Thank you for being vulnerable. Feel like I found your channel to find this exact video! I needed to hear this. I completely understand. I am in my late 20s and all of my school years have changed me. I always felt like what was happening was my fault that maybe I said of did something to make these guys do or say what they did, to make these girls act the way they did. Just a few years ago I realized I did nothing wrong. Being as young at 10 going through what was happening was not normal. I was terrified of speaking up to someone in school, thinking someone would laugh and say “its just boys being boys they probably like you”. I get now why people are terrified of speaking up and take years to report it. I feel I lost my teen/college years of fun because of being scared of strangers, scared of what could happen. I lived always thinking “what if” making me not do something, not go somewhere instead of living in the moment because back in school I assumed everyone had the possibility of doing what the bad ones did. Just a few years now I have told 1 person everything and it was a huge relief off my shoulders. I accepted what has happened and deal with it to move on. less anxiety and still decreasing my trust issues. Still less anxious around strangers mostly men if I am looked at a certain way or seeing someone do a double take on me. I live always checking my surroundings especially when alone but I am 10 times better than before.
I’m so sorry to hear that love. It takes a toll on your mental health when you aren’t able to tell anyone too 😔 I’m so glad you were encouraged by this video. I hurt for way longer than I should have and I don’t want anyone else to go through that. Please continue to be strong and never let that define you. I wish I could give you a hug right now!! Just know I’m sending you lots of love and prayers 💕
Thank you for being vulnerable.
Feel like I found your channel to find this exact video! I needed to hear this.
I completely understand. I am in my late 20s and all of my school years have changed me. I always felt like what was happening was my fault that maybe I said of did something to make these guys do or say what they did, to make these girls act the way they did. Just a few years ago I realized I did nothing wrong. Being as young at 10 going through what was happening was not normal. I was terrified of speaking up to someone in school, thinking someone would laugh and say “its just boys being boys they probably like you”. I get now why people are terrified of speaking up and take years to report it. I feel I lost my teen/college years of fun because of being scared of strangers, scared of what could happen. I lived always thinking “what if” making me not do something, not go somewhere instead of living in the moment because back in school I assumed everyone had the possibility of doing what the bad ones did.
Just a few years now I have told 1 person everything and it was a huge relief off my shoulders. I accepted what has happened and deal with it to move on.
less anxiety and still decreasing my trust issues. Still less anxious around strangers mostly men if I am looked at a certain way or seeing someone do a double take on me. I live always checking my surroundings especially when alone but I am 10 times better than before.
I’m so sorry to hear that love. It takes a toll on your mental health when you aren’t able to tell anyone too 😔 I’m so glad you were encouraged by this video. I hurt for way longer than I should have and I don’t want anyone else to go through that. Please continue to be strong and never let that define you. I wish I could give you a hug right now!! Just know I’m sending you lots of love and prayers 💕
Thank you it means a lot just hearing that
You are brave for speaking on this topic. I could see the sincerity in your face. We love you girl
Thank you so very much; I’m sending back lots of love. 💕
🌸🌸🌸God bless you girlfriend, xxoo🌸🌸🌸
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