I just wanted to thank you for your openness. You have no idea how much you choosing your happiness has inspired me to do the same. You’re an angel! Thanks Carli.
Your new relationship gives me hope! I just got out of a almost 10 year relationship and i know what you mean when you say “you’re comfortable” or there is something missing. It’s scary to start over with someone new but if it means that’s how I’ll find true love and someone who really loves and cares about me, I am ready for this!! Love you Carli ❤️❤️
Angela Garcia how do you do it I really need some advice Angela! I got out of a 3 year relationship and I feel like I can't live without him. I can't imagine how it is after ending a 10 year relationship. It's been a month and I don't feel as shitty as I did the first 2 weeks but I miss him
Elsy Rodriguez I know what you mean. It’s hard at first. Just spending time with family and close friends has really helped me. Cry, yell, let every thing out. Don’t keep anything in. That is what makes you miserable. Cut off all contact with him. Just keep yourself busy and focus on yourself! Learn to love yourself first before you anything else. It takes a village trust me. You only live once and there is no point on feeling shitty over someone that doesn’t make you happy. The relationship ended for a reason. Just go out and have fun and enjoy your freedom! Life is too short, if it’s meant to be, eventually you’ll find your way back to each other, but don’t think about that now, like I said, focus on yourself and do you girl 😘!! Things will get better, trust me❤️❤️
Carli can I just say ty. I have 2 boys 13 and 9 years old. The person you are and how you carry yourself and your out look on life. It gives me as a mother so much hope that one day my boys will be with a lady like you. I am 42 years old I have followed you and watched all your videos. Your parents have to be so proud of who you are especially your heart and the love you have for everyone. You are such an amazing eloquent lady. Again just ty for being you. Much love and so many blessings to you. 🙏🙏❤️❤️😘
I started dating someone else like a month after ending a relationship, and now we are married and having our first baby. I totally agree that you shouldnt worry about what others might think because, lets be honest, when does life ever go as planned? I wish you and your new man the best.
I 100% agree with you. I was with my ex for 6.5 years and once we broke up I started dating and very quickly found a very amazing guy and I kept thinking to myself if it was too soon to move on but in the end all that mattered was my happiness and I don't regret a single thing. This is the best relationship I've ever been in 💛 so happy to see you happy again!
LITERALLLLLLYYYY WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING YOU DID. In fact I resonated with you so much from the first video you released about your break up. I left a 6 year relationship for basically the same reasons. I didn't see myself marrying him or staying with him any longer that it wasn't fair for either of us. I started dating again not too long after and received a lot of grief for leaving such a "great relationship". I'm 28, and there's so much out there to consider and to live for. But in the end, I'm living for myself, and NOT for anyone else's satisfaction. I get it mama. Do you. Good shit for following your heart.
Thank you for being such an encouragement, Carli. Your life advice has helped me so mhvh and everything you went through is so similar to stuff I encountered this year and has helped me get through the hardest year of my life. I love you
I love you carli!! I really like your answer to the question about getting into a new relationship so soon, it’s your life and your happiness is all that matters. Keep being you! ❤️❤️❤️
I remember seeing you guys at Fashion Week and you were the cutest!! I think it's so cool that he has no idea about this world- rooting for you two! And love your outlook on all of it
Love you Carli. ❤️ feel so connected to you and just want u to know since u mentioned u felt 90% of people watching were to hear the depth of what happened with u and your ex and how u came to meet your new man. I felt u answered all that needed to be and get that if u aren’t with someone and moved on it’s because it made u feel more whole for you and that’s a beautiful thing, and a great message to hear. But of course appreciate you continuing to open up more and more to us , love ya!
You’re gorg!! Happy for you girl, you deserve to be happy! What was your boyfriends reaction when he found out you were “Instafamous” and are a RUclipsr/Influencer?? I’m sure it’s so nice to have someone who’s not into social media life :)
WOW, thank you of being so honest!!!! I've been waiting patiently since last summer to hear more in depth about how you felt about the break up. So happy for you! Thank you for sharing with us even though we know you didn't have to
Awh Carli I really love how you were so humble! just keeping it simple and being like yeah I do freelance work and I don't have an instagram. Lmao I LOVE IT. Really smart of you to do that, because honestly with everyone, but especially some one like you with such a large platform, you never know peoples intentions!
Wow, your situation that you explained with your ex is literally my situation right now. 4 years in a relationship that I dreamt of since I was a little girl. But we couldnt work it out. A month ago I left him, I put my feelings first and that was such a good decision. The fact that I found this video and could relate to it just says that it was the right thing to do.
I met my -now- husband one month after I had broken up with my ex. I thought it was too soon, but I never regretted it as the person I met gave me everything I ever wanted. There is no planning in these things! It is only a matter of if you are going to let yourself live it or not. Soon or late, that is up to you!
Happiness is important and i moved on quick and i wish someone had told me that it was ok to find happiness again with the right person. Love happens at different times. ❤
You don't know how it breaks my heart that you had to go through all these explanations.. when the real subscribers that know you since day ONE.. knew exactly that you werent happy.. i swear i even know that you were depressed sad and broken in the relation ship and i was prayin that it was nit because of him.. i was hoping that it was other issues.. and im glad to hear that you finally put your self first.. and let me tell you, im from Algeria just next to Morroco.. and this guy seems to be nice i know what im talking about. I love you carli 😘
Me too!! There isnt a cheesecake factory near me so ever since I was little I always thought they only sold cheesecakes and sweets lol(and I live in the US)😋
I stayed in a relationship for 11 years, even ended up marrying that person out of feeling afraid to disappoint family and friends and even him. I put my happiness aside for everyone else’s happiness. Also I felt responsible for his happiness. Now I’m divorced and have been in a new relationship for 3 years. With a man I met the very next day after I left my husband. Best decision ever, I’ve never been this happy or in love in my life. I hope no one spends 1 minute of their life being unhappy. Live your life, follow your happy. :)
I dated a man for a couple years, he didnt want to live together or talk marriage or kids. I broke up with him, and the very same night i met someone else. I winded up marrying that other person 1 month later ! And here we are 10 years later, still married with children. Time means nothing when it comes to love !
