Your Weight is Keeping You Single? ©
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- Something I've noticed that as overall weight has gone up so has the martial rate gone down.
It's no secret that men, especially higher value men, value beauty in women. And, your beauty has a lot to with your weight.
Today it's not uncommon for many females to weigh as much or even more than her male counterparts. This is having a definite effect on their personal and professional chances.
Starting in 2012 Spelman College ditches all sports to use the money to assist with an ever expanding, no pun intended, and larger incoming freshman class.
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Without a doubt in an already competitive market adding being overweight or obese does not help ones chances.
Is your weight keeping your single?
If so, are you headed towards living and dying alone?
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Umm I don’t know if you live under a rock but tall women exist. I’d look sickly if I was 125 because I’m 5’9. Not every women is going to fit your shitty mold.
What does your say? Oh you don’t have one or any prospects and with your attitude and mouth it’s not a surprise. See more than weight keep some women unattractive and chronically single AF. Gentlemen please take and act accordingly.
Kevin Samuels Agreed. Unsolicited masculine behavior on her part.
5”9 female should weigh 140 pounds at the max
Buff Beard Luxury do y’all know what your asking for?? Y’all asking for slim women. I thought bm didn’t like slim
Let me guess she’s single... Imagine that......
It speaks volumes when you see a woman in shape after the age of 35. That takes discipline and definite action everyday.
35? Lol try after 22/college
@StephanieDotDot Keep at it. It takes 21 days to form a habit; most people try to do too much in the beginning then fall off because it's to drastic of a change. Making small changes to your diet and tracking you workout s will help you greatly.
It stinks because women are designed by nature to put on weight much more than men and in today's society the food is actually sugar/ salt loaded poison even stuff labeled as " healthy" Our jobs are stressful and exercise is not part of our lives. Many are uneducated about this. It does indeed take work and basic nutrition knowledge to stay in shape after 35 unless you are a unicorn with abnormal genes. That's why most women ( and men too but less dramatically) in USA are overweight.
@@TheMariemarie16 Being disciplined with your exercise, translates to discipline in your diet through controlling what goes in your body by planning and cooking your own meals. This discipline then is manifested in other areas of your life whether man or woman. What I should have said is that a man/woman who takes care of themselves and is in shape is not usually attracted to one who isn't.
@Etrop B. I appreciate your comment. 😩 it’s a never ending Battle, so READY to get married and be FAT😊Lol
For anyone who’s serious about losing ... cut your sugar/processed carbs all the way down and walk ... the fat will melt off
Thank you !!
@@chantewaters150 no problem!
Also lots of water, and to much protein turns into carbs. So easy on the protein too. Almonds and pickles are good ways to handle hunger.
@@JuanDuenas1943
Very true. I stock up my purse with a few almond snacks for emergencies because they’re very filling
Thats a BS advice, you can even eat mcdonals and lose weight
Women why wouldn’t you want to be a healthy weight? In these comments some people are triggered and it’s very unbecoming.
Because they only want " band- aids on their insecurity.. Not truth
because they like eating at calorie laced restaurants, drink to much sugary wine, only join a gym to find a sex partner, masturbate with vibrator and then binge on a bag of Doritos watching 2 seasons of "Insecure" in a day in bed. Did I miss anything? Men can spot an out of shape woman a mile away. Then look away as she gets closer. With corona, expect obesity rates to be off the roof.
Because they are lazy, don't want to ensure the pain of working out, and get sexual attention without working out
@@Bhulk79 you do know there are penalties for telling them the TRUTH right?
@@theartfulcodger7459 I know, I know...they are going to come for me...
He is so right! 30 minutes a day can change your body drastically
100%. I did this at the start of 2020. For years I wasn't getting any exercise, though I was keeping my weight reasonable through diet. But I felt soft, so I sacrificed a 1/2 hour of sleep in the morning, getting up at 3:30 instead of 4, and getting in an intense 20 to 30 minutes to kick start the day. With minor diet changes, it melts off of you. You have to be consistent. With the pandemic, I did it twice a day. I went from 212 lbs. to as low as a defined 178 lbs. I usually hover in the low 180s. But it doesn't take a killer workout. Just an intense burst every day.
