Black women might appear angry because they are overwhelmed and stressed providing for their families, men, children, and just trying to get through life. Meanwhile, black men display their anger through homicide, rapes, robberies, addiction, a host of other negative stereotypes associated with black men. So if being angry is stigma that black women must bear… So be it.💅🏽But at least while we are “angry“, we are graduating colleges, building businesses, raising families single-handed, and owning homes. BW are turning their anger into progress, while black men are the weakest links.
PERIOD!! BW like Cari act like they didnt grow up with brothers, uncles, male cousins, etc that had THE EXACT SAME CIRCUMSTANCES! 🤦🏿♂️......like pipe down we are ALL dealing with the same issues and we find a way to just play the hand we're dealt and be mature adults and do what we have to smh & lol. The victim mentality nonsese is tired and NOBODY wants to hear it......they act like they own the struggle 🤦🏿♂️🤣😂🤣😭😭😭
No everybody doesn't she just told you WHY ???? Clean your ears out bw doesn't have the luxury of other races of women . They should be angry and they should stop having a lot of yall . 😀
@@wpatterson12003 I have freedom of speech just like you DUSTAVIOUS the 🤡 . You shouldn"t call anyone stupid because you are the LEAST educated . Now enjoy your day and stop shooting up the community 🤡
Curious... Do these women give the same kind of understanding to MEN, who are BROKE? Do they sit back and think of all of the circumstances that lead to his situation, and give him the benefit of doubt??? 🤔
Thank u. Her statement was sad and pathetic. Excuses excuses, as if there aren't billions of women who have worse circumstances and yet, still dont act like them.
@@dwaynehiler5735 And she’s rich & complaining because as you just said there are billions of women, women of color that have it rough and don’t act like that
Their is no excuse to be failures as a group of men. Non black immigrants come to America and make something of themselves, they face racism like y’all and still make it. 🤷🏾♂️
Everyone has some sort of “circumstance” in there life. What makes her do entitled to speak for others… this sounds like an excuse or just poor reasoning.
Exactly. She can't speak for me. I'm a black woman, a wife a mom. I don't think like this. I would say I'm embarrassed for her but honestly I'm not. She said she refused to listen to Kevin Samuels assuming he was attacking black women. She's way too old to be so ignorant. She's supposed to be a journalist but runs from accountability. Smh.
Black women chose feminism over the black family and freedom struggle Black women chose government assistance over employed black men per the moynihan report
I’ve been working since I got out of high school. Should I walk around angry at the world too? She told what they’re really angry about when she said “we don’t have nobody else to do it.” That’s what they be angry about. But when you say you don’t need a man 50 times a day don’t be surprised when you have to do everything on your own
@@Stikob I did miss the point. I just see a salty person complaining about what she wasn’t given in life. Entitled that she’s mad and people don’t feel sorry for her
You can be sick and tired. We are not going anywhere. We are the mothers of the universe. Blessed & highly favored. We are the daughters of kings & queens kisses by the sun. Our beauties are a reflection of God's grace on Israel!! We are spiritual warriors. Bought and sold but still rise above all obstacles. Some of us have not awaken to our royalty but I know I am a black queen. All negative words return to sender 10x over! I am strong, beautiful, blessed and highly favored by God himself!
@Juan Carwell Really not. People don't cut BM a break for aggressive behavior so I have no idea why BW think they are getting one just for being women. No one cares about the why in America anymore people just leave you with your own type of aggressive people and call it a day.
Sooooo…..women are angry because they have to be adults????🤔🤔🤔 Also the circumstances she’s referring to women chose to participate in so why be angry at men?!?! The more women speak like this it makes them more & more & more undesirable to the type of men they want. You’re angry at a man for circumstances that he didn’t create for you?!?! I didn’t hear anything in there that men was responsible but what’s even funnier is that she said “I don’t have anyone else to do it,it’s not like I have a Dad with a trust fund for me” Jesus Christ you can’t make this stuff up & conversations like this just proves the things Kevin Samuels was saying is true which was the weight of the world was meant for shoulders not hips. The reality is this the lie feminism has sold to women has come to back to bite em in the ass. That whole “I’m a boss b***h that don’t need a man for nothing” is not working out like many of them thought it would & reality is setting in. I can’t believe she said women are angry because they have to pay bills…..THAT IS WILD BRUH!!!!🤣🤣🤣
Everything you just said is true. Also women are angry because so many of them can't sit back and relax and have all their bills, expenses and everything paid for like they could back in the day. Thats why so many women have things like onlyfans, manyvids, porn hub accounts, private snapchats, etc. Women want to live life on the easiest modes possible and if they can't they get so angry, pissed off, toxic and confrontational.
