@@madalenaacaciodefreitas9468 Huh? She was genuinely helping this poor family. It was very nice of her to do this for free, don’t just assume that one day she is going to be mean.
@@hospitalcakewalk just because she didn’t show the bedroom doesn’t mean she isn’t trying, what are you on about? This isn’t a place for your negativity. Ari has said before that if the house gets dirty again it’s okay. Progress isn’t linear and she should be proud for keeping it so clean after 2 whole months.
@@hospitalcakewalk What LIV said but also… there’s areas of everyone’s home that they either don’t clean as well or don’t share. Again, your negativity isn’t welcome here. REMINDER: If you don’t have anything nice to say…. DON’T SAY ANYTHING!
@@liv_lyons Stop. The person complaining they do not want to clean even though the children are begging her to, the person saying watching people's places get clean makes her want to be clean but not attempt it in any way... the person who cried because they didn't want to clean does want attention. I'm not being negative. Listen to the story. She literally complains about everything and does nothing to get better. The after pictures prove she's not trying. The counters....
You can't control having a depression, but her reaching out for help is already a step in bettering one self. She sounds like an amazing mom and I'm so happy for her and her kids ❤
@@florencecavallaro4599 homem algum vale a sua tristeza ou choro, mulheres se dêem valor por favor. Não se julga depressão, mas, se aponta seus valores como pessoa à não se deixar cair por ninguém nessa vida. Você é especial e ponto final.
Does she look like an amazing mom ? Really???? Just amazes me people say stupid shit like that ...just to be nice !!! How about getting back to HONESTY !!!
@@taratruman6330 I didn't comment it to "be nice" and I'm very honest. People aren't perfect, but she took a step forward to hell herself and her kids- that's what makes her a good mother. She is willing and doing better for her kids even when life is tough on her. Maybe instead on telling people they are saying shit, learn to critique less and be more understandable- it will make you less bitter
@@MistySophie not bitter I just live in reality! And yes people say dumb ass shit like she is a good mother...just because it's the NICE thing to say...everyone is so afraid to tell the TRUTH cuz u might hurt someone's feelings....uuugghhh
Not only are you an angel on earth, but you’re one of my favorite cleaning channels because you don’t use crazy amounts of chemicals! Everything you use is affordable and simple and makes me feel better knowing I don’t have use a whole paycheck on cleaning supplies! Thank you for everything you do for people!!
When the Mom said that it's easier to maintain after Auri deep cleaned it, I felt that. I'm currently working through deep cleaning my house after 2 years of falling down the depression hole and not being able to really do more than the bare minimum. It's exhausting, but I know that once I get it all deep cleaned and organized, it'll be so much easier to keep up with the daily tasks. Auri gives me hope and motivation
You got this mama. And know that you are worth a clean and loving space. What had helped me when I fall back into a depressive state is getting rid of excess so that what I *do* have to maintain isn’t as overwhelming, I hope you feel better ❤
Bitch vibes tbh. Right now, I'm lucky enough to still live at home at 22, but my room is a complete and utter disorganized mess from the last 3 years of being off my meds for financial and personal reasons (mostly not having an ID, Nevada sucks like that) and I'm only just now (the last 4 months or so) getting back on them and able to clean again... HOO IT IS NOT EASY BUT IT IS SO WORTH IT IN THE END!!!
Dear Auri, once in a video you said “it’s ok if the house gets dirty again.” That really helped me with my own home. Nothing is clean forever and it is a process. Thank you!! 🧡🧡🧡
the key to winning over dirt is consistency and systematics. I know from the autopsy that after using it, you need to put things back in their places and not postpone it
I’m coming out of a 3 year + bout of depression. I’m a single mom to 3 and after going thru some major negativity in my life, losing my car and my job, I finally decided to do something about my problems. Auri’s channel inspires me so much. Now that I’m deep cleaning our house, my kids are so much happier. I can even see the difference in my pets. Waking up to a clean home is a priceless feeling. Thank you Auri for being the angel that you are ❤ a true goddess
What really helped me was the flylady system, to develop good cleaning and decluttering routines. The website is a bit confusing, but there are some youtube channels that explain it very well.
I like it when you talk about the people so much. Always remember that there are people behind the messes and that they deserve to be treated like human beings and not judged for succumbing to their struggle
As a child/ teen who grew up houses worst than this due to a parent who had depression, I really want to thank you for helping her and the kids. Growing up in houses like this has such a severe impact on your mental health and your ability to know how to clean even as an adult. You really are a blessing in this family's life and even this one clean will help this family tremendously.
@@Hallieisslay it really does sick. As an adult I had to be taught how to clean and at 28 still have some of those nasty habits, but am still much much better than I use to be.
@@LiesArentTruth I’m only 11, but is has put me in a bad mental state. I’m sure I don’t have all of those adult life experiences like you but I have that I can someday I can be a cleaner, better person.
@@Hallieisslay Just work on it bit by bit, learn to keep just 1 section clean, or do a 2 min speed clean each day or 2, even these little things have helped me tremendously and know it can be a really slow process, and still is for me, im still struggling with somethings in terms of keeping things clean, but just know that with patience for yourself and learning from others you can get there. Watching videos like this, and other ones on cleaning and organising and doing it at the same as them can really help
I really feel for this mom. My own mom struggled with the same kind of situation and our house was always a wreck. Depression makes it so difficult to find the energy and motivation to clean, then the mess makes you feel bad, leading to a vicious cycle because you hate yourself for letting it get that bad
I'm so sorry you guys went through that or dealt with that. Tho I didn't share that when I grew up, but my parents were divorce and they taught me to try and clean up the best we could
I also grew up in that situation and all my cousins. It's crazy how common it is and I just feel bad how ashamed my mom was. She was a single mom with 3 kids and worked overnight as a nurse. She worked so hard and always put us kids first and I wish I helped clean more as a kid. It would've helped her but I know I picked up bad habits that it took me 10 years to get over as an adult
It’s heartbreaking. But I fear those parents are probably mentally ill and desperate 😢 Otherwise I couldn’t imagine someone could do this. I pray those people get the help they need and their children can find new hope.
Your videos warm my heart! I'm in the Kansas City, Missouri area, and I'd like to offer my help (for free, of course) if you are struggling with a cleaning situation like this. Depression can take us down so easily....and the last thing we need is shame about how our home looks/functions. For real, if anyone wants my help....let me know!! Absolutely NO JUDGMENT!!!!! I'll even make it fun, if you want to be there while I clean. If it's too embarrassing to be there while I'm cleaning, that's ok too!
How can I contact you? Have a house in this situation that we moved from. The house got in that state because of a serious health issue, brain surgery, and depression/anxiety.
I love how two months later, it's so much more manageable for her! This is why it means so much when people reach out to help one another. She just needed a boost and a fresh start to get back on track. ♥
I've been here. As a single parent raising 2 babies and trying to make ends meet you usually end up depressed. Especially when the month goes further than the money does. When you start skipping meals to make everything work and when you start working 14 hours a day 6 days a week, you start loosing hope. When not one single thing breaks in your direction, you start getting depressed. It happens. Got bless this woman for really taking care of the most basic of needs this family struggles with!
I can't say how happy the update two months later made me. It's so much easier to maintain a clean home if you start with a clean home, but that doesn't mean it doesn't still take work and effort and it's amazing how well this mother is doing. She can be so proud of herself and in so happy for her and for those children
As a mother, a young mom, I can really empathize. She clearly wanted to do right by her kids but was being crushed under the weight of her struggles. Good job, Auri. Good job, Mary!
Update: I previously commented about being able to see my floor for the first time in months. I wanted to update everyone. It's a struggle to maintain, BUT, I'm working on making it consistent. You have inspired me to clean the rest of my house, and start living better. Thank you for everything. Edit:: The kindess in these comments are always so unexpected, but so appreciated🥺
Amazing job as always, and so proud of that mom for reaching out. Seeing the 2 months later photos really illustrated how much of an impact giving a little help to get someone started can have. Speaking as someone who struggles with depression, sometimes my apartment will get a bit messy in places, and when I finally clean it, often there's a voice in my head saying "I can't believe you let it get this bad." Very negative thoughts. For someone with very serious depression, that alone can be enough to discourage them from even trying to clean. Giving someone a "fresh start" by waking up to a clean home can often be all they need to stay on top of it. I truly look forward to these videos all week and I hope you can keep doing them for a long time.
