But what did he say? She told her side and now he's telling his. He can't be fully responsible for his friends out of line comments. If he was disrespectful he would have just said them himself.
@itskarella his friend is a direct representation of what he shares and how he feels. He attempted to slut shame the woman by saying she basically has a pimp/sugar daddy. That is not cool and is a slap in the face to a woman that has in every interview put on a cape to save him and explain his growth. Especially since it is being revealed that he was in another relationship while he was on the show.
Knock it off....All he asked for was to verify her income......For crying out loud he is about to marry this person........ Y'all would be CHEERING CHEERING AND MORE CHEERING if AD said the same thing about not trusting Clay's financial standing or numbers.......Let's see some numbers😂😂😂 Clay Dodged a bullet with this one
@@cyes1156he could have said no to marrying her way before or discussed the finances beforehand with AD, but instead he decided to leave her hanging all the way until the end and reject her at the altar on on her wedding in front of all her family and friends and make a national embarrassment out of her.. WOW 😢
Bye Clay. AD has never said anything bad about Clay. Even on the Jennifer Hudson show she said she didn’t hate him and didn’t want the world to hate him either.
It means Clay is 50/50. She never said anything bad about Clay during her interview with Kammi, so where did this unwarranted smoke come from? Clay never stated that he asked to see her finances. Homeboy may be more than just a friend. His response to AD'S interview is quite sassy, imo.🤔🙄😒
And it also means that ex of his who dragged him to filth on Instagram was right about him being a penguin handed man. In her words, "He wouldn't even buy seeds from the dollar store to plant you a rose." 😂😂
Right. He commented on a little clip from the podcast. I bet he didn’t and won’t listen to the full thing. AD made sure to keep saying “not too much on “blank”. When it came to the host talking crap about Clay and his family and also about Matt being a possible serial killer. AD put a stop to that all.
Ugh this man is such a red flag. I watched so many interviews with AD where she was still praising Clay and look at him still embarrassing her AGAIN 🤦🏾♀️ AD if you have any sense you’ll leave this man alone forever.
Ad made sure her finances were straight before she came on the show so that she was able to take the time off and fully embrace the process. I don’t see nothing wrong with that..
Right some people have savings. She probably made a lot of money at the level of professional cheerleading she did. A friend of mine did it and she made and saved/invested so much she was able to just do whatever she wanted afterwards. That was how she spent her 20s 🤷🏽♀️
@@ness0388even if it’s not in professional cheerleading, ppl don’t realize that in real estate (depending on the price range of the homes you’re selling), if you’re decent at selling it’s very possible to make upwards of 15k or more in a month’s time off percentages. So yes; if a couple deals were closed prior, you very well can create leeway to sit on your 🍑 for a little over a month to be on TV.
She JUST became a realtor when she joined the show. That doesn’t sound very financially stable. Working at a club depending on tips or a busy night isn’t sustainable 30 plus and married.
Just because someone “just” became a realtor means nothing 😂😂😂😂 She could have easily made a ton of connections from being a NBA cheerleader for so many years. With the right connections and finesse…. Deals and contracts can happen within a short period as a Realtor. WHICH YES CAN EASILY LEAD TO BEING FINANCIALLY STABLE. And ALSO she wasn’t a bartender/server making tips. She was a VIP Manager which sounds more of a higher pay/ salary💕💕💕💕
Girl inflation is real.. he's not obligated to take care of her right off bat bc then if he's working "too much" she gon be complaining abt him not coming home like she already was. Everything is expensive right now.. she should be pulling her own weight hell at least he already secured his home.. meanwhile she lying abt being a realtor🫤 do better.
@@xoxonenejaiWho said she wasn’t pulling her own weight? He said he didn’t understand her finances because she was still able to stay afloat without having to grind as much as he does. That doesn’t mean she wasn’t able to handle whatever parts they agreed would be hers to handle. Especially while he prides himself on being a provider. And just because the “best friend” says something doesn’t make it true. For all we know, best friend could just be a hater. But someone looked her credentials up and confirmed that she is a realtor, so the best friend isn’t credible.
He didn’t see her as an easier life 😂😂😂 he already has a career, side hustle and owns a home. Nothing wrong with BOTH building together so you can have an easier future for BOTH of you. This is why most of us will remain single. Thought process is all backward
@@daescoli I’m curious as to why they didn’t show where AD lived if she’s doing so well 🤔. Getting money any way and any how doesn’t work in a real marriage. There needs to be an understanding of how finances are earned and spent
@@missjoy6685 They don’t always show everyone’s residences on the show due to editing. They may have footage of looking at her home, just didn’t show it because it didn’t move the storyline that the producers wanted to portray. I agree that all parties should have a mutual understanding of the finances before entering a marriage together. From the interviews I’ve watched, it seems like AD explained it to Clay but he still didn’t understand. So he did the right thing for himself and said no to the marriage. Now they can both remain single and focus on themselves.
Clay was just explaining why he had questions about her finances…That is a legitimate question. And his friend is the one posting, not Clay. Clay is not bashing AD and he never brought up a sugar daddy
He had his entire circle posting for him. Both his siblings and multiple friends attacking AD, talking big mess about her career and telling her business which they could only get from Clay. They also attacked Kamie on multiple platforms. And i mean went in being extremely disrespectful.
Clay only saying all these stuff because he's broke and struggling financially, while he's desperately trying to project this 'successful entrepreneur' persona to the public to save his bruised ego. Both my partner and I make very generous salary, never in a million years he has said that I must work. Matter of fact, whenever he sees me getting stressed out over work related stuff, he would urge me to take a break and he got my back financially . Just like last season when Brett offered to get a bigger place for Tiffany to move in, he never even mentioned about her keeping a job or contribute to the rent for the new place.
