This is a wake-up call to the boy child. In your 30s, you must transition from thinking like a boy to embracing the mindset of a responsible man. Recognize that there is a generation relying on you. Time passes swiftly-an entire year can feel like a mere week. Stay focused, make deliberate moves that align with your own aspirations, and prioritize what truly matters to you, rather than seeking approval from others.
I agree. Let's also stop referring to young men as boy child, it infantilises young men who have so much to offer and need to step into the season of building themselves mentally, physically and emotionally.
I studied in Durham N.C. Nilichapa kazi ya CNA mpaka I got my masters degree. Now I have a great job. I thank God I wasn't greedy for material things. Now I can afford anything I want.
39 year old (creative) woman here. As a people-pleasing, introverted, empath, maisha ya corporate world karibu iniue. Seven months ago I decided I can't live the rest of my life like this. Quit, started learning and monetising digital design skills. I'm still improving but I've never been happier. Whatever you need to do to redeem yourself, do it. This life is way too short
Ndugu, nimepatana na hii video two months after I said “fuck it!” And moved from home when I realized am almost 30 and I’ve done close to nothing important in life. Am outside here trying to discover myself. Thanks for this 🙏
very good advice.. I'm now turning 50 retired @ 45 and living in kenya in business.I had a colleague when I was 25 he had said he will only work for 10 years I learned so much from him.. he sacrificed so much and retired into business at the age of 35 enjoying life... it's good you share such great advice to those in 20s and 30s .so much wisdom in your video
Sema Ngugu, Mimi si Mtu wa Kenya lakini I find your advice very helpful as an East African living in the states for more than 20 yrs, I can relate to this. I subscribed to your channel hopefully u can address not only Kenyans but all East Africans.
Every young person MUST see this. I didn’t get into my career until I was in my 30s while raising a family. It was HARD!!!Please do all you can to get that figured out in your 20s - Listen to this man.
Niko 35 na sahii na pitia hiyo struggle ya 6 months. naishi kwa sis nadunga kazi za mkono by day najifunza motion design n animation by night Thanks for making this video umenigenja sana. zidi buda!!!
No truer words have been spoken! Kwanza me where I went to school it was 10k a sem shifts and looking for scholarships is what helped! Mambo ya ku party niliwachia watu wengine 😂 But now, I can say look how far the Lord has brought me! Sending to my bro and subscribing ! Asante
If you are already in college and doing well, go to the international students office and ask. Also you can ask the dean of your specific college if they hv scholarships. Find out if you can do community outreach and get a scholarship though that. ( I volunteered as a research assistant to end food insecurity among the homeless population) You can also google for scholarships around your area. Use key words to describe what you are or what you are looking for. Trust me ata kama ni 500 dollars, it helps. Last but not least, live within your means and restrain from partying. Don’t be in competition with anyone. Your time will come!
I'm 34 and my Kenyan friend mocked me for living in what he calls a shitty house (Mortgage is $1.7k) and shitty car (no car payment). Meanwhile I'm maxing out my 401k at 23k per year ($885 per paycheck), investing $300 biweekly in my stocks account and zero debt. He's almost 50, no 401k, pays $1k per month for his Benz, and has a big house. Goals!
Yes, that is what I did I came US when I was 32yrs ni kafanya dishwashing 6months .Nikafanya CNA but after 2yrs Nika try Nursing but niligundua mapema is not my career. Then Nika vumilia na CNA it pays like a nurse so Nika Sema I am business minded person. Nika nunua duplex last year I rented and bought 4 bedroom kule Kenya Nika build 10studios for University studio's. Pesa ni pesa so long as you know how to invest
35 now, i spent corona period reinventing my career, nikianza biz, failed learning now im in Europe at a top firm, relearning business, you have to suffer first guys if you are struggling in your 30s, things will click eventually but lazma uende chini ya maji, na uache maji..haram keeps u broke
This is a timely message not only for USA occupants but also across the sphere, hapa UK pia sisi lazima tuchangamke! you're doing an amazing job to the entire generation, keep rolling..
Thank you for inspiring me. Currently 25 but this will truly make a difference for me at this early stage. Make mistakes everyone but never regret them. Learn from them.
Great content Buda. I'm 37, been in the US for 13, indeed time flies. Just finished my second year working as a RN, I couldn't be more satisfied with my achievement. Thanks for content, it's a refresher for me having come from basically nothing to something.
Na wewe unaishi wapi na hiyo wisdom nikupatie story yangu ucheke kidogo😂😂 but mi niko poa sasa😂😂 you're very smart. Nindakurutira ngofia- maririe maigue
The first, first things you determine in your mind become your best foundation. The last one is stick-to-itivness... You've chosen this path, stick to it no matter what.
