My mother worked as a bookkeeper in the 50’s to help put my father through junior college. He also worked while going through college. He got a job as a storekeeper with the utility company after graduation. Along the way, they had 3 sons, of which I was the middle son. By the time we were all in school at 5 years old, my mother went back to work. My father worked hard and became the guy that was responsible for power to literally 2/3 of the lower peninsula of Michigan. My mother went to work for a (at the time) a major retailer, in auditing. She enjoyed a long career with this company until she retired. My parents were wonderful people and they knew the importance of the balance of family and work. I’m so blessed that they didn’t put their careers ahead of my brothers and I.
I am 78…the best decision I ever made was to raise my two children before I went into the workforce! My 2 children are 11 yrs apart. We had our son later in our marriage and I waited until my son was in school before I started working in education. We had the same hours so I was still home with him after school! I wouldn’t trade those days with my now adult children for anything! You can’t get that time back! 😊”
He's absolutely right. We have six children and homeschool them. I *am* living my dream! My husband is wonderful, and I'm grateful for his sacrifices for our family.
I agree with Charlie. If I had waited I might not have had kids, due to having 6 miscarriages. Anyway I got married at 21 & had 3 children by age 30. Was fortunate enough that my ex made enough money for me to stay home. I did work p/t from home. Unfortunately now with the way things are, both parents need to work. Sad
Not true, I don't work outside the home. I raise our kids, keep the house and homeschool them. Hubs has a decent job that enables this, but we also sacrifice many things.
Not every women can have children unfortunately. I do agree, I wish I started a family by now but I guess it was my lack of confidence and support to start it.
@@PerryVillanueva Nope, my husband provides for me and our kids. Being home with them has been wonderful and rewarding for our entire family. I did NOT need a "good job" first.
@@wandertree Your statement does not make sense. You said your husband provides for you and your kids. This means he has a good job or makes decent money. I good job I am referring to is a job that make enough money to support a wife and several children. Most middle-income couples cannot rely on one income; for most it now takes two incomes to support a family of three (mother, father, and one child) to live in a clean and safe neighborhood with a decent school system. The economy has gone south and has continued to go south.
@@PerryVillanuevano it does make sense. Since her husband had a good job, and presumably making most of the money she would only need like a part-time job. Not a full blown career. Both parents might need to work, but they both do not need a “career “ job, which is what you are referring to. We also need to consider the quality of life. If you are trying to live an excess life, then yeah, both would need a career, but a normal life, such as roof over head, food on table, clothes on back, maybe a vacation once a year, then no, 2 careers are not needed.
@@user-pf1fr2zg1e Again, we are not talking about people who make a lot of money or people who live an excess life. We are talking middle-income people. They do not make a lot of money, and most middle-income couples need two incomes to support a family of three (mother, father, and one child) to live in a clean and safe neighborhood with a decent school system. These conditions are not affordable for most. In the 1970s and 1980s, the family can afford to have the wife work a part-time job. Not today. And $100k job is not a lot of money in a low-cost area. Again, inflation is rising, and the economy has gone south and is continuing to go south. And you should never be in debt for having a family.
Most men look at working and being responsible as a road to care for their families. It’s always the CEO position they flaunt. What about the street paver man? The construction man, the plumber man unclogging shit? A stay at home mom is a sacrifice too. When we love ourselves more than our kids, it’s about 5 generations until society collapses. Kids run amok, parents unhappy and divorce. Kids is our most sacred commodity
takes two to tango. they forgot the soft whisper in the Kings ear is louder than any screeching harpy. they gave up female's powers for recognition and mistaken pride
I chose my career based on my family. It would have been better if I started that career before I started a family. First 8 years were very difficult until my career took off. Family first but you better be able to financially take care of them.
I believe, but am not sure, that in order for him to make money from other sources’ videos, you have to “make it your own “ by adding commentary, narration, or music.
I am sick and tired of these channels that steal other people's work and then interrupt the scenes to interject their inane opinions. The thumbnails are dishonest click bait. Shame on you. Thumbs down! Blocked!
@@Drowningpooralice505 How do you know I am a feminist, when I hate feminists? Apparently, you do not know what parenthood is all about. How old are you and are you a parent? if you are a parent, how long have you been a parent?
