I have been questioning myself. One of the books I read states that in order to have what you want, you have to have a clear image and take steps towards that goal. I wish to have abundance in money and anything I seek to have but I don’t have an idea on how to reach there. Is this a situation where I need to just continue with my day and not worry about the method or should I seek a viable way to reach my dreams?
Hi Brian, I commented on your last video about self image and self worth. I have listened to your book of life about it. I still find myself caring too much about what others think of me and what I say and what they will think. I overanalyze and overthink. I cant seem to be able to displace that belief as much as my other faulty ones. Is the main concept just that I am perfect for who I am because we were all created uniquely?
There are a few things here to think about but one thing is for sure, just about everyone on the planet takes a hit on their self worth growing up because we are not taught this knowledge of life and so we are always wondering about our self, are we good enough, smart enough, are we doing it right, looking for validation and approval. And so it takes a bit of steady connecting with the truth of our self and realizing we came to express our self as we desire to, and we are not here to please anyone or live up to anyone's expectations or be validated or approved of. A big part of this is for sure the fact that we are each unique. We have unique desires, unique gifts and talents and unique ways to express them. Further the concept that we can never be wrong is also helpful and what I mean is we simply gain awareness in any situation that lets us know if we want to do a thing the same way or change it. We are always looking to please our self because everyone has that ability, we are each the creator of our reality, we came to create based on our desires, preferences. Think of each person on the planet as a light and let's say each of us is a unique color or shade, it is our part to shine our light, that's what we came for and it causes the universe to expand. Also if something does not work the way we want, that's contrast, it causes our Inner Being to setup what we want so it's all natural. It's basically the 'job' of each of us as an 'employee' of the universe to feel good, feel good about our self, about others, about life, about our past, what's coming, what's here, all of it, it's that high vibration energy that causes life to flow in such joyous ways. There is quite a bit of info in the 2 sections in The Book of Life that talk about the wholeness of who you are. Perhaps if I were to send you the PDF's and you could underline specific passages that may be helpful for you to connect with and keep remembering until it starts to feel natural. The other thing is you could go to my website highervibrationsnow.com and fill in the vibration indicator questionnaire and the self -worth monitor and send them to me and I can have a look to see what I can suggest to you to help you to restore your natural self worth. Here is also something to remember, if others don't like what you say or do, that's their vibration and they would be wise to either say something nice or nothing at all, they are only hurting themselves when they think ill of others. Something you can say to someone is "thank you for sharing your point of view" The bottom line is that you are important to this universe, massive value and you came to participate in joyous expansion and if you do not allow yourself to do that then you miss out on what you came for and if others don't like what you say or do then they miss out on their joyous expansion, but that's on them, we can't stop being what we want to be, that keeps us from living our high vibe life that we came for.
Hey I didn’t read the reply as I’m kinda on the to rn. But a thing that helped me is to realise that nobody really cares that much. And I did that by thinking from my perspective when someone else does or says something that isn’t “right” or “might make them sound stupid because it’s incorrect”. What happens after? I forget about it literally seconds later. It’s the same for everyone else. People won’t remember their whole lives that you once said something wrong. They will move on with their lives, they got other stuff on their minds. Hope this helps
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I have been questioning myself. One of the books I read states that in order to have what you want, you have to have a clear image and take steps towards that goal. I wish to have abundance in money and anything I seek to have but I don’t have an idea on how to reach there. Is this a situation where I need to just continue with my day and not worry about the method or should I seek a viable way to reach my dreams?
Hi Brian, I commented on your last video about self image and self worth. I have listened to your book of life about it. I still find myself caring too much about what others think of me and what I say and what they will think. I overanalyze and overthink. I cant seem to be able to displace that belief as much as my other faulty ones. Is the main concept just that I am perfect for who I am because we were all created uniquely?
There are a few things here to think about but one thing is for sure, just about everyone on the planet takes a hit on their self worth growing up because we are not taught this knowledge of life and so we are always wondering about our self, are we good enough, smart enough, are we doing it right, looking for validation and approval. And so it takes a bit of steady connecting with the truth of our self and realizing we came to express our self as we desire to, and we are not here to please anyone or live up to anyone's expectations or be validated or approved of. A big part of this is for sure the fact that we are each unique. We have unique desires, unique gifts and talents and unique ways to express them. Further the concept that we can never be wrong is also helpful and what I mean is we simply gain awareness in any situation that lets us know if we want to do a thing the same way or change it. We are always looking to please our self because everyone has that ability, we are each the creator of our reality, we came to create based on our desires, preferences. Think of each person on the planet as a light and let's say each of us is a unique color or shade, it is our part to shine our light, that's what we came for and it causes the universe to expand. Also if something does not work the way we want, that's contrast, it causes our Inner Being to setup what we want so it's all natural.
It's basically the 'job' of each of us as an 'employee' of the universe to feel good, feel good about our self, about others, about life, about our past, what's coming, what's here, all of it, it's that high vibration energy that causes life to flow in such joyous ways.
There is quite a bit of info in the 2 sections in The Book of Life that talk about the wholeness of who you are. Perhaps if I were to send you the PDF's and you could underline specific passages that may be helpful for you to connect with and keep remembering until it starts to feel natural. The other thing is you could go to my website highervibrationsnow.com and fill in the vibration indicator questionnaire and the self -worth monitor and send them to me and I can have a look to see what I can suggest to you to help you to restore your natural self worth.
Here is also something to remember, if others don't like what you say or do, that's their vibration and they would be wise to either say something nice or nothing at all, they are only hurting themselves when they think ill of others. Something you can say to someone is "thank you for sharing your point of view"
The bottom line is that you are important to this universe, massive value and you came to participate in joyous expansion and if you do not allow yourself to do that then you miss out on what you came for and if others don't like what you say or do then they miss out on their joyous expansion, but that's on them, we can't stop being what we want to be, that keeps us from living our high vibe life that we came for.
How can I listen to the book
@@menyou528 here is the link to purchase it and you can listen on line or download it. highervibrationsnow.com/?page_id=3031
Hey I didn’t read the reply as I’m kinda on the to rn. But a thing that helped me is to realise that nobody really cares that much. And I did that by thinking from my perspective when someone else does or says something that isn’t “right” or “might make them sound stupid because it’s incorrect”. What happens after? I forget about it literally seconds later. It’s the same for everyone else. People won’t remember their whole lives that you once said something wrong. They will move on with their lives, they got other stuff on their minds. Hope this helps