@@Timoteo4 Try snake diet. It works. One meal every 48hrs or 24hrs. While fasting drink low level salt in water with potassium chloride. You can loose 100lbs in a month. That's how powerful it is. Especially dry fasting...
I walk 5 to 6 miles daily. Lost 22 pounds in 3 months.
I'm an older woman, and started an aerobics routine atleast 5 times a week, and use only 3lb weights. I definitely see results and feel better. Kevin's videos motivated me to get that part of my life together.
When Lizzo's done making money off of big women, she'll drop the weight just like Monique & Adele.
Ndestructible Facts
😂😂😂😂
They like to be misled for some reason.
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Lol so true. Ride the fat train for as long as you can a D once you're done, lose the weight to attract a new audience. Star Jones did it too. M'Onique did a whole movie about Big girls too
In the black community, you’re shamed for wanting to be healthy.
they wanna keep you down.
Not true
Eat and be happy Damnit ..can't please everbody
@@aeerjordan4994 lose the weight and be happier
Absolutely false
I remember your series you made on men last year around this time. I had to. take a good look at myself and dropped 60 pounds in the past year and the ladies DO notice. Women who I never thought would even look my way started hitting on ME. No one wants to be fat.
Congrats!!! That’s awesome!!
Congratulations!!!
In your opinion what’s a healthy weight for a 6’0 y’all man?
Congrats 🎊🎉
@@aprylwalk6887 It depends on the body type, but overall, you should think more in terms of body fat percentage than weight. You want to get to a point where you're at least toned, if not muscular. I'm 6'2" and shaved down to the low 180's from 212 in the past year, with more definition. That's a good target.
Kevin is absolutely right on this for men and women. Nobody is checking for overweight people unless they have a fetish of sorts. As a man I've lost 100lbs and still have 30-40 to go. Let me tell you it's a game changer the attention and attraction you get from the opposite sex. You'll feel healthier and better about yourself. Your confidence will exude and other opportunities will open up to you.
Factz...
And simps
Health is wealth. The body is amazing. You can DAMAGE your body with wrong food, and also FIX your body with the right food, or just water. You will thanks yourself in your 50s and 60s.
Real talk
Such a true statement!!
You will thank yourself everyday. People don't realize how being in good health even helps you when you get injuries. Heal faster and less chance of complications
You are correct! Married 27 yrs with 2 children. At 57, I no longer even desire to eat how I was raised. This started some years ago. My body started craving vegetables and lighter things. I wondered if it was the age progression? No judgement, however, I can't believe how many young women are unfit and overweight! It wasn't like this "in my heyday", we just knew to keep our weight down. What happened? I loathe the term "thick"! No baby, you are fat. They don't even seem to know about good foundation! I'm not talking "waist trainers" either. A good bra is priceless...Good luck ladies.
True, your body will be healthy if you feed the organs.
I’ve dropped 14lb since I started listening to KS 5 weeks ago. And I’m still losing more weight. I listen to his videos to keep me motivated. It works 👍🏾 forget noom 😂 the godfather is all you need
Honestly, this fit for me as well. Hearing him has reaffirmed what I already believed. Great job, girl. You can do it.
Same here girl... 12 lbs down
Have you noticed you're getting more attention from men?
@@stephanietruss404 thank you ☺️
@@JesseJane142 fantastic - keep going ❤️ it’s worth it, isn’t it! I am 😆👍🏾 nearly 20lb down now - I’m now 10lb away from my goal and the closest I’ve been to being a healthy bmi weight in years...
I see constantly on social media women saying “fat doesn’t mean unhealthy and skinny doesn’t mean healthy” 🤦🏾♀️
Completely besides the point. Being able to run a mile without hyperventilating should be goal. Being able to pick up and play with your grandchildren should be the goal....
That requires fitness and healthy eating habits.
Exactly! They are simply deflecting from the fact that you are a healthy Weight, so they use this “argument”. I recently experienced A family member trying to use that same argument against me because I am fit. I proved the point that not only am I a healthy weight (5’4 131lbs), I am also healthy overall.
My BMI is 21.8.
5'11" 156 lbs..Workout 6 days a week, whether at the gym or not. I fight everyday to go because there are so many excuses that pop in my head but i ignore them all and make sure i get it in.