We have a culture of no accountability. It worked its way deep into the politics and media. The leaders skirt around the issues. So the problem remain unsolved.
Honestly people can disagree which is fine, but womens skin color never mattered to me or the men I talk to. I expect everyone women to have a storm of emotions and be a little unpredictable at times. That’s what I love about the feminine energy, even if I don’t understand it at times, I’m attracted to it regardless . But I do get tired of the “boy bye” attitudes. Not every black women is like that, but for the ones who are, it comes off like you don’t need us which is very unattractive. The moment you don’t let the man lead things is the moment, we feel resentment, aggression, and a repellent energy, because there is other masculinity in the relationship. Kinda deep but yeah.
Masculine women are predominately black women for a number of reasons. Let’s keep it a stack. And yes I’ll always love women but they are slave to their emotions and need to be led. Which one do you want a emotional leader (women) or a logical leader(most men)
"boy bye" energies are usually the self entitled, "celebrity" wannabe, following, immature females. I think she's speaking of women that really had too always get it out the mud themselves cause there wasn't any comfortability of having someone else to depend on fr
Men need to understand a woman is programmed by God himself To follow A man That's already a Leader and help Him maintain or fortify a sound foundation. A male that has to tell a woman he's A man,Leader or Boss is disingenuous. Walk it Like you talk it. Look at the animal kingdom A Lion can't just mount a Lioness without a fight to go with it. It's deeper than The lame narrative that woman stay angry etc. A lot of men won't take their place as a leader,provider,& protector. How many children are being raised by their mothers in this society 🤔 understand that a woman Cannot be A Daddy But some try & may be with Attitudes that turn some men off.
That's bull. I feel for anyone who grew up in a tough environment, but the way some of these women act isn't due to trauma most of the time. If you let them tell it, every last one of them had a childhood equivalent to the movie, Precious. They are out here acting like there are no 'New News'. I'm supposed to believe that everyone has authentic anger. One need only take a look at black women who are Baby Boomers and the generation prior to them. Those women CLEARLY had more difficult lives than Gen X and Millennial black women, but the level of attitude was nowhere near what one regularly sees today.
That's a lie straight from the pits of hell.ive seen a ton of black men with white women who look like they eat every 5 minutes and walk around with a stank look on their face . Y'all just want an excuse
She showed empathy toward Lebron & somehow everyone understood how he gets attacked but the moment she tries to humanize black women in the same way people diminish what she's saying 🙃
@@jayo208 people love to put the angry black woman label on us. Black men are incredibly mean but they can hide it behind masculinity. What's not mean/angry about shooting each other dead in the street? Or abandoning your kids? What's not mean about killing bw every 5.5 hours? What's not mean about reinforcing racism/colorism? Fact of the matter is other races of women have men who are protectors and providers, who create safe environments. We have men who actively undermine our protection then ask why we don't act like Stepford wives. On top of that our niceness is often seen as a vulnerability by bm. If you want nice treatment create nice conditions and don't punish bw who actually are nice!
@@jayo208 does it matter who stripped bw of our humanity? The fact is we have men who see us as less, don't empathize with us & it should be addressed. The 70s blaxploitation films & rampant pimping undid what progressive black people had done to address racist anti bw tropes in decades prior to that and Rap, movies & music videos have nearly finished the job to where bm think we don't deserve to have feelings.
@@jayo208 The entire community is angry. We can all imagine why that is. If it needs to be spelled out Maybe due to centuries of abuse and mistreatment and literally no treatment. Black men are acting out all over society, and we get the brunt of the acting out with black women being killed by our black male partners every 6 minutes. That said we are standing there giving you empathy and respite, and as she said, we can’t get grace. If anything black men are standing by waiting to drag black women for any and everything. 70% of black men are overweight but constantly drag black women who are overweight, 60% of black men over 30 are fathers but constantly drag single mothers, many black men also have anger issues but constantly drag black women for being angry. Again you have grace for other black men but for black women there ZERO. If you don’t get it, you don’t want to and that’s okay too…
Humanize? It justifying dysfunctional behaviours. Then to patronize these men who grew up in the SAME environments. I guess black men should stay angry,aggressive like black females do.You've heard the criticism. You are not getting the results(80% out of wedlock births,25%marriage rate,. Look in the mirror,get help(in JESUS NAME), and do better. Stop justifying. Stop blaming black men. Get better.
I think she is taking accountability with explanation and that should be heard even if misunderstood . They are separating the bm and the bw so much during these times it’s heartbreaking. Because we really need each other on a huge level.
@@wpatterson12003 How doesn’t she, can your comprehend how she doesn’t have a point? So easy to comment a blanket statement with no facts or rebuttal; that response means nothing. okay buddy she doesn’t 👍 I’ll take you’re word.. lol
@@JMAC____ She's making a blanket statement about "black" women not having the same opportunities as other types of women. Do black women and black women come up together or not?