Thank you for this comment. I'm in my mid 20s and I've been here about 4 yrs now. Sometimes I feel stuck coz I feel I wasted my 4 yrs while in Uni since what I studied back home isn't what I'm doing rn. Now I'm going thru nursing school, not out of passion really, but coz it pays better. Sometimes the thought of being in school for sth that I'm not passionate abt messes me up but then again when I go back to my apartment jioni and the bills are waiting for me, reality kicks in. And the reality is it's still okay not doing sth you're passionate abt in order to survive and pay these bills. I'll just stick to this path and see how it goes...
@@kalonje_1 Unajua, sometimes at a younger age, you don't know or understand yourself well. If you are on a growth path, it's one day at a time. Bora progress, adapting, adjusting. It took me 7 good years to start doing what fit my circumstances/preferences/future/skill set. Self employment. Then it took me another 7 years to start making 6 figures. I noticed that I was making more than some governors in select mid-western states. I stayed at that level with increments here and there, for another 7 years and when filling my taxes, I found out that I was making more than my state governor, which is a top 10 state! I then shut it all down and came back home, working & chilling on the farm. True story. I'm waiting nigonge 7 years kwa shamba to see what milestone, I'm hitting coz my things seem to beckon in 7's. Moral... grow gradually, adapt, learn, add and it should work out well for you. ✌🏾
I hear you. Very few Kenyans go into nursing school by choice. Maybe you can do a masters in administration and become an administrator in an insurance company or hospital. You'll be making very good money without having to deal with patients
It's true bro,i have a cousin in Oklahoma,he left kenya in 1999 n he came back 3 years ago with nothing n he still got back there,he would have done better in Kenya
From self esteem issues, keeping up with the Joneses, discipline, goals, focus, empowering mama, and brute hard work. You’ve covered it all. Thank you. Wanaume wa kuskia this 💯 facts hawataki kuiskiza.
The only thing I will add is; the higher you get the more fake friends you will have. So don't think your circle will grow with you. I am now a friend of convenience. When I was broke I felt more comfortable with friends but now they only reach out when they need something. This is the best video I have seen. Normally ni ujinga tu with other people but this one is the one. Good job. Btw I'm a lady but I hustle like a man literally. Sipendi ujinga... thats my motto. Community doesn't have to be your country mates. Find people with a similar mind set. The last one pay life insurance or at minimum funeral insurance. 7 dollars a month will save your loved ones from a traumatizing time when the inevitable happens.
Word bro...#word! Like lifestyle pressure in Seattle,WA...when I realize it 7years ago I just moved to another state, settled on low profile with just limited contacts
Wow! That's great advise and thank you for sharing your experience in the US. Am a 60 year old mother of one daughter and your content has inspired me to inspire others who look up to me. God bless you and pray you continue to experience God's unstoppable blessings in all aspects of your life in Jesus mighty name Amen. Greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪 Will definitely share with youth in church.
Very well put! Never heard you prior to this. Ma guys wetu wananeed content kaa hii. Like you said, our parents not being here means there’s nobody to guide us/our men. Big kudos!!
Weird question to ask but are you married with children? I'm 27 and feel like I'm too old to apply for a green card because I would have to start over and I still want to start my own family but feel like time is slipping by.
I'm a woman and I met my ex when he was 39 and had nothing to his name. He had spent over 15 years in America partying and drinking. I accepted him with his flaws forgetting you can't teach an old dog new tricks. I suffered financially, emotionally, mentally and now I'm raising my daughter alone. I'm in a great career making good money, but I regret the time I wasted with him. I regret not realizing he was an alcoholic until we started living under the same roof. 😢
Hey Mercy, be thankful that you had the opportunity to open your heart to love. See a therapist to find out why you are attracted to fixing men. Find healing so that you can open yourself up for love again. You deserve a good man who is at your level and don't be apologetic about it.
Asante manze Me nko 22 na hii talk manze imenichange kuona life vidifferent sana. Nafeel nko strong saizi mentally plus pia nafeel motivated and one thing greed ya kutaka vitu high end imereducd..... Thanks man
Banana Land BIG UP YOURSELF. I wish ii video sana sana naomba iwafikie mayut wapya ambao wanapata nafasi ya kuja nchii hii ya Amerika sababu apa as you say AITAKI WARAZI. Shukran kwa ii vida mawaidha nayo kwa kweli ni yaa kiungwana . Baraka BananaA Land.
