Loved this - it's real. It's so en vogue to talk about decluttering so it's interesting to hear about those who made to the other side and it didn't solve all their problems. As a person with a wardrobe I'm 99% happy with I got a few tricks that I'm using: 1. shop your closet by enjoying the pieces you have and remembering why you bought them going back to the time you were super excited about them. 2. sell things you truly have no use for: i.e. they don't fit, you have something else you prefer so similar it's redundant etc. 3. be very discerning about what you add in, be intentional (do I really want this and why) rational (does it work with what I have already or do I need to buy other things to make it work, is it easily affordable and worth the expense) and no impulse buys. 4. no more SLGs under any circumstances (you probably have enough, it's a pain to transfer all your things to the point you hardly ever do it, and they do not add to any outfit). Good luck everybody!
Thank you for watching and for your comment! I love all your points, it's so true but hard to remember sometimes lol 🩵 We live and we learn, and I can only hope to make better, more rational, decisions going forward!
My decluttering was 10 years ago, intentional, spread over 3 years, no regrets. Now I add 2-3 pieces a year to my wardrobe and it is shrinking naturally (because more items are wearing off).
Thanks for sharing, we naturally dislike contradicting ourselves, so it takes some bravery to come back on things said on YT. Perhaps you took it further than you would have liked, but you did it for a good reason and I hope it still brought you something. Because I've never really needed the space or funds, I just sell items I don't use and that has left me with no regrets. 🙂
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 totally, I took it too far and now am back peddling but it’s okay, we live and we learn and can only hope to make better decisions as we grow
I also moved several years ago and let go of a lot of things. I can relate since I'm still dealing with some bad decisions I made in that process. I can't repurchase many of the things since they were mostly vintage and one of a kind. I have struggled with being mad at myself for not thinking things through more. What I did to make amends is to purchase an amazing vintage bag from a luxury brand that I never had before. When I carry it feels so nice to imagine where it came from and the previous life it had before it found its way to me, which my old beautiful things are also experiencing.
Aww thats to nice, thank you for sharing and for watching 🩵 we live and we learn and can only hope to not make the same mistakes going forward, but I get it. We have to be kind to ourselves as it's our first time living (or so we think) so we will make a lot of mistakes along the way, doing what we think is best at the time! 🩵
Thank you for sharing, Thor. This topic is actually rather triggering for me. Sometimes I do wish to Declutter my handbags, but I’m always so concerned that I will regret it. I do tend to hold onto my bags for a very long time and only sell them Once I really feel like they are a burden to me and just taking out space in my closet. So far, no regrets when I take that approach.❤
Thank you for watching and sharing Dani 🩵 honestly that approach sounds better than what I was practicing which was “trying to get rid of these bags as fast as humanly possible.” Waiting would’ve served me better to see clearer! Hoping to make better decisions as we go on 🩵
What a great video. Really appreciate your vulnerability and honesty. Beautiful and luxurious things will come your way again and you'll have an even more special relationship with your new pieces. Looking back can be hard, but looking forward is exciting! In due time!
I really appreciate your transparency Thor. YT can put a grip on us unintentionally and we can react as you say performatively and I totally get what you mean.
I totally understand how you feel. I went through some remorse after selling (usually for a fraction of what I paid) or gifting items so now I won't let go of things. Fashion is also cyclical so things come back in style. The main thing is I am much more choosy about what I add to avoid future regret, but once I have them, I try to use the items or at least know I will in the future. For example, I almost sold my Chanel ML Classic flap in tweed because I rarely use it, but when I do pull it out once or twice a year I'm glad I never did.
Thank you for sharing and watching 🩵 Love that you've become more selective about what comes in and what goes out. I'm trying to lead a more selective life like that with more balance and trying to avoid regret! 🩵
Thor!! I was just going over everything I sold in the last year and was thinking of making a video talking about why I sold them. I feel a little sad about some of them too. "I get way more out of owning it than I did for selling it" is sooo relatable.
I sold about 75% of my collection for the same reasons you did. While I don’t regret selling most of the things I sold, I have found myself replacing a few of the items with different versions that I know I will use. I would say just make very purposeful purchases going forward or buy less expensive pieces.
