Full Episode: Williams vs Wiggins
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- Terri hates Antonio’s controlling behavior and his lack of affection. Antonio says Terri has a bad temper and needs to learn how to communicate. Can this couple of 8 years finally make it down the aisle or call off their engagement? Find out on the next Divorce Court with Judge Lynn Toler.
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He said “I want to make you happy, if you’re not happy with me what’s the point of getting married.” I wish more of us would look at it like that.
Ruthology Fitness hey gal!! 👋🏽
Vee Darko exactly!! Would seem such an easy concept.
Terrence The Dowser Barnes.
The thing about that is in a marriage your are not going to be happy all the time. That does not mean you need to divorce. It is normally communication thats the problem and that is fixable.
Charisma House that’s is true, however there are sometimes that a person just no longer is happy with their mate. People will stay together for every reason except being happy. Up and downs are indeed normal, but if someone is just not happy with you, it’s time to call it quits.
Ruthology Fitness hey boo😍😘😂😂😂
I liked how he was like you're right. He acknowledged her concerns about him and I think that's a good thing. Cuz most guys that come on here act like their wife or girlfriends concern is ridiculous
Esther Jean true that... Bringing wisdom to the DC comments as usual!
Yet, her attitude was never discussed....
This show teaches men to acquiesce to women and accept their demented ways.
The American Psychiatric Society would approve of this abominable court proceeding.
Charles Merchant her attitude kind of was talked about.. it's because she's not getting affection, having to beg for money, not being listened to, and because when she brings up a concern- he blows it out of proportion.
I think he's a good man and is not out of line in anything that he's doing..... she's abusing the fact of him taking care of her. If she wants things her way she needs to atleast get a part time job to cover her extra expenses and lighten his burden.
Esther Jean damn girl ,u single?
One of the best episodes. I like this dude. He's actually a provider and a father and isn't out running the streets and doesn't disrespect her. Best of luck to them.
Am glad that there isn't a statement about cheating for this young couples on like others.
Big up 👆 to you guys.
**unlike** lol
Monet491 u wild..lmao
So we just gonna slide past the argument on wigs with a last name Wiggins 🤔🤣🤣🤣
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LMAOOOOO I KNOWWW
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I was surprised how much my wife wanted physical touch. Whenever she is hurt or stressed I don't have to say much but hug her or touch her shoulder. It does wonders cause I'm not good at speaking
@James Craig I’m the same way. A lot of women are like that.
James Craig 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@lynnfaraj9051 the best
You sound like a good husband.
Good man 😊
I like this couple. He's a very self aware guy. That speaks volumes about his character.
I don't believe him, he just wanna be correct in judge Toler s site
Glad to see my Brother holding it down, however when The Queen is a Stay at home we gots to look out for them also...
Terrence Kelsey 3 kids and one on the way her ass needs a job and birth control
Terrance I agree with you. It takes a lot to bring forth life. They are a great couple. He is a good dude and taking care of business.
facts. honestly being a stay at home mom is work lol
Courtney Bailey yes! I've done it, it is not easy. I love working, but when I wasn't and he was I do expect bills paid and I need my beer and books and gardening supplies thank you. I'm not going crazy at home. If I'm only one working, he has what he needs.
Very true,however too many women don't run with that Class of man...They get Mr 50/50..oh she gone have uh job too kind of joker's...My wife is a stay at home wife since 05 and yes she's a spoiled one.
"Hey...let's wear the same colors. Judge Toler is going to love it."
Jafette Otis lol yes
Wow, this case is like a breath of fresh air. They have minor problems and I hope they continue to fight through them.I'm happy for them & I wish them nothing but the best and many many more years together.
I cannot stay home all day waiting for someone else's money 😣
Miss Briggs she can 😂😂😂
Miss Briggs I salute you 😊👍👍🙏
I never looked at me being a stay at home as waiting on my husband money. I've been working since I was fourteen so me staying home with our children was an honor and sacrifice. I had a joint bank account with my husband and put myself on a $150 budget every week for anything I wanted for myself and the kids. I'm back at work now that our kids are older but I enjoyed staying home with them..
