@@RemedyEverything How so? I feel it was to embody what you wanted, you did what it took as a baby, so what changed as you got older? I feel throghout the duration of the video it stuck to that, basically breaking that inner b*tch we call excuses when as a baby there were none, but that’s just me, we entitled to our opinions 🙏🏾
My takeaways: You can't fake true confidence. It comes from within. Be yourself, be honest, stop people-pleasing & learn to say NO, have a sense of purpose, challenge yourself & move towards your fears, get comfortable being uncomfortable, and learn to self-validate & get approval from yourself. Not gonna lie there's a LOT of inner work that needs to be done on my part, but gotta take it day by day. Just wanted to show some kind of support and really appreciate the video. It's needed for a lot of us men today.
the one thing that helps me a lot is semen retention, gym and eating clean all the time. the confidence comes by itself after some time. do the work now
It also comes through competence, don't neglect that part. Become good at something you really like, if it is something which is held to a high standard by society the impact will be even higher, because you will find yourself in an upwards spiral of getting compliments/looks which will make you more confident and by that you carry yourself even more confidently and get more looks/compliments etc. Also establish this kind of cycle within yourself, don't let it depend on outside approval, become content just beeing by yourself too.
The more fit and lean i get the more confident i become naturally.. its like when im fit even when im tired af i still have the ability to keep going..
Building confidence is the ultimate key, I would also suggest to learn how to fight, I'm a self taught kick boxer, I train for self defense not to compete, and one thing iv noticed is my confidence is through the roof, but I am not cocky at all, fighting gave me the assurance that I can protect my future lady, my family, and myself alot of men are very weak in this area so iv noticed, try it and watch how confident you get and watch how people respect you
@bean7 start as soon as u can, trust me it's a tool you will have with you wherever you go, a gun or a knife can only get u so far, but learning how to use your hands and legs, now that's a dangerous man 😈
People don't respect you fr, they just scared and willing to tolerate you because they don't have the power to change that. They tolerate you because when shit hits the fan they can run to you but other than that I bet some folks don't like you fr. Nothing to do with respect, that word these days has a whole different meaning and holds almost no weight now
@@heyzeuss1648 yup, but fighting gives u a different kind of confidence like "no one can f with me" and ppl can sense it, at my last job ppl would talk shit all day, goof around etc. At my new job I switched it up, and everyone in this place respects me, they might not like me secretly but they all respect me, there's no 1 dude that will f with me, again I bring a very calm and friendly aura but ppl know what I'm capable of lol now when u build this confidence you really and I mean really don't give a f about who likes and hates u lol it comes with the package haha
@@heyzeuss1648with that logic, every little advantage you have in life is a reason ppl just “tolerate” you. Respect in this context is “I know not to try this person with my low-level and low-vibrational behavior. However yes we know respect is also given based on your character. But let’s not pretend you don’t get respect by ppl knowing you take care of yourself and can protect yourself. Most ppl, especially if you have good character, would like to be around ppl like that.
Cuzzo, the way you did the comparison with the baby was the most intelligent way to bury this message into my head daily, thank you for making it so simple.
Good vid bro. I'm approaching 40 and fighting with all I have to redeem the time. I've already lost 43 pounds and turning into a beast in the gym. Now I'm learning about this SR and going 2 weeks strong so far. I'm not ready to give up yet
Peace! I want to thank you for this video, it is the first video I heard from you. I was driving from work while listening to you and let me tell you…. You definitely put that FIRE under my butt (hehe). I started a business and never really went hard on marketing my business or myself. I literally pulled into a Walmart parking lot and put ALL my business cards on people's cars while listening to you. The next day I planted all my Lawn signs that I held on for months, THANK YOU!!! You are changing lives!
One of the best ways to gain confidence, as in a no fcks given level of confidence is #1 Hit the Gym and get shredded (or bulked) and #2 Learn to fight (boxing and/or jiu jitsu). These two alone will give you so much confidence, you will literally walk around not giving af. Why would you when you know you can beat 95% of men you encounter and two, you intimidate men with your physique and also attract women sexually at the same time.
@@pain1427 personally i wouldnt do it. motorcycles are the most dangerous vehicle to ride its like asking to get into an accident. nothing wrong with driving a sick looking car
Said it all in just one video 🗣️ Big credit to you bruh 🫡 Keep on and I pray your channel explodes cuz sometimes people don’t like to hear the factz and that’s what u speak all the times 🤝🙏🏾 Whenever u feel like giving up on anything just watch his videos!!
