I Found Petty People TikTok And It's MESSY - REACTION
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WHO WANTS PETTY MERCH??
Omg meee ❤️
🕳⭕️🍓💦🐇You Know I Can Make it Messy
YAAAASS❣❣ EVERY 👏 PERSON 👏 HERE 👏. 💝
I'll wear petty merch!
ME QUEEN 👑 you need to have a black hoodie with petty in white across it in Courier New Font THAT WOULD SLAY
She got HIS SISTER to go along with saying he was dead! That's amazing.
she said the girls posts tributes _every year_ lol....how long has this been going on?!
Which means the sister likes her more than the new girlfriend. HA!
I snort laughed at that one! Hands down GENIUS level petty 😂😂
To be fair if my brother was a cheating asshoIe I'd probably do the same lmao
And then think about that day he walks into her and she freaks out. 🤣🤣🤣
I had a really crappy boss when I began my career, who used to take my research and put her name to it despite having done none of the work. She would have me explain the findings to her, and then just take it. She would never credit me, only her name. As a research scientist, we need our publication credits for future work. I had complained, but because she was the department head, no one really did anything. It went on for well over two years, and I had zero publication credits, despite so much work and research. We had a cross-institution conference with the Max Planck institute, where she was scheduled to speak representing our university. I happen to speak German, so I translated a paper which had been published years ago, by one of the professors she was addressing. Per usual, she placed her name, and her name alone, on it and presented it as her own work. I was able to attend as it was a conference, and it was so lovely watching her deliver a completely plagiarized paper, confidently, to the original author. I had a new department director very soon and my first publication not soon after. I hope she is still unemployed 22 years later. If I found her now, I would do it again, thieving cow.
Why didn't you post your abstracts before submitting the papers to the department head?
Wow I’m so SORRY you had to go through that ☹️ that’s really scummy
That's amazing
Honestly, this is high art. Fucking beautiful. 👏 👏 👏
What she did was straight up criminal! That’s academic misconduct to the extreme! I am so sorry that happened. That actually enrages me cos I know how much work goes into research. She was probably taking advantage of your youth and lower position thinking she could get away with it but you showed her in the end.
As a woman who was raised with a narcissist gas lighter...yes saying "I'm sorry your so upset" is a way to piss off people.
It’s abusive.
Same happened to me. As an adult, I challenged her to Google that phrase when I told her it was abusive. She finally stopped using that phrase while, of course, found others to use in its place. I still count it was a win though. 😂
It’s basically invalidating your reaction whilst not taking any responsibility, as if somehow you’ve magically just become upset or even blaming you because most people wouldn’t be. You could say the same thing differently, especially when dealing with narcissists who think you need to think the same way they do, “I’m sorry that what I said hurt/upset/bothered you but I felt it important to communicate this concept because…”. To my mind, I think it addresses when you have to tell someone something that you know will anger them but it must be done.
Just ignore them. Best revenge.
Former retail worker here: my fave is always telling rude customers to “have the day you deserve”…always makes them give you a double take
“I wish you luck.” Without being specific what kind of luck it is
I work in retail and I am so going to use this line for those rude entitled customers
lmaoooo bless you that is so funny
LoL I like to tell people I'm upset at to "have a day." It's usually snippy or deadpan but never happy. It's my way, I don't care what day you have, just go have it elsewhere
I just like saying that because they know they're offended but the only way they could actually complain about it is to admit they don't think they deserve to be having a very good day. And who's fault is that? Cuz it's not yours lol
Life tip, don't let your pettiness roll over into illegal activity like the last guy. That's vandalism not petty revenge, folks
Actually all he did was let the air out of a tire. You can buy new valve stem cores for like $3 each. It does not require a new tire. He is an idiot.
PS..... a valve stem cost $2 and no you don't have to replace the tire lol what a moron
@@Thorgious p.s. it doesn't matter how easily replaceable something is, vandalism is illegal. Also, there was no need here for name calling.
@@tiffanymims8691 Actually, doing anything to someone else's property is illegal.
@Shark Laoshi He doesn't come off as an individual who would know a lot about most things, especially vehicles. Hell, he probably drives an electric scooter
The first one… I used to do that. Don’t forget signing them up for daily horoscopes…. For EVERY sign
That's kinda childish.
@@mmluon one might call it petty, even...
Mark it as spam, and that's the end I thought
Why? Just move on with your life what did they ever do to you? No wonder why they broke up with you. Unless they cheated and were abusive then that’s acceptable.
beautiful evil
I actually have a harmless petty tactic that I use on my grandma. She's one of those people that has decorative towels in the bathroom that she doesn't want anyone using under any circumstance. So, whenever we get into a disagreement of any kind and I'm mad at her, I will dry my hands on those towels whenever I wash up and she has no idea.
No one appreciating Charlotte in the comments for being so genuinely good... I know many RUclipsrs would've ignored the girl asking for likes because her TikToks were deleted, but Charlotte proceeded to like all her videos .. and this is not the first time I see her doing something similar! Charlotte, you rock! You're a beautiful person!!!