@@jeankamau575 Hii Dubai sio ile ilikuwa hapo awali. Guys flooded from all over. Especially Nigerians na Ugandans,walikuwa wengi hadi saa hii,to a point where they were sleeping in the streets. So,ilibidi Government ya huku iambie Governments zao waje wachukue watu wao. Na sio ati ninakuvunja moyo,lakini that is the reality kwa wakati huu. Demand ya wale wanatafuta jobs ni wengi kuliko jobs zenyewe. They even resorted to closing visit visas from over 20 African countries ambao walikuwa wamejaa huku tarmacing.
Real 💯 talk. Its good that young people are listening from a man that they can relate to, especially when age is concerned. If they had an opportunity to listen to an old man/woman, they may think that such a person has detached from the reap experience of today's generation. Thanks for sharing. I think I will be mean to deny you a like and subscription.
manze big up me niko hapa Virginia nimekua US 3 years na depression ilinitandika mpaka nikaamua kupiga content nijiandike,, I am 31 years sahii ndio najijenga
this video came in time as am supposed to relocate to the USA this year. i pray that it goes well with me. thanks bro. i will sub and continue with the good work ❤
Time flies in that country. Plan your future and write all your goals then stick to those written goals and begin to invest in plots back at home. You will thank me later only if you follow this small piece of advice
Time flies indeed, nakumbuka sitting at Uhuru park when i was 17 yrs wondering about me in my 40's, Fast Foward , I'm 49yrs this second, Speed of sound i tell ya', in London packing up m Bags after 30yrs and coming home to Kenya to Semi-retire, Life sio mchezo, so Usicheze.
@@paulkatembo1896 Hi Bro, Wheen you reach ur late 40's, Jobs become scarce aand u find urself at the back of the queue, Economy is Cooked, U.K is a bankrupt broke country, believe me i've been watching their decline and now its Bailout time, I'ld rather scoop my 24yr pension and come buy some land and set up some businesses as you cant afford anything here, even the white people(Natives) are Bailing out of their own country, Only foreigners think brito is rich, youtube search "I'm leaving the UK for good" and see wwhat theey think of their country, it will collapse under its debt, its a Debt Based Economy like Zimbabwe, they are being propped up by Money Printing, Not enough taxes raised plus their Warmongerng, Even aa Nuclear exchange is probable so Gichagi here i come kufaanya ukulima na biashara niboost economy yetu ama ?
Tell our sons, boy child . please call a seminar and tell them , it's a wake up call. to marry having children good job is coming to them when its too late
Am looking at your video wondering if God sent you. I stopped alcohol/cigarettes I thought I was crazy but have you just made my day. Thank you brother. Am based in Australia am a multidisciplinary creative and your story resonates with me. Am grateful to have a partner who is passionate and loving. Keep up with the great content. Thank you
I needed to hear this message. I am a 40 year old Uganda living in Los Angeles- very unsure of my next move because I am still not married and childless. I have houses in Kampala and my village- actually considering moving back home and marrying and starting life. Right now I am just surviving
Umeongea poa kabisa bro. Let men empower their women. I appreciate my hubby for empowering and supporting my dreams and career. I have supported him too and we are all in a better place.
Well in Sam… that was sound advice and wisdom. We’ve seen how you’ve grown Bananaland from nothing to where it is today! Congratulations and keep doing more of this, you won’t believe it it’s my mom who sent me this video… can’t wait to see more ~ Diana
Am new to this channel of yours was just flipping through youtube then i got here,you are so sincere and honest ,,,,,Your wisdom of the modern life is outstanding,,,,,keep them coming,,watching from Bahrain.
Thanks a lot I’m a lady and African though my Swahili is not too good but I understood a bit of it especially the main message . Some of us wish we heard this in our teens or twenties rather than in our late thirties. Nice message
Kijana Hongera sana maelezo mazuri vijana wajifunze kupitia wewe wakija hapa america wanabadilika sana kunywa pombe clan kuvuta maruana na vingine vingi.
Asante Sam! On point for sure 👏
Thanks for watching!! I love ❤️ your channel. Everyone here should subscribe!
This is a wake-up call to the boy child. In your 30s, you must transition from thinking like a boy to embracing the mindset of a responsible man. Recognize that there is a generation relying on you. Time passes swiftly-an entire year can feel like a mere week. Stay focused, make deliberate moves that align with your own aspirations, and prioritize what truly matters to you, rather than seeking approval from others.
Great words. Thanks.
@cahmillie: Perfectly said!