And i watched the whole video too, nothing about what he said changed how i feel about myself lol honestly i just don't care anymore what's the point of anything really, nothing matters in the end. Working out, being strong physically and mentally, being well equipped to handle any situation won't change the fact that I am scared and feel fear. I could be cut like bro here, have money, be strapped, and still be scared to say hi to a girl or get into a fight, it just doesn't matter what you do in life because everyday is a test of some form and i have grown weary of always trying. Always fighting, always having to prove myself just always having to do something about anything and everything. Im just tired fr i give up
Another tip: You "Don't give a fuck" to anybody. Not your bros. Not your siblings. Not your parents (at leadt be respectful). Confidence and aggorance goes thru da roof. ❤
I am educated, outgoing, always into new things, funny, take care of my appearance , family orientated, work out 5 days a week and do boxing on the weekend. I may not get payed that much at the moment but have a job in a stem feild yet I still lack confidence. To the point a girl that had liked me "hit me with im not ready for a relationship". Why am I the one feeling inadequate, like I messed up, and I'm not going to find someone better than her.
Like the other commenter said, the baby analogy is very good. We aint care about other people thoughts we were focused simply on ourselves and our value. We needa tap back in to that mode.
I wouldn’t say being stuck in your comfortable zone is being a “bitch” by any means but I understand the sentiment. Sometimes it is as simple as not having the information/guidance needed at the time even if you had the willpower. Not knowing any better & having to learn through time & trial and error is very difficult & I commend anyone who has done that for themselves.👏🏾
All you need is faith my brother. I just want to open your mind deeper on how faith is a surety of everything inside and out while confidence is all about yourself. From a righteous perspective people respect your faith because there will be deception,confusion,distraction,lies,rumors,etc but with God theres always recollection,epiphanies, trials,testimonies,and tribulations but too much confidence builds ego and blinds you from people giving you a humble approach. Im not saying lower yourself for anyone but sometimes people have good intentions and if your too prideful youll miss a blessing worth more than silver. It is wise to be humble pride only leads to shame. Peace bredren. All glory and praises to the MOST HIGH by the grace of Jesus Christ with the guidance of the Holy spirit
The best part about this video was were you spoke about girls and you liking them. I missed out on a fee women because my friends thought they were not cute.
What a GREAT video man!! God bless you bro!! I needed to hear that!! I felt in my soul bro! God bless you for real!! Gratitude 🙏🏽🤝 Edit: I even came back here to saved this video 🤣 but for real tho, so much good info, knowledge, motivation etc. In just one video.. you did awesome man! I don’t doubt God used you at this moment because godamn man!!.. that was on point, perfect! I bet you helped a lot people!! I really appreciate dawg 🙏🏽🤝 God bless you brother 🙏🏽
Great msg brother, I used to be very confident and believed in myself - I started a business - went door to door selling to people (recommend this to build you up)was in amazing shape, then life hit me and sent me a thousand miles underground and lost everything including the view of myself. I ended up getting married and raising kids but never got it all the way back up until these last two - three .. months I feel like it is growing in me. I'm in shape my skill set is better then ever. Only issue I have is that I feel like I'm out growing my marriage something I did when I was low. Not sure what to do.. don't want to leave but sometimes it feels like it would actually be better for everyone. Maybe I'm being selfish but if you knew my life you'd know I have never put myself first and now I'm feeling it.
One of my favorite words is ACCOUNTABILITY, and to me that means you can do whatever you want AS LONG AS YOU EXCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES. So if you choose if you choose to stay in marriage that doesn’t seem worth it then that’s nobody’s fault but your own. You have the right to be happy and fulfilled. I would also maybe speaking to the partner about your concerns and stuff first and see if it changes or makes a difference for you.
Would you say that deliberately putting your self in new situations that you not comfortable with makes you grow as a person? Or do you play it safe and believe that you are headed in the right direction? Be “ lie “ ve , is it a lie to believe shit is going to be good with the right direction so do you let life take you on the journey?