"with great petty, comes great responsibility" - Charlotte
Put that on the hoodie!😁👍
Yes!! Put that on the back of the hoodie
That's stupid
@Bobbi Cat pettiness is more correct ,
And it's a cheap rip of the spiderman dying uncles words
@@Uruk02 ....thats the joke mate...
“I’m sorry you’re so upset” is a total narcissist move. So yes, it’s upsetting.
Wellll, I have this psycho in my life who is ALWAYS angry over really stupid things. Her current blowup is because she randomly decided to show up wanting her kid and she was mad that he was at a kid event even though it wasn't her time for custody. Now, she's withholding the kid. In her case "I'm sorry you're so upset" seems appropriate.
Yeah this one rubbed me the wrong way because my dad used to say stuff like this to dismiss my concerns when I was upset about something legitimate. It’s an abuser tactic and while I see the humor of it in an internet argument, it’s also a dangerous phrase to incorporate into everyday interactions
It's very passive aggressive.
My mother says this frequently followed by, "It's not my fault you're emotional! I didn't do anything wrong!"
Usually after saying something awful or blaming me for her not listening when she asks a question and gets an answer that she's not really paying attention to. (:
Yeah. That phrase isn't petty. It's a sharp narcissistic swerve into, "Even if I legitimately hurt you and your feelings, I am not going to acknowledge them because I don't believe my wrongful actions were wrong when they benefited me."
Yeah...don't do that one unless you're ok being the asshole.
When someone says “I’m sorry you’re so upset” I hear ‘I am above apologizing to you regardless of how my behavior affected you because I’m not accountable for my actions’
100%
I once told my husband that when he says I’m sorry, I hear you’re mad, get over it and shut up.
I got “I’m sorry you’re so upset” from my mom… and actually got “you’re such a good actress” whenever I I told my dad how I felt.
🫢 Omg, I hope you are doing well, no GREAT, I’m life! That’s hurtful as hell.
The "I'm sorry you're so upset" is a total gaslighting move Narcissists do. 😖
Best reserved for those who really, really deserve it.
Depends on if you qualify that with ..."but that doesn't make you correct, and I don't apologise because i did nothing wrong" 😁👍
... because sometimes you actually didn't, and people just blame the nearest person for the consequences of their own actions.
I have literally lost friends attempting to explain this.
Every narcissist when they get caught cheating😒
"You know when you slash someone's tires?" I love how he says this like it's something we all do.
Just an FYI they do sell stem replacements. And they don't cost that much. ❤️✌️
@@mindylc32 they aren't even part of the tyre, most tyres are tubeless and the stem is mounted on the wheel rim most tyre places would replace the whole thing for about $5 the cores might not cost you anything as so many are discarded.
@@blackestknights I actually carry spare valve caps and cores along with my air compressor. They cost about $2 for 4 at AutoZone.
That's not petty that a crime.
Yes they do sell the stem replacements but also they sell just the valves also
Lol- I literally had a therapist tell me that the way to respond to my mother when she says stuff that hurts my feelings to just respond with “I’m sorry you feel like that!”………perfect because technically you ARE apologising, but there’s not much she can say in response!
It’s GOLD!🤷♀️👍🏻😂🥰
My favorite part is when you say "one more, okay we got one more" in that fantastic accent 😍
Most of these were funny, but the woman w the spoons was just disgusting, if my SO did that knowing how much I hate it (linked to serious personal reasons that I'd rather not share) I'd actually break up w them. Like, no joke I really would.
It only got you because you're obviously a germaphobe too! lol
No, same!! I was so pissed watching that. Like...respect and LIKE your husband enough to NOT do shit that makes him uncomfortable. Why tf did she get so mad about him wiping off his water bottle??? She's a mess
Heck , why can’t her and their child drink from their own water bottles in the first place. Then , everyone would be happy. Lazy and inconsiderate , Mom! While I and my hubby share drinks sometime , our son prefer to not share or he will half his drink into another glass with other person especially if one of us is sick that’s definitely common sense in life.
Me too i can't live with such a disgusting person
I don't even share drinks with my youngest daughter (age 6) cause she back washes like a mf! No joke all her cups when she sdone using them will have bits of food at the bottom 🤢🤢 nope! Gross! Dont drink off my shit! Dont eat off my plate! I honestly don't even like sharing HAIR BRUSHES!
Hubbs has a bad habit of drinking from the water jug in the fridge and it drives me crazy. Now hes got the little one wanting to do it. NO! BAD HUSBAND! No treats for you!
Most of these are very toxic people i would never wanna be friends with. Especially the last guy… he clearly has experience with tire slashing. If you have to do that on the regular, it might be worth questioning your own behavior… what’s the saying?! “If you are surounded by only assholes, maybe you’re the asshole?”
Not to mention, you can buy replacement valves. I keep spares in my Jeep because I know my luck I'll drop it in the grass out on a trail somewhere lol
Yeah. In some cases being petty can be funny, which is why I follow, but in most it's just obnoxious and childish. Why waste your energy when you could just move on and genuinely wish they become better people?