Been Watching you 4 2 weeks & quit smoking - 💣💣💣
CONGRATULATIONS
Congratulations!!!
Sweet
Congrats
congrats bro
I was told to come here. I'm glad that I did I'm over weight. I find a lot of truth to what your saying. My overweight problem comes from depression. I've been through a lot in the past two years. No excuses just the truth! However, my weight is not keeping me single. I'm keeping me single. Seriously, I'm loosing my weight to be healthier and happier for myself. This weight is uncomfortable as hell! I just bought nothing but fruits and veggies. Game on! Blessings to you Mr. Samuels.
yes sis you got this!
Any updates darling?
I’ve lost some pounds and more men are definitely looking my way .
Keep putting in the work...its worth it
You can do anything sis : )
Good job 👏 my sista
Congratulations
I am 5’7 255 lbs my goal is 165 max! I want to be in the best shape to meet my black queen 👑
I like your style man. No bs. Straight facts. Not trying to impress or offend anyone, just giving the honest truth thats sometimes hard to hear. Respects 👊
As a man, Covid hit my lungs, damaged my legs and gave me extra weight. My response? I'm on my treadmill twice a day and I'm lifting. It's "Mind over BS."
I’m binging all the GODFATHERS videos again! He TOLD NO LIES!! Respect Mr Samuels! Thank you. ❤️ REST IN POWER
First and foremost, men, quit lying to women telling them that they are thick when they are obese. If you care about her health, be real with her about that and quit perpetuating delusion mentality.
Thank you exactly
I loooves me a big girl. So Y'all need to mind yalls own business.. Fat girls spoil me
Well spoken amen to that 😂😂😂thank you
No lies written
If her doctor can't talk to her about her weight no one can lol
"Thick is not a word, you are fat" That's a classic line!! Lol 😂😂😂
Except thick is literally a word.
I gained 45 pounds pregnant. Less than six weeks after giving birth, I weighed less than I began at 95 pounds. It just melted off. At 64, at 5’2, I weigh 118-120. Walking and eating raw green salads as the foundation of my diet has keep my weight down. Yes. Eat salad for breakfast instead of cereal, pancakes, oatmeal and other carbs. Thanks dad for teaching me growing up.
I think the title alone triggered some people but it has alot of truth to it.
So grateful for this episode it got my ass in a spin class already down 20 pounds and I look and feel great thanks for the tough love Kevin ❤️
This was a good hard truth video, you stepped on some toes with this one. Men and women
Raw truth.
Classiest show I've witnessed on the black sector of RUclips.
Peace & Love.
As a man, being too thin (skrawny) kept me single. I hit the gym regularly and started putting on muscle and now I am more attractive to women. Appearance matters.
Ladies please its time to get fit. No more excuses. You can do it. But you have to want to lose the weight for your health.
I did a search on size 8 vs 16 (my current size) and a size 8 isn’t tiny but it’s definitely healthy and not unrealistic. I will lose another 50 pounds by next year
Get it!!!!!! We re rooting for you!!!
Ike Ogiamien thank you! I have already lost 20 pounds since April
@@Femmmfatale keep it up
I'm cheering for you. :)
Hope all is going well!
I know when I gain a couple of extra pounds, I don't even want to look at myself. I am into esthetics, so if I am not pleasing to my own eye, I don't feel good about myself. I keep it tight for myself first then men second.
That’s what people need to understand, weight is most beneficial to themselves, not for other people’s pleasure, no one else is living their life but themselves
Same for men too. Got to be in nice shape to be a man on top of his game
Same!
This man is speaking the truth, hopefully some women are listening and really make some lifestyle changes.
Eat clean. Drink water, eat veggies and fish.
80% of fish is farmed in China, soooo...
@@Hottest-in-da-Hood then eat grilled chicken and carne asada
@D.B. Anderson. Not wild caught or fresh Alaskan salmon.
nicely said...i can appreciate and understand this...the whole 'you have a pretty face' didn't really get me anywhere in life.... :/
This is helpful and motivating. No judgement just truth.