Women that are making good money don't want a man making less because that takes away their leverage of a divorce if things go left. Women go crazy when a man is awarded 1/2 of their $hit.
And they sit back and soak up the Bullshit.... "I DONT HAVE NO ONE ELSE TO DO IT" But aren't these the same women who said " I DONT NEED NO MAN" Now you don't have one and who do you blame ...smh
“I dont have nobody else to do it” bruh its nobodies job beside your parents till u are 18 to take care of you. And some of us dont even have that luxury. A sob story is not an excuse cause alot of people go through worse and still are not bitter and aggressive. Its is always YOUR CHOICE how u react to things and your own behavior
I have a daughter and I want her to watch things like this to know how to rid a mind state of helplessness and become a legitimate woman to be someday, great for a man. Yes I will teach her how to be a woman to her man and it’s no shame in it and it’s crazy how it’s confusion to it.
I've only dated BW and i have to admit its ridiculously hard. Main reasons are their lonely miserable friends will always be in ur relationship giving advice. And she will listen to them
She don’t represent of all Black women but none of that is our problem. Choosing to bring your trauma onto relationships based on where you came from is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. Black men that can’t control themselves based on the things that happen to them get called out all the time. How many times have we heard “So you’re going to continue the cycle?”
I grew up poor asf an still is u don't see me walking around being angry an ik black girls in the worst situations that's excuses nobody cares boo hoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
funny, how the rest of us had the same responsibilities as you, but are not allowed to be angry and lash out irrationally. I put myself through college doing construction work in the hot sun of Gulf Coast states. Not much air-conditioning to be had so I had to focus on work rather than “attitude.” Try doing concrete and roofing work in 105° sunshine for YEARS before you talk to me about your “circumstances.” how many of YOUR jobs were of the air-conditioned, indoor variety? how many of them were what my daddy would’ve called “real work“ that involved hard labor and 10 hour days in the sun? HARD LABOR WAS MY ONLY TRUST-FUND, WOMAN. MY WHITE PRIVILEGE DIDN’T EVEN COVER THE COST OF MY WORKBOOTS.
Stop attacking BW! All black women ain’t angry. We just got strong boundaries and we stand 10 toes down for what we believe. We get attacked from all sides for being authentic in our struggle. Life trying to kick our azz and you want us to be happy about it. Smile about struggling. Hell nah! We bringing it to the hoop like MJ or Lebron. We are the strongest on the court and everyone copying our game but mad at us for not tolerating BS!! And stop asking weak sisters who need male validation about why we go hard in the paint. Step to a strong sister and watch her face check you like Kobe!
Women don’t act like WOMEN. Men go through WAY MORE, and on top of it all, we HAVE TO HOLD IT TOGETHER, in order to steer the ship, because I don’t care about a woman is capable of, only men should lead, because God put us here to lead. Women try and fuck that up, trying to be equal and strong, when that’s not their God given disposition. The only fight a woman has is emotions
The majority of Americans don’t have fathers with trust funds. Working to support yourself is called being an adult. Being an adult doesn’t give you a right to have poor manners and social skills
Black women being angry is not a thing. It’s a human emotion that every one experiences at some point in life. Self deprecation to prove something to black men is ridiculous. If someone is mad it’s a cause and effect. Find out what the cause is, instead of walking around saying that black women are angry. Do you lack communication skills or something??? That’s a problem within it self, probably worse than someone being called angry.
Excuses … I’m a black woman and honestly I just been looking at the reality of stuff lately .. black men and women are full of fucking excuses on why they can’t just be they best self … after a certain age life is what you make it n you make ur own choices … a lot of things can be out of your control but most things are in your control … I’m tired of all the excuses
THIS IS CRAZY THEY ALREADY KNOW WHY YOUR ANGRY THE POINT IS THEY JUST DON'T CARE, LISTEN WHEN A BOYMAN LEAVES YOU WITH ALL THE RESPONSIBLITIES THEY ARE VERY AWARE WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND BOYMAN ARE RESPONSIBLE WHEN THEY WANT TOO BE THEY JUST DON'T WANT KNOW ATTACHMENTS / RESPONSIBILITIES PERIOD.
This girl is a poor decision maker. Cari had a muli-million dollar job just basically sitting there on T.V. and she was mad about that and quit because she wanted even more money - SHE IS LOST
I’m sorry but I’ve grown up in difficult times myself and I would never direct my anger towards others who are innocent. There have been 2 times in my life that I’ve ever had a confrontation with someone in public and both have been with highly aggressive black females.
