Auntie, I would be mad too. But you are also very understanding of the situation to be able to accept it and let your husband go through with it. This shows that you actually have compassion towards the situation. It is completely normal for you to still react to it. Best of luck. ❤
You have every rights to be mad. The problem is that he “LIED”! I would be mad too! What he did was he crushed your trust. That’s what some of these people don’t understand. It ain’t even about the child, it’s the honesty that your husband failed to give you.
It was happened in the past…you don’t have to get angry with your husband and the widow….don’t be a tiny heart woman..,listen to your smart daughter…😩👍!
Woo!!!! Good story yuav tau Qhia qhov tseeb txhob xais qhov phem….vim tus me nyuam yuav tau paub qhov tseeb tias nws yog leej twg thiab Los qhov twg los . Koj yuav tau ua siab loj thiab zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug tub…. Vim yav laus Kuv ntsheeg tau tias tus no yuav hlub koj thiab koj tus txiv.. koj ua siab loj thiab zoo siab tos txais nws …
You do have every right to be upset only because your husband didn’t tell you. Although it hurts you so much, you have such a big heart to welcome his son in to your family and allowing him to be a part of your husband and kids life. May God bless your kind heart and heal any wounds.
Kuv xav tias yeej yog ib qho nyuaj rau koj kawg tiamsis koj yuav tau ua siab ntev thiab zam txim rau koj tus txiv vim tsis yog nws yuav koj tas es nws mam mus ua muaj tus tub no tabsis twb yog ua ntej lawm ces ua siab ntev thiab zam txim koj thiaj yuav muaj kev zoo siab os mog.
Yeej nkag siab tias koj tus txiv zais siab rau koj lawm tab sis lub neej ntawv twb yog yav puas thaum ub. Tsis tas li koj tus txiv twb hlub hlub koj es vim li cas cas koj thiaj zam tsis tau txim rau koj tus txiv? Twb tsis yog koj tus mus tham hluas nkauj. Yog koj muab kev chim los rhuav koj lub neej ces koj yuav kev loj tshaj plaws. Koj txhob siab mes mas. Koj tshais rwg tsam koj tus txiv rov mus nyiam koj tus txiv tus qub hluas nkauj xwb. Uas siab loj. Nej twb laus tas lawm uas siab loj. Tus tub ntawv mas tshe nws tub siab tshaj rau koj tus txiv nawb vim koj tus txiv tsis hlub tus mes nyuam ntawv. Nws twb mob mob los koj tus txiv twb tsis kam mus khi luag uas ntej nws niam los thov koj tus txiv nas. Xav txog tus mes tub mas tu siab tshaj plaws.
Yog kuv no kuv yeej chim thiab nawb thiab tsis xav hlub tus txiv li qub lawm laud. Tu siab heev, ua neeg nyob tsis hais leej twg nawb mog xav yog tus 1 thiab tus kawg xwb. Txog txij luag muaj tau ib tug tub lo tuav luag txoj kev hlub nrog lwm tus poj niam lawm ces txawm luag yuav hlub yus npaum li twg lo yus tus kheej tsuas yog replacement ntawm luag lub siab xwb mog. Pab koj tu siab heev os tus me niam tsev.
Txhob chim os mog me Viv ncaus tsam ho ua rau koj muaj mob thiab os mog leej niam twb tshai tsam tuaj koom neb ces koj xav li cas nws thiaj tsi tuaj kav liam mog hlub yis tis kheej xwb os mog
Ntxhob chim. Zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug me tub zoo zoo ntxiv rau koj cov xwb. Qhov ntawm koj tus txiv Yog yav dhau los ua Yog Nkauj nraug xwb. Zoo siab hlo rau yam koj tau xwb Mog. Be happy … don’t hold a grudge against your husband. That’s in the past.
Your daughter is right. Their history took place before he met you. His ex knew that he didn't want to marry her, and she had never made a move on him since, so you know that she's not a homewrecker. If you need help to move on, seek professional mental health counseling. From hearing you, there was no good moment for your husband to tell you. If he told you right when he married you, you would've lived in miserable for the past 40 years. Get help so you can move on and be at peace. God bless you all.
😀😀😀kj g txhb chim2 nawv?vim twb g yg nws yuav tau kj es mam li muaj tus tub ne?kav tsij txais tos zoo2 xwb es thiaj li yuav zoo 6 nej tsev neeg nawv?😁😁😁😁
Wow, if it was me, I wouldn't love my husband like I used to anymore if I found out. Even though it is the past, he could have told you a long time ago. I can't forgive him... I feel you....
Tsis tsem nyog koj chim koj tau ua siab loj2 mog koj thiaj yog tus zoo xwb os yog koj ua rua koj tu txiv hloov siab ces koj lub neej tawg mog muaj2 me niam Mos ab coob nyob npog teb mog tau ua siab loj2 xwb mog nws tus ntawm ko ces laws lawm es koj yog neeg ce ces ua siab loj2 xwb mas
I feel you sister. I was in similar situation too and we ended up in divorced. Even if it happened before me, i wish he told me openly when we were dating and if i still love him then i accept him without angers. But because he hides it feels like he was lying and i cant tolerate the lied. I was hurt like you too ib sij mob ib sij chim ib sij chim ib sij zoo thiab ua rau wb sib cav sib ceg heev txog thaum uv tsis tau ces nws cia li ua ib siab txiav txim siab mus yuav niam mos ab ces wb sib nrauj lawm xwb. Im not telling you to get a divorce im just letting you know you're not alone and how my situation ended for ib sij mob ib sij chim xwb.
I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. If I were in your shoes, I’d probably feel some type of way too knowing that my husband never told me he had a kid and hid it from me knowing that one day it will catch up to him. He should have told you sooner than having to wait 40 years which is a long time. Stay strong and I hope that you will eventually slowly learn how to accept it.
Lady just let it go don’t be so angry just be happy that you and your husband saved one life and it happened before you both got marry. Your daughter gave you a greatest advice.
Koj chim los yeej yog thiab tab si twb yog yam tag los lawm ces ua siab nawb mog. Zoo tias ntuj npam es koj thiaj paub mog.❤ zoo kawg tus poj niam ntawm paub cai es tsis tuaj. Yam tag los lawm xwb.