Miss Briggs EXACTLY. HELL I'M @ WORK NOW😂
9INER EMPIRE why? Shouldn't we salute people who make any sacrifice to ensure their kids have the most beneficial life possible? Sometimes that entails both parents working, or the mom, or the dad. The kids needs should always come first, not social stereotypes
Never bring your family into the problems you're having with your man. Especially not in her situation
Esther Jean
Wow … actual intelligence being written down. It's so damn rare.
Yeah once you tell the or friends on one bad thing in your relationship they will always be there to give advice and most of the time not so good advice!
jarvis thomas Most of the time when people complain about their partner to their friends or family members it’s never good things so they’re giving you advice based on what you tell them. They think it’s good advice because you probably made your partner look bad
I would have called my mom about caring for my kids while I work not about hanging out.
Good couple.. like 1000% better than the last 20 couples on here..Why? Because no one suspect the other one is cheating
Flat Ulence It's very refreshing to see ☺☺☺
Yeah, those start getting either trashy or sad.
I need Judge Lynn Toler as my Aunt. I learn something new each episode ❤
Even though they did it backwards and still young. At least he still there and taking care of his business by taking care of his family. Thank goodness theirs no social media and cheating involved . Besides that , Judge Lynn just looking beautiful as ever. She said get on a “ birth control plan “ 😂😂😂😂
Cajsha Gatson I agree. They have issues that can be resolve with a little help. Cheering for them!
wat issues do they have!? its just normal relationship problems and they r in court for that, than I dont know if they will last. 8 years and now there are issues of affection come on something dont sound right. He is a very good man a taking care of his business and yes the woman is a stay at home mom wow wat she want a cookie, that is wat she is suppose to do.
Was sad to hear he thinks birth control is all on the woman. That’s so basic.
Imma let yall finish but judge toler is the finest judge of all time 😍
Condor_l Gaming I agree, she is beautiful.
Yes. As she ages she gets more beautiful.
Got 3 kids, lives together and a stay at home mom what's the point of getting married when you doing wifely duties
Bigg Will 96 she might not want to live in sin
TAMARA I know right might as well make her a honest women
TAMARA She already committed the sin, getting married doesn't change that.
Ai Akumu She gets forgiveness and gets redemption
Bigg Will 96 CHURCH!!
This is the first couple that I've truly liked!
8 years and 3 kids later and you don't know what you want.
Come on! I was thinking the same too. How come things are so messed up and out of order in this era ?
Nayla S. Then she pregnant again
she's lost... and apparently no one has money for contraceptives..... like what!? here is to our tax dollars!
Shenice Says thats why you get married, enjoy each other being married first then bring kids into the mix. Ass backwards
should have thought about that before these kids...three kids they should be married and shes young
I refuse not to be a working woman because dudes can use that leverage in a negative way.
Shenice Says Exactly I never wanna depend on any man. A lot of men who have their girl that's not working take advantage of that. They think they can do anything and it'll be okay cuz they're paying the bills.
Shenice Says it's hard if you have small children. Child care is very expensive
Women do 2
I am a man and I am an advocate of women empowerment, I understand the concept of stay-at-home mom but not having a source of income sucks. Having total financial dependent on some else is scary. I wouldn't want that for my daughter.
Shenice Says. Then that would not be the right one.
I’m cracking up when he says “I like to Shmell fresh” 😂😂
Right, I was like did I hear it right
After being together for 8years plus children, they're still unsure if they should get married? Ridiculous.
2 incomes would be a plus. Consider a registered daycare operation. You're home making a good income and keeping your children.
Shelia Pea that's what I did. Precious Angels daycare when mine were small. Now grown adults.
How does this work? How do you get paid? Sounds like something I'd like to do.
Please how can I start off such a business? I love taking care of babies.
This! When you have 4 small kids, she’ll be home for at least another 5-6 years and will be able to have a little income and still be home to greet their children. She’ll be unhappy depending on him for that long lol
I agree because he controlling her with money while she's at home all day with the kids
I like this couple a lot, the only problem I have is 3 kids &one on the way &now they thinking about marriage lol ,I wish them the best .I suggest she gets a job when the kids gets alittle older,There's nothing like independence
kenn Blover Amen and then he will change up and begin acting correctly when she earns her own cash. She needs that balance. However,now that she is pregnant again....