LA's Mukbang and Vlog Channel. Same. I met someone less than a week after a long relationship ended badly. Almost 7 years later we are still together and happier than ever. We can't control the timing of when we meet our soul mate. Ideally it would have been nice to be fully over the ex and maybe single for a while before meeting someone new and amazing, but there's nothing I can do to change the timing of it. At the end of the day I'm beyond grateful for this wonderful man that I met by chance on a night neither one of us wanted to be at the place we were at.
Its unfortunate that you feel the need to explain yourself and your relationship because you truly DON'T! Subscribers have gone way too far in my opinion of thinking they have the right to question someone else's decision about who they date, when they date, ect. We see a glimpse of your life.....that's it. Please keep focusing on your happiness. That burger looks so good too. Next time I go to the Cheesecake Factory, I need to get it.
LBoogie Luv I absolutely agree, however Carli along with most people in the social media industry, including myself don’t “need” to explain themselves especially when it comes to someone else’s life decisions, and doesn’t affect them in any way, shape, or form. But at the same time this was information she chose and wanted to share with her supporters. I’ve posted many times about my own life choices and decisions, and not because I felt like I needed to explain them to anyone, but because my story/truth could help and/or inspire someone. My takeaway from watching this one specifically was her inspiring people to choose happiness and not stay in a relationship just because it’s comfortable when you’re not happy. Just my 2 cents 😘❤️
There are no rules when it comes to relationships. If you meet someone new right away who makes you feel good, then go for it! Don't pass up a chance at happiness because some people might say it's "too soon" - Plus, I can say from personal experience, sometimes the relationship was dead long before the actual breakup. So glad to see you so happy and feeling like you're finally getting what you deserve from another person! :)
That's an excellent point, Samantha - that a lot of times the relationship is dead long before the breakup happens, so it's possible to mentally "check out" long before!
So true!!! So many times ppl get ridiculed for moving on too soon, when in actuality it is possible to meet the right person immediately after a break up. We all just have to do what's right for us, cause we know what we are ready for despite what others say
Samantha Vay Yup! If it’s right, then it’s right. I met and fell in love with my husband before I even broke up with my ex at the time (which that relationship had died before that), and after over five years with my now husband, I can definitely say the only “rules” are to follow what’s right and true, and to not force something that’s not working.
Your words came into my life at such the right time. I'm ending a relationship of 2.5 years and lived with this person, built a home. I felt exactly like you did and worse. I kept finding myself searching for him to love me and view me as an equal and it never happened. Thank you for your words, really. I've been hurting for weeks now and this video gave me some peace.
This was definitely not a coincidence meeting! I love hearing stories in today’s world where people meet in serendipitous ways rather than online! Rooting for you two!!💕💕
Some advice to you from a married woman.. Love is more than just a feeling. Its a lot of DOING. Those feelings of happiness wont always be there 24/7. Its about the goals you both want and the end result that it took for you and your life time partner. There is ALWAYS going to be disagreements. But i think its a BIG misperception for young girls to believe in a fairy tale prince charming. Those are simply fairy tales. Live your life. Learn from your experiences. It will only make you well rounded, more mature, and more ready for that man intended for you. Blessings!
it was past just the honeymoon phase, there were communication issues and he got to comfortable where they stopped dating from what she said in this video.
Gigi So true!! You can’t just “love love”. You have to choose it and work on it constantly. I’ve been with my husband for over five years, and the “doing” is how you keep the love and chemistry alive. I hope this new man does a lot more “doing” for Carli this time around.
Whatever happens in the end of that isn’t your business wether it ends or not you shouldn’t shame her for trying and you shouldn’t shame her for leaving her ex
honestly i’m so glad you spoke about why you moved on so fast. i was with my ex for 4.5 years and it wasn’t healthy and sooo toxic. when i ended it i moved on within a month. which sounds so fast but my previous relationship was over prior to it being officially over. now i’ve been with the same guy for 4.5 years since and honestly i can’t imagine being with anyone else. when it’s the right person, it’s the right person.
Although I loved you and Brett’s relationship, I think you made a great choice ending it if you didn’t see it going anywhere Carli. Thanks for being so straightforward and honest, live the vegan mukbang idea!
You can be with a person for years and feel okay or sad or whatever and then you can be with someone for a couple of months and be the happiest you’ve ever been... it’s never about the time, it’s always about the person ❤️ I love seein you so happy
@@catherine520 but don't you think he'd look her up on Instagram and not just trust her that she doesn't have an account.. do you not look people up when you're interested in them? If he tiped in her name her profile would be the first one to pop up... So it's hard to believe he didn't know..
Carli, after all these years you still continue to be my favorite RUclipsr. I believe I’ve watched EVERY single one of your videos. I started college around the same time you started your RUclips career and your content doesn’t get any boring. Wish you the best. You and Amanda, both have genuine souls. And I think this is the first time I comment on one of your videos 🙃 xoxo 💋
Am I the only one that was looking at that burger to be eaten while she was telling her story? Im sorry sister I know your boo is hot but please that burger looks better 😅😂...
I’m in a relationship so I don’t care.. lol. Just think it’s interesting.. no attractive guys have ever approached me either. Like, literally ever. 😂😂😂
Some of the comments people leave you are creepy af. Why are people so defensive about your past relationship? 😂 It's so weird. They care that he "looks similar" to your ex.....obviously you have a type. It's like watching kids pick sides when their parents are getting divorced. It's weird! 😂
TACOinFLORIDA002 where have you seen her new boyfriend:)? I couldn’t even understand the name 😂🙄🤗 do halppy for her though, haven’t read any negative comments yet 🙌🏼😊❤️🌈
Carli. I am stuck in a relationship at the moment and I've had this internal turmoil about leaving him for months. I can't tell you how much i NEEDED this video. I asked God for a sign if I should stay with him and stay content, or leave and be happy just this morning.. You really put things into perspective. Thank you so much. I'm ready to live for me.