You are quite honestly the sweetest person I've ever come across on social media and watching you restores my faith in humanity. We need so many more people like you and you make me want to be a better person tbh. The difference you make in the world by doing what you do and sharing these videos, as well as your entire outlook on these people in their time of need is insurmountable and I hope you realize that. You give people Hope and Hope is a powerful thing
This girl is brave and I think, she is a good mom, the house is actually pretty clean, just a lot of trashes. Thank you for helping her, thank her for asking for help! Now she would need someone to clean the house regurally! There is no shame to name cleaning or cooking or house keeping - work. If only she had money and a kind helper for that.
Generally it is pretty dirty, although in comparison to the other depression houses she has visited, I guess u could say that. I just hope the cleaning has made a difference in this mum's life!
Best trick that I have found when I’m not feeling like cleaning is to set my alarm clock to 10 minutes or 15 minutes and do as much as I can in that time frame. That way I know I did at least a little. You can do that every day. Surprising how much you can do in a room in 15 minutes.
This is also a really good option if you deal with ADHD or other things that cause executive dysfunction - it makes a lot of things feel incredibly overwhelming and makes you struggle to know where to start, but setting a timer is like...it doesn't matter that you don't know where to start with the rest of the house, because you just need to do fifteen minutes
@@aim-to-misbehave5674 I completely agree with you. Whenever I don’t feel like cleaning I just put a timer on and you’ll be impressed on how much you can get done in a short period of time
You are an amazing lady with a heart of gold! You have literally given Mary a life line and shown unconditional love when it was most needed without judgment or ridicule.
Because of you, I have helped some of my struggling friends clean their homes. Sometimes they think it is a weird thing to offer, but when I do it, and try to have a respectful and positive attitude like yours, they end up even enjoying the process, and loving the result.
Я очень хорошо понимаю человека который в депрессии, так как сама много лет с ней живу. Конечно я не доводила свой дом до такого состояния, но уборка давалась мне с большим трудом, хотя раньше я очень любила убираться дома и люблю чистоту, грязь в доме меня угнетает.
The kindness this video spreads is contagious and uplifting. “The kids have a lot of toys! Which is a good thing!” Their mom loves them. Even struck down from depression, she loves them. Their home looks amazing even months later! It looks lived in, loved, and most importantly, it looks like a home ❤️
Great habit to form is decluttering toys before birthdays and holidays to make room for new. When cleaning becomes too overwhelming for the kids or mom, it's time to declutter. Super fun and super easy! 😅
I love that you use simply things like dish soap and show that it still cleans fine. I am European but currently live in the US and I feel like the motto here is „the harsher the chemical the better it cleans“. Using bleach and Lysol etc on a daily basis…like huh, I have never used bleach before in Germany and my house was clean!
My Mother-In-Law has her own cleaning business, and when I saw her cleaning things with just dish soap.. I was disgusted.... she turned me around REAL quick LOL. I use dish soap for almost everything, I'm fortunate enough to not have a ton of BIG messes so dish soap works fine. I love it so much.
@@melaniephilmalee4650 im the same as you. I would frown at my mom when she used dish soap. Now a few years later i use dish soap to clean everything 😆
Bleach is better than soap in some instances. Soaking bakeware with baked on messes in a mixture of bleach and cold water for 2 hours is a life saver. Its works for a lot of cookware/Bakeware so well. You don't have to scrub. Try that with soap. It will not work. You would have to scrub it. That is a waste of time and the result it not as good. On the flip side lot of people sanitize their homes especially during the pandemic. Sanitizing the whole house and trying to create an aseptic environment is actually harmful to our health. We need exposure to germs and viruses.
Interesting, I commented similar on a different video, that I noticed she doesn't just bleach everything. (Tho in the bathroom there's some stains that could be removed with bleach)
She's done an INCREDIBLE job keeping up with her house! The best part of that is that you can see that she's in a better place bc she is able to manage everyday activities. Well-done, Mary!!
I agree! And it was the right (and brave) thing to do to contact Auri for help. We all need help sometimes in our lives, there is no shame in asking. So glad to see the place looking so clean and loved 2 months later.
Mary, I'm so proud of you for not waiting until things got worse to ask for help! When your kids grow up, they're going to understand that when their mom was struggling she did her very best for their sake, and they are going to love you so much for it.
Them seeing her be strong enough to ask for help was such a good lesson too, letting them know that if they need it in the future that _they_ can ask for help as well ❤
omg the "praise your kid" part really hits home lol. i never got taught how to clean or how to tidy up, but occasionally i was tasked with cleaning my room and when i was done my parent walked through and only pointed out the bad parts without explaining why or how to do it better. no encouragement whatsoever. best way to teach your kid "why do it if i suck at it anyways"
I totally agree, this is exactly how I was treated as a kid. Any time I’d vacuum or anything there was always “you missed a spot” or blatant discussion of how “bad” I clean. No one ever taught me how to properly clean rather just assumed I knew how which I did not. To this day as an adult there are things I don’t always know how to clean correctly and instead of someone showing me how they ask me “how could you not know? You’re an adult.” There are so many things I realize now as an adult I simply was never taught and everyone looks down on me as if I’m stupid or I should know better but you simply don’t know what you don’t know.
I loved seeing the two month date for sure!! I always wonder what happens after she does all that work. Wonderful the mom kept it up. I know its difficult. Been there.
I’m a mom of two and I had some major depression periods and it’s like the mess in your head turns out as a mess around you. And sometimes having someone to help organize the outside world gives you powers to do the inside job. This is a priceless help, thank you for this video Auri ❤❤❤
I can't express how grateful i am for your videos. You make cleaning looks so easy and fun that it inspired me to clean my depression home too. In the past week i had your videos on repeat while cleaning everywhere and it has improved my mood so SOOO much. Thank you for what you do
You're making an impact on all of us, not only the people you help directly. So, thank you for inspiring us and improving the life of hundred people ❤️
I really appreciate how you don’t shame or belittle the people whose home you are cleaning. I appreciate how you treat them with kindness and compassion.
I love how much respect you showed this mom. As a mom who struggles with ppd, this video really touched my heart. It was so kind of you to give her a fresh clean start.
Man, this one really got to me. When you changed the baby's sheets I got teary-eyed. 🥺❤ She really needed a helping hand and you turned her whole life around. Just amazing.
What you’re doing is so important. As someone who struggles with depression, I know how hard it can be at times. Thanks for giving this family a second chance♥️
Not a family. The usual single mother sob story who chose to be a single mother now whines about it and forced innocent kids to live in filth. This girl cleaning is a saint but the excuses everyone has for this pig sty is ridiculous
I have depression/anxiety disorder. I'm married, recovering from a major surgery, working full time, and have a 7 year old. I am getting my home together with the help of these videos. Luckily I've never let it get nearly as bad as in these videos. But I understand how their places got so bad. I'm so happy they're getting the help they need! Thank you for making these videos!
these vids are very important to show people what really happens during depression. i was finally diagnosed with depression and anxiety once i moved out of my parents home but my room at my parents home would look like some of the homes i watched you clean. i always struggled with cleaning my room even tho it was one room it took alot to keep it clean. at points i get up get tired of the mess i would clean but still i would get overwhelmed start to cry, angry, and throw stuff. when it got clean it would stay like that for a few days or a week then it got back to where it was. so when i finally moved out got on the right meds for my depression i got some of my drive back to actually clean. sometimes i still struggle even with meds but really if i keep watching these vids maybe it will help me even more with cleaning and show me that not everything needs to be 100% all the time i hope everyone who has struggled with or still struggling with depression has the rescores and help to the road of healing and recovery
I really appreciate you're efforts to helping clean homes. Clean surroundings always give people a fresh start. You're videos are always so enjoyable, helpful and informative too, thank you for helping so many people 💕
New watcher here and I love this content! She treats the people, their stories, and their homes with the utmost respect. I've known people who watch Hoarders (tv show) as a motivation to address daunting messes but it was never for me. THIS content is for me 🧽💚
Hi Auri! I loved this video. A tip for dealing with fruit flies: mix a cup of apple cider vinegar with 1-2tsp of dish soap and place a few cups of these in areas where there is an infestation. The flies are attracted to the vinegar, but the dish soap sticks to their wings so they drown. It makes the house pretty stinky for a couple of days, but really works!
