How to AVOID FAILURE when achieving your GOALS!

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @cryptoflippodcast
    @cryptoflippodcast 4 года назад +229

    _Consistency is the most important thing to ensure we all reach our goals_ 💪💪💪

    • @naomigalore5406
      @naomigalore5406 4 года назад +7

      Spot on! Even accomplishing one small task each day, that contributes to your goals, will put you miles ahead.

    • @georgenelson1033
      @georgenelson1033 4 года назад

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      @griffinmilks5358 4 года назад

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  • @flowthinks
    @flowthinks 4 года назад +81

    1. Set tiny goals
    2. Get specific
    3. Write your goals down (Do It!! )
    4. Don't set too many goals at a time
    5. Set up an accountability group (Positive peer pressure)
    6. Set up rewards and consequences of achieving and not achieving your goals - keep it non - toxic
    7. Enjoy the process and embrace the journey! Pivot if you must 😃
    8 Don't not be afraid of change. Reflect, learn and be open to pivoting

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife 4 года назад +119

    Most of us talk endlessly about our hopes and dreams, and our desire to achieve our goals. Yet, day after day, month after month, we put our ambitions on hold. We fail to take steps toward our objectives. We procrastinate.

    • @naomigalore5406
      @naomigalore5406 4 года назад +8

      Procrastination is self sabotage. Patricia's video on procrastination helped me a lot.

  • @nicolerobinson3531
    @nicolerobinson3531 4 года назад +125

    I’m terrible at sticking to my goals, I miss the part about them being “stepping stones”. I set goals that are ridiculous (at the time for me) and then I don’t reach them and then I feel like trash. This video is much appreciated 🙏🏾

    • @naomigalore5406
      @naomigalore5406 4 года назад +1

      I feel you 😩

    • @unaBRIDGEd32
      @unaBRIDGEd32 4 года назад +1

      No sis!!! Stick to your goals!!! “Stepping stones” are key. Once the big goal makes you feel like a failure you want to drop it. I give myself a timeline sometimes with each miniature goal (leading up to the large goal) to make sure I’m making progress in a timely fashion. It also allows me to check myself on what I’m doing right/wrong, so I can tweak my methods of working towards the goal. Stay encouraged!

  • @RachelGrayM
    @RachelGrayM 4 года назад +60

    Just want to improve 1% everyday....in goals (financial and career) but also in character development.

  • @TheHappyblacky
    @TheHappyblacky 4 года назад +67

    Hitting a goal isn’t necessarily going to give you happiness. True. Everything is a process. I love to set small goals and celebrate my small wins. Patricia I love all the content on The break. Thank you for teaching us what we woulda paid so much for (for free) Love you xxx

    • @naomigalore5406
      @naomigalore5406 4 года назад +1

      omg yes! Celebrating the small wins is super important. They're often overlooked

  • @channeling_chanel
    @channeling_chanel 4 года назад +8

    Consistency is really key!!! I struggle with this a lot and having way too many goals at a time 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jayh.4693
    @jayh.4693 4 года назад +30

    In human resources we say be smart and think S-M-A-R-T when setting goals, whether professional or personal. Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely. Patricia you touch on many of these in your video. Thanks for sharing your great tips. Continued blessings from the DMV (DC, MD, VA) metropolitan area.🙏🏽

  • @DavyYap
    @DavyYap 4 года назад +39

    Successful people tend to look at their goals everyday and get to them quicker. I love that you referenced Atomic Habits!
    I've been setting goals to make videos 1-2x a week instead of goals for subscriber count because that's totally out of my control.

    • @AccordingtoVee
      @AccordingtoVee 4 года назад +3

      That's awesome. You've got a new subscriber.

    • @DavyYap
      @DavyYap 4 года назад

      @@AccordingtoVee Thank you!!

    • @MissBoux
      @MissBoux 4 года назад

      Subscribed! My short term goal is to start uploading - hopefully this week!

  • @Jmn44444
    @Jmn44444 4 года назад +17

    Congrats on 300K!!! You deserve it💥

  • @naomigalore5406
    @naomigalore5406 4 года назад +28

    Simply trying your best is enough! I needed to fully accept this in order to have a healthy relationship with goal setting. Your best won't be the same quality every time around. Some days you'll be outperforming yourself, other days you'll need to push yourself more. It's ok. We're constantly flowing through different vibrations, experiencing curve balls life throws at us. Don't be so hard on yourself. Just do your best 💖

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 4 года назад +1

    I love how you mention getting specific with your goals and being better by 1% everyday! Setting small goals is where it's at! I think when we set these huge goals they can be soo overwhelming to achieve and we don't end up starting at all! 🙌🏻💞

  • @marikat9890
    @marikat9890 4 года назад +5

    I'm terrible at setting goals but after watching this I sat down, planned 5 longterm goals I've been thinking about, wrote down what I need to do for each one, set goals to reach for the end of the year, end of Sep and end of this week. Feeling all productive and adult!