Comfort is an illusion that keeps us from living to the fullest Every time you stretch your comfort zone you're expanding your consciousness. So always look for new experiences and eliminate your comfort zone
Wow bro that baby analogy is profound and true
Construction criticism. It was mid compared to the topic. (Watch the emotional response)
@@RemedyEverything Great way to start the video tho man you got my attention haha
@@RemedyEverything How so? I feel it was to embody what you wanted, you did what it took as a baby, so what changed as you got older? I feel throghout the duration of the video it stuck to that, basically breaking that inner b*tch we call excuses when as a baby there were none, but that’s just me, we entitled to our opinions 🙏🏾
My takeaways: You can't fake true confidence. It comes from within. Be yourself, be honest, stop people-pleasing & learn to say NO, have a sense of purpose, challenge yourself & move towards your fears, get comfortable being uncomfortable, and learn to self-validate & get approval from yourself. Not gonna lie there's a LOT of inner work that needs to be done on my part, but gotta take it day by day. Just wanted to show some kind of support and really appreciate the video. It's needed for a lot of us men today.
the one thing that helps me a lot is semen retention, gym and eating clean all the time. the confidence comes by itself after some time. do the work now
It also comes through competence, don't neglect that part. Become good at something you really like, if it is something which is held to a high standard by society the impact will be even higher, because you will find yourself in an upwards spiral of getting compliments/looks which will make you more confident and by that you carry yourself even more confidently and get more looks/compliments etc. Also establish this kind of cycle within yourself, don't let it depend on outside approval, become content just beeing by yourself too.
The more fit and lean i get the more confident i become naturally.. its like when im fit even when im tired af i still have the ability to keep going..
PREACH! I lost 90lbs, 5'8 and under 190 lbs finally and belly getting flatter and flatter. Noone is telling me I am ugly. Period.
when I heard the rain this was a full blessing coming through.
I was about to say the same thing!
You a real nigga fr, appreciate this video
💯
Building confidence is the ultimate key, I would also suggest to learn how to fight, I'm a self taught kick boxer, I train for self defense not to compete, and one thing iv noticed is my confidence is through the roof, but I am not cocky at all, fighting gave me the assurance that I can protect my future lady, my family, and myself alot of men are very weak in this area so iv noticed, try it and watch how confident you get and watch how people respect you
I figured this is what i was missing as a man. I’m 22 and about to start boxing soon. Just going to give it my all one day at a time
@bean7 start as soon as u can, trust me it's a tool you will have with you wherever you go, a gun or a knife can only get u so far, but learning how to use your hands and legs, now that's a dangerous man 😈
People don't respect you fr, they just scared and willing to tolerate you because they don't have the power to change that. They tolerate you because when shit hits the fan they can run to you but other than that I bet some folks don't like you fr. Nothing to do with respect, that word these days has a whole different meaning and holds almost no weight now
@@heyzeuss1648 yup, but fighting gives u a different kind of confidence like "no one can f with me" and ppl can sense it, at my last job ppl would talk shit all day, goof around etc. At my new job I switched it up, and everyone in this place respects me, they might not like me secretly but they all respect me, there's no 1 dude that will f with me, again I bring a very calm and friendly aura but ppl know what I'm capable of lol now when u build this confidence you really and I mean really don't give a f about who likes and hates u lol it comes with the package haha
@@heyzeuss1648with that logic, every little advantage you have in life is a reason ppl just “tolerate” you. Respect in this context is “I know not to try this person with my low-level and low-vibrational behavior. However yes we know respect is also given based on your character. But let’s not pretend you don’t get respect by ppl knowing you take care of yourself and can protect yourself. Most ppl, especially if you have good character, would like to be around ppl like that.
He is spiritual at the core and knows himself. Mad respect a lot men need to go within and do that inner work to get this cold 🥶
Bro woke up and decided to speak FACTS
Cuzzo, the way you did the comparison with the baby was the most intelligent way to bury this message into my head daily, thank you for making it so simple.
Good vid bro. I'm approaching 40 and fighting with all I have to redeem the time. I've already lost 43 pounds and turning into a beast in the gym. Now I'm learning about this SR and going 2 weeks strong so far. I'm not ready to give up yet
beautiful video and then the way the rain started as you started to speak on God was crazy
The Baby analogy hit different
The deepest, realist advice I may have ever heard.
8:45 you spitting real facts bro I gotta give you for that one I once was driving and got lost so I was worrying then found my way
Bro sat me down and poured values in me... When you don't have purpose & direction how can you be confident? Hits hard
8:55 is my favorite part 🩷😂
One of the best videos I’ve ever seen
Your delivery is spot on 💯 this is what men need, tough love. Turn that stress, anger to aggression and attack the ish you want. Lets go 💯
Peace! I want to thank you for this video, it is the first video I heard from you. I was driving from work while listening to you and let me tell you…. You definitely put that FIRE under my butt (hehe).
