James Hollis on Dreams, Fear, and the Meaning of Life

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025

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  • @throughconversations
    @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +61

    Hello brilliant people! this was perhaps my most meaningful episode recorded this year -- I hope you enjoy it! Here's the full transcript and the episode's highlights: throughconversations.kit.com/4a4df93cdd
    0:00:00 Intro and Episode Preview
    0:05:20 Unlocking the Power of Dreams
    0:12:24 Meaning of Energy Clusters and Consciousness
    0:19:39 Opening the Window to Introspection
    0:26:56 Viewing Fear as an Ally
    0:38:19 Importance of Harvesting Sense of Agency
    0:47:44 Love in the 21st Century

    • @unacceptableideas
      @unacceptableideas 27 дней назад +1

      this man changed life in a major way. great episode.

  • @HellYesLetsDoItNow
    @HellYesLetsDoItNow 2 месяца назад +25

    James Hollis is the Yoda of psychological development

    • @YouDamnSkippy324
      @YouDamnSkippy324 12 дней назад

      He shares so much wisdom that constantly challenges how we interact with our environment. I love how he constantly gives people the power to be self-serving/self-fulfilling without being a threat or a harm to others. He tells us to prioritize our growth and development but reminds us to lead with kindness and generosity when dealing with other people. I admire James Hollis and his mind, and I’m so grateful to come across his teachings.

  • @anyi2250
    @anyi2250 2 месяца назад +57

    We had 35 years together - best friends, teaching massaging learning together. Very lucky to be loved deeply ❤️ and to love deeply. At night we slept in each other's arms. I miss him a lot since he passed last year.

    • @Mush2389
      @Mush2389 2 месяца назад +6

      Wow how awesome to have been blessed with that. Truly sorry for your lost.

    • @janalane6059
      @janalane6059 2 месяца назад

      ?

    • @rhonalipshitz4333
      @rhonalipshitz4333 2 месяца назад +4

      Blessed y were to have the moment in time and to share it w us❤

    • @LaineyMccoll
      @LaineyMccoll 2 месяца назад

      Bless you ❣️🙏

    • @tenbrooks83
      @tenbrooks83 22 дня назад

      Uhh. He's still alive, but maybe you're not taking about James Hollis 🤔

  • @cheryl6384
    @cheryl6384 Месяц назад +10

    I haven’t ever come across a person as wise as James Hollis. In terms of overall consciousness and also just so connected to the soul. Also so damn smart able to reach for all types of ideas and put them together as enlightening concepts.

  • @pamelaj1226
    @pamelaj1226 2 месяца назад +31

    Fabulous conversation. Dr Hollis is so wise. I was taking notes and couldn’t write fast enough 😅. If we have any enemy in life it’s the unquestioned power of the history within us. So profound.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@pamelaj1226 wow thank you for watching and writing notes!!

  • @Happyharold666
    @Happyharold666 2 месяца назад +12

    Hollis’s books have saved my life

    • @darrylschultz9395
      @darrylschultz9395 Месяц назад +1

      What, standing on a stack of them in the library enables you to reach the top shelf where all the Jordan Peterson books are?😂🤙

  • @HellYesLetsDoItNow
    @HellYesLetsDoItNow 2 месяца назад +6

    We need to live this now more than ever as our world descends into darkness, disconnection and divisiveness.

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 2 месяца назад +12

    I didn't realize how advanced Jungian philosophy is. Lots of gems here. Thank you for sharing this interview.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@malemaline thank you for watching!!! I am glad you found it insightful

  • @gamayun1224
    @gamayun1224 Месяц назад +7

    Every single sentence is so full of wisdom, whether it's an interview or his books. Very profound man James Hollis.

  • @mariaguzman1552
    @mariaguzman1552 2 месяца назад +13

    I am 73 years old and have been married 54 years . I really enjoyed this podcast. I could relate to it on many levels. 💖

  • @ingridmolins19
    @ingridmolins19 2 месяца назад +26

    Dr. Hollis's brilliant insights make me question my whole existence. . .Alex is a very wise interviewer. Thank you for this episode 🙌🙏

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@ingridmolins19 thank you a lot for watching!! Glad you found it insightful

  • @adunzoroq33
    @adunzoroq33 2 месяца назад +24

    I have never heard James speak and not deliver. Absolutely brilliant, thank you ❤

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +2

      @@adunzoroq33 thank you for watching!!