Wow Tus viv ncaus aw...muab xav hais Tias yav tag los yog ib Zaj dab neeg ua Tus siab tshaj plaws li...Vim koj tus txiv yog Tus tsis kam yuav nws..Tus mi tub no yog ib tug neeg dawb huv..Zam ntxim rau koj Tus txiv thiab Tus mi tub ntawv niam... Txhob pub koj tus txiv mus tham nws leej niam ntxiv lawm xwb mas ..es CIA nej ua God parents rau Tus mi tub no ... Tshuav koj tus txiv hlub2 koj xwb mas...saib mus Seb koj tus txiv puas hloov li cas ntxiv.
Yes, your daughter is right. You should forgive those situations. You do not need to be jealous and stress out, your jealous will eat you alive. Let it go. what is done is done. Your husband loves you.
Sorry to hear sister, give yourself some time to heal and give yourself some space (distance yourself from him for now). It is a betrayal of trust and honesty because he omitted that information in the beginning. Everything in your relationship has now changed. It's not the same anymore. Take care of yourself like seeking professional help or participate in therapeutic activities to help yourself move forward. Practice self-Care and self-love. Question yourself why are you so angry. Reflect on your emotions and actions. You are hurting and your husband is probably hurting too. It probably is taking a toll on him too with guilt and shame of constant reminders of his past and for being dishonest. Hope you can find a way to forgive him so you both can enjoy a happy future without any sorrow nor resentment.
I feel ur pain sister. When things like that happen, it’s a heartache. Yes it happened before ur husband met you but that is something that at least he needs to be open with you. They say a good wife you have to ua lub siab loj but what we get is a heartache. Once in a while I would cry alone or wished I left my marriage, or wished I can punch him in the face for the pain I’m carrying within my heart but it’s bcus we love them too much. I know that if I tend to carry this heartache, I will die from this heartache later in life. Women like us, we need help from our husbands to heal our hearts. Men thinks that buying you things or taking you out to eat is doing good deeds but it’s not. They have to work extra harder to fill that hole in our hearts. Sorry that ur going through a heartache; just take care of urself remember that. When we get sick, we can only depend on ourselves. People change, so take care of ur heart. Go out with friends, have a drink here and there to feel better. Make new friends like me so it can take those bad memories away or help ease the pain. Trust only urself and hope all goes well with you.
Trust no one not even your spouse!! As long as your husband is honest, faithful, respectful, trustworthy, and loving towards you like usual then forgive and forget for what happened but just be more alert and not as trust of him with your all.
You shouldn’t hold it against him. He is a great husband to you and the ex girlfriend never tried to ruin your relationship. Just keep moving forward together and forgive everyone. It was prior to your marriage.
Lady, don't be upset. You are mad about something that you were never apart of. Forgive them all and move on. Your husband loved you your whole life and still do. If you open your heart to his son that love and kindness will help you heal.
Tu viv ncau koj siab me dhau lawm os. Koj yuav tau nrog koj tu txiv hlub tu tub nawb. Koj muab xav tia koj yog tu me tub ntawv niam ne koj pua ua tau li nws ua thiab lo koj yuav ua tau li cas thiab no mas cas koj siab me tshaj li nas tej teeb meem no twb muaj ua ntej koj lawm kawg koj tau txai yam ua twb muaj ua ntej koj lawm koj thiaj tsi mob2 siab mog. Koj txai tau tu me tub lo hlub li koj hlub cov koj yog ces yuav tsi mob koj siab pes tsawg lawm mas.
I think you should for give the past and think about the future and be happy that you gain another son. Iove yourself first and your husband and all your children. Don’t think too much about that you might have a stroke. Just be happy all the time.
Sister, qhov ko yog yav tas los xwb txhob muab khaws ua kev chim kev khib thiaj tsis ua mob rau koj nawb kav tsij nrog koj tus txiv hlub tus tub ko nawb. Yus hlub nws los nws yeej yuav hlub yus rov qab nawb
Tsis txhob lam ntshai niam poj ntsuam mog yav tas nawb es ua neej tsis poj tom ntej xyov yus yuav zoo li os mog es ua siab loj2 xwb mog es thiaj tau qhov zoo mog.
Tsis txob ua ib tug pojniam siabme, qhov koj tustxiv ua ntawd twb muaj ua ntej nws yuav koj, yeej tsis tsimnyog koj khib.. koj twb ua tau lub siabloj cia nws mus khites rau tu menyuam ne…es cas koj ho pheej rau txim rau koj tukheej thiab koj tutxiv? Let it go and forgive so you won’t have to burden yourself
Koj siab me zog lawm os. Yuav tau ua siab loj thiab tus me niam tsev aw. Koj muab xav tias yov koj nyob koj tus txiv tus hluas nkauj qhov chaw ntshe koj Haj chim os mog.
Yog koj tus txiv xub qhia koj ces koj yeej tsis chim paum no os. Yog txoj kev zais siab tawm tus neeg yus ib txwm ntseeg thiab hlub es thiaj li mob koj lub siab. Tabsis tej teebmeem no twb muaj ua tej koj lawm ces kav liam os. Ua tus neeg siab loj thiab zam txim es Tswv ntuj thiaj foom koob hmoo rau yus. Hlub yus tus kheej es pauv yus lub hlwb kom txhob chim2. Kev chim no tseem ua tau rau koj muaj mob thiab hos. Ua tsis tau li cas lawm ces chim tag los tag li xwb es kav liam os mog.
It's in past before you. Let it go! The other woman don't even come around. She loved her husband for loving her unconditionally. Your husband hurt her and left her to suffer alone. She's over him. She don't want your husband. She just want her son to be healthy So you should let it go.
You’re hurt because your husband didn’t tell you the truth. And this truth is HUGE! However, because his ex gf doesn’t seem to be coming on to him, and his son is a good boy, do not let this get in the way of your life.
I feel that it could be because part of you is afraid that your husband and his ex might get back together. But don't worry, I don't think that's going to happen. I believe he knows his boundary and she does too that is why she never comes over when she is invited. So forgive the past and more on.