  • @tenn8585
    @tenn8585 4 года назад +10

    Atomic habit is literally the best book for anyone looking to set new goals and habits !

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 4 года назад +8

    Need this just ended my semester 2 at an all-time low, I'm thinking about repeating modules during placement year as I'm exhausted from the whole lockdown/ major anxiety period. After all of that, while looking after a disabled parent, I've been trying the whole Kanban productivity but nothing can really work until you get your headset right. Thanks again, this will be on repeat in the morning while setting intentions.

  • @courtneyxalyssa
    @courtneyxalyssa 4 года назад +2

    I think it’s so important to review our goals each day and see the progress grow🙌🏻So many people set goals then forget about it!

  • @sehrishr4265
    @sehrishr4265 4 года назад +12

    i’ve been watching you for years and i’m so grateful you started The Break!!! every video motivates me to get off my ass but i also love the way you explain, feels like a friend 💛💛

  • @1.5Koreans0.5American
    @1.5Koreans0.5American 4 года назад +8

    I wish there was a love button ❤️

  • @AyeshaNoelle
    @AyeshaNoelle 4 года назад +4

    One of the key things with goal setting is definetly focus. I think most people get excited and than get overwhelmed with all the goals and eventually procrastinate on their goals.
    Ps. Love that you read Atomic Habits! One of my now favorite books, which I made a video on as well.

  • @iAmYolanda87
    @iAmYolanda87 4 года назад +5

    You stay dropping jewels to help us to do and be better. Love this so much, thank you for these videos 😘

  • @sweetdreamsworld2518
    @sweetdreamsworld2518 4 года назад +3

    Consistently, and not quitting is the key 🔑

  • @Thats_So_Kay
    @Thats_So_Kay 4 года назад +2

    Patricia you are such a babe 😍 whenever I’m about to film a RUclips video for my channel I always tell myself that Patricia bright said “you don’t have to be great to start but you have to start to be great” and it motivates me every time ❤️ such an inspiration x

  • @B.Champagne
    @B.Champagne 4 года назад +49

    I was just thinking about how easily I give up on goals.

    • @dontskipabeat8072
      @dontskipabeat8072 4 года назад +2

      Atleast add a capital B lol

    • @B.Champagne
      @B.Champagne 4 года назад +1

      @@dontskipabeat8072 exactly! Lol. We're a tad bit smarter than that.

  • @thewealthwarren6940
    @thewealthwarren6940 4 года назад +3

    Love that advice about setting small & achievable goals... So many of go for pie in the sky goals which can actually have a demoralising effect, as opposed to smaller achievable goals which encourage us as we smash them 👌🏾👏🏾

  • @melbrowntv
    @melbrowntv 4 года назад +11

    The break is really THAT GIRL Patricia! No one is doing this the way YOU do it 💅🏾

  • @veganregion
    @veganregion 4 года назад +4

    I didn't click the notification, the notification clicked me! Let me get my note pad because I know Miss Patricia is coming with that reliable information 🙌🏾

  • @jesslooks6496
    @jesslooks6496 4 года назад +3

    This video came just in time. I am setting goals to quit my job so I can focus on my accounting degree 🙌🏾

  • @Cleanthenmalope
    @Cleanthenmalope 4 года назад +3

    You are just an ANGEL OF FINANCE, the break is the Thing🤗

  • @InfinitelyASMR
    @InfinitelyASMR 4 года назад +3

    Congrats on 300k! You’re a legend ❤️

  • @maryn9167
    @maryn9167 4 года назад +1

    Its been a year since I started my business from home but I've had some health issues and with covid its set me back and I've lost that momentum and drive. Health really is wealth, without it everything else stands still. I hope that 2021 will be a good year for me and everyone else. 🙏 love this platform Patricia, you are a lady of many talents ❤ you always inspire me soo much.

  • @kieshaarielle
    @kieshaarielle 4 года назад +5

    _Atomic Habits_ is a very good book and it gives really good and practical ways to change bad habits to be more productive.