    • @AlanMalone1723
      @AlanMalone1723 2 месяца назад +2

      Never heard him speak, fantastic episode. I'll subscribe

  • @NormYip
    @NormYip 2 месяца назад +23

    This was a very insightful conversation. I am familiar with Yung, but haven't heard of James Hollis. He is such a brilliant speaker; he touched on many topics and issues that I have to contend with now. I am in my early 60s, at the intersection of Baby Boomer and Gen X, a very fascinating time to be born into. I see life from a certain "distance" of objectivity within my own subjective experience. Thank you Alex for making this video.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +2

      @@NormYip thank you for watching!! I am glad you enjoyed and found it insightful!

  • @georgekirk2744
    @georgekirk2744 2 месяца назад +11

    This conversation has connected the dots between so many conversations I've had with myself this year. I feel determined to express my inner journey. Thank you both for this, it's appreciated.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@georgekirk2744 im very happy to hear this! Thank you for watching

  • @ArdourlyAwakening
    @ArdourlyAwakening 2 месяца назад +12

    This is a brilliant insight we also share information on these topics but Dr. Hollis takes it to a whole new level especially his way of explaining! Amazing interview!💜
    “Look at the patterns in your life”🧬

  • @deannaway8499
    @deannaway8499 16 дней назад +2

    Most valuable talk ive ever come across. Pivotal for our life journey to internalize the concepts Dr Hollis speaks of.
    Thanks so much!

  • @alexkaouris6755
    @alexkaouris6755 24 дня назад +1

    James Hollis is an enlightened man. He is bringing a ton of important and existential topics in this discussion.

  • @lupinedew
    @lupinedew 2 месяца назад +7

    The most meaningful thing I've listened to this year.
    Thank you so much!
    Thank you Dr Hollis!!

  • @AllisonCassidy-l9x
    @AllisonCassidy-l9x 23 дня назад +2

    This was such a wonderful interview, THANK YOU - excellent guest AND interviewer. Alex, you'll make and excellent therapist! your questions are perceptive and deep.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  22 дня назад

      Wow, this means a lot! thank you for watching and for your kind comment

  • @leestone665
    @leestone665 2 месяца назад +6

    Wow, so much to digest! Thank you Dr Hollis

  • @Jade-ms2ys
    @Jade-ms2ys 2 месяца назад +7

    thank you - such depth and care and intelligence - great talk and dialog. very helpful - thank you both.

  • @ralitsailieva2205
    @ralitsailieva2205 2 месяца назад +4

    Omg This is one of the most meaningful, memorable and brilliant conversations that will forever resonate with me! It reminds me to not to be complacent, always have space to grow and trust the process of my higher self to support me and teach me, giving me guidance when needed ❤Thank you Alex! You should definitely invite Dr Hollis again!

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for such a wonderful comment! I'm glad you found the conversation meaningful and insightful.

  • @jeanie4703
    @jeanie4703 2 месяца назад +7

    Fantastic conversation, I love James Hollis ❤

  • @EphemeralHumanBeing
    @EphemeralHumanBeing 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow. The interviewer is so young but has such deep wisdom in just his questioning. I feel hope for our future listening to this interview between a Silent Generation therapist and an inquisitive, humble Generation Z interviewer. Wonderfully done. 🎉

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@EphemeralHumanBeing wow thank you for such a kind comment! I am glad you enjoyed it and found it insightful

    • @malcolmrodrigues9797
      @malcolmrodrigues9797 2 месяца назад

      If gen z gets to the level of maturity of Dr Hollis 73, at say 30 which is now possible because of the internet and AI then we will move to the next level of consciousness and not be overwhelmed by AI.

  • @hailey0675
    @hailey0675 2 месяца назад +4

    Outstanding conversation, James Hollis is absolutely brilliant! Alex great job!

  • @judithlesellier4027
    @judithlesellier4027 2 месяца назад +5

    Amazing interveiw. Incredible doctor and Alex is so wise for his age. It's astounding.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      Thank you, Judith so much for your kind comments. I am glad you enjoyed this conversation--more to come!

  • @freespirit489
    @freespirit489 2 месяца назад +3

    Brilliant conversation with the expert wise n provocative Dr James Hollis! Respect 🙏

  • @dasglasperlenspiel10
    @dasglasperlenspiel10 Месяц назад +1

    What a wonderful opportunity to hear Dr. Hollis speak so well!

  • @voicevamp
    @voicevamp 2 месяца назад +6

    This video is RIGHT ON TIME ... to the millisecond‼️ Thank you
    So happy that yoyr channel showed up on my feed.
    You have a new subsctiber.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@voicevamp wow, im so happy to hear this!!! Glad you found it insightful and welcome to the journey!!

