I fully agree, what can occur is our brain blocks it out to protect us, however something can, and most definitely will trigger the trauma… we never forget unfortunately
My boyfriend and. I. Both. Told. My. Son. Do. Not. Call. My boyfriend. Dad. Cause. Even. Tho. Your. Mom. And Dad are. Divorced. He. Is still. Your. Dad. And. My. Boyfriend. Asked. My. Son. To. Call. Him. By. A. Nickname. . To. Show. Respect. To. His. Biological. Dad. And. My. Son. Did
"We didnt pursue it bc we wanted the kid to forget it" "When asked a month later, the kid said it 'never happened' & kids 'forget lies' so, we got back together" the twilight zone
What frustrates me is they protected him when the police arrived. They had every excuse why they didn't tell. This happens in every culture especially the black culture. My mother didn't care that my father was abusing me. My grandmother told me it would ruin his military career. My mother gave me my ss card and my birth certificate and sent me on my way.
@@drew2fast489 No bcz what they said does especially happen in black culture/families. Where do you think “What goes on in this house stays in this house” came from? Black families are the main ones that try to protect abusers & wanna look crazy when their kids grow up & want nothing to with them or the so called family.
Exact same thing happened to me with my older sister when I was 11yrs old. Told my mom as soon as it was over, ran out of MY room & told her what’d just happened to me. After some half az argument & yelling, she looked right at me & said “We’re going to forget this night happened & move on, & no one outside of this house needs to know about this”. Then made me go back & sleep in the room I’d just been 🍇 in with her…. & even when I did come forward, she told every1 that it was a lie & I was making stuff up. Bcz I was a boy then & even as a man now(22) still no1 believes me bcz of her, my kids will never spend a second with that woman…
I don't care for their reasons or anything else! They ALL failed that child and likely other children too! I know he went to prison, but for goodness sake, NEVER GIVE ANYONE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT WHEN IT CONES TO YOUR CHILDREN!!! Thank god the Uncle of the child called Steve. Otherwise, it would have continued being swept under the rug!
@englishrose0309, they should question that other kid they said was showing his privates & being inappropriate. Ol' boy might have had a run at him, too.
Good, more sickos caught! I just get so angry with these stories bc they're so preventable, just don't be a sicko! Ugh. Thank God he's behind bars. I don't say that often, but really!
1:21 That "look" she's talking about? My mom knew something had happened when she asked, "What happened? What did he do to you?" And thankfully, I didn't have to say anything. More importantly, THANKFULLY, my mom took it seriously, and we went to the police station and then to the hospital to collect evidence. Seeing my mom fight for me the way she did has honestly been the single most defining moment in my life, and I can not imagine how it must feel to have your own mother not fight for you. This poor child. I hope all of this can aid in his healing. ❤
Mine didn't fight for me, and when I confronted her about it as an adult she acted like she didn't know what was happening in her own home. Parents will be blind to things they don't want to acknowledge
@@takato0524 Yeah. My mom was molested as a kid by her own father. And, when she confessed to her mom, her mom straight up told her that she just wanted "to destroy her parents marriage".
You know what... people can hate as much as they want. I have deep compassion for the mother's perspective. Just imagine you hear your own child accuse a loved-one of yours like that. Your father, your boyfriend, your husband, your brother... picture these people. People you love and trust deeply... it's hard.
Our society is getting sick. Getting worse all the time. It's almost like people have thrown their morals out the window. And the sad part is, this is only one case. It's probably happening everywhere.
I can't tell if it's getting worse, tho I personally think to an extent, yes. I agree it's been going on & people just didn't talk about it as much, which led all these people, (many of which were victims) to commit even worse. It's hard to hear the level of depravity, but I am relieved people are finally getting called out so children can get SOME form of justice. It needs to stop! I will admit I AM sickened by how often you hear about these stories now.
