Why Top Performers Are Quitting (Should You?)

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Комментарии • 108

  • @genglandoh
    @genglandoh Год назад +37

    Another reason is the top performers work load keeps increasing and they get burned out.

  • @rosiepenaflorida5586
    @rosiepenaflorida5586 Год назад +125

    I was a leader in a healthcare agency. I did not care much about the numbers, I took care of my people first, and they took care of my numbers. We had the highest score card in regulation compliance in all 150+ locations. My boss and the organization did not feel we were doing enough and demanded more hours of my time doing tasks. I did not have the time to think anymore, I did not have time to train my people. I was burnt out. I requested two weeks off and my boss declined it, so I gave my two-week notice. After I left, the top performers also left, they fired my boss because they now realized that I was doing most of his job. they hired new staff but couldn’t retain them longer than 3 months. They eventually shut down less than two years after I left.

    • @johannabeneteau6097
      @johannabeneteau6097 Год назад +3

      Sorry to hear this happened to you Rosie. This is a great story and thank you for sharing.

    • @cassondras1435
      @cassondras1435 Год назад +3

      Interesting to see how things change for the negative after you leave the job. Improper treatment but karma finds its way and their ways backfire. Good for you for quitting 😊

    • @edhcb9359
      @edhcb9359 Год назад +2

      I think you failed to realize that your healthcare agency(like most organizations) is not in the business of employing people. That’s not their goal. Their goal is to make money.

    • @edhcb9359
      @edhcb9359 Год назад +1

      @DJ Doesn’t change anything that I wrote.

    • @donaldlee6760
      @donaldlee6760 Год назад +3

      I'm curious if you there was an opportunity to call that employer back and offered to consult at 5x your former salary when your boss was fired. The company was obviously in a desperate financial position and at risk of shutting down. From their point of view, offering you a consulting fee that was 5x your former rate would have been much less expensive than losing the company. The offer could have been for just a couple hundred hours of consulting work and you would *not* be on site full time as you have your main full time job that you would obviously keep. What are they going to do, fire you and ultimately shut down the company?

  • @MrBrewman95
    @MrBrewman95 Год назад +58

    The reward for getting your work done is more work. No extra time off or compensation bonus. Just more work. Why work more than what is expected if you will be working late, have no work/life balance and more stress?

    • @ryanburr2164
      @ryanburr2164 Год назад +2

      If you are done with your task and getting paid, why not give you more work?

    • @theglassarrow_
      @theglassarrow_ Год назад +2

      My favorite is getting work unrelated to your position. Stuff thats should have a different hire for. I'm a dev why do I need to have hands on work

    • @Gman0987
      @Gman0987 Год назад +3

      I only work more if making more money. Flat out. The only time you work for free is if you are self employed and building something that will pay later. But you you aren’t in the S or B quadrant and are simply an E don’t let your employer take advantage of you.

    • @mcleananderson4948
      @mcleananderson4948 Год назад +1

      Correct, often times less paid than your deadbeat peers too. When you speak up, you're the problem

    • @mcleananderson4948
      @mcleananderson4948 Год назад +8

      ​more work is fine, but being taken advantage of while others routinely don't hit standards is a morale killer.

  • @t.alderman7379
    @t.alderman7379 Год назад +15

    People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care!

  • @that_heretic
    @that_heretic Год назад +30

    At my previous employer, I was a top performer in a very high demand, with high education requirements, role every year there. I left just after COVID, but I had been looking for a while. The problem was not my direct manager. The problem, was that the institution did not reward productive employees. The entire purpose of the organization was to extract as much value from us as possible and reward the shareholders. The raises and bonuses I got there for my high performance were insulting.
    In my experience working for American public corporations, this is the norm now. Disincentivizing productivity in this way is extremely unwise.

  • @amv4000smom
    @amv4000smom Год назад +28

    Well said! I just turned in my resignation letter this morning due to poor leadership. Thank you.

  • @stephanieh2863
    @stephanieh2863 Год назад +36

    Loved this video. I’m the employee in this situation and this really describes me. I’ve been looking to get out and I need to have the self confidence to just do it. I have lot of time with my company and I’ve become complacent. I’ve been researching different careers and hope 2023 is Year I finally am able to make that change.