  • @clauderiver5171
    @clauderiver5171 2 месяца назад +3

    Dr. Hollis, thank you. You are an amazing professional and help us to understand more about us. Thank you

  • @markwalker5948
    @markwalker5948 2 месяца назад +2

    What a beautiful conversation. Dr. Hollis is a such a wonderful guest.

  • @ivita_
    @ivita_ 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much for this brilliant talk. So many things to think about! Thank you James Hollis!

  • @Collage8985
    @Collage8985 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank You so much Hollis. This is EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR TO UNDERSTAND THE PRESENT to hear overcome and CREATE MY FUTURE. THANK YOU SO MUCH STAY BLESSED STRONG AND HEALTHY. BLESSING UPON YOUR WHOLE LIFE.

  • @bloomfusion
    @bloomfusion 2 месяца назад +7

    So much wisdom here. So much good advice thank you!

  • @lisawanderess
    @lisawanderess 2 месяца назад +2

    Absolutely loved this! What a great interview and thank you so much for putting the key quotes in text on the screen so we could pause the video to write them down. So helpful 🙏

  • @libertadx4
    @libertadx4 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you so much for a very helpful conversation. Every question and every answer was just precious.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      wow, thank you for taking the time to watch it -- happy to hear you found it insightful!!

  • @Rainerwarzecha
    @Rainerwarzecha 2 месяца назад +6

    Wonderful conversation! That is so important!

  • @keepingup2952
    @keepingup2952 2 месяца назад +43

    This is a more important lesson than anything Jordan Peterson has ever said.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@keepingup2952 wow!

    • @NormYip
      @NormYip 2 месяца назад +11

      Interesting comment. I did listen to Jordon for awhile, but I think ego (from fame perhaps?) has gotten in the way of true intellectual reason and wisdom. I had to stop listening to his interviews. James Hollis seems to speak from knowledge, experience and introspection (which he touches upon). There were so many points that made entire sense to my life situations both past and present.

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +2

      @@NormYip i am glad our episode was so impactful-my “wow” was meant as a shock in a good way!

    • @mosheprice6246
      @mosheprice6246 2 месяца назад +12

      totally agree! Hollis is far more eloquent, less dogmatic/opinionated, and expresses more warmth even when addressing potentially confrontational issues such as engaging with one's own fear.

    • @AlanMalone1723
      @AlanMalone1723 2 месяца назад +7

      Everyone should listen to this. Jordan Peterson has gained fame, ego is leading him and he's said nothing profound since that transition took place.

  • @smurfette6499
    @smurfette6499 13 дней назад +1

    This was brilliant! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @andywall2401
    @andywall2401 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for opening the doors to and illuminating the purpose of change ❤️

  • @rickmcentee9204
    @rickmcentee9204 2 месяца назад +2

    Good stuff. Seems like the general plan is to try to live in a loving way that fits your personality and give as much as suits you.

  • @Luckylearner
    @Luckylearner 2 месяца назад +4

    Fascinating and inspiring. Reminding me that courage is needed for a meaningful life.

  • @spiralsun1
    @spiralsun1 2 месяца назад +4

    This was one of the best videos I’ve ever seen. Such wisdom ❤

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@spiralsun1 wow, thank you for sharing this!! Im glad you enjoyed it

  • @kimgeorge5444
    @kimgeorge5444 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for this interview.

  • @greenthumb8266
    @greenthumb8266 2 месяца назад +9

    Wow, how have I not heard of James Hollis ? Incredible interview, thank you.

  • @veronicaeugenia2231
    @veronicaeugenia2231 2 месяца назад +2

    Brilliant man and fantastic interview! Thank you for bringing this very important content to us!❤🎉

  • @draguigirl8388
    @draguigirl8388 2 месяца назад +5

    A great, insightful conversation. Thank you!!

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@draguigirl8388 thank you for watching!! Glad you found it insightful

  • @roseker3288
    @roseker3288 2 месяца назад +2

    Wonderful conversation❤️Thank you💖

  • @ladyletters
    @ladyletters 2 месяца назад +2

    Wonderful conversation! Thank you! 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @XQRobertz
    @XQRobertz 2 месяца назад +11

    "There's no coming to consciousness without pain" - Carl Jung

  • @deborahkeller3152
    @deborahkeller3152 2 месяца назад +1

    One of the best conversations I've heard in a long time...