Thank you for your honesty and reflection Thor. I do regret letting go of my YSL crossbody bag. I parted with it to get a CL tote which ended up not working out. I should have really reflected on what works for my lifestyle which are shoulder bags and crossbody bags. Now YSL prices have increased so I won't be getting one any time soon. I think ultimately bringing in less things and being more selective of the items I bring in going forward is the way to go.
This happened to me a while back. It's definitely a learning curve and I'm less willing to sell now. I have sold impulsively and now a few items are hard to find and reselling for wayyyy more. It's a learning experience. I take bits and pieces from decluttering and minimalism but there are certain areas im not budging on❤
Thank you for sharing 🩵 it’s true, it’s hard not to be fully into one thing and out of another but to take bits and pieces and make it work for your life!
Thank you for sharing these reflections! I will keep them in mind as I declutter my own closet. The best we can do is learn and apply it in the future. And as you said, balance is key. :)
i sold a pair of iron outdoor chairs today basically gave them away ..a steal of a deal to the person i sold them...i totally regret making that decision to go forward and sell those chairs..they had been in my basement for years..nice heavy iron chairs..i basically gave away.big time sellers remorse. ....i feel that stab in the heart your are talking about...i know what you mean..and it wasn't like i was desperately in need of money .. i am decluttering....i just tell my self those chairs were stolen...i can justify not having them if think that way....i wish it was just a bad dream......i get anxiety thinking about it
Sometimes we throw the baby out with the bath water and we live and we learn! I totally get it tho, just have to remind yourself that you can’t take it back and to open yourself up to potentially something new!
Omg! I feel this!!! We thought decluttering was a good idea, but not TRUE!!! I found myself needed so many of the things we got rid of!! And re-buying is not an option!!! Thanks for such a great video!!!😊
It’s a perpetual cycle 😵💫 I want to practice having an abundance mindset and ask myself several questions before adding anything new into my closet. Thank you for sharing! 😊
I feel the struggle. I want my bags, live in very limited space, price hikes are insane....im priced out.... losing possibility to buy the bags if selling then and regretting is very real. Very interesting hearing someone talking openly about this.
Thanks so much for sharing this video. I also made some decisions I regretted when I was under a tight timeline and felt very stressed. Those decisions weren't about bags (back before I could afford them) but about household items that I needed, but just felt pressured to downsize before a move and gave them away to GoodWill.
I can relate! I’ve sold a few bags for great reasons and don’t regret those decisions but I sold my Chanel woc impulsively in 2023 and regretted it and missed that bag so much. I bit the bullet and just repurchased it last week. I don’t feel too badly about it bc I repurchased it in a different more fun colour, and it’s new with the magnetic closure. But it def taught me to think twice before selling. Being reunited with the woc was like meeting a new friend again, haha! Can you look to the preloved market to see if you can repurchase any of the items you sold?
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 I’ve done a bit of light browsing to see what’s out there, I may repurchase the Nano Luggage in the Souris colour, as it’s more wearable and I’ve always love the colour way, so we will see what happens but the current price point is a bit much in my opinion, so preloved may be the way to go if I can get a good price and good condition!