They should definitely think about marriage. In fact they should be married
This is one of the few episodes where the couple actually take the judges advice no arguing fussing or cussing each other out very mature couple I'm rooting for them
I love judge Lynn she's such a intelligent beautiful black lady and she gives the best advice!!
Why do people have three kids and then wonder should they get married?
i like this guy. He was okay with admitting his wrongs and listening. ole girl need to step her game up with making money but he need to step his game up with being affectionate. No excuses on either side. Just get better and get it done. Wish them well ....
Shaakeeiiaa Salem Yes the guy was very receptive of Judge Toler's advice. Sometimes relationships need a mediator like a judge, therapist, God or even a relative to get people to nudge and give a bit more
Shaakeeiiaa Salem who gonna watch the 4 kids? That daycare ain’t no joke, she better off staying at the crib now. Or do something online
Real Blessed she better find something to do to bring in some change especially if her complaint is that he don’t give her money.!She could baby sit, work from home...something
Shaakeeiiaa Salem she does work at home.. it's being a mom. The kids are young still. I worked for a lady who was a stay at home mom, she would take her kids and the neighborhood kids to museums and other activities. Then they got older so she started her own business, where she would go to schools all across southern California to give speeches on various topics. Sometimes you have to put your life on hold because of the choices you made.
I'm glad to hear the youngster came off that "G" shit, to show affection is to show weakness; because, "The Eyes, They Never Lie", and in his, I seen the fear of losing her if he didn't decide to change!
Dwahn Denson I am a touchy feely person. If you my man and I genuine dig you I want to touch and be touched in a general affectionate way. A lot of males have allowed this hip hop culture to tell them how to be a man. It is very destructive.
She also needs to be thinking how she can better herself and make some money. With four young children she want be able to work. Day Care would kill them.
Hip hop culture? How about those single mothers?
Man, I was so happy to read your comment. I think this couple both really love each other and was willing to learn and improve! Not anything so bad going on here. With that being said I was happy to see your comment because all down the thread is nothing but negative. I felt lost. I said did I miss something? Nobody is perfect, dang but for the most part .... They are good.
If you're not ready to get married, don't keep having children. Damn. These people are so ridiculous.
8:02 Him: "I like to shmell - I like to shmell fresh."
Me: "Did he just say -"
Him: "I'm not going around here shmelling musty."
Me: "BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!" *dead*
Seriously though, these two are alright. No craziness, although I feel like he is borderline controlling. He seems like he realizes it though, and genuinely wants to make her happy.
I was glad to see at the end that they are doing better and set a date.
However, not married and on Divorce Court, but THREE kids and another on the way?! Daaaang. Ladies please control your fertility!! Yes, the man should also be part of making sure contraceptives are being used, but at the end of the day the woman will be the one carrying around a baby for nine months, and will most likely be the one to carry the burden of being a single mother if they don't stay together.
Ethereal Jen hahahahahaaaaaa I thought the same thing 😂
He sounded like Cardi B 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 You heard it correctly.
Ethereal Jen
Hilarious!
Ethereal Jen you are killing me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂shmelling
“Get on a little birth control plan !” Love the judge. That was a nice couple
Such an amazing guy. So rare guys like him in this show. I wish them all the love and happiness in the world.
AWE!! I really liked this episode! Love when they actually listen to what Judge Toler has said.
1 time in long time I have seen a american couple with so much respect for each other - both are villing to learn - no shouting - only listening😊👍
This episode speaks volumes. Work for your own... I like this guy
8 years together, 3 kids and he isn’t comfortable with affection yet?
so refreshing to NOT hear about going through phones, other people calling and posting on social media, stepping out on each other, fights, busting out car windows, et.al; that exhausting list can go on. they were indeed just needing some tweaking, not full blown overhauling!,
I love it! Wonderful couple! Gives me Hope!
I'm happy that their experience on Divorce Court had a positive affect on their relationship and that they are getting married.
8 years and 3 children and NOW THINKING of getting married. CartS before the horse. 🤦🏾♀️
Glad they stayed together but they did everything so backward. They already have three kids and been together for 8 years and nor married.
Esther Jean girl you sound like you want him for yourself...