The valve "core" remover trick does NOT require complete tire replacement. They sell new valve cores at Walmart and parts stores. Sometimes they develop a leak, that's why they're removable in the first place. So that they can be replaced.
Why isn’t anyone talking about how amazing her singing is?! ❤️
Because she is a singer.
Never mess with someone's car. Quick way to catch charges, hands, and possibly get them really hurt. Not something to play with.
Messing with someone else's car is a definite health hazard.
If he gets killed or he is the reason for a big crash and there are more victims and they find a video on your fone....
In walmart, they sell those shreader valves he is talking about..
You can't drive a car with flat tire.
@@sylviacrafts6704 You can if wanted it will destroy the tire and rim. Strangest I have seen someone driving with the entire wheel missing driving on the rotor. As you could guess it was creative a few sparks.
"i'm sorry you're so upset" definitely works. Every influencer uses that in their notes app apologies when they're not really sorry and everyone always stays mad at them
That's because every "influencer" is a narcissists! It manipulative and abusive behavior. If someone tells you that, leave them and never look back!
Let me speak to the "I'm sorry you're so upset." That is actually a tactic taught in hospitality/ restaurants. It helps staff protect themselves mentally by basically acknowledging that what they are being yelled at about is not at all about them or their fault. "I'm so sorry this was your experience." "I do apologized that you were not 100% pleased with the quality of your meal." Etc
It’s also a tactic which is triggering to anyone who has dealt with narcissists, because it isn’t taking responsibility for behavior, and in some cases, it absolutely is a staff fault in a restaurant.
That lady with the STD thing, was f$&@ing genius. She’s my new hero. 👏
The lady who licked the spoons... that's not even petty, that's stupid. I'm married with 2 kids and we never share cutlery, bottles, straws or eat from each other's plates. Kids go to school and they might get sick any time. I don't want to get sick too. Also, when I eat something, I prefer that it don't have anybody's saliva in it.
This almost made me barf! Gross. I don't drink from same bottle either. My bf rewashes everything after I wash it cause I don't do good enough job.
Wooooow. Y'all are so phobic you don't even share with your own FAMILY!? Get ready to be disgusted on a whole new level - I drink out of bottles with not just family, but with friends I know well too! I once had my cat lick my ice cream when I bent down to pick up my purse I'd dropped..and I still ate it. Guess what? I'm still alive and rarely ever get ill. You know why? It's called an immune system 😂🙏
@@jade2933 Well, I'm not phobic at all, but if my dog licked my ice cream, I would not eat it. I caught him eating cat poo once, so I'm not really inclined to share anything with him :D
@@daphrodite80 hahaha, that's brilliant! Disgusting, but still 🤢🤣 my comment about the phobic thing was more in regards to your own family..I don't get that dude, but each to their own I guess!
@@jade2933 I used to share with my kids... until my son gave me a lovely stomach flu. I gave it to my husband and eventually we all got sick in the family. Let me just say, that it wasn't pretty! And since I was very sick myself, it was very hard for me to properly take care of my sick kids. So, yeah, I'm not doing this again any time soon ;)
My favorite saying is “don’t just get mad, get even”. Feel free to do it with kindness. Smile a lot, they hate it when you blow them a kiss lmao. The mature petty person just smiles when people are yelling. When they are done, say “thank you for coming”. When they snap just laugh and sip a drink but don’t say anything. If it goes on for longer than 5 minutes say “wow I’m sorry you feel that way” and stare forward. But NEVER mess with people’s cars. They will catch you. Just don’t do it because jail isn’t for us friends lmao! Enjoy your pettiness peeps✨✨✨
Legit the best thing to feel is when someone is trying to harass you at work, and you can smile as big as possible and ask "anything else?" Or they threaten to leave and never come back, and you let say "that's fine, I hope you have a great day!"
They get so red and stare in complete shock and have no idea what to do. It's amazing!!!
I LOVE THIS.
@@CharlotteDobre Indeed!! And if a troll insults you and you say something back, they may hit you with a “so?”. If they do tell them “thank you for listening/reading what I had to say. Have a blessed day!” Wink or blow a kiss to the troll and watch them shrivel away lmaoo. “I DONT LIKE BLESSSINGGGGSSSSUH” one troll said to me. You cant really rebound from that lol. Like okay stay unblessed then? We love you Charlotte 🤗🤗🤗
The Australian woman had me rolling. 😂😂 she said he was dead with a straight face..petty , pissed, and scorned. And his sister in on it was even better! 🥲
For the last video, yes you can replace valve stems in your tires. Just had one replaced this morning because it was leaking. Didn't cost me but a measley $3.
So I wouldn't mind sharing a bottle/germs with an SO myself, but if that's something that bugs your SO then you should respect it. it's just beyond unkind and disrespectful to do what that lady did, honestly it just seems like she straight up dislikes her husband, she shows so much contempt for him.
Agreed! Also, how did she not notice this before? If he is a germaphobe or whatever, I'm sure there were tons of signs.
For me it would be useless for the husband to clean the bottle or put a disgusted face about it, like, doesnt he kiss his wife everyday????????