I'm honest and serious when I ask this... What did you all go through that black boys in single parent households didn't go through as well? Most of us grew up poor. Most of us grew up w/ "mama". Most of us grew up w/ a no good dude, who wasn't your dad, abusing our "mama". But you know what most men did, including myself? We stayed w/ our kids, regardless of circumstances. Most black women leave black men in marriages and take the kids w/ them. Then she has to fend for herself against someone she thought she was doing better w/, because he turned her out. Always chasing the dig bick. No sympathy here. You all made your bed. For at least 5 decades you all have been saying we're no good and you don't need us. You were fooled by a white feminist movement that wasn't ever going to benefit you. Live w/ it. My advice to men w/ kids...raise them yourself, instead of having them influenced by an angry black woman. Particularly, an angry black woman, who doesn't know what she's angry about.
Men don't try to understand us so why bother. We shoulder most of the family responsibilities and we have to stay happy while yall sleep around. Make it make sense.
“You’re independent and don’t need no man” boasting remember? So why are u saying you don’t have no one to do x,y and z when you literally screaming you don’t need a mans help??
LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!!
🎯🎯🎯 Why are they posting this clip? 🤦🏽♀️
Women bro
BLACK WOMEN ARE ANGRY AND UNFUN
Big Facts
Black women might appear angry because they are overwhelmed and stressed providing for their families, men, children, and just trying to get through life. Meanwhile, black men display their anger through homicide, rapes, robberies, addiction, a host of other negative stereotypes associated with black men. So if being angry is stigma that black women must bear… So be it.💅🏽But at least while we are “angry“, we are graduating colleges, building businesses, raising families single-handed, and owning homes. BW are turning their anger into progress, while black men are the weakest links.
You can see all the flaws in us but can’t realize that one major thing in yourself
Everybody got "circumstances" lol.
PERIOD!! BW like Cari act like they didnt grow up with brothers, uncles, male cousins, etc that had THE EXACT SAME CIRCUMSTANCES! 🤦🏿♂️......like pipe down we are ALL dealing with the same issues and we find a way to just play the hand we're dealt and be mature adults and do what we have to smh & lol. The victim mentality nonsese is tired and NOBODY wants to hear it......they act like they own the struggle 🤦🏿♂️🤣😂🤣😭😭😭
@@jayo208 Bunch of craziness. Black men and women both be getting out the mud.
No everybody doesn't she just told you WHY ???? Clean your ears out bw doesn't have the luxury of other races of women . They should be angry and they should stop having a lot of yall . 😀
@@patriciagrady3997 Your stupid get off my comment. You don't make any sense just like she doesn't. Neither of you have a leg to stand on.
@@wpatterson12003
I have freedom of speech just like you DUSTAVIOUS the 🤡 . You shouldn"t call anyone stupid because you are the LEAST educated . Now enjoy your day and stop shooting up the community 🤡
They wanna laugh so bad lol
I call cap on that 8 jobs in college thing. Bet you she only worked like 20 hours a week
lmao
I definitely would've laughed! BW are a joke!!! I'm sick and tired of em!!!
@@jaamall them jobs didn't require standing if you know what I mean lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Curious... Do these women give the same kind of understanding to MEN, who are BROKE? Do they sit back and think of all of the circumstances that lead to his situation, and give him the benefit of doubt???
🤔
Excellent point!
This comment golden …Women like this don’t see men as a partner, they see them as a safety net. She single ?
There is no excuse for the verbal and physical abuse black women direct at other black people. Those who refuse to be introspective will die alone.
Well said, well said
Thank u. Her statement was sad and pathetic. Excuses excuses, as if there aren't billions of women who have worse circumstances and yet, still dont act like them.
@@dwaynehiler5735 And she’s rich & complaining because as you just said there are billions of women, women of color that have it rough and don’t act like that
Their is no excuse to be failures as a group of men. Non black immigrants come to America and make something of themselves, they face racism like y’all and still make it. 🤷🏾♂️
One way aggression from Black women towards Black Men
She’s won half the battle by just being born a woman…..men go through way worse
That’s not true.
@@JMAC____ take away her ESPN credentials, tell me she wouldn’t be able to get a job anywhere else just off of her looks alone…
Nobody has it worse then the other … we both go through shit … some of the same and some different 🙄
Everyone has some sort of “circumstance” in there life. What makes her do entitled to speak for others… this sounds like an excuse or just poor reasoning.
Accountability
Exactly. She can't speak for me. I'm a black woman, a wife a mom. I don't think like this. I would say I'm embarrassed for her but honestly I'm not. She said she refused to listen to Kevin Samuels assuming he was attacking black women. She's way too old to be so ignorant. She's supposed to be a journalist but runs from accountability. Smh.