Good Luck Malin! I was with my last bf for 5.5 years, when it really should have ended 3 years in, so I understand the turmoil - it's not easy! Usually when we have to ask others, deep down we really know ourselves what we need to do.
I was in a relationship for 10 years he was my first boyfriend, and I did picture my life with him one day but we had so many issues and I was not sure about my feelings anymore. I was not able to trust him sometimes he loved me he was ready to propose and buy me a ring 💍 but I was not in love anymore 🙁 I told him to wait, I was not ready and I don’t know why I stay 2 more years. I was miserable and scared I didn’t want to hurt him but I was wasting my time and finally ended. It was very very hard I broke his heart 💔 he beg me to stay and worked out.. but I knew that I was done I just wanted to be free it was the hardest time of my life..... but believe me it is worth, you deserve better now I am in a relationship and I never been so happy ❤️ Please don’t stay because you feel bad is your happiness that matters and it will be very hard but will get better I promise. P.s I’m sorry my English is not good I try my best 😉😊
girl if you start having doubts and looking for reasons to stay so desperatly and praying to god for signs & waiting for months to see if things get better.. it's because it's not going to work. You just don't love him anymore. Your relationship is broken. Just leave. And you might get tempted to return back to him but don't... because people and things don't change so easily... it's going to be the same shit over again.
starangel2091 she is not happy. I can see right thru her. She will get over this weird guy and will find someone from Jersey and finally get married. MARK MY WORDS! screenshot my comment and you'll see.
I hate the “too soon” idea. Why would you pass someone up just because not “enough” time has passed? lol I always thought that made no sense.. we have one life people !
I met my now Fiancé 4 years ago maybe 4-5 months after my previous 5 year relationship ended. Im from Toronto, hes from Italy and we met in England...fate is a real thing people! ❤️
I believe a couple breaking up is just the confirmation of the relationship being completely over. The relationship was over long before the breakup. There's no reason for a person to wait a significant amount of time to be happy again. Some people need a longtime to move on and others don't. What does move on is time, and with time moves life. I'm so glad you're happy! You guys are super cute together.
You are soooo right! I was married to a man for 5 yrs but with him for 11 yrs. He was very physically abusive but I stayed with him all that time due to low self-esteem. He always told me I deserved what I got. When I met my current husband I realized that in the 11 yrs with my previous relationship I only had 3 good months but never laughed. It was very tough for me to get up courage enough to walk out, (i also worried what people would think) but I did it and I was scared to death. My current hubby makes me laugh every single day and it's so amazingly wonderful! He is 16 yrs younger than me and keeps me young. We are ridiculous together and need adult supervision most of the time. He is my heart and I have never been happier! I am thrilled for you and wish you nothing but the best in life. WE ALL DESERVE IT!!!!! God Bless.
vindab06 wow I see you like Tiny Houses. It's a good way to save money when you learn to build it yourself. Well I'm glad you found someone who appreciates you!
Good for you that you found the courage to get out of that toxic relationship and I'm happy that you are really happy now! We all deserve happiness and a man that treats us right!
vindab06, I was in a similar situation for 4 years. When I met my current boyfriend of almost 7 years now I was amazed that he never got angry and yelled at me or put me down. Quite the opposite, and we deserve that from our significant others. We should always lift each other up and encourage one another. So happy that you are happy!!!! Thank you for sharing
Also after 7 years he still has never once yelled at me!! This is such an attractive quality for me because of how I grew up and what I went through with my first bf
Carli, I dated a guy who absolutely abused me & broke my heart for years. The day he broke up with me, I just happened to meet the love of my life. We've now been together 7 YEARS. He's from Africa, I'm from the USA, it was a fluke that we even met in the first place. Everyone in my life told me I was going too fast, blah blah blah. I finally shut them all up by telling them to LET ME MAKE MY OWN WINS & MY OWN MISTAKES. Here we are still together after all these years and we could not be happier. I'm so glad you're living your own life by your own rules. Love you, girl.
Thank you so much for talking about moving on from a long relationship! It really spoke to me because I was with someone for a long time and I wasn’t happy. Everyone thought we were so good together and that I was crazy for not being happy. I was so afraid what everyone would think of me if I left him and afraid of hurting him. I moved on really fast but I found everything I was missing! So much love for you Carli! 💕 You deserve to be happy and to be in love! ❤️
I met my husband the day I broke up with my ex. We're going on 20 years so don't let anyone shame or guilt you. You know when you know and that's all that matters. Love you Carli! ❤️
I have to admit, I was probably one of those haters at first because I was so used to you and your last relationship but honestly seeing you happy makes me realize things come to an end and if you’re happy now that’s all that matters!Good for you and I’m genuinely happy for you! God bless you and your journey!
It’s ridiculous going trough some of these comments. People saying he’s not the right one for her, or he looks shady and that they want to ‘warn’ her about him should just keep quiet. Like seriously, how do you know that from seeing like a few seconds of him here and there. She knows better than any of us what kind of man he is and is he wasn’t good enough she wouldn’t be with him. She looks happy and he looks like a funny and great dude. So let them live. If it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t but that does not give anyone of us any right to judge this person that she is with when we don’t know anything about their relationship. You learn as you go and relationships are hard on their own without everyone butting in and giving their opinion on every little thing.