Tus niam tsev aw....tej ko yog yav tag los lawm xwb ua ntej nws paub koj yuav koj lawm es ua siab loj2, koj twb yog tus nws xaiv lawm na. Txawm muaj tej ko los nws twb hlub2 koj txhob xav ntau, kav tsij pab hlub tus me tub ntawv thiab tej zaum nws twb tu2 siab nws thiaj muaj2 mob, koj muab xav kiag tias ua li ho yog kok ne koj ho puas yuav ua li nws ua thiab, siab loj nawb mog.
Tus me sister, hais txog qhov chim ces yeej xav kom ploj ntshis lawm xwb. Tiam sis ua siab tus tus mog, chim ib pliag xwb es tso tseg. Yus twb tau nws lawm es pheej yuav muab tej qub zaub los tshaub ua kom yus mob plab xwb yuav zoo qhov twg nawb ? Xav mus rau lub neej yav pes suab thiab qhov yus yuav ua li cas lub neej thiab yuav tawg paj ntxiv mus es txhob nyob nyob rau yav tas lawm. Peb twb yuav mus 2025 no lawm tsis yog 1980 lawm... hlub hlub yus txij nkawm thiab me nyuam tshaj no mus xwb mog.
Tus niam tsev aw, txhob chim os, vim koj tus niam Lau ntawv twb tsi lo txeeb koj tus txiv ne, koj kav tsij zoo siab txais to lees txais nw os tsam yav pem suab nw yuav yog tus hlub nej peb tus laus
Yam uas tshwmsim ua ntej nws paub koj ces txawm yuav zoo li cas los txhob khib txhob chim. Tej ntawd yog lawv business. Koj cia li zoo siab koj yog tus muaj hmoo thiab tau nws. Yog tias nws twb paub koj ntsib koj lawm es mam muaj tej no mas zam ntxim tsis tau.
Tus niam tsev aw tej teeb meem no nws twb tshwm sim ua ntej koj mam los yuav koj tus txiv es hais txog txoj kev txij nkawm mas tsis hais peb leej twg li yog muaj tej teeb meem li ko ces leej twg los yeej chim siab npau taws los vim yog yus yog tus hlub luag rau tom qab ces yus yuav ua tsis tau li cas nawb es tej no twb dhau los lawm ntev es koj yuav tau ua siab loj zam txim rau koj tus txiv thiab koj tus niam npaws nkawd ov vim tias nkawd los nkawd twb tsis rov qab los ua nkauj ua nraug lawm es koj tus txiv los nws twb hlub2 koj es yus yuav tau hais lo lus zoo rau nws xwb qhia kiag rau nej cov pojniam paub tias peb txiv neej nyiam kom yus tus pojniam hais lus zoo xwb txawm koj kiag los koj twb nyiam lo lus zoo thiab ne es yus ua dab tsi yus yuav tau muab xav rov qab los rau yus kiag tias tej teeb meem no ho yog yus ho ua li ntawd rau yus tus txiv es yus puas xav kom luag ntxub yus thiab hais lus phem rau yus ma peb ua neej nyob tsis hais pojniam los yog txiv neej peb yuav ua dab tsi los yus yuav tau muab tig yam luag ua ntawd es ua li ho yog yus no ua li yus ho xav li cas thiab es qhov tseeb es tej laus ib txwm tias dab plaub es mob nqaij yog hais qub lus ces mob siab xwb.
Don’t be mad at your husband. The past is the past. All it matters is he loves you now and not like the other woman was trying to get back with your husband.
Sister aw koj txhob tu siab mog. Tej no twb happen ua ntej lawm kho tsis tau. Koj twb muaj hmoo uas tus qub hluas nkauj tsis thab lossis rov ua teeb meem rau koj tus txiv. Nws yog ib tug pojniam zoo tiag2 tsuas yog tej no nws yeej kho tsis tau ib yam thiab. Koj yuav tau ua nws tsaug es zam txim xwb thiaj kho tau koj qhov kev tu siab. Yog koj tsis pab lossis hloov koj tus kheej ces koj yuav mob stroke lossis heart attack nawb thaum no ces yuav lig rau koj. Zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug tub zoo2 ntxiv thiab mog.
Sister, yog xav qhov khib xwb ces yeej nrog koj mob siab. Koj tus txiv ib txwm tsis tau hlub nws tus tub, cia rau nws hlub nws tus tub ua ntej txoj sia tu es nws thiaj tsis npam os. Koj los txhob txiav thiab es koj thiaj tsis npam nawb.
TXHOB CHIM2 NAWV, YEEJ YOG IB QHOV NYUAJ2 TIAMSIS NCO NTSOOV TIAS KOJ PAUV TSIS TAU NWS QHOV KEV YUAM KEV, NEVER FORGET BUT FORGIVE XWB NAWV. ZOO DUA KOJ TUS TXIV TSEEM MUAJ TXOJSIA NYOB NROG KOJ CES ZOO TSHAJ LI KOJ TAU NYIAJ TAU KUB NAWV THIAB QHOV TSEEB NWS TSIS ROV MUS NYIAG HLUB LEEJ NIAM CES NYOB LI KO MUS NAWV. ZOO LI KUV TUS NO NIM XAV2 KOM MUAJ ZAJ NEEJ NEEG LI KOJ ES KUV TUS TXIV TXHOB TUAG XWB CES KUV TWB ZOO2 SIAB LAWM OS tus niam tsev aw.
I think you can't forgive him because he didn't told you the truth from the beginning but don't torture yourself, forgive him and love the boy as your own especially when you said he is a good child too.
You should forgive your husband because their relationship happened before he met you and he stop contact with her since he married you. It’s not the son’s fault. Don’t let the past ruin your relationship.
You have every right to be mad because your husband hid a secret from you. However, find it your heart to forgive him and be happy that fate lead him to you instead. They created a life together but didn’t end up together. Instead, they each ended up with different spouses. Your husband apologized and you guys should move on. Life is short so don’t dwell on the hurt.
It is before he knows you. I would forgive him and continue to love him. As long as he don’t go back and tham the other woman. Which she seems to know her roll.
Get over it woman!!!!! He's still with you. The other woman never come over when you have a gathering because she has respect for you.keep up with your attitude....he surely will leave you. If not for son's mother, it will be some one else.