This is what my in law’s house look like. They’re too busy to cook and clean and they show their love to their kids by buying them new toys since they’re always so busy or tired to play with them. There are mountains of toys and to-go foods in various states. I’m gonna watch this video a few more times and go over their house and help.
I can’t believe you’ve already more than 1 million subscribers!! You’re truly an inspiration for all of us ❤️❤️ thank you so much for the amazing videos
I'm a mom of 3.. there is really a lot of chores everyday and whenever I feel a bit lazy I watch your videos to motivate me to get up and clean🤩. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION! 🥰🥰🥰
Having a clean living space can hoenstly completely turn someone around so they have the motivation to do things and take care of themselves. You really are changing lives Ms AuriKatariina 🖤
Please research more about better help. I've been reading from people on other RUclipsrs channels that they are not a good company. They don't always have licensed therapist helping people and are giving wrong or dangerous advice to some people. I really hope you see this and reconsider. I'm sure the last thing you want to be doing is promoting a company that may cause more damage to someone. You are truly a sweet person and I don't want you to suffer the effects of that happening.
Stories of single moms who genuinely care for their children hit so hard. I’m so glad she decided to reach out for help. As someone who’s single mother couldn’t care for them, it means so much. Even if I don’t know her, it’s such a big step and I’m so proud 💕
It’s messy, but, these kids have a home. The baby is getting it’s diaper changed, even if that dirty diaper is thrown on the floor, the baby is clean. Sometimes the bare minimum that you can do as a mom is to keep everyone alive. So proud of her progress! You have blessed her!
If you pay attention the crib and the older boy’s room are the cleanest areas. The boy’s room only had toys on the floor and maybe one empty juice 🧃 pouch. She loves her kids very much
Growing up in a perpetually dirty home traumatized me. We should have sympathy for parents with depression but we should not normalize a filthy home for children.
@Burnt Donut well thank God you don't have the authority to take anyone's kids from them. Those kids could experience trauma from not being with their mother also and I'm sure it wouldn't help the mothers depression. Children need to stay with their parents..sometimes moms just need a little help
My house has been a mess because I have been struggling with depression. I decided to start doing self love, shadow work, and healing my inner child. The only thing I have left to do is to finish cleaning up my house which is a reflection of the chaos I've been currently dealing with.
I have said this before, but I will say it again. I love how these videos are about helping, not judging. In a lot of tv shows about cleaning very messy homes, there is a lot of judgement, both from the cleaners, as well as the comments underneath. I think many people do not understand how everyday tasks can become such a struggle, but they can. And having someone help, rather than just judge, that is the best way to help them get back on track.
She should be judged. There are 2 children involved. She chose to have kids out of wedlock. This is all her own doing. Now she wants my sympathy? I only have it for the kids. Keep your place clean. Period.
@@dcg590 it seems to me that the reason she wanted help is bc she was thinking of her 2 children. Depression is a very debilitating condition and makes it hard for people to see things clearly. Doesn't mean that she shouldn't clean, but seeing as we are all human beings and all parents/people make mistakes and need help sometimes we should not judge. Those who give mercy will receive mercy. I certainly hope that if you need help with something someday (doesn't have to be cleaning) that you will be shown compassion and mercy, not condemnation
@@dcg590 As the story told within the first minute, the father decided to leave, which sparked the depression. Wedlock or not, people can still leave wether it is 'right' or not. I would say that the father abandoning his two children and their mother had quite a bit to do with it as well. Everyone can be knocked down in life. Actually being brave enough to ask for help, and let other people see the things you are most ashamed of, that should not be rewarded with judgement and cruelty.
So much mom shaming and guilt it can be so tough to ask for help! Proud of mom for treating her depression and asking for help for herself and her kids especially!
I'm only 2 minutes into the video but I want to say right away that I think it's so impressive you don't just "treat the symptoms" but are always advocating for empathy with people who are struggling with their mental health and are promoting therapy services. That way you can have an impact on many more lives. Keep up the fantastic work!
eu tbm...diarista aqui no Brasil, uma casa por dia....cada rabo..as gosto doque faço depois de ver tudo limpos....dá um.orgulho, Auri vc faz milagres!!!!
To be a single Mom is all too often to be isolated and to be poor. I know. I've been there. That is why It is just wonderful that you don't judge her. Your help is so good and so true, that I find myself getting emotional watching it--and its a cleaning video for heaven's sake! So bravo to you girl! Bravo Aurikatarina. Now you've got me all inspired here and I'm off to get the dust bunnies under the couch.
How wonderful to see that Mary is now able to have a clean home for her children and herself. If I lived close to you Auri - I would take all the dirty clothes to the laundromat while you were cleaning. Thank you Auri and Mary.
DIOS ...amo tu paciencia y dedicación en tu trabajo ... realmente haces un trabajo increíble 💖 ... Esa casa quedó hermosa luego de la limpieza 😭 ... No sé como los dueños pudieron dejar que una casa tan bonita sea así de sucio ... Pero gracias a ti esa casa tuvo de nuevo su momento de gloria ...y quedó limpia y fresca ✨ ... Ya veremos si luego de nuevo los dueños lo dejan de nuevo a como empezó el vídeo 🥲
What a cute apartment! I love the layout. I'm jealous of the bathrooms over there (and I notice the same in Japan) where the whole room is designed to get wet and have drains in the floors. Definitely not the case here in America, but it would make cleaning the floors so much easier! I notice you're by yourself in this one....just curious, how long did this end up taking from start to finish?
@@annakout In Brazil we have drain in the bathroom, is very commom to wash. I think is because Brazil have much water available compared to America or others countrys
from her previous videos it seemed these take mostly 1 or 2 long days to shoot...? so not 8 hours of work, but more. there was like one that took a week. so i don't know, but i assume anywhere between 12 to 20 hrs...?
Auri ,we need Nord Clean products in Brasil 🇧🇷,I really appreciate your respect with house owners ,you also wash everything and try to save everything that is possible ,generally on this kind of deep clean shows ,people only throw everything away and you don’t do it .
I think the main problem in this house was how cluttered it was. Some dirty appliances here and there, but I've seen you clean so much worse honestly. But still, I'm sure this really does mean so much to the mother. I do feel for her. I'm sure being a single mum would already be really hard work, being a depressed single mum would be the absolute worst. I love seeing people bringing people up instead of bringing them down. It's so easy to jump to conclusions when you don't even know the full story.
Walking into a clean home must have been such a relief for both mom and kids. Outside of the mental illness some people have too much "stuff". That is a lot of toys its hard to organize, you always do an amazing job.
Yeah I’ve learned that i just cant have a lot of things since im so dysfunctional. Unfortunately depression and trauma can lead to hoarding and buying things for temporary respite.
Mary, you got this! You are awesome and incredible and amazing and you freaking got this, girl! I’m so proud of you for asking for help and taking the steps you need to take to live a happy life. I’m 25, too. I struggle with depression so I just feel connected to you and I just really hope you get every single thing you want in life.
Don't judge people with messy homes... My younger brother was diagnosed with depression last year and had a really hard time, keeping his apartment clean all by himself. It's ok, I help him out once a week and make sure, he remembers to take his meds. He's doing a lot better at the moment and that's all that matters.
I liked that "woho, a hard stain" .. love this energy. Also love how you pronounce things since you're Finnish. Anyways, good job and nice of you to help.