That doesn´t mean he wants to taste her saliva when he EATS
YEAH I COMPLETELY AGREE. I’m surprised she didn’t get blown up in a negative because of COVID!
Also he was right. He is the only one who isn't ill. Now she rants about that they all have the same germs and tries to make him purposely ill.
To the wife that licked the spoons, that's being an ass, not petty. I'm the same as her husband, but I always wash cutlery before using it even if they're clean in the drawer.
Lmfao how the spoon licking seems the most criminal of all these acts
To the girl trying to get her husband sick by licking all the spoons... He's gotta stay healthy so he can work! If you chill at home and the kids chill at home, that doesn't put a dent in your mortgage payment or their college fund. If he's serious about being a husband and father, he needs to keep making that money.
Me petty? No, but it's entertaining af to see other people be petty like this.
Me either; although, "petty" isn't entertaining, to the person whom it's directed.
I definitely have whatever gene the "I'll match your petty energy and out do you" guy has lmao. Like yes i will have my revange.
@@crunchevo8974yea I don't believe the op 😂
😂 I'm sure we've all had our petty moments, myself included. But generally, I'm not petty. I'm too logical and empathetic to be petty. However just to clarify, I do appreciate this video for its entertainment value, not that people are actually being targeted. It's better to not sweat the small stuff.
The woman who licked the spoons was just mean and not respecting her husband's boundaries. Lots of people don't like sharing cutlery or drinking bottles, it's not that weird.
@@TheAstroflight The things you do with someone while horny doesn't make you who you are. Spit is nasty so don't lick my spoon.
I do that to my sister sometimes. We literally share everything but we're both petty and I do it cause she did something like leaving 2 drops of milk.
Agreed, so what they make out 💋 licking someone’s potential spoons is nasty and disrespectful. I can understand being offended possibly for hubby wiping off his lid after his children take a sip but then again what good does it do if they’re sick, you’re sick and now you have the only healthy person I’ll sit you all 🤦🏻♀️
Might be a habit he can't shake off so easily.
What she did will also not change his behavior. If anything he'll see the tiktok at some point and will get mad at her, maybe even develop trust issues with her. I know I would.
Also imagine having children with someone that childish.
also, licking the spoons and letting them sit in the drawer? bacteria central. that's twice as gross.
wonder how their guests would feel knowing that's what happened to the cutlery they use.
that woman is gross and dumb
This is "Hacks for evil doing" and I love it.
Just FYI, you absolutely can replace valve stem cores. In fact, the tire shop does it all the time because it makes it easier to seat the tire bead on the rim without the core.
I don't blame the husband who cleaned the water bottle after his family drank. I do exactly the same thing and won't share silver with my son's either.
If someone says they're sorry you're upset, that just means they don't actually care about you at all.
4:22 🎵he had it comin he had it’s coming he only had himself to blaaame🎵
This just shows how people really feel about you. Even though they once cared about you or loved you. If you hurt them.. they will go out of their way to hurt you in weird ,cruel and gross ways
Yeah, some of these are definitely legitimate crimes.
LADY WITH THE SPOONS ABOUT TO BE A SINGLE MOM REAL QUICK
Doubt it
5:46 Y'all- Who else is tempted to just send that to random numbers?-
Don’t do the STD thing without really feeling you need to! My friend did this to her ex who cheated on her and boy he paid to get tested and her tested. They both came back negative but he actually lost his mind not entirely trusting the test lol he went a year no sex terrified and everyone said he became more antsy, angry and low fuse. She still hasn’t told him.
My inner adult was screaming IRRESPONSIBLE when I heard that one.
Well he deserved it. But I agree it's definitely not for pranks
also, if he had been only having intercourse with you, then he "knows" you are the one who supposedly had an STD and can spread that news. so I guess only works when cheating is involved in the breakup
the tightening jars and licking spoons are just straight up red flags for a toxic relationship.. thats not petty its fucked up
Well... I can see how the tightening of the jars could just be a joke (like he doesn't actually use that to get back at her for being right).
The jar one is funny and all, but I'm the one with the grip in my house. "Very cute, Honey. -opens jar-"
The tightening of jars was funny to me, especially bc I've got grip handles, bottle twisters, and a pressure releaser at home specifically so I don't need to ask anyone for help.
@Baba Ganush I never get the thing with the tightening of jars. Like, have these people never heard of a spoon? Not to mention the other opening devices that exist nowadays. Also what point does it prove exactly? - "You might have smarts but I have the big muscles"?
the jar one is funny, but licking the spoon is way over the line
Instead of "I'm sorry you're upset" I have found "i'm sorry that you feel this way" to be much more effective. It SOUNDS like an apology but it really isn't and that makes them even more upset later on once they realise it.
Thanks.
You just smacked me with some insight.
That’s something a supervisor tells an employee. Upset infers something better, like weakness or something.
Yeah the last time I heard that said to me it was when a friend fucked me over and literally wouldn't own up to it so it's less petty and more gaslight-y 😂
I've found just saying, "very good", quite effective. Then just turn and walk away. They don't know what to do with that response.