    • @RelevantEd_DrHenderson
      @RelevantEd_DrHenderson Год назад +2

      I hope you get out!
      Remember, if the roles were reversed you'd be fired in a moment.

  • @cerberus3426
    @cerberus3426 Год назад +15

    I was working 6 days as a lead server at 21, spent 2 years I'm the position hustling and busting my ass every day, but most importantly I turned the mediocre wait staff into amazing waiters as I had been waiting tables at fine dining establishments for over 7 years.
    When my grandma passed away I asked for some time off and my boss was a total ass about it, didn't give a single fuck. I was truly astonished!
    I trained their staff for $1 above minimum wage plus tip. I taught all of them basic principles so they can move onto better places, and after I left, they did! Many of them are at much better restaurants and they constantly text me and thank me because they didn't know being a waiter had such an upside!

    • @Stan-mh7bf
      @Stan-mh7bf Год назад

      There's a sucker born every minute.

  • @DAng-ze6lj
    @DAng-ze6lj Год назад +9

    I actually do not like when my boss asks me personal questions because I know that it's disingenuous and very awkward. I'm forced to lie about my personal circumstances because I don't want to be treated any differently from others. Surface level questions like how's your travel is fine. But nothing deeper than that.

    • @erick_ftw
      @erick_ftw 4 месяца назад +1

      Have you communicated these feelings to your manager?

  • @kevinaltizer
    @kevinaltizer Год назад +12

    The ass-kissers get promoted to managerial roles, and a lot of the team members see the lack of skills and know the sole reason for which they got the promotion, which leads to less motivation and production by the top team members.

  • @ACBMemphis
    @ACBMemphis Год назад +9

    As a software developer, I've seen the "put a lid on people" effect described here accelerate rapidly over the past 5 years or so... Take people who have a degree of intelligent curiosity about them, introduce a micro-management methodology like Agile, and top performers will run for the door!

    • @CW91
      @CW91 Год назад +1

      Management's "Agile" is not the same as Agile SDLC. The former simply means squeezing more work in tighter deadlines.

  • @mrgreene3290
    @mrgreene3290 Год назад +13

    Uncle worked in Oil/Gas industry as Engineer. He said there was two tracks to follow at work either the Engineering track or the Management track. Sever times over his career he was offer a management job, but he declined and opted to stay on the Engineering side. It was not unusual for him to have a boss who was younger than him and made less money than him. Uncle was able to get pay increases and promotions by staying in Engineering without having to move to Management to get advancement. This dual track option needs to be implemented in other industries, as when you move a great Engineer to the management side, your business just lost a great Engineer that was producing. Nothing wrong with the Management side if that is what you want, but no reason to require a great performer to move to management in order to get more money or promotions.

    • @camgere
      @camgere Год назад

      He was lucky to work in a company that had a dual track. In many companies only the management track gets the big rewards. The job of the whole company is to provide value to the customer. Front line workers do this directly. But they don't do payroll or taxes or capital equipment purchases. They have specialists to support them. Engineers have technical expertise front line workers don't have. Not everybody can/needs to do calculus and understand geology. Everybody should be rowing together.

  • @pattimartin859
    @pattimartin859 Год назад +7

    Good companies should be training up good management. Not just promoting. Management should be monitored, are they doing a good job. Or are they on a vengeance parade and running out people that they personally just don't like. MONITOR the management as well as the employees. Poor leadership destroys good companies.

  • @cerberus3426
    @cerberus3426 Год назад +6

    Ken, that's exactly what happened to me. My boss promised me an assistant manager position, without me asking. So I felt like I got slapped in the face when he randomly brings in a manager without telling me.
    I never asked for the position, but after he told me, I was ecstatic and waiting on the moment. Just to be heart broken! I left that very same day and told the manager he lacked the balls to be a good leader.

    • @donaldlee6760
      @donaldlee6760 Год назад +3

      Ohh, I get why you were upset (rightfully so) but burning bridges can come back on you. Better to just smile and wish them luck as you leave. This allows the small possibility that they contact you in the future for help and then you can charge them a ripoff rate for your time.