Txhob chim os tus niam tsev. Zoo siab koj tau ib tug tub ntxiv xwb nawb. Txhua Yam tshwm sim ntawv twb tshwm sim ua ntej thaum tsis tau muaj koj lawm. Chim los chim me me xwb koj tus txiv twb hlub hlub koj vim nws ntshai tej no xwb. Zam txim es koj thiaj muaj txoj sia nyob ntev mog.
Xob chim thov koj pab ua ib leejniam zoo rau tus metub os mog. Koj twb yog tus nws xaiv lawm os. Koj puas paub tias tus metub thiab nws niam es ua lubneej tu siab npaum cas naj lov. Yog kuv mas kuv yeej qheb lub siab hlub tus me tub no xwb os. Yog koj hlub koj tus txiv ces koj cia lr zoo siab hlo hlub tus me tub no. Yeej yog li koj tus me ntxhais hais lawm tus me tub no tsi muaj kev txhaum os mog.
Tsis tsim nyog koj chim koj mob siab os, txhua yam tshwm ua ntej koj tus txiv ko paub koj lawm. Tiag2 mas koj yog tus yuav tau ua koj tus niam tij npawg tsaug uas nws tsis yuav koj tus txiv es koj thiaj li tau nws los ua koj tus txiv hnub no, tus uas yuav chim mas yog koj tus niam tij npawg. Koj kav tsij ua lub siab loj hlub2 tus me tub ntawv thiab ua koj tus txiv tsaug uas nws tseem xaiv yuav koj, txhua2 yam yog lub neej thaum tsis tau paub koj lawm xwb.
You shouldn’t be upset but happy that you got a great faithful loving husband
Auntie, I would be mad too. But you are also very understanding of the situation to be able to accept it and let your husband go through with it. This shows that you actually have compassion towards the situation. It is completely normal for you to still react to it. Best of luck. ❤
You have every rights to be mad. The problem is that he “LIED”! I would be mad too! What he did was he crushed your trust. That’s what some of these people don’t understand. It ain’t even about the child, it’s the honesty that your husband failed to give you.
It was happened in the past…you don’t have to get angry with your husband and the widow….don’t be a tiny heart woman..,listen to your smart daughter…😩👍!
tsis tsim nyog koj chim vim tshwm sim ua ntej koj paub koj tus txiv koj tus txiv 40:04 yuav nws koj twb tsis tau koj txiv zoo os .
Viv ncaus tsis tas koj yuav mob siab vim twb uas ntej lawm tsis yog yuav mam tswm Sim nawb tus yuav yog nw tsis koj .
Woo!!!! Good story yuav tau Qhia qhov tseeb txhob xais qhov phem….vim tus me nyuam yuav tau paub qhov tseeb tias nws yog leej twg thiab Los qhov twg los . Koj yuav tau ua siab loj thiab zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug tub…. Vim yav laus Kuv ntsheeg tau tias tus no yuav hlub koj thiab koj tus txiv.. koj ua siab loj thiab zoo siab tos txais nws …
You do have every right to be upset only because your husband didn’t tell you. Although it hurts you so much, you have such a big heart to welcome his son in to your family and allowing him to be a part of your husband and kids life. May God bless your kind heart and heal any wounds.
Kuv xav tias yeej yog ib qho nyuaj rau koj kawg tiamsis koj yuav tau ua siab ntev thiab zam txim rau koj tus txiv vim tsis yog nws yuav koj tas es nws mam mus ua muaj tus tub no tabsis twb yog ua ntej lawm ces ua siab ntev thiab zam txim koj thiaj yuav muaj kev zoo siab os mog.
Tus poj niam no siab me dau lawm
Let go lady! It's in the past take care of your family and be happy
Nws twb hlub kpj txaus lawm ...koj yuav tsum ua siab loj xwb.....vim yav tag Los puag thaum ub ....kev nkauj nraug xwb ..tsis tseem ceeb dabtsi....koj twb tau nws txoj kev hlub put npo...qhov nyuag me me li ntawd xwb ...yog koj tseem chim thiab ces ...yog koj diab me dhau lawm xwb ..poj hmoob
Yeej nkag siab tias koj tus txiv zais siab rau koj lawm tab sis lub neej ntawv twb yog yav puas thaum ub. Tsis tas li koj tus txiv twb hlub hlub koj es vim li cas cas koj thiaj zam tsis tau txim rau koj tus txiv? Twb tsis yog koj tus mus tham hluas nkauj. Yog koj muab kev chim los rhuav koj lub neej ces koj yuav kev loj tshaj plaws. Koj txhob siab mes mas. Koj tshais rwg tsam koj tus txiv rov mus nyiam koj tus txiv tus qub hluas nkauj xwb. Uas siab loj. Nej twb laus tas lawm uas siab loj. Tus tub ntawv mas tshe nws tub siab tshaj rau koj tus txiv nawb vim koj tus txiv tsis hlub tus mes nyuam ntawv. Nws twb mob mob los koj tus txiv twb tsis kam mus khi luag uas ntej nws niam los thov koj tus txiv nas. Xav txog tus mes tub mas tu siab tshaj plaws.
Yog kuv no kuv yeej chim thiab nawb thiab tsis xav hlub tus txiv li qub lawm laud. Tu siab heev, ua neeg nyob tsis hais leej twg nawb mog xav yog tus 1 thiab tus kawg xwb. Txog txij luag muaj tau ib tug tub lo tuav luag txoj kev hlub nrog lwm tus poj niam lawm ces txawm luag yuav hlub yus npaum li twg lo yus tus kheej tsuas yog replacement ntawm luag lub siab xwb mog. Pab koj tu siab heev os tus me niam tsev.
Txhob chim os mog me Viv ncaus tsam ho ua rau koj muaj mob thiab os mog leej niam twb tshai tsam tuaj koom neb ces koj xav li cas nws thiaj tsi tuaj kav liam mog hlub yis tis kheej xwb os mog
Koj ne koj zais dabtsi? Koj tus txiv qhia rau koj lawm, koj yuav tau qhia koj lub qe liam rau koj tus txiv thiab nawb.