@@TheEMC99 facts
Black women chose feminism over the black family and freedom struggle Black women chose government assistance over employed black men per the moynihan report
I think it is a mixed bag. The ones who control the mic are the feminist.
They will shame a woman who fights for her marriage. Yes they are angry.
And they spend their welfare checks on trips to have a hot girl Summer.
True.
Not always true. Sometimes black men leave black women to raise kids alone and black the black woman did not choose to be alone.
I’ve been working since I got out of high school. Should I walk around angry at the world too? She told what they’re really angry about when she said “we don’t have nobody else to do it.” That’s what they be angry about. But when you say you don’t need a man 50 times a day don’t be surprised when you have to do everything on your own
She became aggressive bc she’s a workaholic? 🤷🏾♂️
She is not helping black women right now. After her explainations, perceptions are worse.
Not at all
She has a horrible way of thinking.
This person thinks she’s the only person with tough circumstances
9/10 I don’t have a trust fun. Lol welcome to everybody else.
You missed the whole point
@@Stikob they always do bruh.
@@Stikob Her victimhood & racist attitude removes a great deal of her beauty & credibility!
@@Stikob I don’t have a trust fund either - & to say it’s the trust funds kids fault your a loser is ridiculous thinking
@@Stikob I did miss the point.
I just see a salty person complaining about what she wasn’t given in life. Entitled that she’s mad and people don’t feel sorry for her
I am sick and tired of that group of people!!! Yes I'm talking about BW! I am not lying
If you ain’t black don’t talk about sh!t you don’t know about chingaling
Skip right over em on Dating apps lol
Fr tho shit is cringe
You can be sick and tired. We are not going anywhere. We are the mothers of the universe. Blessed & highly favored. We are the daughters of kings & queens kisses by the sun. Our beauties are a reflection of God's grace on Israel!! We are spiritual warriors. Bought and sold but still rise above all obstacles. Some of us have not awaken to our royalty but I know I am a black queen. All negative words return to sender 10x over! I am strong, beautiful, blessed and highly favored by God himself!
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Everybody go thru shit
I wish Kevin Samuels would have heard this
Sistas gotta resolve their anger within. It's a turn off in ANY woman but black women have the worst circumstances. Find your way, my sistas.
These conversations go no where.
I disagree she gave us a female perspective that was unaware of! Maybe you already knew that perspective?
@@millweabrooks6317 what??
@@millweabrooks6317 We been listening to bw cry cry and cry and it's been gotten old and tired, y'all gotta hold yourselves accountable FOR ONCE.
These comments are proving her point
Yep
These small minded individuals don’t and won’t ever get she made it simple to
Understand; they dismiss because they feel attacked lol
@Juan Carwell Really not. People don't cut BM a break for aggressive behavior so I have no idea why BW think they are getting one just for being women. No one cares about the why in America anymore people just leave you with your own type of aggressive people and call it a day.
Her point of being mad cause she has to be a adult? That's not a excuse
She doesn't have a point.
She has no point. “I am hostile because of my circumstances” is the kind of excuse a child would make.
Sooooo…..women are angry because they have to be adults????🤔🤔🤔 Also the circumstances she’s referring to women chose to participate in so why be angry at men?!?! The more women speak like this it makes them more & more & more undesirable to the type of men they want. You’re angry at a man for circumstances that he didn’t create for you?!?! I didn’t hear anything in there that men was responsible but what’s even funnier is that she said “I don’t have anyone else to do it,it’s not like I have a Dad with a trust fund for me” Jesus Christ you can’t make this stuff up & conversations like this just proves the things Kevin Samuels was saying is true which was the weight of the world was meant for shoulders not hips. The reality is this the lie feminism has sold to women has come to back to bite em in the ass. That whole “I’m a boss b***h that don’t need a man for nothing” is not working out like many of them thought it would & reality is setting in. I can’t believe she said women are angry because they have to pay bills…..THAT IS WILD BRUH!!!!🤣🤣🤣
Everything you just said is true. Also women are angry because so many of them can't sit back and relax and have all their bills, expenses and everything paid for like they could back in the day. Thats why so many women have things like onlyfans, manyvids, porn hub accounts, private snapchats, etc. Women want to live life on the easiest modes possible and if they can't they get so angry, pissed off, toxic and confrontational.
No accountability
We have a culture of no accountability. It worked its way deep into the politics and media. The leaders skirt around the issues. So the problem remain unsolved.
I hear a Cat or a Dog in her future..
Kevin Samuels was only trying to help
I see a 👮🏻♂️ 9mm lead stuck in yo skull
@@cheredouce facts💯
@@cheredouce keep that in mind the next time someone in your family dies
@@pasadena19 naw that is not my lifestyle maybe yours though. Gangster.