  • @HomeschooledBlackGuy
    @HomeschooledBlackGuy Год назад +8

    When my manager asks personal questions, or, how I’m doing, it makes me enormously uncomfortable. I feel like I’m being put on a list of some kind.
    Trust is earned but not when there’s a gun to our heads.

  • @johnweibel1128
    @johnweibel1128 Год назад +2

    Mandatory Corporate HR training indirectly discourages the personal conversation.

  • @marklarsen4424
    @marklarsen4424 Год назад +2

    I had been asking my former company for a change, for years! They had been stacking on responsibilities, not stimulating stuff, but CRAP DETAIL until I couldn't keep up and missed something. No one can be everywhere! Over the entire holiday season, they wouldn't tell me where I stood with the company. I was physically ill! Then they finally told me that all was well. I took a new job 4 months later, and in a much better place. Yes, I was ANGRY!

  • @CaffeineForCode
    @CaffeineForCode Год назад +4

    Having a pathway for growth is 10x better than a slightly higher than average salary. When leaders provide clear expectations for promotions and salary increases through regular feedback sessions, employees are more likely to stay.

  • @lonestarrk9308
    @lonestarrk9308 Год назад +3

    This is happening to the company I work for right now. We told them last year that we want more money. Now they act shocked when the site lead takes another job with a significant pay raise and another person quits without notice. They were already taking 4 months to fill a low level position.

  • @nv9070
    @nv9070 Год назад +5

    Amen Brother!! Well said … see & seed into their potential. Quit the narcissistic manipulation, diminishing and belittling . BTW I resigned I didn’t quit! 😜. Best decision of my entire work life. Health is wealth!

  • @VillainCollector1
    @VillainCollector1 Год назад +4

    Best video on this channel in a long time. Agree on all counts

  • @omi1279
    @omi1279 Год назад +7

    Ken, this might* be one of your best videos! Great structure and content.

  • @godsoloved24
    @godsoloved24 Год назад +3

    That second reason is why I want to leave my job, and why I'm going to school right now to change my career.

  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 Год назад +3

    Amen! Preach Ken! These are the facts folks!

  • @KamalaTheClown
    @KamalaTheClown Год назад +4

    Just keep in mind that the grass isn’t always greener on the other end of the fence, too. There’s a reason why boomerang employees are increasing.

  • @Dave-zl2ky
    @Dave-zl2ky Год назад +4

    Three reasons:
    1. political bs
    2. companies trying to manipulate and dictate people's lives outside of work
    3. promises not delivered.

  • @tricialeach1125
    @tricialeach1125 Год назад +1

    Incredible advice! All leaders should hear this. 100% agree that the trust part needs to be there for folks to be vulnerable with a leader.

  • @xlerb2286
    @xlerb2286 Месяц назад

    I turned down "promotions" to management at pretty much every company I worked at, once quitting when they said that refusing wasn't an option. If I wanted to be a manager I'd have taken business courses. But what I always wanted to do is just what I was doing, hands on software development / application architecture work. Why do companies insist on taking good capable engineers and turning them into mediocre at best managers? Occasionally you get an engineer that makes a great manager but it's so rare as to be noteworthy.

  • @live2023-sf5jk
    @live2023-sf5jk Год назад +1

    I recently put in my 2 week notice at work and it hurts I’ve been with the company for 12 years . I really enjoyed working here but for the last few years there’s been a lot of new changes in management and I don’t think they got the right people all they see is a number
    And is either your productivity is good but not great or your productivity is low and either way you get no raise .

  • @angealva3574
    @angealva3574 Год назад +2

    another great pep talk. I'm definitely dealing with 2 and 3. I have a lid on me. Time to go!

  • @EricMoore-ze2rf
    @EricMoore-ze2rf Год назад +3

    I do so much at work and I get the most crap talked about me.

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 Год назад +3

    Great segment. I've probably had 23-25 bosses-leaders to work for so far and surprisingly only 2 were disastrous. I quit both of the those 2 in short time and moved on to enjoy much better opportuities. (funny how they act shocked - yes, they can be idiots) The other 23 were all good-great leaders and mentors. Not one leader-boss was the same at all and each one had their own style. That helped me learn so much about interacting in biz and also in life.

  • @SevenFortyOne
    @SevenFortyOne Год назад +1

    I quit my last job because the executive leadership team demoted everyone in my department to even up two sites in different states that were at different levels in the company. That showed me they were more focused on structure and process than my actual contributions.