Appolonia Santiago I don't see how that makes any sense.
This era is a mess, in the western world. Nothing but disorder. At least they're making up for all this mess by officially committing to each other.
Nayla S. Committing to each other makes up for NOTHING.
Lot of bastards, eh?
Working dysfunction....
Good couple they just need to iron out a few issues...1st birth control 2nd she needs a job.
Michelle Nelson she has a job, those kids. A regular job is optional for her.
Michelle Nelson she cant get a job now, they got 4 kids. Daycare going to cost more than her income at the job. Mind as well stay home now.
Real Blessed you right about that. But thats why birth control was my number 1 they need to stop having kids they way to young
They have 3 children and another on the way. The money from whatever job she gets will probably be eaten up by childcare costs.
+lavinder11 I make a nice salary and paying $650 per child a week still makes my head hurt lol...
I will never understand how some couples just keep producing kids when they're not sure if they want to be together in the long run. It's sickening
I agree the time to decide that is before all the baby making. But on the fair side alot of these people get together far too young to begin with. They've been together since age 17 or 18.
Love this episode and wishing for the best with this young and beautiful couple.
Well this was one of the best episodes I've watched yet, such a beautiful couple, I really enjoyed this episode.
Judge gave some excellent advice throughout this episode. I like this couple, wish them much success👏🏿
I am black and proud but I cannot stand our obsession with tax time.
Shenice Says
Right!! It's only your money that you've overpaid into the system & you don't get any interest
Shenice Says
Hilarious!
Use your tax money wisely like paying your bills and/or fixing your credit.
Use your tax money wisely like paying your bills and/or fixing your credit.
You and me both. With kids, just 5 years of not spending it will pay for a cemetery plot and funeral expenses instead of using GoFundMe as life insurance. Or open up college fund. Or save it for a rainy day. Something. Anything. Smh.
They are a very nice, young, respectable, and well-mannered couple!! AWESOME!
They seem like a good couple. They look their ages too lol
Hold on three kids and one on the way.
JustMy Opinion right the same thing I was thinking because she's younger than me and I'm 30 smh 🤔🤔
Ikr. How do you fuck up 4 times🤔
MissTruthz 🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂
Shenice Says right!
Shenice Says 😔He steady patting himself on the back. "I do this",i do that.
The obvious question why keep having kids , staying at home, no job. You got needs and wants that need money to ask him. He just said he don't see why to marry you. But he has made a village.
She stays home all day with 3 kids under 5 and she is pregnant and you wonder why she may have a attitude and then you cry when the mother of your kids wants to be treated special if you switched for a while your attitude would change
Why do people do things backwards and then want to get married?? They already live together and have kids so what is the purpose of her wanting to get married?
FullofSouthernCharm Say it louder for the people in the back 🗣
@@taybee4653 ...because couples don't PUT THEIR NEGOTIATIONS on the table before sex and have children after the fact. Men=logical Black women=Emotional 😔
That’s one of the worst predicaments to be in: completely dependent on a man to survive.
This couple made me smile
If you got a good dude working to provide for you and your kids be grateful and patient with him. Children need their mother. Daycare can never replace those priceless moments.
So true. I regret not staying home longer.
4 kids at 26? Somethin ain't right....
And they're ALL under 5 y/o (head spinning)
Miss C. Something is right...her uterus is working properly.
They may have a set of twins, you never know
Miss C. I knew a woman who had 6 kids at 27.
26 isn't a baby.
A woman can start having kids as young as their teen years.
Miss C. Whats wrong with that? Im 28 and i have 4 kids and i work and i have my shit together
It’s not that he’s musty but that he doesn’t want to give affection. 3 kids and one on the way and he says he’s not affectionate. Was good when he finally admitted it.
Make your own money. Go to school. Stop having children you obviously can't afford. Get married, wait, then have children.
I forgot they weren't married 😀 peace and blessings to them both and their beautiful children!
All I love this couple I hope they’re still going strong.
Oh he knows how to be affectionate. They have 3 kids and one on the way. He just doesn’t want to give his woman the kisses and hugs she asks for when she asks for it.
girl..go work part time cuz depending on men these days not a good look. if they pay all the bills..they throw it on your face.