@@ActuallyAuberyPODCAST Exactly. When you're in a healthy, loving partnership you do what you can to protect and look out for each other. All Clay said about AD was that how she would go to war and fight for him, emphasizing on hardships that she would have to bear for him, emotionally, physically (by staying in shape), and financially. How about focus on what you can do to make her happy and build a fun, meaningful relationship together? He's the type who always demand what others can bring to the table and do things for him, while he offer nothing but traumas.
Every man is different. If they agreed in the pods to be “go-getters” then she shouldn’t have switched up. Also, working at a nightclub should be a deal breaker anyway. It’s very “fest or famine” job. it should only be done as a side hustle or for someone in their 20s living at home.
@@missjoy6685 They were put in a townhome together for 2 weeks before going to the altar. I wouldn't call it a 'switch up' just because AD doesn't work a 9 to 5 job and/or if she wanted to dedicate more personal time within the two weeks to get to know Clay. If Clay wasn't happy with her career choices or how much she have in her saving account, then he should've come home more often and talk about it privately before the camera crew show up. Don't drag it all the way to the altar and then say he has issues with her finance situations. You're certainly right about every man is different, Clay is the representation of a low value man.
People need to stop ignoring the fact that she told Clay she’s a boss and an entrepreneur in the pods but the truth came out that she has no work ethic at all. People are so bias 🙄
@@flowerh691 Every single season this happens. But the internet has never dragged those people for it the way they are dragging Clay. He was not obligated to say yes. It’s his life not ours.
Exactly, Clay saw right thru the garbage. If your a entrepreneur and such, naturally you should be occupied with work and other business things, however she was blowing smoke the whole time.
That's not Clay's best friend, that's his boyfriend 😒 & it's weird Angela because you clearly saw the Kamie interview with AD so you KNOW she only spoke good of him & had his back when Kamie was rightfully dragging him. This was my issue with you on TBC, you like to pretend to be a girls girl but you really have hate in your heart for certain women & it showssss. This is the first clip from you I've seen since you left TBC & I hope I don't see anymore 🙄
I don’t even notice her missing from TBC when I occasionally tune in. Angela is the office gossip that has a likeable veneer, but won’t stick up for right when others are being done wrong in conversation. Never liked her since I was a child because I could detect that on her.
Y'all stay dragging this man for no reason. Just as AD was able to tell her side he is allowed to tell is. His friend was out of line, though, but let Clay tell his truth. She presented herself as one thing in the pods, an entrepreneur and then switched up. All he's saying is he wanted to see what she presented and he fell in love with.
funny that men say they want a wife. Who cooks and clean then get her and complain. Sounds like dude wanted her as a partner and not really a wife. The more the story comes out the more it sounds like lies on both parties.
All men don’t want a stay-at-home wife though and that’s 100% OK. They agreed to that in the pods and she started switching up. His HOME looked very well kept without a woman. These men aren’t gonna die of a woman doesn’t cook or clean everyday 😅
So ain't nobody gonna saying nothing about AD sleeping with a sugar daddy and not taking the entire process seriously? But we say Clay wasn't serious about the process. Such hypocrisy. Women, we have to do better about accountability if this is true.
Nobody said she was sleeping with a sugar daddy. They said she had a sugar daddy. That can be many things. They could have an understanding because some men are willing to do that support you while you figure out what you want in life. A permanent partner could be one of the things she wants and who says he didn’t know that. Some people are just haters and want everything to be easy for them or about them. Sugar daddy is a benefactor, not a boyfriend.
@@JustifyingT I agree with this but in this specific case it seems like this sugar daddy is under some impression that they were more than just a sugar baby/benefactor if he is confronting them and telling clay to leave them alone.
Why do you assume that this man who called himself her sugar daddy was even telling the truth. People lie all the time. He could just as easily be a jealous ex-boyfriend. Come on now folks. Just because people say things, it doesn't mean it's true.
It is important to be familiar with the person you planning on spending you life with finances… in this case She could be a big Shopper/spender and expect for the man to fund her spending habits, they are 30 year olds not early 20’s. She is a grown woman and grown women usually take care of themselves… there is absolutely nothing wrong with him questioning what she has going on in her life especially when sizing some up for marriage…
Sounds like their values were mismatched...he values ambition and working hard and she wants to be a stay at home wife. Just another reason why it wouldn't have worked.
Why is everyone glossing over the potential truth that AD has/had a sugar daddy? Is this ok behavior? If she was getting money from a dude while being engaged is that wifey material
Some guys don't care I guess but I'd be sketched out that this guy is confronting them. Sugar daddy stuff weirds me out. People can do what they want of course but I find it scary.
Facts and none of the women in the comment section acknowledge what you just said.....This just goes to show why men have to be extremely cautious about choosing a wife these days....AD absolutely shocked me about having a Sugar Daddy which is equal to sex work......Daddy pays you for a service!
And when they are acknowledging it, they’re praising it. Can’t tell you how many “this makes me like AD more” comments I’ve seen since the sugar daddy reveal. It’s sad.
Clay is not broke which I why he wants to make sure AD is financially responsible. His home was really nice. Meanwhile, they never showed where AD lived. My husband and I do well but it was decided while dating that I would ALWAYS work full time unless I’m home with young children. Fine by me! I’ve been doing it all this time anyway lol. Every man doesn’t see the value in a wife doting on him, but putting all the financial burden on him. He never asked for a traditional wife and it seems she was trying to bait and switch up on him. Also, the red bottoms, diamonds and luxury handbags all over her social media looked odd for a club hostess that JUST began a carer in real estate. Good for you Clay! These independent women who all of a sudden want a soft girl life in their 30s are delulu.