She almost started to rage just because of that question… is that because of the circumstance as well ? Lmfao!
😂😂😂🤷🏾♂️ MAYBE
Honestly people can disagree which is fine, but womens skin color never mattered to me or the men I talk to. I expect everyone women to have a storm of emotions and be a little unpredictable at times. That’s what I love about the feminine energy, even if I don’t understand it at times, I’m attracted to it regardless . But I do get tired of the “boy bye” attitudes. Not every black women is like that, but for the ones who are, it comes off like you don’t need us which is very unattractive. The moment you don’t let the man lead things is the moment, we feel resentment, aggression, and a repellent energy, because there is other masculinity in the relationship. Kinda deep but yeah.
Masculine women are predominately black women for a number of reasons. Let’s keep it a stack. And yes I’ll always love women but they are slave to their emotions and need to be led. Which one do you want a emotional leader (women) or a logical leader(most men)
"boy bye" energies are usually the self entitled, "celebrity" wannabe, following, immature females. I think she's speaking of women that really had too always get it out the mud themselves cause there wasn't any comfortability of having someone else to depend on fr
The REALITY is when stuff happens that women can’t control they WILL need a MAN at some point…..
Men need to understand a woman is programmed by God himself To follow A man That's already a Leader and help Him maintain or fortify a sound foundation. A male that has to tell a woman he's A man,Leader or Boss is disingenuous. Walk it Like you talk it. Look at the animal kingdom A Lion can't just mount a Lioness without a fight to go with it. It's deeper than The lame narrative that woman stay angry etc. A lot of men won't take their place as a leader,provider,& protector. How many children are being raised by their mothers in this society 🤔 understand that a woman Cannot be A Daddy But some try & may be with Attitudes that turn some men off.
Thank you Jay Dat Dude, cause damn near every comment labeled every black woman as being angry. We are not all angry
That's bull. I feel for anyone who grew up in a tough environment, but the way some of these women act isn't due to trauma most of the time. If you let them tell it, every last one of them had a childhood equivalent to the movie, Precious. They are out here acting like there are no 'New News'. I'm supposed to believe that everyone has authentic anger.
One need only take a look at black women who are Baby Boomers and the generation prior to them. Those women CLEARLY had more difficult lives than Gen X and Millennial black women, but the level of attitude was nowhere near what one regularly sees today.
I’m a Boomer,I have to agree!
Best comment ever❤️👏🏾👏🏾
KS: CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UPP!!
That’s some BS
If y’all was feminism and friendly
And approachable a real man would love to be with you!!!!
That's a lie straight from the pits of hell.ive seen a ton of black men with white women who look like they eat every 5 minutes and walk around with a stank look on their face . Y'all just want an excuse
She showed empathy toward Lebron & somehow everyone understood how he gets attacked but the moment she tries to humanize black women in the same way people diminish what she's saying 🙃
Yep, you see it.
@@jayo208 people love to put the angry black woman label on us. Black men are incredibly mean but they can hide it behind masculinity. What's not mean/angry about shooting each other dead in the street? Or abandoning your kids? What's not mean about killing bw every 5.5 hours? What's not mean about reinforcing racism/colorism? Fact of the matter is other races of women have men who are protectors and providers, who create safe environments. We have men who actively undermine our protection then ask why we don't act like Stepford wives. On top of that our niceness is often seen as a vulnerability by bm. If you want nice treatment create nice conditions and don't punish bw who actually are nice!
@@jayo208 does it matter who stripped bw of our humanity? The fact is we have men who see us as less, don't empathize with us & it should be addressed. The 70s blaxploitation films & rampant pimping undid what progressive black people had done to address racist anti bw tropes in decades prior to that and Rap, movies & music videos have nearly finished the job to where bm think we don't deserve to have feelings.
@@jayo208 The entire community is angry. We can all imagine why that is. If it needs to be spelled out Maybe due to centuries of abuse and mistreatment and literally no treatment. Black men are acting out all over society, and we get the brunt of the acting out with black women being killed by our black male partners every 6 minutes. That said we are standing there giving you empathy and respite, and as she said, we can’t get grace. If anything black men are standing by waiting to drag black women for any and everything.
70% of black men are overweight but constantly drag black women who are overweight, 60% of black men over 30 are fathers but constantly drag single mothers, many black men also have anger issues but constantly drag black women for being angry. Again you have grace for other black men but for black women there ZERO. If you don’t get it, you don’t want to and that’s okay too…
Humanize? It justifying dysfunctional behaviours. Then to patronize these men who grew up in the SAME environments. I guess black men should stay angry,aggressive like black females do.You've heard the criticism. You are not getting the results(80% out of wedlock births,25%marriage rate,. Look in the mirror,get help(in JESUS NAME), and do better. Stop justifying. Stop blaming black men. Get better.