Former competitive bodybuilder here. While competing anything over 7% for a man and 10% for a woman is too fat. Most of us after we stop competing still maintain a percentage no more than 10 to 15% M & 15 to 17% for a W. This truly is the best way to judge your physique not only for appearance but especially for your health. Keeping my % down affects everything inside tremendously. It can help but the BMI can’t be trusted. Some people are naturally more muscular than others which will cause a BMI out of range. However most BW that guys say are thick or fine, they’re easily obese no matter how curvy they are. I know what I’m talking about here, I’m speaking from experience. Many are taking high blood pressure pills and insulin because they’re diabetes That’s no way to live so I get a professional body check which will tell me how affective my workouts and diet are. It’s not easy but using hardwork do pay off! Every woman that can maintain a % 15 or less regardless of race is not only going to maintain her health but she’s going to look HOT. Both M&W stop trusting the scales and trust your Bf %. You can’t go wrong...
"You are not "Thick", you are fat!!!"Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You dropped many gems and gave me a lot to think about. Thank you. I do not want to die alone.
You are helping me sir. Thank you.
Friday went to my annual at the V.A. She told me I was 162lbs. I'm 5'4. DAMN!!!! I will be beefing up my workout routines, and cutting back on the sugars!! STAT!!!!!
This isn't about getting a man, but maintaining my LIFE!!
WISH ME LUCK, FOLKS!
🙏🏾😊🙏🏾😊🙏🏾😊🙏🏾😊🙏🏾😊
Half way into video, K.S. hasn't told any lies. No reason for me to have this weight. No children.
good luck, i was a chubby 19yr old until i cut the sugar and started to finally do some work out, to finally look like a man not a boy. still gotta improve for sure but it helps so much already.
Going good?
@@Adonis20529 Still around 162.😩
I have lost inches around stomach though. I've been taking nude videos of myself every other week to see the improvement.
@@Omonike88 hmu on ig adonis205 for tips. I'm a truck driver but I was a certified personal trainer I didn't like the money I was making doing it at the gym.
5'11 1/2, 128lbs. helps me win at life. So does a plant based lifestyle. Health is wealth but most importantly HAPPINESS.
Bless❤
That is a gorgeous picture 😍
@@k-p1425 Thank you my luminous beautiful sister. 😍
Best video yet Kevin. Proud to have you in Atlanta.
It Def affects your dating life. As a woman you know your clothes fit you differently the same out lfit looks totally different in a slimmer and fit frame. Everyone can't be the same true but there is a standard of heath that should be maintained. I lost the weight and gained it back and I see the difference in response.
I enjoy the way you deliver your messages, you're right
As a man I have being over weight an I have been in shape trust me u get more attention from the ladies when your in shape... An look good in your clothes wayyy more attention
@CaramelDlux2013 trying to get back in shape again 😩😩😩🤣
This inspired me to go for a run ❤ I’m 5’4 and 138 lbs (36 years old) and want to stay as fit as possible! This man is speaking the truth and we should use it as a guiding tool and an inspiration, not be mad and angry ❤Thank you Godfather!
Thanks for the video as a obese married black woman, I needed to get myself back together.
The best thing I did was was switch to a Nutritarian Plant Base diet. I went from wearing 2xl to Wearing large, I still have about 20lbs to get to my BMI weight. I’m a guy who was weighing 293lbs and went down to 222lbs.
It's not hard to lose weight as a man because I went from 290 to 230
The average beauty contestant on a global scale is 5’ 8” and they weigh in a range between 115 to 128 pounds. These females just don’t get it. A high value man a majority of the time wants his future wife to look like a beauty pageant contestant. Flawless. Most men want that, but are forced to settle because they are not high value.
I don't believe that I'ma average dude been out of work for over 1yr I won't accept a overweight blk woman I still attract young, fit femine freindly females/ and I let them all know I'm broke so that's not true and I can't beat Dem off with a stick lol
Get real 5ft8 115-128 is underweight and extremely too thin hell even maryline Monroe was heavier and shorter yet dominanted the industry
I only date women under a size 8 but size 4-6 is the sweet spot. I'm very active and enjoy tennis, swimming, indoor rock climbing, etc. so a woman that's in shape is a must. Some of these big women have very nasty attitudes too so I don't understand where that delusional level of self-esteem originates.
