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Second that! Hiring a maid under 30 in the Philippines is a big gamble. You really need to vet anyone who you have work in your house very carefully. They may look innocent but they have 2-3 boyfriends in the shadows who are waiting for the opportunity to rob you. Many have gambling debts to pay.
Man, you nailed it here. Im so frustrated with the women we recently let go. It was a joke. And she was a relative to my wife and OFW with experience. Just little to no effort given. No pride in her work. And her cell phone. You couldn’t keep her off it. Sure, she liked getting paid at the end of the month, but all she wanted to do was take days off so she could gamble. We let her go, we just got tired of all the nonsense.
Never ever trust anyone here, for the most part. Never ever introduce too many people or girls into your house. The least they see or know about what's in your house will reduce your drama or even save your life. The reality is this is a poor country, don't get complacent, ever.
@@MrBatteryChanger1I've lived here for more than three decades and have only invited four friends to my home in that time. TRUST NO ONE IN THE PHILIPPINES
My maid lied to my wife that she was 18 , now few weeks later l found that she is 17 . I told my wife that next week l paid her and you get rid of her . 1 : she is too young 2 : she doesn't know nothing even how to cook . 3 : her boyfriend leaves next door and when we leave the house , he coming and feel comfortable and eat our food . 4 : she not respecting us , l soon we leave the house , she invites her girls friends next door in . 5 : she eat too much and that cost me money . I can go on and on . I pay this one 6000 pesos but l may need to fired her to an older one even if l have to pay more .
Get a cinomar for any gal you allow into your home. That will prove her age and avoids a huge liability you could open yourself up to. Never hire a neighbor to come in your house when you are not there. Not until extensive vetting is done. They let anyone else come in, fire them on the spot. This isn't a Filipina thing. This is a common sense thing. If you have anyone like a maid or cook coming to your home always have security cameras in place first. Discreetly positioned in every room. Have a resume checked prior to hiring anyone. Times are tough all over. Desperate people do desperate things they might not normally do. You have a gal. Why would you even think to hire a girl with no experience? Will never be worth the risk.
I'm a Filipino and have seen this arrangement a few times. 99% of the time, it just leads to trouble since you are hiring someone for the wrong thing. I've only seen one instance where it worked and the pair are now married for 15 years. Most of the time, emotions start to develop, throwing a wrench into the employee/employer dynamic. You may be stone cold and don't get emotional but you can't control your "maid's" emotion. With that, jealousy comes into play and there's nothing more dangerous than a jealous Filipina and the problem that comes with that is only limited by your imagination. Be smart, DO NOT, get into this type of arrangement. Hire an older maid. As Calvin said, they are more experienced, and responsible and will decrease your level of temptations. If it itches, hire someone for that particular task if that's your thing. Don't be dumb.
Just a fyi, the maid in Manila that beat the couple to death was 48. "Marilyn Pandita, 48, gave a detailed account of how she brutally murdered her employers, an 80-year-old man and his 76-year-old wife, at the victims’ house along Stanford street in Barangay E. Rodriguez on Tuesday night.".
Never ever trust anyone here, for the most part. Never ever introduce too many people or girls into your house. The least they see or know about what's in your house will reduce your drama or even save your life. The reality is this is a poor country, don't get complacent, ever.
Yes, a inside job. Who else knows just what you have in your house. If you do want a maid let one of your Filipino friend who has money help you find one and always make them feel like family and pay them well. One thing I have learned about the people that work for you. If you pay them well 99% of the time they do not want to lose a job that pays well! and you are a good employer! Stay safe!
I had a older maid for years in the Philippines. She was very helpful and very trustworthy. Most of our younger maids were family members, who helped wash clothes. Aside from that, the non-family member maids (younger) are too much trouble. Plus, l agree, they don't know anything. 🇵🇭
Wait. On a live he told me that young women over there differ from young women in the states but the description seems pretty spot on. So a man dating a women 20 30 or even 40 years younger is WILD.
My wife and I hire family members from the mountains as maids/housekeepers. It really helps them as the money they get is life changing and it helps their families. That's the only way I'd do it. It's not perfect, there are still issues, but a LOT less.
The cleaning slows down and the benefits thin way out then all of a sudden she calls herself girlfriend - be careful it’s hard to get them out after that
I think its better to have a maid refered to you by family and friends than you going outright looking for a maid. That is when you risk hiring a monster.
