Confessions of a Party Princess: BULLIED BY AN 8 YEAR-OLD
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- You know what's so not fetch? Being roasted by an 8-year old and GENUINELY getting your feelings hurt. Here's my experience at a Girl-Scout Daddy Daughter Dance dealing with a clique of mean girls out for blood. And yeah; this brought on some very real high school flashbacks *shudders*.
In all honesty, I tend to be a dramatic person by nature so I want to go ahead and throw that out there to put a little context behind all the sass in this video. I wish all the girls the absolute best, for all I know they will be completely kind adults. I don't want to judge them too harshly by one interaction and I ask that those of you in the comments, keep in mind they are still KIDS. Please be kind.
P.S. I don't really know if she was 8, but that's my best guess and it's catchy -- hope that's not too big of a deal.
Hey to all you newbies! I've gained nearly 18% of my 669 subscribers in the past month, (mainly in the last few days) and I couldn't be more excited. I am so grateful for all of you thinking I'm cool enough to constantly bother you with my shenanigans in your subscription box. Definitely motivating me to hop on some more videos, heading towards weekly uploads (but I've said that so many times, so I wouldn't blame you if you don't believe me). Lots of fun stuff in the works so I hope I don't disappoint!
(Copy & pasted from a previous description box, but it's still relevant) In super-top-secret-no-one-know-about-this news; I'm toying with the idea of creating my own princess blog/resource center/website. It'd be completely interactive and helpful to those just starting out or just a great place to connect for intermediate to expert party princesses alike! That said, it's in the very early stages of development, so don't expect anything more than to maybe hear about it in a description box or two.
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One time a birthday girl pushed me and said “GO HOME MOANA”
You should've been like "GLADLY" and just Elsa-slammed that door.
I love how you act so elegant and so calm at the party’s and then you go home to spill the tea😳
Spilling tea is a time honored princess tradition
@@NatalieEverAfteryou looked so very beautiful and very gorgeous I love it wish I could be a party princess to
“He’s got a long sword”
😏
Whosits and Whatnot ooh boy... 😏😏😏😏
@@NatalieEverAfter you're so obnoxious!!!!!!!
Lol
your makeup is so gorgeous every time you do it!! you should do a like “everyday princess look” video where you show your favorite stuff off
Oh, the FLATTERY! Wow, ok, thank you so much for making me feel special & beautiful. However the reality is that although I'd love to do a makeup guide type video in the future, right now I'm still getting the hang of which products are keepers and which ones aren't. Stay tuned though!
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@@alexageorge659 My heart just fluttered.
I'm from England, I just stumbled across your channel just now. Honestly, I have so much respect for all you do & your passion for these roles. It can't be an easy Job at all todo, but like you and your friend said. It also comes with rewards. I'm sorry you had to endure those nasty little girls, those are the worst ever. I have a 4 year old girl, & I know for a fact she would DIE seeing all you Disney Princesses. She is the BIGGEST girly girl & Disney crazy! We're going to Walt Disney World just me and her next year for her 5th Birthday. And I know she is going to be going crazzzzy seeing all the Disney Princesses. There will be children out there who are brought up correctly & are a kind gentle innocent soul just like yours. I'm sorry your Disney Audition didn't go as planned, but I hope you go back and try again. Try try and try again until you get it as you most definitely deserve it and you ooze Disney Princess 🤗keep up the hard work and don't let anyone knock you down (especially bratty little kids)! much love from here in England! Hope to see your smiley face one day in a Disney Park 😁💙
OMG, what a nice message to wake up to! I am so happy for you and your 4-year-old, I hope you have the best ever time at Disney. From the sound of it the princesses there are going to enjoy meeting her as much as she enjoys meeting them! I'd love to be able to see you at a Disney park one day too, that's why I just gotta stay patient and passionate about the end goal! Thank you so much for all the kind words, I hope you both have a magical trip :)
The reason the dads didn’t believe you is because the daughters were raised with the mentality stuff like that is okay :( but You’re so pretty I love how you looked and loved even more your girl hero philosophy !! You’re so thoughtful !! Edit: yay for cute dads wooo😍
Nice to see you hanging around the comments again, so hello and thank you for watching my videos!