Well said. I once sold a Chanel bag i regretted so much afterwards. Now i ask myself 2 questions before i sell. 1. What happens if i regret later and can i deal with that? 2. Is it easily replaceable at a reasonable price? Also, i suggest a cool down period. Set aside the stuff you want to sell for while (months or more) and revisit your decision.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 those are great tips, and I’ll definitely incorporate them going forward. It’s important to slow down and really think before acting, something I regretfully didn’t do 😭🩵
Hi Thor, Long time no see! I was a bit surprised to see your thumb nail. Maybe you should deep dive and do a further analysis within yourself and write a journal when & why you felt that way. For Celine bags, I used to own myself and I do get how the resell values is extremely low, unless you sell it during it is highly sought. I had a Horizontal Cavas bag (in black). I sold it because though it was light weighted and the leather was so soft and comfortable, the bag does not stand by itself and if you put it on the floor, you could basically see everything inside, no zipper closure so you might loose your valuables (keys and wallet) and I thought, a Longchamp would be much better choice. I was only able to recoup a little bit less than half for what I’ve paid, (I only used it less than 20 times). Sometimes, I have sellers’ remorse like, if I am called for this occasion, I wanted to carry my Cavas, but I also know that when I was called for that certain occasion when I actually owned the bag, I never used it because of the reasons I decided to sell. Also, you kept some of your Celine bags. Are you using those? I think your primary reason that you decided to part with your bags was because they were not serving you and you needed to be extra cautious when carrying not to damage it, and you kind of got tired of that. If you still owned them, do you think your feeling about using them had changed? I also used to own a Celine luggage as well (mine was Mini size. It is called Mini, but actually quite big, it fits A4 size document vertically and is a top handle bag. No straps.) The bag had structure and plenty of room but because it was top handle only, I needed to either handhold or carry it on the crook of my arm and I ended up having bruises. I also sold this bag, and I learned that going forward, I am going to buy a bag that has a shoulder strap because I cannot deal with top handle bags, it just drives me crazy. If you really want those bags back, I think you can hunt them down in pre-loved market, but I think you should focus more on the bags that you decided to keep and use those instead! (I think a youtuber called Jessie’s style, she constantly sells and buys bags and repurchased some of the bags she sold, but in the end always end up re-selling the repurchased bags. She always comments how much she loves her bags and most of the time ends up selling. I am sure there are some people out there who were influenced by her and bought the same bag as her because she raved so much about it. And then, one day, out of the blue she sells them to fund another bag. Lol)
Wow thank you for watching and sharing 🩵🩵🩵 so many good points you made. Honestly I don’t use the other celine bags I have, I feel like I have moved away from some of the more feminine styles and am dressing more masculine now which doesn’t lend itself to the bags. And you’re right I should just focus on what I have as I’ve already basically filled my collection back up again! It’s important to know what type of product works for you and the nano luggage was honestly too small, the zipper was finicky and the colour (while beautiful) gave me anxiety! Great call out about Jessiestyles too I’ve seen her go through the roller coaster and I have no plans to get on the ride!
Hi Thor, just discovered you randomly, how nice to have found you! Thank you for sharing your experience, your thoughts and emotions, I completely understand how you feel! I can relate to everything you said so much that I would like to share my little journey with decluttering too! I also sold so much, because I felt the pressure to declutter, I also sold my beloved Celine nano even though I was using it every day! what a mistake! I sold several bags because I felt the pressure to live my "real" life and not my "fantasy" life, where maybe... I should have actually created more opportunities to wear my special bags or pieces since they felt so special and wonderful to me! So yeah, many regrets here as well... Also because we don't get what we paid for, and at the end we spend that acquired money on less special things, it is truly just too much hassle. Like you say, being much more selective, more intentional, and putting more thought into our choices, this is truly key... not rush into silly decisions because maybe we feel pressure! Thank you for sharing, it's wonderful to connect! Take care of yourself!!
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 let’s get out nanos back 😍😭 by slowing down, evaluating and reevaluating hopefully we can make better decisions as we go! So true how we get barely any money and spend it on less special things, such a waste! Oh well, we live and we learn 🩵 here’s to better decisions!
I can relate to this topic so much. Decluttering was a type of hype. And when the hype died down; you still feel empty inside. Regardless, it’s still a valuable lesson that we need to swallow our pride and gracefully move on. I’m with you. I have lots of sellers remorse as well.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 it’s true I feel like decluttering was all the rage and now it’s like okay so declutterring didn’t solve my problems and now I feel regret that I thought it would 🤷♀️🩵
@@anthorpology yeah, but honestly tho, we all make mistakes and we will learn from it. I am an all or nothing type of person, so I either go from a striving minimalism and frugality to a bit of maximalist who bought 7 hand bags in 2 months (yes I did - it’s like a revenge spending). But i am an experimenter, I like to test the extremes because I then will learn what’s it’s like being in either side of the equation. So you might call it a calculated mistake? I just have to be aware not to make it into an obsession that is unhealthy. Bless your heart for your videos, keep it coming and I will be watchin
Yes I agree. If you loved it enough to buy it, hold on to it because it WILL trend again. Classics are forever. There are items I regret donating so I’m holding on from now on. I feel for you.