I love coming onto your RUclips channel when you post , I love rewatching your videos and I get motivation from watching. You motivate me to deep clean and clean it general. I get the best vibes from you and your videos! I love your work, your amazing ❤️
I so agree with all the comments here about what a gift you are giving to someone who is struggling - giving them a bright new start. Also, about the courage and love for her children that Mary is displaying in reaching out for help. I want to add, what a charming and lighthearted home I find this to be, all spiffed up. It looks like a delightful and warm home for any age: mommy and kiddos, both. I think Mary really has an eye for beauty. Wishing Mary and family the best as you go forward. And a special thanks to the Cleaning Angel for spreading her angel dust made of glitter wherever she goes!
What’s so amazing and sad about these homes is you can SEE the effort they are so desperately trying to muster in the day-to-day. She bought placemats for her table! I’m sure they never expected for things to get this bad. You do amazing work 💗
I used to suffer from depression and anxiety fo a long time (since I was a child). I've been stable for almost an year. I can say that a clean home can really help. I have a cleaning lady that comes to my flat 2 times a month, and it really helps me to keep up with my wellness. You do an amazing thing for those subs of yours. All my love from Brazil
Aurikatariina seu trabalho é maravilhoso!!Acho incrível como vc transforma caos em ordem!! Também acho que apesar de todas as dificuldades que temos, os desafios e provas da vida, temos que dar os primeiros passos!! Espero que essa mãe possa se reerguer e ficar bem!
Gostaria de saber se essas pessoas que recebem ajuda com a limpeza, também recebem tratamento psiquiátrico. Porque não adianta nada, em pouco tempo a casa voltará a ser suja como antes. Essas pessoas são doentes. Impossível conviver assim. E criar a criança em um ambiente desses I would like to know if these people who get help with cleaning also get psychiatric treatment. Because it's no use, in a short time the house will be as dirty as before. These people are sick. Impossible to live like this. And raise the child in such an environment
My home is not to this level, but I sure understand. Not a young mother (I'm almost 40) but I can totally understand why things get out of control. Fortunately, this channel has helped me find a lot of ways to make cleaning up easier, so I am far less overwhelmed.
@@gram5963 Yes! Between kids, work and home it's like...how does anyone have a clean house?! Fortunately Auri has shown me ways to cut down on the amount of cleaning and makes it any other maintenance task.
Hey Auri so much emphasis is there nowadays to 'Love yourself' and be responsible for your own happiness, but in my experience, it was when someone gave me something out of mercy that healed me the most. When I was stuck in the dumps and saw no way out, to have someone give a gift and to break the pattern showed me that things can change, and taught me how to do better. 💗💗💗
Auri, a RUclips channel called "QUEEN OF CLEAN" is taking your videos, removing your audio and adding their own music, and then reuploading the videos on their channel with their own watermarks. she is attempting to profit off of your content.
Hi Aurikatariina, iam from India, I have been watching your videos from last few days, and feel so happy to see how selflessly you help people. I would like to add one small suggestion here, plz ask them to keep the windows and curtains open for the sunlight in the house, fresh air and sunlight gives a very positive vibes in the house. It also helps people with depression. Keep posting videos lots of love
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It's nice to see that you don't judge, you just try to help. That's really nice.
don't worry, im judging for everyone on the planet !!!!
She will judge don’t worry. Finns are judging everyone. First they help and them they stab your back. Just matter of time.
@@madalenaacaciodefreitas9468 Huh? She was genuinely helping this poor family. It was very nice of her to do this for free, don’t just assume that one day she is going to be mean.
@@madalenaacaciodefreitas9468 Have a cookie. You are not yourself when you are hungry 🙂
@@rubenfaelens2127 wrong kind of snacks… It should be Snickers… but it fine…
So nice of her to send the after pictures. It shows she is recovering and proud of herself, as she should be!!!
It also shows that she appreciates what ari did for her
no, she never showed her bedroom... it shows she isnt trying and just wanted attention...
@@hospitalcakewalk just because she didn’t show the bedroom doesn’t mean she isn’t trying, what are you on about? This isn’t a place for your negativity. Ari has said before that if the house gets dirty again it’s okay. Progress isn’t linear and she should be proud for keeping it so clean after 2 whole months.
@@hospitalcakewalk What LIV said but also… there’s areas of everyone’s home that they either don’t clean as well or don’t share. Again, your negativity isn’t welcome here. REMINDER: If you don’t have anything nice to say…. DON’T SAY ANYTHING!
@@liv_lyons Stop. The person complaining they do not want to clean even though the children are begging her to, the person saying watching people's places get clean makes her want to be clean but not attempt it in any way... the person who cried because they didn't want to clean does want attention.
I'm not being negative. Listen to the story. She literally complains about everything and does nothing to get better. The after pictures prove she's not trying. The counters....
You can't control having a depression, but her reaching out for help is already a step in bettering one self. She sounds like an amazing mom and I'm so happy for her and her kids ❤
@@florencecavallaro4599 homem algum vale a sua tristeza ou choro, mulheres se dêem valor por favor.
Não se julga depressão, mas, se aponta seus valores como pessoa à não se deixar cair por ninguém nessa vida. Você é especial e ponto final.
Does she look like an amazing mom ? Really???? Just amazes me people say stupid shit like that ...just to be nice !!! How about getting back to HONESTY !!!
@@taratruman6330 I didn't comment it to "be nice" and I'm very honest. People aren't perfect, but she took a step forward to hell herself and her kids- that's what makes her a good mother. She is willing and doing better for her kids even when life is tough on her.
Maybe instead on telling people they are saying shit, learn to critique less and be more understandable- it will make you less bitter
@@MistySophie not bitter I just live in reality! And yes people say dumb ass shit like she is a good mother...just because it's the NICE thing to say...everyone is so afraid to tell the TRUTH cuz u might hurt someone's feelings....uuugghhh
@@taratruman6330 im so sorry mommy didn't love you enough but asking for help is hard. she is a good mother, she just needed help
Not only are you an angel on earth, but you’re one of my favorite cleaning channels because you don’t use crazy amounts of chemicals! Everything you use is affordable and simple and makes me feel better knowing I don’t have use a whole paycheck on cleaning supplies! Thank you for everything you do for people!!
Exactly, it doesn't take a lot of products to clean your house.
I love it when she calls things “boring” if there not that dirty or cluttered
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Same was about to say that 😂❤
She is the only one I know that you could put into a landfill and she'll clean the whole thing while having the time of her life.
When the Mom said that it's easier to maintain after Auri deep cleaned it, I felt that. I'm currently working through deep cleaning my house after 2 years of falling down the depression hole and not being able to really do more than the bare minimum. It's exhausting, but I know that once I get it all deep cleaned and organized, it'll be so much easier to keep up with the daily tasks. Auri gives me hope and motivation
You got this mama. And know that you are worth a clean and loving space. What had helped me when I fall back into a depressive state is getting rid of excess so that what I *do* have to maintain isn’t as overwhelming, I hope you feel better ❤
Bitch vibes tbh. Right now, I'm lucky enough to still live at home at 22, but my room is a complete and utter disorganized mess from the last 3 years of being off my meds for financial and personal reasons (mostly not having an ID, Nevada sucks like that) and I'm only just now (the last 4 months or so) getting back on them and able to clean again... HOO IT IS NOT EASY BUT IT IS SO WORTH IT IN THE END!!!
@@alexisakins6281 I wish you strength and patience. How are you now?
Well done for having the motivation to clean your house. I had lifelong depression until a few years ago and I know how hard it is. Much love ❤️
@prismbee how are you doing? I hope you are well and happy.
Dear Auri, once in a video you said “it’s ok if the house gets dirty again.” That really helped me with my own home. Nothing is clean forever and it is a process. Thank you!! 🧡🧡🧡
@eatlocalhoney Every mess in life can be cleaned! I wish you well!!
