💥WOW💥 Jay Slaters family want US to pay for the funeral!!

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  • A public funded funeral fit for a Viking… but is it deserved??
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Комментарии • 756

  • @REALHARSH
    @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +127

    Yes this video was meant to be for yesterday but again due to uploading issues it’s late….. Spanish WiFi here is about as good as my commitment to healthy eating here 😂😂😂

    • @maimay8862
      @maimay8862 2 месяца назад +3

      @@REALHARSH 😳

    • @mikeygraves16
      @mikeygraves16 2 месяца назад +5

      I'd say 90% of the commenters who frequent here care less about your Spanish WIFI experiences, and much more about your Spanish FLY experiences!😂😂😂

    • @addie_is_me
      @addie_is_me 2 месяца назад +1

      The food part sounds great, the wifi part sucks!

    • @tmg9305
      @tmg9305 2 месяца назад +1

      😂👍

    • @Mikaelson.
      @Mikaelson. 2 месяца назад +2

      It’s always manana in Spain 😂✌🏻

  • @tanyabullock4084
    @tanyabullock4084 2 месяца назад +148

    100% agree they have been donated more than enough money

  • @springer585
    @springer585 2 месяца назад +192

    It's as if they're trying to sensationalise their son's demise. Surely the funeral should be a private family affair

    • @mikeygraves16
      @mikeygraves16 2 месяца назад +9

      @springer585 Sure that's how you and a lot of other people feel, but we don't seem to bat an eye whenever a celebrity's family ends up having a funeral that's open to the entire public, so this shouldn't be any different 🤷🏽‍♂️
      I'm personally not going to donate a single dollar, but it doesn't affect my life one way or another if other adults want to spend THEIR hard earned money towards this. We've become much too comfortable on trying to push our own individual beliefs on everybody else and expect everyone else to feel & think the way we do about ourselves & our own values/traditions.

    • @springer585
      @springer585 2 месяца назад +10

      @@mikeygraves16 i agree but first of all he's not a celebrity and secondly i couldn''t give 2 hoots for celebrities funeral arrangements. Even when the Queen died i didn't care much for that procession either, but yes it is up to the family what they want to do however, if what is being said is true, then they should be funding this themselves. They have enough from the GFM money so why don't they use this? I have no problem with them doing that, and I did not donate either. It is a sad ending regardless of his so called past, a young man has lost his life and wouldn't wish this on anyone.

    • @andreeniem8780
      @andreeniem8780 2 месяца назад +6

      That's exactly it. They are trying to sensationalise it because they want it to be memorable and not for it to be quietly swept under the rug as the Spanish media etc know seem to wish. I think the family know more about what happened to Jay than they're saying.

    • @ItsNOTMeTube
      @ItsNOTMeTube 2 месяца назад +2

      Rip jay watever people think 🌟

    • @nicky-sr7uf
      @nicky-sr7uf 2 месяца назад

      @@mikeygraves16 im not on about myself worring about the gfm yeah they've reach 70k now im on about the money grabbing woman asking for more donations towards his funeral. If she cant do his funeral 70k theres definitely something not right. I dont believe a single word of any of it. She related to shannon matthews who tried the same thing. There family are all in it. Lucy dad is shannon matthews boyfriend so theres the start of Lucy getting the gfm then his mother paying for all friends and family to go over had her nails done pretending to cry its made up.

  • @katymarina
    @katymarina 2 месяца назад +186

    We, the spaniards, paid for his search and found him, and all we got was criticism towards police and the country.

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +38

      I know, that was wrong when the UK Police wouldn’t have done better either

    • @catherineyoung6660
      @catherineyoung6660 2 месяца назад +40

      The searchers risked their own lives to find Jay without due appreciation

    • @degenerates1971
      @degenerates1971 2 месяца назад +16

      The ravine that he was found in looked more technical than Mount Everest to navigate.

    • @NigelShepherd-z7k
      @NigelShepherd-z7k 2 месяца назад +13

      Absolutely right. That's a very fair comment. It was quite outrageous and extremely disrespectful. 😔

    • @Clare_no_dramatic_nonsense_pls
      @Clare_no_dramatic_nonsense_pls 2 месяца назад +11

      Yes I completely agree. Loads of criticism which is still going on - he's been found by Spanish authorities which was the intention. All I see is why not found sooner, conspiracy theories, information being hidden by police, poor investigation blah blah blah. It's absolutely ridiculous and disgraceful. Being secular or non-secular (as commented by another viewer) has no bearing whatsoever on the search which was successful.

  • @christinedegrussa6895
    @christinedegrussa6895 2 месяца назад +121

    If she thinks he deserves a great send off pay for it yourself you are his mother if you cant afford it give him what you can afford just a gready family

    • @aaronpenn3587
      @aaronpenn3587 2 месяца назад +1

      absolutely disgusting reply, the british public decide if they want to help with the funeral...NOT YOU!!!

    • @anneg5720
      @anneg5720 2 месяца назад +1

      ​​@@aaronpenn3587i don't want to pay as a member of thw British public.
      I never asked anyone to pay when my daughter died.
      And they had thousands already. Are you joking?