I can't tell if it's getting worse, tho I personally think to an extent, yes. I agree it's been going on & people just didn't talk about it as much, which led all these people, (many of which were victims) to commit even worse. It's hard to hear the level of depravity, but I am relieved people are finally getting called out so children can get SOME form of justice. It needs to stop! I will admit I AM sickened by how often you hear about these stories now.
I’m sorry this made me mad I was abused physically mentally sexually my whole Child hood it was tough I remember every single detail it was hell no kid forgets this and then for the nan to get back with him wtf is wrong with you
the grandma was acting all mad but she got back with him knowing what her grandkid told her happened. both the mom and the grandma made a mistake by not telling the police. gave him more time to do it to the other kids around him.they were basically his ali.
I don’t understand why the grandmother keeps laughing while telling the story. She gets back with him, then wants to confront him about it like she’s mad when he comes out 🤔🤔🤔
Always believe a child man. No question in my mind I would have believed it when my own son said something but especially if another kid from the same neighborhood , not close to my son said the same exact thing about that man.....come on BELIEVE CHILDREN FROM THE START OR UNTIL LEGALLY AND THOROUGHLY PROVEN NOT TO NE A FACT. I mean something this specific from a child is never a lie.
She's giggling at the start like that was funny and then goes into discussing how this kid revealed he was touched by her grandpa. It's astounding how spineless she is.
And if you have any doubts about your people who you aren't sure did something to your child you don't rest until you find out they're innocent. And if they're not go to the police.
Idk, people would love to have a spouse/significant other. But then you got some who are in a relationship but still wanna harm kids in a sexual way....like bro or brodette, clearly you can get anyone you want, so what touch kid??? I swear some people this world are you sick.
I just knew he was lying the fact that he was using alcohol as an excuse for his actions is just wrong he knew what he was doing and he needs to pay the price for what he’s done 🤮😡😮
The only reason why this man got upset was because he got exposed for being who is. And furthermore, it's painfully obvious that he remembers what he wants to remember.
Why is a grandson calling a "boyfriend " papa? That sounds like a formal name for an elder you are related to, not just someone your parents parent is having sex with.
Kids remember things like how you treat them and how you made them feel so if a person sexually or physically assaults them they will remember i dont understand why people dont get it
Seeing as how grandma ended back up with him a month later. Kind of sounds like she may have talked the daughter out of pressing charges the first time because she don't seem too bright no joking and then coached the little boy to change his mind thinking his grandpa wouldn't be around. Kids don't know any better. They're the adults and let him back around that little boy.
Maybe the boy's mother had an inappropriate relationship with her mother's boyfriend, because how can you be scared as an adult who's child needed you to do what's best for them?
This dude admitted to being an alcoholic, wth is the family doing allowing him to watch the child in the 1st place. These people put him in harms way and I hope they got their act together for his sake. Mom and grandma owe him a BIG apology. Shout out to uncle for getting that baby help.
Why women??? Why do y'all keep allowing these men around y'all kids? Y'all just trust anybody you can screw!!! Get some self confidence and be comfortable being by yourself!
Right like the police ALWAYS do something to the perpetrators ... SMH. Yk our justice system is fucked. But with this lie detector test it could go along way !
I love this woman and her daughter both are so beautiful and so very sad, beautiful family and one bloody man,had caused so much pain ..to the entire family ....ruined.....off to jail...he goes.....l
I feel bad for the grandma at a certain degree mainly bc she really thought her grandson might’ve misunderstood or miss heard something and went back to him then to find out her grandson just needed to be infront of the man that hurt him just to confirm his story is so sad… but the grandmother should’ve never took him back until the test was taken and he was proved innocent .
Grandma and Mom are both beautiful and clearly good people and this came out of nowhere and left them in shock but everyone should remember, they did remove him from the house and tried to do the right thing at first but yes they did drop the ball for a minute but they picked it right back up and had him convicted. They took care of things and didn't let it go on until the child is sitting on the stage crying cause nobody believed him.. they just needed to know for sure and I do get that. Don't be so hard on them cause they aren't the ones who done something wrong, HE and HE alone was the bad guy here.