@@jesslynn14 💜💜💜
the key to winning over dirt is consistency and systematics. I know from the autopsy that after using it, you need to put things back in their places and not postpone it
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I think about that part every time 😊
I’m coming out of a 3 year + bout of depression. I’m a single mom to 3 and after going thru some major negativity in my life, losing my car and my job, I finally decided to do something about my problems. Auri’s channel inspires me so much. Now that I’m deep cleaning our house, my kids are so much happier. I can even see the difference in my pets. Waking up to a clean home is a priceless feeling. Thank you Auri for being the angel that you are ❤ a true goddess
What really helped me was the flylady system, to develop good cleaning and decluttering routines. The website is a bit confusing, but there are some youtube channels that explain it very well.
I like it when you talk about the people so much. Always remember that there are people behind the messes and that they deserve to be treated like human beings and not judged for succumbing to their struggle
Perfectly said 🥰🥰
Sad that you have to remind people about it
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I dont think this is how she feels she has to provide content and storyline for youtube. Thats why she gives background
Amen
As a child/ teen who grew up houses worst than this due to a parent who had depression, I really want to thank you for helping her and the kids. Growing up in houses like this has such a severe impact on your mental health and your ability to know how to clean even as an adult. You really are a blessing in this family's life and even this one clean will help this family tremendously.
I'm happy that I'm not the only one who grew/ is growing up in very messy houses.
@@Hallieisslay it really does sick. As an adult I had to be taught how to clean and at 28 still have some of those nasty habits, but am still much much better than I use to be.
@@LiesArentTruth It's a growth process. I'm 47, and it was Auri that taught me that oven hoods /could/ be cleaned.
@@LiesArentTruth I’m only 11, but is has put me in a bad mental state. I’m sure I don’t have all of those adult life experiences like you but I have that I can someday I can be a cleaner, better person.
@@Hallieisslay Just work on it bit by bit, learn to keep just 1 section clean, or do a 2 min speed clean each day or 2, even these little things have helped me tremendously and know it can be a really slow process, and still is for me, im still struggling with somethings in terms of keeping things clean, but just know that with patience for yourself and learning from others you can get there. Watching videos like this, and other ones on cleaning and organising and doing it at the same as them can really help
You don’t just clean their house, you give them a new beginning,YOU ARE AWESOME ❤️
Katrina lady with a golden heart.....to avoid asthma or poisoning....please use a face mask...
I really feel for this mom. My own mom struggled with the same kind of situation and our house was always a wreck. Depression makes it so difficult to find the energy and motivation to clean, then the mess makes you feel bad, leading to a vicious cycle because you hate yourself for letting it get that bad
I hear you completely…. I also grew up in that type of situation…..
I have the same issues, but am really trying to keep on top of it…
I'm so sorry you guys went through that or dealt with that. Tho I didn't share that when I grew up, but my parents were divorce and they taught me to try and clean up the best we could
I also grew up in that situation and all my cousins. It's crazy how common it is and I just feel bad how ashamed my mom was. She was a single mom with 3 kids and worked overnight as a nurse. She worked so hard and always put us kids first and I wish I helped clean more as a kid. It would've helped her but I know I picked up bad habits that it took me 10 years to get over as an adult
The only one of the first place for a while
Exactly 😞
I will never understand people who abandon their children. God bless this young mom. Hope her and her children have a wonderful future.
minha avó abandonou minha mãe e sofro até hoje com isso....minha mãe é uma eterna criança que eu tenho que cuidar 😢
It's honestly for the best, if it's so easy to walk away from the child, best to stay out of their life
It’s heartbreaking. But I fear those parents are probably mentally ill and desperate 😢 Otherwise I couldn’t imagine someone could do this. I pray those people get the help they need and their children can find new hope.
Its mostly men who abandon their children (80% of single parents are women). Men need to sort themselves out.
@@Diana-qp2rw Mentally ill? No. They are simply selfish men.
Your videos warm my heart! I'm in the Kansas City, Missouri area, and I'd like to offer my help (for free, of course) if you are struggling with a cleaning situation like this. Depression can take us down so easily....and the last thing we need is shame about how our home looks/functions. For real, if anyone wants my help....let me know!! Absolutely NO JUDGMENT!!!!! I'll even make it fun, if you want to be there while I clean. If it's too embarrassing to be there while I'm cleaning, that's ok too!
How can I contact you? Have a house in this situation that we moved from. The house got in that state because of a serious health issue, brain surgery, and depression/anxiety.
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I love how two months later, it's so much more manageable for her! This is why it means so much when people reach out to help one another. She just needed a boost and a fresh start to get back on track. ♥
Sim, uma motivação, isso deveria ser regra em todos os aspectos nessa vida.
E vida que segue.
I've been here. As a single parent raising 2 babies and trying to make ends meet you usually end up depressed. Especially when the month goes further than the money does. When you start skipping meals to make everything work and when you start working 14 hours a day 6 days a week, you start loosing hope. When not one single thing breaks in your direction, you start getting depressed. It happens. Got bless this woman for really taking care of the most basic of needs this family struggles with!
Guys, I grabbed a ladder and cleaned the lamp in my bathroom Yesterday. That's the Power of auri katariina
Nice! I always forget about the light fixtures
Yes ma'am!!!! Good job!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@cynthiaaaa5204How are you feeling today I Hope you have a wonderful day with your family
I can't say how happy the update two months later made me. It's so much easier to maintain a clean home if you start with a clean home, but that doesn't mean it doesn't still take work and effort and it's amazing how well this mother is doing. She can be so proud of herself and in so happy for her and for those children
As a mother, a young mom, I can really empathize. She clearly wanted to do right by her kids but was being crushed under the weight of her struggles.
Good job, Auri. Good job, Mary!
I'm so happy for her, that she got help,and glad she didn't live in the US, cps.
@@autumnhammond4427 as it should be. Single mother sob story getting free housing, treating her kids like that.
I love the fact you have no judgement for anyone and you make cleaning look so fun! I’m so happy for this mom!❤️
Update:
I previously commented about being able to see my floor for the first time in months. I wanted to update everyone. It's a struggle to maintain, BUT, I'm working on making it consistent. You have inspired me to clean the rest of my house, and start living better. Thank you for everything.
Edit:: The kindess in these comments are always so unexpected, but so appreciated🥺
that's good !
Im so proud of you! We can to hard things
Good job Caleb, remember that it’s never too bad and with a little support you can do anything! ☺️
So proud of you!!! Keep it up; I know it can be hard, but you are stronger than the mess, no matter how big or dirty! 🥰
Great job!
Amazing job as always, and so proud of that mom for reaching out. Seeing the 2 months later photos really illustrated how much of an impact giving a little help to get someone started can have. Speaking as someone who struggles with depression, sometimes my apartment will get a bit messy in places, and when I finally clean it, often there's a voice in my head saying "I can't believe you let it get this bad." Very negative thoughts. For someone with very serious depression, that alone can be enough to discourage them from even trying to clean. Giving someone a "fresh start" by waking up to a clean home can often be all they need to stay on top of it. I truly look forward to these videos all week and I hope you can keep doing them for a long time.
How are you feeling today I Hope you have a wonderful day with your family
I hope the family is happy. I was thrilled when you said that even the baby was happily crawling all over the house.
You are quite honestly the sweetest person I've ever come across on social media and watching you restores my faith in humanity. We need so many more people like you and you make me want to be a better person tbh. The difference you make in the world by doing what you do and sharing these videos, as well as your entire outlook on these people in their time of need is insurmountable and I hope you realize that. You give people Hope and Hope is a powerful thing
Your are an angel, God bless you , love from Tunisia ( South africa) ❤
@@yousra.s3174 Exactly what I was thinking: an angel on earth!
I'm sorry I just need help cleaning my room because every time I come home from I have so much stuff and I don't have no where to it
@@courtneycornett8464 dont be sorry for needing help, ever 😊
@@courtneycornett8464 maybe hire a professional organizer? They are experts at that kind if thing.
This girl is brave and I think, she is a good mom, the house is actually pretty clean, just a lot of trashes. Thank you for helping her, thank her for asking for help! Now she would need someone to clean the house regurally! There is no shame to name cleaning or cooking or house keeping - work. If only she had money and a kind helper for that.