Honesty I used to be those people like "how did he/she move on so fast?" (Not to carli but just in general) but if the relationship is already over, there's no need to let that bring you down, and there's no point of holding on
It is such a small world! I'm from Montreal. He was actually my neighbor a few years ago in my apt complex. When I saw him on your video, I freaked out. Was always nice when i would see him at my apt or out downtown montreal. Im really happy for you!
I met my boyfriend at a time when I thought: I don't want to be in a relationship or dating someone right now. But I fell so hard for him and I felt so at ease with him even though it was the first date. If you have the spark with someone do you need to wait until it's an appropriate time for the rest of the world to think it's OK? Nah!
Literally had to go make salsa so I could eat chips and salsa with you...like we are 2 girlfriends catching up 😂! ILYSM Carli you are seriously the dopest person and I'm so happy for your happiness. You deserve nothing but the best babe ❤
I watched your and Brett’s video this morning.. Interesting that both of you said “you put others before yourself”. While that is a lovely selfless thing to do...it’s often a cause of resentment and fallout. One keeps thinking they are sacrificing themselves and their desires for the other...gradually beginning to feel like they are doing much more for the relationship and not getting enough in return. This self-inflicted martyrdom is conditional...not what love is.. love is unconditional...
SOO what do we think of this whole MUKBANG thing? hehe
YES
Carli Bybel my greedy self loved it.
Love it!!❤️❤️
I LOVE it
Already know this video will lift my mood up love you carli
"no hot guys have ever approached me" - That's it, the rest of us are doomed LOL
Julia Tran 😂😂😂😂😂
A lot of guys can get intimidated by very attractive girls though and are to scared to make the first move.
Julia Tran bahahahahahahahahhahaha so true omg lol
Julia Tran 😂😂😂😂😭😭
Lmfaooooo same
this a juicy asss "how we met" I love it its so cute and interesting!
Kirah Ominiqué wow your gorgeous girl....I just subscribed to your channel 🙂 found u in the comments 🙂😁
THAT IS A GODLY AMOUNT OF GAUC. I AM ENVIOUS.
The point of a Mukbang is to eat on camera. Not with lots of jump cuts. Let it out, girl. Love you!
I just wanted to thank you for your openness. You have no idea how much you choosing your happiness has inspired me to do the same. You’re an angel! Thanks Carli.
YOU'RE SO SO POSITIVEEE. AHHH. I love youuuu ❤❤❤❤
Your new relationship gives me hope! I just got out of a almost 10 year relationship and i know what you mean when you say “you’re comfortable” or there is something missing. It’s scary to start over with someone new but if it means that’s how I’ll find true love and someone who really loves and cares about me, I am ready for this!! Love you Carli ❤️❤️
Angela Garcia how do you do it I really need some advice Angela! I got out of a 3 year relationship and I feel like I can't live without him. I can't imagine how it is after ending a 10 year relationship. It's been a month and I don't feel as shitty as I did the first 2 weeks but I miss him
Elsy Rodriguez I know what you mean. It’s hard at first. Just spending time with family and close friends has really helped me. Cry, yell, let every thing out. Don’t keep anything in. That is what makes you miserable. Cut off all contact with him. Just keep yourself busy and focus on yourself! Learn to love yourself first before you anything else. It takes a village trust me. You only live once and there is no point on feeling shitty over someone that doesn’t make you happy. The relationship ended for a reason. Just go out and have fun and enjoy your freedom! Life is too short, if it’s meant to be, eventually you’ll find your way back to each other, but don’t think about that now, like I said, focus on yourself and do you girl 😘!! Things will get better, trust me❤️❤️
Angela Garcia omg you took the time to actually reply that means a lot thank you so much 😭😭❤️
Elsy Rodriguez Np ❤️😘
Carli can I just say ty. I have 2 boys 13 and 9 years old. The person you are and how you carry yourself and your out look on life. It gives me as a mother so much hope that one day my boys will be with a lady like you. I am 42 years old I have followed you and watched all your videos. Your parents have to be so proud of who you are especially your heart and the love you have for everyone. You are such an amazing eloquent lady. Again just ty for being you. Much love and so many blessings to you. 🙏🙏❤️❤️😘
I started dating someone else like a month after ending a relationship, and now we are married and having our first baby. I totally agree that you shouldnt worry about what others might think because, lets be honest, when does life ever go as planned? I wish you and your new man the best.
I 100% agree with you. I was with my ex for 6.5 years and once we broke up I started dating and very quickly found a very amazing guy and I kept thinking to myself if it was too soon to move on but in the end all that mattered was my happiness and I don't regret a single thing. This is the best relationship I've ever been in 💛 so happy to see you happy again!
LITERALLLLLLYYYY WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING YOU DID. In fact I resonated with you so much from the first video you released about your break up. I left a 6 year relationship for basically the same reasons. I didn't see myself marrying him or staying with him any longer that it wasn't fair for either of us. I started dating again not too long after and received a lot of grief for leaving such a "great relationship". I'm 28, and there's so much out there to consider and to live for. But in the end, I'm living for myself, and NOT for anyone else's satisfaction. I get it mama. Do you. Good shit for following your heart.
I could literally binge watch your videos. I love your vibe and personality. I hope their are more videos like these in the future.
Thank you for being such an encouragement, Carli. Your life advice has helped me so mhvh and everything you went through is so similar to stuff I encountered this year and has helped me get through the hardest year of my life. I love you
Can you do a makeup tutorial on this look? your face just looks so fresh and glowy!
I love you carli!! I really like your answer to the question about getting into a new relationship so soon, it’s your life and your happiness is all that matters. Keep being you! ❤️❤️❤️
I remember seeing you guys at Fashion Week and you were the cutest!! I think it's so cool that he has no idea about this world- rooting for you two! And love your outlook on all of it
Love you Carli. ❤️ feel so connected to you and just want u to know since u mentioned u felt 90% of people watching were to hear the depth of what happened with u and your ex and how u came to meet your new man. I felt u answered all that needed to be and get that if u aren’t with someone and moved on it’s because it made u feel more whole for you and that’s a beautiful thing, and a great message to hear. But of course appreciate you continuing to open up more and more to us , love ya!