Ntxhob chim. Zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug me tub zoo zoo ntxiv rau koj cov xwb. Qhov ntawm koj tus txiv Yog yav dhau los ua Yog Nkauj nraug xwb. Zoo siab hlo rau yam koj tau xwb Mog. Be happy … don’t hold a grudge against your husband. That’s in the past.
phooj ywg yog aub hos npawg los yog dev xwb phooj ywg siab dub tseem txeeb luag tus hlub npawg dev tseem mus txeeb npawg hluas nkauj deev, poj niam los yog dev aub tseem nyiag deev phooj ywg npawg muaj menyuam tsaub.
Niam tais koj mas ntse tiag tiag koj niag txiv dev twb poob txwv feej rau luag tas ces neb cov tub thiaj quav dev xwb os
Yog koj tus txiv nyiam ua hluas thiab pheej rov mus ntsib nws tub leej niam mas thiaj li tsimnyog qhov uas koj chim nawb. Qhov uas koj mobsiab tsis kam zamtxim rau koj tus txiv yog koj rov rautxim rau koj tuskheej xwb. Txob ua li ntawd, ciali nyob kajsiab lug xwb. Kuv ntseeg tias, koj tus ntxhais yuav pab tau koj kom koj totaub zoo.
Your daughter is right. Their history took place before he met you. His ex knew that he didn't want to marry her, and she had never made a move on him since, so you know that she's not a homewrecker.
If you need help to move on, seek professional mental health counseling. From hearing you, there was no good moment for your husband to tell you. If he told you right when he married you, you would've lived in miserable for the past 40 years. Get help so you can move on and be at peace. God bless you all.
😀😀😀kj g txhb chim2 nawv?vim twb g yg nws yuav tau kj es mam li muaj tus tub ne?kav tsij txais tos zoo2 xwb es thiaj li yuav zoo 6 nej tsev neeg nawv?😁😁😁😁
Chim thiab mob siab tau tabsis txhob muab lub txim rau rau tug poj niam tov mog, nws mob tshaj vim tug txiv neej no hlub tsis taus nws.
Es nws yeej tu siab thiab ua ib siab hnub nws sawv kev tsees mus yuav tug txiv neej hlub nws lawm mog..
Kavtsij xav dav dav hlub koj txij koj nkawm li nws tug txiv hlub nws tug poj niam es nws tug txiv twb hlub taus..
Tug poj niam ntawv nws poob tsim thiab tu siab tshaj koj 100/1000 npaug hnub nws yuav tau qhia qhov tseeb rau neeg nriaj teb 💔 💔
Yog leej twg es tseem ruam, tsis saib taus nws tug kheej li tug thaum ub thiab ces nws plam txhua yam, txhua tsav tsis zoo rau neeg hlub lawm o mog..
Qhov yuav xav li cas kom koj thiaj siab loj taus ces yog muab yus nyob nws nkawm khau es seb yus puas yuav nkag siab taus nws lawm xwb..
Yog txog kawg yus kaj siab tsis taus los kawg yus 2 niam txiv tsiv chaws mus nyob lwm qhov kom yus txhob muaj mob xwb..
Wow, if it was me, I wouldn't love my husband like I used to anymore if I found out. Even though it is the past, he could have told you a long time ago. I can't forgive him... I feel you....
Koj siab me dhau lawm xwb os. Tus poj niam ntawv twb tsis tuaj cuam tshuam koj tus txiv neb lub neej na.
Auj yauj, tej niag qub kiav roj hnub caij thaum ub xwb es cas koj nim yuav khib ua luaj.
Tsis tsem nyog koj chim koj tau ua siab loj2 mog koj thiaj yog tus zoo xwb os yog koj ua rua koj tu txiv hloov siab ces koj lub neej tawg mog muaj2 me niam Mos ab coob nyob npog teb mog tau ua siab loj2 xwb mog nws tus ntawm ko ces laws lawm es koj yog neeg ce ces ua siab loj2 xwb mas
I feel you sister. I was in similar situation too and we ended up in divorced. Even if it happened before me, i wish he told me openly when we were dating and if i still love him then i accept him without angers. But because he hides it feels like he was lying and i cant tolerate the lied. I was hurt like you too ib sij mob ib sij chim ib sij chim ib sij zoo thiab ua rau wb sib cav sib ceg heev txog thaum uv tsis tau ces nws cia li ua ib siab txiav txim siab mus yuav niam mos ab ces wb sib nrauj lawm xwb. Im not telling you to get a divorce im just letting you know you're not alone and how my situation ended for ib sij mob ib sij chim xwb.
I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. If I were in your shoes, I’d probably feel some type of way too knowing that my husband never told me he had a kid and hid it from me knowing that one day it will catch up to him. He should have told you sooner than having to wait 40 years which is a long time. Stay strong and I hope that you will eventually slowly learn how to accept it.
Yog tiag koj yuav tau mus ua tsaug rau koj tus txiv tus hluas nkauj nawj mog
Lady just let it go don’t be so angry just be happy that you and your husband saved one life and it happened before you both got marry. Your daughter gave you a greatest advice.
Koj chim los yeej yog thiab tab si twb yog yam tag los lawm ces ua siab nawb mog.
Zoo tias ntuj npam es koj thiaj paub mog.❤ zoo kawg tus poj niam ntawm paub cai es tsis tuaj. Yam tag los lawm xwb.
Wow Tus viv ncaus aw...muab xav hais Tias yav tag los yog ib Zaj dab neeg ua Tus siab tshaj plaws li...Vim koj tus txiv yog Tus tsis kam yuav nws..Tus mi tub no yog ib tug neeg dawb huv..Zam ntxim rau koj Tus txiv thiab Tus mi tub ntawv niam...
Txhob pub koj tus txiv mus tham nws leej niam ntxiv lawm xwb mas ..es CIA nej ua God parents rau Tus mi tub no ...
Tshuav koj tus txiv hlub2 koj xwb mas...saib mus Seb koj tus txiv puas hloov li cas ntxiv.
Txhob chim2 lawm os. Koj tus txiv tws thov txim rau koj lawm. Zam txim rau nws os.
You have every right to be mad, but learn to let it go. If you don’t it will only hurt you more.
Yes, your daughter is right. You should forgive those situations. You do not need to be jealous and stress out, your jealous will eat you alive. Let it go. what is done is done. Your husband loves you.