I agree. Let's also stop referring to young men as boy child, it infantilises young men who have so much to offer and need to step into the season of building themselves mentally, physically and emotionally.
Im in usa and ive never heard grown men being called boys. Here a men are men and boys are children below 17 years.
@@theafrinado thank you for saying that.
I studied in Durham N.C. Nilichapa kazi ya CNA mpaka I got my masters degree. Now I have a great job. I thank God I wasn't greedy for material things. Now I can afford anything I want.
Amazing!
Raleigh
@@BANANALANDMEDIA I lived in Raleigh for a few months b4 accepting a job in another state
Congrats Mercy
Congratulations Mercy ❤ 🎉🎉🎉
39 year old (creative) woman here. As a people-pleasing, introverted, empath, maisha ya corporate world karibu iniue. Seven months ago I decided I can't live the rest of my life like this. Quit, started learning and monetising digital design skills. I'm still improving but I've never been happier. Whatever you need to do to redeem yourself, do it. This life is way too short
You are amazing! Keep it up!!
Thank you so much bro I'm Congolese but this video has been so great thanks Sana bruh
As a 50-something, this is world class advice for men under 40! But honestly even if you are over 40 heed it! Umeongea ukweli kamili.
Ndugu, nimepatana na hii video two months after I said “fuck it!” And moved from home when I realized am almost 30 and I’ve done close to nothing important in life.
Am outside here trying to discover myself. Thanks for this 🙏
This is for Kenyans all over... Thanks buda!
Exactly 💯❤
Karibu
@@BANANALANDMEDIA Why are you making this for Kenyans only? Why didnt you make this video in English? Typical selfish Kenyan culture
😂😂@@_trust9994
very good advice.. I'm now turning 50 retired @ 45 and living in kenya in business.I had a colleague when I was 25 he had said he will only work for 10 years I learned so much from him.. he sacrificed so much and retired into business at the age of 35 enjoying life... it's good you share such great advice to those in 20s and 30s
.so much wisdom in your video
Wow ! You are amazing! Thanks for that good response.
Point 💯 sio kwa wanaume tu hata wanawake wajifunze hili🙌
True
This is what i call true content. Big up man!
What i tell people hakuna pesa kindogo US bora tu discipline nazo,peer pressure weka mbali.
Very true 👍🏿
Focus
Sema Ngugu,
Mimi si Mtu wa Kenya lakini I find your advice very helpful as an East African living in the states for more than 20 yrs, I can relate to this.
I subscribed to your channel hopefully u can address not only Kenyans but all East Africans.
Thanks for watching and support. I will work on doing some content for East Africa.
Very true❤
❤❤
Every young person MUST see this. I didn’t get into my career until I was in my 30s while raising a family. It was HARD!!!Please do all you can to get that figured out in your 20s - Listen to this man.
hii mtaa tuko wengi.
Niko 35 na sahii na pitia hiyo struggle ya 6 months.
naishi kwa sis
nadunga kazi za mkono by day
najifunza motion design n animation by night
Thanks for making this video umenigenja sana. zidi buda!!!
Am glad it helps
strong kaka
No truer words have been spoken! Kwanza me where I went to school it was 10k a sem shifts and looking for scholarships is what helped! Mambo ya ku party niliwachia watu wengine 😂
But now, I can say look how far the Lord has brought me!
Sending to my bro and subscribing !
Asante
Thanks so much for watching and taking time to comment. I applaud you for being focused and cutting through this American life. Keep on,
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Sasa.Thankd for the info how did you get the scholarships? Nizaidie links please
If you are already in college and doing well, go to the international students office and ask. Also you can ask the dean of your specific college if they hv scholarships. Find out if you can do community outreach and get a scholarship though that. ( I volunteered as a research assistant to end food insecurity among the homeless population)
You can also google for scholarships around your area. Use key words to describe what you are or what you are looking for. Trust me ata kama ni 500 dollars, it helps.
Last but not least, live within your means and restrain from partying. Don’t be in competition with anyone. Your time will come!
🎉🎉 this free advice is worthy celebration keep up the good work
I love your energy and the heart for young generation
Thank you so much for watching. And the encouragement.
This brother is sharing a life experience that will pave the way for the youngsters. But Kenyans would make sure they find negative in everything
For sure! Hawapendi mawaidha ya kuwajenga, wanataka za kibe
I'm 34 and my Kenyan friend mocked me for living in what he calls a shitty house (Mortgage is $1.7k) and shitty car (no car payment). Meanwhile I'm maxing out my 401k at 23k per year ($885 per paycheck), investing $300 biweekly in my stocks account and zero debt. He's almost 50, no 401k, pays $1k per month for his Benz, and has a big house. Goals!