I swear they have some of the nastiest attitudes. They get plenty of men trying to sleep with them, because it's so easy, so it inflates their ego. Thats where the foul attitude and slick mouths come from
@@WestCoastAce27 They're trying to get a co-sign for a loan or a car in her name lol. Because you know companies are quicker to hire women because they don't ask for raises and are likely to ay their positions
@@originalman5722 notice how the women look that ride on the back of Harley Davidson's vs how the women that ride on the backs of sports bikes. I know those Harley Davidson women are cosigning and paying on the bike notes the way they look.
@@kleenup2 for real lol... I was watching cheaters, and this dude was messing around on his wife. Man, she was a solid 1 out of 10. It was a hot ass mess lol
I agree with you 100%
I love Your channel so far. You are charming, honest & funny when is necessary. I found Your channel thanks to my friend Bob Plissken. I watched a 12 second video where You say if all your videos are live streams, if you have over 80% of live streams, you are not a content creator. Agree with every word, but I still love Your streams.
The point is her mindset when it comes to living a healthy life. Healthy eating and exercising is normal and not a phase to get a man. It's about setting a proper example for your children when it comes to healthy eating habits. Taking care of your family when preparing food, selecting healthy snacks, and the importance of exercising. All about positive thinking and healthy living.
Tom Po YES!!! Great reference. You really are a movie buff i love it. Old stream i know but I’m hammering through as many as i can start to finish. Great knowledge.
Miss this brother, he was great and always honest and very direct!!
NOPE, my black behind is at the gym at least 3 days a week. I let myself go, but bringing it back stronger than ever. Black women needs to get with it and start working out!
I agree. I am far more attracted to black women with a toned body.
I’m African American and at work all I eat is fruit and veggies. The jokes and hate i get from other black women is sad. Of course they are fat and miserable but I never get that from other races of women.(who also eat right and are slim, married, or engaged and not bitter)
Wow! Makes you wonder 😒
Don't listen to those Big Shirleys. Stay Healthy and Stay Beautiful
@@PharaohIshmail thanks
An older long practicing Doctor once remarked that he has reviewed many different patient's X Ray's and he has never seen a Fat Skeleton ?
😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, as a doctor it's always shocking to see the amount of fat surrounding a normal skeleton, when we scan our obese patients.
I’m not sure how I ended up here , but I’m glad I stumbled upon this conversation ...
So what I heard is if you are over 35 you are not of market value ,if you’re black and obese you’re pretty much cancelled ...
Fat shaming works, to keep your women in line .. and this is what makes women feel better about themselves . No one likes big women, but big men are judged differently...
This is great to know , how men think ... as a woman I would never ask a man why I’m single . What you see is the only thing that matters . That’s a fact ... so thank you for the truthful, and shallow commentary ...
The feeling you get after working out is unexplainable.. I look forward to that feeling 5/6days a week .Once you start seeing results you’ll become addicted , I’ll be 43 in oct and I refuse to be morbidly obese or “ thick”having a nice slim frame like Teyona Taylor or Draya is goals .And I love the way my body looks naked don’t you wanna look good when you f**k .ijs🤷🏽♀️
I've really notice when people who are broken can't get with someone who is healthy because they don't want to level up to meet that standard no lie
Kevin was really trying to make us black women and men better people so we can get better results when it comes to dating or being married why did things go left I don’t know the only thing I can think of is the women that don’t want to change and the women that wants to keep running game on these men were the ones that were upset, I don’t feel offended at all.
If you can’t defend your girl please don’t take her to Memphis lol
Why? They gone kidnap her then eat her? LMAO
Everyone in my family is fit! We work out 💪 6 days a week.
You look fat in that profile picture bruh
@@OnlyIMatter height and weight? How much you bench ?
I’m a man, overweight and I appreciated this rip Mr Kevin
I've always had a rule that I won't date a man who weighs less than me. I once said that in a group of women, and a woman I didn't know turned to me and said, "I weigh more than my husband" and shot me a dirty look. Oops.
I noticed that in Paris, a lot of women are walking around with small, skinny guys. There is definitely a cultural component to attraction.
I was slim when I got with my man I been with for 14 years we had four kids together and each time I gained 40 pounds, after my fourth child I didn’t take my health seriously and my health started to decline my boyfriend and doctor told me I was borderline diabetic and I needed to lose weight so I started off slow but eventually got down from 190 pounds to 140 pounds I had fun when the pandemic started and gained some weight back but not the whole 40 pounds I’m still working on getting better as a woman and staying healthy as I can.
