We all need a break sometimes. This woman is overwhelmed, and her survival and maternal instincts combined won't let her put her guard down. She needs our support to take a small break and catch her breath. After that, she can resonate with the "usitegemee mwanaume" slogans.
Mambo yalienda mlama...Well wishers let's gather up our help towards her genuine case.. She's been honest, hardworking n gone through terrible wildness which I'll never wish any of my sister to pass through...May Almighty bless her kids,SHINE their future n grant peace to this Wonderful Mum
Hiyo mentality ya kutaka kulelewa watoto na wanaume wengine utoe kwa mind kwanza,....self pity wachana nayo,take full responsibility of your responsibilities without blaming anybody....you are not cursed, its all in your mind.
You need to change the mentality of a man caring about your problems. It rarely happens. I pay my own bills and educate my kids without expecting anyone help. I don't even date because my expectations and my bar is very high because no one is going to take advantage of me.
This lady has suffered alot,from the time she left school and got married,but inspiration of single mother struggling to raise her children,we team symo c should came up with a way of helping, we should chip in,God saidia hii family,
It's quite a desperate case but at least a lesson to the teens who act carelessly towards their parents. You can imagine the feelings of her mom when she literally disconnected herself in the name of love.
Pole wacha kulia na please usisambaze juu itarudia watoto wako..you are blessed to be alive and your kids are big..wachana na mambo ya past to have peace...
Wacha kujipea stress , Na mimi nilioleka na wedding Nita laumu nani , watoto 3 nimelea alone .tena mama yako akikufa mlikua pamoja, na pesa ya buzi niyeye alitumia.hakukufa na hasira. Pobe dio ilihalibu kwangu!
Shida yake iko kwa mind otherwise haja wahi ji samehe. Fathers ndio hu bless watoto na baba yake ali ondoa mambo ya mbuzi like isi msubue. So ni yeye ako na ka shida si wazazi. Tena hata waki pass, si ako na blessing za God our maker and our heavenly father. She must forgive herself if she want to heal. Kila binadamu ako na makosa hii dunia. Kila mwanadamu hupitia ma shida tofauti hii dunia. Either umekosa or hujakosea mashida hupata watu wote. 1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation[c] has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
@@Sindi63084 Exactly infact she's afraid of unknown yaani vitu haziko. Fear is FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL She should be transformed by the renewing of her mind. Infact hana shida kumbwa. Christ was cursed on our behalf. Who can curse those who God has blessed? Infact parents wake hawa ku m curse hata. Yeye ndiye ana imagine vitu hakuna. The only weapon the devil use to torment human being is fear. We're not given the spirit of fear bt of boldness and sound mind in christ Jesus. She should believe in christ otherwise only the knowledge of the true word of God will set her free. There's freedom in christ Jesus.
It's very unfortunate that you had to go through all these. However, we all learn through our own mistakes and because you were very young, you ignored your mum and remember she is your mother. Is it impossible for you to apologise to your mum???
Challenges are there to strength you my sister,be comforted,may God wipe your tears,may you be remembered this year, Mungu ako na atakubariki mpaka ushangae, just forgive yourself and focus on God
This is a very good lesson for you because at the beginning you only cared of staying with this man and yet unfortunately you failed to realise or acknowledge that you did wrong in the first place. Go home and apologise to your mum if you need peace in your life
My dear Njeri, pole sana but you must be careful about your depression. You could easily be a candidate for hii group ya akina wazee wale wanatahili akina mama. Think of the children of Israel from Egypt to Cannan. Walk with God and may be Pastor Ben Kiengei or Bishop JJ will assist you in prayers and counselling. Wiitikire your situation and believe in God's blessings in ur life.
Wacha negative thoughts Njeri. Your mum was ready to bless you and even told you to buy mbuzi from near home. The problem we have as either parents or children is stubbornness, anger and hopelessness. The solution of ur problem is in yourself and your faith in God. Accept your single status. Now you are HIV positive as you say. Be careful so that you don't pass it to others. Listen to mother ya Kagoni and see the girl who has covered herself and was circumcised twice when she went to Mundu Mugo to get an answer to her problems.
You are already blessed. By just planning to go to mom and she accepted...her heart already was at peace with You need to heal and it will begin with your mind. All you are suffering from is in your mind. Unknowingly you have conditioned your mind into believing that you are a victim and that you needed a man to help you. Please please please...you are all your children needs.. Work on your mindset !
Why would you want to burden your children with your status which is not even life threatening? Let the children mind their lifes for now. I siggest you see a counsellor yourself because you have focused on all the negatives and failed to see the miracles God has done. One day God will reward your hard work. Be patient and don't worry your children now when they are not stable. You don't have a curse. It's the decisions you made by leaving school immaturely to get married. All that is now behind you. Look forward to a bright future and it will manifest.