Hiring a maid that turns out to be a murderer would have to be a very rare and extreme incident. But to present it as something that may typically happen to anyone who hires a young maid is just silly. May as well not leave your house in case you get run over by a car. The odds of that happening are probably more likely than hiring a murderous maid.
Hey Calvin, are you retired military? I think so. No difference. I got allot to say to you but don’t know how to email off RUclips yet. Mean video by the way. It’s mean where I live here in Sacramento. It’s getting ugly here. I like how you explain things Calvin. I’m a white guy born raised south Sacramento and still live. I’m used to being a minority. People are people is what it taught me most. Only one God. I’ve been talking with a lady in Davao for two months, every day on video. Met her on CF. I’m going to Davao the whole month of October 2024. When I first meet her she says she likes romance so I send all kinds of old R&B from the 70’s. I’ve got a Chicana sister, God rest her soul, turned me on to it as a kid. She used to play Tower of Power 45’s over and over and over again. Your Still a Young Man! It’s my favorite music. I sent her the Dramatics, Stylistics, Marvin Gaye, etc. I blew her phone up. She said she never hear before. I’m 58 and she’s 46yrs. Barry White make them wet almost every time!! That’s funny. I mention this because of your music playlist. How about Blue Magic Side Show! Step right up hurry, hurry… I got to say I dig the AC/DC shirt!! I’ve got a Too Short T-shirt. A school picture from when he was like 12yrs old, with giant 1970’s picture frame glasses. Says Too Short on it. I don’t have the balls are place to wear it here in Sacramento yet. I’m still waiting for the right time! I respect women 100% I’m just close to Oakland California where he’s from. I also don’t have your build. Few people talk shit to you. I also lived in Hawaii for 7 years and went to Cebu for a month in 2002. Sorry for the book. I’m not sure if you’re in Davao or not but I’m thinking of retiring there. Also why I go and I leave this Tuesday!! Wish me luck.
A maid will stop doing maid stuff ( cooking cleaning laundry)once you sleep with her. Never sleep with the maid. Bang has many girls has you want thou Except the maid
Wait - so Calvin and Mark T are from the same city in US? Did they know each other before coming to PH? Did they both work on the same cruise ship? 😁😁😁
Security will not protect you from the bad guys. The foreigner in Bacolod who was killed can vouch for that. He lived in one of the most exclusive subdivisions there.
To support my channel and continue to receive great content like this paypal.me/calroach?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US
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Thanks for watching.
Second that! Hiring a maid under 30 in the Philippines is a big gamble. You really need to vet anyone who you have work in your house very carefully. They may look innocent but they have 2-3 boyfriends in the shadows who are waiting for the opportunity to rob you. Many have gambling debts to pay.
Man, you nailed it here. Im so frustrated with the women we recently let go. It was a joke. And she was a relative to my wife and OFW with experience. Just little to no effort given. No pride in her work. And her cell phone. You couldn’t keep her off it. Sure, she liked getting paid at the end of the month, but all she wanted to do was take days off so she could gamble. We let her go, we just got tired of all the nonsense.
Thanks Calvin for bringing awareness to this. The nitty gritty. Perhaps saving lives.
Less than 300 away from 60k Calvin. That's awesome. Let's go.
Thanks King! Hope to see you on your birthday.
Oh man, you just destroyed my fantasy scenario 😞
😂😂😂
Me too! Damn!
@@jimb3093 😂
I will tell you what the Commander of a Police station told me once. "Trust No one".
Never ever trust anyone here, for the most part. Never ever introduce too many people or girls into your house. The least they see or know about what's in your house will reduce your drama or even save your life. The reality is this is a poor country, don't get complacent, ever.
@@MrBatteryChanger1I've lived here for more than three decades and have only invited four friends to my home in that time. TRUST NO ONE IN THE PHILIPPINES
Yeah my Filipino wife used me. I regret marrying here. She is very cold hearted and mean. She told me to ☠️.
Live in a high rise, where people are checked in and out, don't be cheap
My maid lied to my wife that she was 18 , now few weeks later l found that she is 17 .
I told my wife that next week l paid her and you get rid of her .
1 : she is too young
2 : she doesn't know nothing even how to cook .
3 : her boyfriend leaves next door and when we leave the house , he coming and feel comfortable and eat our food .
4 : she not respecting us , l soon we leave the house , she invites her girls friends next door in .
5 : she eat too much and that cost me money .
I can go on and on .