I get so happy every time I read a comment from a grown woman with SENSE!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 these delulus with their outlandish expectations that do not reflect reality need to hear more of this.
Clay can tell his side of thing is regards to finances and all that but what stood out to me wasn't him bringing up the finances part but saying he didn't love her enough to marry her. It seemed like he wasn't telling her that part.
He is saying this and then turns around and says she is the love of his life. Clay is a joke. Not saying AD is right to be on a show to get married but getting financed by an ex.
that’s pathetic for a man to require a woman to work more. if she takes care of herself and does her thing, what’s the problem? he just didn’t love her, didn’t care about her. and he’s making excuses to make it that she was the problem.
Clay is your typical of his kind he is overly looks obsessed. Trust if AD had blonde hair and colored eyes. He wouldn't have cared about finances. Everything she could've asked for would've been in the budget.
Sounds like they both discussed working in the pods but when they got out she wanted to stay at home. Which is funny, because him working too much became an issue.
AD said during the Kamie Crawford interview that it was in fact, Clay’s finances that were in question. At this point, who knows and I wish Clay was in therapy instead of doing any podcasts or interviews right now. He has a lot more on his plate than trying to “air out” a woman he said “no” to at the altar. AD seems to have a few brand deals going and I hope our good sis is getting her 💰
Like myself if she continues to accept & forgive these hurtful things, she’s gonna have a life of pain. Hang with the girls & you won’t even have to look for a man, he will show himself. Clay ALWAYS gonna b confused & keep her by saying he loves her - then why aren’t they married? Exactly. He’s not in love
Honestly I feel like everyone giving clay too much smoke. AD even said they going to hard on him, she know what time it is and he knows as well. I believe she has a sugar daddy and ain’t nothing wrong with clay wanting to see her go to work, that’s the kind of woman he attracted to. Clay ass should’ve left her in the first place and not get all the way to the alter cause he knew he wasn’t feeling her that’s all I say to him. And what’s wrong with best friend blowing it up, his boy prob was taking a lot of heat from AD audience that don’t even know these people in real life. AD deserve it all and if she has a sugar daddy, it is what it is but we can’t just blame clay only. These two people have more work to do on themselves, both of them do and they was not ready.
AD never said anything bad about him, I don’t understand what Angela means by “I guess he doesn’t like her talking negatively” like she literally has said ntn but good things. I’m already expecting to be pissed off with the full interview….
AD did not speak negatively about Clay and would not let the interviewer do too much either...She was honest with Clay about her ex and was going to quit working at the night club because she took her relationship with Clay seriously...And btw AD has her Brokers License in North Carolina so Clay's bestie can go have a seat
What's ironic is when or if a man will come to the defense of his friend that is wrong and he should stay out of it. The friend is only backing up his friend because he's being dragged through the mud, but if it was flipped and AD was being dragged. Don't you think her girlfriend's will come to her aid and defend her? Please no double standards So co radio host Don't say that he's out of line because if your girlfriend did the same, you won't see her being outlined so be a little more diplomatic
A man is a provider…AD doesn’t matter. Why is Clay want to see AD do a 9 to 5 job. By the way I’m working. But I am just asking. If she was his love of his love. He would have married her.
Please! You have 4 weeks to show what type of wife/husband you would be. It was about love, but somehow he still thinking about money. It’s nothing to get a job. Doesn’t sound like she was saying she was unwilling to work or expecting you to fund everything. What if she took on an illness shortly after marrying that prevented her to work?? Or vice versa…See the real of things is most don’t want true unconditional love. “Love” that comes with conditions is not love. She should be thankful not to have married him.
Yall in the comments are clowns this man didn’t do anything wrong. He didn’t want to rush into a marriage for a show! He wanted to date her after the show
AD may not have anything negative to say, but she allows certain narratives about him to go unchecked. Either you are with him or you are not. Is she required to defend him NO, but don't play victim when you are called out too. Ugh I hate the constant Clay bashing. And Canadice is biased because Chris "works" unconventionally as well so she knows how it feels to have someone call out a non-working spouse.
Everyone wants to take AD side and bash Clay. IT TAKES TWO people to be in a REAL relationship, it takes two people to be on that Altar and say yes. If he was sucha HUGE red flag why even set yourself up to be embarrassed . She should’ve walked away just like the others did . Being married is not just love it is a business deal too. Finances is extremely important. If they were married n something was to happen to his strings of income, will she be able to hold down the fort until they recover ? But I do agree that if Clay was certain about not wanting to marry her he should’ve cut it off before hand like jimmy did . And save her the heart break . Both of them deserve grace
It's nothing wrong with clay wanting to know the details of her finances. When u get married u need to know damn near everything about that person credit history and finances is important when married
I disagree with Candance. We pandy this phrase of "the truth is somewhere in the middle". No. Not always. Sometimes one side is lying and misrepresenting the truth and the other side is telling the truth. This society today is so hellbent on giving EVERYONE a platform, letting everyone have "their truth" even when the persons truth is a lie.
LET'S BE CLEAR.- LOVE IS BLIND AS A SHOW.. SHE TOOK OFF WORK TO BE DEDICATED TO THE EXPERIENCE. NOBODY WANTS TO GO TO WORK IF THEY DON'T HAVE TO WHILE TRYING TO DO THIS EXPERIENCE.