Wait we still having this convo. Every black woman I know it in soft life era
I think she is taking accountability with explanation and that should be heard even if misunderstood . They are separating the bm and the bw so much during these times it’s heartbreaking. Because we really need each other on a huge level.
When did she take accountability? All I heard was her trying to justify being hostile.
The Bible says a soft word turns away raft. Anger is an expression of emotional pain . Showing compassion allows relieves a person in pain.
This comment section proves how much society dislikes and disrespects black women
😭😭😭😭😭 everything she say black men deal plus dealing with women that have this mindset
Poor wahmen... 🤡
You’re Continuing to prove her point.
@@JMAC____ She doesn't have a point.
@@wpatterson12003 How doesn’t she, can your comprehend how she doesn’t have a point?
So easy to comment a blanket statement with no facts or rebuttal; that response means nothing.
okay buddy she doesn’t 👍 I’ll take you’re word.. lol
@@JMAC____ She's making a blanket statement about "black" women not having the same opportunities as other types of women. Do black women and black women come up together or not?
@@JMAC____ It's ok it's not just you. It's a scientific fact people are getting stupider.
Women that are making good money don't want a man making less because that takes away their leverage of a divorce if things go left. Women go crazy when a man is awarded 1/2 of their $hit.
All the black men in the comments proving her right 💀
What most women don't get is, you can have on make up, nails, and hair done and still be masculine.
And they sit back and soak up the Bullshit.... "I DONT HAVE NO ONE ELSE TO DO IT" But aren't these the same women who said " I DONT NEED NO MAN" Now you don't have one and who do you blame ...smh
Don’t be ridiculous!
We should always carry ourselves in a kind respectful manner.
Pacman looks like he about to bust out laughing
These "clips" are bringing out the worst of men but if you watch actual video, most of the comments are POSITIVE & RESPECTFUL of this woman
That unmarried and left over women hit these women really hard
“I dont have nobody else to do it” bruh its nobodies job beside your parents till u are 18 to take care of you. And some of us dont even have that luxury. A sob story is not an excuse cause alot of people go through worse and still are not bitter and aggressive. Its is always YOUR CHOICE how u react to things and your own behavior
We NEEED AMDREEEEEEW TATE!
Tell us what your 8 jobs were - please list them - all 8. You grew up in the 90’s - experienced 0 racism. Please move on.
Those former professional athletes are holding back their laughter. They’re probably thinking…”that’s why we don’t deal with you.” 🤣😂
They’re all married to black women so what are you talking about lol
I have a daughter and I want her to watch things like this to know how to rid a mind state of helplessness and become a legitimate woman to be someday, great for a man. Yes I will teach her how to be a woman to her man and it’s no shame in it and it’s crazy how it’s confusion to it.
I've only dated BW and i have to admit its ridiculously hard. Main reasons are their lonely miserable friends will always be in ur relationship giving advice. And she will listen to them
She don’t represent of all Black women but none of that is our problem. Choosing to bring your trauma onto relationships based on where you came from is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. Black men that can’t control themselves based on the things that happen to them get called out all the time. How many times have we heard “So you’re going to continue the cycle?”
You circumstances are not my problem!
Who is this Lady ? She is gorgeous
What is your circumstance?
I miss you on ESPN
I grew up poor asf an still is u don't see me walking around being angry an ik black girls in the worst situations that's excuses nobody cares boo hoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This comment section surprised me. Usually everyone just blindly runs to black women's defense instead of holding them accountable
funny, how the rest of us had the same responsibilities as you, but are not allowed to be angry and lash out irrationally.
I put myself through college doing construction work in the hot sun of Gulf Coast states. Not much air-conditioning to be had so I had to focus on work rather than “attitude.”
Try doing concrete and roofing work in 105° sunshine for YEARS before you talk to me about your “circumstances.”
how many of YOUR jobs were of the air-conditioned, indoor variety?
how many of them were what my daddy would’ve called “real work“ that involved hard labor and 10 hour days in the sun?
HARD LABOR WAS MY ONLY TRUST-FUND, WOMAN. MY WHITE PRIVILEGE DIDN’T EVEN COVER THE COST OF MY WORKBOOTS.
When someone has the choice to deal with someone not aggressive, why would they choose the aggressive person?
This is a cop out.
Deluded
Stop attacking BW! All black women ain’t angry. We just got strong boundaries and we stand 10 toes down for what we believe. We get attacked from all sides for being authentic in our struggle. Life trying to kick our azz and you want us to be happy about it. Smile about struggling. Hell nah! We bringing it to the hoop like MJ or Lebron. We are the strongest on the court and everyone copying our game but mad at us for not tolerating BS!!