It's honest. I'm so sorry that you're missing those things. I also share buyer's remorse about several things I've sold, but we live and learn. And never say never. It's amazing what gems you can find on the premarket if you have the patience and willingness to go that route.
Thank you for watching 🩵 so true, maybe I’ll see them turn up again and re add them to my collection or maybe not 🤷♀️ either way, as you said, we live and we learn!
Appreciate your honesty! In Vancouver I find you get such a pittance when trying to resell luxury goods!! I've had decent luck on Poshmark but selling to consignment I find they offer so little it's almost offensive.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 yeah I agree, honesty I regret going the consignment route and wish I just walked away with my bags instead of accepting their measly prices! We live and we learn tho 🤷♀️
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Loved this - it's real. It's so en vogue to talk about decluttering so it's interesting to hear about those who made to the other side and it didn't solve all their problems. As a person with a wardrobe I'm 99% happy with I got a few tricks that I'm using: 1. shop your closet by enjoying the pieces you have and remembering why you bought them going back to the time you were super excited about them. 2. sell things you truly have no use for: i.e. they don't fit, you have something else you prefer so similar it's redundant etc. 3. be very discerning about what you add in, be intentional (do I really want this and why) rational (does it work with what I have already or do I need to buy other things to make it work, is it easily affordable and worth the expense) and no impulse buys. 4. no more SLGs under any circumstances (you probably have enough, it's a pain to transfer all your things to the point you hardly ever do it, and they do not add to any outfit). Good luck everybody!
Thank you for watching and for your comment! I love all your points, it's so true but hard to remember sometimes lol 🩵 We live and we learn, and I can only hope to make better, more rational, decisions going forward!
My decluttering was 10 years ago, intentional, spread over 3 years, no regrets. Now I add 2-3 pieces a year to my wardrobe and it is shrinking naturally (because more items are wearing off).
Wow love that 🩵 thank you for watching and sharing!
Thanks for sharing, we naturally dislike contradicting ourselves, so it takes some bravery to come back on things said on YT. Perhaps you took it further than you would have liked, but you did it for a good reason and I hope it still brought you something. Because I've never really needed the space or funds, I just sell items I don't use and that has left me with no regrets. 🙂
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 totally, I took it too far and now am back peddling but it’s okay, we live and we learn and can only hope to make better decisions as we grow
I also moved several years ago and let go of a lot of things. I can relate since I'm still dealing with some bad decisions I made in that process. I can't repurchase many of the things since they were mostly vintage and one of a kind. I have struggled with being mad at myself for not thinking things through more. What I did to make amends is to purchase an amazing vintage bag from a luxury brand that I never had before. When I carry it feels so nice to imagine where it came from and the previous life it had before it found its way to me, which my old beautiful things are also experiencing.
Aww thats to nice, thank you for sharing and for watching 🩵 we live and we learn and can only hope to not make the same mistakes going forward, but I get it. We have to be kind to ourselves as it's our first time living (or so we think) so we will make a lot of mistakes along the way, doing what we think is best at the time! 🩵
@@anthorpology You're welcome!
Thank you for sharing, Thor. This topic is actually rather triggering for me. Sometimes I do wish to Declutter my handbags, but I’m always so concerned that I will regret it. I do tend to hold onto my bags for a very long time and only sell them Once I really feel like they are a burden to me and just taking out space in my closet. So far, no regrets when I take that approach.❤
Thank you for watching and sharing Dani 🩵 honestly that approach sounds better than what I was practicing which was “trying to get rid of these bags as fast as humanly possible.” Waiting would’ve served me better to see clearer! Hoping to make better decisions as we go on 🩵
Thank you for sharing. The lesson of slowing down can definitely be applied to so many things in life.
Truly! Something I’m trying to take with me through 2024 and beyond! Thank you for watching 🩵
What a great video. Really appreciate your vulnerability and honesty. Beautiful and luxurious things will come your way again and you'll have an even more special relationship with your new pieces. Looking back can be hard, but looking forward is exciting! In due time!
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 its true, the good thing about luxury shopping is that there’s always something else!
I really appreciate your transparency Thor. YT can put a grip on us unintentionally and we can react as you say performatively and I totally get what you mean.