Yessir!! You doing exactly what I have been doing!
Amazing!!! Keep grinding
You are doing better than me . Great work
I have no car payments and my mortgage is paid off. I have no 401k but I have lots of savings from being self employed 😊
Hapo sawa. Goal is to minimize your leakage. I don't understand how people can be proud of a car note🤦🏾
Bro yaani umenichange am 31 struggling but I am now mentally strong in whatever am doing
Yes, that is what I did I came US when I was 32yrs ni kafanya dishwashing 6months .Nikafanya CNA but after 2yrs Nika try Nursing but niligundua mapema is not my career. Then Nika vumilia na CNA it pays like a nurse so Nika Sema I am business minded person. Nika nunua duplex last year I rented and bought 4 bedroom kule Kenya Nika build 10studios for University studio's. Pesa ni pesa so long as you know how to invest
Amazing!!! You are doing great.
Hi Joanlel, how’s you today. Am inspired by your comment. In the same position at the moment. Please give me your contact, I need some advice .
35 now, i spent corona period reinventing my career, nikianza biz, failed learning now im in Europe at a top firm, relearning business, you have to suffer first guys if you are struggling in your 30s, things will click eventually but lazma uende chini ya maji, na uache maji..haram keeps u broke
Niko in my "van" right now , moved from nairobi to a small coastal town working on my craft.
Amazing
Keep grinding
Umehamia coast Pande gani?
@@IceChampakaWolf888 kilifi
How is it going for you?
❤😂 this is very true, am a lady and I think it’s an eye opener for all.
May you be blessed
Thanks 🙏 for watching!
This is a timely message not only for USA occupants but also across the sphere, hapa UK pia sisi lazima tuchangamke! you're doing an amazing job to the entire generation, keep rolling..
I am glad you think so. Thanks 🙏 for watching.
Wow six months of total consistency can change your entire life for ever..what a great advice!!.. big up bro!
Thanks 🙏 for watching
Wow just wow, as a 32 year old woman I needed this. Asante.
I hear you brother . I mentioned to a friend it is impossible to make friends when you are older . Alafu keroro watu wana kunywa vishenzi
Thank you for inspiring me. Currently 25 but this will truly make a difference for me at this early stage. Make mistakes everyone but never regret them. Learn from them.
Asante for great content umezungumzia watoto wetu. New subscriber appreciative mum. Barikiwa.
Asante sana
Great content Buda. I'm 37, been in the US for 13, indeed time flies. Just finished my second year working as a RN, I couldn't be more satisfied with my achievement. Thanks for content, it's a refresher for me having come from basically nothing to something.
Keep it up
Aki amebonga sense ..especially wasee wakija majuu...wanajisahau. Love yourselves and be comfortable with what Sir God amekupa.
Very informative,thank youuuuu,am in Kenya 🇰🇪 and i think this message is needed here in Kenya too. Am in content creation, growing Also slowly.
Glad it was helpful!
Na wewe unaishi wapi na hiyo wisdom nikupatie story yangu ucheke kidogo😂😂 but mi niko poa sasa😂😂 you're very smart. Nindakurutira ngofia- maririe maigue
Please share your story as his guest. That would be cool 🤩
True young man😊You have really hit the nail on the head 👏 Time flies by so fast😅Let those who have ears hear🤫
Thanks 🙏 for watching
The first, first things you determine in your mind become your best foundation. The last one is stick-to-itivness... You've chosen this path, stick to it no matter what.
Thank you for this comment. I'm in my mid 20s and I've been here about 4 yrs now. Sometimes I feel stuck coz I feel I wasted my 4 yrs while in Uni since what I studied back home isn't what I'm doing rn. Now I'm going thru nursing school, not out of passion really, but coz it pays better. Sometimes the thought of being in school for sth that I'm not passionate abt messes me up but then again when I go back to my apartment jioni and the bills are waiting for me, reality kicks in. And the reality is it's still okay not doing sth you're passionate abt in order to survive and pay these bills. I'll just stick to this path and see how it goes...
@@kalonje_1 Unajua, sometimes at a younger age, you don't know or understand yourself well. If you are on a growth path, it's one day at a time. Bora progress, adapting, adjusting.