    • @aaronpenn3587
      @aaronpenn3587 2 месяца назад

      @@anneg5720 also, did you donate? if you didn';t then really it doesn't apply to you anyway, it's not like your tax is paying for it, you don't really have a say. Like i said, it's the british public (the majority) that have decided to help this family

    • @suemasongreen8979
      @suemasongreen8979 2 месяца назад

      @@anneg5720 I had to pay for both my parents when they died, no one financed that , even my brother couldn't be bothered to help . Not my brother any more , disowned ! waste of space !

  • @De_Wolfe
    @De_Wolfe 2 месяца назад +243

    Continuing to profit from their sons death is despicable. Says loads about them. 460 people have been reported missing on the canary islands from 2020-2023. 11 on Tenerife this year. :-) to my knowledge none of the families have set up go fund me.
    Have some self respect and pay for your own child's funeral. Shameful.

    • @nieubarmy
      @nieubarmy 2 месяца назад

      Those are incredible statistics, kind of stats you see in gang controlled territories!

    • @rafasreds5324
      @rafasreds5324 2 месяца назад

      460 people missing in 3 years on a tiny holiday island & the MSM say SFA.
      As I have said if any parent reads the statistics on this..please please keep your kids away from this place.

    • @Callum111-s6j
      @Callum111-s6j 2 месяца назад +15

      It was Lucy Mae Law who set up the GoFundMe; and she has very criminal past; well not past, she still is drug dealing around the Balearic islands!

    • @garyfreeman896
      @garyfreeman896 2 месяца назад

      How many of the 460 have turned up. People get reported missing all the time then go on to turn up. Strange that people pay more attention to people going missing than people being found.

    • @Carlysimon99
      @Carlysimon99 2 месяца назад +9

      Well said I agree 💯 pay for their own sons funeral. Very greedy people😮😮😮😮

  • @domgarwell5581
    @domgarwell5581 2 месяца назад +161

    60k from the gofundme and they're still scrounging!! This is not the behaviour of a grieving mother... This is just pure greed.

    • @Candy-O1776
      @Candy-O1776 2 месяца назад +7

      that isn’t enough money to pay for a funeral?

    • @Sloan341
      @Sloan341 2 месяца назад +6

      Agreed, reminds me of a couple other cases.

    • @Lenore144
      @Lenore144 2 месяца назад +4

      Wow, I was just about to ask how much money was raised, when I saw your comment. That's alot! I have no idea about this, but could the mother have spent that much on the searches? I have no idea since I'm in another country.

    • @missmuffet3874
      @missmuffet3874 2 месяца назад +7

      Certainly isn’t. That mother is definitely showing her true colours.

    • @domgarwell5581
      @domgarwell5581 2 месяца назад +3

      @@Lenore144 police and volunteers carried out the search, so no charges there...

  • @MikeRutch
    @MikeRutch 2 месяца назад +4

    If his family had any respect or gratitude,they give their son a standard funeral, and give the remaining GFM surplus to the charity that has stood by them right through this ordeal….. it’s what respectful people would do….. and the donation would be to help others missing abroad, especially as Slaters family know what other people with missing relatives must be going through…

  • @davidjacobs5475
    @davidjacobs5475 2 месяца назад +157

    NO NO NO WE SHOULD NOT BE PAYING.. there bloody milking now…I think what’s been raised should be donated to charities

    • @craigmitcham2619
      @craigmitcham2619 2 месяца назад +7

      av u seen how many charities there are on tv nowadays, they are very dodgy says they can give between 27 and 100% dont fall for it

    • @caroleforshaw6287
      @caroleforshaw6287 2 месяца назад

      They've already had 50,000 go fund me NO more money. That hasn't been paid towards the search

    • @mikeygraves16
      @mikeygraves16 2 месяца назад +1

      @davidjacobs5475 Who cares? If any grown adults want to donate THEIR OWN money for it, who are we to say how they should spend their own hard earned money? It doesn't affect you in the slightest where they choose to spend their money 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @batintheattic7293
      @batintheattic7293 2 месяца назад +3

      @@mikeygraves16 Except for when it comes to preying on the sentiment of the vulnerable. If you've known old people trying to hide the reams of begging letters they get - you'll understand why it doesn't sit easy to just consign them to foolishness.

    • @autumn5852
      @autumn5852 2 месяца назад +4

      @@davidjacobs5475 yes, they could give to the mountain rescue team and the charity that was helping look for Jay

  • @helenallison1637
    @helenallison1637 2 месяца назад +173

    The whole thing stinks.

    • @carolespencer2867
      @carolespencer2867 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree there's something very odd . When others have d issappeared don't their parents give interveiws since he's been found theirs nothing . I personally think something fishy about all this . And she wants a Viking funeral !! People who give need to think twice don't trust the mother either . She can't look people in the eye . Why would he go out of his way with peopole he didn't know . This case doesn't sit right

    • @aaronpenn3587
      @aaronpenn3587 2 месяца назад

      So does your attitude

  • @davidmeale9572
    @davidmeale9572 2 месяца назад +5

    When this all dies down , the money will " disappear " .

  • @DawnWilson-h1f
    @DawnWilson-h1f 2 месяца назад +20

    If she wants more money then WHY DID SHE BUY A BRAND NEW CAR... Resell it and pay for your sons funeral. Shes just a GREEDY GRIFTER

  • @carolrawsthorne7655
    @carolrawsthorne7655 2 месяца назад +63

    How dare they ask for more money!!! This is what I suspected all along. To ask for a special Funeral. Unbelievable.😡

  • @Munchkin.199.-.
    @Munchkin.199.-. 2 месяца назад +63

    Glad you’re speaking out about this . Where is the £60,000 already donated to these greedy greedy people. Shameful behaviour.