I say "sorry for your trouble"
Sometimes when someone is pissed and/or shouting in my face,i simply cover my nose with my fingers... The offence, the violence, their face..!! 😂 😂 They shut up so fast...
Trick or treating in my area draws a ton of people. One guy puts a basic sofa on his lawn (of a nice house) and everyone takes pictures on it. Silly.
“I’m sorry you’re so upset” is something my ex used to say all the time. It’s super abusive and gaslighting. You’re invalidating someone’s feelings.
Or you are validating them without necessarily agreeing with the reason why they are upset
So true
That's entirely the point there. . . .
I think "petty" means something different in the UK as most of these would be considered "vindictive" !
Nah most of this is passive aggressiveness and a lot of it is sketchy af lol.
Being petty is caring too much about trifle things, some of these aren’t little, but it would be better to just let go. Yet people insist on holding on to those things and it annoys them more than it should.
Yeh nothing "petty" about the car tire thing. Jeez.
Yes, but vindictive in small, mostly passive aggressive ways. Hence why we call actions like these "petty".
So true...this seems vindictive to me
The girl with the STD website was a clever , hilarious demon. The last one was just a demon.
Yeah fresh wound exactly. It's not really a revenge thingie but more like trying to heal and detach myself from that person and taking back my control over myself
I saw a karen in the supermarket today without a mask, wearing her “it’s a hoax!” Shirt. So I stood clos(ish) behind her and played a coughing fit sound I put on my phone... I was wearing a mask, I’m fully vaccinated and have to test for work and am negative, and I DIDNT COUGH! It was a recording... but Lil Miss Maskless Hoaxpants Jumps out of her skin and whips a mask out of her bag and puts it on immediately.
LMAO well played!
Your crown, your royal highness 👑
O👏🏼M👏🏻G👏🏼 PRICELESS. To bad you didn’t record it! 😂
👌👏👏👏Yay!!!
Props to you...
Yep. Funny it's a hoax until they want to protect themselves. The big mistake the CDC made right out of the gate was touting masks for protections of OTHERS. They assumed most people cared about other people.
I block ppl I've left behind, because of toxicity, mainly to prevent myself from being drawn back to their bullsh*t and arguing with them. It's more of a self-preservation move, for me.
same
Alot of the time if you don't block them you know they'll either try smear you when they see you doing good or message you later when they've literally traumatized you and your trying to move on
I also blocked my best friend today lol in 2 minutes 😂😂 she literally behind my back talking to the guy who is total bully and bullied her and our 3rd friend too
I told them too block that bitch he don't deserve us but today i saw her story she is literally talking with him smiling 🗿🗑 trash her literally i always ignored her red flag but today she got my nerve
Summary is she want to be that pick me who just want good with everyone and then act like its nothing it's disgusting lol but i am really happy that i finally get out of another bitch
I feel like saying something along the the lines of "I'm sorry you feel that way" is one of the worst things you can say.
My go to is "I'm sorry you feel that way"...that's it.
Me: scribbling notes frantically.
I reallllly want to do this STD one to the guy I just broke up with but I think it would be too easily traceable to me. Filing it away for use at a later date. *evil laugh*
@@nenamichelle same! 😂👍
@@rockchick8741 just wait like 2 years and if you’re still salty, do it.
That’s my plan. But I suspect I will not give AF at that time because he is an insignificant bug, just like your ex. ❤️
Imo the "I'm sorry you're so upset" is gaslighting and emotionally/mentally manipulative. My exes would do this to me whenever I tried to voice how they were making me feel. Instead of listening to me and talking me through it or apologizing when they needed to they used this among many other manipulative phrases to make me seem like the bad guy or like I was crazy/overreacting. It always made me feel invalidated and that how I felt wasn't important. (This isn't any hate towards you. I absolutely LOVE your channel and your content. I just thought I'd point this out and share my experience with it because unfortunately stuff like this is very common in abusive relationships)
Yeah, with some of these, it’s like, I don’t understand why someone would interact with someone they claim to care about like that. If you want to keep a relationship with someone, manipulation is not the way to go, it’s awful. And it leaves emotional scars
I absolutely agree with your comment. You simply don't say words such these to a person you love, value, respect.
You talk and try to figure out and solve problems, not brush it off by words: "I am sorry you feel this way!"
Agree - these comments/actions aren’t for people you care about... rather for strangers or acquaintances who are out of line. (I hope you’ve now found someone lovely ☺️)
You’re totally correct. This phrase would be best used on a Karen or someone similar. Like if a customer is yelling at you for some stupid thing, “I’m sorry you’re so upset,” is perfect. I fully agree it is gaslighting and a way to invalidate feelings and shouldn’t be used in a loving relationship.
Chlo4Mo I agree.