Also yes, I admit the event did have some parents not willing to cooperate, but I don't want to dwell on that kind of stuff. Besides, it's not my place to judge parenting. The important takeaway was staying positive and keeping focus on the redeeming parts of the job. I still managed to have a great time and I hope you did too while watching!
When I worked as a party performer, I was often a villainess such as Maleficent, Wicked Witch/Queen, Ursula, etc. I would perform opposite a Princess and sometimes the kids would get overstimulated and attack me.
Dear Jesus, did you not have a character assistant to supervise? That sounds awful, my dude.
Natalie Ever After sadly, no darling. But yes I did occasionally receive a suitable tip when that happened. Thank you.
Excellent Natalie💖💖💖💖💖Looked like a hard time for you but remember to not let bullying ruin your life👍👍👍👍
Of course, positivity always wins out in the end. :)
@@NatalieEverAfter Indeed
How can anybody be rude and annoying to a princess 🙄🤣 really fun video as always friend. Also love your new Aurora costume :) Have a magical day :)
Yeah, it's beyond me -- but at least I still had a lot of fun with all the other sweet girls!
Ouch! Those girls sound nasty! I would die if I had kids trying to snatch my wig! SKYLER'S WORDS ARE IMMORTAL!! I enjoyed how you stepped on your soapbox and gave your little message about inward beauty versus outward beauty. Great Video! I love your vlogs with little stories at the end.
Yay, it's the best thing ever to always see you down here in the comments -- I know I'm staying true to my roots if you still keep up with my content and tell me you love it. Super flattered and glad you enjoyed!
@@NatalieEverAfter
To be honest, I find your videos super helpful cuz I’m just starting my own princess business and I’ve only had one party but have my second one in 4 days!!! It helps seeing your videos for someone who has experience in doing these things a lot and has lots of good helpful tips :)
OK, super weird to heard someone call me experienced, but by all means; don't stop. 😂 Cannot express enough how flattered I am that I've been even a little bit of an influence on your princess journey. I wish you all the best & am totally looking forward to hearing about party #2!!!
Aww thank you so much for responding you’re so sweet! I can’t wait to tell you all about it!!!☺️
Okay when you said to be sure to talk to the girls about things other than their outward appearance🥰🥰🥰 YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
You should be aurora more often, it really seems to fit you.
Aww thank you so much for boosting my confidence, I always thought my face would be too round, so I'm glad you think I can pull her off!
Natalie Ever After Of course!
Oh, the fathers believed their kids did that.😒 They’re just okay with it.
Yeahhhhhh, you might be right...
I cosplay as a hobby, and have gone to lots of comic conventions, I mostly cosplay as Harley Quinn. One time, I was cosplaying as Roller Derby Harley Quinn from the DC New 52 Comics (with the split black/red pigtail wig since Harley has her hair black/red in those comics.) I stopped to take photos and let kids hug me when their parents stopped me and my boyfriend on the con floors (my guy was cosplaying Harvey Bullock from Batman to my Harley.) And one of the parents little girls, unlike her Batman die-hard little brother, was not into me as Harley. Was she rude! All, "Harley has blonde hair w/ blue + red in the movie! Aren't you a little short to be Harley? You don't have white pale skin, it's olive-tanned." and even when I was smiling, keeping calm, trying to talk in Harley's accented-Brooklyn-like sweet voice, when we were posing for a pic, the girl attempted to try to snatch up my wig pulling at it to try to rip it off! (Thank god for bobby pins and wig pins holding it down tight!) It was my 1st experience ever having a rude girl dressed up as a My Little Pony Flutter-Shy trying to snatch-grab at my wig. Thank god the parents stepped in, apologized to us, I let it go lol, said it was alright, posed more for photos with the little brother who was dressed up as a Gotham Arkham Prisoner.