  • @AyaEgbuho
    @AyaEgbuho 4 года назад +5

    This here!!!!! I NEED this video!!!🙌🏿🙌🏾🙌🏿🙌🏾🎉🎊

  • @cymonearcher4882
    @cymonearcher4882 4 года назад +4

    YASS!! Perfect timing because today another new semester started for me.

  • @marlinaquiroz06
    @marlinaquiroz06 4 года назад

    This is my new favorite channel!!! Im watching nonstop while being in bed sick :(. but I know as soon as I get better ill be 100 times smarter from all this content so I can be the best version of myself! THANK UUUUUU

  • @healthytoni1866
    @healthytoni1866 4 года назад

    Thank you for putting it in to prospective. I get stressed and overwhelmed before I even begin sometimes! Thank you!!

  • @themoneyhack8693
    @themoneyhack8693 4 года назад +2

    Before you even begin to think about saving money, you'll need to change your money mindset. Because you see if you change your mindset about money, you tend to make better choices about how to overcome challenges. So know that the power of positive thinking really does matter.

    • @themoneyhack8693
      @themoneyhack8693 4 года назад

      Setting goals helps trigger new behaviors, helps guide your focus, and helps you sustain that momentum in life. Goals also help align your focus and promote a sense of self-mastery.

  • @estherbatu
    @estherbatu 4 года назад +2

    Working hard to achieve my goals here on RUclips - Consistency truly is key!
    But still remembering to enjoy the process along the way!

  • @AccordingtoVee
    @AccordingtoVee 4 года назад +14

    I have to read this Atomic Habits 😅 you're always talking about it.

  • @KessaBeth
    @KessaBeth 4 года назад +10

    "DISCIPLINE + CONSISTENCY triumphs PASSION + TALENT!" I heard this from RUclipsr by Paula Pwla on her '5 THINGS I WISH I KNEW AT 20!' (I encourage you to watch!) Its amazing advice likewise to what Patricia has said! It's all about our commitment. Let's not look back on life regretting what we DID NOT do.

  • @angelao4402
    @angelao4402 4 года назад

    My problem usually comes in when I achieve my goal faster than I thought I would. I just end sitting there all wide-eyed for a few days wondering how I did that! Then i start wondering if perhaps my goals were too small. I see now that I have a problem with consistency. Keep your videos coming! They're a great help.

  • @LifeEllen
    @LifeEllen 4 года назад

    I have been so good at focusing on my goals lately... but habit is what is getting me there🌸

  • @newgrowthclay
    @newgrowthclay 4 года назад +2

    Another great video. I have a list of what I call "Focus Goals", why that name, just simply because those are what I'll he focusing on. They are big goals, such as finish my MSc, buying property, etc.
    The steps to getting there, I don't necessarily write down as goals. Like for instance to finish school I know I have to pass my classes, hence, I work hard to attain good grades.
    I am proud to say that I drafted these goals at the beginning of July and have ticked off two things. 👏👏👏 One of them I ticked off today 😋.... 🚗✔
    I say all this to say draft your goals in a fashion that works best for you in achieving them. For some you have to write down every single step. For others just writing down the end goal is enough to keep the focus!!

  • @Yaaae92
    @Yaaae92 4 года назад +1

    Consistency & discipline are the keys to success! Love the book Atomic Habits - one of my all-time fave books! Thanks Patricia for this vid!

  • @gigib7510
    @gigib7510 4 года назад +11

    Big sis Patricia getting my money right!!

  • @Devamsha
    @Devamsha 4 года назад

    Patricia I LOVE this video!! It touches on so many things I believe in too - especially the whole S.M.A.R.T. goals concept. A book I'm reading referenced that study about having one goal v many too, I think there's a sweet spot of 3 goals for me.
    I've got a system I set up to track these goals & I'm releasing as a YT vid on it next week, defo linking back to this video as the basis of why you should systematically track goal progress!!
    Lots of love and thanks for dropping these personal growth gems on us xxx

  • @Shirellmybelle
    @Shirellmybelle 4 года назад +1

    Be specific when setting my goals...good word.❤️️

  • @DS-qo2pz
    @DS-qo2pz 4 года назад +1

    Love your videos! Very inspiring! I would like to see video from you about how do you plan on more practical way, because you are a pro in that! 😁What do you use for planning? Apps, soft aware or note and pen? What is the most important for planning? Difference in planning of short and long term goals, how often do you revise, manage between them and etc? Thank you ❤️

  • @andriarobinson4498
    @andriarobinson4498 4 года назад

    So needed this! Definitely needed to reevaluate my goals so not to be forever defeated.

  • @hettyj8335
    @hettyj8335 4 года назад +4

    You look fabulous as usual while teaching us how to make money moves.