And context is crucial. In the context of strangers who are being objectively unreasonable (think bully Karens, bigots, misogynists, and the like...) then this is a fun way to give a jab at their vitriolic tantrums lol. BUT within the context of a relationship? Very common tactic used by emotionally/psychologically abusive people. They do it to devalue someone's emotional processing when said person (rightfully) expresses hurt by something legitimately hurtful the abuser does or says. This is just an attempt by the abuser to avoid taking accountability for any negative impact they may have on others. A common addition to this tactic is the phrase "If you're upset with me, then that's YOUR problem." It all boils down to the abuser's selfishness, immaturity, and cowardice.
"I'm sorry you're upset" is what my ex would say because he didn't want to take any responsibility for his mistakes.
7:07 I'm a pro at it.
When I see a maskless Karen looking for a fight, I walk up to her, or at least close enough, I don't make eye contact, I don't acknowledge them, I just pull my mask down and make sure to sneeze or cough like a maniac as I walk past em.
Please note that no, I'm not sick. I'm just an awful guy.
I like that his sister went along saying he's dead
Remember the episode of Friends when everyone thought Ross was dead? It didn't turn out well at all.
The spoon thing was a real asshole move, especially since she's sick. Maybe he's just an intelligent adult who doesn't want to be ill?
Does the husband expect the wife to give head? And swallow? Or toss his ...
if he's actually germophobic, phobias arent rational fears, its just how his mind works. as a teenager I had a girlfriend who was terrified of spiders, if she saw one it would be real panic and distress. she couldnt even touch the thing the spider had been on after it was put outside or w/e. so this would be like if I let spiders walk all over her pillow (the thought of spiders getting in her hair was like the peak terror) and then led there next to her later, feeling smug about it.
yes i know it was an absolute asshole moment
I’d like to know how she can have kids with him, be married and still not know he did this.
But she does have a point… just wiping it off doesn’t wipe away the germs so he didn’t want their saliva on it but will kiss her? Probably just an old habit or something. My sisters and I did it as kids when we shared drinks, yet they were convinced (and this still boggles my mind) that since we shared DNA we already had the same germs as one another 🤣
@@DepressinglyOptimistic Here's the real point. She's sick, the kids are sick, he isn't. Think about it, and the reasons why. Just because you share DNA, doesn't mean you have the same germs either. Unless you catch her colds and such because of some genetic thing between you two, but I've never seen it happen. She doesn't have a point, other than being sadistic
Charlotte, I LOVE your laugh! It is so infectious :)
Messy Rabbit Hole!!! She got HIS SISTER to go along with saying he was dead! That's amazing.
But imagine if that guy eventually gets out of jail and goes to see her... She'll think she's seeing a ghost. That'd be epic.
"I'm sorry you feel that way " 😉
I did not get that one. How is that petty?
@@FLQueerLiberal1982 you're acknowledging that the person is upset while purposely not validating why they are upset or doing anything to help. Its passive aggressive AF.
@@FLQueerLiberal1982 what Raya said ☺️
@@FLQueerLiberal1982 yeaa, it's like they expect whoever they're yelling at to apologize for something they did, so by saying you're sorry bout how they feel, it pretty much shuts them down with a quickness 🤣🤯🤣 cuz who really has time to argue bout bullsh*ttery anyways 💜
@@rayajayce2034 I was also confused about that one and even reading your explanation, if someone told me that, I'd just think I was in the right since almost everyone I've met who say things like that turned out to be abusive or toxic af
The spoon licker is my new hero!! 😂😂😂 Her energy is fantastic #pettyprincess
This guy broke in my house twice,was eventually put in jail for a separate crime. I sent him a letter every week with lots of lols,hahas, and lmaos addressed from different family members.
Just in the spirit of pettiness I’ll share a story. This wasn’t me but my best friend. Legit queen of pettiness if it weren’t for you. Anyways! So this was quite a few years ago before she was married and was at college. Her now husband but boyfriend at the time would cook for her and would always have leftovers. Well her roommates would always eat her leftovers. There was a particular time that she was super pissed because it was like one of her fav meals that they ate. Well to get back at them as she had already tried talking to them and they never listened. She decided to make them brownies with a special ingredient. Mind you this was around when finals were happening and let’s just say they never made it due to them being stuck in the bathroom👌🏻
Serves them right. Omg I felt my blood boiling as I read this. Why would you consistently take something that doesn't belong to you, even when the owner has expressed their displeasure. So rude and mannerless!
Never again 😂
@@Amerdealer dude college students are brutal. They’ll do anything to get free food. Haha.
Love that!
I bet it was Epsom salts cause one of my coworkers did that to our supervisor.
About the wife licking all the silverware while being sick and her husband isn't: I wonder if that's grounds for divorce for the husband. >_> Petty Premium©
It would be for me.
Maybe their Marriage is stronger than yours
@@emer157 Yes clearly this is the pinnacle of a strong and stable marriage.
"You should glue them shut" *evil laugh giggle*
God bless you Charlotte and gives you rain in your state🙏✝️✨️💖🌧🌦🌨☁️🕊👸🫂👱🏻👸🏾🌈🐑🙏
Amén 🙏✝️🕊🌨🐑✨️🙌😊
The "I'm Sorry That You're Upset" guy was so pretty I forgot about the petty.
