This is sooo relatable! I had "friends" that took took took and tooook. To be fair, its not like I had much to give but the little I had, I sacrificed. I sacrificed for their baby showers, bridal showers, weddings, birthdays etc. Until it was my turn. Last year my aunt got really sick and we lost her, I had no one apart from one friend and my househelp take me to the funeral. I was beginning to open my eyes to the fact that some people are just takers and I can never change that. When I stopped showing up for them, it became a problem and everyone was all of a sudden concerned by "How much I had changed." True, I changed, I started seeing bs for what it was. I read a quote that said "Givers set boundaries because takers have none." That has changed my entire view of people.
'Never assist someone in hurting your feelings' is what I got... Thank you for sharing your story. It's always the ones dear to you that can have you going mental 😭 but also the ones we get the most impactful lessons...
Damn, this one hit home for me, takers have no limits, they will take and take and take until they empty you and when you finally draw a boundary suddenly you are the villain. Thank you for talking about this especially in friendship dynamics, your videos are so relatable and remind us that we are not isolated in our suffering. Sending love and healing🌻 ✨
Waoooh what an episode....it's the entitled mindset for me.....that's why we should try not to mix business with friendship, family is another story all together 😅😅😅
Welcome to this world of takers...my colleagues who earn the same salary as me keep expecting endless gifts when they hv nothing to offer. A useless bunch😂😂😂
I think am a taker who attracts givers. Whenever I try to give back even ile subconsciously maybe doing a nice acts of service to your friends they reject. Nicely. Please talk about this situation. I feel like my giving is never good enough or maybe its too good for them idk really 😊
Mmhh interesting. It sounds like you’re giving to a giver and sometimes givers are so used to giving that they don’t know how to receive. I would suggest almost forcing the person you’re giving to and explaining that it is a token of appreciation and you would love it if they kept whatever you’re giving them. Plus it sounds like you’re a giver especially because you do it subconsciously, yani it comes naturally to you
Everything was 'ok' for me until Paint and her tweet of strangers thing ...PAINT!! I am sure you will read this comment from this Stranger .... Just STOP!! BEING ENTITLED!! You too old for this BS!!
This is sooo relatable! I had "friends" that took took took and tooook. To be fair, its not like I had much to give but the little I had, I sacrificed. I sacrificed for their baby showers, bridal showers, weddings, birthdays etc. Until it was my turn. Last year my aunt got really sick and we lost her, I had no one apart from one friend and my househelp take me to the funeral. I was beginning to open my eyes to the fact that some people are just takers and I can never change that. When I stopped showing up for them, it became a problem and everyone was all of a sudden concerned by "How much I had changed." True, I changed, I started seeing bs for what it was. I read a quote that said "Givers set boundaries because takers have none." That has changed my entire view of people.
'Never assist someone in hurting your feelings' is what I got... Thank you for sharing your story. It's always the ones dear to you that can have you going mental 😭 but also the ones we get the most impactful lessons...
That’s a good quote. I will keep that in mind. Exactly, it’s bitter sweet 🥰
Damn, this one hit home for me, takers have no limits, they will take and take and take until they empty you and when you finally draw a boundary suddenly you are the villain. Thank you for talking about this especially in friendship dynamics, your videos are so relatable and remind us that we are not isolated in our suffering. Sending love and healing🌻 ✨
Wahura giving life to inanimate objects always gets me sprawling kwa ground 😂😂😂
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I can just picture Paint watching this video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Was wondering what happened between you 2! I remember the IG lives with you 2, and you guys had the 'jewelry' on 😂, you really are a good friend!
You’re a real one for this 😂❤
Waited for this story time for so longgggggg😭😭😭hits different when you know who it is and when it happened.
Love love Wahura!
I had to process and heal first. Sending you lotsa love right back!❤
The hair is hairing girlie ❤️
Thank you ❤
I just love how engaging your story times are...like you pause and think how you also have had such encounters...good job girl❤
Thank you hun ❤
Eeeeiisshhh 🎉🎉 judie ogutu in the buildingggggggggggggggg.