It took me 7 good years to start doing what fit my circumstances/preferences/future/skill set. Self employment. Then it took me another 7 years to start making 6 figures. I noticed that I was making more than some governors in select mid-western states. I stayed at that level with increments here and there, for another 7 years and when filling my taxes, I found out that I was making more than my state governor, which is a top 10 state! I then shut it all down and came back home, working & chilling on the farm. True story. I'm waiting nigonge 7 years kwa shamba to see what milestone, I'm hitting coz my things seem to beckon in 7's. Moral... grow gradually, adapt, learn, add and it should work out well for you. ✌🏾
I hear you. Very few Kenyans go into nursing school by choice. Maybe you can do a masters in administration and become an administrator in an insurance company or hospital. You'll be making very good money without having to deal with patients
@@mercyk2672 Great idea. Thank you
Sound life advice. Well balanced and shared by an honest, grounded and sincere man. Young people listen!!!!
Thanks for this good response
@@BANANALANDMEDIA ave subscribed. You have what the generation need to hear.
It's true bro,i have a cousin in Oklahoma,he left kenya in 1999 n he came back 3 years ago with nothing n he still got back there,he would have done better in Kenya
Whatever there are millions living in kenya since 1999 and still have nothing
The difference is that the cousin had a an opportunity and never used @PimaAZ
its not where you are but what you are
Am in Oklahoma.a lot of Kenyans doing well.but alcohol and multiple baby mamas is what is messing up some men.then decades out here and no papers.
😢 what's this critism atleast he is back home may be in a health way
Umesema bro, watu wa some kama wako na brains.
Ombeeni wale hawajafanyikiwa coz wako. Thank you mungu asifiwe ametubariki na opportunity na life.
From self esteem issues, keeping up with the Joneses, discipline, goals, focus, empowering mama, and brute hard work. You’ve covered it all. Thank you. Wanaume wa kuskia this 💯 facts hawataki kuiskiza.
Thanks for this powerful response.
Umeweza Buda,pure wisdom
Shukran
The only thing I will add is; the higher you get the more fake friends you will have.
So don't think your circle will grow with you. I am now a friend of convenience. When I was broke I felt more comfortable with friends but now they only reach out when they need something.
This is the best video I have seen. Normally ni ujinga tu with other people but this one is the one.
Good job.
Btw I'm a lady but I hustle like a man literally. Sipendi ujinga... thats my motto.
Community doesn't have to be your country mates. Find people with a similar mind set.
The last one pay life insurance or at minimum funeral insurance. 7 dollars a month will save your loved ones from a traumatizing time when the inevitable happens.
Thanks for this profound response
As a woman I am also listening.
Thanks for watching
Word bro...#word! Like lifestyle pressure in Seattle,WA...when I realize it 7years ago I just moved to another state, settled on low profile with just limited contacts
Word!
Very good decision to move out and keep a low profile.
Thank you Sam ! Tunakupenda sana bro
Honestly u r telling truth nothing but truth young man I wish all young men should read this u can save many, keep it up en b blsd
Thanks 🙏 for watching!!!
Wow! That's great advise and thank you for sharing your experience in the US. Am a 60 year old mother of one daughter and your content has inspired me to inspire others who look up to me. God bless you and pray you continue to experience God's unstoppable blessings in all aspects of your life in Jesus mighty name Amen. Greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪 Will definitely share with youth in church.
Thanks for this good response.!!
@@BANANALANDMEDIA Most welcome.
Very well put! Never heard you prior to this. Ma guys wetu wananeed content kaa hii. Like you said, our parents not being here means there’s nobody to guide us/our men. Big kudos!!
Thanks for this good response.
Kama mtu hauko focused... chances are hautakuwahi kuwa focused.
Kitu ni kuwa humble!
My 3rd year here, at 33 and thank you for this video, what a lesson!!! Subscribed.
Welcome aboard!
Weird question to ask but are you married with children? I'm 27 and feel like I'm too old to apply for a green card because I would have to start over and I still want to start my own family but feel like time is slipping by.
I'm a woman and I met my ex when he was 39 and had nothing to his name. He had spent over 15 years in America partying and drinking. I accepted him with his flaws forgetting you can't teach an old dog new tricks. I suffered financially, emotionally, mentally and now I'm raising my daughter alone. I'm in a great career making good money, but I regret the time I wasted with him. I regret not realizing he was an alcoholic until we started living under the same roof. 😢
Don’t regret that past. Stand on the wisdom you got from it.
@@BANANALANDMEDIA I agree. Now I don't even want anything to do with men
Niko hapa madam, na si kunywangi
Hey Mercy, be thankful that you had the opportunity to open your heart to love. See a therapist to find out why you are attracted to fixing men. Find healing so that you can open yourself up for love again. You deserve a good man who is at your level and don't be apologetic about it.