So glad i wasn’t the only one
Really? He was ok but the one before is fine as hell
SAME!
Haha
The spoon-licker is totally wrong. Why be petty because someone has a phobia? I have that same phobia and I certainly am not that way by choice. I've had that issue since I was about 5 y.o. Her response is out of line. Now I want to spread some petty on her. Hope her hubby found out what she did.
Yeah, that triggered me... grounds for divorce lol.
Probably he did it out of habit, but she's so self centered that she thinks he can't do anything without thinking about her. Nice concept of a relationship, publicly trashing the other's fobias of feelings
I definitely felt a bit triggered as a person with OCD and germaphobia.
I went to school with the “I’m sorry you’re so upset” dude his whole personality from elementary school on was football
Some good stuff in here but definitely the 'he's dead' one is a clear winner!
I once "spammed " a toxic person in my life by putting in their email address to advertisements for " Erectile dysfunction". Lmfaoo it was hilarious!!
Dayum told him he was dead 💀 When he gets out she's gonna be scared as shit thinking she's being haunted by her baby daddy! WOW💀😆
He wasn’t her baby daddy, she was the ex gf… the girl telling the story was the baby momma
@@mrs_maverick1121 My dumbass realized that after I thought about it for like 15 mins after I commented but hey its still kinda funny. Well it is to me anyway. Hope you're having a rad ass day love! Much✌❤
@@corinnegivens8547 😂 it happens lol
FYI the plane ride was to Seoul and to the N tower... Where sooo many locks are in so once in a while they remove all of them.... She spent her money for nothing ^^
Removing the valve stem core only makes you need another valve stem. But removing it makes it only fixable having to be towed to a shop for replacement.
I’ve always wondered why people can complain about things in other peoples yards. It’s the dumb HOA agreement. Homeowners Association for those who don’t know. It actually outlines things you can and can’t do on YOUR property, which makes no damn sense to me. No one else is paying my damn mortgage.
It's worse than that. If you break too many of their stupid rules and don't pay your fines, they can sell your house out from under you to cover them.
@@ResidentMilf omg really?!!!!
@@diva23luv yep. Happened to me.
Hoa or not. It matters because some people don't take care of their property, and when they don't your property value goes down.
@@chrismorrison3375 exactly. I dunno what it is like in the USA, but in the UK property prices can drop significantly if neighbours do not look after theirs.
I didn't realize the husband was not sick while the kids and wife were...so, he was just smart. I, too, wipe my glass or bottle...I even wipe away kisses, tho I try not to right away and I know it's not nice. I just don't like the air on the wetness on my cheek or lips. I'm weird. I also do not like sharing "wet" desserts like pie a la mode.
In some places you don’t actually own the land your house is on, you just own the house. And some places have very strict rules like how tall your grass can be or what color/style fence you can have and what can actually be on the lawn. As in maybe you aren’t allowed to have décor on the actual grass but you can have lights/wreath on the house. Or maybe you can have small decorations like walkway lights but not a 12 foot skeleton on Halloween or giant blowup Santa/snowman for Christmas.
I love charlottes petty and bridezillas videos. Just amaze.
That woman who licks cutlery is extremely disrespectful, immature, and gross. Even my young children are mature enough to respect my boundaries around water bottles (I personally don't let anyone drink from mine at all so everyone has their own). It blows my mind that a grown woman could be so disrespectful and immature. Major red flag. That's some control freak behaviour coming out, I bet there's other boundaries she ignores too in order to be in control. I'd sure hate to have a someone like that in my life. The rest was of the video was awesome though.
As a slight germophobe person myself, that was a dick move. That's not pettiness, that's being an asshole. I let nobody to drink from my bottle, and i drink from nobodys. I let nobody touch my cutlery, and I would never eat with someone else's. Heck, I don't even let my mother use the same spoons for cooking and tasting! And i'm not doing this to e difficult, but I simply can't deal with the knowledge that was in someone else's mouth.
I agree, that was gross. The guy was probably trying to avoid getting sick like all his family cause some people really hate being sick.
My mom has the annoying habit of drinking directly from the water bottles even when she's sick, so when I want to drink water I usually go for a new bottle to avoid the ones she drinks from cause I hate being sick. When I'm sick I'm careful around other people to avoid passing it to them, how can't other people do the same?
I also wipe off my water bottle spout after my kids/husband drinks from it because they SLOBBER ALL OVER IT!
At a younger age my mom made me share a water bottle with one of my younger brothers. He took a bit of cheese and backwashed HUGE chunks in my water. I couldn’t drink for the rest of the five hour car drive because it was my only water and mom wouldn’t stop to buy me a new one. I try so hard not to share my bottles. My older kids understand. My husband and kids under 3 do not.
@@biggirlonatreadmill1209 that's literally one of my worst nightmares lol 😅😂😂
And the cursing around those babies …
The last one doesn't know what he is talking about. Valve stems are easily replaceable.
yeah. and not that expensive. any place that changes tires will have them, and simpler than a patch. Also, if you don't actually take the stem, they can just tighten it again (using the same kind of tool) and air up the tire.
dude thought he was clever, but he doesn't know what he doesn't know.