This is just like when people do the Real World, or other shows when you are gone for a month. They take off the duration of the show. This is not new.
@@TheRealCalisfynest I dont believe him. Cuz one moment he will say he waited til they left the pods to watch it. Then one moment he will say he seen it before. He’s wish washy
Y’all people are doing exactly what they want name in the blogs. they were on love is blind for, crying out loud. NEXXTTT!!! Have you seen any previous seasons get this much traction? Chasing fame.
Really that could have been cleared up. The best friend should have nothing to say ya boy stood up a woman at the alter- that was nasty work however AD and Clay seem to be working through that. The best friend overstepped.
She has been nothing but graceful to Clay after they ended. He either needs to stop pussyfooting and having his friends say shit OR keep them in check because thats not their place. Sounds like attention seeking behavior by the friend. And honestly I dont believe the sugar daddy rumor. People are so quick to question a successful black woman and her money. She was a professional cheerleader and a real estate agent. Those same few luxury pieces she wear over and over in her photos and interviews dont mean she has a sugar daddy. She couldve easily bought that herself. She single with no kids.
I agree . Why wouldnt anyone want to see what you ro .. did we all forget about Tommy from martin.. if its a guy then its ok to want to know but if its a women she gets to Not have to show what she does.
No, he wanted to see her actions line up with the words she told him in the pods. She said she was a hustling entrepreneur and they bonded over both being go getters. When they got out of the pods, he said she flipped the script and wanted a traditional relationship. Which there is nothing wrong with, but you can’t just switch up on what was previously established.
Clay and AD..the relationship is water under the bridge…get over it…get your lives together…leave it alone…stop bad mouthing the woman…you said no at the altar Clay…case closed…you knew she wasn’t working beforehand…yet you said that was the main reason you said no…you should of said no to her body as well…just keep it moving…next!
AD actually defended Clay and shut down the interviewers when they tried to diss him. That man is an embarrassment
Yeah fuck him! I was rooting for him.
But what did he say? She told her side and now he's telling his. He can't be fully responsible for his friends out of line comments. If he was disrespectful he would have just said them himself.
@itskarella his friend is a direct representation of what he shares and how he feels. He attempted to slut shame the woman by saying she basically has a pimp/sugar daddy. That is not cool and is a slap in the face to a woman that has in every interview put on a cape to save him and explain his growth. Especially since it is being revealed that he was in another relationship while he was on the show.
Candace seems much calmer on this show than she did as a housewife on Potomac. She was quite messy and toxic then.
@@rubyreliford she’s still on RHOP.
Angela, AD has said nothing but positive things about Clay this whole time
Facts💯💯💯💯...
That part!
This
Well angela is a pick me , Gucci already told us this
AD NEVER DRAGGED CLAY IN ANY INTERVIEW.
Exactly
Not once
AD this man did you a favor! You dodged a bullet girl. I have never heard her say anything negative about him smh.
Knock it off....All he asked for was to verify her income......For crying out loud he is about to marry this person........
Y'all would be CHEERING CHEERING AND MORE CHEERING if AD said the same thing about not trusting Clay's financial standing or numbers.......Let's see some numbers😂😂😂
Clay Dodged a bullet with this one
@@cyes1156he could have said no to marrying her way before or discussed the finances beforehand with AD, but instead he decided to leave her hanging all the way until the end and reject her at the altar on on her wedding in front of all her family and friends and make a national embarrassment out of her.. WOW 😢
She didn’t dodge a bullet if she keeps hoping he will change! And dating Matt, 🤮
I honestly think she's still with him...
AD did say she’s “Kept… and kept well” 🤷🏾♀️ But the fact still remains, if you knew that then why even entertain the relationship at all.
Yep.
So it’s okay for AD to have sex with her sugar daddy but Clay can’t even talk about hypothetical cheating
Bye Clay. AD has never said anything bad about Clay. Even on the Jennifer Hudson show she said she didn’t hate him and didn’t want the world to hate him either.
Yep. Thank you!! I saw that too. And this is the thanks she gets. That's messed up for him and his friend to do that.
It's wild to me how so many people are befuddled as to how somebody could have 3 months of living expenses saved up.
He told his “best friend” to Leak her info.
Yes he did...they deserve each other
It means Clay is 50/50. She never said anything bad about Clay during her interview with Kammi, so where did this unwarranted smoke come from? Clay never stated that he asked to see her finances. Homeboy may be more than just a friend. His response to AD'S interview is quite sassy, imo.🤔🙄😒
And it also means that ex of his who dragged him to filth on Instagram was right about him being a penguin handed man.
In her words, "He wouldn't even buy seeds from the dollar store to plant you a rose." 😂😂
Damn@@zedkuchalo
Right. He commented on a little clip from the podcast. I bet he didn’t and won’t listen to the full thing. AD made sure to keep saying “not too much on “blank”. When it came to the host talking crap about Clay and his family and also about Matt being a possible serial killer. AD put a stop to that all.
@@zedkuchalo Wait which ex??
Nah it wasn't. Basically he was saying the picture was painted differently but that's something that could have been cleared up.
Ugh this man is such a red flag. I watched so many interviews with AD where she was still praising Clay and look at him still embarrassing her AGAIN 🤦🏾♀️
AD if you have any sense you’ll leave this man alone forever.
Ad made sure her finances were straight before she came on the show so that she was able to take the time off and fully embrace the process. I don’t see nothing wrong with that..