Generally it is pretty dirty, although in comparison to the other depression houses she has visited, I guess u could say that. I just hope the cleaning has made a difference in this mum's life!
I Agree, i have seen worse homes
I agree. Auri used only dish soap to clean pretty much everything. That's how clean it was.
@@MayseSantana No dish soap is good cleaner
@@uocroitoilathat5087 Oh, sorry. I thought it was soft, for slightly dirty things. Thank you for the info!
Best trick that I have found when I’m not feeling like cleaning is to set my alarm clock to 10 minutes or 15 minutes and do as much as I can in that time frame. That way I know I did at least a little. You can do that every day. Surprising how much you can do in a room in 15 minutes.
great idea!
This is also a really good option if you deal with ADHD or other things that cause executive dysfunction - it makes a lot of things feel incredibly overwhelming and makes you struggle to know where to start, but setting a timer is like...it doesn't matter that you don't know where to start with the rest of the house, because you just need to do fifteen minutes
Another idea is ... if you are watching TV - clean during commericals.
@@aim-to-misbehave5674 I completely agree with you. Whenever I don’t feel like cleaning I just put a timer on and you’ll be impressed on how much you can get done in a short period of time
@@aim-to-misbehave5674 Yes!!
You are an amazing lady with a heart of gold! You have literally given Mary a life line and shown unconditional love when it was most needed without judgment or ridicule.
Because of you, I have helped some of my struggling friends clean their homes. Sometimes they think it is a weird thing to offer, but when I do it, and try to have a respectful and positive attitude like yours, they end up even enjoying the process, and loving the result.
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That’s so kind of you :)
That’s so nice of you Melody your friends are truly blessed to have you in their lives
That is so kind of you❤️
You're doing a great job.
This lady is blessed,shes really using her platform the right way,getting noticed by brands too,happy for her
Я очень хорошо понимаю человека который в депрессии, так как сама много лет с ней живу. Конечно я не доводила свой дом до такого состояния, но уборка давалась мне с большим трудом, хотя раньше я очень любила убираться дома и люблю чистоту, грязь в доме меня угнетает.
The kindness this video spreads is contagious and uplifting. “The kids have a lot of toys! Which is a good thing!” Their mom loves them. Even struck down from depression, she loves them. Their home looks amazing even months later! It looks lived in, loved, and most importantly, it looks like a home ❤️
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Yeah but having too many toys is not good either😅 I´m happy for them, that the house is clean now
@@lioness2000 it’s fine if you have storage to put them and make it organized . And then as they grow up you can donate the toys
Great habit to form is decluttering toys before birthdays and holidays to make room for new. When cleaning becomes too overwhelming for the kids or mom, it's time to declutter. Super fun and super easy! 😅
@@mtnewt1 yep just make sure you don’t throw away any of the favs
I love that you use simply things like dish soap and show that it still cleans fine. I am European but currently live in the US and I feel like the motto here is „the harsher the chemical the better it cleans“. Using bleach and Lysol etc on a daily basis…like huh, I have never used bleach before in Germany and my house was clean!
My Mother-In-Law has her own cleaning business, and when I saw her cleaning things with just dish soap.. I was disgusted.... she turned me around REAL quick LOL. I use dish soap for almost everything, I'm fortunate enough to not have a ton of BIG messes so dish soap works fine. I love it so much.
@@melaniephilmalee4650 im the same as you. I would frown at my mom when she used dish soap. Now a few years later i use dish soap to clean everything 😆
As a Latina living in Germany, I get you. I use products Frosch products. When my mom visited me she couldn’t believe I didn’t use harsh products
Bleach is better than soap in some instances. Soaking bakeware with baked on messes in a mixture of bleach and cold water for 2 hours is a life saver. Its works for a lot of cookware/Bakeware so well. You don't have to scrub. Try that with soap. It will not work. You would have to scrub it. That is a waste of time and the result it not as good. On the flip side lot of people sanitize their homes especially during the pandemic. Sanitizing the whole house and trying to create an aseptic environment is actually harmful to our health. We need exposure to germs and viruses.
Interesting, I commented similar on a different video, that I noticed she doesn't just bleach everything. (Tho in the bathroom there's some stains that could be removed with bleach)
She has such a cute little home, and it’s so wonderful to see it clean. I hope mum and bubs are all doing well. ❤️
I have to say that you are probably the nicest woman ever because you are making a difference in the world by helping people who are struggling
I’m a therapist and want to say thank you for all of the hope you give us about fellow humans. We love you, keep up the fantastic work x
Ikr! Auri is a real-life superhero!
Какая же ты молодец! Ты исцеляешь людей! Не словом, а делом!
She's done an INCREDIBLE job keeping up with her house! The best part of that is that you can see that she's in a better place bc she is able to manage everyday activities. Well-done, Mary!!
I agree! And it was the right (and brave) thing to do to contact Auri for help. We all need help sometimes in our lives, there is no shame in asking. So glad to see the place looking so clean and loved 2 months later.
Thanks 🤩
Mary, I'm so proud of you for not waiting until things got worse to ask for help! When your kids grow up, they're going to understand that when their mom was struggling she did her very best for their sake, and they are going to love you so much for it.
Them seeing her be strong enough to ask for help was such a good lesson too, letting them know that if they need it in the future that _they_ can ask for help as well ❤
so true , she should be very proud of herself !
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Какая же вы молодец! И любимым делом занимаетесь и помогаете тем, кто в этом нуждается
omg the "praise your kid" part really hits home lol. i never got taught how to clean or how to tidy up, but occasionally i was tasked with cleaning my room and when i was done my parent walked through and only pointed out the bad parts without explaining why or how to do it better. no encouragement whatsoever. best way to teach your kid "why do it if i suck at it anyways"
I totally agree, this is exactly how I was treated as a kid. Any time I’d vacuum or anything there was always “you missed a spot” or blatant discussion of how “bad” I clean. No one ever taught me how to properly clean rather just assumed I knew how which I did not. To this day as an adult there are things I don’t always know how to clean correctly and instead of someone showing me how they ask me “how could you not know? You’re an adult.” There are so many things I realize now as an adult I simply was never taught and everyone looks down on me as if I’m stupid or I should know better but you simply don’t know what you don’t know.
Same here, friends, you're not alone.
I loved the 2 months update! Cause it shows how much effort she is doing to keep going, to keep the house a nice space for her kids. Loved it ❤
How are you feeling today I Hope you have a wonderful day with your family
I loved seeing the two month date for sure!! I always wonder what happens after she does all that work. Wonderful the mom kept it up. I know its difficult. Been there.
I’m a mom of two and I had some major depression periods and it’s like the mess in your head turns out as a mess around you. And sometimes having someone to help organize the outside world gives you powers to do the inside job. This is a priceless help, thank you for this video Auri ❤❤❤
Thanks for saying this. I'm now thinking about my mess around me. How it does mirror what's in my mind. I have been trying to be more organized. 😅
I can't express how grateful i am for your videos. You make cleaning looks so easy and fun that it inspired me to clean my depression home too. In the past week i had your videos on repeat while cleaning everywhere and it has improved my mood so SOOO much. Thank you for what you do
Well done!
Congratulations! You will go on, Jesus loves you ♡
You're making an impact on all of us, not only the people you help directly. So, thank you for inspiring us and improving the life of hundred people ❤️
Not just hundreds, I believe many more even!
She is for sure an inspiration.
I really appreciate how you don’t shame or belittle the people whose home you are cleaning. I appreciate how you treat them with kindness and compassion.
I love how much respect you showed this mom. As a mom who struggles with ppd, this video really touched my heart. It was so kind of you to give her a fresh clean start.
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Man, this one really got to me. When you changed the baby's sheets I got teary-eyed. 🥺❤ She really needed a helping hand and you turned her whole life around. Just amazing.
I hate like how's no one shaming this dad or being mad at him. I hope life gives him what he deserves.