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@deborahkeller3152 wow! Thank you Deborah!! Im glad you found it insightful

  • @salvas7376
    @salvas7376 2 месяца назад +2

    Loved it and it sunk in. Been in a spiritual and pharmacological transformation path. Lots of good self work. I am grateful.

  • @61gnostic
    @61gnostic 2 месяца назад +4

    Powerful conversation

  • @cocobolooooooooo
    @cocobolooooooooo 2 месяца назад +7

    84 - what a sharp mind at that age...wow.

  • @repoocrj
    @repoocrj 2 месяца назад +1

    This was super enlightening, inspiring and powerful! I feel like I had the best counseling session ever! 🙏

  • @АльфияИсмагилова-ь6ю

    Thank you so much❤

  • @Astimepass
    @Astimepass 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for this piece!

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@Astimepass thank you for watching! Glad you found it insightful

  • @kimpowellart
    @kimpowellart 2 месяца назад +1

    What a beautiful conversation. Thank you!

  • @grazielaferraz
    @grazielaferraz 2 месяца назад +1

    Great interview, thank you. 🙏

  • @Aochic
    @Aochic 2 месяца назад +1

    Great interview! P.s. what he is referring to unnamed is the "higher self". It is our very own connection to everything and everyone around us. ❤❤❤

  • @hernanazorin-um7bx
    @hernanazorin-um7bx 2 месяца назад +1

    Outstanding to say the least !

  • @Eric-tj3tg
    @Eric-tj3tg 22 дня назад

    Great talk. So conflictual these truths he speaks.

  • @miaumiurial8095
    @miaumiurial8095 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you very, very much!! So beautiful❤

  • @junarbolado4983
    @junarbolado4983 2 месяца назад +1

    Brilliant interview. Well-done!

  • @summer7125
    @summer7125 2 месяца назад +1

    What an interesting guy. Thank you for sharing your insight.

  • @eileenraman17
    @eileenraman17 2 месяца назад +1

    Wonderful decision you made, saved your life and brought you happiness you never experienced, Wow and u have a great supportive wife. Enjoy the remaining years of surprises.

  • @OakTree-rz3sv
    @OakTree-rz3sv 2 месяца назад +1

    Wonderful.

  • @bhoovikinger7429
    @bhoovikinger7429 2 месяца назад +1

    Illuminating Conversation

  • @Vineetbhatiaishere
    @Vineetbhatiaishere 2 месяца назад +1

    So much wisdom.

  • @SusanButcher-pr2ft
    @SusanButcher-pr2ft 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful! 🙏

  • @georgegeorgis8733
    @georgegeorgis8733 Месяц назад

    Thank you for the insight

  • @Sherry1092
    @Sherry1092 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @HarryTuckerIII
    @HarryTuckerIII 2 месяца назад +1

    Life changing!!

  • @andywall2401
    @andywall2401 2 месяца назад +1

    Uplifting ❤

  • @Iamalwayshappyandsafe
    @Iamalwayshappyandsafe 22 дня назад

    Ww need to collectively change the nature of reality to one that is 💯 benevolent!

  • @Iamalwayshappyandsafe
    @Iamalwayshappyandsafe 22 дня назад

    I just want to be well, forever!

  • @djordjekostic6944
    @djordjekostic6944 2 месяца назад +1

    34:24 to put in another way; what you resist persists. Jung was a genius.

  • @Zizi-m9p
    @Zizi-m9p 2 месяца назад +1

    Lovely conversation ❤❤

  • @MikecParodije
    @MikecParodije 2 месяца назад +1

    i'm speeachless, awesome informations...thank you !

  • @randiclark1
    @randiclark1 2 месяца назад +2

    A good conversation.

  • @rhonalipshitz4333
    @rhonalipshitz4333 2 месяца назад +1

    Whaw thank you f sharing the wisdom its a hard truth to face

  • @kennethart4529
    @kennethart4529 2 месяца назад +2

    This guy is good

  • @joelmasantos879
    @joelmasantos879 2 месяца назад +1

    Alex you sound so easy to listen to, like music 🎵

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@joelmasantos879 woah! I thought my accent was not ideal but this is encouraging!! Im glad you enjoyed the interview!

  • @jagirkaur6216
    @jagirkaur6216 2 месяца назад +1

    We don't know seems to opens up the heart to the mystery .