Right some people have savings. She probably made a lot of money at the level of professional cheerleading she did. A friend of mine did it and she made and saved/invested so much she was able to just do whatever she wanted afterwards. That was how she spent her 20s 🤷🏽♀️
@@ness0388even if it’s not in professional cheerleading, ppl don’t realize that in real estate (depending on the price range of the homes you’re selling), if you’re decent at selling it’s very possible to make upwards of 15k or more in a month’s time off percentages. So yes; if a couple deals were closed prior, you very well can create leeway to sit on your 🍑 for a little over a month to be on TV.
She JUST became a realtor when she joined the show. That doesn’t sound very financially stable. Working at a club depending on tips or a busy night isn’t sustainable 30 plus and married.
Also, the club she was working at was owned by her ex bf (she said it during that same interview). 😬 @@missjoy6685
Just because someone “just” became a realtor means nothing 😂😂😂😂 She could have easily made a ton of connections from being a NBA cheerleader for so many years. With the right connections and finesse…. Deals and contracts can happen within a short period as a Realtor. WHICH YES CAN EASILY LEAD TO BEING FINANCIALLY STABLE. And ALSO she wasn’t a bartender/server making tips. She was a VIP Manager which sounds more of a higher pay/ salary💕💕💕💕
I would want a man who wants to see me live an easier life. My man has to want to see me relax and make his house a home. lol
Girl inflation is real.. he's not obligated to take care of her right off bat bc then if he's working "too much" she gon be complaining abt him not coming home like she already was. Everything is expensive right now.. she should be pulling her own weight hell at least he already secured his home.. meanwhile she lying abt being a realtor🫤 do better.
@@xoxonenejaiWho said she wasn’t pulling her own weight? He said he didn’t understand her finances because she was still able to stay afloat without having to grind as much as he does. That doesn’t mean she wasn’t able to handle whatever parts they agreed would be hers to handle. Especially while he prides himself on being a provider. And just because the “best friend” says something doesn’t make it true. For all we know, best friend could just be a hater. But someone looked her credentials up and confirmed that she is a realtor, so the best friend isn’t credible.
He didn’t see her as an easier life 😂😂😂 he already has a career, side hustle and owns a home. Nothing wrong with BOTH building together so you can have an easier future for BOTH of you. This is why most of us will remain single. Thought process is all backward
@@daescoli I’m curious as to why they didn’t show where AD lived if she’s doing so well 🤔. Getting money any way and any how doesn’t work in a real marriage. There needs to be an understanding of how finances are earned and spent
@@missjoy6685 They don’t always show everyone’s residences on the show due to editing. They may have footage of looking at her home, just didn’t show it because it didn’t move the storyline that the producers wanted to portray. I agree that all parties should have a mutual understanding of the finances before entering a marriage together. From the interviews I’ve watched, it seems like AD explained it to Clay but he still didn’t understand. So he did the right thing for himself and said no to the marriage. Now they can both remain single and focus on themselves.
Why is he on a media tour?
😂😂😂
Bc he knows he made a fool of himself
Exactly! He never loved AD. He’s in it for his 2mins of fame 😂
Because this is exactly what he wanted lol
They all are
Clay was just explaining why he had questions about her finances…That is a legitimate question. And his friend is the one posting, not Clay. Clay is not bashing AD and he never brought up a sugar daddy
He had his entire circle posting for him. Both his siblings and multiple friends attacking AD, talking big mess about her career and telling her business which they could only get from Clay. They also attacked Kamie on multiple platforms. And i mean went in being extremely disrespectful.
@@TheRealCalisfynestoh really?? I missed the siblings talking ish. When she said nothing but nice things about them.
He needs to shut down his clout chasing boyfriend. 😒
The headline for this video needs to be corrected ASAP.
Finances* 😅
Why Asap? 😂
Clay only saying all these stuff because he's broke and struggling financially, while he's desperately trying to project this 'successful entrepreneur' persona to the public to save his bruised ego. Both my partner and I make very generous salary, never in a million years he has said that I must work. Matter of fact, whenever he sees me getting stressed out over work related stuff, he would urge me to take a break and he got my back financially . Just like last season when Brett offered to get a bigger place for Tiffany to move in, he never even mentioned about her keeping a job or contribute to the rent for the new place.
Clay doesn’t know how an accountable husband operates. And… He’s sought out no good example🤷🏽♀️
@@ActuallyAuberyPODCAST Exactly. When you're in a healthy, loving partnership you do what you can to protect and look out for each other. All Clay said about AD was that how she would go to war and fight for him, emphasizing on hardships that she would have to bear for him, emotionally, physically (by staying in shape), and financially. How about focus on what you can do to make her happy and build a fun, meaningful relationship together? He's the type who always demand what others can bring to the table and do things for him, while he offer nothing but traumas.
Every man is different. If they agreed in the pods to be “go-getters” then she shouldn’t have switched up. Also, working at a nightclub should be a deal breaker anyway. It’s very “fest or famine” job. it should only be done as a side hustle or for someone in their 20s living at home.
@@missjoy6685 They were put in a townhome together for 2 weeks before going to the altar. I wouldn't call it a 'switch up' just because AD doesn't work a 9 to 5 job and/or if she wanted to dedicate more personal time within the two weeks to get to know Clay. If Clay wasn't happy with her career choices or how much she have in her saving account, then he should've come home more often and talk about it privately before the camera crew show up. Don't drag it all the way to the altar and then say he has issues with her finance situations. You're certainly right about every man is different, Clay is the representation of a low value man.
Thats part of what won me over about Brett, big husband energy he was willing to just take care of it!
Clay and his sassy friends need to leave AD alone. So what if ADs ex funded her lifestyle.
Definitely sassy 😎
A sugar daddy is not an ex.