I started a business and never really went hard on marketing my business or myself. I literally pulled into a Walmart parking lot and put ALL my business cards on people's cars while listening to you. The next day I planted all my Lawn signs that I held on for months, THANK YOU!!!
You are changing lives!
I'm grateful the words I spoke inspired you.
Thanks for sharing too🔥💯
Needed that morning motvation 🙏💯👑
bro i locked in soon as you dropped the baby analogy I fuck with it
Needed this bro. Imma ask that girl out. You just earned a sub g
gotta update us bra
she’s only human everything you need is in you good luck bro
It ain't even if she says yes or no, but the confidence and action that you took to do something that you wanted.
This 🥶🎯@@SwordStormer
Update?
One of the best ways to gain confidence, as in a no fcks given level of confidence is #1 Hit the Gym and get shredded (or bulked) and #2 Learn to fight (boxing and/or jiu jitsu). These two alone will give you so much confidence, you will literally walk around not giving af. Why would you when you know you can beat 95% of men you encounter and two, you intimidate men with your physique and also attract women sexually at the same time.
Ride a motorcycle it gives u more confidence too
@@pain1427 personally i wouldnt do it. motorcycles are the most dangerous vehicle to ride its like asking to get into an accident. nothing wrong with driving a sick looking car
yo you spit some gems in this video💯💯💯💯
Said it all in just one video 🗣️
Big credit to you bruh 🫡
Keep on and I pray your channel explodes cuz sometimes people don’t like to hear the factz and that’s what u speak all the times 🤝🙏🏾
Whenever u feel like giving up on anything just watch his videos!!
Thank you my brother🙏👊
The tears are rolling down my face right now. No words.
The sermon! Very well said.
Nothing gives you more confidence than having a draco
Fucking jokes 😂
True
Fasho
😂😂😂😂
lol
the beginning hit different
Regaining trust to thyself - shit way too real right there
the rain is so perfect
Thank you for this message ❤
You most definitely practice SR. You a real one bro
And i watched the whole video too, nothing about what he said changed how i feel about myself lol honestly i just don't care anymore what's the point of anything really, nothing matters in the end. Working out, being strong physically and mentally, being well equipped to handle any situation won't change the fact that I am scared and feel fear. I could be cut like bro here, have money, be strapped, and still be scared to say hi to a girl or get into a fight, it just doesn't matter what you do in life because everyday is a test of some form and i have grown weary of always trying. Always fighting, always having to prove myself just always having to do something about anything and everything. Im just tired fr i give up
Keep going it’s a lifestyle earned not given you gotta work daily at it. Consistency is key?!
The cold water helped cleared my skin fasho embrace the hard shit 💪🏾💯
We are indeed, “powerful beyond measure.” Stay different.
Speaking the Truth we need to Hear
Another tip: You "Don't give a fuck" to anybody. Not your bros. Not your siblings. Not your parents (at leadt be respectful).
Confidence and aggorance goes thru da roof. ❤
I am educated, outgoing, always into new things, funny, take care of my appearance , family orientated, work out 5 days a week and do boxing on the weekend. I may not get payed that much at the moment but have a job in a stem feild yet I still lack confidence. To the point a girl that had liked me "hit me with im not ready for a relationship". Why am I the one feeling inadequate, like I messed up, and I'm not going to find someone better than her.
Fuck her it’s all about you.
Good shit.
Just found this video you are straight PREACHING. I seriously needed this you spoke words of wisdom bro appreciate you for this
the fact that you not telling me but TELLING me like yes sir I'm listening
stumbled on your vids a couple days ago, keep going man, you have a great message❤
🙏🙏
Like the other commenter said, the baby analogy is very good. We aint care about other people thoughts we were focused simply on ourselves and our value. We needa tap back in to that mode.
Bro.. Thank you. That’s all I have to say
I wouldn’t say being stuck in your comfortable zone is being a “bitch” by any means but I understand the sentiment. Sometimes it is as simple as not having the information/guidance needed at the time even if you had the willpower. Not knowing any better & having to learn through time & trial and error is very difficult & I commend anyone who has done that for themselves.👏🏾
Speak Facts 💪
TALK THAT TALK BROO!!🔥☄️💥
All you need is faith my brother. I just want to open your mind deeper on how faith is a surety of everything inside and out while confidence is all about yourself. From a righteous perspective people respect your faith because there will be deception,confusion,distraction,lies,rumors,etc but with God theres always recollection,epiphanies, trials,testimonies,and tribulations but too much confidence builds ego and blinds you from people giving you a humble approach. Im not saying lower yourself for anyone but sometimes people have good intentions and if your too prideful youll miss a blessing worth more than silver. It is wise to be humble pride only leads to shame. Peace bredren. All glory and praises to the MOST HIGH by the grace of Jesus Christ with the guidance of the Holy spirit
Respect brother. Last couple minutes hit different.