Kids are unabashedly themselves, sometimes it's adorable bundles of sunshine.. sometimes not. I'm glad you were able to handle it so well, it's a hard thing to adapt to. Props to you!
PS. I'd love to see pics of you in your Harley costume, I bet you kill it :)
I would of just said “ hey aren’t you suppose to be in a Brony convention?” Since she was dress up as flutter shy
Good thing Rapunzel had short brown hair so she could just say she got a wig so people recognize her but her hair is still short and brown from when Eugene cut it
That's such a smart idea, I'll tell her next time :)
Great video as always, you did a wonderful job keeping the Magic even if the girls were mean and the dads should have done something 😢. Keep going there are going to be ups and downs being a princess character is not an easy job. Stay positive and in the words of Dora just keep swimming 🐟👑👑👑!!!
Couldn't agree more, sometimes you just have a rough day or a few difficult non-believers, but it's so important to stay positive to protect the magic for all the other kids!
I have been binging your videos while I work on my newest Ariel costume to give me my princess motivation. I would LOVE to be a party princess (if only my voice was higher and I looked more feminine in drag... but alas, imma man) anyway, keep doing what you’re doing and make more content so I can get my princess fix :) :) :)
Princess Drag?!??!!? R U KIDDING ME? That's so awesome and def the way I'm going to spend my next hour on an internet deep dive. Also can't believe you like my videos that much, but thank you anyway. I guess I need to get on top of that whole new content thing :)))
How awful from such young girls! Just think about all the amazing kids you get to interact with😊
Exactly! Positivity always wins out in the end.
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Absolutely no one:
Natalie: Hey Arial, ThIs iS YoUrs
Hey Natalie! Excellent soapbox :)
As a princess (especially Aurora or Belle or Snow White), have you ever had a child comment on the less-than-savoury interpretations of the story, such as why it was okay for Prince Phillip to kiss you while you were asleep? How would you balance the honesty of “it’s not okay for people to kiss you in your sleep” without destroying the magic of the story and your character?
If I was one of the father's I wouldn't of been happy one bit. It's not on at all. On a sweet note you and the others as the disney princesses totally pulled it off
Aww that’s so sweet of you, it was a good time regardless 🥰
@@NatalieEverAfter Your welcome, my 5 year old cousin liked the one of you as Belle when you was doing story time of Beauty & The Beast. Greetings from The UK
Where did you get your Anna and Auroras wigs?
Anna isn't mine so idk where Skyler got it from, but my Aurora costume specs are linked in the description box!
oof ive done princesses to comic-cons (pre- nose ring) and ive had some damn RUTHLESS kids trying to pull my gown or wig or little boys WITH DADS ENCOURAGING THEM to get up under my gown and my hoop skirt
OOOOF, girl, I sowwy. Creepy dads are just about the worst thing to deal with while princessing, so I def relate. But on the bright side, those are few and far between -- most kids just want to sit on your lap and ask questions about living in a castle/what your sidekicks are up to/what they're doing in school. Those are the precious ones. 🖤
Seriously, their dad's didn't believe that their babies were being rude? Nah, they believed you, they were just too lazy to do anything about it. Just wait till they're teenagers.
OH gosh, I sure hope that's not true....
☝️"You don't touch a princess' hair."
Kids are feisty but I love them most of them are mature and then teenagers trust me
You make a beautiful Aurora!
Thank you!
How do you go about becoming a party princess? This is like my dream job! I love children and Disney more than anything. Is there a specific age/qualifications?
Well, it depends on how you want to go about it. I'd recommend brand new princesses starting by auditioning for other companies in the area & each of them have their own requirements/guidelines. It's all about researching your community :) But if you're looking for more info, I talk about getting started in a few GRWM videos!