4 kids and you didnt require marriage?
I recommend these videos to my single female friends but I don't think they're ready for a different outcome.
I enjoy watching your videos. This video specifically has definitely opened up my eyes to some things so thank you Kevin. Keep speaking the truth.
I think one of the point missing is that, being healthy should have nothing to do with dating. A person should want to be healthy just because you need to be healthy, to have a productive and long life. We have to ask ourselves, what does it mean to be healthy?? Many people equate healthy to weight loss only, being healthy is more than losing weight, factor in mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
What is overweight to one person may not be overweight to another. Beauty are in the eyes of the beholder. If you don’t get to know a person from the inside out, their character, and just focusing on beauty (weight size), the relationship is built on superficial. When “high value men”, date women who is fit and what many people call healthy (weight), what you do when you find out that some of women with beauty (weight) are unstable and have serious issues. Are these “high value men”, going to continue in the relationship or stay because she’s not overweight??
Also, what is a healthy weight and size to one person is something different to another person. Some people think being a size 12, 14, or 16 is unhealthy (which is not). People are built different. Skinny people are single, medium size people are single, and overweight people are single.
Skinny doesn’t mean healthy. Skinny people are unhealthy just as well as overweight people are unhealthy.
Please research human sexual selection. Stop rationalizing, making excuses. Eat Healthy and exercise regularly.
@@carl5438 absolutely she said all that just to say nothing rationality at its highest level justified in her behavior and no accountability for nothing just excuses unbelievable wow 😢😢😢
No pity for the weak.
It's about your best self.
Salute
BMI is not a good indicator. By that scale I’m overweight at 5”9 180 pounds of lean muscle lol!!
BMI isn't a good indicator for active people who lift. It is a good indicator for people who aren't fit. I'm 5'9" and 165 of lean muscle and my BMI isn't great.
I'm 175 6'1"
I wonder if the food industry works to support fat acceptance behind the scenes.
This is a really good point...
You bet they do😜😜😜
Genius comment!!
I’m a 6’3” 215 pound 36 yo male. I’m just started working with a personal trainer.
Even though my options have always been endless for me (especially now I’m bigger ) I’ll take this as constructive criticism, and not for a counterpart but for me .... nice broadcast ❤️
This man shut down the chat room for likes, i never seen that before. Shows the reason why he's here
I agree , a lot of women get comfortable and they think because they have a booty that they can get anyone lol but is not or never been married. Yes, men like different types of women but that doesn’t mean you can eat or do what you want. They listen to social media saying I don’t like bones which is so stupid because just because you work don’t mean you will be skinny lol 😂
Them forking redbulls!! 🥲🥲🥲🥲
🤣😂Dunlaps disease 🦠… belly done lapped over the summer 😂😂😂 KS is hilarious!
My dear Mother is 55 and stays in shape. Exercises and eats right. She got married again in 2019 to a solid man. When I see a woman my age (38) and she's fat, eats horribly, and has a child under 10, I shake my head...what is the excuse?
Lack of discipline, character and self motivation
LOL! No, it doesn't mean she has lack of disciple, character and self-motivation. You're just shallow, and a jerk.
@@babyfacedleo82 Me being shallow and a jerk has nothing to do with the obesity in our community. It also has nothing to do with the choices women make. Being overweight is a choice. So is eating habits and the decision to carry a child.
Why shake your head why not a small word of encouragement And then keep it moving
@@joielmore6112 Because I know that small word of encouragement will be ignored and/or taken out of context. I shake my head because it's a damn shame so many women think their obesity is attractive to the majority if men.
@@jahaudking4980 no that small word of encouragement could save someone’s life or could be a teaching moment. Obesity is the result of depression lack of discipline and lack of education. It’s how you say things and what you say. I am learning a lot about myself . I am learning that certain types of food is meant for weight gain and others are meant for weight loss.
All the health complications in being overweight why wouldn't you want to have a healthy weight? People are so sensitive. it's about being healthy for yourself and family in the long run. Besides who wants to have kids with an overweight woman as she will gain more in pregnancy, and it'll be harder to lose and make her unhealthy. It's just common sense.
Like the cricket balls in the glass jar. Cricket is a gentlemen’s game.