  • @stevenporter863
    @stevenporter863 Год назад +2

    Most people I know would rather get a pay bump and bonus to take care of their personal issues as opposed to some boss that can't really help asking about their personal life.

  • @parler8698
    @parler8698 Год назад +5

    Quiet quitting. 🤫 shhhh.

  • @daraghmorrissey
    @daraghmorrissey Год назад +1

    nice video. If you have a good relationship with your boss, you can actually mentor them to be successful and be promoted and a virtuous circle is formed. I am very lucky to have a great manager and it is night and day compared to the bad managers I have had.

  • @jb44448
    @jb44448 Год назад

    you got that right. life is too short for those sorts of things

  • @BrandonKeever
    @BrandonKeever Месяц назад

    I have worked in administration in Higher Education for three years. I’m in the top 1% out of 400 in my department. I am three years away from completing my PhD.
    I was given an insultingly low raise 6 months ago.
    Recently I was asked to take a “promotion” without a raise in compensation. The promotion involved a change in title, additional hours, additional responsibilities with the promise to be considered for a directors role at some point in the future. I turned down the opportunity. I’m ready to move on.
    However, after 300 plus applications in 4 months, the offers are few and far between. The economy is terrible. I will find an acceptable opportunity, but I am not motivated to stay with my current University and may not stay in higher education.

  • @juancalderon5520
    @juancalderon5520 Год назад +2

    Min 3:12 asking personal question could come off as fake. This fakeness then can be turned around and stab an employee in the back.
    Have not met a manager that had good intentions when they start asking you about personal life. The fakeness just oozes out.

  • @DoughBoy2024
    @DoughBoy2024 Год назад

    Although accurate, I don't like to use the term "direct report" so I say "team member" instead. IMO, this helps in feeling a more sense of belonging

  • @tristan2332
    @tristan2332 Год назад +1

    Many people struggle with personal finance I think it's even worse for the number of business that know how to treat workers right. Right now my company under pays and over works its entry level workers and they wonder why so much turnover. Meanwhile the more experienced workers are picking up the slack and getting burned out. Upper Management is clueless and stuck in its ways. This describes millions of other businesses.

  • @faithsfabulousbeautybar6756
    @faithsfabulousbeautybar6756 Год назад

    Amen. I was in sales and it was so exhausting. The company was so strict. We had to be on zoom w camera on and no hours missed. It was too much for me. We had to get 3 sales per hour or go home. I got so burned out and left immediately. And got a better and less stressful job.

  • @mcleananderson4948
    @mcleananderson4948 Год назад +2

    To be a good a good leader you need to be fair with your team. You let a couple get away with murder everyone knows.

  • @Jeremyh56
    @Jeremyh56 Год назад

    Needed to hear this today. I am considering an opportunity for a career change into a leadership role. It's why I am leaving and why I am excited about a new opportunity. Thank you.

  • @flyinfr33domfreedom2
    @flyinfr33domfreedom2 Год назад +1

    Wow ken. Great video! Spot on

  • @CYCO1631
    @CYCO1631 Месяц назад

    My manager is a frat boy leading a group of older men. Maturity seems like a foreign concept to the guy, but he's too insecure to take the hint that growing up a but might benefit him.

  • @CB-kf9pg
    @CB-kf9pg 4 месяца назад

    This was a really good episode👌

  • @diggernash1
    @diggernash1 Год назад +3

    The company I work for is a great organization with fantastic bosses. My frustration with work is that, as a society, we do not allow those that choose not to work to suffer enough. An able body person should only be able to recieve assistance that allows them to barely survive. They should have no level of comfort or enjoyment.

  • @BillClinton228
    @BillClinton228 Год назад +1

    Whats the point of hiring professionals with alot of experience and treating them like interns while giving them lots of money?
    I just don't understand the logic./

  • @mutajrjr1970
    @mutajrjr1970 Год назад

    In my company they decided to make it easier on HR and accounting by giving flat raises to everyone.....if you are in the top 10% of performers you get the same raise as the bottom 10%. So i tell people looking at my company i stress that the raises are flat and you need to get your money up front.