Steve should be getting on the mom and grandma too for not taking action immediately sweet talking to them at the end no accountability for females hardly never smh sick of it
@1:43 Right off the rip you can tell she dont believe it and by the way shes talking its like if it fid happen its the little boys fault because hes always doing naughty stuff
Like I always say, be wary of an adult that tries to convince other adults that a child (specifically one that they have close contact with) is a liar.
A kid will disassociate from themselves from traumatic events, so they don't remember the trauma, that's probably why he didn't remember the second time they asked what papa did
I don't like this at all I am learning how not to judge but wen I see this it hurts I am a victim I told my mother she got down do u hear me y'all should had did the same thing
That mother and grandmother failed that baby by not telling the authorities immediately.
Steve did an update on this show. He went to prison. Amen🙏🏻
That’s good thanks for the update 😊
How long
Thank goodness he went to prison
@@AutumnzGaminghopefully for LIFE
Probably 7y. I wish 20+ but these courts... @@AutumnzGaming
A child’s memory is better than people assume and I’m sure he’ll never forget how all these so called adults failed him.
I fully agree, what can occur is our brain blocks it out to protect us, however something can, and most definitely will trigger the trauma… we never forget unfortunately
That security guard didn't even try to stop her punching him, I loved that lol
I'm shocked cuz he's normally a dick
They all failed this child
Very much so. The mother going back to him without doing this first is crazy.
Yes They Did Absolutely Horrible
He remembers.. or he wouldn’t have failed..come on now. Let’s be real.
They care more about this man than the little boy. 🤦🏽♀️ what type of mess is this!?
I said the same thing.
And basically said he'll get over it
Such a weird family. They all give me the creeps.
This is a mess granny a mess
Thankfully his Uncle really cares about him!!
My husband’s mother has a boyfriend. There’s no way I would let my kids call him anything other than his first name.
Do you at least tell them to say mister with it? Like Mr.Tom instead of Tom; understand not calling him grandpa but some sort of respect.
My boyfriend and. I. Both. Told. My. Son. Do. Not. Call. My boyfriend. Dad. Cause. Even. Tho. Your. Mom. And Dad are. Divorced. He. Is still. Your. Dad. And. My. Boyfriend. Asked. My. Son. To. Call. Him. By. A. Nickname. . To. Show. Respect. To. His. Biological. Dad. And. My. Son. Did
@@SharonLinville-v9wwhy. Tf are. You. Writing this. Way.
Congratulations nobody asked
"We didnt pursue it bc we wanted the kid to forget it"
"When asked a month later, the kid said it 'never happened' & kids 'forget lies' so, we got back together"
the twilight zone
Yeah it wasn't they wanted him to forget, they didn't believe him. They're cowards.
What frustrates me is they protected him when the police arrived. They had every excuse why they didn't tell. This happens in every culture especially the black culture. My mother didn't care that my father was abusing me. My grandmother told me it would ruin his military career. My mother gave me my ss card and my birth certificate and sent me on my way.
If it happens in every culture, it can't happen,"especially", in black culture. So just leave it at every culture...
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OMG YES like its so damagin to be a black child
@@drew2fast489 No bcz what they said does especially happen in black culture/families. Where do you think “What goes on in this house stays in this house” came from? Black families are the main ones that try to protect abusers & wanna look crazy when their kids grow up & want nothing to with them or the so called family.
Exact same thing happened to me with my older sister when I was 11yrs old. Told my mom as soon as it was over, ran out of MY room & told her what’d just happened to me. After some half az argument & yelling, she looked right at me & said “We’re going to forget this night happened & move on, & no one outside of this house needs to know about this”. Then made me go back & sleep in the room I’d just been 🍇 in with her…. & even when I did come forward, she told every1 that it was a lie & I was making stuff up. Bcz I was a boy then & even as a man now(22) still no1 believes me bcz of her, my kids will never spend a second with that woman…
I don't care for their reasons or anything else! They ALL failed that child and likely other children too! I know he went to prison, but for goodness sake, NEVER GIVE ANYONE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT WHEN IT CONES TO YOUR CHILDREN!!! Thank god the Uncle of the child called Steve. Otherwise, it would have continued being swept under the rug!