  • @smartypants7284
    @smartypants7284 2 месяца назад +3

    Its like they want him to be some kind of tragic hero. Theyve done a balloon release in Lancashire that does what? Harmful to birds and animals.

  • @peterrfowler16
    @peterrfowler16 2 месяца назад +98

    What chance did this poor lad have with role models like these ?
    Cashing in on her sons death . She's had £54,000 already
    The average cost of a funeral is around £6,000 .

    • @degenerates1971
      @degenerates1971 2 месяца назад +8

      now at £70k

    • @peterrfowler16
      @peterrfowler16 2 месяца назад +6

      @@degenerates1971 Really ? Ok. Christ

    • @msc1853
      @msc1853 2 месяца назад +7

      Absolutely spot on! Greedy gits! I guess we need to deduct the price of the Rolex off the total.
      Good on them for being so blatant about their greed, and more fool the people who donate. More money than sense, clearly!

  • @alandavies4027
    @alandavies4027 2 месяца назад +44

    This is a family problem, not a people problem.

  • @wendymitchell4004
    @wendymitchell4004 2 месяца назад +111

    There has been a lot of sympathy towards this family ..but he wasn't a victim ..he was reckless ..young and got into trouble ...sadly but a certain amount of accountability is needed here .😮

  • @Andrea-md9pe
    @Andrea-md9pe 2 месяца назад +59

    Totally agree with you its not other people's responsibility to pay for his funeral 🙄

  • @greyfriars6540
    @greyfriars6540 2 месяца назад +26

    After all the uproar I thought they would have a small private funeral. Any money left over could be donated, in Jay's name, to the two guys missing in Sardinia and Majorca. It would be a fitting acknowledgement to the families who are receiving no coverage at all.

    • @tenerifereddog3943
      @tenerifereddog3943 2 месяца назад

      You're right but I cant see that happening somehow.

    • @sunnydays5437
      @sunnydays5437 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree with you, a celebrity funeral doesn’t bring him back , try to help others like people have helped them.

  • @thesnowgoose7221
    @thesnowgoose7221 2 месяца назад +4

    No he does not! No matter the cause, the family should pay for it!
    Some people have no shame.

  • @Bobontt11
    @Bobontt11 2 месяца назад +41

    From mothers statement today ,she knows the full story ,whilst all people are questioning the story ,souns like her family ,know the truth now.
    Suit her better to give a statement to all concerned .
    Go fund me should be stopped now ,theres enough already given ,and if any left ,should be donated to good causes.

  • @kristenwilliams3632
    @kristenwilliams3632 2 месяца назад +194

    The entitlement is off the charts....

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +30

      Ain’t it just mate

    • @adamhunter1664
      @adamhunter1664 2 месяца назад +20

      It’s nuts! 1000% agree

    • @kimmiec.peridore886
      @kimmiec.peridore886 2 месяца назад +12

      💯💯👍 For real!!!

    • @kenn1936
      @kenn1936 2 месяца назад +16

      If you see how easy the money comes rolling in, it gets to the point of greed, to keep it coming.

    • @EVILEXISTS
      @EVILEXISTS 2 месяца назад +9

      Right!!!

  • @Kurious-Kat
    @Kurious-Kat 2 месяца назад +104

    Still so many questions that need answers. I personally wouldn't donate because surely the Go Fund Me money is enough for a funeral. Anything more is just greedy IMO.

  • @johnmorgun9961
    @johnmorgun9961 2 месяца назад +107

    They've got the money to search for Jay and didn't spend it apart from £36000 disappeared. His family are not respectful.

    • @KCtheKat101
      @KCtheKat101 2 месяца назад

      @@johnmorgun9961 I am always uncomfortable with people who ask for money but are not transparent with what it is being spent on and the details and costs that would show us we are not being scammed or lied to....I am noticing more and more we the public are asked to donate for one reason only to find our money spent on something completely different 😳😬😬😬eg I donated money during the Kiely Rodni case ment as a reward for the person/people who find the girl ONLY TO WATCH THE GO FUND ME TO BE HANDLED TO KEILYRODNI MOTHER😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 🫣 I felt scammed and cheated and very very angry!!!! I'm still pissed to be honest I DON'T LIKE KIELY MOTHER!! I DON'T AGREE WITH HER MORALS AND VALUES and I certainly didn't want my hard earned money being used for anything other than as a reward FOR THE PEOPLE WHO SEARCH ED AND FOUND KIELY.anyway be aware that go fund me money does not always go where we want it to go....😬😬😬😬😳🤢I agree with you John 🤩

  • @mandiehannan754
    @mandiehannan754 2 месяца назад +59

    Most £10.000 to bring a loved one home....£8.000 for a great funeral....still change from £58.000....I'm not heartless but this is not right asking for more.....sad...😢 dont take the pee....all the searches was not funded..volunteers...

    • @pixiedott4848
      @pixiedott4848 2 месяца назад +16

      If Jay was on a package holiday repatriation will be covered by insurance my dad died earlier in the year at 89 his insurance covered his repatriation 🙈🙈🙈

    • @Leigh.T.777
      @Leigh.T.777 2 месяца назад +10

      The GFM is at almost £70K now.