HONESTLY SIS... I'M HERE FOR THIS. KEEP LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE, AND AS A CANADIAN ... IM PROUD YOU'RE TIED TO US! love you mama
You’re gorg!! Happy for you girl, you deserve to be happy!
What was your boyfriends reaction when he found out you were “Instafamous” and are a RUclipsr/Influencer?? I’m sure it’s so nice to have someone who’s not into social media life :)
WOW, thank you of being so honest!!!! I've been waiting patiently since last summer to hear more in depth about how you felt about the break up. So happy for you! Thank you for sharing with us even though we know you didn't have to
Preaching to the choir! I have out so many snacks out and soaking up this video like a sponge
I’m glad your happy. That’s all that matters!!! ♥️♥️ you’re amazing girl
Awh Carli I really love how you were so humble! just keeping it simple and being like yeah I do freelance work and I don't have an instagram. Lmao I LOVE IT. Really smart of you to do that, because honestly with everyone, but especially some one like you with such a large platform, you never know peoples intentions!
I recently got out of my first long term relationship and honestly this video helped me so much thank youu ilyyy❤️❤️
Be happy with bader, im sure he will take care of u !! Moroccans are the best 😍 kisses from a Moroccan ❤️🇲🇦❤️
Wow, your situation that you explained with your ex is literally my situation right now. 4 years in a relationship that I dreamt of since I was a little girl. But we couldnt work it out. A month ago I left him, I put my feelings first and that was such a good decision. The fact that I found this video and could relate to it just says that it was the right thing to do.
I met my -now- husband one month after I had broken up with my ex. I thought it was too soon, but I never regretted it as the person I met gave me everything I ever wanted. There is no planning in these things! It is only a matter of if you are going to let yourself live it or not. Soon or late, that is up to you!
So happy you’re happy!!
I love chats with you!! So down to earth ❤️❤️❤️
you deserve to be treated the bestttttt! love you soo much💕💕
i love your videos and your advice even you sharing your experiences with us makes us just a little wiser ! take care beautiful !
This was not a mukbang.....just a q&a...you took like two bites on camera
No she actually took lots of bites.
You loook soo pretty even though you have gained weight. And it is so good to see that you are happy in your new relationship
Happiness is important and i moved on quick and i wish someone had told me that it was ok to find happiness again with the right person. Love happens at different times. ❤
GOOD FOR YOU, GIRL! I'm going through a similar situation and your point of view is spot on with how I felt and it just confirms my decision
I'm here for the mukbang btw - there aren't enough vegan ones out there.
Carli how do you get the keratin only on the upper half of your hair? Do you do it yourself or professionally? Thank you doll💖
You don't know how it breaks my heart that you had to go through all these explanations.. when the real subscribers that know you since day ONE.. knew exactly that you werent happy.. i swear i even know that you were depressed sad and broken in the relation ship and i was prayin that it was nit because of him.. i was hoping that it was other issues.. and im glad to hear that you finally put your self first.. and let me tell you, im from Algeria just next to Morroco.. and this guy seems to be nice i know what im talking about. I love you carli 😘
How do you find the long distance thing or is he planning moving to be with you?
Everyone has something to say lol loved this video! Love every video you post! Since 2012. Love ya Carli xx
as a non-American I was shocked that the cheesecake factory is not *a factory that sells only cheesecakes*..... learn something new every day
imnumber142 I have tried several different meals there and the food is really delicious.
imnumber142 Well they do sell a variety of cheesecakes as well but since she's vegan I guess she didn't get any
imnumber142 yeah I went to la once and when I saw that I was so surprised but the food there is so nice 😋❤️
Me too!! There isnt a cheesecake factory near me so ever since I was little I always thought they only sold cheesecakes and sweets lol(and I live in the US)😋
In Australia the Cheesecake Factory only sells cheesecakes... they’re delicious. 🤪
I stayed in a relationship for 11 years, even ended up marrying that person out of feeling afraid to disappoint family and friends and even him. I put my happiness aside for everyone else’s happiness. Also I felt responsible for his happiness. Now I’m divorced and have been in a new relationship for 3 years. With a man I met the very next day after I left my husband. Best decision ever, I’ve never been this happy or in love in my life. I hope no one spends 1 minute of their life being unhappy. Live your life, follow your happy. :)
I dated a man for a couple years, he didnt want to live together or talk marriage or kids. I broke up with him, and the very same night i met someone else. I winded up marrying that other person 1 month later ! And here we are 10 years later, still married with children. Time means nothing when it comes to love !
LA's Mukbang and Vlog Channel. Same. I met someone less than a week after a long relationship ended badly. Almost 7 years later we are still together and happier than ever. We can't control the timing of when we meet our soul mate. Ideally it would have been nice to be fully over the ex and maybe single for a while before meeting someone new and amazing, but there's nothing I can do to change the timing of it. At the end of the day I'm beyond grateful for this wonderful man that I met by chance on a night neither one of us wanted to be at the place we were at.
Marina it will come to you when you least expect it ♡
1 month?
love how you put a ton of guac on that tiny little piece of chip in the beginning lmaooo
alwayssss hahaha
Carli Bybel I do the same thing!!!
Mor gauc than chip. I approve👍😂
Its unfortunate that you feel the need to explain yourself and your relationship because you truly DON'T! Subscribers have gone way too far in my opinion of thinking they have the right to question someone else's decision about who they date, when they date, ect. We see a glimpse of your life.....that's it. Please keep focusing on your happiness. That burger looks so good too. Next time I go to the Cheesecake Factory, I need to get it.
Gurl, you SO right...I was thinking the same thing watching her explain.