  • @FaceLifeOpenMinded
    @FaceLifeOpenMinded 4 года назад

    Wow the ‘stepping stone’ thing really changes the whole ball game 🤯 Thanks for the solid tips, girl!

  • @megshawskitchen
    @megshawskitchen 4 года назад +5

    Quote of the day 9:58 "Not Everybody Needs to know what your goals are because they can sometimes be demotivating" Patricia 2020

  • @Sofiexo
    @Sofiexo 4 года назад

    I really needed this, I have sooo many things in mind now that I know what I want to do after college but I gotta start writing them down and directing myself into the right direction! Lovely video :)

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 года назад +1

    For me the accountability is key 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @oba3600
    @oba3600 4 года назад

    Your videos are great. They've really helped me out since I've been watching them. Keep going, you're doing amazing.

  • @medelinanhambe9138
    @medelinanhambe9138 4 года назад

    It's fun how I found out you channel during my individual English lessons research, and now I am learning English (my main goal) from your videos and business skills (thing I have never thought I needed). You motivate me! (By the way guys, in case of some spelling mistakes or other, please, correct me).

  • @akifahm6624
    @akifahm6624 4 года назад

    You are the one and ONLY youtuber whose notification bell I turned on!

  • @djmeat16
    @djmeat16 4 года назад +7

    Patricia, can you tell us a little bit more about your businesses? You've mentioned a few times (in a few videos) that you have several businesses that you run. I'd like to know more about them if you don't mind sharing.

  • @browneyez92100
    @browneyez92100 4 года назад

    So many points made! Thanks for sharing Patricia! Xx

  • @SolaPatronne
    @SolaPatronne 4 года назад

    Love this woman 🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @carmellabrown3335
    @carmellabrown3335 4 года назад

    Focusing on one thing is so key

  • @khareywanga4613
    @khareywanga4613 4 года назад

    Congratulations Patricia on 300K subbies...🎉🎊💃🏾💕💕💃🏾🎉🎊Well done

  • @pretty_e_tube
    @pretty_e_tube 4 года назад +1

    Omgosh “no one says you should slap yourself in a corner” 😭😭

  • @joymae
    @joymae 4 года назад +3

    Wow congrats on 300k subs!!!

  • @annaclairecodling6716
    @annaclairecodling6716 4 года назад

    Love this video and I NEEDED this right now! So motivating! I set up my own illustration business nearly a year ago now and I definitely agree with a lot of these points! Thank you for being a great inspiration Patricia!

  • @ireneireneey9461
    @ireneireneey9461 4 года назад

    I'm happy you are finally wearing a foundation shade that matches ur skin tone. u look good!

  • @feefs2139
    @feefs2139 4 года назад

    Happiness is just a mood. You can never just "be happy." This life is not meant for that. You can be grateful, and you can be content. Which will lead to a much more peaceful life. Because at the end of the day you could want to be a mother so bad.. then when you get blessed with that you will want something else to make you happy. You will always chase happiness.

  • @ImadeSamantha
    @ImadeSamantha 4 года назад +1

    I FRICKIN LOVE THIS CHAANNNEEELLLLLLLL 🥺

  • @justtece
    @justtece 4 года назад

    Right on time with this. I have been super unmotivated lately.

  • @ShondraRenae
    @ShondraRenae 4 года назад

    Omg Patricia you made this just in time 💕💕

  • @hannahc2836
    @hannahc2836 4 года назад +2

    “Right - I’ve hit that goal, I’m going to sit down” sounds like me 😕 I like your tips though, thank you 😊

  • @Flyboyed
    @Flyboyed 4 года назад

    I am loving The Break.

  • @JtruUk
    @JtruUk 4 года назад

    I needed to hear this today. Thanks Patricia!

  • @pumpkinsouffle17
    @pumpkinsouffle17 4 года назад

    the journey is everything

  • @rhiannameer299
    @rhiannameer299 4 года назад +2

    Can you do a more in depth video of buying a house (UK) for first time buyers, what if I am a first time buyer but my partner isnt, can we still get those benefits or not? Thank you !!! :) xx

  • @Zzzoomin
    @Zzzoomin 4 года назад

    Love love love these videos! I recently made Tim Ferriss' 6-month/12-month dreamline goal exercise on a spreadsheet found it really helpful as you need to breakdown the tasks and costs to get you there. Have couple more months to go to know if it's working in the end or not, and if not I still got the insight :)

  • @nanaeghan6024
    @nanaeghan6024 4 года назад

    We can actually apply this in all aspects of life. Woohoo.Small + Specific + Consistent = Goals 🤗.