@englishrose0309, they should question that other kid they said was showing his privates & being inappropriate. Ol' boy might have had a run at him, too.
I like how these guys willingly go on the show and take a polygraph lol..
They are completely delusional 🙄
They think they can beat the lie detector test
Good, more sickos caught! I just get so angry with these stories bc they're so preventable, just don't be a sicko! Ugh. Thank God he's behind bars. I don't say that often, but really!
Grandma apologizing to Daughter. They both should be apologizing to the child. They both failed him.
1:21 That "look" she's talking about? My mom knew something had happened when she asked, "What happened? What did he do to you?" And thankfully, I didn't have to say anything. More importantly, THANKFULLY, my mom took it seriously, and we went to the police station and then to the hospital to collect evidence. Seeing my mom fight for me the way she did has honestly been the single most defining moment in my life, and I can not imagine how it must feel to have your own mother not fight for you. This poor child. I hope all of this can aid in his healing. ❤
Mine didn't fight for me, and when I confronted her about it as an adult she acted like she didn't know what was happening in her own home. Parents will be blind to things they don't want to acknowledge
@@takato0524 Yeah. My mom was molested as a kid by her own father. And, when she confessed to her mom, her mom straight up told her that she just wanted "to destroy her parents marriage".
Grandmother is giving off Tina Tuner vibes after breaking up with Ike and renounced her US citizenship lol
Yes I thought of Tina Turner also.
11:58 He Confessed, Then Says He Can't Believe It!😮
This grandma knew what her boyfriend did, and she was in denial because she returned to him.
No way in hell l’m letting this slide. Mother and daughter both seem slow 😢l’m sure both of them will wright and visit him.
You Can Tell he was Lieing. Smh That mother said, I have to believe My son, but never pushed on it.
You know what... people can hate as much as they want. I have deep compassion for the mother's perspective. Just imagine you hear your own child accuse a loved-one of yours like that. Your father, your boyfriend, your husband, your brother... picture these people. People you love and trust deeply... it's hard.
Man when the mom told her daughter I'm so sorry over and over that broke my heart 💔
I always get kinda upset when I see children getting abused in any way.
"kinda upset"?
@@sharcam2010Right! Like what???? Lol
If anyone ever says(if I fail), they’re as guilty as sin! They should’ve pressed charges and then had him take a lie detector test. Sad case for sure.
Prayers for the child and family
Good Job Baby Boy, For Telling ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾🥰
Our society is getting sick. Getting worse all the time. It's almost like people have thrown their morals out the window. And the sad part is, this is only one case. It's probably happening everywhere.
Babes.... it's always been this way. It's just more put in the open. 50years ago families actively hid this and didn't ho on TV.
@awyarekondoya Exactly! It's been going on forever. It happened to me in 1967, when I was 8. Back then the atitude was much more to hide it.
Atheism and lack of godly values and principles have lead to this.
Lack of self control
I can't tell if it's getting worse, tho I personally think to an extent, yes. I agree it's been going on & people just didn't talk about it as much, which led all these people, (many of which were victims) to commit even worse. It's hard to hear the level of depravity, but I am relieved people are finally getting called out so children can get SOME form of justice. It needs to stop! I will admit I AM sickened by how often you hear about these stories now.
I can't tell if it's getting worse, tho I personally think to an extent, yes. I agree it's been going on & people just didn't talk about it as much, which led all these people, (many of which were victims) to commit even worse. It's hard to hear the level of depravity, but I am relieved people are finally getting called out so children can get SOME form of justice. It needs to stop! I will admit I AM sickened by how often you hear about these stories now.
I knew as soon as I seen the pants he was wearing..