How you feel tryna marry a man and he got a woman sending him money for trips, food, clothes? Yall are too bias
So what?? Lmao Goodluck with that attitude. What man would marry or Date seriously if an ex is funding her wtf
People need to stop ignoring the fact that she told Clay she’s a boss and an entrepreneur in the pods but the truth came out that she has no work ethic at all. People are so bias 🙄
Even of this is true why drag it till the altar to reject her and embarrass her in front of everyone
@@flowerh691 Every single season this happens. But the internet has never dragged those people for it the way they are dragging Clay. He was not obligated to say yes. It’s his life not ours.
Exactly, Clay saw right thru the garbage. If your a entrepreneur and such, naturally you should be occupied with work and other business things, however she was blowing smoke the whole time.
I remember them having this conversation as well. I think he possibly felt bamboozled, sooo can’t blame the guy. His friend still did too much though.
Clay came on the show already having a girlfriend. The girl was blindsided. Im not sure why they didnt vet these people better.
Proof ?
I need to see the video of the ex
@RealityTvLover they keep deleting my comment, sorry. It's on youtube on cosmeholics anonymous
So why did his mom encouraged him to do tbe show if he already had a girl. Their motives are getting glaring with every second the clock ticks.
Z@soniagadd8014 They are all into it. Don't let those pretty talks trick you. A mother will always covered for son
That's not Clay's best friend, that's his boyfriend 😒 & it's weird Angela because you clearly saw the Kamie interview with AD so you KNOW she only spoke good of him & had his back when Kamie was rightfully dragging him. This was my issue with you on TBC, you like to pretend to be a girls girl but you really have hate in your heart for certain women & it showssss. This is the first clip from you I've seen since you left TBC & I hope I don't see anymore 🙄
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Yee has never been a girls girl. That’s why K Michelle ate her up that one time 😂
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I don’t even notice her missing from TBC when I occasionally tune in. Angela is the office gossip that has a likeable veneer, but won’t stick up for right when others are being done wrong in conversation. Never liked her since I was a child because I could detect that on her.
Y'all stay dragging this man for no reason. Just as AD was able to tell her side he is allowed to tell is. His friend was out of line, though, but let Clay tell his truth. She presented herself as one thing in the pods, an entrepreneur and then switched up. All he's saying is he wanted to see what she presented and he fell in love with.
funny that men say they want a wife. Who cooks and clean then get her and complain. Sounds like dude wanted her as a partner and not really a wife. The more the story comes out the more it sounds like lies on both parties.
Yeah, these younger guys don't want to keep a woman...actually, neither do these older guys lol.
@@ZumchoShe has a sugar daddy, she ain't ready either.
All men don’t want a stay-at-home wife though and that’s 100% OK. They agreed to that in the pods and she started switching up. His HOME looked very well kept without a woman. These men aren’t gonna die of a woman doesn’t cook or clean everyday 😅
😂😂😂😂😂But don't these women today use the term PARTNER
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Which was is it
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Facts a while clown......How you 33yrs old with a Sugar Daddy 😂😂😂
FYI *Finances* vs "Fiances"
Fix it.
Clay did not want to shade her ,so he put one of his homeboy's up to do it. Chick move.
He set his bulldog on her instead of saying it himself. Just trashing her b/c the Public (most) doesn’t believe him.
So ain't nobody gonna saying nothing about AD sleeping with a sugar daddy and not taking the entire process seriously? But we say Clay wasn't serious about the process. Such hypocrisy. Women, we have to do better about accountability if this is true.
Nobody said she was sleeping with a sugar daddy. They said she had a sugar daddy. That can be many things. They could have an understanding because some men are willing to do that support you while you figure out what you want in life. A permanent partner could be one of the things she wants and who says he didn’t know that. Some people are just haters and want everything to be easy for them or about them. Sugar daddy is a benefactor, not a boyfriend.
Thank you! Anything to hate on Clay
@@JustifyingT I agree with this but in this specific case it seems like this sugar daddy is under some impression that they were more than just a sugar baby/benefactor if he is confronting them and telling clay to leave them alone.
@@JustifyingTleave AD alone I mean.
Why do you assume that this man who called himself her sugar daddy was even telling the truth. People lie all the time. He could just as easily be a jealous ex-boyfriend. Come on now folks. Just because people say things, it doesn't mean it's true.
It is important to be familiar with the person you planning on spending you life with finances… in this case She could be a big Shopper/spender and expect for the man to fund her spending habits, they are 30 year olds not early 20’s. She is a grown woman and grown women usually take care of themselves… there is absolutely nothing wrong with him questioning what she has going on in her life especially when sizing some up for marriage…
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Well he could have done that before the wedding
AD is too good for Clay. His friend needs to mind his own business..
Sounds like their values were mismatched...he values ambition and working hard and she wants to be a stay at home wife. Just another reason why it wouldn't have worked.
Why is everyone glossing over the potential truth that AD has/had a sugar daddy? Is this ok behavior? If she was getting money from a dude while being engaged is that wifey material
Some guys don't care I guess but I'd be sketched out that this guy is confronting them. Sugar daddy stuff weirds me out. People can do what they want of course but I find it scary.
Facts and none of the women in the comment section acknowledge what you just said.....This just goes to show why men have to be extremely cautious about choosing a wife these days....AD absolutely shocked me about having a Sugar Daddy which is equal to sex work......Daddy pays you for a service!
And when they are acknowledging it, they’re praising it. Can’t tell you how many “this makes me like AD more” comments I’ve seen since the sugar daddy reveal. It’s sad.
Exactly it’s weird and absurd . It makes me think like what is people’s image of what a wife is ?