Thank you 🩵 it’s hard to maintain that balance but we will get there eventually ahahah
I totally understand how you feel. I went through some remorse after selling (usually for a fraction of what I paid) or gifting items so now I won't let go of things. Fashion is also cyclical so things come back in style. The main thing is I am much more choosy about what I add to avoid future regret, but once I have them, I try to use the items or at least know I will in the future. For example, I almost sold my Chanel ML Classic flap in tweed because I rarely use it, but when I do pull it out once or twice a year I'm glad I never did.
Thank you for sharing and watching 🩵 Love that you've become more selective about what comes in and what goes out. I'm trying to lead a more selective life like that with more balance and trying to avoid regret! 🩵
Thor!! I was just going over everything I sold in the last year and was thinking of making a video talking about why I sold them. I feel a little sad about some of them too. "I get way more out of owning it than I did for selling it" is sooo relatable.
Omg do it! Your collection is stunning so I’m curious to know how it’s changed! 🩵
I sold about 75% of my collection for the same reasons you did. While I don’t regret selling most of the things I sold, I have found myself replacing a few of the items with different versions that I know I will use. I would say just make very purposeful purchases going forward or buy less expensive pieces.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 yes great advice, I’m much more thoughtful now as I know the pain of the roller coaster ahaha
Thank you for your honesty and reflection Thor. I do regret letting go of my YSL crossbody bag. I parted with it to get a CL tote which ended up not working out. I should have really reflected on what works for my lifestyle which are shoulder bags and crossbody bags. Now YSL prices have increased so I won't be getting one any time soon. I think ultimately bringing in less things and being more selective of the items I bring in going forward is the way to go.
Thank you for watching 🩵 that’s great advice on what to do, it’s hard to really think how things will settle in the moment but we live and we learn
This happened to me a while back. It's definitely a learning curve and I'm less willing to sell now. I have sold impulsively and now a few items are hard to find and reselling for wayyyy more. It's a learning experience. I take bits and pieces from decluttering and minimalism but there are certain areas im not budging on❤
Thank you for sharing 🩵 it’s true, it’s hard not to be fully into one thing and out of another but to take bits and pieces and make it work for your life!
Thank you for sharing these reflections! I will keep them in mind as I declutter my own closet. The best we can do is learn and apply it in the future. And as you said, balance is key. :)
Thanks for watching 🩵 It's true, we live and we learn, and can only hope to make better decisions going forward!
No you sold the Yellow Celine 😭😭 thank you for your honesty ! A great video !
I know 😭 I wish I didn’t 💛
i sold a pair of iron outdoor chairs today basically gave them away ..a steal of a deal to the person i sold them...i totally regret making that decision to go forward and sell those chairs..they had been in my basement for years..nice heavy iron chairs..i basically gave away.big time sellers remorse. ....i feel that stab in the heart your are talking about...i know what you mean..and it wasn't like i was desperately in need of money .. i am decluttering....i just tell my self those chairs were stolen...i can justify not having them if think that way....i wish it was just a bad dream......i get anxiety thinking about it
Sometimes we throw the baby out with the bath water and we live and we learn! I totally get it tho, just have to remind yourself that you can’t take it back and to open yourself up to potentially something new!
Omg! I feel this!!! We thought decluttering was a good idea, but not TRUE!!! I found myself needed so many of the things we got rid of!! And re-buying is not an option!!! Thanks for such a great video!!!😊
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 we live and we learn! Hopefully making better decisions as we go!
Never say never!!!! Maybe those bags will show up again in your future and you’ll love them even more then the first time around!!!!
It’s true! I guess we will see what’s in my crystal ball 🔮 hahaha thank you for watching 🩵
It’s a perpetual cycle 😵💫 I want to practice having an abundance mindset and ask myself several questions before adding anything new into my closet. Thank you for sharing! 😊
It really is a perpetual cycle! That’s a good way to approach and go about it! Thank you for watching 🩵
When the time is right you will find something else that you love 🛍️
True true 🩵 the good thing about fashion is that there’s allllllways something 😂 thank you for watching!