Thank you for everything GodFather ❤💜
I know your followers have a strong dislike for Army women but it keeps me in shape 🤷🏾♀️ (and single 😫)
Why would anyone be upset with your career choice.
@@TommieGun71 I was on a live and mentioned it and found out that the perception is Army women have been run through. 🤷🏾♀️
We are subscribers not followers.
Nothing at all wrong with a military woman.
Being former military myself I know you are a cut above the rest.
People that talk crap about the military never served.
@@sassytoya83 Its MORE about *Army women inescapable of being Submissive and Friendly* in dating/marriage and less about them being ran through. Kevin and others did mention that women in the service do have multiple men in sexual relationships on these long tours and deployments.
@@sassytoya83 yea I was in the Army 8 years and let me tell you...🤫
Weave more important than healthy living..........
Wow 👏, I am a hairstylist 15 year veteran and this brother is speaking big FACTS
Com'on Rob speak that truth. I love women with natural hair and I find more women with natural hair working out...Love it!
Lashes & nails too
This is really good and needed information we know it just need someone who cares to say it! I’m getting my fat as in the gym got to lose this weight!
Damn godfather we miss you... big ups to the godfather R.I.P
I believe in calling things as they are. Therefore, both genders need to accept things as they are in both directions.
This...this is the comment! ❤️
Agree. Wanna live longer you have to keep your weight down period. If you don't wanna do it for a man do it for you then. Whatever you need to tell yourself to get healthy.
Great channel. Wisdom often falls on deaf ears, unfortunately.
Soo sad but very very true
As a man, I priotize both wealth & health, cause I prefer lust energize sex, not lazy pity sex.
I lived In in Germany for 3 years and I rarely saw overweight woman. When I came back to the states it really highlighted the overweight woman here. He is speaking facts. It’s starting to get harder to find 10s the weight issue is real. I’m like a see a woman and I’m like damn homie you was the woman in high school what happened to you.
One guy told me that its really not about weight but shape and your beauty. Some woman carry theyre weight well and look attractive with it but there are some that tend to not look so shapely with the weight but more out of the shape and curvature. Some woman have more muscle with added fat and still would be considered obese by BMI standards but look "normal".Men are visual and honestly some are attracted to the smaller shapes. Just be honest with yourself.
Stop justifying being fat! Fork control and exercise.......Stay single.........
@@Rob10288 Some men love plus size 200 lbs women. You just don't see a beauty in them, but they have a nice shape and a body.
@@arielaava2102 Ok...............
I’m a slim petite woman and I ONLY date big thick men. Football 🏈 player size. My ex was 6’5 380. I loved it. That’s MY PREFERENCE!
Damn. That's a giant.
Thick fat or thick muscle.
.there's a difference
Actually, thick and overweight are two totally different measurements. Thick is that area that's one to one and half sizes above the person's Ideal weight. Normally, thick and curvy is damn near perfect eye candy since it's a size that's difficult to maintain unless genetics plays a role.
@Angie Saint Springfield try explaining that to the average woman these days. You'll get crucified simply for pointing out the health concerns associated with having a few extra pounds.
I happen to love big men (and I’m not a big woman). There’s something about a handsome, Gerald Levert looking man. *shoulders shrug*
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Spellman college - "the kids are too fat"
What should we do?
"Take away the sports"
Good call 👍👍
Americans should slim down a bit for their health, that's for sure. The obesity in this country, especially amongst children, is sad and it's going to become worse the more fat positivity is allowed to propagate.
As for the "you're single because you're fat" angle... lol there are plenty of big people in relationships. If that works for them, then that's great. Plus, I have no interest in other peoples' relationships and don't see why they should listen to you or anyone else's unsolicited advice if they're truly happy with themselves.
[And truth be told, from what I've noticed, black men tend to favor "thick" women. The ones who don't are usually the guys who are into white women and I doubt that your black female viewers are interested in those type of men.]
People are not going to like this one but we know Kevin doesn’t hold back from the truth
Functional Muscle & Flexibility= Gold
I think I saw somewhere as a good rule of thumb is for your waist size to be no more than half your height (in inches). So I’m a 5’8” (68 inches) man. My pants size should be no more than a 34. I can fit into a 33 comfortably, so I’m good! 😌