I’m sorry this made me mad I was abused physically mentally sexually my whole
Child hood it was tough I remember every single detail it was hell no kid forgets this and then for the nan to get back with him wtf is wrong with you
the grandma was acting all mad but she got back with him knowing what her grandkid told her happened. both the mom and the grandma made a mistake by not telling the police. gave him more time to do it to the other kids around him.they were basically his ali.
I don’t understand why the grandmother keeps laughing while telling the story. She gets back with him, then wants to confront him about it like she’s mad when he comes out 🤔🤔🤔
Same 😭😭 her laughing about her grandson possibly being molested pissed me off. Poor baby.
This guy is the most compliant person on Steve stage. You need to press charges and throw me off.
Always believe a child man. No question in my mind I would have believed it when my own son said something but especially if another kid from the same neighborhood , not close to my son said the same exact thing about that man.....come on BELIEVE CHILDREN FROM THE START OR UNTIL LEGALLY AND THOROUGHLY PROVEN NOT TO NE A FACT. I mean something this specific from a child is never a lie.
She's giggling at the start like that was funny and then goes into discussing how this kid revealed he was touched by her grandpa. It's astounding how spineless she is.
I'm seventy five, trust me you NEVER forget. 🇬🇧
Hope the boy is doing well & has healed
How can a baby/child get a man or woman all excited?? IDK 🤷♀️ maybe that’s why I couldn’t have kids so nothing like this ever happened to them.
That's why you have to protect them with all your might.
@ I agree
7:13 she was ready to move that camera herself
Wow😮I think a lot of people come on here thinking they can cheat the test, with a back up plans of confessing.
The fact that this man had to wobble down the steps 💀
I don't mean to judge but some people that do things like that have a certain "look" when he walked out on that stage I just knew
@@brandonlamar6535 me too
So many bots
Steve, quit giving these creeps a chance to minimize their actions by bringing up drinking. Drinking and/or drugs are no excuse for abuse!
It's part of the pre-show interview info--Steve knows the guy is an alcoholic already from notes he's given.
And if you have any doubts about your people who you aren't sure did something to your child you don't rest until you find out they're innocent. And if they're not go to the police.
Idk, people would love to have a spouse/significant other. But then you got some who are in a relationship but still wanna harm kids in a sexual way....like bro or brodette, clearly you can get anyone you want, so what touch kid??? I swear some people this world are you sick.
This is heart breaking😓
Did he walk off the stage and said damn
Thank God for that baby having an uncle who cares!! Mom and grandma failed him terribly
I just knew he was lying the fact that he was using alcohol as an excuse for his actions is just wrong he knew what he was doing and he needs to pay the price for what he’s done 🤮😡😮
I don't trust what he is saying!
Everybody looks to be on drugs
My thoughts exactly
I don't see that. Who's on what???
@@BellaIsMyBabyit’s not hard to see that they’re on something. Just watch their body language.
A straight liar Idk how they didn’t know he was lying
The only reason why this man got upset was because he got exposed for being who is. And furthermore, it's painfully obvious that he remembers what he wants to remember.
Why is a grandson calling a "boyfriend " papa? That sounds like a formal name for an elder you are related to, not just someone your parents parent is having sex with.
Anytime a child tells a family member that somebody is touching them. you need to believe that child and do something right away about it!!!!!!
You Can Not Trust These Men OR Women Around Your Children
sickening.. gma stood on business 💪💪
Not really. When he left, he shouldn't have been able to come back.
Kids remember things like how you treat them and how you made them feel so if a person sexually or physically assaults them they will remember i dont understand why people dont get it
He doth protest too much.
Seeing as how grandma ended back up with him a month later. Kind of sounds like she may have talked the daughter out of pressing charges the first time because she don't seem too bright no joking and then coached the little boy to change his mind thinking his grandpa wouldn't be around. Kids don't know any better. They're the adults and let him back around that little boy.
Maybe the boy's mother had an inappropriate relationship with her mother's boyfriend, because how can you be scared as an adult who's child needed you to do what's best for them?
This dude admitted to being an alcoholic, wth is the family doing allowing him to watch the child in the 1st place. These people put him in harms way and I hope they got their act together for his sake. Mom and grandma owe him a BIG apology. Shout out to uncle for getting that baby help.