I feel the struggle. I want my bags, live in very limited space, price hikes are insane....im priced out.... losing possibility to buy the bags if selling then and regretting is very real. Very interesting hearing someone talking openly about this.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 it’s true, it’s a cycle that isn’t really mentioned online but hoping to break the convo
Thanks so much for sharing this video. I also made some decisions I regretted when I was under a tight timeline and felt very stressed. Those decisions weren't about bags (back before I could afford them) but about household items that I needed, but just felt pressured to downsize before a move and gave them away to GoodWill.
Thanks for watching and sharing Eva 🩵 we live and we learn but most important to slow down and evaluate and reevaluate before selling or buying!
I can relate! I’ve sold a few bags for great reasons and don’t regret those decisions but I sold my Chanel woc impulsively in 2023 and regretted it and missed that bag so much. I bit the bullet and just repurchased it last week. I don’t feel too badly about it bc I repurchased it in a different more fun colour, and it’s new with the magnetic closure. But it def taught me to think twice before selling. Being reunited with the woc was like meeting a new friend again, haha! Can you look to the preloved market to see if you can repurchase any of the items you sold?
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 I’ve done a bit of light browsing to see what’s out there, I may repurchase the Nano Luggage in the Souris colour, as it’s more wearable and I’ve always love the colour way, so we will see what happens but the current price point is a bit much in my opinion, so preloved may be the way to go if I can get a good price and good condition!
Well said. I once sold a Chanel bag i regretted so much afterwards. Now i ask myself 2 questions before i sell. 1. What happens if i regret later and can i deal with that? 2. Is it easily replaceable at a reasonable price? Also, i suggest a cool down period. Set aside the stuff you want to sell for while (months or more) and revisit your decision.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 those are great tips, and I’ll definitely incorporate them going forward. It’s important to slow down and really think before acting, something I regretfully didn’t do 😭🩵
Hi Thor,
Long time no see!
I was a bit surprised to see your thumb nail. Maybe you should deep dive and do a further analysis within yourself and write a journal when & why you felt that way.
For Celine bags, I used to own myself and I do get how the resell values is extremely low, unless you sell it during it is highly sought.
I had a Horizontal Cavas bag (in black). I sold it because though it was light weighted and the leather was so soft and comfortable, the bag does not stand by itself and if you put it on the floor, you could basically see everything inside, no zipper closure so you might loose your valuables (keys and wallet) and I thought, a Longchamp would be much better choice.
I was only able to recoup a little bit less than half for what I’ve paid, (I only used it less than 20 times).
Sometimes, I have sellers’ remorse like, if I am called for this occasion, I wanted to carry my Cavas, but I also know that when I was called for that certain occasion when I actually owned the bag, I never used it because of the reasons I decided to sell.
Also, you kept some of your Celine bags. Are you using those?
I think your primary reason that you decided to part with your bags was because they were not serving you and you needed to be extra cautious when carrying not to damage it, and you kind of got tired of that.
If you still owned them, do you think your feeling about using them had changed?
I also used to own a Celine luggage as well (mine was Mini size. It is called Mini, but actually quite big, it fits A4 size document vertically and is a top handle bag. No straps.) The bag had structure and plenty of room but because it was top handle only, I needed to either handhold or carry it on the crook of my arm and I ended up having bruises. I also sold this bag, and I learned that going forward, I am going to buy a bag that has a shoulder strap because I cannot deal with top handle bags, it just drives me crazy.
If you really want those bags back, I think you can hunt them down in pre-loved market, but I think you should focus more on the bags that you decided to keep and use those instead!
(I think a youtuber called Jessie’s style, she constantly sells and buys bags and repurchased some of the bags she sold, but in the end always end up re-selling the repurchased bags. She always comments how much she loves her bags and most of the time ends up selling. I am sure there are some people out there who were influenced by her and bought the same bag as her because she raved so much about it. And then, one day, out of the blue she sells them to fund another bag. Lol)
Wow thank you for watching and sharing 🩵🩵🩵 so many good points you made. Honestly I don’t use the other celine bags I have, I feel like I have moved away from some of the more feminine styles and am dressing more masculine now which doesn’t lend itself to the bags. And you’re right I should just focus on what I have as I’ve already basically filled my collection back up again! It’s important to know what type of product works for you and the nano luggage was honestly too small, the zipper was finicky and the colour (while beautiful) gave me anxiety! Great call out about Jessiestyles too I’ve seen her go through the roller coaster and I have no plans to get on the ride!