Agreed!
I concur. I’m interested in their talents not their personal life.
LBoogie Luv I absolutely agree, however Carli along with most people in the social media industry, including myself don’t “need” to explain themselves especially when it comes to someone else’s life decisions, and doesn’t affect them in any way, shape, or form. But at the same time this was information she chose and wanted to share with her supporters. I’ve posted many times about my own life choices and decisions, and not because I felt like I needed to explain them to anyone, but because my story/truth could help and/or inspire someone. My takeaway from watching this one specifically was her inspiring people to choose happiness and not stay in a relationship just because it’s comfortable when you’re not happy. Just my 2 cents 😘❤️
Even though you didn't have to explain anything to us, I just want to say thank you for opening up to us.
You can’t compare an old relationship with a brand new one when you’re still in the honeymoon period
Max X wow true
Pls just let her be happy x
Exactly. She sounds too trusting and naive.
Wisdom. ✌ He knew EXACTLY who she was from the get-go.
You can't compare and judge other people's relationship when you're not the one that's in it.
There are no rules when it comes to relationships. If you meet someone new right away who makes you feel good, then go for it! Don't pass up a chance at happiness because some people might say it's "too soon" - Plus, I can say from personal experience, sometimes the relationship was dead long before the actual breakup. So glad to see you so happy and feeling like you're finally getting what you deserve from another person! :)
That's an excellent point, Samantha - that a lot of times the relationship is dead long before the breakup happens, so it's possible to mentally "check out" long before!
Samantha Vay this 👏 👏 👏
Yess
So true!!! So many times ppl get ridiculed for moving on too soon, when in actuality it is possible to meet the right person immediately after a break up. We all just have to do what's right for us, cause we know what we are ready for despite what others say
Samantha Vay Yup! If it’s right, then it’s right. I met and fell in love with my husband before I even broke up with my ex at the time (which that relationship had died before that), and after over five years with my now husband, I can definitely say the only “rules” are to follow what’s right and true, and to not force something that’s not working.
We need to find a way for Carli to do Taylor Swift's makeup!!!
Kara O'Connell let’s blow up Taylor Swift’s instagram maybe that would work lol
There's got to be a way!!
I was tagging Taylor to Carli’s instagram pictures... 🤷🏽♀️ and I inboxed her something has to work!!
I was thinking about it a few days ago 😱😱 #taylorswift MUST BE INFORMED !!
I have a Taylor Swift fan account on Instagram so I’m constantly trying to bring this genius idea up!!! Carli and Taylor Swift? LIFE GOALS
Your words came into my life at such the right time. I'm ending a relationship of 2.5 years and lived with this person, built a home. I felt exactly like you did and worse. I kept finding myself searching for him to love me and view me as an equal and it never happened. Thank you for your words, really. I've been hurting for weeks now and this video gave me some peace.
This was definitely not a coincidence meeting! I love hearing stories in today’s world where people meet in serendipitous ways rather than online! Rooting for you two!!💕💕
I love universe love stories
Some advice to you from a married woman.. Love is more than just a feeling. Its a lot of DOING. Those feelings of happiness wont always be there 24/7. Its about the goals you both want and the end result that it took for you and your life time partner. There is ALWAYS going to be disagreements. But i think its a BIG misperception for young girls to believe in a fairy tale prince charming. Those are simply fairy tales. Live your life. Learn from your experiences. It will only make you well rounded, more mature, and more ready for that man intended for you. Blessings!
it was past just the honeymoon phase, there were communication issues and he got to comfortable where they stopped dating from what she said in this video.
Words of wisdom right here👏🏼
Very very true
I couldn’t have said it any better!
Gigi So true!! You can’t just “love love”. You have to choose it and work on it constantly. I’ve been with my husband for over five years, and the “doing” is how you keep the love and chemistry alive. I hope this new man does a lot more “doing” for Carli this time around.
She thought it was cute he ditched his friend for her but the friend was probably hurt lol
eryka Wolfe Exactly, that's a douchy move :(
@@hospitalcakewalk duh
@@tiffprendergast I was agreeing, you deflated car tire.
I was just wondering what happens when this new honeymoon phase is over...
Whatever happens in the end of that isn’t your business wether it ends or not you shouldn’t shame her for trying and you shouldn’t shame her for leaving her ex
honestly i’m so glad you spoke about why you moved on so fast. i was with my ex for 4.5 years and it wasn’t healthy and sooo toxic. when i ended it i moved on within a month. which sounds so fast but my previous relationship was over prior to it being officially over. now i’ve been with the same guy for 4.5 years since and honestly i can’t imagine being with anyone else. when it’s the right person, it’s the right person.
I feel so close to you that I wish we were just best friends 😂❤
girl give me your burger since ur not eating it lmaooo jk!
Kirah Ominiqué seriously lol
😂
Kirah Ominiqué my same exact thoughts 😂😂😂😂
RIGHTTTT! 😭
I’m dead! she really named her Orchid Sophia and put her in the background for esthetics! I LOVE YOUU 😂❤️
sarina villegas aesthetics *
shesoEk I’m illiterate, I’ve learned to embrace it 😂
OMG I know! That´s so cute and funny! :D
Im not vegan, but dang does that veggie burger look good! Definitely gonna have to try that out. Beautiful as always!
Veggie burgers taste just like a real burger. I reccommend trying a black bean patty.
@@anaaabooo00 thanks girl! I'll have to try it!
Although I loved you and Brett’s relationship, I think you made a great choice ending it if you didn’t see it going anywhere Carli. Thanks for being so straightforward and honest, live the vegan mukbang idea!
Love***
Genesis Alvarez I 100% agree with this statement 🖤
Same. You could tell she wasn't really happy. I'm so happy for her now.
Carli, would love to see a collab with Nicole...something fun maybe?