That’s what they all say that they never did it
Yesss been waiting all day
I Hope This Poor Little Boy Will Finally Get The Justice ⚖️ That He Deserves
9:28 Lie detector test results
For the first time in a long time im speechless that poor little boy 💔
When he said it wasn’t that big of a deal I KNEW he was lying. That’s the law in me
@13:00 Not a Single Drop of a Tear from Gmaw. 😢
Because she knew in her heart he did that shit .. no baby makes that up 💯
She definitely knew it to be true. And still decide to fill her wants and needs and continue sleeping with him and letting him come back home
When the grandmother is more upset than the mother of the child that's very weird.
Why women???
Why do y'all keep allowing these men around y'all kids? Y'all just trust anybody you can screw!!! Get some self confidence and be comfortable being by yourself!
0:35...Or perhaps the police🤔
Right like the police ALWAYS do something to the perpetrators ... SMH. Yk our justice system is fucked. But with this lie detector test it could go along way !
God bless the little boy 🙏 his own mum and grandma hiding this, they failed him may God forgive them, so sad 😢
I love this woman and her daughter both are so beautiful and so very sad, beautiful family and one bloody man,had caused so much pain ..to the entire family ....ruined.....off to jail...he goes.....l
I feel bad for the grandma at a certain degree mainly bc she really thought her grandson might’ve misunderstood or miss heard something and went back to him then to find out her grandson just needed to be infront of the man that hurt him just to confirm his story is so sad… but the grandmother should’ve never took him back until the test was taken and he was proved innocent .
Nah..... All 3 seem off to me. I blame them all.
I didn’t see one tear fall on the grandmother face
I mean don't ask me how I know, but I can tell she's the kind of being that can be fooled by a toddler
Wtf you mean you didnt tell the police. Your children always come first.
Yeah that part really bothered me. You ALWAYS believe your child and report it to police.
Grandma and Mom are both beautiful and clearly good people and this came out of nowhere and left them in shock but everyone should remember, they did remove him from the house and tried to do the right thing at first but yes they did drop the ball for a minute but they picked it right back up and had him convicted. They took care of things and didn't let it go on until the child is sitting on the stage crying cause nobody believed him.. they just needed to know for sure and I do get that. Don't be so hard on them cause they aren't the ones who done something wrong, HE and HE alone was the bad guy here.
Nope they failed that boy. 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️THE UNCLE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO PUSHED THE ISSUE
Steve u are awesome
Steve should be getting on the mom and grandma too for not taking action immediately sweet talking to them at the end no accountability for females hardly never smh sick of it
Why were young children being left with an alcoholic anyway ffs
I knew he was guilty when he walked out
@1:43 Right off the rip you can tell she dont believe it and by the way shes talking its like if it fid happen its the little boys fault because hes always doing naughty stuff
Steve, it's a terrible question, but what's worse.. nearly killing yr 3rd wife n kids wit alcohol 0.28, or molesting. One = DEATH
He can’t believe he got exposed. He was hoping to beat the test. Protect your children parents!! ALWAYS believe them AND report it to police, ASAP!!
9:20
Like I always say, be wary of an adult that tries to convince other adults that a child (specifically one that they have close contact with) is a liar.
Because of the child age noone would believe him( the child)
I hate this world
A kid will disassociate from themselves from traumatic events, so they don't remember the trauma, that's probably why he didn't remember the second time they asked what papa did
I never saw one real teardrop from either one especially the mother
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I don't like this at all I am learning how not to judge but wen I see this it hurts I am a victim I told my mother she got down do u hear me y'all should had did the same thing
This is so horrifying❣️ Aloha from Hawaii 🌺🌈🌴🤙
That grandmom will be staying with her boyfriend even if he fails
It grosses me out every time they call that thing 'Papa'. 🤮
This man I cannot believe it 🤬
Very cool! Thank you for your attention to detail! 💝🐱