@@otohime8516 because why would we shame anyone without knowing full story behind? people leave for various reasons, he is still their father
What you’re doing is so important. As someone who struggles with depression, I know how hard it can be at times. Thanks for giving this family a second chance♥️
Not a family. The usual single mother sob story who chose to be a single mother now whines about it and forced innocent kids to live in filth. This girl cleaning is a saint but the excuses everyone has for this pig sty is ridiculous
Tbh the home wasn't even that dirty, just messy and I'm so happy for the mum and the children.
I have depression/anxiety disorder. I'm married, recovering from a major surgery, working full time, and have a 7 year old. I am getting my home together with the help of these videos. Luckily I've never let it get nearly as bad as in these videos. But I understand how their places got so bad. I'm so happy they're getting the help they need! Thank you for making these videos!
These videos help me as well, makes we want to clean.
these vids are very important to show people what really happens during depression. i was finally diagnosed with depression and anxiety once i moved out of my parents home but my room at my parents home would look like some of the homes i watched you clean. i always struggled with cleaning my room even tho it was one room it took alot to keep it clean. at points i get up get tired of the mess i would clean but still i would get overwhelmed start to cry, angry, and throw stuff. when it got clean it would stay like that for a few days or a week then it got back to where it was. so when i finally moved out got on the right meds for my depression i got some of my drive back to actually clean. sometimes i still struggle even with meds but really if i keep watching these vids maybe it will help me even more with cleaning and show me that not everything needs to be 100% all the time i hope everyone who has struggled with or still struggling with depression has the rescores and help to the road of healing and recovery
"what really happens during depression". Just because you live like a dirty pig doesn't mean that everyone else with depression lives like that too!
I really appreciate you're efforts to helping clean homes. Clean surroundings always give people a fresh start. You're videos are always so enjoyable, helpful and informative too, thank you for helping so many people 💕
Honestly, good on the mom for reaching out for help- specially for her child.
New watcher here and I love this content! She treats the people, their stories, and their homes with the utmost respect. I've known people who watch Hoarders (tv show) as a motivation to address daunting messes but it was never for me. THIS content is for me 🧽💚
Hi Auri! I loved this video. A tip for dealing with fruit flies: mix a cup of apple cider vinegar with 1-2tsp of dish soap and place a few cups of these in areas where there is an infestation. The flies are attracted to the vinegar, but the dish soap sticks to their wings so they drown. It makes the house pretty stinky for a couple of days, but really works!
This is what my in law’s house look like. They’re too busy to cook and clean and they show their love to their kids by buying them new toys since they’re always so busy or tired to play with them. There are mountains of toys and to-go foods in various states. I’m gonna watch this video a few more times and go over their house and help.
I can’t believe you’ve already more than 1 million subscribers!! You’re truly an inspiration for all of us ❤️❤️ thank you so much for the amazing videos
I have never seen a channel grow so fast!
Sameee 😱😱 thats just amazing
@@allalala9916 Indeed! "Living with cambriea" hoarders, are also very good.
@@allalala9916 I love her channel it’s so inspiring
I'm a mom of 3.. there is really a lot of chores everyday and whenever I feel a bit lazy I watch your videos to motivate me to get up and clean🤩. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION! 🥰🥰🥰
Same here and I only have one toddler 🤗
Hola, yo también soy mamá joven y tengo 3 pekes y aveces me estreso k yo tengo k aser todo
Que sonho esses.produtos de.limpeza
Queria essa lâmina de raspar a sujeira kkk
Having a clean living space can hoenstly completely turn someone around so they have the motivation to do things and take care of themselves.
You really are changing lives Ms AuriKatariina 🖤
Please research more about better help. I've been reading from people on other RUclipsrs channels that they are not a good company. They don't always have licensed therapist helping people and are giving wrong or dangerous advice to some people. I really hope you see this and reconsider. I'm sure the last thing you want to be doing is promoting a company that may cause more damage to someone. You are truly a sweet person and I don't want you to suffer the effects of that happening.
true!
Stories of single moms who genuinely care for their children hit so hard. I’m so glad she decided to reach out for help. As someone who’s single mother couldn’t care for them, it means so much. Even if I don’t know her, it’s such a big step and I’m so proud 💕
It’s messy, but, these kids have a home. The baby is getting it’s diaper changed, even if that dirty diaper is thrown on the floor, the baby is clean.
Sometimes the bare minimum that you can do as a mom is to keep everyone alive.
So proud of her progress! You have blessed her!
So true. 🙌🏻
If you pay attention the crib and the older boy’s room are the cleanest areas. The boy’s room only had toys on the floor and maybe one empty juice 🧃 pouch.
She loves her kids very much
Growing up in a perpetually dirty home traumatized me. We should have sympathy for parents with depression but we should not normalize a filthy home for children.
@Burnt Donut wow. Where's your compassion? That mom could be you..you never know. Depression is real.
@Burnt Donut well thank God you don't have the authority to take anyone's kids from them. Those kids could experience trauma from not being with their mother also and I'm sure it wouldn't help the mothers depression. Children need to stay with their parents..sometimes moms just need a little help
Your parents must be so proud of you.
My house has been a mess because I have been struggling with depression. I decided to start doing self love, shadow work, and healing my inner child. The only thing I have left to do is to finish cleaning up my house which is a reflection of the chaos I've been currently dealing with.
I have said this before, but I will say it again. I love how these videos are about helping, not judging. In a lot of tv shows about cleaning very messy homes, there is a lot of judgement, both from the cleaners, as well as the comments underneath. I think many people do not understand how everyday tasks can become such a struggle, but they can. And having someone help, rather than just judge, that is the best way to help them get back on track.
She should be judged. There are 2 children involved. She chose to have kids out of wedlock. This is all her own doing. Now she wants my sympathy? I only have it for the kids. Keep your place clean. Period.
@@dcg590 it seems to me that the reason she wanted help is bc she was thinking of her 2 children. Depression is a very debilitating condition and makes it hard for people to see things clearly. Doesn't mean that she shouldn't clean, but seeing as we are all human beings and all parents/people make mistakes and need help sometimes we should not judge. Those who give mercy will receive mercy. I certainly hope that if you need help with something someday (doesn't have to be cleaning) that you will be shown compassion and mercy, not condemnation
@@dcg590 As the story told within the first minute, the father decided to leave, which sparked the depression. Wedlock or not, people can still leave wether it is 'right' or not. I would say that the father abandoning his two children and their mother had quite a bit to do with it as well. Everyone can be knocked down in life. Actually being brave enough to ask for help, and let other people see the things you are most ashamed of, that should not be rewarded with judgement and cruelty.
Being a mom is one of the hardest things ever. Being a mom with depression has to be the worst. Proud of her for really working on herself!!
So much mom shaming and guilt it can be so tough to ask for help! Proud of mom for treating her depression and asking for help for herself and her kids especially!
@@elizhopp I completely agree with you. It takes a lot to ask for help
That’s why I don’t ever want to be a mom while I respect mothers it’s just too much trouble for me
Being a mom without a partner is not fair! That child should have a responsible father but this society doesn't care for children.
@@vanessaschwartz3271 which is her fault. She chose to have kids out of wedlock. I only feel bad for the kids.
I'm only 2 minutes into the video but I want to say right away that I think it's so impressive you don't just "treat the symptoms" but are always advocating for empathy with people who are struggling with their mental health and are promoting therapy services. That way you can have an impact on many more lives. Keep up the fantastic work!
Auri,por favor coloque legenda em português nos seus vídeos! Sou sua fã 🇧🇷
eu tbm...diarista aqui no Brasil, uma casa por dia....cada rabo..as gosto doque faço depois de ver tudo limpos....dá um.orgulho,
Auri vc faz milagres!!!!
To be a single Mom is all too often to be isolated and to be poor. I know. I've been there. That is why It is just wonderful that you don't judge her. Your help is so good and so true, that I find myself getting emotional watching it--and its a cleaning video for heaven's sake! So bravo to you girl! Bravo Aurikatarina. Now you've got me all inspired here and I'm off to get the dust bunnies under the couch.