I pay this one 6000 pesos but l may need to fired her to an older one even if l have to pay more .
hire a maid thats like 45 or older
Get a cinomar for any gal you allow into your home. That will prove her age and avoids a huge liability you could open yourself up to. Never hire a neighbor to come in your house when you are not there. Not until extensive vetting is done. They let anyone else come in, fire them on the spot. This isn't a Filipina thing. This is a common sense thing. If you have anyone like a maid or cook coming to your home always have security cameras in place first. Discreetly positioned in every room. Have a resume checked prior to hiring anyone. Times are tough all over. Desperate people do desperate things they might not normally do. You have a gal. Why would you even think to hire a girl with no experience? Will never be worth the risk.
Thank you Calvin really appreciate the good advice.
Many people suspected it but didn't know.
Thanks for the clarification.
Bro Calvin,
You're 100% on point. Great topic. Great delivery. Stay Strong 💪
For a househelp, you want a woman, peri-menopausal age or older, with a bit of OCD. It’s a bit of heaven on earth.
I'm a Filipino and have seen this arrangement a few times. 99% of the time, it just leads to trouble since you are hiring someone for the wrong thing. I've only seen one instance where it worked and the pair are now married for 15 years. Most of the time, emotions start to develop, throwing a wrench into the employee/employer dynamic. You may be stone cold and don't get emotional but you can't control your "maid's" emotion. With that, jealousy comes into play and there's nothing more dangerous than a jealous Filipina and the problem that comes with that is only limited by your imagination. Be smart, DO NOT, get into this type of arrangement. Hire an older maid. As Calvin said, they are more experienced, and responsible and will decrease your level of temptations. If it itches, hire someone for that particular task if that's your thing. Don't be dumb.
Solid advice
Whew, that’s a “benefit” I’d stay away from. Thanks Calvin for the heads up.
I've already been offered the maids with benefits package.😅
The only problem is i know she has a boyfriend.
Wow, did not know but great topic
Great info Calvin. You could apply this in any nation.
Just a fyi, the maid in Manila that beat the couple to death was 48.
"Marilyn Pandita, 48, gave a detailed account of how she brutally murdered her employers, an 80-year-old man and his 76-year-old wife, at the victims’ house along Stanford street in Barangay E. Rodriguez on Tuesday night.".
Some of these guys have 48 year old crushes. Besides I'm talking about the dangers of hiring maids.
Get two maids one for week and one for weekends. That keeps them honest.
Never ever trust anyone here, for the most part. Never ever introduce too many people or girls into your house. The least they see or know about what's in your house will reduce your drama or even save your life. The reality is this is a poor country, don't get complacent, ever.
Watch the horror movie “The Housemaid”… any of the South Korean, Vietnamese, or Filipino versions. They all show the pitfalls.
They could also set you up with drugs and then tell the police. Be very careful in pi.
Arnold Schwarzenegger had a maid with benefits and it cost him his marriage many years later.
Great video Calvin
Yes, a inside job. Who else knows just what you have in your house. If you do want a maid let one of your Filipino friend who has money help you find one and always make them feel like family and pay them well. One thing I have learned about the people that work for you. If you pay them well 99% of the time they do not want to lose a job that pays well! and you are a good employer! Stay safe!
Cheaper to buy the VJ outright. Never mix biz with pleasure.
Yeah - don’t crap where you eat.
Thank You
Don't mix business and pleasure...use Arnold Schwarzenegger as an example 😂😂😂😂
Man!
Man I remember that one!
Good video !!
Greetings everyone hope all is going well with y'all..
I had a older maid for years in the Philippines. She was very helpful and very trustworthy. Most of our younger maids were family members, who helped wash clothes. Aside from that, the non-family member maids (younger) are too much trouble. Plus, l agree, they don't know anything. 🇵🇭
Great advice, sir
Man, i hope you fired those useless maids. My god, didn't their mother's teach them anything?
Yes, how to abuse foreigner.
Hey Calvin I just come back from your city Louisville Kentucky. I went to Grade Ln because I work for UPS. We have to be street smart
Wait. On a live he told me that young women over there differ from young women in the states but the description seems pretty spot on. So a man dating a women 20 30 or even 40 years younger is WILD.
My wife and I hire family members from the mountains as maids/housekeepers. It really helps them as the money they get is life changing and it helps their families. That's the only way I'd do it. It's not perfect, there are still issues, but a LOT less.
Clean your own house. You can be charitable in other ways.