Sorry to hear sister, give yourself some time to heal and give yourself some space (distance yourself from him for now). It is a betrayal of trust and honesty because he omitted that information in the beginning. Everything in your relationship has now changed. It's not the same anymore. Take care of yourself like seeking professional help or participate in therapeutic activities to help yourself move forward. Practice self-Care and self-love. Question yourself why are you so angry. Reflect on your emotions and actions. You are hurting and your husband is probably hurting too. It probably is taking a toll on him too with guilt and shame of constant reminders of his past and for being dishonest. Hope you can find a way to forgive him so you both can enjoy a happy future without any sorrow nor resentment.
I feel ur pain sister. When things like that happen, it’s a heartache. Yes it happened before ur husband met you but that is something that at least he needs to be open with you. They say a good wife you have to ua lub siab loj but what we get is a heartache. Once in a while I would cry alone or wished I left my marriage, or wished I can punch him in the face for the pain I’m carrying within my heart but it’s bcus we love them too much. I know that if I tend to carry this heartache, I will die from this heartache later in life. Women like us, we need help from our husbands to heal our hearts. Men thinks that buying you things or taking you out to eat is doing good deeds but it’s not. They have to work extra harder to fill that hole in our hearts. Sorry that ur going through a heartache; just take care of urself remember that. When we get sick, we can only depend on ourselves. People change, so take care of ur heart. Go out with friends, have a drink here and there to feel better. Make new friends like me so it can take those bad memories away or help ease the pain. Trust only urself and hope all goes well with you.
Omg
Koj lub siab me dhau lawm
Tus sister txhob nyuaj siab txhob chim yog ua ntej koj tus txiv paub koj tsis tas li ntawv nws twb hlub hlub koj thiab...tus poj niam tov los yeej hwm nej kawg...
Koj muab xav tias yog koj nyob koj tus txiv qhov chaw yeej tsis yooj yim kiag... qhov tseem ceeb yog kev kaj siab rau tus mi nyuam xwb os mog vim nws tsis yog tus txhaum ☺️
Yep! koj yeej siab me, koj tsis tsim nyog muab lawv lub neej rhuav rau saum huab cua nov.
Trust no one not even your spouse!! As long as your husband is honest, faithful, respectful, trustworthy, and loving towards you like usual then forgive and forget for what happened but just be more alert and not as trust of him with your all.
You have every right to be mad, but I know that in your heart you will allow your heart to forgive your husband.
All this happened before he met you. The most important thing is that he is faithful to you and that he loves you. That's all that really matters.
แผลที่เจ็บอยุ่แล้วถ้าเรายิ่งเอาไม้ไปจิ้ม มันก็จะเจ็บ แต่ถ้าเราปล่อยให้ธรรมชาติรักษาเดี๋ยวมันก็จะหายเอง ก็เหมือนใจที่เราเจ็บยิ่งคิดยิ่งเจ็บบางครั้งเราแค่ยอมรับมัน อาจจะไม่เจ็บใจเราอีกสามีเราก็ไม่ไปยุ่งกับผุ้หญิงคนนั้นแล้วไม่ใช่หรือ แต่ถ้ายังไปยุ่งนี่สิน่าคิด กลับมารักตัวเองนะเดี๋ยวไม่สวยนะจ๊ะ
You shouldn’t hold it against him. He is a great husband to you and the ex girlfriend never tried to ruin your relationship. Just keep moving forward together and forgive everyone. It was prior to your marriage.
Oh sister the past is pasted … forget, forgive and move on…
No problem rau koj os viv ncaus vim twb happened before koj married lawm nws tsis yog koj teeb meem.
Lady, don't be upset. You are mad about something that you were never apart of. Forgive them all and move on. Your husband loved you your whole life and still do. If you open your heart to his son that love and kindness will help you heal.
Txhua yam tshwm sim ua ntej muaj koj. Koj Yog tu muaj hmoo. Koj nrog hlub nws tu tub thiab nawb. Koj siab me zog lawm xwb. Ua siab loj mog.
Tsim nyog chim kawg, vim tias nws npog tau 40 xyoo! Nws yog ib tus neeg zais siab. Koj yuav tsum xav hais tias yog koj ua rau nws ntshe nws twb muab koj nrauj kiag lawm. Tabsis yog koj hlub nws ces chim tas los rov sib kho. Nrog koj tu siab thiab hos.
Tu viv ncau koj siab me dhau lawm os. Koj yuav tau nrog koj tu txiv hlub tu tub nawb. Koj muab xav tia koj yog tu me tub ntawv niam ne koj pua ua tau li nws ua thiab lo koj yuav ua tau li cas thiab no mas cas koj siab me tshaj li nas tej teeb meem no twb muaj ua ntej koj lawm kawg koj tau txai yam ua twb muaj ua ntej koj lawm koj thiaj tsi mob2 siab mog. Koj txai tau tu me tub lo hlub li koj hlub cov koj yog ces yuav tsi mob koj siab pes tsawg lawm mas.
Tsis ua cas li os !!!
I think you should for give the past and think about the future and be happy that you gain another son. Iove yourself first and your husband and all your children. Don’t think too much about that you might have a stroke. Just be happy all the time.
Sister, qhov ko yog yav tas los xwb txhob muab khaws ua kev chim kev khib thiaj tsis ua mob rau koj nawb kav tsij nrog koj tus txiv hlub tus tub ko nawb. Yus hlub nws los nws yeej yuav hlub yus rov qab nawb
qhov yuav xoos chim thiab mob siab heev ma yog tus hluas nkauj ntawv pob
You need to forgive and forget and moving on.
Tsis txhob lam ntshai niam poj ntsuam mog yav tas nawb es ua neej tsis poj tom ntej xyov yus yuav zoo li os
mog es ua siab loj2 xwb mog es thiaj tau qhov zoo mog.
Tsis txob ua ib tug pojniam siabme, qhov koj tustxiv ua ntawd twb muaj ua ntej nws yuav koj, yeej tsis tsimnyog koj khib.. koj twb ua tau lub siabloj cia nws mus khites rau tu menyuam ne…es cas koj ho pheej rau txim rau koj tukheej thiab koj tutxiv? Let it go and forgive so you won’t have to burden yourself
Tsis txhob tu siab os yog yav tas lawm xwb os tos nws tsis qhia koj los twb yog nws Ntxhais tsam koj tu siab xwb mog
Niag poj niam siab me!