How wonderful to see that Mary is now able to have a clean home for her children and herself. If I lived close to you Auri - I would take all the dirty clothes to the laundromat while you were cleaning. Thank you Auri and Mary.
😍😍 you're sweet
DIOS ...amo tu paciencia y dedicación en tu trabajo ... realmente haces un trabajo increíble 💖 ... Esa casa quedó hermosa luego de la limpieza 😭 ... No sé como los dueños pudieron dejar que una casa tan bonita sea así de sucio ... Pero gracias a ti esa casa tuvo de nuevo su momento de gloria ...y quedó limpia y fresca ✨ ... Ya veremos si luego de nuevo los dueños lo dejan de nuevo a como empezó el vídeo 🥲
What a cute apartment! I love the layout. I'm jealous of the bathrooms over there (and I notice the same in Japan) where the whole room is designed to get wet and have drains in the floors. Definitely not the case here in America, but it would make cleaning the floors so much easier! I notice you're by yourself in this one....just curious, how long did this end up taking from start to finish?
I was just thinking the same thing. It would make the bathroom so much easier to clean if it had a drain in the floor and it was designed to get wet.
@@annakout In Brazil we have drain in the bathroom, is very commom to wash. I think is because Brazil have much water available compared to America or others countrys
from her previous videos it seemed these take mostly 1 or 2 long days to shoot...? so not 8 hours of work, but more. there was like one that took a week.
so i don't know, but i assume anywhere between 12 to 20 hrs...?
Sou BRASILEIRA, mas adoro ver o trabalho incrível que vcs realizam, vcs estão de parabéns 🥰👏❤️😘😘
Eu queria msm entender os comentários kkkkkk amo ler 😅😅😅😅 mas tem poucos vídeos precisa de mais 🤗🤗😍😍
Parabéns pelo seu trabalho... Beijos!
Sou do Brasil 🇧🇷
Sometimes people just need help on that first step to be able to keep going. You are truly amazing!
You deserve all of the best in the world! Now whenever I clean my house I think of you!💖
How long did it takes to clean this House ?
Auri ,we need Nord Clean products in Brasil 🇧🇷,I really appreciate your respect with house owners ,you also wash everything and try to save everything that is possible ,generally on this kind of deep clean shows ,people only throw everything away and you don’t do it .
I think the main problem in this house was how cluttered it was. Some dirty appliances here and there, but I've seen you clean so much worse honestly. But still, I'm sure this really does mean so much to the mother. I do feel for her. I'm sure being a single mum would already be really hard work, being a depressed single mum would be the absolute worst. I love seeing people bringing people up instead of bringing them down. It's so easy to jump to conclusions when you don't even know the full story.
I’m sure Mom can think more clearly now. That’s a huge part of mental health, as well.
Walking into a clean home must have been such a relief for both mom and kids. Outside of the mental illness some people have too much "stuff". That is a lot of toys its hard to organize, you always do an amazing job.
Yeah I’ve learned that i just cant have a lot of things since im so dysfunctional. Unfortunately depression and trauma can lead to hoarding and buying things for temporary respite.
Mary, you got this! You are awesome and incredible and amazing and you freaking got this, girl! I’m so proud of you for asking for help and taking the steps you need to take to live a happy life. I’m 25, too. I struggle with depression so I just feel connected to you and I just really hope you get every single thing you want in life.
Don't judge people with messy homes... My younger brother was diagnosed with depression last year and had a really hard time, keeping his apartment clean all by himself. It's ok, I help him out once a week and make sure, he remembers to take his meds. He's doing a lot better at the moment and that's all that matters.
I liked that "woho, a hard stain" .. love this energy. Also love how you pronounce things since you're Finnish. Anyways, good job and nice of you to help.
I love coming onto your RUclips channel when you post , I love rewatching your videos and I get motivation from watching. You motivate me to deep clean and clean it general. I get the best vibes from you and your videos! I love your work, your amazing ❤️
I so agree with all the comments here about what a gift you are giving to someone who is struggling - giving them a bright new start. Also, about the courage and love for her children that Mary is displaying in reaching out for help. I want to add, what a charming and lighthearted home I find this to be, all spiffed up. It looks like a delightful and warm home for any age: mommy and kiddos, both. I think Mary really has an eye for beauty. Wishing Mary and family the best as you go forward. And a special thanks to the Cleaning Angel for spreading her angel dust made of glitter wherever she goes!
What’s so amazing and sad about these homes is you can SEE the effort they are so desperately trying to muster in the day-to-day. She bought placemats for her table! I’m sure they never expected for things to get this bad.
You do amazing work 💗
I used to suffer from depression and anxiety fo a long time (since I was a child). I've been stable for almost an year. I can say that a clean home can really help. I have a cleaning lady that comes to my flat 2 times a month, and it really helps me to keep up with my wellness. You do an amazing thing for those subs of yours. All my love from Brazil
Aurikatariina seu trabalho é maravilhoso!!Acho incrível como vc transforma caos em ordem!! Também acho que apesar de todas as dificuldades que temos, os desafios e provas da vida, temos que dar os primeiros passos!! Espero que essa mãe possa se reerguer e ficar bem!
O que vc faz é uma caridade enorme. Ajuda muito psicologicamente e ajuda essas pessoas a terem dignidade novamente. Bjo do Brasil
Sou muito fã dela❤💋
Bah MT show
Verdade!!!
Essa mulher é demais! Ajuda e ainda é carinhosa com quem pede ajuda.
Acabei de conhecer o canal dela, ela é muito boa no que faz, e tem um grande coração. De quebra eu ainda aprendo um pouco de inglês :)
It's not that bad... bad enough, of course
But you can see that she really tried
there have been much worse apartments
Gostaria de saber se essas pessoas que recebem ajuda com a limpeza, também recebem tratamento psiquiátrico. Porque não adianta nada, em pouco tempo a casa voltará a ser suja como antes. Essas pessoas são doentes. Impossível conviver assim. E criar a criança em um ambiente desses
I would like to know if these people who get help with cleaning also get psychiatric treatment. Because it's no use, in a short time the house will be as dirty as before. These people are sick. Impossible to live like this. And raise the child in such an environment
My home is not to this level, but I sure understand. Not a young mother (I'm almost 40) but I can totally understand why things get out of control. Fortunately, this channel has helped me find a lot of ways to make cleaning up easier, so I am far less overwhelmed.
Depression, struggle and feeling overwhelmed have no age! I’m also a mom around 40 and it gets so hard sometimes.
@@gram5963 yes depression can happen at any age 😔 unfortunately. Parenting can get so overwhelming. One day at a time.
@@gram5963 Yes! Between kids, work and home it's like...how does anyone have a clean house?! Fortunately Auri has shown me ways to cut down on the amount of cleaning and makes it any other maintenance task.
Unfuck your habitat is also good. Its a blog and an app
Hey Auri so much emphasis is there nowadays to 'Love yourself' and be responsible for your own happiness, but in my experience, it was when someone gave me something out of mercy that healed me the most. When I was stuck in the dumps and saw no way out, to have someone give a gift and to break the pattern showed me that things can change, and taught me how to do better. 💗💗💗
Congratulations.
I am brasilian. Muito english it’s not so better.
But I have tô say. This os so wanderful.
Muito God.
Sending best wishes to the mom and kids! The house looks gorgeous and Auri did a great job!
Auri, a RUclips channel called "QUEEN OF CLEAN" is taking your videos, removing your audio and adding their own music, and then reuploading the videos on their channel with their own watermarks. she is attempting to profit off of your content.
Muita força de vontade da sua parte moça, vc está de parabéns bom trabalho
Belo trabalho , excelente profissional essa moçinha 🙎🏼♀️,queria legendas em português
Também haha
só se tiver notebook ai da pra ver as legendas em portugues
Hi Aurikatariina, iam from India, I have been watching your videos from last few days, and feel so happy to see how selflessly you help people. I would like to add one small suggestion here, plz ask them to keep the windows and curtains open for the sunlight in the house, fresh air and sunlight gives a very positive vibes in the house. It also helps people with depression. Keep posting videos lots of love