It's the way I'm invested with her story time😂
😂😂 it’s slaarrpppiinnggg
Been a follower and subscriber for so long that I kinda have a hint who "paint" is😅🤭
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Me too,,I'm so triggered and it's not my story..just like she has Lost 1 follower asap
"Ndereni" 😂
Such relationships are so draining,it's hard but it's better to let go
Gurrll, the vocal range!!!😤😤We need an album 🫴🏼
😂😂 coming soon
I get so excited when Wahura posts 🤩 it's usually the highlight of the day 😍
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Am sorry Wahura, am with Paint on this, for a whole lot of reasons...but I hear you too sis..and I understand where you're coming from
Bring back hiiin the buildiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing
Some female friendships can be the ghetto fr.
Anyway, Wahura I really really enjoy your content.❤️❤
Hellen in the buildiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnggggggggg!
Those are signs that the end of your relationship with that friend has come
Waoooh what an episode....it's the entitled mindset for me.....that's why we should try not to mix business with friendship, family is another story all together 😅😅😅
I totally agree, keep them separate. That one is for a whole other day 😂😂
Some female friendships are not 💯 real na ni saaaad aargh like mamaa I thought we were soulmates amaaa😭😂
I thought we would be cucu’s together but ni sawa tu, nimepoa 😊
@@wahurakabutha I knowwwww
Welcome to this world of takers...my colleagues who earn the same salary as me keep expecting endless gifts when they hv nothing to offer. A useless bunch😂😂😂
That must be annoying … hope that you’ve learned how to play the game 😂😂
Idk why when you match their weird/toxic behavior you become an enemy lol.
Can’t take what they are dishing
you look absolutely beautiful, Wahura
Thank you!! ❤
@@wahurakabutha You're welcome girlie ☺
Ati log in details,acha jokes ❗
For real 😂
Giiiirl you are dramatic and I am her for the Dramaaa!🤣🤣
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Wueh people will show you dust 😂😂😂 one day I will share my own story Wueh. Female friendship 👭
I’m telling it’s not for the weak 😂😂
I feel like some people are just ungrateful and entitled...I had an encounter with one😢
Honestly and truly 😭 aki pole
do your friends watch your videos? haha thanks for sharing. i support you 100%
They do. Thank you 😊
Your hair looks so gorgeous 😍.
Thank you ❤
I have also had my fair share of this humans we call "friends," but life moves on ama?😂
We move regardless ama niaje 😂
It’s the fact that I know who this is 😂😂😂😂😂😂OG fan over here😂
I love your story telling 😊
Thank you!!
Literally the first😊
💗💗
Belonce hiin the Buildiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinggggg😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 stooppp … don’t stop
❤ all love and luuck 2 u boo❤
Sahii mimi kutenda wema is a no 😅nimebaki kuenda zangu 😂😂😂
😂😂 inabidi sometimes
I love storytimes 😚♥️
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Why is your hand always like this" reminds me of "What is it? Haven't you done enough?..."😂😂
lol I’m the suppoooooooorter 😆😆😆😆😆
Twin where have you been 😂😅
Are you talking about Ruto in 9:10?? 😂😂😂😂 Paint and Ruto same WhatsApp group
Btw hakuna tofauti 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣good story telling
Love the hair😚😚
Thank you 💖
Paint called us strangers instead of supporters? The audacity!
She should get her wording right 😭
Let’s call her hmmmmmmm lol
Wahura🤭 my almost twin😂😂😂Wanjaaaaaaaa in the buuuuiiiilllllddddiiiiinnnnggggg✨✨✨✨
😂😂 hiiinnn the buillddiinngggg
wueehhhhh pole
Asante nimepoa
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First here
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I think am a taker who attracts givers. Whenever I try to give back even ile subconsciously maybe doing a nice acts of service to your friends they reject. Nicely. Please talk about this situation. I feel like my giving is never good enough or maybe its too good for them idk really 😊
Mmhh interesting. It sounds like you’re giving to a giver and sometimes givers are so used to giving that they don’t know how to receive. I would suggest almost forcing the person you’re giving to and explaining that it is a token of appreciation and you would love it if they kept whatever you’re giving them. Plus it sounds like you’re a giver especially because you do it subconsciously, yani it comes naturally to you
Everything was 'ok' for me until Paint and her tweet of strangers thing ...PAINT!! I am sure you will read this comment from this Stranger .... Just STOP!! BEING ENTITLED!! You too old for this BS!!
🔊🔊 for the ones at the back … that was the icing on the cake for sure
It’s the fact that I know who this is 😂😂😂😂😂😂OG fan over here😂
It’s the fact that I know who this is 😂😂😂😂😂😂OG fan over here😂
Bruh how I’m adding things up is crazy😂😂😂