🫡
Truly tragic stories brother
The cleaning slows down and the benefits thin way out then all of a sudden she calls herself girlfriend - be careful it’s hard to get them out after that
Been awhile since I watched a vid
how would one go about investigating a person you are considering hiriing as a maid?? certainly don't want to hire a monster.
I think its better to have a maid refered to you by family and friends than you going outright looking for a maid. That is when you risk hiring a monster.
Mine comes over once a week
Stranger Danger 😱
Definitely dont mix those two things together. There is no upside only downside. Dont have seggs with the maid ever, ever.
Calvin, everything you said can and does happen all around the world.
He lives in the Philippines, his location in the world.
Those are dad stories and enough for a crime documentary
At first i thought oh must be the province ones; when he said manila gave me a reality check lol
Hiring a maid that turns out to be a murderer would have to be a very rare and extreme incident. But to present it as something that may typically happen to anyone who hires a young maid is just silly. May as well not leave your house in case you get run over by a car. The odds of that happening are probably more likely than hiring a murderous maid.
Especially in the Philippines!! Their driving is crazy!!
Hiding behind a stupid profile is silly too especially if you're a grown man 🙄
Hey Calvin, are you retired military? I think so. No difference.
I got allot to say to you but don’t know how to email off RUclips yet.
Mean video by the way. It’s mean where I live here in Sacramento. It’s getting ugly here.
I like how you explain things Calvin. I’m a white guy born raised south Sacramento and still live. I’m used to being a minority. People are people is what it taught me most. Only one God.
I’ve been talking with a lady in Davao for two months, every day on video. Met her on CF. I’m going to Davao the whole month of October 2024.
When I first meet her she says she likes romance so I send all kinds of old R&B from the 70’s. I’ve got a Chicana sister, God rest her soul, turned me on to it as a kid. She used to play Tower of Power 45’s over and over and over again. Your Still a Young Man!
It’s my favorite music. I sent her the Dramatics, Stylistics, Marvin Gaye, etc. I blew her phone up. She said she never hear before. I’m 58 and she’s 46yrs. Barry White make them wet almost every time!!
That’s funny. I mention this because of your music playlist. How about Blue Magic Side Show! Step right up hurry, hurry…
I got to say I dig the AC/DC shirt!!
I’ve got a Too Short T-shirt. A school picture from when he was like 12yrs old, with giant 1970’s picture frame glasses. Says Too Short on it.
I don’t have the balls are place to wear it here in Sacramento yet. I’m still waiting for the right time!
I respect women 100% I’m just close to Oakland California where he’s from. I also don’t have your build. Few people talk shit to you.
I also lived in Hawaii for 7 years and went to Cebu for a month in 2002.
Sorry for the book. I’m not sure if you’re in Davao or not but I’m thinking of retiring there. Also why I go and I leave this Tuesday!!
Wish me luck.
Sounds like they learning western culture, just unreal.
A maid will stop doing maid stuff ( cooking cleaning laundry)once you sleep with her. Never sleep with the maid. Bang has many girls has you want thou Except the maid
Are people hiring from reputable maid agencies? And do they even exist there?
Ya every thing is dangerous down here in Davio
Then why do so many foreigners live there?
Most expats in the Philippines have the, it won't happen to me syndrome. 😴
Hey Calvin. Thanks for the informative video. The only thing that confuses me is can't a girlfriend be just as dangerous.
At least you've vetted her, hopefully 😂
We appreciate you doing the video from the waist up so we don't have to watch you touching and playing with yourself for 15 minutes. Good video! 😊
Wait - so Calvin and Mark T are from the same city in US? Did they know each other before coming to PH? Did they both work on the same cruise ship? 😁😁😁
He's not originally from Louisville KY and neither am I 😂
@@calroach1 But both of you have this Louisville type of demeanor.
😆 Just joking with you. Hello from Cincinnati
Ginger and Mary Ann feeding me grapes
Barz
If you have a live in GF, why do you need a maid?
Who needs that crap, I'll stay in the US.
Listen bro. It's better then marrying them and paying for a baby lol
It's not worth dying for 😅
Live in a gated community high rise
Security will not protect you from the bad guys. The foreigner in Bacolod who was killed can vouch for that. He lived in one of the most exclusive subdivisions there.
I take the risk to get my pipe clean.
I be dam... can't trust
N O B O D Y !
no mo'.
....damn Shame
🙏🏽🕯🙏🏾🕯🙏