May I ask how you got into doing events, and how you go about seeing to do and/or help with events? We have a local event for kids in the summer (end of August) before school would take up, and I was wanting to see if they would want any help or any character(s) that I do at the event, but I don't know how to go about finding out. Do you have any tips? It seems really fun to do, and would give me more use of my characters.
Greetings! I have been debating on becoming a princess for hire/ party princess. How did you get into being a party princess and how did you learn how to sound like the princess and how did you learn how to act?
Koi Kat, there are Party Princess businesses in each state. As far as learning how to sound like them and act, it’s best to watch the movies they’re in and imitate their voices and body movements, as well as taking acting classes.
what is a party princess? 😂😂 ive never heard of this term
Its a specific kind of a children's birthday party entertainer!
I love your message so beautiful
Which lipstick are you wearing? 😍 Love your videos!
I don't remember the name exactly, but it's a Victoria's Secret Velvet Matte -- I really love the formula. (although I stopped buying from that brand because of moral reasons) Hope that helps!
Natalie Ever After Ah okay! Thanks!
I've had kids that were too old for events be there and try to convince kids that I wasn't Anna before. There was another event when I was with an Elsa that I didn't really know and she was the absolute WORST. She was rude, ignoring the kids and instead of telling me my wig was slipping was grabbing it and pulling on it to set it. Most of the princesses at that event were ignoring the kids in fact and that was annoying I was asked specifically to be there as Anna which was weird because there are so many groups and she turned me off doing events anymore because now she does all the local events. I wasn't the only one of my friends she has treated horribly either but the people who run the cosplay groups don't seem to care
Oof that sounds really awful, I hope you're able to find a group that fits with you eventually -- I'm sure it'll make it all worth it!
Lmao ur roommate is so gentle
I really want to do a job like this in a couple years when I am old enough to get a job
Aww, its a great thing to work towards! Maybe take some musical theatre electives, that would be fun and help :)
@@NatalieEverAfter😊 thanks
PLZZZZ do a tutorial/ a video giving tips of how to cover acne and self harm scars for someone who wants to be a princess but doesn't know it they can because of kids curiousness being triggering sometimes. personally my scars are on my arm and are pretty white but raised, I've ha friends say they aren't noticeable but they are to me at least
I've never really been a master at covering acne, I find it's largely a matter of determination and luck if a pimple is able to be concealed. I mostly just focus on being proactive with skincare so I don't have to stress too hard about makeup. But the more I get my routine down the more likely I'd be to do a video!!
As far as self-harm scars, I've been lucky enough to not have ever gotten to that point, so I wouldn't be comfortable giving advice on the subject. And warranted or unwarranted, I think you need to hear that you are amazing and deserve love, most importantly self-love. You obviously have a huge heart wanting to do this job that we both care about so much, embrace that. If for nothing else, be patient and kind with yourself so you can be a princess and a great role model for kids. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need help or someone to hear you. And because this comment did take an unexpected turn, I'll just leave this here:
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Quick question, have you ever had problems with kids at Conventions? I’m going to one as Ariel and I’m a bit nervous
I'd love to help, but what do you mean by problems?!?!?!
You guys handled this so well! I was wondering, do you ever get mean girls that comment that you dont look like the princess, basically saying "you're not a size 0!" That's what makes me afraid of getting started, I don't know how to come back to that with an answer that they would understand and be happy with.
Don't let that stop you from getting started. I'm a size 10 and never had a kid say that to me. I honestly don't think kids focus too much on size. Like, if you have the hair, makeup, and the dress, you ARE the princess. In those big beautiful dresses, it is also more difficult to see someone's size in my experience. No matter what size you are I know you could be an awesome princess. What really matters more is having someone who can engage and act like the princesses with kindness rather than having a $500 costume and a size 0 frame.
@@dreamprincessbirthdays1984 Thank you! You're so right, I would love to just make kids happy more than anything. That's got to be the focus, along with having a fun time as a princess! 💗
@@ericatilley382 Give it a try! Trust me! You will love it!