My sister alipata first born akiwa na 15yrs na mwenye ball ali mhepa Then aka pata other two children in another relationship which had so many challenges mpaka akajitoa. Infact ame jilelea hao watoi peke yake kwa ku hustle na kazi ya house girl. Two wame soma day schools hadi 4th form na colleges, last born ako form 1 boarding. Hajawahi hata fanya hata fundraising. Hajawahi pata sponser well wishers or mbaba no no. So it depends on individual. Kwanza ma sponser wa relationship huongezea ladies shida kuliko yenye alikua nayo. Either uongezewe mtoi mwingine ama ugonjwa. Many men careless for the welfare of children. They leave responsibilities to the wife. Kazi ya these kind of men ni ku enjoy sex, ku peana mbegu then ku walk free to other women. Aki ku zoea ana sema kama daktari like NEXT 😂😂ana kuachanisha hapo na watoi ana enjoy na mwanamke mwingine. Infact ata ataacha watoi Wake na jaa aka lishe na ku somesha wenye si wake. Unfortunately wako hivyo bt si wote though are the majority.
😂😂😂😂 this life wa kutegemea ni God na hakuna mzazi ucurse mtoi wake...watu wajigunze kulea bila kuexoect anything from anybody..masponyo wataleta shida zaidi...kila mtu ako na shida zake uku kila mtu amepitia...tuko tunalea na hatupayuki😂😂😂 watu wajitume...uyu mama ata amemaliza kulea but kazi ni kulialia tu bure😊
@@gracewangari8121 You're right grace kwa sponser ni fifty fifty. Ni ku risk. Ni ku ongezea shida otherwise nime sikiza stories za many ladies na majority of them who decided to hv a sponsor ended up been so miserable some evn begging on the street and others with serious diseases. Sponsors always has many other women. Still wako na families zao. Devil has no free gift. Let's make God our source. He do connect us to the right destiny helpers. The blessings of God adds no sorrow
Your mum is not there but God is there and he know that you have repented pray and tell him what you wanted to tell to tell your mum and he will bless you
Mum utaishi ile miaka mungu baba alikupea sio HIV or stress,wangapi wamekuacha na hawakua positive,forgive yourself and look forward to seeing all your grand children
This is a mistake that is done by either young woman or men, they forget that respecting especially your parents because either of a man or woman. Seek forgiveness especially from your mother. Your in laws also have no respect for you and your parents. Respect your parents first then others will do likewise.
What you do, believe your mother forgave you when she accepted you to go to her for blessings and believe your uncle and your father's brother blessed you. Infact the uncle carries alot of blessings. Another thing, accept Jesus Christ as your Savior and all will be well. Plus go for deliverance nautoe sadaka so it can separate you from generational curses 🤬
Wìhoke Ngai na maùndù niùgùtoria .muthuri wakwa akuire 2011 akindigira ciana ithano nandari wira onanii ndiari wira .ndimarerete ndìwika last born e form one nandìngìhoka mùndù wathì tondu noagutirie
Firstly, telling your mum that children are born and they also die I'd a very evil 😈 did especially after knowing very well how much she has sacrificed in order for you to study; selling her cow 🐄 and your audacity to speak to her reckless is very hurtful and wrong coming from you.
May God hear your prayers and open doors for you. Be proud of yourself, you have done well raising your kids.
We all need a break sometimes. This woman is overwhelmed, and her survival and maternal instincts combined won't let her put her guard down. She needs our support to take a small break and catch her breath. After that, she can resonate with the "usitegemee mwanaume" slogans.
Wihehinya my sister..Ngai enahinya maunduinii mothee wee onandurii murearuu wihoke Ngai,mirimu nyothe Jesus witu niahonanangia....thoma ....john 15-7 ...kairitu ngaitu...wihoke Ngai muno naniengukuhonia....ungerie kurekera mami wanyu tu maa ..na wihoke Ngai...
Mambo yalienda mlama...Well wishers let's gather up our help towards her genuine case.. She's been honest, hardworking n gone through terrible wildness which I'll never wish any of my sister to pass through...May Almighty bless her kids,SHINE their future n grant peace to this Wonderful Mum
Hiyo mentality ya kutaka kulelewa watoto na wanaume wengine utoe kwa mind kwanza,....self pity wachana nayo,take full responsibility of your responsibilities without blaming anybody....you are not cursed, its all in your mind.
You need to change the mentality of a man caring about your problems. It rarely happens. I pay my own bills and educate my kids without expecting anyone help. I don't even date because my expectations and my bar is very high because no one is going to take advantage of me.
@86jamani encouraging
True we are birds of same feathers,I also don't expect pity from anyone,may God guide her
I second u...same birds 🐦
This lady has suffered alot,from the time she left school and got married,but inspiration of single mother struggling to raise her children,we team symo c should came up with a way of helping, we should chip in,God saidia hii family,
Naogopa mzazi kama thitima siwezi fanya kitu mum amekataa
pole Sana sis,jipe nguvu watoto wakue mungu yupo.