@@Drowningpooralice505 No, not really. I am a husband of 35 years and a father of my child for 32 years. I do know what I am talking about. I deal with all kinds of people, including all kinds of mothers. Plus, I do a lot of reading in this area.
Obviously. And not all childless, career focused women are miserable. However, married women with 3 or more children consistently report significantly higher rates of happiness, contentment, and fulfillment than any other segment of the adult female demograpic.
@@TheJosiahPayne Again, I never said all women with three children are unhappy. But most middle-income mothers with three children are struggling financially. Marriage and parenthood are luxuries and not necessities. Not a lot of people can afford to be married and parents - especially middle-income people.
Who cares? Most women are far happier with children. I wouldn't trade having kids and my future grandchildren for anything. I can't imagine the futility and loneliness of age as it creeps along without family and grown children. Sounds dreadful.
That's partially true..most women are intelligent and reasonable enough to vote, just not feminists who think they don't need men or think they can do anything a man does.
My mother worked as a bookkeeper in the 50’s to help put my father through junior college. He also worked while going through college. He got a job as a storekeeper with the utility company after graduation. Along the way, they had 3 sons, of which I was the middle son. By the time we were all in school at 5 years old, my mother went back to work. My father worked hard and became the guy that was responsible for power to literally 2/3 of the lower peninsula of Michigan. My mother went to work for a (at the time) a major retailer, in auditing. She enjoyed a long career with this company until she retired. My parents were wonderful people and they knew the importance of the balance of family and work. I’m so blessed that they didn’t put their careers ahead of my brothers and I.
My mother worked as a bookkeeper in the 50’s to help put my father through junior college. He also worked while going through college. He got a job as a storekeeper with the utility company after graduation. Along the way, they had 3 sons, of which I was the middle son. By the time we were all in school at 5 years old, my mother went back to work.
My father worked hard and became the guy that was responsible for power to literally 2/3 of the lower peninsula of Michigan. My mother went to work for a (at the time) a major retailer, in auditing. She enjoyed a long career with this company until she retired.
My parents were wonderful people and they knew the importance of the balance of family and work. I’m so blessed that they didn’t put their careers ahead of my brothers and I.
They're not against all men. The ones in women's cloths, sports, and spaces, have modern feminists full support.
I am 78…the best decision I ever made was to raise my two children before I went into the workforce! My 2 children are 11 yrs apart. We had our son later in our marriage and I waited until my son was in school before I started working in education. We had the same hours so I was still home with him after school! I wouldn’t trade those days with my now adult children for anything! You can’t get that time back! 😊”
Totally agree with Charlie! I'm so thankful I never was fooled by feminism and got married young and had my kids. :):)
He's absolutely right. We have six children and homeschool them. I *am* living my dream! My husband is wonderful, and I'm grateful for his sacrifices for our family.
Good clip. thanks
2:06 It’s not only they are at war with themselves, they hate themselves for secretly wanting something so anti-feminist and “wrong”.
I agree with Charlie. If I had waited I might not have had kids, due to having 6 miscarriages. Anyway I got married at 21 & had 3 children by age 30. Was fortunate enough that my ex made enough money for me to stay home. I did work p/t from home. Unfortunately now with the way things are, both parents need to work. Sad
Not true, I don't work outside the home. I raise our kids, keep the house and homeschool them. Hubs has a decent job that enables this, but we also sacrifice many things.
You are correct.
Not every women can have children unfortunately. I do agree, I wish I started a family by now but I guess it was my lack of confidence and support to start it.
I whole heartedly agree with having kids first! I wish I had my kids before my career.
You first need a good job that makes decent money, so you can afford to have kids.
@@PerryVillanueva Nope, my husband provides for me and our kids. Being home with them has been wonderful and rewarding for our entire family. I did NOT need a "good job" first.
@@wandertree
Your statement does not make sense. You said your husband provides for you and your kids. This means he has a good job or makes decent money. I good job I am referring to is a job that make enough money to support a wife and several children. Most middle-income couples cannot rely on one income; for most it now takes two incomes to support a family of three (mother, father, and one child) to live in a clean and safe neighborhood with a decent school system. The economy has gone south and has continued to go south.