In all honesty, this was a rare gem of a party where I didn't think about my weight at all...
Usually, it's my biggest insecurity and at times it's been debilitating. I had an eating disorder in high school/middle school and when I started princessing, it brought on numerous panic attacks to the point where I would just about cancel a gig on a "fat" day.
In this specific case, none of them mentioned anything about it, so I don't think that was a factor for those girls deciding to be rude to us. Usually, parents (if anyone) are the ones to notice.
But I do want to throw you a bit of support and say you can princess at just about any size. At the end of the day, its the interaction with the kid that matters -- not size or price tag on the dress, but that genuine connection you make when you convince a kid that you're the real deal. I cannot understand more the mental restraints coming from self-inflicted body dysmorphia, but when it comes to how others see you, weight won't be the thing to hold you back if you don't want it to be.
@@NatalieEverAfter Awww you are not alone at all in those thoughts and actions. I have struggled with my weight, being a size 16 through middle school, high school, and college. I never thought I'd be allowed to be a "Princess" and used to look on from the sidelines as friends cosplayed. Now I am 29 and almost too old (even though I look young thankfully), but I've lost 70lbs and am now a size 8 and still feel too fat, but it's now or never for me! So that's part of my insecurity still clinging on when I ask that. You are doing a wonderful thing bringing joy to all of these kids. I love watching your videos and living vicariously through you! I have some wigs on the way and working on some dresses (Ariel and Elsa to start), hoping to get going soon! I can't thank you enough for your videos. 💗
Girlll i feel u kids are mean! Lol im a face painter so i have to deal with rude kids all the time.. The biggest pet peeve is when they stick their fingers in my paint haha that shits expensive!
Hi! I love ur videos and I've been wanting to be a Disney princess at Disney or just for parties and I'm a super passionate Disney fan. I'm 5'1 and dark brown hair and eyes and I'm tan with a very round nose and wide eyes. Im not moana tan I'm more like a lighter Jasmine. My boyfriend said Jasmine or belle would be a good bet but I was wondering how to look good with a blonde or red wig when u have dark hair
Hi there, thanks for supporting me and my videos -- it's nice to see you reach out! As far as tips for making a lighter wig work for you; I'd say it's all about attention to details. Your wig cap should be impeccable and not a single flyaway showing, something like that can really break the illusion. And secondly, eyebrows are super duper important to get right. If you find that you have trouble getting the color to show up over dark brow hair, brush some concealer through your eyebrows with a spooly! It works wonders. Hope that answered your question! :))))
Thank you so much!!! That was helpful!
I know right Natalie when I would be wearing colored hair of clip in or body wave little gurl's & Hispanic women come up to me staring at my colored ombre purple pink body wave,I remember 1 little gurl was reaching for my hot pink clip in on my high way ponytail.public people want to touch my colored hair when I wear my ombre purple pink body wave I can feel the energy: that's what they want to do but they can't touch another person.I'm like (you can't touch my hair its not yours) my mom would never believe if some stranger touched my hair mom would yell at me tell the doctor on me & give me more medications.even if I have a ponytail or any hair extensions I wear people want to touch it but if its a person I know that's already they can touch my hair.🍓
Do you have eyelash extensions or falsies? They look so good❤️!
Both actually! When princessing, I love to make my lashes super extreme. If you can't bat your eyelids and fly away, there's not enough lash.
I like that you said that about it not being able just twirls. I see videos from little girls who go to bibbity bobbity boutique who meet the princesses and alot of them are like wow you look beautiful teirl pictures hug done
Well i have autism but i love dressing and cosplaying as disney princesses my fav princess is to cosplay as is SnowWhite
Some kids....smh
Everyone looks so nice and cute!!!
They really were!
How do you become a party princess?
Doesn’t what size u are btw at the end of the day it’s just costume and I’m cosplaying as Snow White btw u are beautiful as aroura
Exactly! Princessing is for everyone :)
I love your message so beautiful
Glad you liked it!!!