  • @poppyk6182
    @poppyk6182 2 месяца назад +122

    It really annoys me when the mum says “ My son deserves the best send off. “ Lots of people will disagree. He was no angel that’s for sure. The mum should be ashamed as he was a shady character by the looks of it.

    • @AngelaHamiltonRao
      @AngelaHamiltonRao 2 месяца назад +17

      Well said.

    • @fullyasleep8209
      @fullyasleep8209 2 месяца назад +40

      My mum deserved a good send off , we could only afford the basics, but my god did we give her a good send off, without high costs , we only needed love and memories that had us all in tears & laughter …..a few pints & a plate full of sarnies……..love from the heart is free…..

    • @kathleenlynch5763
      @kathleenlynch5763 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@fullyasleep8209 your comment realy touched me.i bet you're Mums send off was just what she would have wished for. You dealt with it with lots of love.sorry for your loss.

  • @mandyowen4892
    @mandyowen4892 2 месяца назад +49

    Omg I’m fuming over this. People donated so much money for this poor boy and now she has the nerve to ask for more. ( kiss my a** sweetheart)
    I’ve watched so many videos regarding the disappearance of Jay it all seems very suspicious. Very very sketchy.

    • @suemasongreen8979
      @suemasongreen8979 2 месяца назад +1

      I didn't donate , because the whole thing stinks! Something is wrong somewhere , and the truth will come out in time . I was gobsmacked when his mum said that !🤔😲

  • @someonesgoat
    @someonesgoat 2 месяца назад +139

    Do funerals cost £100,000 these days? Inflation must be worse than I thought

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +18

      £12,000-£18,000 is a good funeral

    • @Jason123-i8p
      @Jason123-i8p 2 месяца назад +10

      @@someonesgoat i check 5 k for them two bring the body back two the uk see the dealers took him and said when you get the money you can have him back soon as he's mom got of the plane they said they add him the dealer s mite of killed him then when they paid the money they tipped of the police and told them course they found the body not on a Monday some one as aid they add a tip of

    • @shosho5306
      @shosho5306 2 месяца назад +9

      Insurance? Would that not cover this.

    • @Royalty12345
      @Royalty12345 2 месяца назад +8

      @@Jason123-i8p sorry .. what???

    • @shosho5306
      @shosho5306 2 месяца назад +7

      @@REALHARSH that’s a massive amount of money. The only people to benefit are the undertakers. The person is gone. Most folk don’t have that kind of money. What a waste. Sad though. We are all going the same way. I hate to think of it. 😢

  • @SJK-ROW-K
    @SJK-ROW-K 2 месяца назад +47

    This is like the Tapas 9 asking the public for donations towards the drinks bill

  • @juliehardley9917
    @juliehardley9917 2 месяца назад +23

    I sadly agree with you. So much money donated in good faith where has it gone !! ❤️

  • @Willow19100
    @Willow19100 2 месяца назад +3

    I made a donation on the 3rd day but seeing how the family have behaved over the GFM I won’t be donating to any more causes! When people abuse the kindness of others it has a massive impact which becomes extremely detrimental for others desperately in need of financial help .. I would be ashamed of myself constantly asking for more money!

  • @johnnyhock
    @johnnyhock 2 месяца назад +64

    Family PROVING 100% it’s about MONEY 💰

  • @traceymitchell6619
    @traceymitchell6619 2 месяца назад +87

    I am sorry that they have lost their son. No parent should ever have to go through that but it seems The Slaters are greedy opportunists. They got more than enough money to cover these expenses. The Spanish tax payer paid for the search, not them and it seems they were very reluctant to part with the cash they received from the GFM to contribute to the search effort so where is it? Let them foot the bill themselves now.

    • @Mikaelson.
      @Mikaelson. 2 месяца назад +15

      💯 It’s looking like empathy fraud, more and more each day.

    • @batintheattic7293
      @batintheattic7293 2 месяца назад +4

      @@Mikaelson. Ooh - that's an interesting and new, for me, term. 'Empathy fraud'. Yes.

    • @Mikaelson.
      @Mikaelson. 2 месяца назад

      @@batintheattic7293 👍✌🏻

    • @andreeniem8780
      @andreeniem8780 2 месяца назад

      @@batintheattic7293 It's hardly Empathy 'fraud' when there's no actual fraud.
      Jay is actually dead and his mum has lost her son after a long period of wondering what happened to him.

    • @traceymitchell6619
      @traceymitchell6619 2 месяца назад +1

      @Bear20-k5l so what? She's part of that family

  • @emilygooner9697
    @emilygooner9697 2 месяца назад +14

    Lols if Debbie had her way you’d be funding annual trips on the anniversary to Tenerife 😂

    • @gazmartinpadiham.lancs.3435
      @gazmartinpadiham.lancs.3435 2 месяца назад +3

      @@emilygooner9697 Debbie will be on the tv show a place in the sun in no time. 🤣

  • @caronbest7868
    @caronbest7868 2 месяца назад +29

    Harsh I agree they've got a bloody cheek asking for more money .