And stop asking weak sisters who need male validation about why we go hard in the paint. Step to a strong sister and watch her face check you like Kobe!
Women don’t act like WOMEN. Men go through WAY MORE, and on top of it all, we HAVE TO HOLD IT TOGETHER, in order to steer the ship, because I don’t care about a woman is capable of, only men should lead, because God put us here to lead. Women try and fuck that up, trying to be equal and strong, when that’s not their God given disposition. The only fight a woman has is emotions
The majority of Americans don’t have fathers with trust funds. Working to support yourself is called being an adult. Being an adult doesn’t give you a right to have poor manners and social skills
Black women being angry is not a thing. It’s a human emotion that every one experiences at some point in life. Self deprecation to prove something to black men is ridiculous. If someone is mad it’s a cause and effect. Find out what the cause is, instead of walking around saying that black women are angry. Do you lack communication skills or something??? That’s a problem within it self, probably worse than someone being called angry.
I don't have a Daddy (with a trust fund). We need engaged fathers in the community. ( trust fund or not)
Now that's looking below the surface . True sis .
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Excuses … I’m a black woman and honestly I just been looking at the reality of stuff lately .. black men and women are full of fucking excuses on why they can’t just be they best self … after a certain age life is what you make it n you make ur own choices … a lot of things can be out of your control but most things are in your control … I’m tired of all the excuses
THIS IS CRAZY THEY ALREADY KNOW WHY YOUR ANGRY THE POINT IS THEY JUST DON'T CARE, LISTEN WHEN A BOYMAN LEAVES YOU WITH ALL THE RESPONSIBLITIES THEY ARE VERY AWARE WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND BOYMAN ARE RESPONSIBLE WHEN THEY WANT TOO BE THEY JUST DON'T WANT KNOW ATTACHMENTS / RESPONSIBILITIES PERIOD.
Sounds like a excuse.
I think it’s high time we stop trying to explain blk women to blk men who came through one.
This girl is a poor decision maker. Cari had a muli-million dollar job just basically sitting there on T.V. and she was mad about that and quit because she wanted even more money - SHE IS LOST
I’m sorry but I’ve grown up in difficult times myself and I would never direct my anger towards others who are innocent.
There have been 2 times in my life that I’ve ever had a confrontation with someone in public and both have been with highly aggressive black females.
I'm honest and serious when I ask this...
What did you all go through that black boys in single parent households didn't go through as well?
Most of us grew up poor. Most of us grew up w/ "mama". Most of us grew up w/ a no good dude, who wasn't your dad, abusing our "mama".
But you know what most men did, including myself? We stayed w/ our kids, regardless of circumstances. Most black women leave black men in marriages and take the kids w/ them. Then she has to fend for herself against someone she thought she was doing better w/, because he turned her out. Always chasing the dig bick.
No sympathy here. You all made your bed. For at least 5 decades you all have been saying we're no good and you don't need us. You were fooled by a white feminist movement that wasn't ever going to benefit you. Live w/ it.
My advice to men w/ kids...raise them yourself, instead of having them influenced by an angry black woman. Particularly, an angry black woman, who doesn't know what she's angry about.
Where’s the original video?
She is just making excuses
You hear no other race having this discussion
Women put themselves in this situation and blame men.
What she talm bout im trying to understand but the lack of accountability and ability to give a clear answer is making it hard
Wonder if that’s why Blacc men appear more aggressive? 🤔
@@cheredouce missed my point but 🤷🏿♂️
Angry because of your choices. Ha, that's on you.
You make your situation 👁👁
8 jobs IN COLLEGE!?!? she gotta be lying ain’t no way
She is prettiest most Non-Feminine woman that I have ever seen in my entire life.
Too many kids out of wedlock makes you angry it doesn't it
Excuses stops you from growth. It's like no one else has challenges but black women. Just stop it already
This isn't a black women issue...can be any race just avoid angry masculine women.
Y'all know ya angry, that mirror reminds u every morning
Devil wears PRADA
What is their circumstance?
She broke that down well
Men don't try to understand us so why bother. We shoulder most of the family responsibilities and we have to stay happy while yall sleep around. Make it make sense.
Shouldn’t have to take that into consideration
Transparent & honest
She definitely didn’t have 8 jobs at the same time which means she kept jumping from one job to the other. I wonder why. 🤔
Another woman refusing to accept adulthood and responsibility
She cap black women are never held accountable for anything excuses for everything
boom! they don't understand we are born goin through.
“You’re independent and don’t need no man” boasting remember? So why are u saying you don’t have no one to do x,y and z when you literally screaming you don’t need a mans help??
You appear aggressive, you acknowledge that. We alert you and y'all blame us. Gtfoh