It's quite a desperate case but at least a lesson to the teens who act carelessly towards their parents. You can imagine the feelings of her mom when she literally disconnected herself in the name of love.
Mama acha kulialia God amekufukisha uko kwote shukuru watoto wamemaliza hadi shule .acha excuses fanya izo vbarua ....
Pole wacha kulia na please usisambaze juu itarudia watoto wako..you are blessed to be alive and your kids are big..wachana na mambo ya past to have peace...
U really loved ua family,self love is required as per now,ur going far
Ur still strong
Tunned from 🇸🇦❤
Wacha kujipea stress , Na mimi nilioleka na wedding Nita laumu nani , watoto 3 nimelea alone .tena mama yako akikufa mlikua pamoja, na pesa ya buzi niyeye alitumia.hakukufa na hasira. Pobe dio ilihalibu kwangu!
Shida yake iko kwa mind otherwise haja wahi ji samehe. Fathers ndio hu bless watoto na baba yake ali ondoa mambo ya mbuzi like isi msubue. So ni yeye ako na ka shida si wazazi. Tena hata waki pass, si ako na blessing za God our maker and our heavenly father. She must forgive herself if she want to heal. Kila binadamu ako na makosa hii dunia. Kila mwanadamu hupitia ma shida tofauti hii dunia. Either umekosa or hujakosea mashida hupata watu wote.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation[c] has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
@@janemwangi6932 from her story she has done well given the circumstances. She should be proud of herself instead of self pity
@@Sindi63084 Exactly infact she's afraid of unknown yaani vitu haziko. Fear is
FALSE
EVIDENCE
APPEARING
REAL
She should be transformed by the renewing of her mind. Infact hana shida kumbwa. Christ was cursed on our behalf. Who can curse those who God has blessed? Infact parents wake hawa ku m curse hata. Yeye ndiye ana imagine vitu hakuna. The only weapon the devil use to torment human being is fear. We're not given the spirit of fear bt of boldness and sound mind in christ Jesus. She should believe in christ otherwise only the knowledge of the true word of God will set her free. There's freedom in christ Jesus.
God give you strength my sis
Forgive yourself first, love yourself and count your blessings. Rely on no man but God alone.
NGAI ndanathikiriria ng'ano saimo no ruru ni rwandiria muno muno 😢😢. Ndaiguatha nginya ndaga wakuga. Mutumia uyu ena ruo ruo ngoro rutahana ruo
It's very unfortunate that you had to go through all these. However, we all learn through our own mistakes and because you were very young, you ignored your mum and remember she is your mother. Is it impossible for you to apologise to your mum???
Challenges are there to strength you my sister,be comforted,may God wipe your tears,may you be remembered this year, Mungu ako na atakubariki mpaka ushangae, just forgive yourself and focus on God
You are not alone,you have God..your worries and burdens direct them to God..amtumainie mwanadamu amelaaniwa,mtumainie Mungu hata kwa uponyaji
Waiting from nyeri
Waiting🇸🇦🇸🇦
This is a very good lesson for you because at the beginning you only cared of staying with this man and yet unfortunately you failed to realise or acknowledge that you did wrong in the first place.
Go home and apologise to your mum if you need peace in your life
Why do you expect a man to pay rent or anything for you?.
Njeri don't blame parents it is God who said obey your parents
True
I also think she should have listened to her mother and gone back to school
My dear Njeri, pole sana but you must be careful about your depression. You could easily be a candidate for hii group ya akina wazee wale wanatahili akina mama. Think of the children of Israel from Egypt to Cannan. Walk with God and may be Pastor Ben Kiengei or Bishop JJ will assist you in prayers and counselling. Wiitikire your situation and believe in God's blessings in ur life.
Wacha negative thoughts Njeri. Your mum was ready to bless you and even told you to buy mbuzi from near home. The problem we have as either parents or children is stubbornness, anger and hopelessness. The solution of ur problem is in yourself and your faith in God. Accept your single status. Now you are HIV positive as you say. Be careful so that you don't pass it to others. Listen to mother ya Kagoni and see the girl who has covered herself and was circumcised twice when she went to Mundu Mugo to get an answer to her problems.
I mean Listen to Metha ya Kagoni
This lady have suffered a lot supposed it was your daughter would you wish her suffering like this .Stop blaming .not everyone is blessed like you
Be all blessed
Am sorry mum but God will grant you his peace 🙏
You are already blessed. By just planning to go to mom and she accepted...her heart already was at peace with
You need to heal and it will begin with your mind.
All you are suffering from is in your mind.
Unknowingly you have conditioned your mind into believing that you are a victim and that you needed a man to help you.