  • @pushpaparker1412
    @pushpaparker1412 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank 🎉You RESPECTED DEAR 🙏 SIR JAMES 🙏 😊HOLLI. " MAY GOD BLESS 🙌 ❤YOU BOTH 🙌 INCLUDING WHOLE WORLD 🌎 PEOPLE AMEN. "🎉

  • @prohallprofessional
    @prohallprofessional 2 месяца назад +1

    Amazing

  • @AlanMalone1723
    @AlanMalone1723 2 месяца назад +4

    Thanks for this. I got something out of it. Self reflection, introspection. More of it

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад +1

      @@AlanMalone1723 I am so happy to hear this, glad it was insightful for you!!

  • @EightBallAnswers1
    @EightBallAnswers1 13 дней назад +1

    at age 60, dreams really don’t impress me much.
    many are obvious where they originate from. mostly i recall them when ive had too much to eat/drink. mostly unresolved issues/desires that keep presenting themselves.
    more critical, imho is to come to terms/stop your anxiety and chill out. life isn’t that important, none of us are really that important

  • @lureup9973
    @lureup9973 2 месяца назад +6

    Perhaps instead of asking what the dream means, we could maybe ask what kind of meaning can I assign to this dream.
    Similarly in principal to the practice of finding the silver lining of our dark clouds, or using our pain to better ourselves.
    After all we are in a deep deep way the universe, both the light and the darkness, that which we want and that which we resist.
    So in a way every dream is just another facet of us.

  • @MrLunithy
    @MrLunithy 2 месяца назад +1

    The past is inside the present, a journey not undertaken is knowledge not gained.

  • @Martin-bn2vx
    @Martin-bn2vx 2 месяца назад +3

    It is not in me that trys to communicate with me, i am, the little me is in the big, me, the mind is in that big self and thinks that the big self is in me, the mind.... The me in the mind is a illusion, it is a picture we made about ourself but the picture is not the thing, the word is not the thing, you are nothing, no thing. Life always changing with no end, so knowing is impossible, every knowledge is incomplete, you are not messureable because life is free from messurement, free from bounderies or limits. Free yourself from all false pictures and questions about the illusion, youre mindself and you will see the illusions. There is no me AND fear, there is fear and a illusion called me trys to get rid of fear. Understand you are not different from what you experience. You are all that and nothing from it sametime. But better you see the nothingness side because there is the freedom you looking for

  • @LaineyMccoll
    @LaineyMccoll 2 месяца назад

    Fear is debilitating x

  • @jacgui1
    @jacgui1 2 месяца назад

    do not seek for others approval, find your Self.

  • @Iamalwayshappyandsafe
    @Iamalwayshappyandsafe 22 дня назад

    How can yall be this way?

  • @keithbell326
    @keithbell326 11 дней назад

    I heard someone say that your negative emotions are like a second grader that has to pee, if you don’t acknowledge it it will just keep getting louder till it makes a mess.

  • @Jerko-j5d
    @Jerko-j5d 2 месяца назад +2

    We are
    Dream..

  • @stuartcamps2205
    @stuartcamps2205 2 месяца назад +1

    Good conversation here. Thanks! Consider checking out the book... "Lightning Thunder Cows... Countering the Myths of Big Death, Big Religion, Big Conflict, and All Other Fearful Big Ideas"

    • @throughconversations
      @throughconversations  2 месяца назад

      @@stuartcamps2205 thanks for the recommendation-will check it out

  • @Lindsay-t8b
    @Lindsay-t8b 2 месяца назад +1

  • @stendalbedandbreakfast
    @stendalbedandbreakfast 2 месяца назад +1

    There is a concept in evolutionary biology called an epiphenomenon, which describes an unimportant by product of something important. E.g. our teeth are white, not because this makes them more functional, but simply because the are made from chalk. Dreams could similarly be an epiphenomenon, of the active brains attempt to save energy through the resting state we call sleep.

  • @nicolarollinson4381
    @nicolarollinson4381 2 месяца назад

    For one, our dreams are our minds' way of processing our emotions so, we are not completely overwhelmed by them.
    Our brain is a very complex piece of kit, a living processor, which uses sleep' time to defragg. Thats what I believe.
    Dreams are also a portal to the home of our soul and can be used by "God", for want of a word, to announce future events. There are too many instances of this to just write it off as mumbo jumbo.
    The mystery for me is, why are some people more intelligent than others? The quality of education we receive, from birth, plays a large part but, thats not all.
    Then theres common sense and critical' thinking. So important. Its OK to question everything. There are no difinitive or ultimate answers.