  • @anndunn6536
    @anndunn6536 2 месяца назад +41

    Harsh I am disgusted with this mother she gives good moms a bad name the go fund me as it stands is just under £70000 also if he had travel insurance that will cover his repatriation and if it was anyone else child we would have to pay for the funeral ourselves that go fund me should be donated to a lost persons charity

    • @jeanniejones9548
      @jeanniejones9548 2 месяца назад

      @anndunn6536 You having a laugh think he bought travel insurance, l doubt it.

  • @EmiFromMars
    @EmiFromMars 2 месяца назад +59

    What did they do with all that go fund me money they got when was still missing? And now they want more? Feels like cash grab its so sad

    • @karlaparker7988
      @karlaparker7988 2 месяца назад +17

      Jay's immediate family were there, Mum Dad, Brother. She flew a load more out all inclusive.

    • @batintheattic7293
      @batintheattic7293 2 месяца назад

      It's seriously undignified at the very least. What will the GoFundMe have already raised? I'm sure it's more than paid for all the balloon launches. I doubt they'll be paying for people to go and retrieve those balloons once they get trapped in rivers and caught on branches.

    • @BlondieLou85
      @BlondieLou85 2 месяца назад

      ​Not forgetting the property buying. Deposits etc ​@@karlaparker7988

  • @cryptomavic1
    @cryptomavic1 2 месяца назад +38

    Can't believe they got the cheek to ask for more money where's the 60k gone

  • @Rc-Mad-Ness
    @Rc-Mad-Ness 2 месяца назад +22

    Two young people have gone missing since jay you don’t see gofundme for them & don’t hear nothing about it ! his family should pay out there own pocket for his funeral like every one else does who loses a love on ! Wtf 💯👌🤙🇬🇧

  • @robC7640
    @robC7640 2 месяца назад +1

    The son is common thief who apparently stole a watch on top of being a drug retailer and he deserves a fitting send off that is shameful

  • @BarryBethal-yv2oz
    @BarryBethal-yv2oz 2 месяца назад +56

    They are taking the piss now they will soon want people to pay for a 4 bed villa out there. What happened to all the go fund me money?

  • @EverydayLife621
    @EverydayLife621 2 месяца назад +27

    … sounds like Captain Tom’s family

    • @norahstuart9147
      @norahstuart9147 2 месяца назад +1

      Difference being Captain Tom was a hero and wasn't the author of his own misfortune.. Debbie Duncan is a grifter. She wants more money? Why?
      It's disgusting. She can't rewrite Jay's past to make him a saint. Viking funeral ffs. How crass can you be? 😊

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 месяца назад +25

    There is an inspiring barrister missing Benjamin Ross in Malaga sounds like really great young man ,not heard much reports in media talking about his disapearence!

  • @Julie76-e8w
    @Julie76-e8w 2 месяца назад +17

    I think soon as jays mum and dad are home they will sell the story that’s probably why they have never said much about the cace in Tenerife 💯they is something not right about it all let’s see what happens when they get back home

    • @thesnowgoose7221
      @thesnowgoose7221 2 месяца назад

      Totally agree, they will milk their son’s death for every penny they can get.

  • @CarrigansGuitarClub
    @CarrigansGuitarClub 2 месяца назад +54

    The lack of media exposure from Warren and Debbie makes me very very suspicious to their motives, if it was your child you would be out day & night searching, I didn't get that vibe from them....I feel they have their own history to grapple with!!!

  • @BarryAllenMagic
    @BarryAllenMagic 2 месяца назад +15

    Ask his 'good friend' Lucy to fund it. She makes countless trips abroad, is always dripping in designer gear - and clearly has a few quid going spare. I wonder what she does to earn her money? Actually, I'm sure that we all know the answer to that one.

    • @danielletaylor6319
      @danielletaylor6319 2 месяца назад

      God forbid we talk like that we crazy conspiracy people

    • @suemasongreen8979
      @suemasongreen8979 2 месяца назад +1

      Why can't she be arrested for selling drugs ?

  • @mevoydecasa
    @mevoydecasa 2 месяца назад +1

    I totally agree with you. This is your best video so far. I had a horrible day, but you made my day!. Thanks a lot

  • @TheAJLou
    @TheAJLou 2 месяца назад +46

    His mum sent a message to Paul Arnott yesterday thanking him for his help in the search….. she says “our family know the real story” 🤔 and that they didn’t ask for a penny?!? WHY is everything to do with this case so questionable?

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +23

      Usually when there are secrets there are lies

    • @Royalty12345
      @Royalty12345 2 месяца назад +16

      @AJLou @REALHARSH… so I wonder what the ‘real story’ is?? Surely she owes us all that information after the support the family got!!!

    • @NicciH
      @NicciH 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@Royalty12345just wondering how much you donated with you saying she owes us she owes nobody a explanation at this moment in time ..owes us a explanation..wow ! Creators making £100/120 ish on a 9 min video about jay .. 10 quid a min that's not taking advantage of a situation.. up to 40 videos in 4 weeks 35 of them taking piss out of all this 🖕

    • @sunnydays5437
      @sunnydays5437 2 месяца назад

      @sparkle25-w1oI suppose as she didn’t set up the gfm then technically she is right, and if someone wrote the update for her then the same applies I suppose?, clever words…
      She will still have lost her son however much of a ceremony they do.
      I’m not heartless but if she has asked for privacy then that is what she should have, it just is not right to keep asking for more whoever is issuing the statement presumably on her say so.
      I feel that the money should be passed to other missing people’s searches like the young lad in Sardinia in the hope it helps someone not to have to face what they are obviously going through .
      Rest in peace Jay .
      Huge respect for all those who endangered themselves to help to find him.