Kels Blair yea because women NEVER remind us of what they do constantly
Kels Blair True.
That's not always true. I've seen some great relationships where the man provided and the woman took care of the home front. They really worked as a team and it gave me a point of reference for myself.
Beast Lee Well duh, two wrongs don't make a right though. Anyway, in this case she is getting things thrown in her face. If this was vice versa..I would have said the same thing sensitive Lee 🤦🏾♀️
William Floyd If you have the right man, it can work well. However, I would make sure my daughter gets educated and able to survive on her own just vin case the marriage does not survived. This only works with productive, real men.
She needs to get something going on for herself. She is in an economically vulnerable situation.
Great episode. Easily fixable problems BEFORE the emotional/physical cheating or petty disrespect. In this case, he was honest in acknowledging his flaws. She has to learn to be more assertive and talk to him rather than call her mom on him. Looks like he’s a good provider, so he needs to fund an account just for her. That way she won’t need to ask him for money. He must make the effort to show her affection every day, even when he’s dirty and musty from work. If he does just those two things, she’s going nowhere and they will have a good life
I really love dis couple, nothing wrong wit bein a SAHM...but a part time job would keep her from askn him for money...I pray they grow old together, really love their spirits 😍😍
Lmao! What she got out of what the judge said was "I'm gonna TELL him I'm going out instead of asking him"...(well that's part of it but I believe Judge Toler meant to work on her communication and deliverance as a whole) and I think he got the actual point the judge made towards him. I hope they're relationship thrived and are happily married now. Best of luck!
Lovely couple with a beautiful family. I pray they work through their differences and stay together and get married
She had the nerve to say he’s not in control at home after starting the entire case off by saying she had to ask him for money to go out..... she’s a stay at home mom and he’s an HVAC installer so he clearly is the one with all the money. 🤦🏾♀️
I bet if the woman he really wants come into his life he would give all the affection in the world. He doesn’t want her. And then he talks about her attitude like he ain’t the cause of it.
They're a cute couple, I think they'll be okay. Finally, a couple who isn't cheating on each other.
That pride when she said “i am a stay at home mum”;smh...nothing wrong with raising ur kids but u have to deal with the consequences of depending on a dude.
blak ric that's kind of like saying the guy should have to deal with her getting affection from other guys because he has to deal with the consequences of not giving it to her himself. Maybe a little bit of a stretch, but you get what I'm saying lol 😅
@@nicolehadley5992 if he was unwilling to make those changes, that would be exactly what what he would end up dealing with because she would leave or cheat. He was respectful enough to acknowledge his flaw and make an effort to fix it.
A different type of man could definitely leave her vulnerable with no money and 4 children.
If you're not working, have 3 children under 5yrs of age and pregnant again, you don't need money for wigs and girls night outs. Use that money for daycare and get a damn job and leave this man alone. He's not your father. Be a big girl, contribute, make your own money and be a productive citizen of society.
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I love love I truly hope they make this relationship work.
That must be her mom in the audience behind her... that lady look just like her as an older version with a wig...
I’m here for it. They were adorable.
This right here !! Should be lesson...instead of depended on a man go get a job or something to have your own money. Smh
That is not the lesson. The lesson is understanding that children add weight and responsibility to any relationship. First get your relationship stable before you start piling in the kids. In today’s society, one income household requires real discipline. The my mine attitudes kills a relationship
Beautiful couple my brother holding it down and truly has a woman who really loves him judge Toler give the best advice I love that lady
Nothing wrong with a stay at home mom. I love it. It's a job. There would be no problem if he gave her some discretionary income.
Reggie J & there's nothing wrong with a woman having dreams,goals,career,job that she loves doing?? regardless she's a mom, wife, single,divorce,e.c.t!! he's not the one with a problem..she is the problem that doesn't want a working paying job & full of excuses.
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Thank you!!
Nice episode no cussing and fussing just both needed some mo lovin 😊😉
If he is not showing any affection now, he's not going to show affection after you're married . Please recognize that it will not get better!
8:05 Did he seriously kept saying "shmell"? 😂
Antonio is right about the cost $100 is alot
It's annoying when dudes say things like she cooks good.