YES why have we never had a Nicole and Carli collab??
So interesting hearing your side of things and his side. I'm glad your happy though girl💕
I‘m still hoping that your new man will keep treating you right, being with you for the right reasons and staying faithful.
You can be with a person for years and feel okay or sad or whatever and then you can be with someone for a couple of months and be the happiest you’ve ever been... it’s never about the time, it’s always about the person ❤️ I love seein you so happy
Lmaaoo "not good looking guys ever come up to me" story of my life!
Okay but did he really "not know anything about you"? Your too trusting 😂😂😂
moonshybat my man doesn’t do social media. He would never ever know who Carli is. Or my ex. Or my first boyfriend. She’s famous to women not to men.
@@catherine520 but don't you think he'd look her up on Instagram and not just trust her that she doesn't have an account.. do you not look people up when you're interested in them? If he tiped in her name her profile would be the first one to pop up... So it's hard to believe he didn't know..
Lol I know right *smh
Carli, after all these years you still continue to be my favorite RUclipsr. I believe I’ve watched EVERY single one of your videos. I started college around the same time you started your RUclips career and your content doesn’t get any boring. Wish you the best. You and Amanda, both have genuine souls.
And I think this is the first time I comment on one of your videos 🙃 xoxo 💋
Am I the only one that was looking at that burger to be eaten while she was telling her story? Im sorry sister I know your boo is hot but please that burger looks better 😅😂...
AIM 999 yesss
I’m in a relationship so I don’t care.. lol. Just think it’s interesting.. no attractive guys have ever approached me either. Like, literally ever. 😂😂😂
Erin Kathleen Story of my life 🤦😂
Same 😕
Um yeah me neither...
Same 😕
Yep!! Same!
Some of the comments people leave you are creepy af. Why are people so defensive about your past relationship? 😂 It's so weird. They care that he "looks similar" to your ex.....obviously you have a type. It's like watching kids pick sides when their parents are getting divorced. It's weird! 😂
TACOinFLORIDA002 where have you seen her new boyfriend:)? I couldn’t even understand the name 😂🙄🤗 do halppy for her though, haven’t read any negative comments yet 🙌🏼😊❤️🌈
@@karofoxx7476 she has full vlog videos of going to Monaco with him 😂
Oops how did I miss that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So my name is Sophia and the fact that you called your flower the same name just made me happy for some reason haha. Love you girl! 💖
love you more!!!!
Carli. I am stuck in a relationship at the moment and I've had this internal turmoil about leaving him for months. I can't tell you how much i NEEDED this video. I asked God for a sign if I should stay with him and stay content, or leave and be happy just this morning.. You really put things into perspective. Thank you so much. I'm ready to live for me.
Good Luck Malin! I was with my last bf for 5.5 years, when it really should have ended 3 years in, so I understand the turmoil - it's not easy! Usually when we have to ask others, deep down we really know ourselves what we need to do.
❤️
I was in a relationship for 10 years he was my first boyfriend, and I did picture my life with him one day but we had so many issues and I was not sure about my feelings anymore.
I was not able to trust him sometimes he loved me he was ready to propose and buy me a ring 💍 but I was not in love anymore 🙁 I told him to wait, I was not ready and I don’t know why I stay 2 more years. I was miserable and scared I didn’t want to hurt him but I was wasting my time and finally ended.
It was very very hard I broke his heart 💔 he beg me to stay and worked out.. but I knew that I was done I just wanted to be free it was the hardest time of my life..... but believe me it is worth, you deserve better now I am in a relationship and I never been so happy ❤️
Please don’t stay because you feel bad is your happiness that matters and it will be very hard but will get better I promise.
P.s I’m sorry my English is not good I try my best 😉😊
girl if you start having doubts and looking for reasons to stay so desperatly and praying to god for signs & waiting for months to see if things get better.. it's because it's not going to work. You just don't love him anymore. Your relationship is broken. Just leave. And you might get tempted to return back to him but don't... because people and things don't change so easily... it's going to be the same shit over again.
malin pritchard j
The grass is not always greener on the other side. Hopefully you are truly happy and not just convincing yourself that you are.
starangel2091 I know... after Brett’s new video I feel like she might of fucked up
starangel2091 what a horrible negative thing to say. Just be happy for people.
starangel2091 she is not happy. I can see right thru her. She will get over this weird guy and will find someone from Jersey and finally get married. MARK MY WORDS! screenshot my comment and you'll see.
What the hell do you know lol
right. and they don't even know Carli or how she feels
I hate the “too soon” idea. Why would you pass someone up just because not “enough” time has passed? lol I always thought that made no sense.. we have one life people !
Melissa Addonisio completely agree! Everyone and everyone’s relationship is different. There’s no “right amount of time” to wait after a breakup.
@@ErinKathleen no
I met my now Fiancé 4 years ago maybe 4-5 months after my previous 5 year relationship ended. Im from Toronto, hes from Italy and we met in England...fate is a real thing people! ❤️
I believe a couple breaking up is just the confirmation of the relationship being completely over. The relationship was over long before the breakup. There's no reason for a person to wait a significant amount of time to be happy again. Some people need a longtime to move on and others don't. What does move on is time, and with time moves life. I'm so glad you're happy! You guys are super cute together.
You are soooo right! I was married to a man for 5 yrs but with him for 11 yrs. He was very physically abusive but I stayed with him all that time due to low self-esteem. He always told me I deserved what I got. When I met my current husband I realized that in the 11 yrs with my previous relationship I only had 3 good months but never laughed. It was very tough for me to get up courage enough to walk out, (i also worried what people would think) but I did it and I was scared to death. My current hubby makes me laugh every single day and it's so amazingly wonderful! He is 16 yrs younger than me and keeps me young. We are ridiculous together and need adult supervision most of the time. He is my heart and I have never been happier! I am thrilled for you and wish you nothing but the best in life. WE ALL DESERVE IT!!!!! God Bless.
vindab06 wow I see you like Tiny Houses. It's a good way to save money when you learn to build it yourself. Well I'm glad you found someone who appreciates you!