  • @MatthewBaker-nq2cb
    @MatthewBaker-nq2cb 2 месяца назад +12

    So she wants to give her son a great send off,what is she planning to do get The Red Arrows to do a flypast.

  • @jamestomlin1658
    @jamestomlin1658 2 месяца назад +18

    They've had more than they should have got from the go fund me. They've had enough

  • @AngelaHamiltonRao
    @AngelaHamiltonRao 2 месяца назад +12

    Exactly couldn’t have said it better.
    That Money needs to be checked it’s kind hearted peoples money.
    What the heck!!!

  • @FinnMcCool1916
    @FinnMcCool1916 2 месяца назад +1

    In fairness it costs a lot of money to repatriate the body to the UK, though there is the 'Kevin Bell Trust' to help if needed.

  • @ianhadders4873
    @ianhadders4873 2 месяца назад +43

    The nerve of it with the amount theyve already raised and theyre asking for more

  • @wheresthecutestuff
    @wheresthecutestuff 2 месяца назад +1

    Didn’t they raise £67,000 ?? Where did it go ?

  • @LostwaveObsession
    @LostwaveObsession 2 месяца назад +30

    They will get paid for interviews etc so I think they will have more than enough. I can't remember how much my dad's funeral was, a couple of grand I think.

    • @susanparis4989
      @susanparis4989 2 месяца назад +5

      ive heard that they have been approached by some film directors to make a film from the story x

    • @B0rnles13
      @B0rnles13 2 месяца назад +2

      @@susanparis4989 Sick

  • @marshallmclay736
    @marshallmclay736 2 месяца назад +12

    Did Jay have travel insurance? If yes I take it they’ll pay out for repatriation and funeral, if he didn’t have insurance then why should the go fund me pay, if that’s the case then why should the rest of us pay travel insurance let’s save a few quid and if anything happens to us then we’ll just set up a go fund me

  • @stephenbyrne7192
    @stephenbyrne7192 2 месяца назад +1

    With role models like Jay had i can not understand how he slipped into the situations he found himself in

  • @laurabedford5095
    @laurabedford5095 2 месяца назад +2

    But totally agree with the ,mistake scenario, on a bender , walked off road , then off path ,accident.

  • @diypixie7
    @diypixie7 2 месяца назад +1

    I would have thought the money already donated would be enough for all that as well as the search that's an insane amount of money come on
    What have they done with it all. You can't tell me there's nothing left.

  • @zxresa
    @zxresa 2 месяца назад +11

    There is charity that will repatriate Jay, and later on people fundraise for the charity 🤔why can't they do that????

  • @libelle8124
    @libelle8124 2 месяца назад +15

    Loving the way you bring your thoughts across. The fundraiser is close to £70K if not just over it, by now. They get help from a charity and with any luck there was travel insurance. Many people go missing, many families stand in front of having to repatriate people who died, for whatever reason, abroad. They must have found out that a few more young men went missing, since. They didn't even use their moment of being in the eye of the public to raise awareness to that and support these mums and families in any way. Everybody reacts differently in such circumstances, but I know for myself I would raised awareness and I feel many other mothers and families would have done that, too.

    • @mytye
      @mytye 2 месяца назад

      It’s at £70,171 now wow

  • @marilynbehan973
    @marilynbehan973 2 месяца назад +1

    I agree with all you say , shut it down and give the money to find missing people ( not the Maccann,s they have more than there fair share 10 times over , they have just been allowed another £193,000 ) Marilyn uk

  • @topgun6025
    @topgun6025 2 месяца назад +5

    Seriously people who are donating its just sick me and my wife could barely afford he father funeral last year we still paying for it now these people have had 60k so far how much they think a funeral is gunna be treating this guy like its a celebrity live streaming it no doubt

  • @Jason123-i8p
    @Jason123-i8p 2 месяца назад +32

    Funy lucys friend said jay lost drugs that come two 30 k then lucy made the go fund for 30 k then that got tåken out at the burgening

    • @Joe-yy1lv
      @Joe-yy1lv 2 месяца назад +4

      Beginning 🤪

    • @Jason123-i8p
      @Jason123-i8p 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Joe-yy1lv the 30 k got tåken out off it Lucy's friend said she made the go fund me for 30 k

    • @Jason123-i8p
      @Jason123-i8p 2 месяца назад +4

      @@Joe-yy1lv so with the money they got now and the 30 k they have add over over a hundred thousand pounds

  • @rubycandy92
    @rubycandy92 2 месяца назад +1

    Jay's not a celebrity pay for it yourself like the rest of us!!!!

  • @Br1stol420
    @Br1stol420 2 месяца назад +19

    They’re taking the piss now

  • @dianneboyd7471
    @dianneboyd7471 2 месяца назад +22

    In my opinion, they asked for money to help find him, they did use it for that purpose. They wanted to buy a house there, so they have the money for that, now they want more money to give him a send off. Creators were talking about him to help find him, not just to make money, at least I don't think so. They should be grateful that he was found and it put an end to a terrible situation. The public did not do this to him, so no, the public should not be held responsible for giving him a send off. She wants her hair and nails done again.