Please please please...you are all your children needs..
Work on your mindset !
Why would you want to burden your children with your status which is not even life threatening? Let the children mind their lifes for now. I siggest you see a counsellor yourself because you have focused on all the negatives and failed to see the miracles God has done. One day God will reward your hard work. Be patient and don't worry your children now when they are not stable.
You don't have a curse. It's the decisions you made by leaving school immaturely to get married. All that is now behind you. Look forward to a bright future and it will manifest.
Very true
My sister alipata first born akiwa na 15yrs na mwenye ball ali mhepa Then aka pata other two children in another relationship which had so many challenges mpaka akajitoa. Infact ame jilelea hao watoi peke yake kwa ku hustle na kazi ya house girl. Two wame soma day schools hadi 4th form na colleges, last born ako form 1 boarding. Hajawahi hata fanya hata fundraising. Hajawahi pata sponser well wishers or mbaba no no. So it depends on individual. Kwanza ma sponser wa relationship huongezea ladies shida kuliko yenye alikua nayo. Either uongezewe mtoi mwingine ama ugonjwa. Many men careless for the welfare of children. They leave responsibilities to the wife. Kazi ya these kind of men ni ku enjoy sex, ku peana mbegu then ku walk free to other women. Aki ku zoea ana sema kama daktari like NEXT 😂😂ana kuachanisha hapo na watoi ana enjoy na mwanamke mwingine. Infact ata ataacha watoi Wake na jaa aka lishe na ku somesha wenye si wake. Unfortunately wako hivyo bt si wote though are the majority.
😂😂😂😂 this life wa kutegemea ni God na hakuna mzazi ucurse mtoi wake...watu wajigunze kulea bila kuexoect anything from anybody..masponyo wataleta shida zaidi...kila mtu ako na shida zake uku kila mtu amepitia...tuko tunalea na hatupayuki😂😂😂 watu wajitume...uyu mama ata amemaliza kulea but kazi ni kulialia tu bure😊
@@gracewangari8121 You're right grace kwa sponser ni fifty fifty. Ni ku risk. Ni ku ongezea shida otherwise nime sikiza stories za many ladies na majority of them who decided to hv a sponsor ended up been so miserable some evn begging on the street and others with serious diseases. Sponsors always has many other women. Still wako na families zao. Devil has no free gift. Let's make God our source. He do connect us to the right destiny helpers. The blessings of God adds no sorrow
Your mum is not there but God is there and he know that you have repented pray and tell him what you wanted to tell to tell your mum and he will bless you
Mum utaishi ile miaka mungu baba alikupea sio HIV or stress,wangapi wamekuacha na hawakua positive,forgive yourself and look forward to seeing all your grand children
Mimi uwa na meza dawa ya arthritis na gout kila siku up to date don't mind trust God
Lakini kiambu kwina mbuu
So sad😢
TÚKÍRUMANA NAKE underline that word..hapo ndiyo ulitoka shida,ungiruma muciari ona age gutiga kirumi,wee wi murume, tondu ni Ngai urumaga mundu
Very good , exactly. 🥺🥺
Ti kurogwo ni wendo wa ngoma na urimu
Symo mwambie ani inbox nimconnect aende gulf kazi.
Akiwa na ugonjwa ataenda gulf gani😢😢
Cia kūhika na kūhikania 🤔kiogo mūthuri pengine tukae pamoja kwa 🛩 mateso ata prison hio munasemanga watu huteseka No.
This is a mistake that is done by either young woman or men, they forget that respecting especially your parents because either of a man or woman. Seek forgiveness especially from your mother. Your in laws also have no respect for you and your parents. Respect your parents first then others will do likewise.
Men?????...?????
What you do, believe your mother forgave you when she accepted you to go to her for blessings and believe your uncle and your father's brother blessed you. Infact the uncle carries alot of blessings. Another thing, accept Jesus Christ as your Savior and all will be well. Plus go for deliverance nautoe sadaka so it can separate you from generational curses 🤬
Wìhoke Ngai na maùndù niùgùtoria .muthuri wakwa akuire 2011 akindigira ciana ithano nandari wira onanii ndiari wira .ndimarerete ndìwika last born e form one nandìngìhoka mùndù wathì tondu noagutirie
Woi
Ur better wako ammliza shule ni over 18 ,mm ni over 14 bado wako shule mm ata shilling moja sijawahi nlipiwa ata siku moja
Ghai uyu ena stress 😮
Weeuh watu wamepitia aki
Pole sana mummy
Please be very careful of the words that come from your mouth young lady.
Firstly, telling your mum that children are born and they also die I'd a very evil 😈 did especially after knowing very well how much she has sacrificed in order for you to study; selling her cow 🐄 and your audacity to speak to her reckless is very hurtful and wrong coming from you.