every part and corner of the society. Not just at 2 am but at any hour. This is what women go through in their everyday lives, and sad reality is we have become accustomed to and normalised this, as there seems to be no scope of improvement.
I refuse to engage with men trying to victim blame as they are themselves the part of the problem and they always find ways to dismiss women’s experiences.
हमारे देश में ऐसा कोई जगह ही नहीं जहाँ एक लड़की पूरी तरह से सुरक्षित होता होगा 😮😮
My Grandmother always used to say ghost only roam in the night, that ghost will come in any form so stop exploring in night even if the city get the gold star award for women safety. And that blue shirt guy showing vulgar signs why you can’t make a complaint with RPF ?
It’s not mumbai or Jharkhand we never use to such dressing culture ask your nungambakkam friend and check who will wear such dress in mid night and roam in an around Chennai
STFU , Mumbai is way safer than ur Chennai
Are they staring at camera or her ?