  • @Mikaelson.
    @Mikaelson. 2 месяца назад +26

    It’s shocking tbh... and greedy.

  • @johnboy4067
    @johnboy4067 2 месяца назад +1

    Women are ruthless when it comes down to a pound note

  • @jpp5478
    @jpp5478 2 месяца назад +43

    With being in a finance job,as she not got any insurance policies she could cash in, rather than asking public.

    • @Robert-vw3od
      @Robert-vw3od 2 месяца назад

      What does she do?

    • @andrewfulton3435
      @andrewfulton3435 2 месяца назад

      A school finance officer is not exactly a high flying city banking role. It is an unqualified dinner lady sort of a job, for local Mums.

    • @Robert-vw3od
      @Robert-vw3od 2 месяца назад

      @@andrewfulton3435 I didn’t think it would be much having seen these people and I’m not being rude. it would not surprise me if this lad went on holiday with either no Travel insurance or very inadequate Travel insurance.

    • @andrewfulton3435
      @andrewfulton3435 2 месяца назад

      @@Robert-vw3od oh god yeah, he def won't have ticked the £9 extra box on the Jet2 website earlier this year, after he'd had a good weekend shifting Chang.

  • @shosho5306
    @shosho5306 2 месяца назад +25

    It’s not about deserve. A young 19 year old is gone. The parents or mum have a large go fund me pot. There is no need to ask for more. They do not need more. It’s coming across very tasteless. Many of us have little and would need to pay instalments or not at all. Nobody deserves to die for a mistake like that. A whole serious of mistakes also by others. This is turning in to a sham. Enough now with the Oliver. There is plenty there to give a decent send off. So they not realise it should be about Jay not them asking for more and more. Really feckin dreadful behaviour. Are they all there. Ffs. Why has go fund not been stopped. How many crazy situations have you been in then when older look back and think I’m lucky to be here at all. You don’t know much when you’re young how can you.

  • @jennymason-sm1bk
    @jennymason-sm1bk 2 месяца назад +27

    Hi Harsh looking very relaxed. Jay wasn't a saint and was somewhat reckless nevertheless he deserves a funeral but certainly not a spectacular send off. In my opinion the public have been extremely generous to this family who haven't been completely above board with the use of those funds. Sometimes the truth hurts but needs to be told. Nobody should make further contributions. Love from South Africa 💙💙

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +13

      I certainly think the public have given more than enough

  • @janwilson8377
    @janwilson8377 2 месяца назад +2

    Is it possible he's still alive and they're paying off his debt with the money? The body they've recovered could be someone else placed there to close the case. Neither parent looks heartbroken, and if I lost a child the last thing I would think about was making money from their death. No one would spend, or should spend 60k on a funeral. Or was he funding his parents and now they need money for themselves? It's not normal to behave the way they are behaving

  • @DB-a-Boeing-Dr
    @DB-a-Boeing-Dr 2 месяца назад +1

    So the GFM is over 60K, the family is working with a charity that helps Brits families who loved one has died overseas get the body back to ole blighty and they also help with the costs of that which could up to 5K. Even before she asked for more money the GFM had much more than they required to get the body back home. I am sorry they are really milking this now and they have raised well beyond what was needed or is needed.

  • @SionhanSiobhan-s2s
    @SionhanSiobhan-s2s 2 месяца назад +69

    No way ! What happened to all that money? It's bloody shameful 😔 and why did he have all his clothes around him ? It all stinks ! Keep on with this please because hopefully the real truth will come out!.

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +11

      Great question

    • @krystle4248
      @krystle4248 2 месяца назад +4

      What do you mean.... His clothes were all around him.
      As in they were off of his body and laying beside him?

    • @krystle4248
      @krystle4248 2 месяца назад +2

      What do you mean?
      Like they were off his body and laying beside him? Or ...

    • @suemasongreen8979
      @suemasongreen8979 2 месяца назад

      If the go fund me people find out it is all a con , they will most likely take the money back and reimburse the people that donated it . Then they will be up s***t street !

  • @fatrambo73
    @fatrambo73 2 месяца назад +17

    Sorry for her loss but its a bit cheeky and brass necked to ask for more money never mind 100k when she essentially wasted the previous 30k+ of donations He doent desrve it, his family do not deserve it, there is way to many unanswered questions and secrecy from family and friends, they are trying to profit from it for what ever reason.

  • @lancelloyd1072
    @lancelloyd1072 2 месяца назад +34

    @realharsh I have to agree with you yes they are taking the piss is the £69, 490 not enough ? I think there looking to have a bigger one than Lady Dianna 100% royally taking the piss!

    • @mytye
      @mytye 2 месяца назад

      It’s at £70,171 now

    • @lancelloyd1072
      @lancelloyd1072 2 месяца назад +1

      @mytye that's a hell of a send off !

    • @mytye
      @mytye 2 месяца назад

      @@lancelloyd1072 isn’t it just

  • @ChrisLJM8760
    @ChrisLJM8760 2 месяца назад +1

    Whose actually still giving, like seriously who?? They'll be asking for him to lie in state next and finish off with a Bronze statue in Oswaldtwistle Town Centre, like unbelievable 😳 as sad as it is, its tragic!

  • @urs1386
    @urs1386 2 месяца назад +20

    Only 6 people turned up to look for him. Who’s going to the funeral?