Good for you that you found the courage to get out of that toxic relationship and I'm happy that you are really happy now! We all deserve happiness and a man that treats us right!
vindab06, I was in a similar situation for 4 years. When I met my current boyfriend of almost 7 years now I was amazed that he never got angry and yelled at me or put me down. Quite the opposite, and we deserve that from our significant others. We should always lift each other up and encourage one another. So happy that you are happy!!!! Thank you for sharing
Also after 7 years he still has never once yelled at me!! This is such an attractive quality for me because of how I grew up and what I went through with my first bf
vindab06 you are lucky
I'm not vegan, but carli made that ish loookkk boooommbb!!! 😍😋... Now I'm hungry!
Love ya carli!!
Anissah Flores very pretty nice picture
Carli, I dated a guy who absolutely abused me & broke my heart for years. The day he broke up with me, I just happened to meet the love of my life. We've now been together 7 YEARS. He's from Africa, I'm from the USA, it was a fluke that we even met in the first place. Everyone in my life told me I was going too fast, blah blah blah. I finally shut them all up by telling them to LET ME MAKE MY OWN WINS & MY OWN MISTAKES. Here we are still together after all these years and we could not be happier. I'm so glad you're living your own life by your own rules. Love you, girl.
immanuel withus there’s no country called Africa. Don’t be ignorant please 🙂🤗
Where in Africa is he from
immanuel withus this comment is me to a T!! Same thing happened
@@titilolakariuki-adeuja3586 what
Thanks for your relationship advice, Carli. Dumping my current boo now
Celeste Acevedo How did it go?
Celeste Acevedo omg tell us how it goes
Thank you so much for talking about moving on from a long relationship! It really spoke to me because I was with someone for a long time and I wasn’t happy. Everyone thought we were so good together and that I was crazy for not being happy. I was so afraid what everyone would think of me if I left him and afraid of hurting him. I moved on really fast but I found everything I was missing! So much love for you Carli! 💕 You deserve to be happy and to be in love! ❤️
I want that vegan burger so bad
That burger in the thumbnail looks so GOOOOD. Brb I’ma grab something to eat because that made me hungry 😋
Fabiola Suárez lol same
Bunny Cupcake 😂
heba khan Same. I’m going to eat pasta now
Ok but where is your flannel from ?😍
I met my husband the day I broke up with my ex. We're going on 20 years so don't let anyone shame or guilt you. You know when you know and that's all that matters. Love you Carli! ❤️
Shayla Ortiz that’s living sis 👌🏾💛
I have to admit, I was probably one of those haters at first because I was so used to you and your last relationship but honestly seeing you happy makes me realize things come to an end and if you’re happy now that’s all that matters!Good for you and I’m genuinely happy for you! God bless you and your journey!
I wasn’t looking for a relationship before I met my current husband at the club too lol 😂.. I get it girl!
It’s ridiculous going trough some of these comments. People saying he’s not the right one for her, or he looks shady and that they want to ‘warn’ her about him should just keep quiet. Like seriously, how do you know that from seeing like a few seconds of him here and there. She knows better than any of us what kind of man he is and is he wasn’t good enough she wouldn’t be with him. She looks happy and he looks like a funny and great dude. So let them live. If it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t but that does not give anyone of us any right to judge this person that she is with when we don’t know anything about their relationship. You learn as you go and relationships are hard on their own without everyone butting in and giving their opinion on every little thing.
I love that you text him! No time for games. Ultimate confidence. 💖
Gena Holden whatever! U must b one of those who sit by the phone. Lol
She should’ve waited for him to text her can you say desperate 🤦🏻♂️
I just got out of a 4 year relationship and I needed to hear this. Love you, Car 💕
Honesty I used to be those people like "how did he/she move on so fast?" (Not to carli but just in general) but if the relationship is already over, there's no need to let that bring you down, and there's no point of holding on
It is such a small world! I'm from Montreal. He was actually my neighbor a few years ago in my apt complex. When I saw him on your video, I freaked out. Was always nice when i would see him at my apt or out downtown montreal. Im really happy for you!
I don't know what I want more - a burger or chips and guac? This was so fun to watch Carli, except now I'm starving and it's only 3pm 😅
I met my boyfriend at a time when I thought: I don't want to be in a relationship or dating someone right now. But I fell so hard for him and I felt so at ease with him even though it was the first date. If you have the spark with someone do you need to wait until it's an appropriate time for the rest of the world to think it's OK? Nah!
I really feel different energy in this video 😆 like sincere or whatever, but different 😆💪 kiss from Serbia, Belgrade 💋
Literally had to go make salsa so I could eat chips and salsa with you...like we are 2 girlfriends catching up 😂! ILYSM Carli you are seriously the dopest person and I'm so happy for your happiness. You deserve nothing but the best babe ❤
BEAUTIFUL SOUL INSIDE AND OUT LOVE YA GIRL .KEEP DOING U IM SO PROUD OF U AND U DESERVE ALL HAPPINESS IN THIS EARTH 💜
I watched your and Brett’s video this morning.. Interesting that both of you said “you put others before yourself”. While that is a lovely selfless thing to do...it’s often a cause of resentment and fallout. One keeps thinking they are sacrificing themselves and their desires for the other...gradually beginning to feel like they are doing much more for the relationship and not getting enough in return. This self-inflicted martyrdom is conditional...not what love is.. love is unconditional...
When are the moms going to get together again, I miss u n Nicole together 👯♀️
I love that you’re doing what makes YOU happy and you’re finally putting yourself first!! 💕
I needed this .... I feel the same about my relationship now so you’ve given me the courage to pull the plug 🤨