Nyob zoo os phooj ywg hnov koj zaj neej neeg lawm, muab piv xam hais tias yog rau kuv nawb kuv tsis chim rau tus niam tsev ntawv thiab kuv yuav tsis ntxhub tus me tub no nawb mog cua li kuv tsis pab koj , tab sis kom koj xav zoo2 mog ,tus niam tsev poj nruam ntawv tseem mob tshaj koj tu siab dua koj tus me tub txom nyem txoj kev paub qhov tseeb , koj tus txom nyem qhov ib sij huam ua tau tej tshwm sim nrog rau txoj kev ciaj sia los txom nws thiaj zais2 los txog hnub no , rau yuav tau zam txim twb tsis yog nws siab phem lim hiam thaum twb muaj koj lawm tej no yog twb xub muaj thaum tsis tau muaj koj lawm , koj zam txim xwb yog zoo dua , zam txim rau nkawv 2 niam tub nawb mog koj lub siab thiaj nyob kaj lug ok
Pojhmong uasiab lojmentses osav tsij hlub os
I feel that you don’t need to stress about it. If your husband don’t cheat on you like now so you need to move on
Koj siab me zog lawm os. Yuav tau ua siab loj thiab tus me niam tsev aw. Koj muab xav tias yov koj nyob koj tus txiv tus hluas nkauj qhov chaw ntshe koj Haj chim os mog.
Txhob chim rau koj tus txiv. Zam txim pub rau nws es koj thiaj li yuav tau txais txoj kev kaj siab. Nws twb hlub hlub koj es yuav li ntawv .
That's the past, so please move on. You'll get sick and you know. Just let it go.
Yog koj tus txiv xub qhia koj ces koj yeej tsis chim paum no os. Yog txoj kev zais siab tawm tus neeg yus ib txwm ntseeg thiab hlub es thiaj li mob koj lub siab. Tabsis tej teebmeem no twb muaj ua tej koj lawm ces kav liam os. Ua tus neeg siab loj thiab zam txim es Tswv ntuj thiaj foom koob hmoo rau yus. Hlub yus tus kheej es pauv yus lub hlwb kom txhob chim2. Kev chim no tseem ua tau rau koj muaj mob thiab hos. Ua tsis tau li cas lawm ces chim tag los tag li xwb es kav liam os mog.
Accept the past, it happened before he married you. You can’t denied the truth. Accept and move on.
It's in past before you. Let it go! The other woman don't even come around. She loved her husband for loving her unconditionally. Your husband hurt her and left her to suffer alone. She's over him. She don't want your husband. She just want her son to be healthy So you should let it go.
You’re hurt because your husband didn’t tell you the truth. And this truth is HUGE!
However, because his ex gf doesn’t seem to be coming on to him, and his son is a good boy, do not let this get in the way of your life.
I feel that it could be because part of you is afraid that your husband and his ex might get back together. But don't worry, I don't think that's going to happen. I believe he knows his boundary and she does too that is why she never comes over when she is invited. So forgive the past and more on.
Koj siab me thiab siab nqaim dhau lawm es thiaj mob mob koj siab. Tsis tsim nyog koj yuav chim txog tav no. Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub tus pojniam ntawv, Nws dag tias tsis muaj nyiaj tabsis nws hos yuav tau koj no ces yeej yog nws tsis kam yuav tus qub hluas xwb.
Tsis txhob chim os mog tsuas yog yav tas los xwb tsuav nws tseem hlub2 koj xwb ces zoo lawm mas
Tus niam tsev aw....tej ko yog yav tag los lawm xwb ua ntej nws paub koj yuav koj lawm es ua siab loj2, koj twb yog tus nws xaiv lawm na. Txawm muaj tej ko los nws twb hlub2 koj txhob xav ntau, kav tsij pab hlub tus me tub ntawv thiab tej zaum nws twb tu2 siab nws thiaj muaj2 mob, koj muab xav kiag tias ua li ho yog kok ne koj ho puas yuav ua li nws ua thiab, siab loj nawb mog.
Tus me sister, hais txog qhov chim ces yeej xav kom ploj ntshis lawm xwb. Tiam sis ua siab tus tus mog, chim ib pliag xwb es tso tseg. Yus twb tau nws lawm es pheej yuav muab tej qub zaub los tshaub ua kom yus mob plab xwb yuav zoo qhov twg nawb ? Xav mus rau lub neej yav pes suab thiab qhov yus yuav ua li cas lub neej thiab yuav tawg paj ntxiv mus es txhob nyob nyob rau yav tas lawm. Peb twb yuav mus 2025 no lawm tsis yog 1980 lawm... hlub hlub yus txij nkawm thiab me nyuam tshaj no mus xwb mog.
You must let it. If your guy doesn’t love you and still having a fair with her the you have every right to get mad or angry at him.
Tus niam tsev aw, txhob chim os, vim koj tus niam Lau ntawv twb tsi lo txeeb koj tus txiv ne, koj kav tsij zoo siab txais to lees txais nw os tsam yav pem suab nw yuav yog tus hlub nej peb tus laus
Yam uas tshwmsim ua ntej nws paub koj ces txawm yuav zoo li cas los txhob khib txhob chim. Tej ntawd yog lawv business. Koj cia li zoo siab koj yog tus muaj hmoo thiab tau nws. Yog tias nws twb paub koj ntsib koj lawm es mam muaj tej no mas zam ntxim tsis tau.
Koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj mas nws tsuas yog yas dhau los lawm xwb os yog koj nrog nws hlub nws tseem yuav hlub koj heev li thiab os
Sister, u are only human. Forgive him as all this transpired before you entered his life. Take it one day at a time.