@@PerryVillanuevano it does make sense. Since her husband had a good job, and presumably making most of the money she would only need like a part-time job. Not a full blown career. Both parents might need to work, but they both do not need a “career “ job, which is what you are referring to. We also need to consider the quality of life. If you are trying to live an excess life, then yeah, both would need a career, but a normal life, such as roof over head, food on table, clothes on back, maybe a vacation once a year, then no, 2 careers are not needed.
@@user-pf1fr2zg1e
Again, we are not talking about people who make a lot of money or people who live an excess life. We are talking middle-income people. They do not make a lot of money, and most middle-income couples need two incomes to support a family of three (mother, father, and one child) to live in a clean and safe neighborhood with a decent school system. These conditions are not affordable for most.
In the 1970s and 1980s, the family can afford to have the wife work a part-time job. Not today. And $100k job is not a lot of money in a low-cost area.
Again, inflation is rising, and the economy has gone south and is continuing to go south.
And you should never be in debt for having a family.
Most men look at working and being responsible as a road to care for their families. It’s always the CEO position they flaunt. What about the street paver man? The construction man, the plumber man unclogging shit? A stay at home mom is a sacrifice too. When we love ourselves more than our kids, it’s about 5 generations until society collapses. Kids run amok, parents unhappy and divorce. Kids is our most sacred commodity
The biggest problem is the women forgot they and only they are givers of life wake up time
takes two to tango.
they forgot the soft whisper in the Kings ear is louder than any screeching harpy.
they gave up female's powers for recognition and mistaken pride
I chose my career based on my family. It would have been better if I started that career before I started a family. First 8 years were very difficult until my career took off. Family first but you better be able to financially take care of them.
Good stuff Charlie 🫡
Let Charlie talk . We don't need your comments!!!
I believe, but am not sure, that in order for him to make money from other sources’ videos, you have to “make it your own “ by adding commentary, narration, or music.
What’s with the Hillary look! Says it all!
Iam a guy and don't have kids and don't want them cause i cant afford them
I am sick and tired of these channels that steal other people's work and then interrupt the scenes to interject their inane opinions. The thumbnails are dishonest click bait. Shame on you. Thumbs down! Blocked!
Not all women with three kids are happy.
Spoken like a feminist. The exception doemake the rule.
@@Drowningpooralice505
How do you know I am a feminist, when I hate feminists?
Apparently, you do not know what parenthood is all about.
How old are you and are you a parent? if you are a parent, how long have you been a parent?
@@Drowningpooralice505
No, not really. I am a husband of 35 years and a father of my child for 32 years. I do know what I am talking about. I deal with all kinds of people, including all kinds of mothers. Plus, I do a lot of reading in this area.
Obviously. And not all childless, career focused women are miserable. However, married women with 3 or more children consistently report significantly higher rates of happiness, contentment, and fulfillment than any other segment of the adult female demograpic.
@@TheJosiahPayne
Again, I never said all women with three children are unhappy. But most middle-income mothers with three children are struggling financially. Marriage and parenthood are luxuries and not necessities. Not a lot of people can afford to be married and parents - especially middle-income people.
I’m 53 and I’m so happy I didn’t have kids…
Who cares? Most women are far happier with children. I wouldn't trade having kids and my future grandchildren for anything. I can't imagine the futility and loneliness of age as it creeps along without family and grown children. Sounds dreadful.
If you think women should vote you are not a conservative.
That's partially true..most women are intelligent and reasonable enough to vote, just not feminists who think they don't need men or think they can do anything a man does.
My mother worked as a bookkeeper in the 50’s to help put my father through junior college. He also worked while going through college. He got a job as a storekeeper with the utility company after graduation. Along the way, they had 3 sons, of which I was the middle son. By the time we were all in school at 5 years old, my mother went back to work.
My father worked hard and became the guy that was responsible for power to literally 2/3 of the lower peninsula of Michigan. My mother went to work for a (at the time) a major retailer, in auditing. She enjoyed a long career with this company until she retired.
My parents were wonderful people and they knew the importance of the balance of family and work. I’m so blessed that they didn’t put their careers ahead of my brothers and I.
PS. They were married for 57 years when my father died….