    • @maryhayes3177
      @maryhayes3177 2 месяца назад +7

      Loads of people. It will be a big spectacle on the news as if he's some big celebrity rather than a dodgy geezer

    • @danielletaylor6319
      @danielletaylor6319 2 месяца назад +1

      Obviously not his so called mates because ive got news for his family they wasn't friends ffs

  • @sandrasylvester6810
    @sandrasylvester6810 2 месяца назад +1

    How much money did they get between both GFM donations?
    I find it hard to understand how much they are profiting if they were not giving money to those who were genuinely there to help.
    What was given initially and what was given in the newest donations?
    This whole situation is a crap show and I find everything nefarious and greed is front and center with that mum!

  • @thornbird6768
    @thornbird6768 2 месяца назад +30

    My landlord is selling my flat and I can't afford to move to a new place , 60k would do the trick 😮 any takers 😅

    • @REALHARSH
      @REALHARSH  2 месяца назад +10

      I fancy a pool…. Maybe I should ask for donations

    • @showyourworkingout2023
      @showyourworkingout2023 2 месяца назад +8

      @@REALHARSH There's plenty of free pools in the UK. All the potholes have filled up with British sunshine.

    • @sadiekendrewx7253
      @sadiekendrewx7253 2 месяца назад +6

      Nice one 😅

    • @shantallswaby4377
      @shantallswaby4377 2 месяца назад

      Can we do a joint one lol ​@@jonathanwhite182

    • @smartasspatriot445
      @smartasspatriot445 2 месяца назад

      😂🤣​@@showyourworkingout2023

  • @Storm-xx4bu
    @Storm-xx4bu 2 месяца назад +7

    It's very sad indeed but it appears this case consists of 2 words, suspicious and money. Gofundme seems to play a massive part and for what no proper transparency on what the funding is being used for? Then all the MANY unanswered questions lack of real proof or evidence, so called shadey 'friends' around this guy.

  • @mevoydecasa
    @mevoydecasa 2 месяца назад +1

    These people never saw £60,000.00 in their entire life. Do you know what I mean?

  • @burningsoul1365
    @burningsoul1365 2 месяца назад +16

    i said all along its about the money,money.

  • @Vonjoanne42
    @Vonjoanne42 2 месяца назад +1

    A really good funeral costs around 5 to 10,000. Travel Insurance. . will cover most of that . If you live in their home town in Lancashire watch to see, suddenly they will be spending a lot of money . There’s no way they will be giving it back that’s for sure, it’s like you can’t hide when you win the lottery. The funeral should be a PRIVATE affair paid for by The FAMILY. Travel insurance will cover it anyway, Decent people would not ask for public money .

  • @AACE73
    @AACE73 2 месяца назад +4

    8 hours ago someone donated £1500. More money than sense!
    They're up to 70k now!

  • @MammusaEinki
    @MammusaEinki 2 месяца назад +16

    No he dosen't. It is not only this it is also his life before this - wich he apparently bragged about - I don't think why tey want strangers to pay for his funeral. Other parents with kids who were not criminals pay for their funeral

  • @Pal-mx5se
    @Pal-mx5se 2 месяца назад +1

    Can't believe the nerve of the mother, despicable

  • @tammywhite4773
    @tammywhite4773 2 месяца назад +1

    He wasn't doing anything for the USA

  • @mariondoyle9549
    @mariondoyle9549 2 месяца назад +1

    I won't not give any money to them

  • @maxinemcintyre8673
    @maxinemcintyre8673 2 месяца назад +11

    Totally agree mr harsh. It's disgusting. Won't be getting any of my money. This case has sill got many questions 😳

  • @tenerifereddog3943
    @tenerifereddog3943 2 месяца назад +1

    The audacity to ask for more money is quite staggering. There is so much more to come from this story. I live 30 minutes from Masca and a lot of things don't add up.

  • @traceydavis6471
    @traceydavis6471 2 месяца назад +11

    My son feels that he went and got involved in a drug situation... his theory is bang on tbh... I don't feel it's fair that we should pay for his funeral just because it's high-profile... he is no different to others who may not be able to afford a funeral

  • @tinadavies4195
    @tinadavies4195 2 месяца назад +2

    Its all about the money for Jays mother..not about the loss of her son.. The go fund me should have been given to the spanish police and searches..even now give whats left over.. I know that as a mother i would rather struggle and pay for the funeral no matter how big or small myself out of my money..thats what a real caring mother would do..its a natural motherly love you feel.

  • @S-T-E-V-E
    @S-T-E-V-E 2 месяца назад +20

    Where's the 56 Grand they had in the Go Fund Me?

  • @PCBrummie
    @PCBrummie 2 месяца назад +1

    they gonna try to give him a Viking style Send off and they probably don't even know what that even means or symbolises, cuz I promise you that little twerp will not make it to Valhol

  • @mevoydecasa
    @mevoydecasa 2 месяца назад +1

    They already paid for their accommodation, this is becoming a trend!

  • @AmyMac-r8s
    @AmyMac-r8s 2 месяца назад +16

    Think the money they have should cover it they donot need more..

  • @jamielord3756
    @jamielord3756 2 месяца назад +1

    So they have raised £50000 odd when the boy went missing so where has all that money gone? Surely there will be money left to pay for the lads funeral and if not why not?