Clay is not broke which I why he wants to make sure AD is financially responsible. His home was really nice. Meanwhile, they never showed where AD lived. My husband and I do well but it was decided while dating that I would ALWAYS work full time unless I’m home with young children. Fine by me! I’ve been doing it all this time anyway lol. Every man doesn’t see the value in a wife doting on him, but putting all the financial burden on him. He never asked for a traditional wife and it seems she was trying to bait and switch up on him. Also, the red bottoms, diamonds and luxury handbags all over her social media looked odd for a club hostess that JUST began a carer in real estate. Good for you Clay! These independent women who all of a sudden want a soft girl life in their 30s are delulu.
Shes got real estate posts dating back to 2021
She was a professional cheerleader/dancer in the nfl..did y'all forget that part?
I get so happy every time I read a comment from a grown woman with SENSE!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 these delulus with their outlandish expectations that do not reflect reality need to hear more of this.
Clay can tell his side of thing is regards to finances and all that but what stood out to me wasn't him bringing up the finances part but saying he didn't love her enough to marry her. It seemed like he wasn't telling her that part.
He is saying this and then turns around and says she is the love of his life. Clay is a joke. Not saying AD is right to be on a show to get married but getting financed by an ex.
that’s pathetic for a man to require a woman to work more. if she takes care of herself and does her thing, what’s the problem? he just didn’t love her, didn’t care about her. and he’s making excuses to make it that she was the problem.
AD is a sugar baby. He said nothing bad. He would not want 50/50 with a woman that he thought was truly beautiful and a trophy.
Clay is your typical of his kind he is overly looks obsessed. Trust if AD had blonde hair and colored eyes. He wouldn't have cared about finances. Everything she could've asked for would've been in the budget.
I hope the best friend is truly just the best friend 🧐
by the way AD puts her body above all tells me everything I need to know about her finances
Sounds like they both discussed working in the pods but when they got out she wanted to stay at home. Which is funny, because him working too much became an issue.
Nobody knows if he's working too much or even working at all, the issue is that he never came home but used 'work' as the excuse for not coming home.
not AD's fiances 😅...might wanna fix that typo lol
AD said during the Kamie Crawford interview that it was in fact, Clay’s finances that were in question. At this point, who knows and I wish Clay was in therapy instead of doing any podcasts or interviews right now. He has a lot more on his plate than trying to “air out” a woman he said “no” to at the altar.
AD seems to have a few brand deals going and I hope our good sis is getting her 💰
Oh that best friend been writing nasty things on his insta about AD. Does he perhaps want clay for himself? He talk too much for a straight dude 😵💫
But AD said she was kept in Kamies interview 🤣 what does kept mean?!
Means she only dates men who not talking about 50/50 that’s what she’s use to in relationship.
Like myself if she continues to accept & forgive these hurtful things, she’s gonna have a life of pain. Hang with the girls & you won’t even have to look for a man, he will show himself. Clay ALWAYS gonna b confused & keep her by saying he loves her - then why aren’t they married? Exactly. He’s not in love
Wait a minute, so we okay with exposing Trevor but not exposing AD??
Honestly I feel like everyone giving clay too much smoke. AD even said they going to hard on him, she know what time it is and he knows as well. I believe she has a sugar daddy and ain’t nothing wrong with clay wanting to see her go to work, that’s the kind of woman he attracted to. Clay ass should’ve left her in the first place and not get all the way to the alter cause he knew he wasn’t feeling her that’s all I say to him. And what’s wrong with best friend blowing it up, his boy prob was taking a lot of heat from AD audience that don’t even know these people in real life. AD deserve it all and if she has a sugar daddy, it is what it is but we can’t just blame clay only. These two people have more work to do on themselves, both of them do and they was not ready.
He doesnt want a gold digger
AD never said anything bad about him, I don’t understand what Angela means by “I guess he doesn’t like her talking negatively” like she literally has said ntn but good things. I’m already expecting to be pissed off with the full interview….
AD did not speak negatively about Clay and would not let the interviewer do too much either...She was honest with Clay about her ex and was going to quit working at the night club because she took her relationship with Clay seriously...And btw AD has her Brokers License in North Carolina so Clay's bestie can go have a seat
Sooooo.....most of the cast were in relationships before coming on the show? Yeah it's all BS!! No one is serious about finding real love just fame.
What's ironic is when or if a man will come to the defense of his friend that is wrong and he should stay out of it. The friend is only backing up his friend because he's being dragged through the mud, but if it was flipped and AD was being dragged. Don't you think her girlfriend's will come to her aid and defend her? Please no double standards So co radio host Don't say that he's out of line because if your girlfriend did the same, you won't see her being outlined so be a little more diplomatic
Unpopular Opinion: I LOVE Clay!!!!!!
A man is a provider…AD doesn’t matter. Why is Clay want to see AD do a 9 to 5 job. By the way I’m working. But I am just asking. If she was his love of his love. He would have married her.
Please! You have 4 weeks to show what type of wife/husband you would be. It was about love, but somehow he still thinking about money. It’s nothing to get a job. Doesn’t sound like she was saying she was unwilling to work or expecting you to fund everything. What if she took on an illness shortly after marrying that prevented her to work?? Or vice versa…See the real of things is most don’t want true unconditional love. “Love” that comes with conditions is not love. She should be thankful not to have married him.
Yall in the comments are clowns this man didn’t do anything wrong. He didn’t want to rush into a marriage for a show! He wanted to date her after the show
AD may not have anything negative to say, but she allows certain narratives about him to go unchecked. Either you are with him or you are not. Is she required to defend him NO, but don't play victim when you are called out too. Ugh I hate the constant Clay bashing. And Canadice is biased because Chris "works" unconventionally as well so she knows how it feels to have someone call out a non-working spouse.