  • @terryhenderson424
    @terryhenderson424 Год назад +1

    It seems as if manager types come back from their management training more draconian than ever. Too many companies are following the Amazon model which fires the bottom 10% of their performers. It is a standard upheld year after year.

    • @nekomimi5471
      @nekomimi5471 11 месяцев назад +1

      Jack Welch started that "rank and yank" crap at GE, thinking it would improve the organization. The business world leaped on it, but refuse to admit it is discredited.
      The problem is that it can initially improve an organization that has a lot of deadweight, but if the company KEEPS doing it after improvement has been reached, it can be devastating. Why? Because instead of trying to get out of the bottom 10%, employees sabotage enough other emploees to make THEM the bottom 10%

  • @videostoviews2262
    @videostoviews2262 Год назад

    Great video Ken!

  • @davidsalvador8989
    @davidsalvador8989 Год назад

    The majority of leader in my point of view crave the position of power and are willing to do whatever it takes to get it. Not all, but most. Then when they are there the do whatever they can to put you down so that they don't have to face their own ineptitude. You can literally be killing it, every day, and they will find a way to put you down. Why? Because they are not good enough.

  • @dougackerman4182
    @dougackerman4182 Год назад

    Interesting video Ken

  • @christoff924
    @christoff924 Год назад

    Amen Ken, Amen.

  • @logicpolice308
    @logicpolice308 День назад

    I work at a company where they want to pay everyone the same....I've generated millions in revenue for this startup....how valued do you think I feel?

  • @kaeros5521
    @kaeros5521 Год назад

    Well said!

  • @melevan15
    @melevan15 Год назад

    Check out the peter principle.

  • @diane8784
    @diane8784 Год назад

    Duhhhh so true!

  • @billyrock8305
    @billyrock8305 Год назад +1

    Where’s SuperDave? This dude keeps coming up under my Ramsey channel 😡

  • @edhcb9359
    @edhcb9359 Год назад +2

    I feel as though Dave Ramsey hired Ken to capture more of the “victim” audience. Dave needed to tap into the whiners that want to accept no responsibility for their own lives and Ken gives him that audience. I can’t think of any other reason Ken would make sense on Dave’s show.

  • @wesley8624ify
    @wesley8624ify Год назад

    Sounds a little like the Peter Principal.😂

  • @fg-pd5mh
    @fg-pd5mh Год назад

    💯 agree.

  • @claireevelyn3379
    @claireevelyn3379 10 месяцев назад +4

    I don't discuss my personal life at work - and I would advise noone do it either.

  • @cynthialangford5643
    @cynthialangford5643 Год назад

    Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Promisedland_garage
    @Promisedland_garage Год назад

    Companys,think about numbers and numbers,make the goals what you get?thank you and reduccion of hours and want more more with less

  • @johnsyler8580
    @johnsyler8580 Год назад

    This is the US Army. We will force you you into rank advancement and leadership whether you want it , capable of it or that you are perfectly good at your present job.

  • @leemp337
    @leemp337 Год назад

    peter principle.

  • @solvend
    @solvend Год назад

    I'll give you an idea. We received a TWO SENTENCE email today for employee appreciation today.
    No lame pizza party, no walk thru and shake hands...
    A Two sentence email.
    Just dont even bother if thats all you got.
    And that was 3 levels of management up. Other 2 levels didnt do anything or mention it.
    Thats all you need to know,
    You're so out of touch with how detached management is from human relations of any kind its hilarious and almost unbelievable to watch.

  • @eddieblake097
    @eddieblake097 Год назад

    what happened to your voice Ken? Are you lowering it on purpose? you sound more serious lol.

  • @lukeharris2622
    @lukeharris2622 Год назад +1

    ✝️🙏

  • @ParadeTheGospel
    @ParadeTheGospel Год назад +1

    Ken sick or something? Sounds different.

    • @Andrew-3445
      @Andrew-3445 Год назад +1

      I was thinking the same. Sounds like he slept outside in a snow storm.

  • @youindeedsuck323
    @youindeedsuck323 Год назад

    Very blessed to have known stellar leaders in my youth. Anti micro management
    Good leaders who’re good humans too are incredibly hard to come across

  • @matyasfegyver2898
    @matyasfegyver2898 Год назад

    Right!