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This is what I needed to hear bro,you win one more subscription.
Thank you!
Man I thank God I've stumbled at this channel, keep it bro. Just subscribed quick fast .
Thanks for subbing
Bro i just love how real you are with your advice and you talks great job
I appreciate that!
Very good advice for young men. Most of us who are over 35 to 45 can really relate to your content on this video.
Glad you think so!
Asante manze Me nko 22 na hii talk manze imenichange kuona life vidifferent sana. Nafeel nko strong saizi mentally plus pia nafeel motivated and one thing greed ya kutaka vitu high end imereducd..... Thanks man
Thank you 🙏 for watching!
Banana Land BIG UP YOURSELF. I wish ii video sana sana naomba iwafikie mayut wapya ambao wanapata nafasi ya kuja nchii hii ya Amerika sababu apa as you say AITAKI WARAZI. Shukran kwa ii vida mawaidha nayo kwa kweli ni yaa kiungwana . Baraka BananaA
Land.
This man, wazi sanà 💪
This is helpful 👏
Glad it helped
Umeongea,nimekuona mara ya kwanza.
Niko UAE 🇦🇪 na mimi kama mtu amefikisha 50,hayo ni mawaidha ya kweli.
any jobs in UAE? asking for a person who's there.
@@jeankamau575 Hii Dubai sio ile ilikuwa hapo awali.
Guys flooded from all over.
Especially Nigerians na Ugandans,walikuwa wengi hadi saa hii,to a point where they were sleeping in the streets.
So,ilibidi Government ya huku iambie Governments zao waje wachukue watu wao.
Na sio ati ninakuvunja moyo,lakini that is the reality kwa wakati huu.
Demand ya wale wanatafuta jobs ni wengi kuliko jobs zenyewe.
They even resorted to closing visit visas from over 20 African countries ambao walikuwa wamejaa huku tarmacing.
Real 💯 talk. Its good that young people are listening from a man that they can relate to, especially when age is concerned. If they had an opportunity to listen to an old man/woman, they may think that such a person has detached from the reap experience of today's generation. Thanks for sharing. I think I will be mean to deny you a like and subscription.
Thanks for the support
manze big up me niko hapa Virginia nimekua US 3 years na depression ilinitandika mpaka nikaamua kupiga content nijiandike,, I am 31 years sahii ndio najijenga
Don’t let that depression win. Keep fighting and keep thriving king.
Great content. Vijana waking up.
Ata made pia you have really encouraged me as a woman who is going the same situation God bless you
It all shall be well
this video came in time as am supposed to relocate to the USA this year. i pray that it goes well with me. thanks bro. i will sub and continue with the good work ❤
Best of luck!
Time flies in that country. Plan your future and write all your goals then stick to those written goals and begin to invest in plots back at home. You will thank me later only if you follow this small piece of advice
All the Best Joel
This is the content that we all need
Time flies indeed, nakumbuka sitting at Uhuru park when i was 17 yrs wondering about me in my 40's, Fast Foward , I'm 49yrs this second, Speed of sound i tell ya', in London packing up m Bags after 30yrs and coming home to Kenya to Semi-retire, Life sio mchezo, so Usicheze.
Why should you retire at 50 bro? stay there make money until 65. You can go back home at 65
@@paulkatembo1896 Hi Bro, Wheen you reach ur late 40's, Jobs become scarce aand u find urself at the back of the queue, Economy is Cooked, U.K is a bankrupt broke country, believe me i've been watching their decline and now its Bailout time, I'ld rather scoop my 24yr pension and come buy some land and set up some businesses as you cant afford anything here, even the white people(Natives) are Bailing out of their own country, Only foreigners think brito is rich, youtube search "I'm leaving the UK for good" and see wwhat theey think of their country, it will collapse under its debt, its a Debt Based Economy like Zimbabwe, they are being propped up by Money Printing, Not enough taxes raised plus their Warmongerng, Even aa Nuclear exchange is probable so Gichagi here i come kufaanya ukulima na biashara niboost economy yetu ama ?
Tell our sons, boy child . please call a seminar and tell them , it's a wake up call. to marry having children good job is coming to them when its too late
I live in the US and hereby certify all that you are saying . Its never easy to make it when you dont get things right . This is a life's sylabus
Thanks 🙏 for watching!!
Thanks bro for your great message. If possible, can you please do one in English as many young men born in the diaspora desperately need your advice.
I will try
On point👍sasa am at 48 niko na hope by next year through dv nitacam uko,niko na imani🙏is it to late for me and my family to cam there.