How the heck does someone know what a valve stem remover is and they have no idea that valve stem replacements are also a thing? He probably saw that on some tiktok and immediately bought the tool without doing any research. 🤣
@@R4MON and some spare valves, so if one goes bad you can replace it easily.
Well that's good then! I'm am glad it's not that easy to screw someone over.
@@R4MON I believe that is a accurate assessment.
These petty people give me so many ideas for dealing with the undesirables.
That one tightening the lids is genius
The most physical damage I've ever done to property was pouring water into the PlayStation I got him for Christmas. That was over 20 years ago. I'm too old to messing with people's cars and homes like that.
Damn.. Playstation been around that long. Well now i feel old 😕
Thank you for the first comment here that exhibits growth and maturity.
Yeah, when you’re destroying property you’ve gone from being petty to being a criminal. Stop at illegal acts please people. It’s not cool or funny, you’re just a dick.
I’ve read one story that was nuclear petty: girlfriend lets herself into now-ex’s apartment after he had just left for a dirty weekend with someone else. She doused all his belongings with water, coated everything in watercress seeds, turned up the thermostat to max, and left it to sprout a carpet for the whole weekend. This was in an astrology book in the Scorpio chapter.
LOL
And the was the paragraph detailing a Scorpio's morning commute too?
chiapartment
@@idaslapter5987 😂
Love the couch lady!😂
Omg the STD one had me laughing so hard. I didnt believe it was real, but oh my, it totally is! Lmao!
Some of these aren't petty they're psychotic
Right? I mean destroying someones tires because you are angry? That could get really expensive and knowing petty people sometimes they get petty for no reason.
They're not psychotic
Please do research on what that word/term means before you use it
@@n2ocobalt574 no I used it correctly
@@milkmanman good to know you're ableist
@@milkmanman psychotic people hallucinate and have delusions. None of them seemed to have those
The "Sorry you're so upset" thing would possibly cause me to have an aneurysm. I dated a guy in 2001 that did horrible, awful things to me; and when things blew up, he said, "I'm sorry for what happened". I am still angry about that. That is the fastest way to get me angry at someone. "I'm sorry for what happened". Not "I'm sorry for what I did". I'm sorry for what just occurred that I had no responsibility in. I'm still furious.
Better than I ever got. My ex didn’t believe in apologies. Actually got MORE angry at me for trying to apologize.
My rule is: Don’t say sorry if you don’t mean it. That wat, if you ever do mean it, it still has any meaning!
@@_Calliegraphy_ Solid agree on this. I've made people upset in the past because I've made choices they don't agree with, I'm sorry they're upset by it but it's things that aren't their business and I don't regret the choice, so why would I apologise? I expect the same from others; if you apologise I expect you not to do the same thing again, otherwise your apology was worthless.
Or, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. That makes me angry.
The stand-up comic Bill Burr said something that I know would drive my sister and most women I know berserk if you are having an argument: "Maybe we should discus this later when you calm down".
Wife licking the spoons is amazing!!!
Valve stems absolutely can be replaced. Depending on your vehicle, it can be done in your driveway at home. $3.57 per pack at Walmart 2 stems per pack.
My husband always says “I’m sorry you’re choosing to be offended…” 😑 It doesn’t go well…
😂😂😂
No, it doesn't.
My husband had to learn to live with my past, he knows better than to say such thing. Sometimes he says something that triggers me, I’ll look him straight in the face than he realizes damm went to far. I’ll tell him well cook the diner yourself of and don’t talk to me leave me alone before I’ll do something stupid. I’m a survivor of domestic abuse on many levels. We always talk it out my husband is a sweetheart and my rock
@@nancywillaert5129 I'm happy you've grown comfortable and safe enough to express your boundaries, and that he's mature enough to respect them. We can never have too many healthy relationships out there ❤
@@constantdisappointment5658 it was hard enough for him too, he was brought up pretty secure and protected, I had to struggle and raise my half brothers and sister, nearly died due to medical neglect from my mother and stepfather and his abuse, so it was hard to express myself at first. I had a psychologist that told me flat out it was my grandma’s fault and I was in fault to to give him reasons. So I flew in a rage saying you can’t put the blame on the victim he’s an adult manipulating man and I was a kid! My dress code was long skirts, long sleeves or short sleeves, blouses Al done up hair in ponytail I looked like a nun! I ran out of her office to the place for young adults the judge had put me in and asked to put me in isolation because I felt like harming my group. They had a rapport made on me to tell the judge if I didn’t find a way to cope I would be a murderer because my actions and behavior was ice cold couldn’t bring up any sympathy towards others and their problems. I was ready to go in the army but they refused me because of being a girl in Belgium 🇧🇪 it wasn’t for a woman not that easy to go in active duty. I was thinking the French legion army there I would be accepted after the tests. But it means your no more. Everything new. But I turned around due to being in a foster family I call now my family.
"with great petty comes great responsibility"
quote of the year
There's a very fine line between petty and psycho.