Tus niam tsev aw tej teeb meem no nws twb tshwm sim ua ntej koj mam los yuav koj tus txiv es hais txog txoj kev txij nkawm mas tsis hais peb leej twg li yog muaj tej teeb meem li ko ces leej twg los yeej chim siab npau taws los vim yog yus yog tus hlub luag rau tom qab ces yus yuav ua tsis tau li cas nawb es tej no twb dhau los lawm ntev es koj yuav tau ua siab loj zam txim rau koj tus txiv thiab koj tus niam npaws nkawd ov vim tias nkawd los nkawd twb tsis rov qab los ua nkauj ua nraug lawm es koj tus txiv los nws twb hlub2 koj es yus yuav tau hais lo lus zoo rau nws xwb qhia kiag rau nej cov pojniam paub tias peb txiv neej nyiam kom yus tus pojniam hais lus zoo xwb txawm koj kiag los koj twb nyiam lo lus zoo thiab ne es yus ua dab tsi yus yuav tau muab xav rov qab los rau yus kiag tias tej teeb meem no ho yog yus ho ua li ntawd rau yus tus txiv es yus puas xav kom luag ntxub yus thiab hais lus phem rau yus ma peb ua neej nyob tsis hais pojniam los yog txiv neej peb yuav ua dab tsi los yus yuav tau muab tig yam luag ua ntawd es ua li ho yog yus no ua li yus ho xav li cas thiab es qhov tseeb es tej laus ib txwm tias dab plaub es mob nqaij yog hais qub lus ces mob siab xwb.
Don’t be mad at your husband. The past is the past. All it matters is he loves you now and not like the other woman was trying to get back with your husband.
Sister aw koj txhob tu siab mog. Tej no twb happen ua ntej lawm kho tsis tau. Koj twb muaj hmoo uas tus qub hluas nkauj tsis thab lossis rov ua teeb meem rau koj tus txiv. Nws yog ib tug pojniam zoo tiag2 tsuas yog tej no nws yeej kho tsis tau ib yam thiab. Koj yuav tau ua nws tsaug es zam txim xwb thiaj kho tau koj qhov kev tu siab. Yog koj tsis pab lossis hloov koj tus kheej ces koj yuav mob stroke lossis heart attack nawb thaum no ces yuav lig rau koj. Zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug tub zoo2 ntxiv thiab mog.
Sister, yog xav qhov khib xwb ces yeej nrog koj mob siab. Koj tus txiv ib txwm tsis tau hlub nws tus tub, cia rau nws hlub nws tus tub ua ntej txoj sia tu es nws thiaj tsis npam os. Koj los txhob txiav thiab es koj thiaj tsis npam nawb.
TXHOB CHIM2 NAWV, YEEJ YOG IB QHOV NYUAJ2 TIAMSIS NCO NTSOOV TIAS KOJ PAUV TSIS TAU NWS QHOV KEV YUAM KEV, NEVER FORGET BUT FORGIVE XWB NAWV. ZOO DUA KOJ TUS TXIV TSEEM MUAJ TXOJSIA NYOB NROG KOJ CES ZOO TSHAJ LI KOJ TAU NYIAJ TAU KUB NAWV
THIAB QHOV TSEEB NWS TSIS ROV MUS NYIAG HLUB LEEJ NIAM CES NYOB LI KO MUS NAWV.
ZOO LI KUV TUS NO NIM XAV2 KOM MUAJ ZAJ NEEJ NEEG LI KOJ ES KUV TUS TXIV TXHOB TUAG XWB CES KUV TWB ZOO2 SIAB LAWM OS tus niam tsev aw.
I think you can't forgive him because he didn't told you the truth from the beginning but don't torture yourself, forgive him and love the boy as your own especially when you said he is a good child too.
You should forgive your husband because their relationship happened before he met you and he stop contact with her since he married you. It’s not the son’s fault. Don’t let the past ruin your relationship.
Before you get mad, put you in their shoes first. What if you are that lady having the boy. How would you feel??
Cas tsis chim naws? Ib qhov secret zais neeg li no yog ib qhov txiav tau txoj kev ntseeg yus tus ntxij nkawm. Yus twb xav tias yus yog tus nws hlub ib leeg tabsi txog thaum laus yus hos find out tias nws twb faiv nws txoj kev hlub rau lwm tus poj niam. Zam tau txim rau nws tabsi lub siab yeej broken, qhov no tsis yog koj siab me os.
It's okay to be mad, but it was all in the past. If your husband still love you then that's enough.. learn to live with it...
You have every right to be mad because your husband hid a secret from you. However, find it your heart to forgive him and be happy that fate lead him to you instead. They created a life together but didn’t end up together. Instead, they each ended up with different spouses. Your husband apologized and you guys should move on. Life is short so don’t dwell on the hurt.
Honestly, don't be mad at your husband and ruin a good marriage. The past is in the past and your husband love u so thats all that matter.
It is before he knows you. I would forgive him and continue to love him. As long as he don’t go back and tham the other woman. Which she seems to know her roll.
Get over it woman!!!!! He's still with you. The other woman never come over when you have a gathering because she has respect for you.keep up with your attitude....he surely will leave you. If not for son's mother, it will be some one else.
Txhob chim os tus niam tsev. Zoo siab koj tau ib tug tub ntxiv xwb nawb. Txhua Yam tshwm sim ntawv twb tshwm sim ua ntej thaum tsis tau muaj koj lawm.
Chim los chim me me xwb koj tus txiv twb hlub hlub koj vim nws ntshai tej no xwb. Zam txim es koj thiaj muaj txoj sia nyob ntev mog.
Xob chim thov koj pab ua ib leejniam zoo rau tus metub os mog. Koj twb yog tus nws xaiv lawm os. Koj puas paub tias tus metub thiab nws niam es ua lubneej tu siab npaum cas naj lov. Yog kuv mas kuv yeej qheb lub siab hlub tus me tub no xwb os. Yog koj hlub koj tus txiv ces koj cia lr zoo siab hlo hlub tus me tub no. Yeej yog li koj tus me ntxhais hais lawm tus me tub no tsi muaj kev txhaum os mog.
It's because the child is a boy that's why your husband wants his child in his life.
Tsis tsim nyog koj chim koj mob siab os, txhua yam tshwm ua ntej koj tus txiv ko paub koj lawm. Tiag2 mas koj yog tus yuav tau ua koj tus niam tij npawg tsaug uas nws tsis yuav koj tus txiv es koj thiaj li tau nws los ua koj tus txiv hnub no, tus uas yuav chim mas yog koj tus niam tij npawg. Koj kav tsij ua lub siab loj hlub2 tus me tub ntawv thiab ua koj tus txiv tsaug uas nws tseem xaiv yuav koj, txhua2 yam yog lub neej thaum tsis tau paub koj lawm xwb.