It’s not late at all. Remember I turned my life around within six months. It’s easier to start from zero in America.
@@BANANALANDMEDIA thanx for giving me hope
❤❤❤❤ Budaboss ngong👊.
# Real Talk.
#Trust The Process
#Wacheni Ujingaa
#Wacheni Umbwagni
#Usikae 2 Unyam💨💨😂😅
Am looking at your video wondering if God sent you. I stopped alcohol/cigarettes I thought I was crazy but have you just made my day. Thank you brother. Am based in Australia am a multidisciplinary creative and your story resonates with me. Am grateful to have a partner who is passionate and loving. Keep up with the great content. Thank you
Thanks for watching and am glad it helped.
I needed to hear this message. I am a 40 year old Uganda living in Los Angeles- very unsure of my next move because I am still not married and childless. I have houses in Kampala and my village- actually considering moving back home and marrying and starting life. Right now I am just surviving
I am not yet married too..inbox me @Tonny
Here i am
@@ceciliakariuki8296 Can you survive on matooke without ugali:)
@ceciliwakariuki8296 .
Wueeh...🤣😂🤣😂
Turning 20 soon, dang am already stressin' of not makin' $, I love ur advice very much, especially about taking care about ur body, thankyou.
Anytime. Thanks 🙏 for watching
Thanks alot,am now your fun watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 great information, doing content too.
Thanks for watching!!!
This information is valuable to me even if I'm not in US
Umeongea poa kabisa bro. Let men empower their women. I appreciate my hubby for empowering and supporting my dreams and career. I have supported him too and we are all in a better place.
You are an amazing loyal woman. Thanks for watching!
I have liked your content...telling men the truth. Here they say hawazeeki...thanks for reality check.
Weee... Salute babake. You've spoken serious isht.
Well said, bro
Well in Sam… that was sound advice and wisdom. We’ve seen how you’ve grown Bananaland from nothing to where it is today! Congratulations and keep doing more of this, you won’t believe it it’s my mom who sent me this video… can’t wait to see more ~ Diana
Wow! Thanks so much !!!
Motivation speech for free.... Man you nailed it. Big up💪💪
Thanks 🙏
Thank you, sir. I am 31 and I am in that stage of confusion.
You're right. Really good and solid advice to the youth coming up. Very practical and honest approach to life.
Mi hupenda channel Zina advice ka hizi.ive just subscribed for that.izi channel mingi Ni ZA kuwaste time Na maudaku ZA maceleb
Shukran sana
Am new to this channel of yours was just flipping through youtube then i got here,you are so sincere and honest ,,,,,Your wisdom of the modern life is outstanding,,,,,keep them coming,,watching from Bahrain.
Thanks for watching!!
Officially subscribed... 40 and what you are saying ni ukweli baba...live up the zealous spirit and guys be warned ⚠️ 😉
Thanks for subscribing and watching.
Good to see you Sam. Great sentiments
Thank you kindly
Good advice bro ..facts 💯
Thanks for watching !! I appreciate you!
Bro, thanks for your advice. Your one blessed man, i like what you said about changing your carrier in six months.
Thanks for watching!!
@BANANALANDMEDIA :Am now one new subscriber.
Thanks Sammu.. i needed to hear this.. stay up
Sam this is your geek, go for it by sharing your experience. Sometimes we go through things to inspire others
Thanks for that encouragement
@@BANANALANDMEDIASam am based in Dubai eould you be interested in a collabo?
Thanks a lot I’m a lady and African though my Swahili is not too good but I understood a bit of it especially the main message . Some of us wish we heard this in our teens or twenties rather than in our late thirties. Nice message
It’s never too late. And thanks 🙏 for watching.
Good Job brother. Keep it up Kabisa.
Thank you, I will
Kijana Hongera sana maelezo mazuri vijana wajifunze kupitia wewe wakija hapa america wanabadilika sana kunywa pombe clan kuvuta maruana na vingine vingi.
Yeap Mimi Niko 25 but shukran kwa advise. Nimekuskiza bro
Focus bro,miaka zinasonga mbaya
Asante kwa sharing! True. Wisdom.
40 best years!!
Big up
May those have ears hear and learn from our brother.
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks 🙏 for watching!
Tujifunze hii sote.U got me hapo kwa kuinua dame hadi huko, aaaah,wea are they that lift em'.😊
For sure I subscribed. I haven't heard wisdom like this from 'wasee' Keep it up!
Awesome, thank you!
😂😂😂 period I’m in my late 20’s and this is facts! SPEAK TRUTH!!!