Hi Thor, just discovered you randomly, how nice to have found you! Thank you for sharing your experience, your thoughts and emotions, I completely understand how you feel! I can relate to everything you said so much that I would like to share my little journey with decluttering too!
I also sold so much, because I felt the pressure to declutter, I also sold my beloved Celine nano even though I was using it every day! what a mistake! I sold several bags because I felt the pressure to live my "real" life and not my "fantasy" life, where maybe... I should have actually created more opportunities to wear my special bags or pieces since they felt so special and wonderful to me! So yeah, many regrets here as well...
Also because we don't get what we paid for, and at the end we spend that acquired money on less special things, it is truly just too much hassle.
Like you say, being much more selective, more intentional, and putting more thought into our choices, this is truly key... not rush into silly decisions because maybe we feel pressure!
Thank you for sharing, it's wonderful to connect! Take care of yourself!!
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 let’s get out nanos back 😍😭 by slowing down, evaluating and reevaluating hopefully we can make better decisions as we go! So true how we get barely any money and spend it on less special things, such a waste! Oh well, we live and we learn 🩵 here’s to better decisions!
@@anthorpology Yes let's get them back 🥰 Indeed, here's to better decisions! 🍾
I can relate to this topic so much. Decluttering was a type of hype. And when the hype died down; you still feel empty inside. Regardless, it’s still a valuable lesson that we need to swallow our pride and gracefully move on. I’m with you. I have lots of sellers remorse as well.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 it’s true I feel like decluttering was all the rage and now it’s like okay so declutterring didn’t solve my problems and now I feel regret that I thought it would 🤷♀️🩵
@@anthorpology yeah, but honestly tho, we all make mistakes and we will learn from it. I am an all or nothing type of person, so I either go from a striving minimalism and frugality to a bit of maximalist who bought 7 hand bags in 2 months (yes I did - it’s like a revenge spending). But i am an experimenter, I like to test the extremes because I then will learn what’s it’s like being in either side of the equation. So you might call it a calculated mistake? I just have to be aware not to make it into an obsession that is unhealthy. Bless your heart for your videos, keep it coming and I will be watchin
Yes I agree. If you loved it enough to buy it, hold on to it because it WILL trend again. Classics are forever. There are items I regret donating so I’m holding on from now on. I feel for you.
Seriously! It all comes back around! Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵
Vivienne Westwood RIP, quote: buy less, choose well, make it last…….that’s my motto now…….❤…..but….I’m a art collector and it’s hard…😊
Ahahaha great words to live by! 🩵
It's honest. I'm so sorry that you're missing those things. I also share buyer's remorse about several things I've sold, but we live and learn. And never say never. It's amazing what gems you can find on the premarket if you have the patience and willingness to go that route.
Thank you for watching 🩵 so true, maybe I’ll see them turn up again and re add them to my collection or maybe not 🤷♀️ either way, as you said, we live and we learn!
That Celine Luggage 💔 I totally agree with you.
Truly still hurts to think about it ❤️🩹
Appreciate your honesty! In Vancouver I find you get such a pittance when trying to resell luxury goods!! I've had decent luck on Poshmark but selling to consignment I find they offer so little it's almost offensive.
Thank you for watching and sharing 🩵 yeah I agree, honesty I regret going the consignment route and wish I just walked away with my bags instead of accepting their measly prices! We live and we learn tho 🤷♀️
Thank you. I think I would have a lot of regrets.
I totally feel you!
That yellow nano luggage just being able to look at it 😭😭😭
Omg I know, it hurts to think about ❤️🩹
I loved this! May I ask where your bracelet is from?
Thank you! It's actually from my mum from decades ago, she received it from my Father when they were in Italy. So unfortunately, I can't help other than that 🩵
That’s awesome! Thanks for the reply!
for me I would have them bag or SLG and not used them then get rid of them i get so sad i know it so mad but so sad to lose anything
Honestly, a bad cycle. But we live and we learn! Thank you for watching 🩵
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