So far this is what I'm hearing:
She's 26, has three children, and currently pregnant, has no income of her own, buying wigs with tax return funds, dependent on a guy for everything....OMG, I have a headache!! I hope she gets herself together, get educated have a career and be a role model for those kids. Its 2018!!
Facts 💯
How much more affection does she need.. she has 3 kids and 1 more on the way..she's been getting some kind of affection from Him somewhere when its Sex time...And this is a BEFORE YOUR VOWS...wow
Spicy Creole Lady 😂 true but little hugs and cuddling are very important.
Anybody can nut in someone. Doesn't meant showing you affection. If they're only trynna be all up on you when they want sex then that's not her idea of affection. The affection she's talking about is that she wants him to just hug her or kiss her.
Nashwa Nonsuch Naila Fucking is fucking, affection is affection....They are not the same.
i know what u meant but scorned, feminist and shallow women or controlling women take everything to heart.
both are just awasome ....we all go through a little rough spots in life because we are all learning along the way.
There is something endearing about him. It’s difficult to express love if you weren’t shown love growing up, however, eight years into a relationship is enough time to learn. But, maybe they didn’t know how to express it and work through it without support. I like them...love the birth control comment. 🤣
8 years with 3 children? They should have been married!!!
Why didn't he push the gate open for her, and let her walk through first.
Why they have three kids talking about they don’t know if they ready to marry
Did she really go run and tell mommy?? I-
There's absolutely nothing wrong with staying at home BUT it all depends on what kinda husband/man you have. I would NOT be a stay at home wife if he was my dude.
kay22100 Agree, but she really hurt herself by having some many kids. The cost of child care would eat up a lot of her money. Another reason why becoming parents shouldn’t be item 1 when you enter into a relationship.
i lost it when she said "I have to ask him for money"....uhhh sis you need a JOB
sister needs a job... you should ALWAYS HAVE YOUR OWN.. man or woman.. period point blank.. I don't care how many children a person may have, they should have a JOB! you have to ask someone for money like how old are you.... ? #SISGETAJOB. Even if its a side hustle, or part time... you could wash some dishes, do some hair, be a secretary.. hell start your own business.... monetize off your gift! We are too great to be just "stay at home moms"... even if this is her desire have your own pocket change sweetie, so when you WANT to head out youre not "asking for money" like a child to a parent! #MiniRant Sorry!
GiGi Marie I think she is doing all you listed (besides starting a business), so why shouldn't she get paid? He would have to pay a maid, do it himself, or live in filth.
and I agree with you, but she needs to secure her own income..I would much rather her start her own business.
GiGi Marie well she would much rather spend time with her family.. people are too focused on money, we've isolated ourselves from each other
yea, well i'd have to disagree with your comment in regards to my initial comment. My position is she can not be mad or upset when she ask her husband for money and he says no.... GET A JOB!
So... your 26 with three children about to have a fourth child and now you wanna get married... Lord you did it all backwards. 🤦🏾♀️
This is why I’ll always work. I’ll never have a man tell me he can’t give me $20 or ask me if I don’t have ‘one’ already! Or I’m ready to go out and have to hold out my hand. Many nopes. I’ll live within my means thank you.
She’s gripping about money, that she’s not restocking in the household- Evidence of that is her calling her MOMMA and crying and pouting about not getting it when she wants. You a grown women, with FOUR kids, whining when you don’t get your way... Girl
The real problem is she wants the role of Wifey and is with a guy who wants to control the money, if she were to get a part time job or something to have her own money, she'd have her own say so as well. I'm not faulting her for having the kids, but to have the kids before you get the ring is crazy. Because he could be up and out of that house and on to another family and she'd have no type of support other than the child support he'd give her. So she'd invest in a man who's able to just dip on her and I doubt she's got any high level skills to get a job to support herself and 4 kids. She's doing things in reverse and he's making excuses about why he can't be more affectionate with her. And no grown up should be calling their parents to get their man to hand over some money to go out, she's acting grown, but she's not showing up as a grown up.
Deviancy Behavir exactly!! what is she going to do then..when he stop paying bills,not providing for them,move on & get with another woman???
Women need affection it does wonders. And men need good attitude and respect from women. They look so committed in the relationship.
Such a great, reasonable judge!