Clay does not want to be with a woman. He is already with a man. Stop wasting everyone’s time.
You really think so? I'm curious. Why would you come to this conclusion?
Does Clay have a receipt about the SD
Plot twist clay and his best friend together
AD said she was kept I knew then she was a suga baby
Listen… I’m about tired of both of them smh. Can we talk about something else???
Everyone wants to take AD side and bash Clay. IT TAKES TWO people to be in a REAL relationship, it takes two people to be on that Altar and say yes. If he was sucha HUGE red flag why even set yourself up to be embarrassed . She should’ve walked away just like the others did . Being married is not just love it is a business deal too. Finances is extremely important. If they were married n something was to happen to his strings of income, will she be able to hold down the fort until they recover ? But I do agree that if Clay was certain about not wanting to marry her he should’ve cut it off before hand like jimmy did . And save her the heart break . Both of them deserve grace
It's nothing wrong with clay wanting to know the details of her finances. When u get married u need to know damn near everything about that person credit history and finances is important when married
Just noticed this is Angela Yee, instant sub lol been wondering where she went from breakfast club
I disagree with Candance. We pandy this phrase of "the truth is somewhere in the middle". No. Not always. Sometimes one side is lying and misrepresenting the truth and the other side is telling the truth. This society today is so hellbent on giving EVERYONE a platform, letting everyone have "their truth" even when the persons truth is a lie.
Shes still working at her Ex's club though! Like thats a no for me!
LET'S BE CLEAR.- LOVE IS BLIND AS A SHOW.. SHE TOOK OFF WORK TO BE DEDICATED TO THE EXPERIENCE. NOBODY WANTS TO GO TO WORK IF THEY DON'T HAVE TO WHILE TRYING TO DO THIS EXPERIENCE.
BRING AD
This is just like when people do the Real World, or other shows when you are gone for a month. They take off the duration of the show. This is not new.
He said he never watched the show before he went on. 😂
@@TheRealCalisfynest I dont believe him. Cuz one moment he will say he waited til they left the pods to watch it. Then one moment he will say he seen it before. He’s wish washy
This is a mess Clay was cluat chasing and that's why he joined the show.A.D never said anything bad about Clay what negative way please.
OF COURSE SHE TALKED GOOD ABOUT HIM CUS SHE WAS TOPPING OFF HER ANOTHER DUDE ON THE SIDE SO SHE CAN BE A STAY AT HOME WIFE🤦♂️🤣
Y’all people are doing exactly what they want name in the blogs. they were on love is blind for, crying out loud. NEXXTTT!!!
Have you seen any previous seasons get this much traction? Chasing fame.
Truth is coming out 😳
I don't understand why is Clay friend saying these things? !
Candice is doing a great job! Go girl!
AD NEVER SPOKE BAD ON CLAY. IDKY THE BESTFRIEND GOT INVOLVED
Buddy wasn’t ready for a wife
Clay is dodging a bullet
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Angela is messyyyyyy
I love your show Angela Yee🎙️👀🫡💪🏿❤️💯
Really that could have been cleared up. The best friend should have nothing to say ya boy stood up a woman at the alter- that was nasty work however AD and Clay seem to be working through that. The best friend overstepped.
How does AD’a groomsman know so much? Like, her sugar daddy approached him? I call cap. 🧢
She has been nothing but graceful to Clay after they ended. He either needs to stop pussyfooting and having his friends say shit OR keep them in check because thats not their place. Sounds like attention seeking behavior by the friend.
And honestly I dont believe the sugar daddy rumor. People are so quick to question a successful black woman and her money. She was a professional cheerleader and a real estate agent. Those same few luxury pieces she wear over and over in her photos and interviews dont mean she has a sugar daddy. She couldve easily bought that herself. She single with no kids.
So now your friend is going throw her under the bus because she dont want your friend anymore WOW this is a new low
I agree . Why wouldnt anyone want to see what you ro .. did we all forget about Tommy from martin.. if its a guy then its ok to want to know but if its a women she gets to Not have to show what she does.
Clay needs to get his command of basic grammar straight before he talks about anybody. He is so *WACK!* 😅
Y’all are some hypocrites. So it’s okay for AD to have sex with a sugar daddy but Clay should be a villain for talking about hypothetically cheating
So he wanted to see AD slaving away in the corporate plantation. 🤔
No, he wanted to see her actions line up with the words she told him in the pods. She said she was a hustling entrepreneur and they bonded over both being go getters. When they got out of the pods, he said she flipped the script and wanted a traditional relationship. Which there is nothing wrong with, but you can’t just switch up on what was previously established.
I gues ms they making their 5 minutes of fame to 10 minutes... Guys enjoy it cause eventually we will all be done with this and on to the next
Less & less hope smh very glad he didn’t continue to waste anyone else’s time
Clay and AD..the relationship is water under the bridge…get over it…get your lives together…leave it alone…stop bad mouthing the woman…you said no at the altar Clay…case closed…you knew she wasn’t working beforehand…yet you said that was the main reason you said no…you should of said no to her body as well…just keep it moving…next!
Him and Ad need to go home and figure themselves out.
He is narrow minded
So, who still cares? We're ready for season 7.
This dude KARMA is going to snatch him out
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AD wears all this designers, red bottoms, Louis Vuitton, YSL and all other brands. She must have a sugar daddy.
Wanting your woman to have a job is bad thing?
Smh...wat a shame
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