Thank you bro!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you brotha
Much love and success to yall
Who ready for this ⬇️
2:42 gaining your aura is fucking real
Crazy video man👏🏻 thank you
No Slave Gang Gang Gang ✅👌🏾💯
Needed to hear that , I had this whole mindset and lost sight of it ❤❤❤
Bro your very intelligent, i appreciate those words. Keep saying more in your incoming videos.❤
U a smart one Brother, greetings from Germany.
🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪💪🏾🔥
So many random thoughts but useful thoughts really make this video the only thing anyone needs to be confident. Well said brother 💪
Bro looking so confident he could defend his mustache 😅❤❤
Love this video man you look great
The best part about this video was were you spoke about girls and you liking them. I missed out on a fee women because my friends thought they were not cute.
Real talk. No bs.
talk dat shit bro 💯💯💯 Really be speakin faxxts 👏🏾👏🏾💯💯
just found this now it's a def sub, i'm all for this energy, respekt
Well said God. Just subscribed notifications bell on!!!
bless you all
What a GREAT video man!! God bless you bro!! I needed to hear that!! I felt in my soul bro! God bless you for real!! Gratitude 🙏🏽🤝
Edit: I even came back here to saved this video 🤣 but for real tho, so much good info, knowledge, motivation etc. In just one video.. you did awesome man! I don’t doubt God used you at this moment because godamn man!!.. that was on point, perfect! I bet you helped a lot people!! I really appreciate dawg 🙏🏽🤝 God bless you brother 🙏🏽
Needed to hear this thanks bro
3 seconds in i know this man knows what he’s talking about
He the goat I swear
Great video
Great msg brother, I used to be very confident and believed in myself - I started a business - went door to door selling to people (recommend this to build you up)was in amazing shape, then life hit me and sent me a thousand miles underground and lost everything including the view of myself.
I ended up getting married and raising kids but never got it all the way back up until these last two - three .. months I feel like it is growing in me. I'm in shape my skill set is better then ever. Only issue I have is that I feel like I'm out growing my marriage something I did when I was low. Not sure what to do.. don't want to leave but sometimes it feels like it would actually be better for everyone. Maybe I'm being selfish but if you knew my life you'd know I have never put myself first and now I'm feeling it.
One of my favorite words is ACCOUNTABILITY, and to me that means you can do whatever you want AS LONG AS YOU EXCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES. So if you choose if you choose to stay in marriage that doesn’t seem worth it then that’s nobody’s fault but your own. You have the right to be happy and fulfilled. I would also maybe speaking to the partner about your concerns and stuff first and see if it changes or makes a difference for you.
@@lexbogie1 wise words, thank you
Only video any young buck needs to see
right on brotha!
I like you dude keep making content like this
Solid
Camera next level.. looks like a movie
Algorithm is lit! Keep it up my man!
THIS IS MY GOD DAMN MAFUGGIN MONTH, ****A!
Dammm
I appreciate the video 🤝
First 2 minutes Well said Brother, This Will Motivate Many at all levels Like I said, well said
Thank you
Good shit
17:15 💯 I wasn't to travel and be successful
faxxx!!
damn bro great thoughts it hits me damn fucking things
this video was shot Throw a window.. this Quality was so damn clear! The message was clear too!
Appreciate you watching my brother💪
if i had those glasses i would be confident always
Then get em g
@@gab6.62.- yea for sho
Earned a subscriber brotha great shit here
Greetings from indonesia 🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩
👊
you can do all this hard shit but you better be sure that its a right piece for the puzzle
Would you say that deliberately putting your self in new situations that you not comfortable with makes you grow as a person? Or do you play it safe and believe that you are headed in the right direction? Be “ lie “ ve , is it a lie to believe shit is going to be good with the right direction so do you let life take you on the journey?
Comfort is an illusion that keeps us from living to the fullest
Every time you stretch your comfort zone you're expanding your consciousness.
So always look for new experiences and eliminate your comfort zone
💯🎯
Appreciate you for taking the time to make this
Needed to hear that bro
My guy what are those glasses called?
Good Game 🔥
Nice video 👍🏿