  • @muahchelle21
    @muahchelle21 4 года назад

    While we're on the subject of books , i read your book and enjoyed it. I'll be sharing my review on my book page soon 😊💜.

  • @VivienneConnolly11
    @VivienneConnolly11 4 года назад

    Excellent informative video, love your content , thankyou xx

  • @haseena1001
    @haseena1001 4 года назад

    Hi Patricia - Amazing value as always!

  • @LiaIrin
    @LiaIrin 4 года назад

    As always a great video 💕 great tips and I completely agree with all that you said x

  • @HowDoYouDo_
    @HowDoYouDo_ 4 года назад

    Love your videos Patricia!

  • @makeupswatchfan575
    @makeupswatchfan575 4 года назад

    Goals staring at us 👀🤣😂
    Love this video 😍❤️

  • @chloebkay
    @chloebkay 4 года назад +1

    I’m just obsessed .... ✌🏽🙌🏽

  • @lorrainemaexo
    @lorrainemaexo 4 года назад +1

    Just in time!

  • @DrJessicaKatanga
    @DrJessicaKatanga 4 года назад

    Just subscribed to Blinkist with your code, thank you! I’ll be keeping it after the seven day trial - I think it’ll be an amazing investment 😌😌

  • @LewisBrain
    @LewisBrain 4 года назад

    i need to learn to enjoy my jurney on getting to my end goal more. I seem to put such pressure on myself and it leave me feeling unhappy and depressed in life.

    • @LewisBrain
      @LewisBrain 4 года назад

      @The break How do I learn about that?

  • @janvinaga7783
    @janvinaga7783 4 года назад

    sharing your knowledge is powerful 🙌 right now I'm reading power of habit . Your video came right in time i was little upset about my admission in uk , I'm in different country ( India ) wanted to do to styling Diploma but because of covid-19 they stopped my education loan. Will try again after a month or so,Thank you for sharing 💖💐

  • @ivyxmxk
    @ivyxmxk 4 года назад

    Amazing video Patricia 😊 You look a lot like Maureen here!

  • @charlotteecooperr
    @charlotteecooperr 4 года назад

    This is so freakin useful for goal setting~ definitely taking away these tips!

  • @shuharaahmed728
    @shuharaahmed728 4 года назад

    Patricia please do a video for first time renters! I'm in a situation where I might need to be out the house asap

  • @rubiojimenez9611
    @rubiojimenez9611 4 года назад +42

    The rich stay rich by investing like and investing without stopping then the poor stay poor by spending like the rich yet not investing like the rich,

    • @perezquinones3364
      @perezquinones3364 4 года назад

      Well said👏
      You are right, investing is the key

    • @rodriguezzapatero7308
      @rodriguezzapatero7308 4 года назад

      Well that's generally true its concerning that several of the richest most successful investors are sitting on the sidelines right now and waiting for a better entry point

    • @fernandezanna6452
      @fernandezanna6452 4 года назад

      So true lol, it doesn't make sense

    • @gordonlarry6524
      @gordonlarry6524 4 года назад

      It can be said a little simpler, if you want to be rich then focus on saving and investing, if you want to be poor then focus on spending

    • @mhfin3902
      @mhfin3902 4 года назад

      @the stock crash is just inevitable that's what you just have to understand

  • @KellyDante
    @KellyDante 4 года назад +1

    Notification squad here! 🛎

  • @thehighvaluedlady
    @thehighvaluedlady 4 года назад

    I needed to hear this. thanks a lot

  • @hennynaaay4258
    @hennynaaay4258 4 года назад

    the "do I just be happy now" is me lol

  • @coffeeaddict_84
    @coffeeaddict_84 4 года назад

    A Much Needed Video. Great Content. Thank you.. ❤

  • @jambohomeventures
    @jambohomeventures 4 года назад +2

    Sticking to goals...I think this is where the trait of stubbornness pays off as much as people can’t stand a stubborn person.

  • @MsChiomaO
    @MsChiomaO 4 года назад +4

    I know this one will hit me on the head like hammer 😔.... let me be watching

  • @Calycious_Loves
    @Calycious_Loves 4 года назад +1

    A process indeed.

  • @emmanueljoseph5443
    @emmanueljoseph5443 4 года назад

    Nice video. Meanwhile congratulation on your 300k subscribers base.

  • @Zeneve-Jade
    @Zeneve-Jade 4 года назад

    I needed this video in my life❤❤❤..Cause its hard sometimes😥😥